Tom Kerridge Opens Up About His Addiction, Relapsing & His Michelin Star Pub

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  • čas přidán 12. 05. 2024
  • Tom Kerridge, is a renowned chef with an impressive array of accolades, including two Michelin Stars, the UK's Best Restaurant of the Year, and the title of Best Pub of the Year.
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    In this episode, Tom shares his journey of growing a successful business whilst dealing with alcohol addiction. He details the intricacies of building his award winning pub, The Hand and Flowers, with his wife Beth Cullen-Kerridge. Tom shares how he has created a committed and positive culture in the kitchen, a place that is known for being a harsh and challenging environment. He also shares insights into his partnership with his wife, detailing the challenges and rewards of running a business together and the importance of maintaining a strong connection.
    During this conversation, Tom opens up to Jake and Damian about his struggles with alcoholism, revealing how the high-pressure environment of the kitchen led him to rely on drinking as a coping mechanism. He reflects on the pivotal moment when he decided to quit drinking, after realising the impact it had on both his health and his career trajectory. They discuss the importance of personal growth and why he encourages this within his employees too.
    Throughout the interview Tom offers valuable lessons on leadership, commitment, and the power of change. Tom’s love for his craft shines through as he discusses the broader impact of his work beyond the kitchen, specifically the importance of food and nutritional education within young people. Tom inspires listeners to embrace change, foster a supportive work environment, and strive for excellence in every endeavour.
    0:00 Introduction
    1:15 What Is High Performance?
    4:34 A Different Kind of Drive
    7:19 🚨 Join WHOOP
    8:38 Kitchens Attract Outsiders
    11:45 The Kitchen Culture
    18:27 The Daily Drinking
    22:19 Finding Your Limit
    24:34 Quitting Alcohol
    32:14 Life After Alcohol
    33:51Emerging Chefs
    34:32 Creating A Culture
    39:04 Job, Career Or Calling?
    43:19 Focusing On The Detail
    47:48 Kitchen Misconceptions
    50:51 Child Food Poverty
    55:46 What Drives You Today?
    56:50 Quick-Fire Questions
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Komentáře • 137

  • @mairiconnell6282
    @mairiconnell6282 Před měsícem +10

    As an alcoholic who has relapsed, thanks for speaking out! We don't choose to wake up and destroy our lives. The self sabotage resonates with me.

  • @enockowl681
    @enockowl681 Před 2 měsíci +27

    I used to deliver cooking oil to his pub ... genuinly a top bloke ... alaays got me a drink Ns had a chat with me ... always respected that

  • @davenorth3750
    @davenorth3750 Před měsícem +9

    I gave up alcohol 4 years ago. January 1st, 2020 is the best thing I have done for me, my family. I just feel a lot better for it.

    • @anitaswart.
      @anitaswart. Před měsícem

      Please believe in yourself and never touch the devil, get so cross with non alcoholic.
      Lost my alcoholic husband with suicide.
      It is from the devil.
      Married again and no alcohol in the house ever or not marry.
      20 years of bliss, because I never stressed about a monster alcohol can make you.
      Covert and all the lies killed him.
      Your family is blessed and God bless you too.

  • @mrdeafa25
    @mrdeafa25 Před 2 měsíci +24

    Glad he touched on what nutcases there are working in kitchens. I have been working in kitchens for 30 years and I rarely have come across any chef that would be classed as ‘normal’ in any other industry. Most are insecure, unfriendly, over-friendly, addicted, bullies, sex- freaks, anti-social, rude, arrogant etc etc A proper selection of complete oddballs. Some very creative people most of whom are incapable of accepting criticism but some of the hardest working people you can ever meet.

    • @SaintDomingo1
      @SaintDomingo1 Před 2 měsíci +4

      You have just described every person in society there, mate.

    • @j.e.b9988
      @j.e.b9988 Před 2 měsíci +2

      That is so fucking accurate.

    • @ennbee2051
      @ennbee2051 Před 2 měsíci

      This is real life not Chef Sim on the Switch, lol. Nah, you've ain't been in your own kitchen, never mind worked in one?!🤣Alright, name a Michelin Star kitchen you've worked?

    • @regburgundy8701
      @regburgundy8701 Před měsícem

      Other than the stereotypical generalising, you’re not far off.

    • @Stevonthemove
      @Stevonthemove Před měsícem +2

      You are correct.not worked with even one that could in any way be classed as normal.all a bunch of bullies

  • @keithsanderson1213
    @keithsanderson1213 Před měsícem +4

    Excellent honest and reflective interview.

