You're Not Crazy, Dating A Virgo Man Is Complicated.
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- Dating a Virgo man is indeed quite complicated, find out why.
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It's difficult to date a Virgo man when they are broken and not healed from their pass pain
Yeah I know I have one 😞
I know very difficult
@Lady T True. They shut down, they don’t want to listen to what you have to say, they become petty & take it out on you. I have dated 3 Virgos men & I’m officially done with Virgos & dating all together.
I believe that!! They’re very childish mama boys too!
My ex. Broken and bitter but cared but was closed off..I'm over Virgo men. He's damaged and took that out on me.
It’s not what you say , it’s how you say it . I believe in communication, respect, honesty and loyalty. There is no excuses for disrespect to you wife or husband. Treat people the way you want to be treated. I don’t care what your zodiac sign is.
😂😂😂😂😂😂 Period.
Ofcourse that's how it should be
Sorry sir but I banned the whole Virgo zodiac sign respectfully . Too confusing and way too much heart break I’m cool. Felt like I was dating an A Rubik’s cube.
I totally agree!
AHAHAHA! A Rubik cube lol 🤣🤣 No Fr
Wheeeeww girl! It’s a whole intense workout.
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Came across this video and curiosity took the better part of me 😂. I’m a cancer ♋️ but why is this so relatable 😅. I want to be alone but with some who wants to be alone too but we’re in a committed relationship w/ the occasional going out to do outdoor activities…is that too much to ask for 😂
Same
I feel like it's "all or nothing" with the Virgo I've been seeing. When we're together, it's ALL- he's witty, fun, passionate, playful, obviously into me, and he tells me how much he likes me. When we're not together, it's NOTHING- silence. I text something maybe 1-2 times a week (if that) and sometimes he'll reply, sometimes he won't. Sometimes it will be a nice exchange, like a conversation, other times just a couple of words-- and then nothing until I get in touch next time. I don't worry about him seeing other women because very few would put up with that, or they'd probably get upset at his lack of reply and he/they would be done LOL. I'm cool, but honestly, I'd like a little more balance. Early days I guess.
This is happening lol he was with me and my friends his friends weekend we dnt plan it as I was starting to loose interest but all night he was lookin and sending his friends over to get me to talk to me we all had fun etc now his not callin or textin but he was cuddling me tellin everyone I’m his ‘baby’ 🤣😂 what a crazy man but his lovely
I've experienced the same behavior and I'm good without out all that. The issue is if we put up with it there's someone else that may too. But I don't want to be put in a position to have to wonder. It's not a trust thing it's a respect thing. Just my opinion.
@@ladyindigo1649 I agree. He's explicitly said he's not dating or sleeping with other women and I believe him. It's about respect, yes- not to mention health & safety. I'm sure other women have tried to get something going with him, but he's not going to respond and it's not going to go anywhere, even if they want to be "just friends".
I go through the same thing with my Virgo..dealing with a Virgo you have to have so much patience and hopefully it end and a happily ever after
@@lentisawilson2355 I think I'm becoming a better person with this Virgo in my life. Much more relaxed, easy-going, non-reactive, patient, accepting-- with him and other areas of my life.
Capricorn woman here!! Ideally I’d be married & have my own HOUSE 😂🤣😂 I like my space too
I treat my virgo like a wild animal....u can't tame them....all u can do it to love them when they come to u on their own...n then just forget about them as they return to wild unless they come back to u again and want something more deeper❤meanwhile I enjoy my time with my friends..family and my interests...
Anyways u can't force anyone to stay....in your life ...they they really want u they will come back to u.....so chill n enjoy your life
... until they don't come back at all... fickle as F.
I am an aries it takes another level of love and patience for us to stick around someone like them…but hopefully it will be worth it…at the end..still waiting for him to convey his heart
I was married to a Virgo for 21 years , he hung out , cheated and was on a list for paternity test . Alone time is one thing , cheating, having unprotected sex is something totally different . My ex husband was a good provider, hard working but he didn’t value his wedding vows one bit .
Virgoes are cheaters! No cap
Thank you for making this make sense in a way thats not attacking Virgos. I'm a Gemini and this is getting REAL OUCHEA!!!
Beautiful complicated souls ❤️
I love your channel my son is a virgo and this is helping me out alot watching your videos.
J Whitfield Inspires Awesome content man, Can you please do a video on virgo man dating younger women vs older women please that be much appreciated!
I get that a Virgo want to be alone time because I'm a Virgo woman and like my alone time
Me too. I'm a Cap and I am content to be alone. But I think I'd like more of a balance.
@@MIMIDSH Yay Capicorns in da house!!! Yes alone time is vital to us capicorns as well. Now we can be sociable and mingle but l feel like at times there's a cut off period to that. Like ok we don't need to that everyday. Tart, do you feel sometimes when you don't get your alone time it throws you off mentally. I know for me it does. December 27th 1981. 😊👋🙏
the best lover I ever had was not a Virgo. Was an Aquarius with a Venus in Capricorn and Moon in Cancer.
