These stupid relationship podcast keep popping up all over the place. Now the latest hot button question is centered around a men giving women $30 for lunch. Let's discuss...
A vegan meal for just myself (vegan food is expensive af if you eat out) would cost 20-25 at the most. Needing more than 30 for lunch, not dinner, is big back behavior 😂
I'm a biological woman. There's nothing he said was wrong. If someone shoots me 30$ I would of done meal prep for work the entire week 🤷.. I would of go to the market...save more than spend
These thankless women are directly/indirectly messing things up for other sensible/grateful women. I'd turn his $30-$50 gift into meals for a week. And make him a plate🍝 to show my appreciation.💜
We grown. We have multiple mortgages, Mamanem assisted living bills, retirement savings, ect. Who are these people expecting perfect strangers to fund their lives. Send me 30 bucks for lunch Boo, cause I will return the favor tomorrow.
I’m gone keep saying the same thing about this: I’m going to Wendy’s and get me that hot 4 for $4, fill my lil tank up with $20, and have $5 to spare!! PeriodT!! 🤷🏾♀️
My cousin was a Banker and she dates a millionaire who has her set up for life! He’s one of the most dirties, hardworking men. I needed my TVs removed from the wall trying to move out of a domestic situation and he came and did it for me. I offered money and he said “I would never charge you but you can buy my employee some lunch for coming to help”. I sent him $30 and he called and said “Thanks, we can get us some Jamaican food cousin” He owns like 9 subdivisions where he builds them and he has an entire contract crew. He has a collection of Patek watches!! He’s from the islands and owns stuff there too. Anyway, I said all that to say, the millionaires ain’t even asking for no damn $100 lunch
$30? Chile', please. Take my happy ass to Aldi's, break out my five day meal prep containers, & get busy meal prepping for my work week. That's one less thing that I would have to worry about & would be more than appreciative. ❤️💯
You are spot on! For most people working “9-5 jobs” you typically have an hour for lunch so you’re eating at restaurants that can serve you within that time frame. So yes, that’s normally a sandwich shop or the likes. Someone giving you money for your lunch should be followed up immediately with a THANK YOU! These young women have a sense of entitlement and without no sense of reciprocity!!
Our lives are getting warped by stripper and City Girl culture. One of the nicest gestures I have ever received was someone bringing me a plate of dinner while working a long shift. "When you get a break, come downstairs to left side entrance" And there was dinner. I try to do this for friends/family who get stuck on holiday shifts. Some people just want to be spoiled to show off and some people truly appreciate a kind gesture when you're you need an emotional pick me up.
I love when my man sends that $20 lunch Cashapp 😂 The way I get to blushing chileee It’s not about the $$ at all, it’s the fact that I crossed his mind and he wanted to make sure I ate while he’s working HIS 12 hour shift 😩🙌🏾
It’s the entitlement that irks me. I’m 37 and know how to stretch that $30 bb. Get me a protein meat like some chicken and some fresh veggies I can sauté or put in the oven. I can fill some Tupperware for week. Don’t let the headlines fool you. A lot of women do not subscribe to this “city girl” culture.
You’re right! I’m 39 and $30 is good for me too! Women in their 30s know it’s a thought that counts. I cannot stand some of these young women. They got it all backwards.
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you even more Ms. FUNKY!!🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 DONT PLAY WITH ME! I'll go to the Dollar Tree that has a fridge/freezer section & stock up!👏🏾👏🏾 I may buy a brownie mix and take him dessert to say THANK YOU😘
My man would send me about $30. He’d probably assume that I was going to order it to be delivered. All these women that are expecting more probably have never experienced a good man and / or have never actually had a man provide anything for them. My man works hard af to provide the roof over our heads. I’m not about to take advantage of his thoughtfulness and take take take. He is in the 6 figure tax bracket but that’s money for our future with our future kids, not for dumb dinners and lunches.
