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    We often look to our partners to build us up but seldom interrogate our ability to elevate them.
    Today we discuss the part we play in investing in our relationships.
    Love,
    The Makhs
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  • @atty_mareka
    @atty_mareka Pƙed 2 lety +49

    “Lord teach me how to love my husband like you love him” am pocketing this one. So profound Mrs Makhâ€ŠđŸ”„

  • @MpumiKMbonane
    @MpumiKMbonane Pƙed 2 lety +24

    Incredible conversation đŸ‘ŒđŸœ
    I often say, that: Love, in its very nature, is elevating.
    Think about the work of the cross, how when we were dead in our sins, Christ (out of love) took our place, to restore us back to the image of God.
    Love can’t help but elevate! And maybe that should be the litmus test on how to know that you truly love someone - if your proclivity is to get them to the best version of themselves.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Aaah this is so beautiful. Love in its very nature is elevating! Quotable quote! Thank you for this Mpumi. We love and appreciate you so much ♄♄♄

    • @MpumiKMbonane
      @MpumiKMbonane Pƙed 2 lety

      @@TheMakhs love and appreciate you guys too. So much đŸ€—â™„ïž

  • @paballomabusela808
    @paballomabusela808 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    I Like that they included the Sign Language . Here is to getting educated by the Makhs.

  • @nollulamo260
    @nollulamo260 Pƙed 2 lety +6

    "You know I used to beat that block
    Now I be's the block (partner let me upgrade you)
    I hear you be the block, but I'm the lights that keep the streets on" ... I had to highlight this line in the song Mrs Makhs mentioned.

  • @brigettebond6088
    @brigettebond6088 Pƙed 2 lety +13

    Brilliant conversation. I won't lie since I started watching the Makhs installment I am somewhat more gentle, caring with my husband and since I changed my husband actually treats me like a queen 👑. He elevates me at all times and it something I'm still not use to but I'm sure I will grow into it. Love you guys. Keep up the good work Mr & Mrs Makhs

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety

      đŸ„șđŸ„șđŸ„șđŸ„șđŸ„ș this is what’s it’s about. Literally got goosebumps from your comment. Thank you so much Bridgette for journeying with us. We appreciate you so much♄

  • @PraiseSpaceOfficial
    @PraiseSpaceOfficial Pƙed 2 lety +10

    12 September 2022 we are reaching 150k subs
. Keep it going Makhs

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Lerato is soo sweet♄

  • @wandilekwanda541
    @wandilekwanda541 Pƙed 2 lety +11

    The gang is in the house...

  • @bitzgracia8834
    @bitzgracia8834 Pƙed 2 lety +9

    "Out of the abundance of the heart ,the mouth speaks" amazing..

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      💯💯💯💯

  • @neliswajokweni5872
    @neliswajokweni5872 Pƙed 2 lety +12

    First of all the Makhs also elevate us! When you spoke about the English thing I was like lol you guys have elevated my eloquence as well. But going deeper Phetola’s gracefulness , the way your love on each other and how your lives are centred around Christ ? Hayi you guys have upgraded my life.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      AaaaawwđŸ„șđŸ„șđŸ„ș
 thank you so much Neliswa for elevating us♄♄♄♄

  • @daphneatlholang7026
    @daphneatlholang7026 Pƙed 2 lety +30

    I love this couple with all my heart ur podcasts r really helping me a lot

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety

      We love you too Daphne♄♄♄. Thank you for walking this journey with usđŸ€—đŸ€—

    • @Lee98
      @Lee98 Pƙed 2 lety

      Me n you both

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    And writing each other love letters Fam it also adds up 😁

  • @MrsTay
    @MrsTay Pƙed 2 lety +8

    The Makhs are in the building with another interesting conversationđŸ€—
    âœđŸœâœđŸœâœđŸœâœđŸœ

  • @staceymaimba2589
    @staceymaimba2589 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Before l watch the rest, l just wanna say l would love to see you two on @Defining Love!!! #RoadTo150K

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    In marriage you're going to experience alot of offence so we need to get over our offence and fix our perspective. -Mr Makhs🌾

  • @moreenkajuju1791
    @moreenkajuju1791 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I began to follow you mid last year and i have since had very different perspectives about marriage with the Godly insights in your conversations. I love how you put emphasis on communication and i am finding myself seeing a different vision about marriage.

