IS YOUR PARTNER INTIMIDATED BY YOUR SUCCESS?

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  • čas přidán 2. 07. 2024
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    When we got married we were encouraged that the only thing that we should be competing about is out- loving each other.
    What then happens in a relationship when one person flourishes more than the other? How does that affect your level of self confidence? Have you ever been intimidated by your partners success or vice versa?
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    #relationship-matters #themakhs
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  • @answersfrommylips197
    @answersfrommylips197 Před rokem +114

    I have always wondered why this amazing channel has not reached 100k but then I realised that we are in an “instant noodles” generation where we want to just watch for laughs, play the video at 1.75X and move on. This channel though, every instalment is a sermon on its own, you have to have your writing materials. You guys are amazing and please keep dishing out the “word” to us. 🤗🤗🥰🥰

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +12

      These are such affirming words. Thank you so much for taking the time♥️♥️😄🤗 . We appreciate your kindness🤗

    • @zamabhelentangana
      @zamabhelentangana Před rokem +3

      Very true!

    • @answersfrommylips197
      @answersfrommylips197 Před rokem +3

      @@TheMakhs You are most welcome. Thank you also for giving freely from the abundance of your knowledge 🤗❤️

    • @oloratomogatle2562
      @oloratomogatle2562 Před rokem +3

      you said it... amen... am learning a lot from this channel, from this beautiful, so informative, and refreshing, so authentic, God please strengthen their union, bless their families.

    • @blessingnyathi1532
      @blessingnyathi1532 Před rokem +2

      that is soo true. i love this channel so much. its my nimber 1 youtube channel

  • @TraciLebo
    @TraciLebo Před rokem +14

    I still say ' and I'm Phetola Makhetha ' with Pheto 😂,All the time.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +2

      😂😂😂♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @NdukuWambua
    @NdukuWambua Před rokem +6

    Yuh! My current issue….
    I agree with Lerato, it should be a motivator….and also an encouragement that you chose well. No one wants a lazy partner, its also not attractive. 😊

  • @dineomakibelo8048
    @dineomakibelo8048 Před rokem +7

    I like the fact that you are quite grounded and not taken up by trends. As modern a couple as you are, you always speak from the position of being wise. Thank you for the rich nuggets that you always share with us, we are wiser for it 🤗

  • @Ntuthu28_M
    @Ntuthu28_M Před rokem +9

    Please always remember that it's not about the "numbers"your numbers are piling up in heaven because Wow you are impacting alot of lives and this is the best podcast ever❤️watseba modimo ga phaphe.. Continue doing what you doing.

  • @iamruth9868
    @iamruth9868 Před rokem +2

    Been dealing with this for 7 years, 2 children and lots of emotional torture 😢. Thank you for sharing this especially for those yet to get married.

  • @moe_ramz
    @moe_ramz Před rokem +1

    I’m also one of those women who are socialised, to want men who provide. I’ve tried not dating men who are on my level money-wise. I felt resentful because I carried the bulk of the load. I then decided to be alone. It’s been nearly 5 years. I’m at peace because I don’t want to carry anyone. I’m a single mum. I already have loads that I’m carrying. Next thing, I must add someone who adds nothing but sex. It’s draining. It’s exhausting. I’d rather be alone. I loved this episode ❤

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Před rokem +2

    “You would do anything for a woman who can do anything for herself”

  • @happymuller841
    @happymuller841 Před rokem +2

    The Makhs! The Makhs! The Makhs!🗣🤌👌y'all were CREATED FOR SUCH A TIME AS THIS!!!
    Thanks for this ministry❤❤❤Lord bless you!

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Před rokem +5

    God spoke to me through this Podcast😭

  • @veronicachirombe7617
    @veronicachirombe7617 Před rokem +9

    Always love the way you guys have these tough conversations so easily. Such an example. ❣

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Před rokem +2

    Totally agreed , brother...100 and 100- this is such a hard topic- i now feel the other side : the side of the man--- And i feel the real side of a marriage and a relationship....your wife is really a role-model that God has put on our pathssssss---- the path of ALLL of us watching and thinking about this topic now---- we do not think about your marriage or you 2 BUT ABOUT THIS TOPIC......this hurts.........or if it is not wounded ----- it is a celebration......No, your wife is always very polite....

  • @sunak4896
    @sunak4896 Před rokem +1

    This is a very important topic...as most couples shy away from discussing such sensitive matters....

  • @royalqueen8679
    @royalqueen8679 Před rokem

    Looking good is a form of good manners- love this

  • @PerfectlyBey
    @PerfectlyBey Před rokem +1

    What an important conversation! Thank you for sharing. 💚

  • @kgomotsoboikanyo8126
    @kgomotsoboikanyo8126 Před rokem +1

    C'mon now Mr Makhs being the best version of yourself yohhh! Y'all challenge me🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @nompumelelophungwayo8646

    It's always such a joy to listen to you guys unpacking these dope subjects. Love it Love it. Thanks for being real.

