"Celebrity Therapist" Nightmare | Eugene Landy & Brian Wilson Case Analysis

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Komentáře • 544

  • @MakerInMotion
    @MakerInMotion Před 2 lety +158

    The comedian Doug Stanhope was making fun of Dr. Drew Pinsky "specializing" in celebrity clients and said its like a gynecologist specializing in Scandinavian college girls.

  • @DenaDeniseRush
    @DenaDeniseRush Před 2 lety +251

    People tend to automatically think that a mental health therapist must be emotionally healthy themselves. When the exact opposite can be true. This is very apparent in the case of Eugene Landy.

    • @daniellavaladez7820
      @daniellavaladez7820 Před 2 lety +5

      So true!

    • @grumpyoldlady_rants
      @grumpyoldlady_rants Před 2 lety +15

      Some of the most messed up people I know were therapists.

    • @kodiekulp
      @kodiekulp Před 2 lety +18

      I work with the intellectually disabled at a non-profit living facility. I'm in more of a peer support position rather than a case manager.
      A case manager is supposed to be responsible and helping the clients with their money and all this stuff..... But we've had a few that did not have their life together like worse than the clients except the only difference was that they didn't have an intellectual disability.
      We had one guy stealing from all his clients. And I guess he didn't realize that we do audits on all our clients accounts.... Such a moron.
      And then this other lady had her kids taken away from her and her house condemned because she was living in such filth and squalor but she would come and be a case manager for people you know?

    • @amyholman354
      @amyholman354 Před 2 lety +8

      In Treatment, that show with Gabriel Byrne, on HBO dramatized that.

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety +1

      @@amyholman354 how are you doing? Merry Christmas 🎁🎄 in advance

  • @billylain7456
    @billylain7456 Před 2 lety +256

    As a retired Substance Abuse clinician I really appreciate this critique. I dont know why I didnt think of getting me a few clients at 20K monthly.

    • @MichelleCWeber
      @MichelleCWeber Před 2 lety +32

      If you are really bad at it, there will be tons of repeat customers.

    • @kodiekulp
      @kodiekulp Před 2 lety +30

      I heard the best way to get off drugs is spending all your money

    • @bankleaks1217
      @bankleaks1217 Před 2 lety +11

      @@kodiekulp I did that and it worked

    • @Katie2986
      @Katie2986 Před 2 lety +15

      You have a soul maybe?

    • @davidstair9657
      @davidstair9657 Před 2 lety +3

      Here! Take my money!!

  • @aprilburrows1194
    @aprilburrows1194 Před 2 lety +53

    As a schizoaffective individual, I'm always so excited when I come across another individual with the disorder who manages to have a productive and successful life! mad goals!

    • @galatea742
      @galatea742 Před 2 lety +5

      Snap! I really love to see positive schizoaffective representation. We’re either forgotten about or portrayed and axe wielding maniacs usually, so this is great to see!

    • @slimkickens
      @slimkickens Před 2 lety +9

      Never forget, for all of Brian's success and productivity, he went through absolute hell at multiple points of his life. You're not alone in your aspirations, or your struggles. Stay loved, my friend, I'm sure you're making the most of the hand you've been dealt

  • @sloopfan3706
    @sloopfan3706 Před 2 lety +32

    This was actually really good. You should consider doing a video on Brian’s brother Dennis Wilson. He also has a very interesting case that involves Charles Manson.

  • @dianaprince3176
    @dianaprince3176 Před 2 lety +5

    A lot of celebrities with mental health problems and addiction disorders are often surrounded by people who benefit from the celebrity not improving.

  • @nicklager1666
    @nicklager1666 Před 2 lety +40

    It really does show how easy it is for some people to take advantage of people that are in need of help.

  • @samdog_1
    @samdog_1 Před 2 lety +86

    Thank you for covering this important case. Brian Wilson is indeed a musical genius and was horribly manipulated by this bad actor. Fortunately, his family was willing to fight to free him from Landy’s suffocating grasp and get him legitimate mental healthcare. Brian is still doing well to this day and is quite happy and productive, which is good news to his many fans.

    • @exerciserelax8719
      @exerciserelax8719 Před 2 lety +19

      It's a bit of poetic justice that after Landy wrote himself into Brian's will, I guess thinking he would die young due to his health issues and previous drug abuse, Brian ended up outliving him.

    • @ocoolwow
      @ocoolwow Před 2 lety +1

      Important case? LOL no.

  • @gerrydooley951
    @gerrydooley951 Před 2 lety +9

    As a major fan of Brian and the Beach Boys since 1969, and I mean obsessed, this is a very sad although interesting chapter in the Brian Wilson saga. The positive aspect of Landy's treatment was getting Brian into shape: losing a lot of weight and getting off all dangerous substances. The worst was doping Brian up so much that Brian couldn't think straight. The tragedy was that Brian is a beautiful and kind soul and has never really been the same since his association with Landy. However Brian is a very strong person and has never given up. He continues to tour and record and is still Brian Wilson.