  • @kevancook2699
    @kevancook2699 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Wow, what an amazing interview. Thanks to all

  • @ay77ful
    @ay77ful Před 2 měsíci +5

    When he said we got perfection and 2 Stars. Marco gave back all 3 stars. Then carried on cooking his own fantastic food. Inventing the Knoor stock jelly snot pot on the way. Success

  • @paulmckenfitnessnutrition2434
    @paulmckenfitnessnutrition2434 Před 2 měsíci +5

    Went for a meal at the Hand & Flowers well over 10 years ago. I'll say this, the man knows what he's doing.

  • @roadagent5158
    @roadagent5158 Před 2 měsíci +2

    The chef podcasts are always superb

  • @user-nu5qn1so2v
    @user-nu5qn1so2v Před měsícem +4

    Mate I’m struggling with alcoholism 10 yrs welsh guards. 5 yrs raf and 4 yrs met police, I believe I need you. I love food because I love to eat mate x

  • @matthewchilds5698
    @matthewchilds5698 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Loved this. 👍

  • @jcwrighty9895
    @jcwrighty9895 Před měsícem +2

    Good podcast and good luck Tom, good health to you and family mate! 💪👍

  • @healthymindhealthybody9324
    @healthymindhealthybody9324 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Love this interview. His willingness to share his story is inspiring but for me when he spoke about the importance of people skills in his business, how much he values genuinely friendly people & chefs who put love into their cooking, that was the best part 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻❤

  • @edwardsnowdenofficial
    @edwardsnowdenofficial Před 2 měsíci +4

    What a great interview! Glad Tom is still around to tell us his story after his health struggles. I think we all need to reign in the alcohol consumption! While I am motivated I am off out on my bike for a nice 50km cycle to clear the cobwebs :)

  • @rogerstevens4818
    @rogerstevens4818 Před měsícem +1

    Tom so with you , i walked away from the stove at ,73 my journey was the same as yours i had my own Restaurant , but the antics the same i now have ex trainees around the world we are still connected still cruel when it comes to humour well done

  • @MichaelBurge-pj9kn
    @MichaelBurge-pj9kn Před měsícem +5

    You have to be an addict, to understand an addict.

  • @fusemunk
    @fusemunk Před 2 měsíci +1

    Simply brilliant Tom, outstanding - from a punter. Thanks Guys

  • @joelnundy
    @joelnundy Před 2 měsíci +3

    Love the insight and seeing what happens behind the scenes🔥

  • @mrstamp5121
    @mrstamp5121 Před měsícem +1

    Only watched this as the guest is a bit of a Leg End to me I think even more of him now All hail Cap’n Kerridge, Aaaaargh!

  • @carolschobs2621
    @carolschobs2621 Před měsícem

    We ate at his restaurant it was ok not incredibly special and prices were high but expected that. Such a friendly chap. 😊

  • @Michelle-bo4hj
    @Michelle-bo4hj Před 2 měsíci +2

    Amazing man

  • @flatbrokefrank6482
    @flatbrokefrank6482 Před měsícem +1

    Great bloke, love Tom!

  • @colincampbell7928
    @colincampbell7928 Před měsícem

    I was the same. That world at 19 was amazing. I loved a drink too. I moved to England, travelled all across the South and met my wife. I was exhausted, thinking it was the life. Turns out I had MS since age 20. I was medically retired at 31. Good memories. Devon, Isles of Scilly, Hampshire, Surrey, wow. Not bad for a kid from Scotland who feļĺ out of school and into kitchens.

  • @grahamebowles245
    @grahamebowles245 Před měsícem

    Great show guys,just one thing as normal these chef's tell you what you want to here,my nephew worked as a weekend staff at the hand and flowers he was talked down to being a young lad made to feel like shit so he walked out this knocked his confidence for months.

  • @derekws40
    @derekws40 Před 2 měsíci +1

    A marvellously eloquent speaker,on all the aspects of his journey,to where he is now,in the hospitality industry.

  • @balearicburger
    @balearicburger Před 2 měsíci +2

    Love Tom Kerridge

  • @garethduggan1496
    @garethduggan1496 Před měsícem

    Love watching tom cook ,seems like a top bloke ,top chef

  • @raedmundgibbons6568
    @raedmundgibbons6568 Před měsícem +1

    Top man!

  • @jm9123
    @jm9123 Před měsícem +1

    in a one-hour interview, no mention as to HOW he quit drinking. What about withdrawals, medical treatment, rehab?

    • @anarchodandyist
      @anarchodandyist Před měsícem

      Not all people go through that. There is also a difference between having a drink problem and being a full blown alcoholic.