Yes ma'am. Funky needs to talk about THIS side of the story also. Men create these impossible standards of beauty and go after the girl that most likely fits their fantasy of sex-toy blow-up doll looks. Then get mad when that's all there is to her.
at this point we all screwed up. between the red pill, Kevin's Samuels, Andrew tate mindset and this city girl, mentally that puts a man's money over everything else our younger generations is gonna be absolutely fvcked up. one would think some of these women would've learned from Yung miami what could happen when you prioritize getting a bag over a man's character
30 is enough for lunch. As a matter of fact, all I want to spend on lunch is 15 and nothing more. To tell you the truth, he didn't have to give her anything.
$30 is definitely enough for lunch, and I’m in Cali where gas is $5.25+… go head and send me “A GREAT WOMAN”that GREAT man sending Me lunch for 2 days. A real woman knows how to appreciate and work things out!
I have appreciated when I have received extra lunch money. Sometimes I was able to have breakfast as well. Or even had lunch for the week. Why complain? No one owes you anything. They do it because they care.
Who’s eating more than $30 worth of food in 30 minutes-a lunch break is usually that long-yes Funky they broke & want a man to pay their bills?? Very sad I would have gladly took that $30 & went to Chick Fil A
I’ve been wanting to ask this question to all of my Women (my sistahs); who share the same opinions as thoes young lady’s was discussing in their Podcast about $30.00…… Let’s call a thang a fuckin thang!!!…… How TF was y’all affording your own lunches? 🧐 Your own hair (bundles) nails, and makeup before that man came long??? Please help me understand sis! 🤔 If you dating man he is NOT obligated to take care of your ass!!! He’s not obligated to pay for your lunch for the week, let alone your Bundles, makeup, nails…. Sorry not sorry….. but when you get married that’s when your HUSBAND provides 30 dollars for your lunch for the week, or other things for his WIFE. Not when you’re dating!! Ladies! 💯💯💯 #IJS
$30 is enough for a regular lunch. Now if you go to the Cheesecake Factory and order lunch, soft drink , a slice of cheesecake to take home, tip and tax is going to put you over $30. But I love the cheesecake factory !
The thing is, I have acquaintances that men send them $100 or more random for lunches. Have paid for her and her friends to have lunch/dinner when the men aren’t there. Etc. I just think if that’s her expectation, she should say thank you and keep it pushing and if he feels she’s entitled etc then leave her alone. If she’s used to a certain way and has her standard, why is it necessary to have her settle for less. Same with him. Why should he settle for an “ungrateful “ woman outside his budget. Each person should just stay in their own lane. 🤷🏽♀️ if it’s not for you, just move on. Based off of the comments, there are more than plenty of options of women who think $30 is more than enough for lunch! 😊
I blame social media because it’s definitely brain washed people from not wanting a normal or average life experiences. I noticed many are influenced by adult entertainers and adult workers (nothing wrong with being one) who appear to have a soft lifestyle on social media; when actuality it’s not. I believe it okay to want luxury but it’s also okay want something simple too. The simplest things tend to often hold the most value 🙌🏾
They’re crazy. The amount a man gives you doesn’t matter. My husband came to my job with a Starbucks drink since I didn’t have time in the morning to buy one and with my smile you would have thought he dropped off some jewelry or something. The fact that someone was thinking about you and wanted to do something sweet for no reason says a lot about him
The real question is why the broke chick can't buy her own lunch?..... I would never ask a man to buy me anything if he offers great I'll accept but asking absolutely not!!!
These younger generation don't truly know how to survive like we did. I remember back in the day buying $1.00 worth of ham or turkey and $.50 cents worth of cheese and a pack of kool-aid. Boom!
He is hilarious but damn it if he gets a chance to go in on women. He's taking it and he is going to go hard as hell. And when that happens I go somewhere else.
$30 dollars is definitely enough for lunch, and if it aint...what Chris Tucker mama say "make it enough"😂😂
Right!!!
😂😂😂😂
More than enough. I bought two combo double cheese W fries plus one over easy egg. Cost me 30 with tax 36 dollars. That's a hamburger stand in LA.
Facts😂
A vegan meal for just myself (vegan food is expensive af if you eat out) would cost 20-25 at the most. Needing more than 30 for lunch, not dinner, is big back behavior 😂
$30 is more than enough for a nice lunch. Anything other than that is greed.
