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  • čas přidán 28. 07. 2024
  • More and more people worldwide are living in countries not considered their own. Writer Pico Iyer -- who himself has three or four "origins" -- meditates on the meaning of home, the joy of traveling and the serenity of standing still.
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  • @TED
    @TED  Před 2 lety +5

    Pinned by TED
    Learn how to make your travels truly transformative in Pico Iyer’s upcoming TED Course “How to take a life-changing journey.” You’ll learn how to set an intention and choose a destination, how to make the most out of your arrival and be fully present while you travel, how to navigate cultural differences and how to live differently when you return home. Enroll now: tedtalks.social/3aO9LQl

  • @sameer137
    @sameer137 Před 11 lety +261

    Home is where your wifi connects automatically.

    • @clarkmilan9759
      @clarkmilan9759 Před 2 lety

      Sorry to be so offtopic but does any of you know of a way to get back into an Instagram account?
      I somehow forgot the account password. I appreciate any help you can give me.

    • @salvadorharrison397
      @salvadorharrison397 Před 2 lety

      @Clark Milan Instablaster =)

    • @clarkmilan9759
      @clarkmilan9759 Před 2 lety

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      Looks like it's gonna take quite some time so I will reply here later with my results.

    • @clarkmilan9759
      @clarkmilan9759 Před 2 lety +1

      @Salvador Harrison It did the trick and I finally got access to my account again. I'm so happy!
      Thanks so much you saved my account !

    • @salvadorharrison397
      @salvadorharrison397 Před 2 lety

      @Clark Milan glad I could help xD

  • @amitnagpal1985
    @amitnagpal1985 Před 9 lety +138

    "HOME is where all your attempts to escape cease" - Naguib Mahfouz

    • @fatimaal-hashimi9991
      @fatimaal-hashimi9991 Před 8 lety +3

      Beautiful quote. Thanks for sharing :)

    • @mohamederi8734
      @mohamederi8734 Před 8 lety +3

      +amit nag pal " A man's home is not where was born, but the place where all his attempts to escape ends". Actually Omar Taher who said that. still Egyptian tho.

    • @freakindream
      @freakindream Před 4 lety

      wow, that's good.

    • @stephaniericano8004
      @stephaniericano8004 Před 3 lety +1

      or begin haha

  • @chricellwhitney5032
    @chricellwhitney5032 Před 10 lety +39

    This hits me square in the chest. I left 'home' a while now and something in me is aching for a sense of 'home'....to belong to somewhere or something ...for a sense of stillness and to be absolutely sure of where I'm coming from, where/what I belong to.....this is so real to me #touched

  • @taylorwhyte2187
    @taylorwhyte2187 Před 11 lety +11

    I was born canadian and raised in the southern US. When i moved back to Toronto it slapped me back into consciousness. It made me more aware and tolerant. Then i moved back to the south and it was horrifying how scary how people who are unconscious actually are. Its make me feel horrible how this world has become even though we're more united than we know. Awareness and erasing ignorance can create peace and happiness! We are one and everyone needs to realize this!

  • @CruzzioXT
    @CruzzioXT Před 11 lety +24

    This guy is an amazing speaker. And I really loved the message.

  • @castrocyrax
    @castrocyrax Před 11 lety +13

    Thank you, Thank you, Thank you Mr. Iyer
    home is ME ! home is everything dear i hold inside, HOME is just....my perception, my attitude towards life, the things i appreciate and the good rapport i have with the ppl around me.
    home are the the beautiful things, the kind people, nature and animals and the awe inspiring creations that i may find in any geographic location, HOME is in my head.
    you can easily be an alien in your own "country" !!

  • @davidray1866
    @davidray1866 Před 5 lety +7

    Dwight Johnson, the man who took Pico to the monastery, took me and my high school philosophy club to that same monastery when I was 15. It was amazing.

  • @gordonfrancis5966
    @gordonfrancis5966 Před 10 lety +1

    I love the sound of the hermitage. The wonderful feeling of stillness and tranquillity.

  • @vernonpilgrim5534
    @vernonpilgrim5534 Před 9 lety +4

    Good, comforting words for Permanent Exiles, by choice, like myself. Being one is more like an attitude than a way of life, the latter is secondary to it. I have found that things often happen by chance, and the path is taken, or not, and it doesn't really matter! You are home where you stand.

