Kenyan Woman Pledges Her Loyalty To Nigerian Men AND THIS HAPPENS| Ep.185
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- This Kenyan woman went viral on tik tok after insulting Kenyan Men in her country. For many reasons, she refuses to date kenyan men. Her current boyfriend is NIGERIAN. This content has made its waves all over East Africa.
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There is a saying in London. " If you are from Africa and you are new in London and can't find a job, approach any Nigerians' This is because, in the UK British people of Nigerian origin are members of parliament, and they are 12 in number. Most fast food franchises in the city of London's inner council are run mostly by Nigerians, and fast food businesses like KFC, King Burger, and Pizza Hut. They also have a stake in the cleaning business. Most public transport companies such as rail services and city bus transport are cleaned by companies owned by Nigerians. The company that owns London Gatwick Airport, the second biggest and busiest airport in the UK belongs to a Nigerian. That same company also owns London City Airport. There is no financial institution in the UK, you will NOT find a Nigerian as a manager or CEO, the same as the healthcare services in the UK and Universities. People can only see what school dropouts and jobless youths are doing online and tend to condemn an entire country.
...and there are also countless instances of Nigerian con artists all over the world in almost every country they go, so that makes many people not want to deal with, or trust Nigerians, even though Nigeria has glowing testaments of their education and bla bla bla bla! Who cares?
The funny thing is these same people love their European oppressors and make excuses for them. The British monarch that visited Kenya was given a red carpet reception despite the fact that his ancestors murdered Kenyans and took their land. The reason Africa is where it is is the Enemy told us to hate one another and foolishly MOST AFRICANS do so
@@davidchiazor Not all Kenyans supported the visit. Personally, I thought it was distasteful for the government to have provided them the red carpet treatment.
@@MrMatujames
He must have deleted his comment.
@Morrisruiz2729 So true 💯 As a Nigerian who is based in the USA Nigerians are the most educated Immigrants here and very successful you will see them in the white house too…. Biden hired lots of Nigerians we are very smart and sweethearts just a few bad eggs within us. Yes, we are lovers and our Men are masculine they naturally have the instinct to provide and protect the woman they love. We are also loud, vibrant, and friendly.…. To other Africans that hate us f****k you go save yourself from low self-esteem. We don’t care how you see us!!!
Nigeria is a country of contradictions. Unfortunately, our scammers are famous worldwide. Luckily, our culture of kindness andGIVING is now also gaining attention. A Nigerian friend never comes to your house empty-handed. And if we don't have money, we come with vital information. We just can't stop giving.
Nigeria is a country of contradictions, that's the only truthful thing you said. The rest is just generalisations and self-aggrandizement. My sister's abusive/deadbeat husband and his equally measured brother are nothing of what you just described so I guess we shouldn't generalise.
Yeah, I love Nigeria and Nigerians but your comment is a bit delusional
All nationalities complain about their counterparts. 😂
It is easy to point fingers to others without looking at oneself. The guy in the middle condemned her passionately for generalization, which is wrong because the woman in the video did say it is not all Kenya men that are bad. She also said that she had good experience with Kenyan men. Why did he completely ignore that part of what she said and focus on generalization? When it comes to generalization, these same group of people have sat on this platform countless number of times generalizing about Nigerians and here they are now condemning it. When generalization is used for Nigerians, it is okay, but when it is used for other people it is bad. It is shameful! "All of una go explain tire"
Some black people has thus this habit of generalising about ourselves....all this happens in every society and communities allover but we will come and social media talking rubbish about ourselves
He went in for nothing... No man has to go above and beyond if they dnt want to... I like this podcast but ol boy in the middle sounds like a beta male rn...
Bcoz 'African Americans' need to push their hidden agenda!!
Because everybody knows that her definition of "bad" Kenyan men is stingy men who refuse to part with their money and spend on her like she's some sort of princess. To her a good man is one who pampers a girl and spends money on her.