I'm a biological woman. There's nothing he said was wrong. If someone shoots me 30$ I would of done meal prep for work the entire week 🤷.. I would of go to the market...save more than spend
For real!!
What does you being a ciswoman have to do with anything? I assume that’s what you meant by “biological.”
Exactly and be greatful and appreciative
I came here to say the same. That $30 would have been lin h for the whole week.
Facts ❤️💯
Fuck that… I’m taken the $30 and buying some real groceries for lunch.
🤣 That’s the smart thing to do.
Child, me too.
Oh,yes,maam
Amen
Facts
If you can't find anything for $30 for lunch you in the wrong place 🤣
Time to move out of that area is what I would say lol
I’m a 38 year old, 6’6, 260 lb man. I typically don’t even spend $30 for lunch.
😂 I hear you girl. They need to give that girl $10 and tell her to get a happy meal and move on.😂😂😂
Bro, I hope you find a nice lady who appreciates you.
If I spend $30 on lunch at my age I feel extremely bad so I wouldn’t dare
I spent $6 for coffee and $10 for lunch tf are these bitches buying? Half the reason if you pretty and thick I’m Gucci I’m passing you byeeee
None of the dusty ass do. These conversations are so pointless. Pay for your own lunch!!
I wish I would spend $30 on lunch a day even making 6 figures, that’s ludicrous!
It is to me too. I need to bring my lunch some days.
Child $5 for a biggie bag, $25 for my tank!
😂Exactly
Say it again for the people in the back. $5.00 a day for lunch. I have to make it through the week They playing games
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
They put the price up in wendy's thanks to all the people who love saying how oh so cheap it is...wen it's a struggle for the homeless and others.
They put the price up in wendys and dollar tree everything expensive now bc ppl love giving free promo to companies and revealing their prices.
OOP! Say that FUNKY! I'm eating lunch 3-4 days in a row for $30! I ain't picky. I'm appreciative!
I know that’s right !
Hello somebody!
I didn't know adults got lunch money. I must be out of the loop 😂
i recently heard about this!!!!
What am I missing. We get lunch money now 😂😂😂.
😂😂😂😂
These thankless women are directly/indirectly messing things up for other sensible/grateful women. I'd turn his $30-$50 gift into meals for a week. And make him a plate🍝 to show my appreciation.💜
Well the guy who sent her the money should consider her rejection a blessing. He dodged a bullet🤷♀️
Exactly! Cause a decent woman would have appreciated the gesture. Because $30 is more than enough for a nice lunch.
I just saw a 3 for $10.99 Chili's commercial 🤷🏾♀️ 😂😂😂
We grown. We have multiple mortgages, Mamanem assisted living bills, retirement savings, ect. Who are these people expecting perfect strangers to fund their lives. Send me 30 bucks for lunch Boo, cause I will return the favor tomorrow.
Exactly
30 would last me 3 days for lunch. They sound ridiculous
Me too!!❤🎉
Exactly
People are weird! 😂 $30 is PLENTY for lunch! Why is this an issue?!?? Just CRAZY!
You're my kind of WOMAN💐
Men need to work on creating safe spaces for THEMSELVES so they can heal.
If you can’t afford to buy yourself lunch, you need to focus on yourself and getting a better job.
Forreal! 😒
$30 is enough. I'm eating good.
Right hella good 😅
Just spent $14 for brunch today and I ate real good. Not sure what these birds are chirping these days.
My co-workers are a bunch of doctors & a lot of them bring their own lunch from home❤
Right because anywhere you go, the lunch specials are always cheaper than regular dinner plates, and damn sure ain't $30, make it make sense
Chinese Lunch Specials be like $8.99 so $30 can certainly cover that, yes ma'am.
@@NoSauceBoss-sm6zx EXACTLY!! I'm thinking about going rite now 😂
Panda Express $13,53 lunch
I’m gone keep saying the same thing about this: I’m going to Wendy’s and get me that hot 4 for $4, fill my lil tank up with $20, and have $5 to spare!! PeriodT!! 🤷🏾♀️
I could eat lunch for the entire week on $30.00.