  • @paolavitali1008
    @paolavitali1008 Před 3 lety +3

    What a wonderful man, so eloquent. He's a writer known for his travel writing, I'm gonna read some of his books.

  • @ngocchaunguyen8685
    @ngocchaunguyen8685 Před 3 lety +4

    Just read the article "Nowhere Man" by him. This speech is such a nice combination with his writing.

  • @Yizak
    @Yizak Před 11 lety +7

    Incredible talk. He has some sort of enthusiasm that could keep me listening for hours.

  • @nuvamusic
    @nuvamusic Před 11 lety +31

    He touches two points. One, the fact of having multi-ethnic, cultural background and having lived in different countries. So you're not belonging to any country in particular, but a citizen of the world, with a wider perspective of things. He had the privilege of education and the ability to travel around. Then he talks about the physical home, it didn't seem to affect him that much when he lost it to the fire, and he could just as well call 'home' a place where he could find himself...

  • @TeQuiiLaSHoTZz
    @TeQuiiLaSHoTZz Před 10 lety +13

    The World is my country, all mankind are my brethren, and to do good is my religion.
    - Thomas Paine

  • @TedFrancis
    @TedFrancis Před 10 lety +10

    I heard a beautiful line recently: Home is the consciousness of good.

  • @DimityGirl
    @DimityGirl Před 11 lety +2

    I am a half Malaysian half English from Hong Kong currently living in London. This TED Talk makes so much sense to me.

  • @sabaidris6930
    @sabaidris6930 Před 7 lety +1

    I'm glad I came across your talk. I was thinking recently about the shallowness of home and the fallacy behind homeland. They matter of course. But mostly they are more than what we take them to be.

  • @MarcelleAllen
    @MarcelleAllen Před 11 lety +3

    Where is home? Where will we stand? I love how his experience brings up powerful questions and ideas for me. It's very true that no matter where we go, there we are and the better we can be, the better we can stand.

  • @DreamDestinations100
    @DreamDestinations100 Před 11 lety +1

    home is where the heart is at the very moment. As a global citizen myself I totally get what he is saying! Also a lot of times it's home is more than the material world - it's in the stillness of the true space within each of us.

  • @goosegod6
    @goosegod6 Před 11 lety +3

    Very nice talk, he is right, stillness brings insight, wisdom and self knowing. The truth is not out there, it is inside...your heart.

  • @cutejassy
    @cutejassy Před 11 lety +3

    This might be my favorite talk yet.

  • @egidaprecious-juliet5562

    This was deep and i had to reflect and i tell you, the definition of HOME for me has changed.

  • @aikoyonamine
    @aikoyonamine Před 9 lety +6

    This resonates so much in me. Gratified by your sharing.

  • @JimmyXie
    @JimmyXie Před 10 lety +4

    This is absolutely amazing!! Identity crisis is something I am facing now too.

  • @970588
    @970588 Před 11 lety +1

    Wow I really relate to this. I have both senegalese and french nationalities and Im moving from canada to holland. My immediate family lives in spain.

  • @NicKleemann
    @NicKleemann Před 10 lety +2

    Great question - interesting answer.

  • @nehapawar1644
    @nehapawar1644 Před 2 lety +1

    I could quote this whole talk 🙏

  • @HupraNET
    @HupraNET Před 11 lety +1

    Best Ted i've ever watched!

  • @instormental
    @instormental Před 11 lety +3

    A wonderful talk. Also mr. Iyer has a beautiful voice, I hope he voices some books I can hear :)

  • @runmvp
    @runmvp Před 10 lety +2

    Home is where your heart is !

  • @venkateshdas7312
    @venkateshdas7312 Před 11 lety +1

    Well said Mr.Pico.......Really nice thought about the HOME......

  • @TheDexeter
    @TheDexeter Před 9 lety +5

    He sounds like the Dunmer in the opening of Oblivion. By the nine divines!

  • @trinisuprazee
    @trinisuprazee Před 11 lety +1

    I was born in Edmonton Alberta, grew up in Trinidad and Tobago, attended middle school in Toronto, Canada and undergrad in Columbus, Ohio. I don't feel like anywhere is my home but have an insatiable appetite for travelling because of my upbringing.

    • @mgmail7279
      @mgmail7279 Před 5 lety

      Different places than you but same story. Only annoying thing is answering the question: where are you from. Many people don't seem to accept our truths!