  • @lornaginetteharrison7168
    @lornaginetteharrison7168 Před 2 lety +43

    🎼"God only knows what I’d be without you"🎵 indeed! Gene really appropriated those lyrics to encapsulate Brian’s view of their "therapeutic" _[NOT!]_ relationship.

  • @warrenholmes3830
    @warrenholmes3830 Před 2 lety +31

    "Not getting 'Good Vibrations' - Brilliant Dr. Grande. Excellent Analysis, too

  • @deboracopeland6356
    @deboracopeland6356 Před 2 lety +59

    After 30 years of MDD and the horror of ‘treatments’ all those years, I went for TMS treatments in desperation and was CURED. Sometimes I can’t believe it. Very thankful to science and whoever invented this. Can’t recommend it enough. After one therapist told me I’d have to cry everyday of my life I say you are wrong. Science saved me from all the bad therapists I’ve had. Many thanks.

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety +1

      Hi Debora how are you doing?

    • @Katie2986
      @Katie2986 Před 2 lety +5

      That's wonderful! Maybe there is hope for me.

    • @JoJoJoker
      @JoJoJoker Před 2 lety +5

      What is MDD? TMS? Thanks for sharing.

    • @filipefigueiredo9847
      @filipefigueiredo9847 Před 2 lety +17

      @@JoJoJoker major depressive disorder; transcranial magnetic stimulation (I just looked this one up)

    • @JoJoJoker
      @JoJoJoker Před 2 lety +2

      @@filipefigueiredo9847 interesting.

  • @John_Notmylastname
    @John_Notmylastname Před 2 lety +105

    Love and Mercy is one of the best biopics I’ve ever watched and highly recommend to get an idea of what happened between the two. Really well done film.

    • @organismgel1043
      @organismgel1043 Před 2 lety +19

      Yeah agreed! And likewise, everyone should listen to Pet Sounds... Because it's so good

    • @dungeon-wn4gw
      @dungeon-wn4gw Před 2 lety +16

      @@organismgel1043
      A lot of people don't understand that Pet Sounds was basically a Brian Wilson solo project.. the other members were used like a backup band following all of Brian's writing and production.

    • @simoncullum5019
      @simoncullum5019 Před 2 lety

      Where can I watch it ?

    • @crazydiamond119
      @crazydiamond119 Před 2 lety +3

      Yesyesyes, i got on here to see if anyone else had seen or mentioned that film. It's so heartbreaking and real. I'm so glad that someone felt moved to make that film. 💗

    • @grossliz1995
      @grossliz1995 Před 2 lety +4

      Agree. That movie made me fall back in love with the beach boys.

  • @chrbotno1920
    @chrbotno1920 Před 2 lety +48

    Sounds like he's about as ethical as whoever has been treating Britney Spears for the past 13 years

    • @wendyleeconnelly2939
      @wendyleeconnelly2939 Před 2 lety +3

      @@brianchappell4054 she did have a therapist though who must have been complicit

    • @catsantos353
      @catsantos353 Před 2 lety +3

      @@brianchappell4054 who do U think coerced the mental health clinician 🤔

    • @Bombaysapphire1978
      @Bombaysapphire1978 Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yeah, that was outrageous. I'm glad that she finally got out from under that whole court order. One person who wasn't happy to see that happen, however, is her greedy Dad. He had been getting her checks all that time.

  • @danielfisch389
    @danielfisch389 Před 2 lety +9

    Jeff Lynne, another rock legend, once talked about the time when he produced a song (Let it shine) for Brian‘s 1988 solo album. He said that Brian was very nice, but the working conditions were so bad that it was an experience which Lynne wouldn‘t have wanted to repeat. As I later read the books about Brian‘s life, including his autobiographies (the first one having been practically written by Landy himself, as Brian has admitted he hadn‘t even read the final draft) and seen the docs, it became clear that Lynne had talked about the 24/7 control by Landy and his team. Yes, Landy did save Brian‘s life in 1983, as he was on the verge of killing himself, but then he took total control over Brian‘s life, as we all know. Or as Mike Love said, Brian „became the goose that laid golden eggs“. A prime example of a therapist who went way too far and eventually had paid the price.

  • @maureeningleston1501
    @maureeningleston1501 Před 2 lety +30

    Sounds like the therapist needed a therapist more than his patient.

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety +3

      Hi Maureen how are you doing?

    • @funkid500
      @funkid500 Před 2 lety +1

      Are you an AI

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety +6

      Definitely. I think half of them do.

    • @kathrynturnbull990
      @kathrynturnbull990 Před 2 lety +2

      It's too bad narcissists rarely seek therapy. They also don't tend to benefit much from it if they get into it, cause they think they know more than the therapist and can explain everything away with "he/she was a bad therapist." The principle of autonomy means anyone can nope out of therapy that isn't court ordered. Being held involuntarily as a danger to self/others rarely involves much in the way of therapy.

