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  • @lapriseml
    @lapriseml Před 10 měsíci +95605

    “im so happy that we’re all together” this melted my heart. i wish you the best

    • @shime101
      @shime101 Před 10 měsíci +623

      When she said, "As long as you don't leave me". 😢

    • @debbieharris5667
      @debbieharris5667 Před 10 měsíci +139

      She's just the sweetest ❤

    • @pommie5093
      @pommie5093 Před 10 měsíci +86

      mine too, brought tears to my eyes

    • @barbaratatton3855
      @barbaratatton3855 Před 10 měsíci +41

      ❤ yes.

    • @darnellkohn8887
      @darnellkohn8887 Před 10 měsíci +152

      I had a lump in my throat watching this.
      Also a reality check. I just got diagnosed with dementia. I am 57. Dreading the day I get bad. Really scary. Much love to you and your family. I look forward to watching your videos. Wished my kids could care one ounce for me as much as you care about your grandma ❤.

  • @janejones5362
    @janejones5362 Před 7 měsíci +3677

    The fact that she has lived so long, and no dementia for most of that time, is awesome. It must be scary for her.

    • @Rafaelplayschess
      @Rafaelplayschess Před 5 měsíci +7

      How old is she

    • @silis4645
      @silis4645 Před 5 měsíci +25

      ​@@Rafaelplayschess96

    • @cheekymin8447
      @cheekymin8447 Před 5 měsíci +26

      ​@@silis4645i think she just turned 97?

    • @judithgrace9850
      @judithgrace9850 Před 5 měsíci +36

      @@cheekymin8447 what a blessing. It happen to my great grandma at 99. And she died at 106, but could walk

    • @user-zh8gv5fp1r
      @user-zh8gv5fp1r Před 5 měsíci

      ​@@Rafaelplayschessaround 96-97

  • @KellAllH8rs
    @KellAllH8rs Před 5 měsíci +1117

    I love that you’re caring for her. You’re a good man.

    • @BEASTMOTHER
      @BEASTMOTHER Před 4 měsíci +2

      whooooo careeeees

    • @CL-bm7bs
      @CL-bm7bs Před 4 měsíci +12

      ​@@BEASTMOTHERYour name says it all. You're a monster

    • @BEASTMOTHER
      @BEASTMOTHER Před 4 měsíci

      @@CL-bm7bs GRRRRRR ROOOOOOOOAAAAAAAAAAARRRRR

    • @bradenmiley8495
      @bradenmiley8495 Před 4 měsíci +2

      @@CL-bm7bs Jesus is God

    • @CL-bm7bs
      @CL-bm7bs Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@bradenmiley8495 And why do you say this to me?

  • @ruthcalfee7868
    @ruthcalfee7868 Před 5 měsíci +104

    My best memory of my Grandmother was when she recognized me after two years of not knowing who I was!!! It’s something I will cherish forever! Savor every moment and God bless you all! ❤❤❤

  • @ShadowWolf7273
    @ShadowWolf7273 Před 10 měsíci +6343

    My grandma has dementia. Even when her brain forgets, her heart will never forget. Just be in her world with her, even when she’s wrong or confused. She’s lucky to have you!

    • @rainbowArsonal
      @rainbowArsonal Před 10 měsíci +115

      My great grandma recently passed after suffering dementia. The most touching thing was one of the very last times I saw her before her passing (covid kept me from visiting a bit more often) she had already gone completely blind in both eyes. She reached for and took my hands in hers and kept telling me over and over again how beautiful I was. I was pretty close to her my whole life despite only seeing her sparcely. Rest in peace grandma tutu

    • @lisaladybug8975
      @lisaladybug8975 Před 10 měsíci +17

      I 💯 agree with you!

    • @cake94309
      @cake94309 Před 10 měsíci +45

      100%. My grandma who i was close with my whole life has no idea who i am anymore, the dementia started when i was pregnant and she was so excited to meet her great grand baby. By the time he was born she had no idea who he was. I saw her recently (sadly i live in another state) the love she had in her eyes for my son and she was worried about him running around the nursing home incase he got hurt and when i told her i loved her i could tell she meant it when she said it back even though she was looking at me like she was wondering who i was

    • @thats_cap552
      @thats_cap552 Před 10 měsíci +19

      @@cake94309my great Aunt has it as well, she’s like my 3rd grandma tho, used to come to our house every Tuesday and me and my siblings would have double sleepovers at her and my great uncles house, now she doesn’t remember any of us but I’m glad we got to spend that time with her when she was still so bubbly and lively 💗

    • @jennifervann7204
      @jennifervann7204 Před 10 měsíci +23

      My grandmother who practically raised me has no idea who I am anymore. When she met her granddaughter all she could say was “baby, what a pretty baby”. She’s no longer speaking much but one of the last things she told me was that she wished she had more time to get to know me because I seemed like such a sweet girl. Enjoy these times as much as you can, even through the heartbreak.

  • @stopgettingsaltinyourpanties
    @stopgettingsaltinyourpanties Před 10 měsíci +2746

    My grandmother is 95 and is the same way. It is difficult but I thank God he let her survive this long. Grandparents are a gift and she's the only grandparent I have left.

    • @shell7142
      @shell7142 Před 10 měsíci +22

      May God bless you and your grandmother ❤ grandparents truly are a blessing. I only have one who don’t care to see me or my family. My parents have a wonderful relationship with my kiddo and for that I’m so grateful :)

    • @reyespenide
      @reyespenide Před 10 měsíci +13

      Look after her and enjoy time with her as much as you can. Both my grandmothers died in 2011 while I was already living abroad and I wish I had called them more often and recorded some of our conversations😔

    • @stopgettingsaltinyourpanties
      @stopgettingsaltinyourpanties Před 10 měsíci +4

      @reyespenide3217 i see her often bc she lives 2 blocks away from me. sorry to hear that. They know you loved them tho❤️ my other grandma died 4 years ago, and the only grandpa I ever knew only was around until I was 8.