His name is Agaba
Nigeria is the boogeyman of Africa and the black diaspora worldwide. God bless Nigeria! The giant of Africa 🇳🇬🇳🇬🇳🇬
Respect 🫡
That's what happens when you gain a reputation as scammers, pimps and dope dealers. The bad actions of the few ruin it for the whole country. Usually criminals can't afford to leave the country, Nigeria is one of the rare cases where they continue their illicit activities abroad since their country is fkd.
@kr3539 Incorrect 9jerian men simply dominate in every aspect of life. Blacks generally tend to need a boogeyman because of their victim mentality which has been ingrained into their psychy over the last few decades!. One thing is however constant & consistent. You CANT Stop a 🇳🇬, so focus on You instead. Gd luck 📌
You got to RESPECT 🫡 the NIGERIANS
But is nigerians who been arrested for that murder..That chopping is nigerian signature & when I heard trm I was not surprised knew most likely it will nigeians is not first rodeo on that thika road..
Is not first one heard off in nairobi.
these women from these other african countries seriously need to stop using nigerian men to slight the men in their country for the sake of going viral, it’s not a good look
Also I have so many Nigerian female friends that tell me that not all Nigerian men are generous or focused as many people like to generalize.
Its only kenyan, ugandan and south africa women going online and do that. Yes u found a good man but don't spit on your own men
@@africaine4889 I agree with one of your comments for once. Stupid and ignorant women are the only ones who publicly denigrate men in their nation. When their relationships fail, this woman will one day regret saying these things.
@@AfricanTravellerChannel only one tribe is generous and caring. Igbos
The British that killed and are still exploiting Kenyans and Uganda are loved and worship by these people,.. Africans stop hating your fellow Africans. Majority of Nigerians are not fraudsters.
I love how Nigerians get the hate from other Africans countries because they are jealous of Nigerians particularly Nigerian men. Nigerian men keep ya head up.
I am a nigeria living in europe for many years and i am against any forms of criminality. There are bad Nigerian people here in Europe but there are many very good Nigerian people who are well educated and work hard for their wealth which some other African presume and in most cases they are scammers. Here in Europe Nigerian are the most hardworking and professionally and financially successful than any black African. The second in the list are Ghanian who are also very hardworking. Nigerian are goal getters so other African should come and learn from us Nigerian i mean in a positive way. But i must say that whatever negative some African will say about Nigerian., that will not stop the Nigerian person from achieving their targets or treating their wives and girl friends in a good way. This is our families culture.
You soooo right that's one thing I've said and will saying that in developed countries you find mostly good Nigerians & few sleepy ones but bro in africa is opposite we get mostly the worst kind & few good folk that's the problem.In africa all the good Nigerians are at home making an honest living.
Don't compare nigerians in our countries & in the first world the result are opposite
Tell them.
Well Nigerians are the ones that leave their country most, many Africans will go to other countries when they have something to offer, but Nigerians from my experience they come and will just do anything to survive, sell drugs, stolen phones, scam people, so many succeed because they do unacceptable things. I feel they are just degrading Africans, I means how many countries have been complaining about Nigerians over the years, come on don't defend what is so obvious. Many countries are trying to evolve to the better but can't accept being dragged down by people who will do anything and everything for money, that's a colonial mind set and Nigerians must address that in Nigeria
Shame on all Africans who are being foolish about this nonsense because the beauty of it is that she married a African and that's why the outsiders can easily divide us. One African, one love, one unity, one love. Its important for us to learn to be our brothers keepers.
Best line.. Beautiful ❤
As a Nigerian, I totally concur 100% to the fact that our women are so pampered and spoilt by the men to the extent that they now feel VERY ENTITLED like they have full rights to our money and wealth. They say "give a woman an inch, she will go for a mile".
This is why we Nigerian men view Eastern, Central and Southern African women like a breath of fresh air.
We show them a bit of the 'baseline' affection, care and generosity that had long become the normal for an average Nigerian woman, and they trip with surprise, happiness and excitement.