  • @Mbalings
    @Mbalings Pƙed 2 lety +11

    Thank you so much for the consistency and the amazing, teaching and learning content.
    And the way you thank your audience for engaging doesn’t sound rehearsed or anything like that. Y’all so genuine. Everytime you express that gratitude I wish you guys knew how truly grateful we all are as well to be a part of the Dream Team.
    God bless you guys abundantly! ♄

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Thank you so much sis! We look forward to giving you content each and every time, every video is like our first oneđŸ˜„â™„ïž. Thank you for the love, for the support and for choosing us♄. We Love you!

  • @zethusalukazana430
    @zethusalukazana430 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    So so so refreshing to experience a young black couple that advocates for what real marriage should be about. You're truly inspirational ❀. God Bless You

  • @tanakamutero8173
    @tanakamutero8173 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    THIS IS SO DEEP. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING A DROP FROM YOUR OCEAN OF WISDOM.

  • @boitshepomolwane7036
    @boitshepomolwane7036 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Yoh, this one was levelsđŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„đŸ”„ thanks dreamteam ❀

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I’m going to listen to this again.

  • @nollulamo260
    @nollulamo260 Pƙed 2 lety +7

    5 minutes into it and I would looooooooove to have a sit down or a day spent with the 2 of you. I'm addicted, literally obessed. I truly, truly love your content.

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +2

      Aaaaah let’s make it happen in 2022!! Hoping to meet a lot of people from the Dream Team this year. ♄♄♄. We love and appreciate you so much đŸ€—

  • @Noluteequeencess
    @Noluteequeencess Pƙed 2 lety +3

    When Lerato jokingly says "hai wena!?"đŸ€­ I laughed so hard when I watched "A SAFE BET" and there was a scene where you said it. I knew that was probably off scriptđŸ˜‚đŸ€ŁđŸ˜„

  • @mutsawashechipuriro4225
    @mutsawashechipuriro4225 Pƙed rokem

    When you pitch an idea, expect a yes, no or maybe. That was insightful!!

  • @lindelwamawu-mbudwana7625
    @lindelwamawu-mbudwana7625 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    How do you then elevate someone that belittle them selves and are just stuck in the mud đŸ€”

  • @gracehlatshwayo2789
    @gracehlatshwayo2789 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    Guys!!! Thank you again ❀❀I'm stepping into introducing this channel to my husband hey👌

  • @gomolemotreasure5229
    @gomolemotreasure5229 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    😊😉The Makhs madumane a rona. Elevating u guys💓💓. U r painting a good image of marriage.

  • @rizapo
    @rizapo Pƙed 2 lety +1

    By the title, I can tell this will be life changing for me... *clicks play*

  • @keleabetswemathabe9016
    @keleabetswemathabe9016 Pƙed 2 lety +18

    This was such a great conversation hey. Even for us unmarried people, alot if not everything you both said coild be applied in our relationships so we can have even better marriages.
    Thank you for that. Thoroughly enjoyed❀

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety

      Thank you so much. We are all still learning. It never stops♄

  • @siphesihlefuneka
    @siphesihlefuneka Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I'm so grateful to have found this CZcams channel, I love you guys ♄

  • @georginahkhesa7822
    @georginahkhesa7822 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I think I know the video you are talking about Mr Makhs, from the guy with "the school of life"...i actually avoided it for a very long time because the title scared me, but one day I gathered the conviction and it talks about how as people we are imperfect and how we are always looking for perfection in our relationships and our partners and when they don't deliver perfection then we go on to think "well it's this person, maybe they aren't right for me"

  • @seipatimakhele7435
    @seipatimakhele7435 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    hahahahhahahahaha I love when Photo speaks her native language..... "Lerato o rata sghowa" đŸ˜đŸ€©đŸ˜đŸ€©

  • @pamellagumbo4194
    @pamellagumbo4194 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    1st to comment đŸ’ƒđŸŸđŸ’ƒđŸŸđŸ’ƒđŸŸđŸ’ƒđŸŸđŸ’ƒđŸŸ it’s going to be an amazing podcast am certain

  • @mirjamndove14
    @mirjamndove14 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Wow! The Makhs are on another level guys. What a great conversation.