    • @notaperson9831
      @notaperson9831 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Just lost my last grandparent a few months ago. It still feels like they’re all here 💔

    • @stopgettingsaltinyourpanties
      @stopgettingsaltinyourpanties Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@notaperson9831 I'm sorry for your loss. They're with you in spirit.❤️

  • @user-un1oe5if3s
    @user-un1oe5if3s Před 4 měsíci +166

    You are an absolute angel! Your Grandma is most fortunate to have you, and she's as cute as a button and you can still see her spunky personality!

  • @jenniferpoitier
    @jenniferpoitier Před 4 měsíci +53

    I love what you’re doing and sharing with the world. My grammy passed at 93 i was by her side!! So precious

  • @amyrohleder6697
    @amyrohleder6697 Před 10 měsíci +8054

    Despite her dementia, she still has her sensory experiences. I’m sorry her memory is going. You’re an inspiration to me as a care provider!

    • @janeroberts1354
      @janeroberts1354 Před 10 měsíci +33

      I just think of her age and how many memories are there.....

    • @patriciaboedeker1779
      @patriciaboedeker1779 Před 10 měsíci +55

      I'm an RN and you make me so proud of you caring so vividly and lovingly. People need to see how to actually show others you care.

    • @amberalden4965
      @amberalden4965 Před 10 měsíci +23

      He's a gem. Bro a fucking gem

    • @MsTinkerbelle87
      @MsTinkerbelle87 Před 10 měsíci +9

      @@amberalden4965role model!

    • @lisajackson6094
      @lisajackson6094 Před 10 měsíci +7

      God bless him for what he is doing!!!!
      And a side note,"He is Calente"!!!🔥

  • @locoHAWAIIANkane
    @locoHAWAIIANkane Před 10 měsíci +6372

    😢😢When she said “as long as you never leave me”, I broke. Those were the exact words my mother told me after she was diagnosed with Lewy Body dementia. Embrace these moments now brother. I’m so very sorry to hear this and I pray your days are filled with the fondest of memories and making new ones. God bless you!

    • @GreenDayTFB
      @GreenDayTFB Před 10 měsíci +75

      My grandma had that too. It's brutal but I appreciate all the time we had with her before and after the disease

    • @starsonapollo5281
      @starsonapollo5281 Před 10 měsíci +31

      Ah, that's so sad to hear, wishing you love

    • @locoHAWAIIANkane
      @locoHAWAIIANkane Před 10 měsíci +21

      @@GreenDayTFB I’m so so sorry to learn of this. Did you do any kind of therapy with support groups during or after her illness? I never did during but damn I’m glad I enrolled after my mom passed. I’m still a mess!

    • @locoHAWAIIANkane
      @locoHAWAIIANkane Před 10 měsíci +8

      @@starsonapollo5281 🙏🏽 Mahalo nui! And the same to you and yours

    • @sarahmichell2438
      @sarahmichell2438 Před 10 měsíci +26

      Agree 100%. I love watching these because "Grandma," seems so similar to my mother. They're both tiny but mighty prayer warriors. I'm the youngest of ten (yes we're Catholic). The last 2½ years have been so hard. Every day was a new adventure with my mom. She was the matriarch of 82 family members. She died over Thanksgiving (2022) weekend and we're all deep in grief.
      Now we shifted as we're tending to our father's psychological and physical needs.
      He's lost without his one love over 70 yrs.
      Be there as much as possible, because it's impossible to stop the end of life. These are precious moments in time. God bless you all. 😢 Remember to cry so all can see your rainbow.

  • @koala2464
    @koala2464 Před 3 měsíci +39

    It’s so beautiful you could all be there together, caring for each other as Grandma passes. What a precious and noble decision of you to help care for her. My brother and I are doing the same for my mother too. We live with her 8 hours away from our own families. Almost 3 years now. Hopefully my mother will pass, in her home, as Grandma has with loving people around her. Thank you Chris for showing us what unconditional love is. I wish you all peace during this time. 🤗

  • @Emetris
    @Emetris Před 4 měsíci +23

    This hurt. My stepgrandma got alzheimer and it was awful to see her deteriorate, but the tiny moments with full clarity was a blessing!

    • @MrKarma.
      @MrKarma. Před měsícem

      My grandpa had the same thing

  • @SusanLu59
    @SusanLu59 Před 10 měsíci +4638

    Her mind might forget you, but her heart never will. You are an amazing human being. Many blessings to you and Grandma.

  • @sharonzernia6100
    @sharonzernia6100 Před 10 měsíci +10137

    What an absolutely loving grandson.

    • @davidsoukup138
      @davidsoukup138 Před 10 měsíci +13

      😌

    • @elianasolosxx
      @elianasolosxx Před 10 měsíci +21

      i ruined the 666th like bc this comments too good to be cursed

    • @MinuteRecapped
      @MinuteRecapped Před 10 měsíci +17

      yes recording her talking about this, what love

    • @amaryllis2836
      @amaryllis2836 Před 10 měsíci +91

      ​@@MinuteRecappedoh my fucking god the internet just cant stay positive for one fucking second, why is it so hard to not bring the mood down??

    • @kiyu3229
      @kiyu3229 Před 10 měsíci +55

      ​@@MinuteRecappedhe is just sharing with the internet instead of all of it being lost when she dies

  • @davidmcintosh4012
    @davidmcintosh4012 Před 5 měsíci +14

    I love what your doing man. I take care of my grandma also, and I'm thankfull for every day I have with her. Don't ever stop doing what you can for her bud. I think the fact that she knows your there for her means everything.

    • @bunnycox1046
      @bunnycox1046 Před 3 měsíci

      GOOD FOR YOU. I KNOW ITS HARD BUT YOU ARE DOING A WONDERFUL THING. BLESSINGS WILL COME

  • @maryf.27
    @maryf.27 Před 4 měsíci +9

    Ok. I just LOVE his Grandma. Listen to how much she loves him. Heartwarming.