As a somewhat comfortable Nigerian young Igbo male, I didn't realise that I was doing soo much or going far above & beyond to be caring, protective and loving until I left Nigeria and moved to Europe as a student many years ago...where I started to date women from other African countries as well as races. It was then that I started to see woman showing me real gratitude for my little acts of kindness and niceness which I thought were the norm in terms of dating a woman.
Now I look back and see it differently. I see it that maybe, over time, the Nigerian women have so manipulated and emasculated the men in their society to the extent that the men now somehow see it as naturally obligatory on them to spend so much on a woman as a condition for having, winning and keeping her love.
It was here in Europe (while dating European born & raised women) that I clearly understood what a 50:50 or 'Women Equality' truly meant and stood for, and ever since then it is hard for me to date an average Nigerian woman because I will never feel loved knowing 'I am paying to play'.
Today, many of us Nigerian men are easily drawn to women from other African countries because they tend to be more appreciative, nicer, happier and more fun and ease to be with just because of the little things we do for them, and these qualities make them seem more attractive, appealing and exciting to go after as well as marry.
They are now our comfort zone because of the huge gratitude, excitement and happiness they show to us for the little things we do for them as the women in our lives (which would seems like the norm in Nigeria). But given the different orientation and social culture they come from, our generosity is highly appreciated.
The high level gratitude they show (which we Nigerian men are not used to) is what makes us to even wanna go the extra mile and do more because, as a man, it feels very fulfilling to be appreciated hence you wanna do more for her...even if you have no marriage intentions.
Also, given the excitement of them being foreign and having some of those foreign endowed curvy features that distinguish them (especially the Southern Africans) from our women, as well as an entirely different exotic culture - it is always a sort of fresh air from what we are used to in Nigeria.
As an average Nigerian man, I can say (without shaming Nigeria women) that we are truly attracted to and love our black sisters from Eastern & Southern Africa, and we are more than happy to date and 'wife' them up any day.
They show more gratitude than our average Nigerian women.
I know our Nigerian women may come for me for saying all this (even though they're very true facts) because one thing "most" women everywhere hate is ACOUNTABILITY (being held accountable).
Yeah Nigerian men are the best. I will debate whose music is better, whose dress sense is better but I will never debate the fact that Nigerian men give the best experience to women.
Shut up. Nigerian women are the best. We close our eyes when you run around so it’s only fair you continue to provide for us!
@@Nash0303😂😂😂 You can't debate music or dress fashion either.Even that's the area that Nigerian men thumps other African men 😂😂😂😂😂
100% correct
Nawa for you o guy. Na your type fit sell im brother. Out there they just dey slam us while you dey here dey sell our women. Sure say u be Nina sef?
This was the most distasteful responses from two men who took the lady’s comment too personal.
How, that's how you see it. Please explain.
Oshay was really enjoying how master Gabs was lecturing the same minded ladies😂😂😂
Noticed too 😂😂😂
Nigerian men have built Nigeria and Kenyan men have built Kenya. I am sure this this lady would never move to go live in Nigeria with her man but she’d rather stay in Kenya which is built by Kenyan men who she doesn’t like!! See the contradiction? If she thinks Nigerian men are wonderful then Nigeria must be wonderful, please go live in Nigeria.
Rather than moaning about Nigerian men, maybe you should start pampering your women as Nigerian men do to their own women.
Do you expect Nigerian men when they are in Kenya to start looking and behaving like Kenyan men, e.g., appear sheepish; poor taste in fashion and cheap cloths; not fragrant, stingy, poor chat up lines, clueless how to treat a lady and give her a good time? 🙄🙄🙄
The Black ⚫️ Man in Nigeria 🇳🇬 and Kenya 🇰🇪 both need to unite 🙌 and be good and take care our Black ⚫️ Women all over Africa 🌍 no matter what country we are from. Kenyan brothers need to love ❤️ and respect Nigerian women just like they do Kenyan 🇰🇪 women.... It has absolutely 💯 nothing to do with if you are Nigerian or Kenyan its about being a righteous and good man overall as a Black ⚫️ Man from Africa 🌍 .... However, our brothers in Nigeria 🇳🇬 has brought this negative reputation upon themselves and wrought by there own hands..... Unfortunately!