I would be so appreciative for the gesture.
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Me too!!!
I’m an adult and my dad randomly gave me 20 - he didn’t even know at the time how much I needed that!
See, and you were rightly appreciative of him giving you something he did not have to.
Me paying more than $15 for lunch pisses me off. So getting $30 in Memphis will get me some GOODT food . These new chicks crazy
What you said... Just spent 13.
@@suthrnbella5 and I can use the other $15 for snacks at the gas station lol
Facts!!
My cousin was a Banker and she dates a millionaire who has her set up for life! He’s one of the most dirties, hardworking men. I needed my TVs removed from the wall trying to move out of a domestic situation and he came and did it for me. I offered money and he said “I would never charge you but you can buy my employee some lunch for coming to help”.
I sent him $30 and he called and said “Thanks, we can get us some Jamaican food cousin”
He owns like 9 subdivisions where he builds them and he has an entire contract crew. He has a collection of Patek watches!! He’s from the islands and owns stuff there too.
Anyway, I said all that to say, the millionaires ain’t even asking for no damn $100 lunch
Im a straight dude and im glad you giving the real. I have to really raise my daughter to appreciate the man who tries
$30? Chile', please. Take my happy ass to Aldi's, break out my five day meal prep containers, & get busy meal prepping for my work week. That's one less thing that I would have to worry about & would be more than appreciative. ❤️💯
Thank you Funky! Women are unrealistic these days! Social media has some women thinking every man is a millionaire. Get real!
A grown woman can stretch $30 and be so appreciative❤️👏🏾
Ridiculous!! Thank you for anything that you want to bless me with. I’m grateful.
You are spot on! For most people working “9-5 jobs” you typically have an hour for lunch so you’re eating at restaurants that can serve you within that time frame. So yes, that’s normally a sandwich shop or the likes. Someone giving you money for your lunch should be followed up immediately with a THANK YOU! These young women have a sense of entitlement and without no sense of reciprocity!!
If it ain’t enough then give it to me.
Our lives are getting warped by stripper and City Girl culture. One of the nicest gestures I have ever received was someone bringing me a plate of dinner while working a long shift. "When you get a break, come downstairs to left side entrance" And there was dinner. I try to do this for friends/family who get stuck on holiday shifts. Some people just want to be spoiled to show off and some people truly appreciate a kind gesture when you're you need an emotional pick me up.
&they all look the same. the lace fronts w/ stuff pumped into their bodies. looks absolutely ridiculous😂😂
I don't get the entitlement some women express. I'm glad I'm gay.
Why does he need to buy you lunch? Pack your own… save money. How is he broke and you’re the one asking for money????
Facts. The birds are gonna call you a pick me for speaking truth.
I love when my man sends that $20 lunch Cashapp 😂 The way I get to blushing chileee
It’s not about the $$ at all, it’s the fact that I crossed his mind and he wanted to make sure I ate while he’s working HIS 12 hour shift 😩🙌🏾
$30 is enough, that’s telling of the unappreciative people whom received the money
Funky you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT!
How about they buy their own lunch and stop acting like the world owes them anything?
Exactly!!
THAT PART!!!!
That part 🎉
THAT PART EXACTLY!!!!
Absolutely 💯
My meal prep budget for lunch every week is $30….
30 is enough for lunch, dinner and a nickel bag of reefer. ☺️
😂😂😂
You ain't never lied. ❤️ 💯
City girl culture is the perfect name. I can’t relate to any of it.
$30 is more than enough for lunch. I would buy grocery and cook. Then, I would have food for dinner. Strech it out.
Not can’t read in a $12 dollar dress …😂😂😂 it’s the Fashion Nova for me 🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
$30, heck yes. I can make a picnic basket and add from my pockets two coolers and head to the park with that. ✌🏼❤️🍷
No woman who works at my office is paying over $30 to eat out for lunch, even my boss. Sis packs salads religiously 😂
It’s the entitlement that irks me. I’m 37 and know how to stretch that $30 bb. Get me a protein meat like some chicken and some fresh veggies I can sauté or put in the oven. I can fill some Tupperware for week. Don’t let the headlines fool you. A lot of women do not subscribe to this “city girl” culture.