  • @mathjb94
    @mathjb94 Před 11 lety

    Fantastic talk, thank you!

  • @nicolaicustodio8731
    @nicolaicustodio8731 Před 9 lety +1

    Beautiful.

  • @Sluchen
    @Sluchen Před 11 lety +8

    "where you come from now is much less important than where you are going"

  • @CruzzioXT
    @CruzzioXT Před 11 lety +3

    There is much truth in this. I don't have much stuff, but I do have a laptop. Wherever I go, it goes with me. It's pretty much like a portable home, and my whole life is stored on this thing or in the internet. Home is not where your stuff is, home is where you achieve your full potential.

  • @rebekahstuck9949
    @rebekahstuck9949 Před 11 lety +1

    "movement is only as good as the sense of stillness that you could bring to it to bring it into perspective"

  • @painexotic3757
    @painexotic3757 Před 6 lety +3

    This inspired me to buy his book! I feel the same way, except I have only lived in one city my entire life. Having traveled around the city to different neighborhoods and connecting with dozens of people through the internet, I feel like this has had a drastic impact on my personality. I've got internet friends (and have met people) from all over the world and even across the country through the internet: Canada, israel, the united kingdom, brazil, etc to just name a few. And because of the internet, people in general, are becoming more globalized. Nowadays, you have white suburban kids listening to gangsta rap, portraying themselves to be "hardcore" because of how popular it is amongst young people. You have people in the UK or other European nations using american slang because of music or what they saw in our movies. It's crazy how the internet has globalized the world and how influential it is on younger generations. Older people don't seem to realize how impactful it is... How someone from Germany or Russia or China can connect with someone from America or Canada or Japan, etc, yet never having stepped a foot there in their lives...

  • @JJ-qz5gv
    @JJ-qz5gv Před 5 lety

    Riveted when he began talking about the Catholic Hermitage. Stillness. Nourishment for the soul.

  • @DandresNarr
    @DandresNarr Před 11 lety

    Just Beautiful!

  • @amadangelandme
    @amadangelandme Před 11 lety

    I have always felt that I belong to no country in specific, but at the same time to all of them in general. That, to me, is home.

  • @Kcimor78
    @Kcimor78 Před 11 lety +1

    Amazing!!!

  • @EscherSketcher
    @EscherSketcher Před 11 lety +1

    Amazing talk.

  • @UsernameNULL755
    @UsernameNULL755 Před 10 lety

    marvelous ted talk

  • @CorpseTongji
    @CorpseTongji Před 11 lety

    I really like this guy.

  • @teknotexan
    @teknotexan Před 11 lety +2

    "Where are you from?" : a question I wrestle with every time it is asked. I find solace in friendships with non-Americans b/c though I like living in California, it does not feel like home.

    • @mgmail7279
      @mgmail7279 Před 5 lety +1

      You should open your mind more. Not all Americans are "from" someplace nor one culture - just as Pico says here.

  • @jewelharris7168
    @jewelharris7168 Před 11 lety

    Beautiful profound

  • @AtheerAl
    @AtheerAl Před 9 lety

    amazing..

  • @URSskingdomh
    @URSskingdomh Před 10 lety

    LOVE!

  • @hallys6833
    @hallys6833 Před 2 lety

    Such a fantastic speach

  • @allyfassi5938
    @allyfassi5938 Před rokem

    Thank you for this video

  • @daDuke42
    @daDuke42 Před 11 lety

    very well said

  • @kcjiladolfo9199
    @kcjiladolfo9199 Před 3 lety

    AMAZING

  • @DemiDopamine
    @DemiDopamine Před 11 lety

    as a vagabond this is comforting.
    someone understands.

  • @DianaDaBestUnicorn
    @DianaDaBestUnicorn Před 11 lety

    This is awesome

  • @LanceWinslow
    @LanceWinslow Před 11 lety

    Yes, he's right, I've often considered this too, as I traveled around, people always asked "where are you from" but if you are always traveling - what do I say?

  • @pvsk10
    @pvsk10 Před 3 měsíci

    Home is where the heart is!

  • @tothestars101
    @tothestars101 Před 10 lety

    Toronto is an amazing city.

  • @logicalaadmi2720
    @logicalaadmi2720 Před 5 lety

    I am, i went to, I learnt, I'm not saying, I , I, I, I, I . Great speech..!!