  • @richardt1792
    @richardt1792 Před 2 lety +5

    I am a clinical psychologist in Southern California. Like many psychologists and psychiatrists, we have some celebrity patients. Maintaining boundaries is essential will all patients and celebrities are no different. Confidentiality must be maintained. In the mental health community, it was common knowledge that Landy was exploiting Brian. It was distressing that it took so long for the board of psychology to revoke his license. Generally, the California Board is quite aggressive with their enforcement.

  • @debbyseguin7131
    @debbyseguin7131 Před 2 lety +41

    Reminds me a lot of Elvis relationship with his manager. Lots of control and manipulation when Elvis was vulnerable.

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety

      Hi Debby how are you doing?

    • @funkid500
      @funkid500 Před 2 lety +6

      Quit trying so hard weirdo

    • @NOWtheband
      @NOWtheband Před 2 lety +2

      @@funkid500 - I thought Debby's comment was insightful and not in the least the words of a "weirdo" who is "trying hard".
      I have to ask: What made you write that at her?

    • @funkid500
      @funkid500 Před 2 lety

      Stewart Nelson comments this on a lot of women’s comments

    • @NOWtheband
      @NOWtheband Před 2 lety +1

      @@funkid500 - Oh, are you replying to me?
      If so, was your original comment actually aimed at Stewart Nelson?
      (Neither were obvious due to your comments not being addressed towards a name such as Nelson's or mine)

  • @erickdeveau8635
    @erickdeveau8635 Před 2 lety +38

    Thanks Dr. Grande, my jaw hit the floor when I saw this. How despicable! I just can't even imagine. Your videos are so great. Also, I watched the one where you explained how you put your videos together, the research, to the technical aspects, and how much time it takes. It must be exhausting. You take the time, which I believe is what makes them so excellent, funny at times, and for me very helpful quite often. Thanks for all of your hard work. From Erick.

  • @dianayount2122
    @dianayount2122 Před 2 lety +24

    The demand for control, dependence on the clinician reminds me of some aspects of the Britney Spears case. Greed.

  • @GenXfrom75
    @GenXfrom75 Před 2 lety +45

    My father got sober 29 years ago, thanks to amazing treatment counselors and his own strong desire to stay sober. I hate that we have "professionals" taking complete advantage of people who need real aid.

    • @HexagonFL
      @HexagonFL Před 2 lety

      You’re cute

    • @NOWtheband
      @NOWtheband Před 2 lety +3

      ​@@HexagonFL- Her comment is interesting, isn't it? She makes good points.
      I also agree with her.

  • @deconyus3412
    @deconyus3412 Před 2 lety +18

    Resilience is absolutely the important lesson here. I was shocked learning Brian’s disorder but happy to hear he outlived Gene and wasn’t doomed by his circumstances.

    • @The-Finisher
      @The-Finisher Před 2 lety +2

      Great takeaway.

    • @evanwright9016
      @evanwright9016 Před 2 lety +1

      Yeah being part of a multisuccessful band. If he'd decided to drop out of the spotlight and recover in silence (which was probably for the better) but he was never that headstrong, even in his most creative period, his decisions were ultimately driven by the desires/needs of the band, hence no 'SMiLE' in '66-'67. I'm ASD and it's easy to relate to the feeling of being weighed down by what you've been struggling with while your strengths (seemingly few but extremely prodigious, almost obsessive) are at a means of exploitation. He wanted others' approval badly so that it would be easier to ignore or slag off everyday criticism, both internally and no doubt externally. At that point in the 80s people were convinced he was incapable of making hits. He was always an eccentric and difficult to conversate with even though he was 1 of if not the most candid, empathetic, and forgiving in his level of the music business of that era. He entered his 40s and like every popular musician aging into their third decade of recording, he made meandering yacht rock garbage with the ugly, dated production tricks of its time. No one bothered a Steve Winwood or an Aretha Franklin for toning down their image in the 80s. I think it's partly due to the ableist slant most in the biz had to manipulate Brian.
      Imagine being told constantly that your genius was allegedly taken away from you. And that drugs essentially "omit genius" when it's really due to your unsupportive, parasocial family and the wishes of industry execs who have the luck of not having the lineage of mental illness in their bloodline. I'd possibly overmedicate too if I were in Brian's shoes. Even when just experiencing it secondhand, having to console someone having a schizophrenic episode, from what they're describing *isn't* pretty.

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před 2 lety +84

    I’ve seen so much fame worship while living in LA. I wasn’t in love with it. I left. It’s hard bc fame is powerful. Thank you, Grande, for another excellent analysis.

    • @evanthomass
      @evanthomass Před 2 lety +6

      I saw Russell Brand talking about being famous. Ge described being at a football game and the people in the crowd turned away from the game to gawk at him. it sounded creepy. Being famous for being really talented is a great fantasy, but I suspect it would suck in a lot of ways.