  • @thechipman2473
    @thechipman2473 Před 2 měsíci

    Nice one Tom

  • @levelupenglish1145
    @levelupenglish1145 Před měsícem

    To Tom's point, Japanese schools use their lunchtimes as an opportunity to promote food education, teaching as they serve the students. It's a huge part of their education system that is taken very seriously.

  • @cavendishintify
    @cavendishintify Před 2 měsíci +4

    Would love the interviewers to drill down on the guest when he is so obviously talking BS and the whole, grew up on a council estate line is very tiring, some serious grafters fighting for a living on every housing estate council or not, gave the interview a go, not for me
    Good luck

  • @sadboysdiehard
    @sadboysdiehard Před měsícem +2

    I disagree, I've worked in incredibly aggressive kitchens. im not down for it, to be fair. I've worked also with lovely humans. you can't generalize. you make it sound like kitchens are warm and cuddly places. Not always true. Having said. I've made great friends. can you make a great kedgeree?

  • @timgilligan3885
    @timgilligan3885 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Fucking LEGEND!!!!!!

  • @user-ku6fz1ki9p
    @user-ku6fz1ki9p Před měsícem +1

    All people leaving stupid comments need to do 16 hours a day 6 days a week to appreciate this interview in a pro kitchen

  • @NewAgeBarbarian
    @NewAgeBarbarian Před 2 měsíci +1

    I read that as prolapsing

  • @121music4life
    @121music4life Před 2 měsíci +1

    Crazy the amount he drank. I didn’t think drinking that amount per night was possible

  • @timgilligan3885
    @timgilligan3885 Před 2 měsíci +1

    I can hit subscribe way quicker than five seconds! Give me some credit....!

  • @johnmcnulty1129
    @johnmcnulty1129 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Spent many years in this environment. "Banter" all well & good, but "treading on spilt jus" when it can escalate into bullying.
    Met many amazing people, from around the globe, met some Arse holes !
    Brexit, Pandemic etc has floored hospitality. Profit margins were tight even before recent global events.
    Can imagine the consequences in 2024, of getting caught covering a car in Clingwrap !

  • @Amery_house
    @Amery_house Před měsícem

    How come he is still alive with all that daily alcohol consumption in his past? He must have got very close to a liver transplant at one point. All credit to him for getting through it. Livers do heal given a chance so well done Tom..

    • @nickycotton6137
      @nickycotton6137 Před měsícem

      Yeah. Think he ate well probably so that may've helped & because he didn't Drink 1st thing in the morning etc it might have helped regarding his routine. Also worked hard so could focus more on that as he had structure there rather than being an unemployed Alcoholic with nothing to focus on. Surely had withdrawals though so maybe his GP gave him Diazepam & Librium perhaps.

  • @rachaelc83
    @rachaelc83 Před měsícem

    I tell you what, being a female in that kind of environment and the banter and as an introvert, was pretty nerve wracking. I look back on those days and loved parts of it, especially when i was young, but hard to navigate it with a young family and being a mum. I think and hope there is a culture change.

  • @damian-795
    @damian-795 Před měsícem

    Being sober is self defence ! , it's as simple as that.

  • @pamcullen537
    @pamcullen537 Před 2 měsíci +2

    I admire anyone who makes a living from their art but for those struggling to feed their family it seems a bit superficial

  • @andytraill
    @andytraill Před 2 měsíci

    Top lad, absolutely top lad. Scorpion and the frog, you can't change, pure Scorpion.
    I call him the spiteful imp my little guy.

  • @mtelectrical8068
    @mtelectrical8068 Před měsícem

    Recovery should never be about fear of relapsing

  • @anarchodandyist
    @anarchodandyist Před měsícem +1

    The picture painted of the industry back then is a bit disingenuous. It was brutal, hard and people were bullied. Many people have been damaged by the industry and substance abuse is a big part of that.

  • @ashjenkins7591
    @ashjenkins7591 Před 2 měsíci +3

    Top Bloke

  • @donnyjay9046
    @donnyjay9046 Před 2 měsíci +1

    People bitch about his prices. But it’s not an everyday thing. It’s a special occasion event….unless your minted.

  • @abigailcross624
    @abigailcross624 Před měsícem +1

    I didn’t hear much in the way of praise for kitchen porters. You know, the underpaid ones doing the shitty jobs in a kitchen. It would be so refreshing to hear chefs give genuine credit to us. I’ve given it up because of how we are treated by all other parts of hospitality.