I agree with the Kenyan Lady because Kenyan women are very lovable the only way a decent man can interact with them is with affection. They're some really good women.
Gold diggers
@Rais-we1that too
@@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee
Yeah, that can be a problem..
Double reject 😂
go tell that to Nigerin wormen in nigeria,and if thats what you are teaching your chilldren then i dont know
I lived in middle east for a while, every kenyan lady i met never talked good about their men, i mean i never met one that spoke good about kenyan men. Is it that bad? It made me to wonder how downtrodden their relationships could've been, that most kneyan ladies do not like dating fellow kenyan men there, rather they went for other nationalities and mostly Nigerian men. May be you guys can explain better next time..
Yes, well for the most part, Kenyan women are the only women (as a group) in Africa, who prides themselves on being feminists...But it's funny how, although Kenya is a westernised country, that may have allowed feminism..
Unfortunately, for these same Kenyan women...Its an overall westernised country that IS NOT in a matriarchal society (Oops, yep, an oxymoron) Sooo that's where a lot of the push back is coming from...Also where this "What??? No, not at MY expense!!! B* are you crazy??? " look on these poor Kenyan men's faces...Oh well, the more you see em, the more you know..🤷♀️
Her hair is done so meticulously done that it appears she has a crown on her head! What a dignified and royal persona she possesses! I can't speak for anyone else, but I am captivated totally by Joanita's natural and candid demeanor! You are destined for wonderful things young lady...I am absolutely certain of it!
Her complaints are legitimate. Who are you to disqualify someone’s complaints. Maybe it is you who do not understand her concerns fully. And the fact that she said them, and we all have biases means that they do exist among all of Africa. Let’s not try to clean it up and make it prestige, but identify it and approach it logically
She should have talked about her experience only. Where did she get the stats from to make a general opinion? How large was the sample size?
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A discord between Nigerian men and Kenyan women; where does Kenyan men come this in all? Nowhere!
Kenyan men are fine with Kenyan women; like her, dating Nigerian men. They deserve each other. No love lost. Nigerian men are not 'disliked' all over the world(not just in Kenya) for no reason at all. This is fact. It's hypocritical to pick Kenyan men as the face of her disgruntlement of how people feel about Nigerian men.
Conversely, after Kenyan women have been butchered by Nigerian men, it's the Kenyan man that's blamed or blames himself for not having had protected Kenyan women.
Am Nigerian yes she's right about Nigerian men but we've spoilt our women with love, money, and wealth now is taking a toll on us, because our women in Nigeria see it as their rights to spend our money as if they work for it themselves
Gengetone is a genre of Kenyan music that is very popular. It promotes rape culture; passing around women; being heartless; hookup culture and cheating. This music is seen as the ideal standard of some men who are looking for identity or belonging amongst other men. Kenyan men need to learn how to work on their own self-development (not just money-wise but also in terms of skills and being a healthy emotional being). Some men who are hurt by a woman send their friends to give her " character development". Which means that they will intentionally let their friends date their ex to break the woman's character and humble her as a form of revenge.
I understand that it is not good to generalise but if there is an epidemic of negative dating habits and a Kenyan woman is expressing displeasure with her dating pool. Telling her not to say that the entire pool is polluted (which she did clarify not all Kenyan men are bad) is not going to solve the problem. Healing as a continent is rough. We have to be willing to be vulnerable and look at our behaviour. Please revisit this subject and try to address the issue It's not an attack on men. This could be a mental health issue or a social skills issue as men might use alcohol or womanising as a point of comraderie instead of showing true vulnerability with each other.