    • @carolnahigian9518
      @carolnahigian9518 Před 2 lety

      how Did Mrs Brian Wilson even Stay married at all??????

    • @HexagonFL
      @HexagonFL Před 2 lety

      My mom slapped me and told me my cousin Rachael has Down syndrome

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 Před 2 lety

      Highly unethical behaviour on the part of the so-called therapist. Talk about a dual relationship!

    • @pamelalansbury94
      @pamelalansbury94 Před 2 lety +2

      @@carolnahigian9518 he wasn’t too far gone when he met his first wife, they were really in love. There are videos of them looking at each other during concerts (she was a singer too) and you can see how in love they were.

  • @beeimaginative
    @beeimaginative Před 2 lety +24

    God only knows that I am in my room and I get around to always watching Dr. Grande’s analyses!

  • @TrueClearMedia
    @TrueClearMedia Před 2 lety +5

    “Wouldn’t It Be Nice” if Landy was gone. Nicely played, sir.

  • @ceebee491
    @ceebee491 Před 2 lety +4

    So pleased you have covered this topic. In my opinion Gene was a snake oil salesman.
    A frustrated rock star who lived vicariously through Brian, at his most vulnerable time.

  • @QuidamByMoonlight
    @QuidamByMoonlight Před 2 lety +4

    “Wouldn’t it be nice if Gene was out of the picture.’ 😂 Hilarious!

  • @ChristinePerez903
    @ChristinePerez903 Před 2 lety +6

    Eugene was living his celebrity dream through Brian.
    Great video Dr Grande!!

  • @AABB-bm9kk
    @AABB-bm9kk Před 2 lety +18

    The Beach Boys are one of my favorites 🙂✌️
    🎄Happy Holidays to Dr Grande and his entire CZcams community
    And an early congratulations on a million subs 😀👍😎

  • @dominickdolio2703
    @dominickdolio2703 Před 2 lety +3

    Thank you for the story. I also enjoyed the two song title funds that you put in there. Finally I will say I actually didn’t meet Brian Wilson a number of years ago. He was working a private event where I was and I actually thought he was going to die. He sat down too quickly and a microphone stand fell on his head. It was actually the weight portion that keeps it balanced. He was fine and everything was OK. I later went up to him and thanked him for making the greatest car songs of all time. He said you’re welcome and that’s all I said to him. It was the best minute of my life

  • @barbaradiederich3709
    @barbaradiederich3709 Před 2 lety +3

    Therapists that take advantage of patients should not only have their license yanked but they should also be jailed.

  • @cottontails9003
    @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety +15

    That was a brilliant analysis. I had no idea of the control this man, had with Brian Wilson. In a strange, way I'm so pleased that Brian out lived Gene,the though of this man,riding on the coat tails, of a musical genius, like Brian Wilson, doesn't go down too well. Thank you Dr Grande, I did find it as well as good vibrations.

    • @annal7364
      @annal7364 Před 2 lety +1

      Yes. All my thoughts in this comment! :)

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety +2

      @@annal7364 Thank you. Love your comments too

  • @thelocalmaladroit8873
    @thelocalmaladroit8873 Před 2 lety +21

    Thanks Dr Grande, I’ve seen this requested more than once. The wealth and status of celebrities makes them vulnerable to parasitic relationships.

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety

      Hi Carolyn how are you doing?

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Před 2 lety +2

      @@stewartnelson5381 why do you keep saying hello to everyone?

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety

      @@eadweard. and who are you?

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety

      @@eadweard. how dare you talk to me in a mannerless way ?

    • @eadweard.
      @eadweard. Před 2 lety +4

      @@stewartnelson5381 This isn't the right place for speed dating.

  • @exerciserelax8719
    @exerciserelax8719 Před 2 lety +3

    As someone who's been fascinated by Brian's story for several years, I'm glad you covered this case! There are so many interesting aspects to it, for those who want to go beyond what you could cover here. I personally feel that Brian was so drawn to Landy because he was reliving the trauma he experienced from his father, another abusive and controlling man who desired fame. Brian's story is both sad and inspiring.

  • @JoJoJoker
    @JoJoJoker Před 2 lety +11

    I read the Brian Wilson “autobiography” which was written by Landy. Such a sad situation.

  • @Repomidnight
    @Repomidnight Před 2 lety +4

    Highly recommend the new Brian Wilson documentary “Long Promised Road”. Brian doesn’t have a bad word to say about anybody. Regarding Landy, he’s grateful to him for helping him to lose weight.
    BYW- A Brian Wilson video would be fascinating. A man who’s going strong at nearly 80 after overcoming so much. An inspiration to many.