  • @businessraptor127
    @businessraptor127 Před 10 měsíci +4525

    It's unreal feeling watching someone who loved and cared for you slowly forget who you are... you are a hero man.

    • @EMPRYMV
      @EMPRYMV Před 10 měsíci +64

      Happend to my great grandma. We were vest friends and I used to always play superheroes with her. She had Alzheimer's, but i remember she would smile whenever she saw me.

    • @dark_lord_robbe
      @dark_lord_robbe Před 10 měsíci +27

      ​@@EMPRYMVMy grandma is beginning to show signs of dementia right now it's only small things but the doctor said it will get worse.

    • @Theintrovertednow
      @Theintrovertednow Před 10 měsíci +27

      Happened to my dad before he died made me lose it especially when he said i may not remember your name or who you are to me but i know i love you in heart ive been saying hug your loved ones as often as you can cuz your never known when it be the last time you can

    • @stucatzoyyz
      @stucatzoyyz Před 10 měsíci +8

      yeah it’s the worst pain

    • @fmailscammer
      @fmailscammer Před 10 měsíci +9

      @@dark_lord_robbeI’m no expert, but talking to my grandfather about his memories or stories he told me even though he might not remember them seemed to get a little bit of his “real self” to come back and chuckle at the stories.

  • @Thelandoftoaster
    @Thelandoftoaster Před 10 měsíci +2735

    She's literally the best cared for and happiest elder I've ever seen

    • @nyxx5357
      @nyxx5357 Před 10 měsíci +73

      Right?? No bed sores, no sunken eyes from dehydration, not confused or afraid.. She looks great, considering the circumstances.

    • @DavidHosey1
      @DavidHosey1 Před 10 měsíci +11

      That’s surprising, cause most elders I know are in much better shape than needing to be cared for. Centennials and above can and do look much less aged, can walk, and often have no real issues health-wise that would require them to be cared for outside of their normal self-sufficiency. It’s honestly kinda sad whenever someone has to be cared for so actively, as it’s not the most common/preferred thing for anyone
      Either way, glad he’s there for her!

    • @1940-Westinghouse-Flip-Toaster
      @1940-Westinghouse-Flip-Toaster Před 10 měsíci

      @@DavidHosey1cause they aren’t rotting from the inside out yet you actual clown , and if she’s talking about the best elder she’s seen that’s being taken care of elders that aren’t being taken care of have nothing to do with this , get some friends

    • @losfromla1480
      @losfromla1480 Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@DavidHosey1probably a lifetime of a bad diet has caught up with her.

    • @DavidHosey1
      @DavidHosey1 Před 10 měsíci

      @@losfromla1480 fair lol

  • @idkwatimdoing8
    @idkwatimdoing8 Před 4 měsíci +58

    My grandma had dementia, I never really got to know her, but I loved her so much. Treasure this time you have while you still can ❤

  • @joaquincapiro8919
    @joaquincapiro8919 Před 3 měsíci +5

    As caregivers we can so relate. She’s at peace now and alert as ever. 🌹

  • @dagmawiasfaw2286
    @dagmawiasfaw2286 Před 9 měsíci +2693

    Bro I’m so happy seeing a young guy like you take care of his grandma. God bless you.

    • @Autumnpearly
      @Autumnpearly Před 9 měsíci +34

      That’s how Asians treat their elderly. It’s the circle of life. She took care of him when he was vulnerable and now it’s his turn to do the same.

    • @Peter-uo9km
      @Peter-uo9km Před 9 měsíci +7

      ​@Autumnpearly I feel bad I didn't do a good job for my dad but no one else helped...

    • @freddiemontanez8461
      @freddiemontanez8461 Před 9 měsíci +6

      Me too. Thanks for your love for grandma.

    • @mc_mods6105
      @mc_mods6105 Před 9 měsíci +4

      ​@@Peter-uo9kmyou gotta do it yourself dont follow the few

    • @Peter-uo9km
      @Peter-uo9km Před 9 měsíci +7

      @mc_mods6105 people like this are the few.... most people don't tale care of their elders they put them into old homes....to be abused...

  • @susiehuckaby5097
    @susiehuckaby5097 Před 10 měsíci +1813

    I'm so happy she still has good days. Grandma's are gifts from heaven.

    • @AdaAdaAdanna
      @AdaAdaAdanna Před 10 měsíci +17

      And some of them are spawned from hell

    • @xelaroid4581
      @xelaroid4581 Před 10 měsíci +3

      ​@@AdaAdaAdanna💀💀

    • @CrayonConoisseur
      @CrayonConoisseur Před 10 měsíci

      Not all. My bitch of a grandma can attest to that. I wish I had a normal grandma ngl

    • @stonedfloridaman3901
      @stonedfloridaman3901 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@AdaAdaAdannamine was satan right hand man

  • @dajw7540
    @dajw7540 Před 12 dny +2

    That sweet little lady obviously loved you and her family so dearly. I hope to meet her in Heaven when we get there.

  • @sibujoy
    @sibujoy Před 13 dny +4

    R.I.P Grandma well miss you ❤️

  • @recklessstaghomestead
    @recklessstaghomestead Před 10 měsíci +2850

    She lives you so much. Every grandparent should be lucky enough to have grandchildren like you.

    • @phobos5475
      @phobos5475 Před 10 měsíci +24

      @@slimexrobloxwow bro why not look at the letter to the right of ‘I’ on the keyboard

    • @ltcheesehead
      @ltcheesehead Před 10 měsíci +11

      @@slimexrobloxJust a simple typo, best to remember the word they're trying to spell out.

    • @dr.emmanuelpatrickinwang4247
      @dr.emmanuelpatrickinwang4247 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@slimexroblox🤓

    • @weenieshnitzel4958
      @weenieshnitzel4958 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@phobos5475they said not to be rude

    • @LlamaThatLoves
      @LlamaThatLoves Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@slimexrobloxread the room

  • @tommiegirl2441
    @tommiegirl2441 Před 10 měsíci +1585

    "I'm so happy that we're all together." Sigh... Grandma makes me cry. Such gratitude! Dementia sucks... but it's still her in there, for sure. Love her so much!