  • @stevem5609
    @stevem5609 Před měsícem +1

    Top bloke

  • @paularrowsmith9376
    @paularrowsmith9376 Před 2 měsíci +6

    😅did this man singlehandedly fight off an army ,thats what it sounds like he's describing ,or did he work as a chef, took a punt on running his own place and made it work, got on tv which gave him license to use his name to overcharge for the meals someone cooks under his name , absolute bullshit

  • @teamceri
    @teamceri Před 2 měsíci

    Legend 🤣🤣

  • @bobbythompson3544
    @bobbythompson3544 Před 2 měsíci +10

    £37 fish and chips, 😂, greed!

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem

      Then don't pay ?

    • @zombiestyled
      @zombiestyled Před měsícem

      ​@@runswithwindz9875 only a mug would. It's exploitive or selective. Wonder what type of person he wants to be.

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem

      I don't understand - Don't pay if you don't want to ? Do you even understand what exploitative means ?@@zombiestyled

  • @davidlewis8878
    @davidlewis8878 Před měsícem +1

    Fish & chips curry sauce €150 bargain

  • @777driver3
    @777driver3 Před 2 měsíci +2

    He constantly fleeces Marlow

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem +2

      No he does not. Nobody forces you into his establishment ! Well certainly not you as you don't have a pot to pish in right ?

  • @ultimaterocker4
    @ultimaterocker4 Před 2 měsíci +20

    Says he never drank during service but earlier he says he's doing cans of stella with the crew before sunday lunch!

    • @trevorrodd6026
      @trevorrodd6026 Před 2 měsíci +22

      There’s a difference between during and before

    • @ebbs0000
      @ebbs0000 Před 2 měsíci +9

      Before and during are different things my friend.

    • @tititichirca8250
      @tititichirca8250 Před měsícem +3

      And that's all you understood out of this whole thing, innit?

    • @michaeldunham3385
      @michaeldunham3385 Před měsícem +2

      ​@@ebbs0000 yeah it means you're drunk before you start

    • @damienkeena
      @damienkeena Před měsícem +1

      Literally noi neeed to poke holes mate. Read between the lins,he's saying he didn't properly drink. You don't get it.

  • @stevedaunt5483
    @stevedaunt5483 Před měsícem

    Tom is great but he shouldn't have allowed these two quacks to talk to him.Jake, the 'merchant Banker' par excellence

  • @jm9123
    @jm9123 Před měsícem +1

    He is over-exaggerating. Never met a fat alcoholic in my life. They are skinny af as they don't eat.

  • @kyleys6294
    @kyleys6294 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Hope he legitimately lost it

  • @darrenb7765
    @darrenb7765 Před měsícem

    I can’t honestly think of any other profession that has the same level of self induced pressure and high expectations as catering does??.These top tier chefs just appear possessed by something that forces them to demand ludicrously high expectations on everyone around them!!.Ultimately,all they are producing is fucking food!!….😂😂….not exactly the high pressures of open heart surgery Is it??….just saying!!

  • @ripvanwincle2258
    @ripvanwincle2258 Před 2 měsíci +4

    OK mate you heat things in a pot we get it.

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem

      Picasso daubed a bit and Mozart was some old poof who wrote tunes right ?

  • @sharkymarkie
    @sharkymarkie Před 2 měsíci +1

    Why is being able to give something up that you shouldn't be doing in the first place seen as some sort of an achievement??

    • @benb8647
      @benb8647 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Is there anyone who doesn't have a vice of some kind?

    • @sharkymarkie
      @sharkymarkie Před 2 měsíci

      @@benb8647 It's not that I'm saying we can all be perfect. But, let's say I'd been a football hooligan, addicted to violence. Would I deserve a medal for stopping doing it and just being a well behaved football fan?

    • @benb8647
      @benb8647 Před 2 měsíci +5

      @@sharkymarkie bit different when you're harming yourself vs harming others.

    • @ziggy2255
      @ziggy2255 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Because once you are addicted it's really hard to stop. Culture and other people are the hardest bit.

    • @stevewilson6390
      @stevewilson6390 Před 2 měsíci +8

      Giving up an addiction is an achievement.

  • @SOLARSHED13
    @SOLARSHED13 Před měsícem

    Tom, i totally agree the conversation about school meals. You are exactly right. Why don't you put some of your own money into it like Jamie Oliver has?

  • @teamceri
    @teamceri Před 2 měsíci +1

    Sounds like he was an alcoholic.

