You’re an amazing, intelligent and courteous young woman. A perfect example of how great parents, a good family and homeschooling works. Keep it up. Oh, and your singing is amazing.
I remember the day that I realized that there was something I needed to think about beyond fun summers, friends and my own personal needs. I was 16 and having a talk with my mom and she said I needed to start helping with my expenses like buying my cloths. Up to that point I realized I had totally relied on my parents for everything with no thought to adult life. It was a memorable moment for a kid with no cares in the world. At that moment something unlocked in my brain. First of all it was a shock that I realized I would not be able to get up in the morning and think about nothing else but what fun I might have each day. I had to start thinking adult things. I realized I was seeing the end of my childhood. I accepted the challenge because it actually excited me about facing the unknown and I got to write my future story. What direction was I going to go? New thoughts. New considerations. I am 75 years old and I remember that day like it was yesterday. It's a life changing moment. You are very fortunate to have parents who are not afraid to accept new challenges and lead by example. They are your greatest resource. Bounce ideas off them freely. Strangly, parents sometimes have ideas for you to consider that you might not have thought about. 😉 Make sure part of your plan is to grow your CZcams channel. It will become a steady revenue source that can help you bring your dreams to reality. If you follow your parents current plan of weekly posts you can piggyback of their schedule and quickly incorporate many of their viewers who will subscribe to help you out. You might even get some patrons. Think about this as your first business. Develop a plan. Show behind the scene stories. People are interested. I know, seems crazy someone would want to watch you feed the rabbits or learn to improve your horse skills or practice your piano or guitar but they do. I have every faith you will succeed. Good luck.
Great advice. I started work when I was 13 but didn't figure out my career path until after my Jr of college. The path to a fun and full life is never straight forward.
Mike, what a nice comment to write here. In a way I wish I had the same moment that you did, but being the youngest of 5 I think my parents were too tired and just kinda over it. The result: I'm a 45 year old man who never started thinking most of the normal adult thoughts about sacrifice and future planning. My life has been a constant roller coaster because of the fact that I never took adulthood seriously. Thankfully, my life seems to be working out better than expected due to luck, the kindness of others, and a small modicum of charm. I'm happily married, no kids, and I'm basically "retired" and living in Mexico. Life is funny like that. In a way, I'm starting over now that parts of my life have finally settled down. I started my own youtube channel and I'm trying to tell my story. I must admit to being in complete admiration of youtubers like Nevaeh who have such natural ability and comfort in this medium! The last part of your comment reminds me of a lesson I sadly learned to late in life: People overestimate what they can accomplish in a year, and severely underestimate what they can accomplish in 5 or 10 years. When you are young 5 and 10 years feel so far away, so we don't plan for it (or at least I didn't), but it's a very forgiving timeline, while we all think we can accomplish so much in a single year! Anyway, to anyone reading this: Life has no rules, and with 8 billion of us on earth, you need to just focus on your own progress and not the progress of others. Oh, and be kind to yourself and others.
This is the right age to prepare for that big world out there. My daughter has lived a very sheltered life by my husband and myself. She's 23 and suffers from social anxiety. She's waiting for an assessment for autism which does say a lot. Despite this She's very slowly trying to get the strength to face the world in her own time but I have faith. I'm an older parent so I understand. The only difference is that your not autistic but will have a little anxiety but your strong. You will know in time. I'm so rooting for you in all your endeavours when you decide. Your a beautiful young lady inside and out. Love you lots. ❤️
My daughter wanted to become a an RN. She became an LVN and was working in her field and saw so much illness she felt was due to our diet. She changed and became a licensed Dietitian. My point is you are a smart wonderful young woman. You will be able to accomplish anything. Just always remember the direction can change.
Nevaeh - You have been truly blessed by having two wonderful parents, who will assist you lovingly and patiently. I pity young people who don't have such strong parents. It has been enjoyable watching you mature, via You Tube, the last couple of years. Best of Luck!!
Consider reaching out to people that are in careers you’re interested in and interview them. Make lists of questions you have about their fields of work and ask away. I had to do this for a college success skills class and it really helped me narrow down career fields I wanted to pursue.
I spent 22 years driving tractor-trailer, I have a suggestion for you. If Mom and Dad will let you practice at home, or a parking lot, I suggest you practice figure 8s, backwards and forward. That will build your control confidence. Good luck.
I turned 60 years old last summer, but I remember that time in my life that you are currently experiencing like it was just last week. O the adventures and experiences you have set before you! Best wishes for success with your upcoming driving tests, Nevaeh. You have a lot of people in your corner, pulling for you. :)
Good luck with the tests Nevaeh, although as its the 13th November today you will have already done the written one ! Hope that it went well. My granddaughter is learning to drive here in the UK, but she is seventeen the minimum age for obtaining a drivers licence over here. I love your positive attitude and to hear that you have realised that you have to think about what you want to achieve in future. You will no doubt be successful with the help and support of your great parents. 🤩
Huh Neveah at 16... you have video blogging skills (love your footage in this one), you are intelligent, eloquent, you have a beautiful singing voice, play an instrument, have many self sufficient skills watching and helping your parents build your homestead, you cook and have interest and knowledge on nutrition...the confidence to make calls and appointments for yourself....and lots more!! As an ex counsellor to youth your age, I say you are set for life! Don't worry about the plan, or knowing about the future...focus like you said on exploring, discovering who you are, follow your instinct, listen in to your internal compass. You are not meant to know what you are going to do for the rest of your life now (we never know plus you can change your mind, I went back to do a masters at 30-36 yrs old). Ask yourself all the questions yes! Don't worry about the answers for now. Have fun, enjoy your youth! Thank you for sharing.
You are back, that is wonderful, 👍🏼 happy you love the 🏠 house. You will do just fine, it all happens gradually, don't rush it. You will figure it out. Bless you girl 🙏🏼 btw you'll be a great driver as well.