  • @gloriaelmore9092
    @gloriaelmore9092 Před 2 lety +8

    Caught your play on words, "wouldn't it be nice." Thanks for your versatility. Happy Christmas to you and your family. 🎄

  • @Strider258
    @Strider258 Před 2 lety +34

    Could you also take a look on Dennis Wilson’s case? Very talented and under appreciated musician. He had a lot of demons due to his abuse from his dad and more. His death effectively ended the BB’s in the 80s.

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety

      Logan, I agree on this one.

    • @BelindaTN
      @BelindaTN Před 2 lety +2

      @@radiorob7543 wasn’t one of The Beach Boys involved with Charles Manson for a short time?

    • @Rutoenfit
      @Rutoenfit Před 2 lety +3

      If he hadn't picked up 2 hitchhiking Manson girls in '68, those terrible murders might never of happened. He never recovered from that guilt.

    • @Strider258
      @Strider258 Před 2 lety +1

      @@Rutoenfit there’s a story of Manson showing up at Dennis’ new house and saying “this bullets for you, the rest is for your family” or something to that effect. Dennis reportedly knocked Manson to the curb and beat him real bad. Manson never saw Denny again. Van Dyke Parks told this story.

    • @Strider258
      @Strider258 Před 2 lety +1

      @@DivineBearFalcon oh heck yeah. That song is creepy.

  • @briank4972
    @briank4972 Před 2 lety +3

    The brilliance, the innovativeness, the piercing beauty of the Brian Wilson song Surf's Up is serioulsly on par with masterworks like A Day in the Life and Strawberry Fields Forever. To my ears, Brian Wilson's Pet Sounds and SMiLE Sessions era output represents a pinnacle of 20th century music.

  • @tod3msn
    @tod3msn Před rokem +4

    Dr Landy started off with the best of intentions which was to treat his client but became seduced by fame and fortune and transformed into a dark force in Brian Wilson’s life resulting in his eventual sacking as Brian’s therapist and professional chaos. What is sad is that had Dr Landy not stayed at the fair too long and left after getting Brian better he would have been hailed as a success but instead he got involved in Brian’s professional life and that was his downfall. Sadly, Dr Landy did help Brian and his faults now overshadow his help to Brian which is unfortunate.

  • @intentionallyqueen.478
    @intentionallyqueen.478 Před 2 lety +7

    Hey Zaddy, I haven't logged on in a awhile, you're looking handsomely refreshed.

    • @memyself4431
      @memyself4431 Před 2 lety +3

      Bet he smells really good too! 😊

  • @rejaneoliveira5019
    @rejaneoliveira5019 Před 2 lety +7

    This is such a sad case at so many levels. Similarly, I have seen Nutrition Counselors stringing clients along for years, without any reasonable justification for doing so. I find it appalling and unethical. In the end, the client is the one paying the ultimate price.
    Very thoughtful review, thank you Dr. Grande!❤️

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety +1

      How are you my beautiful friend? 😀🌷🌷🌷🌷🌷

    • @rejaneoliveira5019
      @rejaneoliveira5019 Před 2 lety +1

      @@cottontails9003 Hi Julianne!😃
      I am fine, hope all is good with you as well!💕🤗😘

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety +1

      @@rejaneoliveira5019 Thank you Rejane, everything is great. 😊

  • @julieyoung3315
    @julieyoung3315 Před 2 lety +7

    Ohhhhh...Dr. Grande I have Missed your analysis the last week. I'm having withdrawals!

  • @doctorshell7118
    @doctorshell7118 Před 2 lety +8

    In most outpatient settings we have levels of care that address a patient’s needs without robbing them of their autonomy or just robbing them.
    Gene reminds me a bit of Phil McGraw TBH, with his fascination with celebrity and status.

    • @kathyclark8274
      @kathyclark8274 Před 2 lety +1

      Doctor Shell: Absolutely! Soooo reminiscent of Dr. Phil's fascination w/ fame.

    • @dianaprince3176
      @dianaprince3176 Před 2 lety +1

      Good call on that one

  • @michaelhughes3302
    @michaelhughes3302 Před 2 lety +3

    Merry Christmas everyone. I know Brian Wilson, he was my neighbor. I can't believe my luck that you, Dr Grande are looking at this case now. My name is Michael Hughes and I was born in Belfast, Northern Ireland in January 1973. Shortly after, my family moved to the town of Portmarnock, a seaside town, north of Dublin. An enclave for the rich. We just considered it home. On our weekend trips to the ice cream store in Malahide my father would point out.... That's were the beach boy lives. This is around 1977 to 1979. Interestingly enough, we emigrated to Toronto, Canada in 1981 were I grew up listening to a band, the Barenaked Ladies who had a hit song, Brian Wilson. A song about how Brian lay in bed, suffering from mental illness after being a huge star. Well, now you know where he spent some of that time. Crazy!