My dad was a Virgo and I always saw him as clearly different from the other dads . I’m dating a Virgo man now and he is very different. It can be confusing and frustrating but I really like him
One minute he talk to me like everything is ok then the next he doesn’t respond to me. I didn’t do him anything. I just simply asked him to make a decision because we were talking for months and he made a lot of promises but now I’m getting nothing. Help!!
Never rush a virgo man just let things go with the flow if u rush them thats when they start to disappear
It’s a mess. I thought I was the only one going thru this obstacle course.
While dating a virgo man ur self love has to be the prominent quality that can save u and the relationship...when he is not around ,u need to be in your own world behave as he doesn't exist...and just wait fr him to approach u again....virgo teach u patience....and the lesson if u love someone just let them free till they come back asking fr more...u need to have a big heart...
Right glory wings have a big heart and share it with someone else. He ain’t the only one. Have a play toy on the side. Who going to keep waiting around on mr. Snails????
They are manipulative insecure narcissists.
I’m traumatized for life
That was great. coming from a cancer - I want my Virgo so bad I am willing to learn so please continue to teach me/us..!!!!!
Very complicated… super weird honestly
1:38 they like their space and someone who respect that is a plus for them but sometimes they might forget about you 🥺😂, even when they’re with you, they like their physical space… dating a Virgo men is difficult
And no matter if that fucking 'space' is flirting with other women too... virgoes are truly most toxic!
Oh my goodness, you just described my husband. We've been together for over a decade & yes, he's still very guarded emotionally. It's like I'll never get to know him 100%. I'm very much an emotions person so it's hard but I love my freedom too😢
And bc Virgo men are so private, you might feel emotionally neglected & lonely so have a close group of friends & hobbies, immerse yourself in your projects
How often does he tells u he loves u??or u just see his love in his act of service towards u?
Got that right
I didn't think I was crazy and knew Virgo men were different from the jump. My opinion is that maybe you all should date Virgo women because you all would understand each others wants, needs and quirks. No one to take offense and feel neglected. It can be challenging enough to cultivate a relationship in general between compromise, respect, love, attention, etc. And you're right, some women require those things more than others so it can be too much for certain men. But to just be ok with going ghost, or texting but not calling or periodic outings is asking a bit much for someone in a relationship. Even if you mention it nicely as you have suggested in your previous videos it still may not change or get addressed if that's who he truly is. A whole lot of up keep even if y'all do nice things, etc. You can be thoughtful one minute and not the next. Thanks for the info! Lol
VIrgo man n Virgo women worked perfecr for me and I did the best I ever did in life......
Any Virgo women out there?
@@frankwarfield5274 plenty. 😊
well im a virgo woman & NO i dont get along with virgo men because they're crazy‼️ They're so insecure, so jealous, got bad mood swings and one virgo guy i was talking too ended up harrassing me & stalking me! NEVER AGAIN will i date a virgo man. I prefer to date aquarius, sagittarius, leos. But NOT VIRGOS they're nutcases sorry lol 😂
I’m a virgo woman and it didn’t workout for me. I will never date a virgo man ever again. He lies too much, is inconsistent, emotional unavailable and just boring and irritated my soul in general
Im a virgo women for me it would really not work out because i don't think i could ever understand a Hot and cold treatment it totally sucks and such an abnormal feeling. I don't wanna waste my time to that kind of man.
Yes it is complicated dating a Virgo man I have been dating one on and off for 6 years and we just got back together 4 months ago whewwwww Chile. They're not for the faint of heart. Just pray, pray and keep on praying for them.
😂😂😂😂😂 @ pray. Facts!!!!!
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I'm dating virgo man it's really difficult to get what's on his mind its been 3 months now but I can't get him.
Wow, as a Capricorn woman I’ve been struggling with these Geminis and Scorpios, meanwhile my twin been Virgo this whole time. 2:43 this is me!
Me too Victoria I'm capicorn December 27th 1981. Girl you didn't know Virgos and Capicorns go hand in hand. Our personality traits are very very similar to the Virgo. If you don't mine me asking is your alone time important to you? If so do you feel like if you don't get some alone time it throws you off mentally? You know they say Capicorns are the loners of the zodiac.
I understand this is general information, but it has helped me a lot this year. Without your videos, I don't think I would have the understanding I have for my Virgo (or men). He's the best person I have ever met, everything I've been looking for and it's easy and fun to live with him. I try to stop for a moment to really understand what he is saying, when younger me would react and cause a fight. We are similar in many ways, I'm a Gemini but my Scorpio moon is the reason why I'm private and love hard. I'm also a Cancer rising so I like to take care of him whenever he lets me 😝 we both need space and I was the one to suggest we have our separate bathrooms lol 😂
Your comment makes me hopeful for how things will go with my Virgo man..