  • @tintswalomathonsi
    @tintswalomathonsi Před rokem

    Wow wow!! This was so great, yol are anointed for this.

  • @katlegolekalakala152
    @katlegolekalakala152 Před rokem

    This is soo amazing , i have truly been sleeping on you guys. Loved this

  • @Solwazi918
    @Solwazi918 Před rokem +1

    What a beautiful episode, and the way you speak to each other with so much love and respect 😍🤗

  • @mzekenamanjearistokasi6832

    The Makh-A-docius. Thank you for a profound episode.

  • @sibobuhlungu4404
    @sibobuhlungu4404 Před rokem +1

    I love you guys, keep doing what you are doing you are truly impacting and changing lives without maybe you knowing. Never doubt the impact that you are making, in due season God will raise you above what you can think or imagine. Stay blessed 🙏

  • @ntombenkosiphekula4838
    @ntombenkosiphekula4838 Před rokem +7

    This loadshedding is really hitting us hard. Please allow us to download so that we can watch later

    • @modileshikoane8174
      @modileshikoane8174 Před rokem +3

      I totally concur, I mostly listen to podcasts when it's loadshedding...

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +2

      We really hope that you got to listen. Loadshedding 🫠🫠🫠

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @nhlanhlam121
    @nhlanhlam121 Před rokem +1

    Great conversation 🙌🏾

  • @othusitsepereko5896
    @othusitsepereko5896 Před rokem

    Hello the Makhs Juniors!! You are veeeerryy good you know!You always give the best. God will increase your efforts in CZcams. Dont stress about the numbers. God works in His own time.

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Před rokem

    The Makhs have really become one of my favorite people. I love how transparent they are, the wisdom, knowledge being shared is truly life changing.
    May Almighty God please elevate them🙏🏾🤍🤍

  • @mphosehlatsana7311
    @mphosehlatsana7311 Před rokem +2

    You guys are amazing 😍 I love you ,all the way from Lesotho 🇱🇸

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Před rokem

    We loved it - when she is sophisticated : because, it is television.....you do not have to be hasty.....take your time and be precised and nuanced and be clearrrr which she is.......invest in your careeerr --- He needs to take his time to rest more........

  • @carolinemacharia5679
    @carolinemacharia5679 Před rokem +2

    I love the podcast in a legit way.Lots of love @the mahks from 🇰🇪

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Před rokem

    I personally really have a problem with people especially some woman that have expectations from men but some of those expectations are things they know themselves they will never ever be able to do it for themselves. And there is nothing wrong with having expectations but our generations is so materialistic and have such unrealistic expectations.

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo

    Also I'm here for the "If you know you know, just marry that girl" 😂😂😂 a whole installment should come from this😂😂😂😂

  • @temalangenimachethe6944
    @temalangenimachethe6944 Před rokem +1

    Intro ya 'here's a thought' 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @ayandahazel5955
    @ayandahazel5955 Před rokem +5

    What a wonderful conversation!!! Loved it ❤️

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️ thank you so much

  • @Themafueffect
    @Themafueffect Před rokem

    This is powerful
    Thank you

  • @rumbidzaimukarakate9130

    Looking good is a form of good manners...I got that!

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Před rokem

    Let’s self actualize

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 Před rokem +4

    I don't mind earning more as long as he earns enough to take care of business.

  • @kiki_mofokeng
    @kiki_mofokeng Před rokem +2

    I wish we could like this video more than once, because wow! This was good

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      Yaaay! CZcams must do the right thing with their settings😆. We need to like more than once 🤗♥️

  • @potuseshibe
    @potuseshibe Před rokem +9

    Enjoyed this entire conversation, it was so good. Watched till the end. I think next time we gonna need an instalment ya “when you know you know”😅✨

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +2

      Thank you so much! One time, two real!!♥️♥️♥️

    • @MissNomps
      @MissNomps Před rokem

      8

  • @MissQomfortable
    @MissQomfortable Před rokem

    Nice one fam🥰

  • @pashukeni_
    @pashukeni_ Před rokem

    Be the best version of yourself so it challenges your partner🤍

  • @ziziphomagula8183
    @ziziphomagula8183 Před rokem +2

    So much wisdom thank you

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      Thank you Zizipho. We see you.🤗We appreciate your support♥️

  • @lungingubane379
    @lungingubane379 Před rokem +2

    Pheto, you are gorgeous 🥰, my goodnesss, I can't stop admiring.

  • @thulanibeingthulz
    @thulanibeingthulz Před rokem +1

    I've never watched an episode and not learn something new🥺❤

  • @buyisilemohale2881
    @buyisilemohale2881 Před rokem

    Insightful conversation

  • @akhomngeniso1254
    @akhomngeniso1254 Před rokem +1

    Sana?!
    That octafx ad???!!🔥💕

  • @sarahmenieso6614
    @sarahmenieso6614 Před rokem +5

    One of the best conversations I've heard this entire year... More of this could come in handy in these times...Thank You!!