  • @rachelsirett8809
    @rachelsirett8809 Před měsícem

    He probably still drinking, contradictory person

  • @frankiez7414
    @frankiez7414 Před měsícem

    Sex, drugs, rock and roll the cliched great things in life. Bench presses and early nights , yawn. A bit like this video. Couldn’t watch it all to be honest.

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem +1

      Then why not leave without bothering to comment ?

    • @frankiez7414
      @frankiez7414 Před měsícem

      we all have the right to our opinion. What a dull world if everyone had to agree to what you think is right in the comments and blow smoke up everyone's arses. What comment did you leave apart from having a pop at me ? What did you think to the interview ? If you had cared to think about my comments and maybe to have read one or two autobiographies, a lot of them talk about sex, drugs and rock and roll. Take any rock star, chef, footballer they've all went down the same road and compare that lifestyle to being sober and working out all the time, things can get a little dull and very tough in their own way. And again this is a dull interview its cliched and read a thousand times.

  • @user-rq2ex4ts1t
    @user-rq2ex4ts1t Před měsícem +1

    Any chef who said he has never drank before or during service is a liar or not old enough to call themselves a chef

  • @ianmarshall170
    @ianmarshall170 Před 2 měsíci +4

    Why are chefs always up their own a..e!

  • @russell-di8js
    @russell-di8js Před měsícem

    Top chefs on tv all use tons of butter, cream, red meats, sugars etc & yet no1 seems to call them out for it?

  • @maggiedennis3371
    @maggiedennis3371 Před měsícem +1

    What a lovely humble man. Recovery ❤️‍🩹

  • @allbushnocraft3031
    @allbushnocraft3031 Před 2 měsíci +1

    chefs seem to be failed rock stars to me

  • @s0ulbr0777
    @s0ulbr0777 Před měsícem +1

    His restaurant charges £30 for fish and chips, he’s a greedy twant….

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem

      Don't go there then ?

    • @s0ulbr0777
      @s0ulbr0777 Před měsícem

      @@runswithwindz9875 i make my own

    • @zombiestyled
      @zombiestyled Před měsícem

      ​@@runswithwindz9875are you toms agent or accountant. Or tom. You said this in another post.

  • @ricatkins4918
    @ricatkins4918 Před 2 měsíci

    ..yeah whatever

  • @MrConnect54
    @MrConnect54 Před 2 měsíci +2

    Poor guy 😂go and spend ur millions in ur absurd over priced restaurants and ridiculous priced chip shops soon be broke 😢

  • @paulwarner5700
    @paulwarner5700 Před 2 měsíci

    Great show but school meals are responsibility of parents, not the state. If you cannot support your kids dont have them. not political just basic facts, dont tread same path as Jamie Oliver

    • @grahamskilling2147
      @grahamskilling2147 Před 2 měsíci +1

      Bit harsh? ,haven’t you ever appreciated support?

    • @thomasfield8822
      @thomasfield8822 Před 2 měsíci +2

      This is an area our government can support. Some parents unfortunately don't think about there children's needs and even if they could support having a child. Therefore the government SHOULD step in to provide them with a healthy lunch. I'm no labour supporter but children cant support themselves.

    • @et2874
      @et2874 Před 2 měsíci +2

      What a stupid and ignorant thing to say. It is the states responsibility to feed Your child while they are in the care of the school. It’s nothing to to with responsibility of parents. If Your child was at their grandparents or a friends house being looked after for a whole day or night, is it Your responsibility to provide food? You would I’m sure, hope that whoever is looking after child, to feed them.
      As for don’t have kids if You can’t support them, that is another stupid comment. Sometimes people’s circumstances change financially after having children.
      Everyone is entitled to food in the stomach and a roof over their head. And it is the responsibility of the state to care for it’s people just as it to provide healthcare

    • @averyintelligence
      @averyintelligence Před 2 měsíci +1

      Maybe u should lookup the history of free school meals and why it even exists (it's not actually free either)

    • @romystumpy1197
      @romystumpy1197 Před 2 měsíci +1

      I agree, trouble is the more support there is on offer,the more people will grab it and become reliant upon it and lose respect ,

  • @clairwalshe8624
    @clairwalshe8624 Před měsícem

    I don't rate him as a chef.

  • @newroundheadcommandos2589
    @newroundheadcommandos2589 Před 2 měsíci +8

    His food prices r a rip off no shame

  • @waynewal971
    @waynewal971 Před 2 měsíci +1

    Yes he can do that now!🫣 but without the finances? Give me a break?

    • @runswithwindz9875
      @runswithwindz9875 Před měsícem

      What the hell does that mean ? Did you muck about a lot at school Wayne ?