You’re doing Great Sweetheart.. just take one step and one breath at a time. You’ve got this. You have a Great Foundation!!! God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family. You’ve Got This.😉👍🏻❤️
I completely understand how you feel. I just turned 21 and the junior/ senior year of high school was probably the most stressful time in my life. There is just so much you feel you need to have figured out and sorted all at once, and it is so overwhelming! But, one thing that I feel is really useful to know is that plans will probably change in the future, so your plan now doesn't have to be perfect. One just needs to choose a direction to go, and adapt as changes come. Good luck in your endeavors, and try not to get too stressed!
Wow, your post gave me a flashback. I am 74 and remember when I was recently 16, my mother saying to me near the end of the summer term, 'Now you must find a job'. A little voice inside me whined, 'but it's the summer', thankfully, I didn't say it out loud!! That morning I went to our local newsagents and in the window was a note asking for summer farm workers! I called them from the phone box outside the shop and was taken on! I think my mother was a little surprised at the speed with which this happened. I am so glad she said that to me, I kind of woke up! And my first pay packet, I felt rich!! Good luck with whatever you choose!
It sounds like my US citizenship test. There were 100 questions. Memorized all cause they give you a CD with the questions and answers. All my office team mates, all of them Americans studied with me for moths. It was so fun and encouraging of them and inclusive. Sadly that camaraderie is gone. Good luck sweat girl. You were raised to shine and you already do. 💕❤️🥑💃
I am 68 years old and have never contemplated 5 yr plans. That doesn't mean that they are to be discounted. Prior planning prevents poor performance. That you are performing short-term plans and have set completion goals is commendable. Keep this in mind when contemplating future education goals. Note that your driving testing was a plan that enabled you a life skill. This is what you should consider in education, keeping in mind that your strengths and talents will change throughout your life. So college vs trade schooling is always a challenge - discuss this with your parents.
Nevaeh, you are an amazing young person. I love that you respect your parents enough to consider their question. Go for gold Nevaeh. The world's your oyster 💗
This brings back memories, my daughter is 33, when she purchased her first car, I made sure she could check the fluids and change a tire. I actually made her change the tire all by herself. I was right there to provide guidance and make sure she was doing everything safely. Your an awesome young woman and your parents are beyond amazing and fantastic! I love their channel!! Your channel is great too! Know you have people rooting for you and praying for you and the family ❤
I have followed you because I stumbled across your parents about a year ago. YOU GOT THIS NIVEAH!! I’m so happy to see you thrive and grow into your own self! 🙌🏻❤️
My youngest boy thought he wanted to be a veterinarian when he grew up, we set up a work program so he could go help out at a local vet to determine if that was a good career path. Turns out he was allergic to cat dander. He is now a computer technician. You never know, it worked out well for him and I’m sure it will for you because of your upbringing. 👍
At 16 I knew where I wanted To be by 40, 5 years I had no idea. Now did I meet that goal 10 years ago. Had a home, land to go hunting on, and enough money for retirement. Yep!
It is very hard to know what you will do with the rest of your life at your age. However it is a good time to begin thinking about it. I found through the years working with people your age that college was a wonderful place to assist you in making those big decisions. I would suggest taking a broad range of classes (including acting classes because I have a feeling you might flourish in that environment). If it takes a couple of years decide.. let it, but definitely get your drivers license first. Wishing you all the best in your journey.
Nice to see her handing her life. You have done a beatiuful job of raising your children. You have four awesome children. Who are well rounded and beatiuful young people.
Exciting! I'm sure you will do well, you have a good head on your shoulders, you're talanted, beautiful and you have everything you need to become successful in whatever you pursue...the world is your oyster. Thank you for taking me back to 16yo when I had a very similar conversation with myself, I was the oldest of 4 girls and looking back I was very responsible ... like you. 🌿
You got this, it's one step closer to growing up. Take your time in trying to figure out what you want in life, explore all the different avenues that are out there, you have plenty of time. Wishing you all the best in whatever endeavors you pursue.
TBH as long as I have watched all of you, you have been the one in the back ground. But I have noticed that you are the one who has the broad shoulders. So, I went to college but when I got out and started having to support a family, I let my mind and my wallet go together. College was too much social and to me was too expensive. So I studied some in the field of transportation, then went to work as an Operations Manager for Toyota World Wide. I made excellent money while doing what I loved. All on my family was taken care of so no one was left out of my life. Now at the age of 77 I am much the better off in doing things my way. I'm pulling for you.
Sweet sixteen... Great years ahead of you. You'll do really well in the written and driving tests because you understand responsibility. Happy that the family are all comfy and cozy in the new house. Now that it's 99% done, it feels like the project only started last week. Life is funny that way, as it is with every year of life post birth. That ball rolls faster and faster. Hugs from Hawaii.
Nevaeh, You're so smart and amazing! Your parents and family love you so much, and I'm so happy you have their love and support to help guide you towards your future goals and dreams. There is a lot of pressure as a young adult, to decide what you want to do in life, but know that as you begin to venture out, there will be doors that don't open and doors that do. (Notice all the dead lines as you tried to schedule a drivers test?!) I recommend choosing the ones opportunities that excite you and give you peace. Being nervous is normal when trying new things! Experience will give you confidence, keep carrying your self respect through it and you will create a very good life for yourself in the future. I was homeschooled til college and loved it, you're not missing out on anything in public school, and you'll have a more established sense of self as an adult because you have lived awhile already without the societal pressures and norms being too close. Don't ever let the need to impress other people dictate how you feel. & try to free yourself of unnecessary pressure that you have to have it all figured out before you embark, because if you be yourself, all the right people and situations will come naturally
Your a smart girl Neveah, and your parents did an amazing job raising you. Will keep you in prayer 🙏 Proverbs 3:5-6 trust in the lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.
Hey, stranger! Super good to see your face on your own video again! I hope your written test went well. I'm certain it did. Have you done the driving portion of the test yet? If not, you might wanna get that done before the snow flies. See you later, love bug!