  • @ShawnRavenfire
    @ShawnRavenfire Před 11 lety +1

    I find that more and more, these days, my "home" is becoming online. This is where my family and friends are, my collection of books and movies, my money, my work... I carry almost everything that I have in a small device in my pocket which picks up wifi signals. My apartment is quickly becoming nothing but a place to sleep and hang my clothes.

  • @Dadore
    @Dadore Před 11 lety +1

    “We can choose our sense of home. Create our own community”- Firstly, it applies only to those, who’s mother language is English; secondly, there is not enough time far that - people have to study, get education, find/create a job, raise a family, take of kids and so on. Blessed are those who don’t have that burden to “create their own home and community” somewhere at the other end of the world.

  • @corryng2710
    @corryng2710 Před 10 lety +12

    ***** I completely agree with you and I think the only way to end all the world's problems is to embrace everyone's differences, as you say, and see everyone as 'us' instead of 'them' as we are all, ultimately, a citizen of the world. I feel privileged to be one of the many global citizens in the world who don't have a definite nation home and thus can succumb to the feeling of, "I don't have a home, so everywhere and everyone shall be my home". This TED talk is a compilation of the many things I've always thought about and wondered if anyone out there felt the same and now i know there are many. Maybe we should all be connected somehow to get to know each other and share our ideas and from that, be able to grow more. As the saying goes, one man had a dollar and another man had a dollar. they swapped and they still have a dollar. one man had an idea and another man had an idea. they swapped and now they each have two ideas.

  • @neer1855
    @neer1855 Před rokem

    So the Silence & Stillness can be the paths to get you back to your Home.

  • @gnawershreth
    @gnawershreth Před 7 lety +18

    The only thing I'm a bit worried about when it comes to this kind of Utopian "We're all one!" type stuff is that all the different cultures, traditions etc. will be lost. At that point there will never be a single reason to ever travel again. Why would you bother if it's all just a bland mix of everything?
    I enjoy seeing French culture in France, Norwegian culture in Norway, Japanese culture in Japan, Vietnamese culture in Vietnam, Kenyan culture in Kenya, Peruvian culture in Peru etc. Losing them would be tragic in my opinion, and I fear that this "homeless" kind of people he's talking about would lead to that. If there's no longer anyone calling themselves Scottish or Moroccan then there's no Scottish or Moroccan culture left. I don't see how that could possibly be a good thing. :(

    • @awrad8078
      @awrad8078 Před 7 lety +2

      I never looked at it that way, but I can understand.

    • @MeMe-lx2jw
      @MeMe-lx2jw Před 5 lety +3

      I totally agree with you. I'm one of these no-home people and I travel a lot. For one, to me it's very hard not having a place to call home. Traveling is becoming more and more boring because everything looks more and more the same, and don't get me started on the foods!

    • @7saany
      @7saany Před 5 lety

      Cultures are always changing, but the infrastructure and the land and the foods and local agriculture possibly cant change too much. Even the weather may change. Of you are worried these things may no longer be then get out to see as much of it as there is now. thats like saying oh I yearn for the actual Scandinavian Viking culture, when that in itself changed and we don't necessarily blame the modern Norwegians for it.

    • @newparadigmsubliminals8324
      @newparadigmsubliminals8324 Před 5 lety +2

      @@MeMe-lx2jw I can totally relate to that after traveling with no-home for the last 25 years. Now, it is about growing my own food and living in the nature in a country far away from my own. I'm just starting this part of my journey. It's the only place I am finding the diversity and something new each day. Culture is all becoming a blur now except in some far away mostly abandoned villages with only a few elderly remaining.

    • @neerajkrishnang3916
      @neerajkrishnang3916 Před 4 lety

      @Gnawer Shreth Aren't cultures and traditions simply the way people have done things? This intermixing would only create new ones over a period of time with variations according to geography.

  • @MonicaBU
    @MonicaBU Před 11 lety

    There is something about the way he looks that reminds me of Robin Williams when he was younger!

  • @teafortwo828
    @teafortwo828 Před 11 lety

    Home is where your heart is..

  • @ohudsaud4265
    @ohudsaud4265 Před 9 lety +1

    Certainly, we have more complicated answers than before !

  • @nickjoeb
    @nickjoeb Před 11 lety

    Now I need to hear a speech about starting from stopping because I've spent a lot of time in total stop.