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +2

      Oh wow! This is such a great compliment. Thank you Sarah♥️♥️♥️

    • @sarahmenieso6614
      @sarahmenieso6614 Před rokem

      @@TheMakhs My pleasure❤❤❤ Your videos have healed me from many childhood traumas. Don't stop doing them because you are making more impacts thank you know.

    • @keepcreationprocess
      @keepcreationprocess Před rokem

      Yes, the topic is ssooo real : but we do not know about it.....the same as one person inheritates a big sum of money : - so to me, it is not his money or it is not her money.......because it was a gift.....it depends if he or she wants to share it or not.....or invest that money....

  • @MotherMogashoa_Mmathapelo

    One thing about The Makhs? they will fetch me unprovoked!! 😂😂.. It's crazy cos even God has been speaking to me about the need to fetch my own life, lol God is bored with my life too.. But watching this truly ministered to the depth of my spirit. Listen man, Thank you expect a testimony from me regarding this installment in about 2 months 👏🙏❤️

  • @lesedisekhu3192
    @lesedisekhu3192 Před rokem

    I love love love this team💥💓

  • @asandanene4095
    @asandanene4095 Před rokem +1

    🔥So this only means if you do not back yourself who will....Once you believe & back yourself it only makes it easier for the next to do the same

  • @semakanesebola7870
    @semakanesebola7870 Před rokem

    Pheto oe beile hantle, a re: a re shinisaneng maan. Loved it. Thank you.

  • @diaryofkamali
    @diaryofkamali Před rokem +2

    I like this already ❤

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      Thank you!♥️♥️♥️

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Před rokem

    It is good that he succeeds and she failed : which is ok ---- I am just proud of you : that you even tried : it actually does not matter if you are the man or the woman in the relationship .....Another couple she succeeds after a few times failing : He failed in one time big --- and he was depressed : she failed she stood up -- but both of them need the money : so actually it is like the relationship is the company and two of them are workers --- so, it does not matter --- i do not think they care ; they were worrying about survival.....WHAT A good topic : i never think about this , because i am not in this situation -- it is sooo useful to know this...

  • @Lerato_Morailane
    @Lerato_Morailane Před rokem

    Love it here…

  • @hannahawadzi
    @hannahawadzi Před rokem +4

    I wish all men talk like Lerahto

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @zamabhelentangana
    @zamabhelentangana Před rokem +2

    Wow guys , this topic 👏

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @tshebeletsoselela5237
    @tshebeletsoselela5237 Před rokem +2

    My faves!❤️🥺

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +1

      ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @baloyicharmaine8447
    @baloyicharmaine8447 Před rokem

    🥰😍😍wisdom and wisdom🙌🙌🙌 ALWAYS

  • @tshegoragabane2557
    @tshegoragabane2557 Před rokem

    Wa bona monna wago Phetola.. ga itshoge.. when he said we know what works for us..

  • @zimmim6738
    @zimmim6738 Před rokem

    Hears a 💭 ❤️

  • @ngundapenouuakakujaha
    @ngundapenouuakakujaha Před rokem +2

    Why can’t I download this?😭😭😭😭

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Před rokem

    Hey Fam😊

  • @siyamtolo6733
    @siyamtolo6733 Před rokem +2

    ♥️♥️♥️

  • @koketsomalekana9545
    @koketsomalekana9545 Před rokem +1

    Brother Lerato I agree with but thingie is nowadays women are impowerd and earn more money than man so when you say they are doing us a favor when contributing I don't know about that cos they are making money alot money.
    Imagine if she's not contributing at all and I don't make enough more kamo she got stands she wants.
    And I'm not sure I'm acculating myself well

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 Před rokem

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @fezilenkabinde9087
    @fezilenkabinde9087 Před rokem +1

    Heheheee Mme Makhs uya trader manje? 🙌🏿

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +4

      Fezile why are you this person😄. I’m learning how to. Excited about the prospects. Multiple streams of income are so important🙌🏾🌸♥️

  • @diaryofkamali
    @diaryofkamali Před rokem +6

    Yes, man are more intimidated by their lady’s success. And well established women struggle to find healthy love as a result

  • @user-ky9jo1qf9w
    @user-ky9jo1qf9w Před 2 měsíci

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @missbokani775
    @missbokani775 Před rokem

    Hie guys when are we gonna see the sign language guy

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Před rokem +2

      Hi Bokani. He is missed right?! Hopefully next year again🫶🏽

  • @keepcreationprocess
    @keepcreationprocess Před rokem

    I do not agree with him......He is less wise then her....I am older then them.....I know a little bit more.......what he wants has consequences - but he does not understands.......It also depends on how long people have been married before this topic arises. The woman career driven could become tricky...

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Před rokem +2

    Phetola❤Lerato ❤❤❤ Wisdom wisdom wisdom galore 🎉 Just look at God😩🥺✨🫶🏾🫶🏾

    • @claudinemofokeng4025
      @claudinemofokeng4025 Před rokem

      Guys!!! Wisdom Wisdom. Pls invite me to yo marriage seminar. I'm so blessed to know u♥️♥️♥️