    • @Crowski
      @Crowski Před 10 měsíci +6

      I take care of my grandmother and she says the same thing.
      She’s happy I’m here with her and we’re together.
      I get to see her every morning and night and listen to her stories. ❤❤❤

  • @MYSTIC_cod_gaming
    @MYSTIC_cod_gaming Před 3 měsíci +1

    Watching you with your Grandma heals pieces of my heart. My father is in a nursing home right now with dementia. Not everyone has the same circumstances and abilities to be able to take care of love ones that need this level of care. As well as other conditions. Everyday is so difficult and I miss him so much even tho he is still here. This year has wore me down I can barely recognize myself. We speak on the phone and I visit but I don’t feel it is enough and I cry almost everyday. Watching all the amazing things you have done for and with Grandma gives me hope. Maybe one day. I’m grateful there are loving people like you and everyone that actually care. Thank you so much for being you and sharing

  • @Bobbieyounce
    @Bobbieyounce Před 21 dnem +2

    Im watching this older video and really miss seeing Grandma! Such and wonderful Lady! She's with our Jesus now! Thankyou Chris for all you did for your beautiful Grandma!

  • @seanroberson8688
    @seanroberson8688 Před 10 měsíci +1852

    Aye my brother. Just know your mere presence is enough to make her feel safe and happy. I cannot come to think of the words I should, I'm left almost speechless. Your kindness should be idolized.

  • @salt4hatersmaitre702
    @salt4hatersmaitre702 Před 10 měsíci +1520

    "As long as you don't leave me' that was so touching and kind, i wish her the the best and to you too.

    • @22marioyj19
      @22marioyj19 Před 10 měsíci +7

      @@DmoneyIndustrybros a sniper wolf fan girl 😂 lmao expected from one of you weirdos haha

  • @RachelleAllain
    @RachelleAllain Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are so special, grandson.. The world needs more like you ,trust me ,I wish I had mine..😢😢❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @dkmace1
    @dkmace1 Před 4 měsíci +2

    😢Bless you. Both my mother in law and mother suffered from cognitive decline, you are her treasure!

  • @dapperdan2658
    @dapperdan2658 Před 10 měsíci +738

    This is a real man.
    So caring, loving, devotional. Not afraid to show his feelings.

    • @vikkkstar
      @vikkkstar Před 10 měsíci +6

      Yeah. He's like what I want, what I need to be. I'm glad there are still real men in this world.

    • @Realness4sho
      @Realness4sho Před 9 měsíci +1

    • @IPlayLegends
      @IPlayLegends Před 9 měsíci

      People need to stop thinking that "real men" are all strong and emotionless. Like we've done everything for you, what more do you want?

    • @PointAndLaughx
      @PointAndLaughx Před 9 měsíci

      @@IPlayLegendslmfao what have YOU done 😂

    • @spaghettimkay5795
      @spaghettimkay5795 Před 9 měsíci

      ​@@PointAndLaughxYou just need to be a narcissistic little weasel, dont you?
      Men have built the society in which you can so comfortably exist. Show some gratitude.

  • @thomaschristopherwhite9043
    @thomaschristopherwhite9043 Před 10 měsíci +751

    I'm just happy she knows she's being cared for by the people she brought into this world.

    • @jaystaley2560
      @jaystaley2560 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Seriously! I cannot imagine a more fulfilling, proud feeling!

  • @angelinewanambi3571
    @angelinewanambi3571 Před 4 měsíci +9

    I so happy you're grandmother and you two god bless

  • @tjmcqueen7270
    @tjmcqueen7270 Před 4 měsíci +2

    She loves her grandson and he loves his grandma. What a lovely family.

  • @kejean12
    @kejean12 Před 10 měsíci +786

    Kids who take care of their elders like this are real heroes. It's very hard to watch a loved one decline and to take care of them too. It's not an easy job.

    • @wardxg579
      @wardxg579 Před 10 měsíci +14

      Wat scares me the most is how fast it can all be, one month you're moving them into your place to take care of them, the next month they're lying in a hospice bed at death's door. It's hard to see someone you love slowly deteriorate like that

    • @ande6372
      @ande6372 Před 10 měsíci +1

      But why's he talking about her like she isn't right there lol 😂

    • @ToriTilla
      @ToriTilla Před 10 měsíci +2

      ​@@ande6372She doesn't properly know english.

    • @user-cm9nn6kx4k
      @user-cm9nn6kx4k Před 10 měsíci +2

      Having just lost my mother to cancer after 15 years of gruelling treatments and deterioration, I completely agree. I actually don't really know who I am anymore without my caring role. All kinds of loss associated with it. 😞

    • @missophelie3781
      @missophelie3781 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Thank you!❤ I've taken care of both my grandma (Alzheimer's+dementia) and my dad (who passed away from generalised cancer last year).

  • @Chae_shay
    @Chae_shay Před 10 měsíci +432

    That woman must've been a spectacular mother and grandmother. She receives so much love and top notch care.

    • @buddybarnes9804
      @buddybarnes9804 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Hop she has better days. So ,beautiful how much love is in the room. May GOD and his angels be there as well. I bet she always was a sweet lady. I am thankful you have this chance of a lifetime to know her so well. You are her angel as well. Have wonderful days, make lots of memories. Sending good days!😊

  • @seraficaweis6317
    @seraficaweis6317 Před 3 měsíci +1

    How blessed is Grandma in her twilight years she feels the love of those around her.❤

  • @keshalyi
    @keshalyi Před 3 měsíci +1

    I miss grandma, hearing her voice. She's so appreciative of you. 😢

  • @APineappleKnight
    @APineappleKnight Před 10 měsíci +946

    I'm sorry Chris. It can be tough when they forget who we are but remember it's only a forgotten path in her brain, you'll always be in her heart

  • @ImDed842
    @ImDed842 Před 10 měsíci +626

    Started crying after she said that she was so happy that you were all together. Reminded me of my grandma. Rest in peace grandma.