  • @helpyourcattodrive
    @helpyourcattodrive Před 2 lety +10

    Oh, this should be interesting. Thank you, Grande. I had a boat, nothing fancy, in the marina and people said Dennis Wilson drown in our marina, pier 44.

  • @DrLC.
    @DrLC. Před 2 lety +4

    “…lying in bed, just like Brian Wilson did,” by the Barenaked Ladies has much more context now!

  • @thomash7252
    @thomash7252 Před 2 lety +3

    Glad Dr Grande gave Brian the respect & recognition he deserves, esp w that last statement 👌👌👌👏👏👏

  • @breevwhyman2985
    @breevwhyman2985 Před 2 lety +6

    Lord................amazing to learn from your video that stories of such are actually REAL..............
    many thanks
    Vin.
    Festive best wishes. Really respect your Conclusion of the subject in your video.

  • @JaneDoe-ip5yl
    @JaneDoe-ip5yl Před 2 lety +3

    I love the song touches "good vibrations" and "wouldn't it be nice" 😆 sad story though.

  • @lnc-to4ku
    @lnc-to4ku Před 2 lety +3

    What an incredibly moving video you put together, Dr. Grande! ♡♡
    Is there much else worse than a complete abuse of power?! It was crushing to hear how he abused somebody who was truly vulnerable! I can't believe how sad it was to hear you describing someone who has schizoaffective disorder- a condition I never even knew existed.
    I wish you a very Merry Christmas, Dr. Grande! ☃️
    You are truly a gift that keeps on giving, and I thank you deeply for all that you give us!! 💞xo

  • @janmclain6301
    @janmclain6301 Před 2 lety +2

    As always, thank you Dr. Grande! As a survivor of therapist abuse, I could not agree with you more, sir! On the upside, I now know how to help others who might still be victims.

  • @rayross997
    @rayross997 Před 2 lety +19

    Been waiting for this one, thanks Dr. Grande. Please consider Charles Lindbergh and especially his interest in eugenics.

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety +1

      Great suggestion. I bet a lot of people don't know the whole story. It is interesting.

    • @johnstalberg9983
      @johnstalberg9983 Před 2 lety +1

      Great idea-I really believe that Lindbergh was behind his baby's "kidnapping."

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety

      @@johnstalberg9983 Yes, definitely seems suspicious to me, as well.

    • @shombie2737
      @shombie2737 Před 2 lety +1

      He had three families (US and Germany) who were unaware of each other. A man of secrets.

    • @rayross997
      @rayross997 Před 2 lety

      @@shombie2737 I understand that dna testing has confirmed he fathered at least 5 children in Germany.

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 Před 2 lety +3

    I don't like anyone who thinks they are better than anyone else. It is such an ugly thing to me. This guy was obviously taking advantage of Mr. Wilson because he was so vulnerable and desperate for help. It's really sad.

  • @annal7364
    @annal7364 Před 2 lety +16

    The wolf thought to himself, "Aha! This tender little creature will be a plump morsel!" 🐺
    Another sad version of the story. Thanks Dr. G.

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety +3

      Anna , that is really cute 😂🙈🙉🙊

    • @annal7364
      @annal7364 Před 2 lety +4

      @@cottontails9003 Haha, yes, thanks! Although this fairy tale makes me sad because it is a metaphor for what happens in real life. Not sure why a story like this is only meant for young children when old children need it just as much! Hope you have a merry holiday!

    • @cottontails9003
      @cottontails9003 Před 2 lety +1

      @@annal7364 Same to you my beautiful friend, and yes I agree with you 🌷🌹🌼🌲

  • @Stumpchunkman226
    @Stumpchunkman226 Před 2 lety +2

    Dang, Dr. G! By the time I watch one of your videos, you’ve already put out two more. Thanks, sir.

  • @evekupersanin
    @evekupersanin Před 2 lety +5

    On-point analysis, Dr. Grande! I'm glad you covered this-- would you ever consider covering Richard Chase? He was quite unusual for a number of reasons so thought it would be a good analysis for you.

  • @vensheaalara
    @vensheaalara Před 2 lety +2

    I have enjoyed some movies, but celebrities seem to lose their grasp on reality. Truly, every job is a service to someone else, even celebrities.

  • @brianpratt3224
    @brianpratt3224 Před 2 lety +9

    That being said the doctor had mad skills. Pun intended.

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety +2

      He worked insane. hours.

  • @fourfurrypotatoes
    @fourfurrypotatoes Před 2 lety +2

    $35,000 a month!? What a piece of crap! That is pure greed and the guy didn't even help him. Man what a con artist.

  • @MakaylaPaterson
    @MakaylaPaterson Před 2 lety +1

    This brings a whole new meaning to the song that says "laying in bed, just like Bryan willson did" I never knew a lot of his story despite being a fan of the beach boys. Great video doctor!