I've never hated music like i hate gengetone. Its trash. Its too ratchet.
Kenyan men must focus on making Kenya a great county and building Kenyan families!
That's what real men do in their own countries!
Ignore disillusioned women!
I guess that doesn't count for Nigerian men because they're fleeing their country in droves and don't want to stay there. They're exporting their questionable characters to other countries.
Kabisa she can move over there
@@ananciataodindo7044 She will not. No one wants to move to Nigeria and to be surrounded all the time by Nigerians.
A woman's Achilles' heel is time.
A man's Achilles' heel is money.
Nigerian men & Kenyan women will not build Kenya.
Kenyan men will build Kenya.
@@koshkosh2745 And the Kenyan women interested in them can follow them to their country, which I notice they're not doing, preferring to live here instead.
Most African men feel overwhelmed & intimidated by Nigerian men. Nigerians are family oriented & taught from childhood the importance of treating women good, loving & caring for them. A Nigerian spends bcoz he has, he doesn't spend to impress - that's the nature. Nigerian man is inherently near perfectionist. Hardworking, goal oriented & goal getter. They know what they want & they go extra mile to get that which they set eyes on. It's regrettable that most black men(uninformed Africa Americans inclusive) feel intimidated & sometimes badmouth Nigerians for no legitimate reasons - sometimes refer Nigerians as arrogant. Nigerians are by nature confident peaple, they are not competing with anybody, they just do their things, but I bet you a Nigerian man doesn't take last & does everything to be at top(don't mistake it for arrogance or pomposity). I truly urge African men(esp.east & south) to emulate Nigerian man & learn to adore, cherish & pamper your woman - treat them like the queen they are. Give it to Nigerians - they're generally generous not only to women, men equally. Get yourself a Nigerian friend.
Have a Nigerian friend and you have a friend for life. They are pure souls.
The behaviour of Nigerian men has a lot to do with the way they are raised by their parents, especially their mothers.
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@@avigrett1484 that's bull crap 😂😂😂
Most African men 😂😂😂😂. Stop over reaching....Nigerian men are not different from other African men - the way we are raised is pretty much similar throughout the continent as far as gender roles are concerned. Personally, I feel like Nigerians in general, are overrated, even overseas.
It’s about baseline and collective tendecies. That is what she's talking about. I am suprised the guy in middle completely missed that. Also, she did say NOT all Nigerian men are good too, but he completely missed it. He accused the lady of generalisation while they all went on to agree that Nigerian men are goal oriented and achievers. Baseline. Like I stated, its about collective baselines. Cultures do have baselines. Arab muslim men do have baseline attitudes compared to Western European man's baseline attitude towards women. Its not about individuals, it's about the collective baseline. Some of you come across as pained because of what the lady said. blaming the woman is of no use and misplaced. If she only had Kenyan men as her options, then Oshay's position would have merit but she now has access to more options so she comes out to she her opinions of her experience. She actually said she had good experience with Kenyan men too. This discussion lacked some depth, while pretending to be ssaying it as it is.
Dusty 2naija. U go explain taya.
Kenyan men have more Olympic gold medal than all. Other African men put together, other than South Africa , Kenya is the most technically advanced country in Africa. Look at Nairobi, Mombasa, Kisumu, Nakuru, Eldoret, other than South Africa, who else in Africa has that. The Kenyan man did all that. In East Africa we say a man who comes for your sister is a good man, she is now he’s responsibility.. please my good Nigerians come get em all Kenyan women, take them back home with y’all.. We need space to bring home our Nigerian, Ghanain, Congolese,Carribean, American and European, Asian Wife, Gha naiGhanain, Carribean, American, European wives. Please make way. Go To Nigeria plenty of farm land, if you doubt that , check out itchy boots, y’all will love it
Can't wait to get to Kenya
For itchy boots you are wrong brother, itchy boots took a Northern Nigerian road to cross to Cameroon, Nigeria is three bigger than Kenya in land size, Nigeria cities is more developed than Kenyan cities, travel to Nigeria and find out yourself
Nigerian men beat women like crazy
They do my ex is abusive. He can't accept the fact he's sterile
WTF 😂😂😂 @@ReinaAfricana
It is not Kenyan men saying Nigerian men are bad or looking at them suspiciously...IT IS THE WHOLE WORLD anywhere they go they just this reputation thats just refusing to leave them.