  • @tsegomolema7659
    @tsegomolema7659 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    Super conversation! Really liked this...

  • @charmainemoyo1072
    @charmainemoyo1072 Pƙed 2 lety

    Im half way through and i have had to pause and reflect on almost all that you have said. Very deep lessons here! Thank you for challenging and teaching usâ€ïžđŸ™đŸ‘

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu Pƙed 2 lety +6

    The English part😂 so relatable, I call my boyfriend red penđŸ„Ž

    • @nondumiso8397
      @nondumiso8397 Pƙed 2 lety +1

      This is funny 😅😂

    • @wethujonga8681
      @wethujonga8681 Pƙed 2 lety +2

      đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł Red pen

    • @bronwyn_bkd
      @bronwyn_bkd Pƙed 2 lety +1

      😅😂 đŸ˜…đŸ˜…đŸ˜…đŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

    • @sinothandosirunu
      @sinothandosirunu Pƙed 2 lety

      Msfriyay's Channel aww thank youđŸ„ș❀

  • @sanelemjoli4877
    @sanelemjoli4877 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    I can listen to you guys talk all day. You are full of God's wisdom. May God continue to use you hey. We are learning.
    The Great I AM loves you

  • @jabulilemhlongo5073
    @jabulilemhlongo5073 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Your content guys always on point very informative keep it up Makhs family

  • @mrspboledi
    @mrspboledi Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Such a great conversation and as always there are just so many nuggets, I enjoyed this and learned so much.

  • @LindaTorosi
    @LindaTorosi Pƙed 2 lety +1

    The Makhs đŸ„°
    Listening to this while reflecting it to myself and I must say thank you for blessing me with this wisdom đŸ™ŒđŸœ

  • @noxolo2616
    @noxolo2616 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Amazing guys. Thank you 😊💓

  • @mantsolefa7608
    @mantsolefa7608 Pƙed 2 lety +5

    liking before watching,

  • @nomsa06
    @nomsa06 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Late but never delayed. About to listen as I work...

  • @samanthakgaswane8110
    @samanthakgaswane8110 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Im learning a looot from this...thank you😙🎉

  • @zandilembatha1297
    @zandilembatha1297 Pƙed 2 lety

    Love your show guys. Always inspiring and you can tell by your body language that you are honest and living out what you preach. May God continue to bless your union đŸ™â€ïžâ€ïžâ€ïž

  • @sinothandosirunu
    @sinothandosirunu Pƙed 2 lety

    This was a great conversation, thank you fam♄

  • @lindomashego9472
    @lindomashego9472 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Nchoo thanks for reminding us guys much much love for you

  • @refiloeramotala7805
    @refiloeramotala7805 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Convicted.
    I will do better đŸ™đŸœđŸ„ș❀

  • @rizapo
    @rizapo Pƙed 2 lety

    Wow, mind blowing lessons!
    My partner's nakedness is my nakedness too! I've gotta intentionally elevate my partner. Thank you Mr and Mrs Makhs for sharing your thoughts with us, they are of great value!

  • @saneliswamagagula9781
    @saneliswamagagula9781 Pƙed 2 lety

    I actually watched this video that Lerato is referring to and it was the title that caught my attention😂 Great perspective đŸ‘ŒđŸŸ

  • @palesamatabane3138
    @palesamatabane3138 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Notification gang we’re here đŸ”„đŸ€—đŸ‘ŒđŸŸ

  • @malebesemohapi9877
    @malebesemohapi9877 Pƙed 2 lety

    Your content is life-changing ❀

  • @susanmhlahleli5985
    @susanmhlahleli5985 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Yeah so excited to hear from you i watch you guys so much i have watched twice if not thrice all your instalments and i share like crazy love from Uk. Missing the Makhs Snr too i love you guys.