    • @_manofreal3133
      @_manofreal3133 Před 10 měsíci +3

      My last grandparent passed last month. 92yrs. Grandma's last words were "I love you all".

    • @ElijahYaHurdd
      @ElijahYaHurdd Před 10 měsíci

      @@_manofreal3133🥲

    • @DuckyPlayzCos
      @DuckyPlayzCos Před 10 měsíci

      @@_manofreal3133sorry for ur loss

    • @tatersoup
      @tatersoup Před 3 měsíci

      Now she is with your grandma. 😢

  • @shanacampbell2682
    @shanacampbell2682 Před 3 měsíci +1

    You are A BEAUTIFUL soul for taking care of her so lovingly. I feel so terrible for the elderly who are stuck in care homes.

  • @starbucksgirl652
    @starbucksgirl652 Před 4 měsíci +36

    I am so proud of you and the love you have for her.

  • @awppackwheedle
    @awppackwheedle Před 10 měsíci +802

    My grandma recently passed away due to Alzheimers and it is a ghastly thing to watch someone go through. To anyone out there, cherish the time you have left with your loved ones. You never know when that time will be over.

    • @MTetzke
      @MTetzke Před 10 měsíci +4

      I absolutely agree.
      Be safe, be strong & remember to Love Yourself.
      🙏💪💜

    • @tamril4938
      @tamril4938 Před 10 měsíci +5

      Taking care of my mom who has Alzheimer’s, it’s a horrific situation watching the one you love deteriorate.

    • @jessicaroach5524
      @jessicaroach5524 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Same, but with my mom. I send you love 💜

    • @happycloud3861
      @happycloud3861 Před 10 měsíci +1

      I’m sorry for your loss. 💜

    • @laikinhale
      @laikinhale Před 10 měsíci +1

      Im ao sorry for your loss i lost my grandma in 2020 so I know how you feel. And im still not over it yet

  • @denineblevins2141
    @denineblevins2141 Před 10 měsíci +1358

    I’m so sorry Chris, that’s heartbreaking. Thankful for what you do, for however long you’re called to do it. Grandma is precious.

  • @ruthiecastro9519
    @ruthiecastro9519 Před 4 měsíci +1

    She is so grateful for you I can hear it in her voice .. she’s so tiny🥰 I think she loves it when you pick her up and carry’s her to bed❤.. your videos fill my heart

  • @tonilds50
    @tonilds50 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Oh, she melts my heart she's so sweet, the way you take care of her , show how well you were raised. You will be a great husband and father if you aren't already. God bless ❤🙏🫂

  • @jrzydvlgrl711
    @jrzydvlgrl711 Před 9 měsíci +537

    It's heartwarming to see a grandson taking care of his grandmom like this. It's easy to see how much he loves his grandmom.

    • @florsoliman1015
      @florsoliman1015 Před 8 měsíci

      Kasuelo ng apo atin yang apung kalupa mu, kalupa neng tatang ku buri na atin yang kayabe, asadsad kemu rin agiang asna nakung kapagal, makusuelu kung pegsilbian ke tatang ku kasi kaluguran ke. Sana kalupa na gagawan tamu kareng matua tamu akit da reng aliwa nung makananu magpahalaga Kareng matua. God bless you.

  • @user-fm8ff2bo8e
    @user-fm8ff2bo8e Před 9 měsíci +1658

    “I’m so happy we’re all together” was so wholesome

    • @JosieCat3
      @JosieCat3 Před 9 měsíci +4

      It makes all the difference in the world to spend this time with your Grandma. I took care of my mother who had dementia for five years when COVID came, and the nursing home kept 😅her away from me when she broke her hip. It was heartbreaking to see the speed of her decline when she was denied family. We were very fortunate to get her home for the last 4 months of her life!

    • @kathywoodson4906
      @kathywoodson4906 Před 9 měsíci

      Such a wonderful grandson

  • @cigalleettinger8295
    @cigalleettinger8295 Před 4 měsíci +1

    so beautiful how you are taking care of her, so gentle and respectful, she is blessed ❤

  • @luthmercado584
    @luthmercado584 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Grandma's & grandson's love for each other is amazing.Grandchildren should see this dialogue.You're so blessed Chris.

  • @Ilikecaramecandys
    @Ilikecaramecandys Před 8 měsíci +1276

    “I’m so happy that we’re all together” she’s the glue to everyone, protect herrr 😭😭💖💖💖💖

    • @InfinitiSJ
      @InfinitiSJ Před 6 měsíci +1

      ❤😊🎉

    • @Not-4-u
      @Not-4-u Před 5 měsíci +4

      I’m here captain, I have sent the finest of kind hearted people to the job. They should arrive soon. Prep the nice comments.

  • @EstiVidsza
    @EstiVidsza Před 5 měsíci +1654

    "As long as u don't leave me" melted my heart 😢😢😢❤❤❤

    • @BEASTMOTHER
      @BEASTMOTHER Před 4 měsíci +2

      whooooo careeeees

    • @lunaterra253
      @lunaterra253 Před 4 měsíci +1

      ​@@BEASTMOTHER291 people.

    • @BEASTMOTHER
      @BEASTMOTHER Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@lunaterra253 296 now. but i didnt care even once

    • @lunaterra253
      @lunaterra253 Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@BEASTMOTHER you "don't care so much" you took the time to *come back* and announce your carelessness again like it had significance in the first place, what are you trying to prove or achieve with this elder? Is there an end goal to this or is it just pointless, needing to announce it so you get a reward for not caring? 🏆 👈 heres a "idgaf" cup for your efforts, you've been acknowledged and awarded, now what....whats the next goal.

    • @lunaterra253
      @lunaterra253 Před 4 měsíci

      @@BEASTMOTHER oh no its 316 now

  • @JessicaKastanek
    @JessicaKastanek Před 2 dny

    The sweetest lady ❤😭may God heal her family. And know they will meet her again. Love you chris God's blessings upon you

  • @mischellyann
    @mischellyann Před 4 měsíci +1

    You are so kind and gentle with her.