  • @artyj135
    @artyj135 Před 11 lety

    This is the best comment I have ever read under a youtube video and I have awarded you this honour in my own personal award ceremony. I am sorry there are no actual prizes.

  • @Zoza15
    @Zoza15 Před 11 lety

    That's an interesting thought...

  • @macnet83
    @macnet83 Před 9 lety +9

    home is where you find peace.

    • @heavensims5857
      @heavensims5857 Před 6 lety

      macnet83 this what I said in my paper I wrote

    • @patrickstarr602
      @patrickstarr602 Před 4 lety

      Heaven Sims I have a school project due in a week. Would love to get inspiration from it if you still have it

  • @Pendoza84
    @Pendoza84 Před 11 lety

    Welcome in Holland :D

  • @xmidsummersky
    @xmidsummersky Před 11 lety

    wow.

  • @balasubs1
    @balasubs1 Před 3 lety

    Wherever YOU are is Home n wherever you sstay is House!!

  • @lethargic_cow
    @lethargic_cow Před 11 lety +2

    The last one said it all...
    "Home is not a place where you sleep, it's a place where you stand."

  • @KiwiFuel
    @KiwiFuel Před 11 lety +7

    Home is where I poop most comfortably.

  • @EmanP223
    @EmanP223 Před 11 lety

    Exactly.

  • @bruv5356
    @bruv5356 Před 11 měsíci

    this is life changing oh my lordy lord hooray

  • @apwalden87
    @apwalden87 Před 11 lety

    Amen

  • @lowkeylunatic
    @lowkeylunatic Před 11 lety +1

    As an American living in Canada after working in Mexico and the Bahamas, I can relate to this unequivocally. I found my home in Canada but only after finding myself in Mexico.

  • @nachoijp
    @nachoijp Před 11 lety +1

    I wish I could travel :(

  • @semirames
    @semirames Před 3 lety

    This talks suit well for brazilians, that I think who are the most mixed race people in the world.
    Well done!!! Congrats!

  • @AZEROONE
    @AZEROONE Před 11 lety

    home sweet home

  • @laurelinlorefield318
    @laurelinlorefield318 Před 10 lety +6

    Military brats ... excuse me, kids can easily relate to the first part of his talk (I'm an AF brat and love the term brat, but not everyone does). Some call themselves TCK (third culture kids).
    I love the suggestion that stillness and mindfulness helps to answer that age-old question about home.

  • @DystopianOwl
    @DystopianOwl Před 11 lety

    Wow..

  • @rocky328150
    @rocky328150 Před 10 lety

    he made me google about him!!

  • @Ishkhanants
    @Ishkhanants Před rokem

    "The important is not where you are coming from, it is where you are going to"

  • @killermanhat
    @killermanhat Před 11 lety

    yeah, I'm just from straya (australia) only lived in sydney and fucken love it ;).... I'd say ur english, and u sound like it to

  • @DivyamBajaj
    @DivyamBajaj Před 11 lety +1

    So what's the point?

  • @alexwong9908
    @alexwong9908 Před rokem

    How old are passports, visas, and national boundaries as a modern construct?

  • @asterix908
    @asterix908 Před rokem +1

    I can relate. All my life, I've always been an outsider. Really the only place I felt like I belonged, was New York City.

  • @hitsilent
    @hitsilent Před 2 lety +1

    Home not just the place where you sleep. It's the place where you stand.

  • @MrMadalien
    @MrMadalien Před 10 lety +4

    Hmm, yes, I am also a "TCK", but I have a relatively well defined object that I consider home. My computer, lol. The only ubiquitously comfortable "place" where I an be.

    • @JB2519
      @JB2519 Před 9 lety

      Your computer can be in the 'cloud' ;)

  • @PeterLustigg
    @PeterLustigg Před 5 lety +2

    2:12 Vaincóuuvah!

  • @user-gx6dr3vv3z
    @user-gx6dr3vv3z Před 4 lety +2

    6:17

  • @alienkishorekumar
    @alienkishorekumar Před 11 lety +1

    My definition of home: A place I can sit however the hell I want to.

  • @gibo1984
    @gibo1984 Před 11 lety

    I'm homeless it seems... time to find where home is!

  • @joshwrites
    @joshwrites Před 11 lety +1

    my home is in my head - Bob Marley