@@NevaehSouza - I'm sure you are closer to ready than not. You just need more confidence. That said, when I received my license I was experienced in driving, but not in traffic. I learned as I went. Drove pretty slowly at first. Annoyed the other drivers on the road immensely I'm sure, but in time I became more confident. You got this! Drive drive and drive some more. Whether you are in traffic or not the continuous driving will instill the confidence. 😉
Great video Neveah! Glad you had the conversation with your wonderful parents. Think about what you want to do and try and interview people that do that job! I’m sure you will crush your drivers test! Best of luck!
Nevaeh, your so eloquent on the phone. My daughter hates having to make these kinds of phone calls. To book appointments and even to order take out. She’s fine talking to strangers face to face. Just phone shy 😬😃 Good luck with you theory test.
Girl, you got this! I love that your parents gave you the freedom to choose what you would like to do with your life. When I was getting ready to graduate from high school, my mom told me. We want you to go to college to be a school teacher. My reply was, no way! You go to college to be a teacher, I'll stay home and cook for dad. Long story short, I went to college and became a Medical Technologist. It's now called, clinical laboratory scientist. It's not for everyone, but it's given me a decent honest living.
16 is young. But it is time to think about your future. Im 69 and just now able to fulfill my life goals lol. I wanted to be a mom on a farm with 10 kids. Then Vietnam war happened. I joined the military. Started as a medic. They kept offering schools so i was xray rech, physical therapy tech,burn therapist, surgical tech, respiratory therapy, occupational therapy, then LPN. I stayed in the medical corp .Ended up with only one son soooo adopted 7 more. Then 4 more in my 60s. Have had 2 farms . So plan but be open to opportunities ready to jump when the timing is right. Learn to trust your intuition. It is never wrong. I can honestly say i have loved every job i have had. Never stop learning, growing. Your folks are great examples of working smart, hard, and achieving their dreams. Trust them. Trust yourself. My farm is in the Sacred Valley of Peru!!! I have 10 grandkids now
Oh and i was working for money on farms since i was 10. Learning all aspects of animal husbandry, was in the FFA , so learned about showing animsls and parliamentary procedure. Small engine repair , how to drive a tractor, spread manure, bale hay, order and mix feed. How to butcher and process the animals i grew. Milked 13 cows and 4 goats every morning before school ( by hand) Bred, trained and bought and sold horses. I had 10 of my own by the time i was 14.plus competed in Western / English and Trail riding. So have FUN while finding your passion. I was 49 when i got my first drivers licence lol
Nevaeh, you’re so mature and level headed for your age, and those are very admirable qualities. It’s evident that you’ve come from a healthy, happy and sound upbringing. May the Lord continue to guide you in every aspect of life and bless you richly. ❤
My wife and I have raised 7 kids to adult. We've had input into some of our grandchildren. (others are younger) What I can tell you is that out of the 7 adults we raised, 2 are doing what they planned on doing when they left high school. One is a Registered Nurse, the other is a Speach Therapist. Both have Master's degrees in their profession. The other 5 are employed in jobs they've settled in after trying out other potential careers. Two of them have made the military their career. Over my 55 year work history, I had 3 primary careers. Yes, when I became bored with one, I would find a different one. What I'm saying is, if you have a passion, find a way to make it sustainable. IGf you have more of a wandering heart, find a way to make that sustainable. Do Not let yourself be trapped into something that doesn't give you fulfillment, just because you put it on a plan. Good Luck!
I really wanted to go to college myself. I finally went in my mid- 30 and what amazed me the most was I was taught to think and ponder my own voice and I was exposed to so many possibilities. Education comes in all kinds of forms besides college there is trade schools/apprenticeships and on the job training. Life is a school too. I like the idea of trying out different areas that might interest you. Being open minded, flexible and willing helped me out. Please don't let fear rule your world and remember we each just have to show up to each new day the best we can. Know that we all do the best we can. My best may not be your best but as humans we are doing our best . Ask for your limitations and sure enough they're yours.
Hoping things went well on your DL written test on Nov. 9!! ❤ Getting a drivers license is such a pivot-able moment in time. Sending positive thoughts & hugs!! 🤗
My son got his permit Jan. 2022 and that is the only written test he had to take. Now he just has to drive so many hours and then take the actual driving part of the exam. Now if I can get him behind the wheel it will be all good he just doesn’t want to… crazy kiddo!! Good luck on your test!!
When taking the test for a CDL the written portion was mainly about distances. Also quite a bit about proper procedure at intersections lighted and non-lighted three-way and four-way with stop signs. I don't know if they have very many roundabouts in Idaho, but I encountered quite a few when I visited my daughter when they lived east of Brighton Colorado, and got to understand them pretty well. I live in Bismarck North Dakota now and people here do not have a clue how to use a roundabout ! They have put in two and they're thinking about putting in more but they don't have the room for it. They need to send these Engineers somewhere to understand properly what is needed. Because a round about for local traffic with cars and Pickups is not the same as one for semis and delivery trucks. Not to cause you any anxiety but I would look into that. Also a lot of people in the state of North Dakota do not know what a right and left turn lane is unless there are arrows painted on the asphalt directing them. Good luck with your written test and you're driving test should be a breeze if your Examiner is haveing a good day. That last sentence with sarcasm!
I hope you will consider the medical field. I’ve been a nurse since 1988 & it is a rewarding career. The feeling you get from helping someone is awesome.
I remember those days as if it was yesterday. My mother taught me to always have 2 career plans to make a living. Always have one to fall back on if the main career you’re let go for some reason. There can be many reasons that aren’t your fault but the fault of the company. While in college take classes that you never thought you would take. You learn so much about yourself and something in a class may spike a natural interest you never thought about. Good luck!