  • @veronicachirombe7617
    @veronicachirombe7617 Pƙed 2 lety +8

    Such a great conversation! Brilliant! Sooo important to elevate one another. My prayer is that this installment and the other great conversations spread far and wide!!💕

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Thank you so much sis Vee♄♄♄♄

  • @ruthkimani5956
    @ruthkimani5956 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    You guys are superb! This is trans-formative.

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 Pƙed 2 lety

    I'm learning so much from you guys and I agree with everything.😘As partners it's important to see each other the way God sees us❀

  • @mpumemkhonza9681
    @mpumemkhonza9681 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    oh man, so many things to take away from this installment. Cannot wait for the interesting conversations with my partner that were triggered by listening to the Maks

  • @gratitude_skins7509
    @gratitude_skins7509 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Elevate self to elevate others, how u treat self informs how u do others. Noted.

  • @siamisangsia6840
    @siamisangsia6840 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    It's so pleasing to just watch you guys 😍.. what a beautiful couple.

  • @vkmabunda9597
    @vkmabunda9597 Pƙed 2 lety +4

    My favourite youtube couple😍😍😍

  • @Noluteequeencess
    @Noluteequeencess Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Guys please consider hosting a marriage seminar, or couples seminar , a luncheon, a gala dinner or something! I would love definitely love to attend something like that. I think it would encourage my husband to open up more... Teach him that it's okay for a man to be vulnerable. My husband really likes to suppress his feelings and suffer in silence till he has found a solution as a man. Maybe you can do a video on why men do this and how couples can handle this.

  • @KeabetsweMahoro24
    @KeabetsweMahoro24 Pƙed 2 lety +2

    An installment from the Makhs just makes my day 🙂💃

  • @ASenseOfYuma
    @ASenseOfYuma Pƙed 2 lety +3

    #DreamTeam happy to see you!

  • @busisiwekwezi3750
    @busisiwekwezi3750 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    You are worth listening to❀❀❀.

  • @patriciamohoto6413
    @patriciamohoto6413 Pƙed 2 lety

    Great conversation guys. 💕💕👏

  • @ntombikayisemthembu7711
    @ntombikayisemthembu7711 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    u guys are just soo amazing. u both carry sooooooo much wisdom , looking 4ward to the next vid,your podcast is really leading me towards the right path

    • @TheMakhs
      @TheMakhs  Pƙed 2 lety +1

      Thank you sooo much ♄♄♄♄

  • @phindie263
    @phindie263 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    Such a great conversation

  • @AnnstaciaK
    @AnnstaciaK Pƙed 2 lety +13

    Heellllllllllllooooooooo dream team.
    Its your girl, madam class captain.
    Newly appointed chair. 🎓
    Here we subscribe.
    Like before watching.
    Keep the comments coming and hit that notification bell.
    Re le rata rati. Ka lerato la love.
    So share share share share!!!!!!! Dont keep this to yourself.

  • @kelebogilendlovu5967
    @kelebogilendlovu5967 Pƙed 2 lety

    So much wisdom guys... I have learnt a lot from this installment. Im not a very verbal person i felt so bad the other day when my partner said he feels like I dont support him much he had a business idea a s bw pitched it to me i liked it but i ddnt encourage him and support as I was supposed to as his partner now this takes me back that i ddnt elevate him nd I felt so bad. Thanks fr this podcast im going back kobmo motho waka ko mo elevator to the next level...much much guys ❀

  • @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013
    @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    I am just gonna share before listening

  • @dimakatsomalatji2794
    @dimakatsomalatji2794 Pƙed 2 lety

    There is so much we are learning here

  • @boitumelo.speaks
    @boitumelo.speaks Pƙed 2 lety

    14:20 - when the interpreter sign languages Lerato's cough. Mr Calvin is not missing a single beat

  • @mbalikhumalo921
    @mbalikhumalo921 Pƙed 2 lety

    I love this topic

  • @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013
    @LETSOALO_LIFEest2013 Pƙed 2 lety

    Great one.