We’ve just started seeing each other & I have the same sun and moon as you haha but I’m a Virgo rising. Sometimes it’s tricky between us but I don’t want to make any impulsive decisions
@@alelujahtysm4867 I'm happy you have a Virgo in your life 🫶 My biggest advice is to be patient with him, and let him have his space to do his own thing. Sometimes there is a wave of insecurity for me when I think “do you still love me, hello?” I ask sometimes and he says “of course I do”. Still working on how to make sure we feed each other's love languages properly. I'm very happy, life is very calm now instead of chaotic like my previous relationships. I wish you the best 🥰
@@themindfulhippie thank you 😊 I will definitely take your advice.
Taurus woman here... my alone time is extremely important.
Okay that's it Sherita I'm truly convinced that this has to be earth sign trait of the zodiac. I'm capicorn Sherita and it's extremely important for us capicorns to have our alone time as well. You already know the earth signs of the zodiac are Virgo, Capicorn, Taurus. It just has to be earth trait for us. I don't know about you Sherita but it throws me off mentally if l don't get my alone time. Peace and blessings to you sis!!😊🙏👍
@@crystalcormier9376 Come on with this word. If I wake up and there's chaos around me, I immediately remove myself... vacation, visiting relatives....I get my own room
@@sheritawilson5640 See that's what lm sayin we like the virgo. We can't deal with alot peoples energy especially if it's toxic.
@@crystalcormier9376Being a reader...Toxic energy makes me itch. Being clairaudient, I don't even like voices sometimes.
I'm a Virgo. Alone time is very important to me. I have had men tell me that I'm very complicated. I'm also a workaholic and independent. I enjoy being alone, but like a committed relationship. My alone time is enjoying my own company.
I’m a Libra sun gemini moon and that would be perfect for me to for each person to have their own room. I need a lot of physical touch and loving but I also need a lot of space
You describe me perfectly 😂 except I’m a cancer woman with my sun ruiling the 6th house
Are they lazy ? How long for them to express
Hmm must be different for some virgos. Talking to a Virgo that likes me he always wants to be around me. I think the more mature you are the better the man or woman. No matter the sign.
Im a virgo man but somehow i didnt get the whole perfection thing . And im pretty much an open book...whats on the inside is what you see on the outside. Sure , im a little complicated, i say the things everyone is thinking but wont say, so im fun at holiday get togethers. In my head too much.. Oddly I dont like routine. Honest to a fault, and if I say Im going to do something, I actually do it.
Oh wow I like that. I don’t want to live or even sleep in the same bed. Haha is it Virgo?
I'm a Libra, older than him, independent and a single mom, he's 6 years younger
Jeez I’m in the same exact situation 😮I’m a libra sept libra he is a sept Virgo we are 6 years apart but we both have children he and I hit these communication barriers that are beyond me and his Pessimistic/ realistic / present outlook is a bit grim for my Optimistic/futuristic/foresight demeanor and attitude towards life.
@@Lyniquechunte OMG 😱 crazy lol how funny is this 😅
Oh I’m also older and a Libra 😅
Cheaters
Spoken like a true Virgo...lol #nevervirgoagain
Without even watching the video. DUH!!
Do Virgo men come back if they "ghosted" you?
I’ve experienced 3 Virgos separately( make sure I put separately in there) and they will reappear and pop up whether it’s phone call or in person like NOTHING never happened.
Yup
Nope
Better not !Run !. Read “ the heart of a Virgo” . These men can’t fall in love , big EGO
@marliesluyten8686 I can fall in love but can you give something, teach me something, encourage me and or reciprocate the same level of energy?
other than the same cheeks and drama you gave away without a 1/10 of the level you're asking me to give, what do you do for me?
When we figure you out and realize the apex of our connection is the same old song different day.. we get bored and honestly turned off.
Step yall game up.
Bring something intangible to the table other than you and watch that Virgo respond in kind.
Here I am lmao laawddd, 2weeks ago the Virgo I was sneaky linking with for the past 8 months told me he got himself a gf, he said we should part ways, I said sounds good, best wishes.... 2 days ago here he comes back smh talking about I miss you 😵💫 I said I thought... He said it didn't work, I'm never gonna be away from you 😮💨😒🙄
Omg again same but a bit dif. Not linking up but in a relationship..he said we needed time apart and then literally 5 days go by and an “I miss you” text from him lol we need to see if we dating the same Virgo 😅
@@Lyniquechunte lol girrrrrllll 😩 we in LA, he works in the music industry
@@user-rf7os6kx3z lol naw mine in Huston and I’m in Az … am considering moving there to be with him but he so damn petty it’s not funny … idk if I can keep my emotions under control with him … he pisses me off
**UPDATE** It’s over we ended things ( or rather I did) last week before Christmas I have so many mixed feelings but the biggest one is relief … I miss him so much but I don’t see myself with a man like this it’s too many ups n downs
@Lyniquechunte The ups & downs is the reason why I decided to just leave & not to look back. It hurts but I had to look out for myself. They are complicated & always in their heads. Take one day at a time. You got this.