It's racism and/or jelousy.
True, sadly so.
@@MonDieuMaCauseMonEpee💯 Definitely jealousy and envy.
And as the lady pointed out in the video, are Kenyan men saints? When you can't compete with the Nigerian men, you resort to bringing up nonsense. How come the Kenyan, Ugandan, Ethiopian, Tanzanian, Rwandese, SouthAfrican, Zimbabwean women, all leave the well behaved and non criminal men from these Countries and decides to follow, love and even marry the criminal Nigerian men?
If you watch the lady's video again, you will realize that the lady was responding to some Kenyan men who post videos online complaining about their women leaving them and following Nigerian men.
@KaiPhD Really? The best guy I ever worked with in the UK is a Nigerian Yoruba. I have also worked with other Nigerians and Ghnaians, Iranians. ... Great people. I am Kenyan and love my Kenyan brothers. Majority are focussed and very professional. On the other hand one must look at stats. Reputation with some Nigerian men is bad, which makes most people to generalise, which is wrong. It is not envy. Envy of what?
Man where Dima be getting these thumbnails and tear drops 😂
Dima living large in Russia
🤣🤣🤣
I am a Nigerian woman but i don’t have that opinion about them
Why not ?
These two men said it all, and very well that men who work hard, have money do have options need women who are going to add value to their resources instead of drama that tear down what they have built. Oshay made a great point about women who must date foreigner simply because men in her community, who know who and what she is don't want her for nothing. It's only until the foreign man finds out the bad realities about such a woman that they dump her. In short, men eventually dump a woman when they get to know the real bad self oast their looks and emotional appeals she initially presents. So, wo(men) need to get with whoever fits their goal, purpose, and values in life. Forget about the Nigerian man bringing a lot of gold and love when they meet you in Kenya, remember, he has women in Nigeria that can meet his needs at various levels with ease. They usually go marry their own Nigerian women, or may be already married in Nigeria, but just playing house with you. Embrace your own men and women in your own countries .
Hogwash! Using your untested theory, July Ruto (daughter of the Kenyan 🇰🇪 president) also married her Nigerian 🇳🇬 husband knowing full well he has another wife back home.
Stop spewing that stereotypical nonsense.
Are the needs of a successful man, more "resources"?
Is that what the average accomplished and successful man lacks?
Really...??? They need to get men in the show who are truly accomplished and ask them.
I think men generally need RESPECT, care and PEACE.
It is up to a women to discover what a particular man's needs are though.
Even if a man is rich or a millionaire, the right wife can turn him into a billionaire, because of the type of home she creates and how she unlocks his own dormant talent.
The right wife will be an ESSENTIAL ingredient even to a billionaire.
Just like a tiny pinch of yeast needed to make the dough rise.
@@andersonojoshimite6047 it is nonsense to you, but makes sense to others, so .....
Someone just pointed out ur hateful and fallacious generalizations by showing u a very valid case to ponder upon.Instead of you to engage him to prove urself,you are evasive, beating around the bush.You keep coming up with different conspiracy theories to enhance your low self esteem.There are many Nigerian men who are happily married to women of other nationalities and they live happily.You have deliberately turned a blind eye to several of your Kenya women,Uganda and south African women,who are youtubers,and are gladly sharing their blissful marital experience with their Nigerian hubbies on their CZcams channels on regular basis.out of hate and jealousy u prefer to spread stereotypical narratives about Nigerian men just to feel good about your selves.when in reality,u know u can't lie to urself.The phenomenon of baby mamas and single motherhood has assumed a significant proportion in your east african societies because your men are not as family oriented as Nigerian men.Such phenomenon is not rampant in Nigeria the way it is in your societies.Julia ruto the president daughter married a Nigerian man that has a wife and family in Nigeria.The narrative you are trying to spread.This is a shameful and pathetic way to cover up for your marital shortcomings.