  • @StevieLee369
    @StevieLee369 Před 10 měsíci +2024

    What's really interesting is you talking to the camera is assisting your grandmother in thinking that there's things going on around her so she feels warm and protected, loved like the action is around her and when she addresses you she feels like everything has stopped to listen to her. You are such a warm soul. Both of you.❤

    • @victoriap1649
      @victoriap1649 Před 10 měsíci +15

      That’s such a beautiful point and way of seeing things!✨

    • @LauraBethHelen
      @LauraBethHelen Před 10 měsíci +2

      Amen!!!@ ❤

    • @JuanGarcia-tb7ph
      @JuanGarcia-tb7ph Před 10 měsíci +4

      That a very insightful perspective

    • @caroljo420
      @caroljo420 Před 10 měsíci +3

      He's a good man to care for her like he does! America could take a lesson from him on compassion!!!

    • @cassafrassarole
      @cassafrassarole Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@JuanGarcia-tb7ph Agreed, I really like the way that's written

  • @johnhipp8267
    @johnhipp8267 Před 10 měsíci +510

    I really wish I could give this man a hug right now, for what he is doing for his grandmother.

  • @mimita1157
    @mimita1157 Před 3 měsíci +1

    My heart is so full of light when I see this! Thank you for truly loving your grandma and respect her needs and dignity. May God bless you all!

  • @analiza7339
    @analiza7339 Před 3 měsíci +1

    "I'm so happy that we're all together.." got teary eyed..😢 That was so touching..❤❤❤

  • @margaretcarragher6808
    @margaretcarragher6808 Před 8 měsíci +799

    The love this young man has for his grandma is so precious 🥹🥹❤️

  • @jessicap4998
    @jessicap4998 Před 10 měsíci +1944

    I lost my grandma nearly 15 years ago to dementia and still miss her. Please cherish all the time you have with her.

    • @nataliesifers2612
      @nataliesifers2612 Před 10 měsíci +19

      Omg same I lost mine 2 years ago when I was ten and the worst part of it is that once you know they have it, you know that they are never gonna get better because there is no cure

    • @unikorngirl5129
      @unikorngirl5129 Před 10 měsíci +9

      You can die becuase of dementia?❤

    • @nataliesifers2612
      @nataliesifers2612 Před 10 měsíci +12

      @unikorngirl5129 Yes because it is basically a sickness that makes you forget stuff like Littles that turn into big things like your sight, hearing, and then your breathing

    • @quieteyes307
      @quieteyes307 Před 10 měsíci +7

      Not only is he cherishing his time, he’s embracing it by actually being her full time care-taker and spending every waking moment with her. He’s a good grandson.

    • @user-bw5np1ro8e
      @user-bw5np1ro8e Před 10 měsíci +1

      Same but 1 yr ago

  • @agxieduxie2640
    @agxieduxie2640 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Whenever i misses Granma's voice...i watch all ur vlogs talking to her...❤

  • @georgelewis8798
    @georgelewis8798 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Bless this caring Grandson ❤️

  • @ripnlips9671
    @ripnlips9671 Před 10 měsíci +1038

    This has me crying right now. Man, I'm so sorry your grandma is going through this. I am wishing the best for your family.

    • @chiiCznn
      @chiiCznn Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@SoundMoney-ms4odor that’s his grandmother and he’s her caregiver…

    • @chiiCznn
      @chiiCznn Před 10 měsíci

      @@SoundMoney-ms4od czcams.com/users/shorts8_xt-NG1eTk?feature=share💀

    • @Sergeantflips
      @Sergeantflips Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@SoundMoney-ms4odit’s literally his grandma that he takes care of, he became a care giver to take care of his grandma

    • @Krystal-O
      @Krystal-O Před 10 měsíci +1

      ​@@SoundMoney-ms4od
      What a weird hill to get upity about.. I'm pretty sure he's mentioned living there, they speak the same languages. And his Grandma only remembers him sometimes as her grandson. The other grandma helps too sometimes.
      I'M a nurse and do caregiving. If this was his actual patient, HOLY SHIT the amount of HIPPA violations. It can really only be his relative.

  • @thefourthhorsemanwithornam9314
    @thefourthhorsemanwithornam9314 Před 10 měsíci +749

    My grandmother had some real rough dementia. She passed last November. She practically raised me and is much of the reason I am who I am. I’ll never stop being thankful that I spent as much time as I possibly could with her before she was gone.

    • @SixtoPoca
      @SixtoPoca Před 10 měsíci +3

      RIP to your grandmother. I lost mine this past February.

    • @BEAPENGY
      @BEAPENGY Před 10 měsíci +1

      I hope you’re doing ok now 😢
      R.I.P to your grandmother

    • @sabrina_bean7622
      @sabrina_bean7622 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Im sorry for your loss. Im sure you'll see each other again in paradise ❤

    • @JDXT_2T
      @JDXT_2T Před 10 měsíci +1

      R.I.P🕊️❤

    • @D3nn1s
      @D3nn1s Před 10 měsíci

      Same for mine. They stay in our heart for the rest of our lives though and hopefully well be the same to our grandkids one day.

  • @Celimar-369infinity
    @Celimar-369infinity Před 4 měsíci +1

    As long as we’re together just melted 😢 my heart. You’re blessed for taking care of grandma.

  • @lindamellocastro4533
    @lindamellocastro4533 Před 9 dny

    ❤She is so sweet and loving.... and you are such a loving grandson... God bless you❤

  • @CrossbredManiac
    @CrossbredManiac Před 10 měsíci +1382

    Thank you for being with her in this rough time in life. You have a very kind soul and two very strong arms.

  • @susim4503
    @susim4503 Před 10 měsíci +353

    I care for my 95 year old mum. The thing that breaks my heart is seeing her confusion and fear when she doesn't understand what is going on. They really need so much gentle care. You are doing such a lovely job with your Grandma and you help all of us a great deal. Thank you.