  • @likopotsephe8979
    @likopotsephe8979 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    We're here #Dreamteam

  • @prettypeyalimon6097
    @prettypeyalimon6097 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    My Precious Lord and Savior, teach me how to love my husband the way You love him🙏 this is so profound â€ïžđŸ’–â€ïž Thank you Phetola and Lerato💛 Thank yo, God bless you

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    😂😂😂 we always have that moment where Mr M says something funny before we wrap up and if you are aware it’s now normalised 😂😂there is no way we could wrap without this moment lol nice one on that note Issa wrap Fam ♄

  • @leratosebetoane8333
    @leratosebetoane8333 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    You guys are so real. I enjoy your content 100%

  • @tshwarilekabe9150
    @tshwarilekabe9150 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    @Lerato Watch that video bro, for a rather secular outlook, Alain De Botton has quite a few solid pointers (not that you need it by the way). That video helped calm my anxiety about a very special lady. Making those few distinctions helped me alot I must say.

  • @tshepocindi5999
    @tshepocindi5999 Pƙed 2 lety

    I must say its not easy when your partner complain a lot and constantly brings the negative and yet We are bound to them for Life it impacts deeply on the partner doing the lifting. To let them be with their attitude Is not an option Thank you so much with this topic we are inspired to do better than yesterday Lord give Grace to love unconditionally.

  • @fezilenkabinde9087
    @fezilenkabinde9087 Pƙed 2 lety

    that eye lash part had me cracking

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    With Mrs M voice ( Hellooowww family) late comer🙈💔 but then I’m within â˜șïžđŸ“

  • @WisdomQuest_SA
    @WisdomQuest_SA Pƙed 2 lety +1

    #DreamTeam
    Road to 60k before the end of this month.🚀🚀

  • @semakanesebola7870
    @semakanesebola7870 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    You guys always elevates us,thank you so much. Stay blessed.

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Pƙed 2 lety

    You can even write down those wrong sad,bad things about you and your partner it doesn’t matter if it’s on one paper or y’all both split then sit down read through those papers and see how you can help each other to better them.

  • @storiesbytabby
    @storiesbytabby Pƙed 2 lety +4

    Inspiring.
    You can try hosting or doing content together with another youtuber who has the same views of life as you. You both gain as your audience increases, as in you exchange subscribers.

  • @Khanyisa_Ngxila
    @Khanyisa_Ngxila Pƙed 2 lety +3

    #DreamTeam
    #RoadTo150K

  • @khethiwengubo8035
    @khethiwengubo8035 Pƙed 2 lety +3

    register signed

  • @atty_mareka
    @atty_mareka Pƙed 2 lety +2

    #RoadTo150K

  • @relemonyane3126
    @relemonyane3126 Pƙed 2 lety +1

    😍😍

  • @mapula6894
    @mapula6894 Pƙed 2 lety

    ❀❀❀

  • @wendymurangi
    @wendymurangi Pƙed 2 lety +3

    #2

  • @sindysibanda1841
    @sindysibanda1841 Pƙed 2 lety

    ♄♄♄♄

  • @wendymurangi
    @wendymurangi Pƙed 2 lety +3

    #2 on comment 16 like

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Pƙed 2 lety

    In which
    English bundles are finishing up 5MB left 😂😂😂😂 askies Fam đŸ™ˆâ™„ïž

  • @marvelousmbali8002
    @marvelousmbali8002 Pƙed 2 lety

    Mr M did you see that title on Twitter because I saw it there yesterday 😁

  • @Noluteequeencess
    @Noluteequeencess Pƙed 2 lety

    I like the point Phetola made that marriage was designed to make us better people... Lots of points to support that statement in the Bible... E.g: Eccl 4:9,10: "Two are better than one... For if one of them falls, the other can help his partner up. But what will happen to the one who falls with no one to help him up?"

  • @keleabetswemathabe9016
    @keleabetswemathabe9016 Pƙed 2 lety

    😍😍😍