  • @m.f.richardson1602
    @m.f.richardson1602 Před 2 lety +2

    Brian was my favorite Beach Boy.
    Beach Boys concert was my first concert.
    Always interesting.
    Thank you.
    Peace 💕😻

  • @randyguess3124
    @randyguess3124 Před 2 lety +2

    Brian released one of his best albums in 1988. I think Landy was helpful though he probably took some financial advantages.

  • @imnotperfectjust4givn617
    @imnotperfectjust4givn617 Před 2 lety +3

    💕💕💕Thanks for the analysis of one of the people that I had always wondered about! It’s so awful Brian was taken advantage of in that way. You’re rocking that beautiful shirt, Dr. Grande! Hope you have a wonderful Christmas 🎄🎄❤️

  • @proverbialmonkey
    @proverbialmonkey Před 2 lety +3

    My supervisor always tells me "never work harder than the client" and boy did that seem to be the case here.

  • @yusefendure
    @yusefendure Před 2 lety +3

    Narcissism, avarice, and power. Thank you for another poignant video. It's great to know that even mental health professionals are not spared these kinds of critiques. As you mentioned in earlier videos, therapists can be helpful or harmful.

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Před 2 lety +2

      Also not obeying boundaries!

  • @trip2belize
    @trip2belize Před 2 lety +5

    hey doc! i hope you have a wonderful wednesday!

  • @sekenamcmurren2217
    @sekenamcmurren2217 Před 2 lety +2

    Separating Brian Wilson from his family and friends, controlling his finances.💰 Charging exorbitant fees for "counseling"Brian Wilson. 🤔In my opinion Eugene Landy was a perfect example of a cult leader minus the sexual abuse part. Definitely no Good Vibrations" from this Quack.🦆Thank you for your analysis Dr.G 👩

  • @madelinehoyle1059
    @madelinehoyle1059 Před 2 lety +2

    "Wouldn't it be nice if Gene was out of the picture?" Is this another Beach Boys reference? lol

  • @bonniegeppert3912
    @bonniegeppert3912 Před 2 lety +1

    Seems a lot of comparisons can be drawn between Eugene Landy and TV personality Phil McGraw. Scary the manipulation tactics both these men use on vulnerable people. Great analysis as always Dr. Grande!!

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety

      True, but at least Phil didn't move in with anyone. Not that I like Phil. He's a fraud, too.

  • @MithraSemiramis
    @MithraSemiramis Před 2 lety

    yay!!! I'm excited for this one. thanks, Dr. Grande ☺️

  • @3ombieautopilot
    @3ombieautopilot Před 2 lety +9

    Dr Grande, great video as usual. Could talk about some great examples where people overcame their own fears, depression or other psychological issues and became healthy? Is it even possible that such people exist?

  • @thinkingmoment
    @thinkingmoment Před 2 lety +1

    Very intriguing case and great analysis.
    Thank you, Dr. Grande.

  • @MichelleCWeber
    @MichelleCWeber Před 2 lety +2

    I can just think how the relationship with Brian was similar to the relationship Dennis had with Manson. Codependency is strOng in this family.

  • @brianf1132
    @brianf1132 Před 2 lety +1

    Another great video and analysis, Doc. I love this channel.

  • @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata
    @user-cs1un6sp1wRennata Před 2 lety +4

    Another great analysis.Thank you Dr. Grande!

  • @wendiwonderly1419
    @wendiwonderly1419 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for doing this episode. It’s particularly relevant now with the guardian abuse we’ve seen with. Britney Spears. Without the intervention of Eugene Landry and James spears these people would probably be dead. The problem became the lack of oversight and boundaries. Even with initial good intentions there was too much room to devolve into client exploitation. Brian benefitted greatly from having a wife who had his best interests at heart. I hope Britney finds the same

  • @llaneloc
    @llaneloc Před 2 lety +1

    People wonder why certain well known people are stand-offish and as Dr Grande says: they are continually approached by people who want to take secondary gain from them

  • @daveatkins3568
    @daveatkins3568 Před 2 lety +4

    Another great video DOC😎

  • @mrs.reluctant4095
    @mrs.reluctant4095 Před 2 lety +9

    Juhu!* Our doctor is back into therapy! Christmas is coming closer. Great idea, doctor. 🙂
    * means "Yay"

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety +1

      The doctor is in! Love it! 😙

    • @bthomson
      @bthomson Před 2 lety +1

      Mrs. R - Now we learned something! Thanks!

  • @nutellabrot9047
    @nutellabrot9047 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for another great Video 😃

  • @DenaDeniseRush
    @DenaDeniseRush Před 2 lety +26

    I have a question @ Dr. Todd Grande 🙋🏼‍♀️ Do you think that some individuals go into the mental health field because they KNOW they will hsve access to emotionally vulnerable patients that they can exploit? Not unlike some members of the clergy or law enforcement or educators do? Never mind. I think I just answered my own question. A person with a predatory nature will do whatever they can - including going into a certain career field- to be in charge of vulnerable people they can exploit. 👿

    • @stewartnelson5381
      @stewartnelson5381 Před 2 lety

      Hi Dena how are you doing?