At 16 yrs old....I was just living day to day not really thinking of where I'd like to be in 5 years. So for u to not have an idea of what you'd like...it's okay..it's normal. I'd say to you...just pray for clarity and pray that God shows you the way. And your parents are great parents as they will probably give you 1000's of options....they'd be your next best guidance. You're a special young woman with the whole world in front of you. I wish you the very best! God Bless you!
I too live with a 16 year old who just got her license. She is an artist (dance) and we have been talking about career paths. You can be happy at anything you choose to do... and you can change your mind... as long as you have an outlet for your creative gifts. That's a God thing trying to get out. Gotta have that.
Nevaeh you are a very intelligent lovely young lady! Your at the right age to contemplate where and what you want to do with your life. It’s not all cookie cutter and there are many options you can think about. Try not to stress just realize every action has a consequence. You will change your mind probably a few times down the road but that’s ok too! Just keep a level head and do what gives you passion and peace in your heart. Wishing you the best of everything and I’m sure you did great on your test! 💕
No decision you make is the wrong one. Everything will lead you to the place your ment to be. Your an intelligent young lady with all the right ingredients. ❤⭐
Hope you aced the drivers test. As for college, I learnt three things that gave me a better understanding about school, Focus, Friendship and Fun. For without any of these three nothing can be accomplished. Merry Xmas.
These are great conversations to have options to consider. However 16 you may may not know everything you want to do. But your parents are incredible to allow you to step forward into challenges and opportunities
thinking of the future is important, how ever i was a kid that was a day dreamer, i sat there looking out the window waiting for the lesson to end, but i was good at chess... exams i didnt do well, mostly C's and D's so i finished school and joined the military the big question they asked me is 'what do you wanna do?' they ran off a list and i looked at it and i thought logistics, planning and distributing munitions, food and equipment, it turns out i was REALLY REALLY good that too because it was just like chess, always planning ahead what the next move might be, what i soon realised is that i had actually learned a trade something to do when i retire from the military and so i did i opened a logistics company delivering goods for companies and this was when computers and online shopping was taking off and we built a decent size company across the country and were going global, i bought out my friend and well the business took off massively... so since then and now i have retired from that business and handed the controls to my kids, how ever the story doesnt end there, after looking around myself and the wife bought a large property in the countryside and began to build a farm/farmshop, a place for rare UK species, now im busy running this business and enjoying it... even at almost 80 years old... my point is, any choice you make will be the right one, its how you proceed with it that's the hard part. you are doing well so keep up the good work and follow your dreams not what a piece of paper says.
It is my hope that you will take us along in your life journey. From major changes to little adjustments, it will be a pleasure to watch you develop into the amazing person God has for you to be.
So lovely...you are going to be just fine...I know it's not easy,I homeschooled my kids...but you have already sung in front of audiences,that is already a huge step in confidence building,so you are going to be just fine...
So proud of you for sharing your conversation with your parents. And since you have been home schooled and not in public school interactive classés where you all discuss everything. And you calling for your test for your drivers licence. It is so nice to see you stepping up. Way to go girl. And love your hair it's really pretty. Love your new bedroom. So keep us up dated on your plans.
Nevaeh. You are going to be able to do anything you want in your life! The more things that you accomplish the stronger you will become feeling comfortable in your decision making! Your strong, intelligent, and beautiful!! Just believe in yourself and you are going to be awesome!! Believe and always be happy
Wow the rules are so different from state to state on getting your license. Here in NY there is only 1 written test for your permit. Then driving road test for license. Cheering for you! Also glad to see you back on you tube. ❤
You'd do great in contemporary music performance, I'm an old dude who completed my music performance degree in my mid 40s, I've seen you perform on CZcams, and being home schooled you have the skills necessary to complete independent assignment work. I loved the opportunity to get playing music with lots of young people closer to my kids ages than my own, brought this old man right up to date with modern music.
Holy cow... she posted!!
She did , she did, That's just great. Wish her well on anything she does 🙏🏼🕊️
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So much really good advice for everyone on these pages!!!
You’re an amazing, intelligent and courteous young woman. A perfect example of how great parents, a good family and homeschooling works. Keep it up. Oh, and your singing is amazing.
Agreed
I too agree 👍
and beautiful too :)
I remember the day that I realized that there was something I needed to think about beyond fun summers, friends and my own personal needs. I was 16 and having a talk with my mom and she said I needed to start helping with my expenses like buying my cloths. Up to that point I realized I had totally relied on my parents for everything with no thought to adult life. It was a memorable moment for a kid with no cares in the world. At that moment something unlocked in my brain. First of all it was a shock that I realized I would not be able to get up in the morning and think about nothing else but what fun I might have each day. I had to start thinking adult things. I realized I was seeing the end of my childhood. I accepted the challenge because it actually excited me about facing the unknown and I got to write my future story. What direction was I going to go? New thoughts. New considerations. I am 75 years old and I remember that day like it was yesterday. It's a life changing moment. You are very fortunate to have parents who are not afraid to accept new challenges and lead by example. They are your greatest resource. Bounce ideas off them freely. Strangly, parents sometimes have ideas for you to consider that you might not have thought about. 😉 Make sure part of your plan is to grow your CZcams channel. It will become a steady revenue source that can help you bring your dreams to reality. If you follow your parents current plan of weekly posts you can piggyback of their schedule and quickly incorporate many of their viewers who will subscribe to help you out. You might even get some patrons. Think about this as your first business. Develop a plan. Show behind the scene stories. People are interested. I know, seems crazy someone would want to watch you feed the rabbits or learn to improve your horse skills or practice your piano or guitar but they do. I have every faith you will succeed. Good luck.
Great advice for her!
Great advice ! I'm 65 and can relate to your comment so much.
Great advice. I started work when I was 13 but didn't figure out my career path until after my Jr of college. The path to a fun and full life is never straight forward.