Evil people.keep deleting comments that are exposing the truth
It’s crazy cause we Nigerian woman won’t say all those things about our men 😂 the only thing I can say is they are generous, but all of that other stuff 😅… besides why are East African women so money motivated. This channel should be called the Nigerian channel as every other topic is about us !
I hear what you are saying...
Nigeria is a proven formula for traction and to trend on social media these days. I wonder why ?.
@@johnanubseventh largest internet user in the world.
Because the Nigerian men spoils the Nigerian women, especially the Ibo man.
Once you date other African men you will learn to appreciate your Nigerian men better
50% of kenyan men hate nigerians? Where is she getting this data from? Did she ask all the men in the country?
Lol I hate these kinda videos, it's her choose of bad men
Now she wanna blame the entire nation,,,,,,
@@AustineAKwho's the bad man?
Kenyan men good for anything?
@@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 her choice of bad men
@@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 does not matter kenyan of all race, are building their country to make it better
They are good, maybe she's the bad one not the men
I'm sure her Nigerian boyfriend has done a good job & we genuinely wish them well but as the Panel has pointed out, people are good or bad as individuals & not as a Community. Although Assiciation & exposure can have an impact on all animals (humans included), so many times we underestimate the human soul's ability & desire to do good and this's where learning, counselling & experience tend to make even once "bad people" become good. Society seems to have grown impatient with giving people a meaningful second chance & this can be painful but generally speaking, perfect people or men simply DO NOT EXIST. We are a fallen specie. ❤
I couldn't agree more ..
The dude in the middle obviously has a comprehensive issue.
From my personal experiences in both parts of Africa, I believe Kenyan ladies are more romantic and more down-to-earth than Nigerian women. Many West Africans are discovering Kenyan Gals. Our women in West African ask for a lot. East African women, not so much. This must be why a topic like this keeps popping up. It's not difficult to know predict the result.
Best Episode Ever😂😂😂🇿🇦. Especially at the end🤟🏿 Drops Mic 🎙️.
Good breakdown Master Gabs.
She was only reacting to a video made by a Kenya hating Nigerians.
She also talked about them hating Kenyan girls for dating Nigerian men.Note that she said not all Kenyans if you had actually watched the whole video.Thats why its not good to take a little clip out of a whole cos its misleading and causes bias interpretation
You can’t compare Kenyan men with Nigerian men.. Nigerians are on another level
Of course the level of lies and deceit 🇳🇬
... of criminality.
Gabs is obviously feeling uncomfortable and bias towards the lady as she talks about his East African brothers. Assuming she is only saying those things because she has a Nigerian man and shw wants him to too up her Christmas paycheck is childish of him. She didn't generalise Kenyan men, she talked about a large % of Kenyan men, she said NOT ALL Kenyan men but MOST. Gabs seems, to me, to be the type of man she is referring to.
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Gab spoke wisely though but i think his ego was hurt. The nigerian man value for his wife and also sisters inclusive traced back to our nigerian mothers for the most parts So kudos to them.
Most kenyan men? How many did she date out of 30 million men?
@@AmazingMania when ppl say most Nigerians are scammers did they have an encounter with the 210million Nigerians to say that? Or most Ghanaians are laid back and not aggressive did they experience all the 34million ppl?
You guys gave it to the woman directly no BS. Nigerians are smart and play along with those East African women. Most women want or ask for things they can’t afford to give back. But last last men get the last laugh. I am a Nigerian watching from the United States
So this guy said @6:45 "I mean i have couple of issues with what this lady's position is, first of all, I find it problematic when somebody/someone uses generalisation to describe Men from an entire Male population of a Nation". But you African countries can generalise NEGATIVITY AND CRIMINALITIES from few on an entire Nation of Nigeria ," Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter!" . Regardless "WE MOVE HIGH" .