    • @sisuguillam5109
      @sisuguillam5109 Před 2 lety +1

      @@stewartnelson5381 stop it. You are spamming the comment section trying to chat people up.
      Consider yourself reported.

    • @u.a.c.9936
      @u.a.c.9936 Před 2 lety +4

      Dena , I agree with you no profession is free of predators preying on and taking advantage of the vulnerable.

  • @kelliearnold8498
    @kelliearnold8498 Před 2 lety +1

    Very interesting. Amazing job. I love how you use part of the hit songs in this video.

  • @leonievanheerden7090
    @leonievanheerden7090 Před 2 lety

    As always thank you Dr Grande for your insightful video, and good vibrations to you too 💐🌷

  • @DavidDeeble
    @DavidDeeble Před 2 lety +1

    I don't know where but your analysis sends me there, Dr. Grande.

  • @LDiamondz
    @LDiamondz Před 2 lety +19

    This guy sounds like he wanted to BE Brian Wilson. Or at least control him enough so he could live his lifestyle. Psychologists shouldn't have much outside contact with their patients. If there's a emergency, yes. Otherwise, no. But, it's famous people, so anything goes. I could see this situation happening again. Sad. I was hoping you'd do this one. It was great! Thanks. ☺

    • @matissetrixie7796
      @matissetrixie7796 Před 2 lety +4

      Very interesting point of view. I felt so sorry for Brian who really needed help.

    • @LDiamondz
      @LDiamondz Před 2 lety +3

      @@matissetrixie7796 I agree. He really needed help, and he just got abused by this so called psychologist. If he had a good therapist, he might have gotten so much better and so much quicker. It's very sad for Brian.

  • @miriamorwin7603
    @miriamorwin7603 Před 2 lety

    An excellent assessment - following a brilliant and consistent format. very enjoyable.

  • @BlueHaze7024
    @BlueHaze7024 Před 2 lety +2

    Brian Wilson was in bad shape in the late 1960's-1970's but he did get better and survive unlike many musicians of his era. Did Landy cure Brian Wilson? Obviously Landy was not a good guy but today Brian Wilson is alive and doing okay so it is possible he saved his life.

  • @kayanjajoan8311
    @kayanjajoan8311 Před 2 lety +3

    Thanks for the content

  • @busterbiloxi3833
    @busterbiloxi3833 Před 2 lety +1

    "Wouldn't it be nice?" Brilliant!

  • @hedleybutler9706
    @hedleybutler9706 Před 2 lety

    Oh thank you for your perspective on this Doc!

  • @awfutz
    @awfutz Před 2 lety

    Very glad youve done this case/relationship. Thank you

  • @christinley5213
    @christinley5213 Před 2 lety

    Always interesting doc.. idk where you find these cases.. but keep up the good work!!;)

  • @wiseauserious8750
    @wiseauserious8750 Před 2 lety +4

    Plaid on point as per usual 👍

  • @kathrynturnbull990
    @kathrynturnbull990 Před 2 lety

    SO glad I trawled through your archives cause I was going to ask you to do this case if you had not already! Just found your channel a few days ago and enjoy it very much.

  • @maximinoblas1171
    @maximinoblas1171 Před 2 lety +4

    A hundred blessings for everyone 🙏 ✨ 💛 ❤ 🙌 💓

  • @ericbiggz7004
    @ericbiggz7004 Před 2 lety +1

    It's cases like this that highlights why it is so important that we must achieve socialized medicine in the United States. Healthcare in the profit motive create a predatory system.

  • @benbroderick1422
    @benbroderick1422 Před 2 lety

    I can’t get over how many different shirts you have. Great analysis! I’ve always had an interest in Brian Wilson and his life.

  • @AMYBIERHAUS
    @AMYBIERHAUS Před 2 lety +3

    I caught the line "Wouldn't it be Nice" ... hahahaaaaa! 🤣

  • @lucillecampos6580
    @lucillecampos6580 Před 2 lety +1

    Dr. Landy was my doctor when I was 15, at gateways hospital. He was a caring compassionate doctor who cared about his patients. He was anti drug. Dr. Landy always kept family members away, because he felt that's where your problems began. I wonder why didn't Melinda and his family help Brian when he was 300 hundred pounds and totally catatonic. After dr. Landy worked hard to get him well. And save his life. Then his family and Melinda tried to get the credit for getting Brian well. Everyone in group therapy absolutely loved dr. Landy. He was very straightforward and blunt. He was a great influence on my life and a good doctor.

    • @SaintKines
      @SaintKines Před 5 měsíci

      He was a good doctor and did get good results. There is no excuse for getting Brian to make him an ”artistic partner". That alone is such an abusive and exploitive move that he should've been ashamed of himself for even having the conversation about it.