You’re right! I’m 39 and $30 is good for me too! Women in their 30s know it’s a thought that counts. I cannot stand some of these young women. They got it all backwards.
@@librafemale all the way backwards
Not a 12 dollar dress with a 30 dollar lunch appetite!! I'm dead lol
The way Armand articulated this in foxsoul I hated it. Funky put it in perspective and said it better, I see the point
Yes, marketing team slicing up topics from live videos and make another video and another coin! I love it❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ you even more Ms. FUNKY!!🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
DONT PLAY WITH ME! I'll go to the Dollar Tree that has a fridge/freezer section & stock up!👏🏾👏🏾
I may buy a brownie mix and take him dessert to say THANK YOU😘
LET EM' KNOW, HUN! ❤💯
Id try and stretch that $30 for the rest of the week! I’m so thrifty I was making my lunch and taking it to work!
I dont even wanna spend over 20 for lunch
I make a lot of money and even I don't eat $30 lunches on a regular weekday.
My man would send me about $30. He’d probably assume that I was going to order it to be delivered. All these women that are expecting more probably have never experienced a good man and / or have never actually had a man provide anything for them. My man works hard af to provide the roof over our heads. I’m not about to take advantage of his thoughtfulness and take take take. He is in the 6 figure tax bracket but that’s money for our future with our future kids, not for dumb dinners and lunches.
A lot of them don’t know how to be grateful for provision because they don’t have fathers. That’s a conservation for another day.
$30 can get you a lot for lunch. I be smiling from ear to ear when my boo send me a lil something or even bring me a lil bite to eat
Such a sweet & thoughtful gesture. Where is my thoughtful & kind Boo?😇
This took me out last night. Passah Q was preaching 😭💀💯
$30 is definitely enough for LUNCH! My goodness, I just can’t with this generation and I’m part of it unfortunately.
One person on the internet = this generation?
This new generations entitlement baffles me! $30 is more than enough for lunch especially when he offered it. That would cover me for 3 days.
Not wanting C19 to take the city girls out, chiiile 🤦🏾♀️😂
I blame the men who chase behind these City Girls that create these monsters. I pray for my daughters cause i already have to put them onto this game.
Yes ma'am. Funky needs to talk about THIS side of the story also. Men create these impossible standards of beauty and go after the girl that most likely fits their fantasy of sex-toy blow-up doll looks. Then get mad when that's all there is to her.
If she is nice with a skillet....$30 is enough for a few meals from the grocery aisle.
My sister and I were just talking about BBL/weave/eyelash crew. Now we have a new name , the City Girl crew! 😂
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30.00 I can eat lunch and dinner
Me and my man met on my lunch break and sat down together for $27.33
at this point we all screwed up. between the red pill, Kevin's Samuels, Andrew tate mindset and this city girl, mentally that puts a man's money over everything else our younger generations is gonna be absolutely fvcked up.
one would think some of these women would've learned from Yung miami what could happen when you prioritize getting a bag over a man's character
Q this energy is unwarranted for this topic. It’s silly!
I honestly believe you have some underlying vendetta with women. This kind of vitriol is unnecessary. Please rewatch this video and analyze yourself.
how so?
Tell the truth Funky!! That's why most of them can't get a man and/or keep one.
30 is enough for lunch. As a matter of fact, all I want to spend on lunch is 15 and nothing more. To tell you the truth, he didn't have to give her anything.
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$30 is definitely enough for lunch, and I’m in Cali where gas is $5.25+… go head and send me “A GREAT WOMAN”that GREAT man sending Me lunch for 2 days. A real woman knows how to appreciate and work things out!
I have appreciated when I have received extra lunch money. Sometimes I was able to have breakfast as well. Or even had lunch for the week. Why complain? No one owes you anything. They do it because they care.