Fantastic words of wisdom❗️❤️
Mike, what a nice comment to write here. In a way I wish I had the same moment that you did, but being the youngest of 5 I think my parents were too tired and just kinda over it. The result: I'm a 45 year old man who never started thinking most of the normal adult thoughts about sacrifice and future planning. My life has been a constant roller coaster because of the fact that I never took adulthood seriously. Thankfully, my life seems to be working out better than expected due to luck, the kindness of others, and a small modicum of charm. I'm happily married, no kids, and I'm basically "retired" and living in Mexico. Life is funny like that. In a way, I'm starting over now that parts of my life have finally settled down. I started my own youtube channel and I'm trying to tell my story. I must admit to being in complete admiration of youtubers like Nevaeh who have such natural ability and comfort in this medium! The last part of your comment reminds me of a lesson I sadly learned to late in life: People overestimate what they can accomplish in a year, and severely underestimate what they can accomplish in 5 or 10 years. When you are young 5 and 10 years feel so far away, so we don't plan for it (or at least I didn't), but it's a very forgiving timeline, while we all think we can accomplish so much in a single year! Anyway, to anyone reading this: Life has no rules, and with 8 billion of us on earth, you need to just focus on your own progress and not the progress of others. Oh, and be kind to yourself and others.
This is the right age to prepare for that big world out there. My daughter has lived a very sheltered life by my husband and myself. She's 23 and suffers from social anxiety. She's waiting for an assessment for autism which does say a lot. Despite this She's very slowly trying to get the strength to face the world in her own time but I have faith. I'm an older parent so I understand. The only difference is that your not autistic but will have a little anxiety but your strong. You will know in time. I'm so rooting for you in all your endeavours when you decide. Your a beautiful young lady inside and out. Love you lots. ❤️
My daughter wanted to become a an RN. She became an LVN and was working in her field and saw so much illness she felt was due to our diet. She changed and became a licensed Dietitian. My point is you are a smart wonderful young woman. You will be able to accomplish anything. Just always remember the direction can change.
Nevaeh - You have been truly blessed by having two wonderful parents, who will assist you lovingly and patiently. I pity young people who don't have such strong parents. It has been enjoyable watching you mature, via You Tube, the last couple of years. Best of Luck!!
Consider reaching out to people that are in careers you’re interested in and interview them. Make lists of questions you have about their fields of work and ask away. I had to do this for a college success skills class and it really helped me narrow down career fields I wanted to pursue.
Go Nevaeh! We are all cheering you on! ❤
I spent 22 years driving tractor-trailer, I have a suggestion for you. If Mom and Dad will let you practice at home, or a parking lot, I suggest you practice figure 8s, backwards and forward. That will build your control confidence. Good luck.
I turned 60 years old last summer, but I remember that time in my life that you are currently experiencing like it was just last week. O the adventures and experiences you have set before you! Best wishes for success with your upcoming driving tests, Nevaeh. You have a lot of people in your corner, pulling for you. :)
Good luck with the tests Nevaeh, although as its the 13th November today you will have already done the written one ! Hope that it went well. My granddaughter is learning to drive here in the UK, but she is seventeen the minimum age for obtaining a drivers licence over here. I love your positive attitude and to hear that you have realised that you have to think about what you want to achieve in future. You will no doubt be successful with the help and support of your great parents. 🤩
Nevaeh... You got this girl..👍
You're very smart and level-headed...
I have every confidence in you... my dear...
Beautiful thumbnail by the way...👍
Good videos...keep it up, Navaeh !!!
Huh Neveah at 16... you have video blogging skills (love your footage in this one), you are intelligent, eloquent, you have a beautiful singing voice, play an instrument, have many self sufficient skills watching and helping your parents build your homestead, you cook and have interest and knowledge on nutrition...the confidence to make calls and appointments for yourself....and lots more!! As an ex counsellor to youth your age, I say you are set for life! Don't worry about the plan, or knowing about the future...focus like you said on exploring, discovering who you are, follow your instinct, listen in to your internal compass. You are not meant to know what you are going to do for the rest of your life now (we never know plus you can change your mind, I went back to do a masters at 30-36 yrs old). Ask yourself all the questions yes! Don't worry about the answers for now. Have fun, enjoy your youth! Thank you for sharing.
Thank you !!!
You are back, that is wonderful, 👍🏼 happy you love the 🏠 house. You will do just fine, it all happens gradually, don't rush it. You will figure it out. Bless you girl 🙏🏼 btw you'll be a great driver as well.
You’re doing Great Sweetheart.. just take one step and one breath at a time. You’ve got this. You have a Great Foundation!!! God Bless You and Your Beautiful Family. You’ve Got This.😉👍🏻❤️
I wish they HAD talked alot to us about our future when I went to public school!!!
You’re an amazing, intelligent and courteous young woman.
Hope your test went well. Thanks for sharing! Have a wonderful day!
Thanks for sharing. I’m sure you did great on your test. Blessings
I completely understand how you feel. I just turned 21 and the junior/ senior year of high school was probably the most stressful time in my life. There is just so much you feel you need to have figured out and sorted all at once, and it is so overwhelming! But, one thing that I feel is really useful to know is that plans will probably change in the future, so your plan now doesn't have to be perfect. One just needs to choose a direction to go, and adapt as changes come. Good luck in your endeavors, and try not to get too stressed!
Thank you!!
Good for you...baby steps is still moving forward.
Thank you for sharing I hope that you passed your test this one is a little behind ☺️ . God bless you and your family .
Wow, your post gave me a flashback. I am 74 and remember when I was recently 16, my mother saying to me near the end of the summer term, 'Now you must find a job'. A little voice inside me whined, 'but it's the summer', thankfully, I didn't say it out loud!! That morning I went to our local newsagents and in the window was a note asking for summer farm workers! I called them from the phone box outside the shop and was taken on! I think my mother was a little surprised at the speed with which this happened. I am so glad she said that to me, I kind of woke up! And my first pay packet, I felt rich!!
Good luck with whatever you choose!
What a poignant memory Michael, thanks for sharing.
Great video Nevaeh. Really enjoyed it. Keep up the great things you do for family and yourself. Good luck on the test. You got this for sure.