    • @peach2210
      @peach2210 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Sending love💜 please dont forget to care for yourself too💜

    • @sakitoby1581
      @sakitoby1581 Před 10 měsíci +4

      ​@@peach2210Yes absolutely. Carers need to remember that they will give better care if they are not completely burnt and exhausted. Self care matters!!! ❤

  • @joantaye266
    @joantaye266 Před 4 měsíci +1

    I admire you alot dude. Keeping her active with conversation is the best guy. You are a rare gem. ❤❤

  • @madisaldana
    @madisaldana Před 5 měsíci +5

    I know how you feel, my grandma on my dad’s side had dementia for a long time before she passed, it’s incredibly difficult to watch someone you love go through that. But I am here for you and grandma, this whole community is here for you and grandma! Hopefully we can provide some joy for you, and help get you through the hard times❤️

    • @BEASTMOTHER
      @BEASTMOTHER Před 4 měsíci

      whooooo careeeees

    • @madisaldana
      @madisaldana Před 4 měsíci +1

      @@BEASTMOTHER that’s incredibly rude. I really hope you find something better to do with your life than talking down to random people on the internet for enjoyment, that’s honestly just sad

    • @BEASTMOTHER
      @BEASTMOTHER Před 4 měsíci

      @@madisaldana i have a girlfriend LEAVE ME ALONE

  • @spiritsongtress
    @spiritsongtress Před 10 měsíci +1164

    Your grandma is blessed. Both of my grandmother's have passed but seeing you with yours caring for her.. It make me happy.

    • @micahepworth3321
      @micahepworth3321 Před 10 měsíci +4

      ​@@KiddJungusno, your mom's mom is one grandmother and your dad's mom is the other grandmother.

    • @Glogangdude
      @Glogangdude Před 10 měsíci

      ​@@KiddJungusno listen i still have both of them but its basically for everyone the same parents divorced or not everyone has atleast 2 grandmothers and 2 grandfathers at one point in time because ones the parents of your father and the other is the parents of your mother

    • @MistieWells-yr9tg
      @MistieWells-yr9tg Před 10 měsíci

      @@KiddJungus😂

    • @spiritsongtress
      @spiritsongtress Před 10 měsíci

      @@KiddJungus My father's mother and my mother's mother, are both no longer alive ( hence my two grand mothers)

  • @spookyhouses
    @spookyhouses Před 10 měsíci +525

    Amazing how you can feel such love for a person you only know through video. Grandma is a beautiful soul. Bless you Chris, for all you do for her.❤️

    • @jrv1672
      @jrv1672 Před 10 měsíci +4

      The miracle of feelings and emotions when we are able to experience the scope and range of loving a not-so-totally-strange someone quite profoundly even from afar. Then we realize what should be and shouldn't be. And then be able to express the value and importance of family.

    • @82566
      @82566 Před 10 měsíci +2

      It really is ,watching Grandma, I've cried a few times . i never cried for my own ... idk, but i feel so much for this beautiful lady & her sweet grandson .Their family bond and love is unbelievable i wish i had that in my own life .

  • @doloresbutler2291
    @doloresbutler2291 Před dnem

    What a nice grandson and able to lift her so nice. ❤❤

  • @francespawlitschek5634
    @francespawlitschek5634 Před 4 měsíci +1

    To many memories of my Grandmother when her dementia kicked in broke my heart yet i was the only one she could remember & call out to me😢❤

  • @beatricepickering9194
    @beatricepickering9194 Před 10 měsíci +458

    I’m so sorry my mom had signs of dementia prior to passing. Looking at the woman who gave you life and not knowing who you are is heartbreaking. Appreciate grandma on all the days you have. 💖👑💝

  • @Starlight_16
    @Starlight_16 Před 10 měsíci +906

    I'm so sorry to hear this. The hardest thing you can go through while taking care of a grandparent is when they start to lose themselves. As someone who took care of their grandmother until she died in 2021, watching her struggle with dementia was very painful; you are literally losing them in slow motion. My prayers are with you and your family.

    • @user-mg4ku7ps8u
      @user-mg4ku7ps8u Před 10 měsíci +4

      If my mother knew english I would think this was her comment😅
      (You just described her experiences)

    • @josefinau.646
      @josefinau.646 Před 10 měsíci +2

      ❤❤

    • @whyamihere2366
      @whyamihere2366 Před 10 měsíci +1

      The sad part is that this might not be dementia. Reason being it could be paranoid because she's scared of being left alone when she dies. Could have been caused by stress but the way he deal with her I think there's no way. The othere thing is it might be is a traumatic event that happened. But it does have similar signs of dementia. The only reason I know about this is that I have a great aunt who is paranoid she doesn't forget she hides info because she doesn't trust anyone it's just as bad to watch as dementia that I saw in my grandmother that's why I don't want to see my aunt in that state.

    • @l.o.2005
      @l.o.2005 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Condolences for your loss...🙏🏽🙏🏽💖

  • @kmitchell8323
    @kmitchell8323 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Thank you for this.. it's the hardest part of caregiving.

  • @karmellamoton8050
    @karmellamoton8050 Před 4 měsíci +1

    U keep ur 🗣️ up!!!!u as her grandson u r my hero... God bless u😊❤❤❤❤

  • @AutisticAthena
    @AutisticAthena Před 10 měsíci +381

    You are national treasure, young man. A testament to the amazing family that raised you.

    • @alysonlawing680
      @alysonlawing680 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Wow, what a beautiful comment. I agree, He truly is a gift to this world and to his grandmother.. without her, he would not be here. He holds high respect for her and recognizes her importance.. when she says, "i am so happy", that has to make his heart feel good. Their bond is something to be cherished.
      Thank you for being such a gentle and kind human being. This world needs more people like you 😇💙

    • @AutisticAthena
      @AutisticAthena Před 10 měsíci

      @@alysonlawing680 I am not always gentle and kind... But people like this deserve the best side of me.