You was on point in everything especially the gesture and proper lady ethic.
Tell him Q❤❤❤❤
Who’s eating more than $30 worth of food in 30 minutes-a lunch break is usually that long-yes Funky they broke & want a man to pay their bills?? Very sad I would have gladly took that $30 & went to Chick Fil A
$30 is good. Thanks sir, I appreciate you!
$30 is definitely more than enough for lunch! Get off of DoorDash😂😂.
Exactly people now just use to spending $50 $60 for uber eats&door dash 🙄
I’ve been wanting to ask this question to all of my Women (my sistahs); who share the same opinions as thoes young lady’s was discussing in their Podcast about $30.00…… Let’s call a thang a fuckin thang!!!…… How TF was y’all affording your own lunches? 🧐 Your own hair (bundles) nails, and makeup before that man came long??? Please help me understand sis! 🤔 If you dating man he is NOT obligated to take care of your ass!!! He’s not obligated to pay for your lunch for the week, let alone your Bundles, makeup, nails…. Sorry not sorry….. but when you get married that’s when your HUSBAND provides 30 dollars for your lunch for the week, or other things for his WIFE. Not when you’re dating!! Ladies! 💯💯💯 #IJS
Where are you eating? These prices are high! If someone gives you $30 say thank you and be grateful.
$30 is too much for lunch. I can work $30 in coupons to bring that meal down.
$30 is enough for a regular lunch. Now if you go to the Cheesecake Factory and order lunch, soft drink , a slice of cheesecake to take home, tip and tax is going to put you over $30. But I love the cheesecake factory !
More than enough!
The thing is, I have acquaintances that men send them $100 or more random for lunches. Have paid for her and her friends to have lunch/dinner when the men aren’t there. Etc. I just think if that’s her expectation, she should say thank you and keep it pushing and if he feels she’s entitled etc then leave her alone. If she’s used to a certain way and has her standard, why is it necessary to have her settle for less. Same with him. Why should he settle for an “ungrateful “ woman outside his budget. Each person should just stay in their own lane. 🤷🏽♀️ if it’s not for you, just move on.
Based off of the comments, there are more than plenty of options of women who think $30 is more than enough for lunch! 😊
I blame social media because it’s definitely brain washed people from not wanting a normal or average life experiences. I noticed many are influenced by adult entertainers and adult workers (nothing wrong with being one) who appear to have a soft lifestyle on social media; when actuality it’s not. I believe it okay to want luxury but it’s also okay want something simple too. The simplest things tend to often hold the most value 🙌🏾
When you said Ghetti…that took me out chile‼️‼️🤣🤣🤣🤣
The fact that majority of these places we eat from have lunch specials…….yea they birds fashooooo😭😭🤣🤣
Funky 💀EM THEY DNT WANT THE TRUTH , $15 Dresses 🤣🤣🤣🤣❤️❤️❤️
That tickled my soul 😂
They’re crazy. The amount a man gives you doesn’t matter. My husband came to my job with a Starbucks drink since I didn’t have time in the morning to buy one and with my smile you would have thought he dropped off some jewelry or something. The fact that someone was thinking about you and wanted to do something sweet for no reason says a lot about him
I would be grateful if anyone gives me free money. Stop be ungrateful in life especially if you have to work a job ❤
Someone gave me $30 for lunch & I do have my own,it’s a big thank U because I can use mine for something else 🧠 ✔️
It most certainly is
The real question is why the broke chick can't buy her own lunch?..... I would never ask a man to buy me anything if he offers great I'll accept but asking absolutely not!!!
These younger generation don't truly know how to survive like we did. I remember back in the day buying $1.00 worth of ham or turkey and $.50 cents worth of cheese and a pack of kool-aid. Boom!
This aint nothing but truth!!!!
I'm glad you went off. Back in the day when I was young and cute I never made ridiculous demands.
This dude is necessary!
I agree 5000%
He is hilarious but damn it if he gets a chance to go in on women. He's taking it and he is going to go hard as hell. And when that happens I go somewhere else.
Not the ostrich lashes😂😂😂😂😂