It sounds like my US citizenship test. There were 100 questions. Memorized all cause they give you a CD with the questions and answers. All my office team mates, all of them Americans studied with me for moths. It was so fun and encouraging of them and inclusive. Sadly that camaraderie is gone. Good luck sweat girl. You were raised to shine and you already do. 💕❤️🥑💃
Good on you...bite off small chunks at a time. Easily digestible. You also have a great base to jump headlong into whatever you feel like doing.
I am 68 years old and have never contemplated 5 yr plans. That doesn't mean that they are to be discounted. Prior planning prevents poor performance. That you are performing short-term plans and have set completion goals is commendable. Keep this in mind when contemplating future education goals. Note that your driving testing was a plan that enabled you a life skill. This is what you should consider in education, keeping in mind that your strengths and talents will change throughout your life. So college vs trade schooling is always a challenge - discuss this with your parents.
Do you wish that you did set 5 year goals for yourself?
Good to see you back, give us a duet with your brother please
Nevaeh, you are an amazing young person. I love that you respect your parents enough to consider their question. Go for gold Nevaeh. The world's your oyster 💗
This brings back memories, my daughter is 33, when she purchased her first car, I made sure she could check the fluids and change a tire. I actually made her change the tire all by herself. I was right there to provide guidance and make sure she was doing everything safely.
Your an awesome young woman and your parents are beyond amazing and fantastic! I love their channel!!
Your channel is great too! Know you have people rooting for you and praying for you and the family ❤
I have followed you because I stumbled across your parents about a year ago. YOU GOT THIS NIVEAH!! I’m so happy to see you thrive and grow into your own self! 🙌🏻❤️
My youngest boy thought he wanted to be a veterinarian when he grew up, we set up a work program so he could go help out at a local vet to determine if that was a good career path. Turns out he was allergic to cat dander. He is now a computer technician. You never know, it worked out well for him and I’m sure it will for you because of your upbringing. 👍
I'm sure you passed your wriiten, good luck on the driving portion!
Good video Nevaeh. You will do fantastic. 🌞🇨🇦
At 16 I knew where I wanted To be by 40, 5 years I had no idea. Now did I meet that goal 10 years ago. Had a home, land to go hunting on, and enough money for retirement. Yep!
Keep the pace girl you got this in the bag you’ll make it❤
It is very hard to know what you will do with the rest of your life at your age. However it is a good time to begin thinking about it.
I found through the years working with people your age that college was a wonderful place to assist you in making those big decisions.
I would suggest taking a broad range of classes (including acting classes because I have a feeling you might flourish in that environment).
If it takes a couple of years decide.. let it, but definitely get your drivers license first. Wishing you all the best in your journey.
Good to see your posting you are on the right track I’m sure you will pass the tests!😊😊
Nice to see her handing her life. You have done a beatiuful job of raising your children. You have four awesome children. Who are well rounded and beatiuful young people.
We want to know how the test went! Welcome back. Great to see you on here!
Exciting! I'm sure you will do well, you have a good head on your shoulders, you're talanted, beautiful and you have everything you need to become successful in whatever you pursue...the world is your oyster. Thank you for taking me back to 16yo when I had a very similar conversation with myself, I was the oldest of 4 girls and looking back I was very responsible ... like you. 🌿
Really? Who are trying to kid? You will ace it and beyond!!! You’ve got this!!!🎊 ❤
I had a chuckle when your speech went blahh! during the voice recording! I'd be willing to bet there's no-one who's never done that😂!!
You got this, it's one step closer to growing up. Take your time in trying to figure out what you want in life, explore all the different avenues that are out there, you have plenty of time. Wishing you all the best in whatever endeavors you pursue.
TBH as long as I have watched all of you, you have been the one in the back ground. But I have noticed that you are the one who has the broad shoulders. So, I went to college but when I got out and started having to support a family, I let my mind and my wallet go together. College was too much social and to me was too expensive. So I studied some in the field of transportation, then went to work as an Operations Manager for Toyota World Wide. I made excellent money while doing what I loved. All on my family was taken care of so no one was left out of my life. Now at the age of 77 I am much the better off in doing things my way. I'm pulling for you.
Nice note Jimmy. I'm 45 and finally waking up to the fact that we can do anything we set out minds to and that it's never too late.
Sweet sixteen... Great years ahead of you. You'll do really well in the written and driving tests because you understand responsibility. Happy that the family are all comfy and cozy in the new house. Now that it's 99% done, it feels like the project only started last week. Life is funny that way, as it is with every year of life post birth. That ball rolls faster and faster. Hugs from Hawaii.
Nevaeh,
You're so smart and amazing! Your parents and family love you so much, and I'm so happy you have their love and support to help guide you towards your future goals and dreams.
There is a lot of pressure as a young adult, to decide what you want to do in life, but know that as you begin to venture out, there will be doors that don't open and doors that do. (Notice all the dead lines as you tried to schedule a drivers test?!) I recommend choosing the ones opportunities that excite you and give you peace.
Being nervous is normal when trying new things! Experience will give you confidence, keep carrying your self respect through it and you will create a very good life for yourself in the future.
I was homeschooled til college and loved it, you're not missing out on anything in public school, and you'll have a more established sense of self as an adult because you have lived awhile already without the societal pressures and norms being too close.
Don't ever let the need to impress other people dictate how you feel. & try to free yourself of unnecessary pressure that you have to have it all figured out before you embark, because if you be yourself, all the right people and situations will come naturally
Thank you so much ☺️☺️
A very smart talented young lady with great parents--do what you love and love what you do-Blessings to all of you.
Your a smart girl Neveah, and your parents did an amazing job raising you. Will keep you in prayer 🙏
Proverbs 3:5-6 trust in the lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.
Hey, stranger! Super good to see your face on your own video again! I hope your written test went well. I'm certain it did. Have you done the driving portion of the test yet? If not, you might wanna get that done before the snow flies. See you later, love bug!