  • @nargozot8043
    @nargozot8043 Před 7 měsíci +1473

    “I’m so happy that we’re all together” how did you not burst into tears, that was SO SWEET 😭😭😭 God bless your precious grandmother. To all sweet loving grandmother’s everywhere.

  • @victorialovett1608
    @victorialovett1608 Před 4 měsíci

    She is so cute! This is exactly what I needed to see today! I live with my grandparents and I have a 6month old daughter & they truly are a big help and blessing to my life and with all the downfalls I had encountered to get here today and im really grateful I have them in my life! Thanks for sharing makes me want to go hug my grandma and squeeze her tight 💜

  • @hedycarrera6097
    @hedycarrera6097 Před 3 měsíci +2

    God Bless you and your family.❤🙏 My beautiful mom was a very strong and wonderful woman. My mom was in her home in South América and one day back in 2015. I noticed my mom sat on her bed and was asking where she was. I was her caregiver and when i couldn't any more i hired help. I was there everyday with my mom. I didnt want my mom to be with people who would not care for her with respect and dignity. God Bless ❤

  • @RandomPerson-lh6cs
    @RandomPerson-lh6cs Před 10 měsíci +1124

    My grandmother recently passed away on Monday, and we had her funeral on Friday, and seeing someone care so much about their grandchildren and someone taking care of their grandmother is truly heartwarming

    • @ClandestineDuck
      @ClandestineDuck Před 10 měsíci +12

      Hey, I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope things get better for you. I live in another country than my grandma, I can’t leave to go and see her. It’s been almost 8 years since I haven’t seen her in person. I still call her every day on a regular basis, but it’s not the same. If she passes away, my heart would break. So I can understand your pain, have a good one my friend. ❤❤❤

    • @strawberryfajitas3235
      @strawberryfajitas3235 Před 10 měsíci +5

      My deepest condolences 💐 may you’re grandmother rest gracefully

    • @jessicaroach5524
      @jessicaroach5524 Před 10 měsíci +3

      Love to you, and peace ❤

    • @ViolynneWasHere
      @ViolynneWasHere Před 10 měsíci +1

      My condolences

    • @kiscrazyreptiles
      @kiscrazyreptiles Před 10 měsíci +1

      I'm so sorry for your loss. Best of luck to you and your family. Much love and prayers 💖

  • @dawnbaker9274
    @dawnbaker9274 Před 10 měsíci +343

    Thankfully she has people like you to care for her. She is a delight.

  • @unlovenotes
    @unlovenotes Před 4 měsíci +2

    The love you guys have for each other is such a ray of light in this world.

  • @yanahs.9063
    @yanahs.9063 Před dnem

    May God bless Grandma and watch over
    Your whole family.

  • @tortoisegaming4190
    @tortoisegaming4190 Před 10 měsíci +777

    Using your time to help your grandma in her final years really shows how kind you are thank you for what you are doing

  • @brandonguerra9024
    @brandonguerra9024 Před 10 měsíci +778

    Much love dude, ton of respect. I'm sure she's taught you so much growing up.

  • @tammy299
    @tammy299 Před 4 měsíci

    Thank You young man for Loving n taking care of Your grandma your very special young man, Many Blessings

  • @randyaldridge3386
    @randyaldridge3386 Před 3 měsíci +1

    she seemed to be a lovely woman who so loved being loved by her grandson. I can see her around 40 to 65. I imagine she was a force to be reckoned with. All your grand children will miss you. AvaDean

  • @kbarnettbarnett8273
    @kbarnettbarnett8273 Před 10 měsíci +323

    I love how you care for her and respect her, treating her so lovingly. You’ve been raised right to love your elders.

  • @imcrystalzapata
    @imcrystalzapata Před 10 měsíci +418

    That pat on the head.. that’s exactly how I felt about my grandma. Pure genuine love

  • @valeriemoses7433
    @valeriemoses7433 Před 3 měsíci

    Chris God bless you man. Ever since Grandma has gone to join our father in heaven, I've been rewatching all of your videos. Thank you so much for sharing your grandmother with the rest of the world. And please know we are all here for you during these trying times

  • @user-uk8bu7wr8s
    @user-uk8bu7wr8s Před 4 měsíci

    Awwwwe!!! Your a awsome and wonderful grandson!!! She is blessed!!!❤😊

  • @allpowerfulmitochondria759
    @allpowerfulmitochondria759 Před 10 měsíci +636

    The way a man treats his mama and grandma is how he’s more than likely gonna treat you. We need more men like this ❤

    • @pammiesingkho1786
      @pammiesingkho1786 Před 10 měsíci +5

      WOWWW, napakasarap namnamin ang mga salita na yan-- it's like nacacataba naman ng puso yan!!!! 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @atrias144
      @atrias144 Před 10 měsíci +6

      Why do some people have to make everything about romantic relationships? Just let him be a good person. It has nothing to do with his penis.

    • @Helloookap
      @Helloookap Před 10 měsíci +3

      we need to be like him*

    • @emmef7970
      @emmef7970 Před 10 měsíci +3

      @@atrias144 Nothing wrong with the use of the word 'man' in the poster's comment. It had nothing to do with what is between his legs. The statement probably was differentiating between the number of men vs the number of women that are caretakers of the elderly. I'd venture a guess it's women. And that word is still acceptable to most people. Yes, he's a good person but he is also a good man. Either phrase works.

    • @vvvnokk8309
      @vvvnokk8309 Před 10 měsíci

      then hoes need to start being loyal

  • @shirleypyper6743
    @shirleypyper6743 Před 10 měsíci +366

    What a lovely young man to look after his grandma. I’m sure she really appreciates it. God bless you and grandma

    • @mia53095
      @mia53095 Před 10 měsíci

      Very rare young man. The grandmother is blessed.

  • @stitchingsecurityguard
    @stitchingsecurityguard Před 3 měsíci +1

    She's so sweet❤

  • @amaliaramos548
    @amaliaramos548 Před 3 měsíci

    Grandma was so lucky having you beside her all the time..
    God Bless !!🙏🏻♥️