Thank you!! No I haven’t yet, still trying to work on my driving.
@@NevaehSouza - I'm sure you are closer to ready than not. You just need more confidence. That said, when I received my license I was experienced in driving, but not in traffic. I learned as I went. Drove pretty slowly at first. Annoyed the other drivers on the road immensely I'm sure, but in time I became more confident. You got this! Drive drive and drive some more. Whether you are in traffic or not the continuous driving will instill the confidence. 😉
Great video Neveah! Glad you had the conversation with your wonderful parents. Think about what you want to do and try and interview people that do that job! I’m sure you will crush your drivers test! Best of luck!
Nevaeh, your so eloquent on the phone. My daughter hates having to make these kinds of phone calls. To book appointments and even to order take out. She’s fine talking to strangers face to face. Just phone shy 😬😃
Good luck with you theory test.
Good luck with your tests for driving❤️🇨🇦
Girl, you got this! I love that your parents gave you the freedom to choose what you would like to do with your life.
When I was getting ready to graduate from high school, my mom told me. We want you to go to college to be a school teacher. My reply was, no way! You go to college to be a teacher, I'll stay home and cook for dad. Long story short, I went to college and became a Medical Technologist. It's now called, clinical laboratory scientist. It's not for everyone, but it's given me a decent honest living.
You are a lovely, seemingly sensible young woman and you will make the right decisions. I think your parents have prepared you well.
16 is young. But it is time to think about your future. Im 69 and just now able to fulfill my life goals lol. I wanted to be a mom on a farm with 10 kids.
Then Vietnam war happened. I joined the military. Started as a medic. They kept offering schools so i was xray rech, physical therapy tech,burn therapist, surgical tech, respiratory therapy, occupational therapy, then LPN. I stayed in the medical corp .Ended up with only one son soooo adopted 7 more. Then 4 more in my 60s. Have had 2 farms . So plan but be open to opportunities ready to jump when the timing is right.
Learn to trust your intuition. It is never wrong. I can honestly say i have loved every job i have had. Never stop learning, growing. Your folks are great examples of working smart, hard, and achieving their dreams. Trust them. Trust yourself. My farm is in the Sacred Valley of Peru!!!
I have 10 grandkids now
Oh and i was working for money on farms since i was 10. Learning all aspects of animal husbandry, was in the FFA , so learned about showing animsls and parliamentary procedure. Small engine repair , how to drive a tractor, spread manure, bale hay, order and mix feed. How to butcher and process the animals i grew. Milked 13 cows and 4 goats every morning before school ( by hand) Bred, trained and bought and sold horses. I had 10 of my own by the time i was 14.plus competed in Western / English and Trail riding. So have FUN while finding your passion.
I was 49 when i got my first drivers licence lol
Good Luck on your driver's test! I'm sure you'll do great! You're a smart girl. Remember, baby steps!! 🧡🏡🍂🦌
Nevaeh, you’re so mature and level headed for your age, and those are very admirable qualities. It’s evident that you’ve come from a healthy, happy and sound upbringing. May the Lord continue to guide you in every aspect of life and bless you richly. ❤
My wife and I have raised 7 kids to adult. We've had input into some of our grandchildren. (others are younger) What I can tell you is that out of the 7 adults we raised, 2 are doing what they planned on doing when they left high school. One is a Registered Nurse, the other is a Speach Therapist. Both have Master's degrees in their profession. The other 5 are employed in jobs they've settled in after trying out other potential careers. Two of them have made the military their career. Over my 55 year work history, I had 3 primary careers. Yes, when I became bored with one, I would find a different one.
What I'm saying is, if you have a passion, find a way to make it sustainable. IGf you have more of a wandering heart, find a way to make that sustainable. Do Not let yourself be trapped into something that doesn't give you fulfillment, just because you put it on a plan. Good Luck!
I really wanted to go to college myself. I finally went in my mid- 30 and what amazed me the most was I was taught to think and ponder my own voice and I was exposed to so many possibilities. Education comes in all kinds of forms besides college there is trade schools/apprenticeships and on the job training. Life is a school too. I like the idea of trying out different areas that might interest you. Being open minded, flexible and willing helped me out. Please don't let fear rule your world and remember we each just have to show up to each new day the best we can. Know that we all do the best we can. My best may not be your best but as humans we are doing our best . Ask for your limitations and sure enough they're yours.
You are so mature for your age. Whatever you do, I hope you will continue to share you gift of music! You have so much to offer. You are so talented!
Glad you are back and wonderful and happy that you are going for your driving test to get driver’s license you got this
Will be praying for you as you study for your test.💕🙏
Hoping things went well on your DL written test on Nov. 9!! ❤ Getting a drivers license is such a
pivot-able moment in time. Sending positive thoughts & hugs!! 🤗
My son got his permit Jan. 2022 and that is the only written test he had to take. Now he just has to drive so many hours and then take the actual driving part of the exam. Now if I can get him behind the wheel it will be all good he just doesn’t want to… crazy kiddo!! Good luck on your test!!
You have very good parents. Excellent thinking. Way to go 🎉
So glad to see you back posting new content. You are correct...time passes swiftly. Turn around and you'll be in your twenties !!
The Idaho license dept has practice tests on their site. It gives you real time feedback while testing.
It might help
When taking the test for a CDL the written portion was mainly about distances. Also quite a bit about proper procedure at intersections lighted and non-lighted three-way and four-way with stop signs. I don't know if they have very many roundabouts in Idaho, but I encountered quite a few when I visited my daughter when they lived east of Brighton Colorado, and got to understand them pretty well. I live in Bismarck North Dakota now and people here do not have a clue how to use a roundabout ! They have put in two and they're thinking about putting in more but they don't have the room for it. They need to send these Engineers somewhere to understand properly what is needed. Because a round about for local traffic with cars and Pickups is not the same as one for semis and delivery trucks. Not to cause you any anxiety but I would look into that. Also a lot of people in the state of North Dakota do not know what a right and left turn lane is unless there are arrows painted on the asphalt directing them. Good luck with your written test and you're driving test should be a breeze if your Examiner is haveing a good day. That last sentence with sarcasm!
I hope you will consider the medical field. I’ve been a nurse since 1988 & it is a rewarding career. The feeling you get from helping someone is awesome.
I remember those days as if it was yesterday. My mother taught me to always have 2 career plans to make a living. Always have one to fall back on if the main career you’re let go for some reason. There can be many reasons that aren’t your fault but the fault of the company. While in college take classes that you never thought you would take. You learn so much about yourself and something in a class may spike a natural interest you never thought about.
Good luck!
Loved your video. Good for you stepping up to the plate. Baby steps is right. Keep up the good work and keep us informed.
great job navaeh! learning from your talented mom on videography, editing, and storytelling. growing up and figuring out a path isnt easy
you go girl!!!! I made my kids make their appointments too and the ones that took the initiative are better for it! Praying all goes well!
At 16 yrs old....I was just living day to day not really thinking of where I'd like to be in 5 years. So for u to not have an idea of what you'd like...it's okay..it's normal. I'd say to you...just pray for clarity and pray that God shows you the way. And your parents are great parents as they will probably give you 1000's of options....they'd be your next best guidance. You're a special young woman with the whole world in front of you. I wish you the very best! God Bless you!
No matter what, you can do it!!! The whole world is waiting for you to explore and experience. I’m excited for you.❤
I too live with a 16 year old who just got her license. She is an artist (dance) and we have been talking about career paths. You can be happy at anything you choose to do... and you can change your mind... as long as you have an outlet for your creative gifts. That's a God thing trying to get out. Gotta have that.
Wonderful video, great job....you will succeed in whatever you choose...
Nevaeh you are a very intelligent lovely young lady! Your at the right age to contemplate where and what you want to do with your life. It’s not all cookie cutter and there are many options you can think about. Try not to stress just realize every action has a consequence. You will change your mind probably a few times down the road but that’s ok too! Just keep a level head and do what gives you passion and peace in your heart. Wishing you the best of everything and I’m sure you did great on your test! 💕
You are an amazing young lady and so beautiful. Sending blessings from Cape Town, South Africa 🇿🇦 🙏
No decision you make is the wrong one. Everything will lead you to the place your ment to be. Your an intelligent young lady with all the right ingredients. ❤⭐
Hope you aced the drivers test. As for college, I learnt three things that gave me a better understanding about school, Focus, Friendship and Fun. For without any of these three nothing can be accomplished. Merry Xmas.
Love your channel Nevaeh! Wishing you only the best!
Nevaeh, amazing young lady. Like it has been mentioned!
Your parents talk 👍🏼
They Truly ❤. Love you. Wanting the best for you Always!
These are great conversations to have options to consider. However 16 you may may not know everything you want to do. But your parents are incredible to allow you to step forward into challenges and opportunities
You are so blessed to have the Parents that you have, they have taught you some good lessons for your life, and you will do OK!
There is a book called "What Color is Your Parachute?" It gives lots of creative ways to explore interests and directions to take in career selection.
As far as education past high school you should consider an apprenticeship. Many companies no longer want to hire college students.
thinking of the future is important, how ever i was a kid that was a day dreamer, i sat there looking out the window waiting for the lesson to end, but i was good at chess... exams i didnt do well, mostly C's and D's so i finished school and joined the military the big question they asked me is 'what do you wanna do?' they ran off a list and i looked at it and i thought logistics, planning and distributing munitions, food and equipment, it turns out i was REALLY REALLY good that too because it was just like chess, always planning ahead what the next move might be, what i soon realised is that i had actually learned a trade something to do when i retire from the military and so i did i opened a logistics company delivering goods for companies and this was when computers and online shopping was taking off and we built a decent size company across the country and were going global, i bought out my friend and well the business took off massively...
so since then and now i have retired from that business and handed the controls to my kids, how ever the story doesnt end there, after looking around myself and the wife bought a large property in the countryside and began to build a farm/farmshop, a place for rare UK species, now im busy running this business and enjoying it... even at almost 80 years old...
my point is, any choice you make will be the right one, its how you proceed with it that's the hard part.
you are doing well so keep up the good work and follow your dreams not what a piece of paper says.
It is my hope that you will take us along in your life journey. From major changes to little adjustments, it will be a pleasure to watch you develop into the amazing person God has for you to be.
So lovely...you are going to be just fine...I know it's not easy,I homeschooled my kids...but you have already sung in front of audiences,that is already a huge step in confidence building,so you are going to be just fine...
So proud of you for sharing your conversation with your parents. And since you have been home schooled and not in public school interactive classés where you all discuss everything. And you calling for your test for your drivers licence. It is so nice to see you stepping up. Way to go girl. And love your hair it's really pretty. Love your new bedroom. So keep us up dated on your plans.
Nevaeh. You are going to be able to do anything you want in your life! The more things that you accomplish the stronger you will become feeling comfortable in your decision making! Your strong, intelligent, and beautiful!! Just believe in yourself and you are going to be awesome!! Believe and always be happy
Good luck Nevaeh! Keeping my fingers crossed for ya👍🤗❤
Dang its been a whole year!
Thanks...
I'm sure you knocked the test out the park x
Wow the rules are so different from state to state on getting your license. Here in NY there is only 1 written test for your permit. Then driving road test for license. Cheering for you! Also glad to see you back on you tube. ❤
Neveah I am amazed at how articulate you are at just 16 years old, whatever career you chose you will do well. 👍👍
You'd do great in contemporary music performance, I'm an old dude who completed my music performance degree in my mid 40s, I've seen you perform on CZcams, and being home schooled you have the skills necessary to complete independent assignment work. I loved the opportunity to get playing music with lots of young people closer to my kids ages than my own, brought this old man right up to date with modern music.