I always look out for Gabs' kicks 👌✅
In Nigeria, we are raised to take care of our women, we know our place as men. That does not mean other Africans lack the same qualities. We can learn from each other, let not nurse that feeling that we are better than our brothers from the east, west north or south. We are black people, we are brothers and we can teach and learn from each other. Peace, God bless Nigeria, God bless Africa and God bless the world, let peace reign please.
My Kenyan brothers - Don't entertain content/women like this lol, she's reaching for a reaction....
& Don't let people create imaginary beefs that don't exist - Most Kenyan men don't give 2 shits what a Nigerian man does - Its all Love.
Don't worry my brothers from kenya, we know a lot about that kind of women in S.A. unfortunately they will learn the hard way and the sad part is you will be uncles that are going to raise the so called caring romantic man children while those man will be enjoying life a new country that the economy is doing better, those guys are seasonal lovers who really don't care eventually they marry women from their country.
Off course they are scammers too go watch BBC there is whole documentary on it, y'all not a saint either
@@JohnHaze4666 It's so funny that so many Kenyan and SA women fall for these guys when everybody but them can tell exactly how it will play out. Yes, we get stuck raising their kids while they move on to their next conquest in another country.
Exactly
I'm a South African woman married to a Nigerian man. When we say Nigerian men, understand we are talking mostly about the men from the Igbo tribe.
A Igbo man pretending to be a SA woman. Nice try 😂😂😂😂.
Very correct. 9 out of 10. Zero Hausa men.
@@saggisokIs this really necessary?
@@avigrett1484lol. Na wa ooo. Hausa catching stray bullets 😅
@@avigrett1484 Very necessary because you love to steal Igbo glory but don't want them to get a fair share in your uselessss one Nigeria. Hypocriteees!
As a Kenyan in diaspora, I went to college with Nigerian brothers, while drinking having those men talk, them Nigerian guys opened up and told me how they like Kenyan girls for hang outs and good time😂, they told me Kenyan girls are so easy to get just get them spoiled you get that booty. They said Kenyan girls are pretty than their women, but they will definitely prefer their women for marriage. That lady should just focus on herself and the dude she’s dating now, don’t try to teach us how to be men.
I totally reject your assertion. Many Kenyan women have Nigerian husband's & happily married. Treating women like something "precious" is a cultural thing in Nigeria's parlance. Nigeria man especially the Igbo are taught that love for women, adoring, cherishing & treating them with respect is tantamount to loving God. Hence the uniqueness of a Nigerian. Love women, pamper them & adore them. Spoil them with gifts.
@@jacamara7612 i didn’t say many Nigerians, i said my mates in college, read through my lines, i never generalized anything here, so calm down
@@jacamara7612 same Nigerian Igbo man killed his wife here in Dallas TX so cool down dude…
@@mkenyamzalendo4130 :It's okay bro. But I bet it's guys'talk(mouth making/gossips) that your college friends engaged in -perhaps to make you feel small. That said, there's this saying in my place that goes; "A man's wealth is guaged/determined by the appearance of his wife". Growing up, my mother taught me that pampering my sisters, buying them gifts & protecting them is divine. Further, Nigerians being some of the most religious people on earth, have localized some of the bible verses: example; Acts 20:35(God blessed the hand that giveth). A Nigerian believes that when he spends on another person's that God spends/multiplies his pocket. Also, Ephesians 5:25-29 ( husband love ur wife). It's inherent in a Nigerian man to treat woman like princess & queen so long that woman is always there for him. He doesn't do it to BUY her attention or affection. It's culture thing bro. I advise my east & southern African men to not mistake Nigerian's generosity for arrogance, blackmail,pomposity or disrespect. Get a Nigerian friend & I bet you won't regret. You will learn one or two things - confidence is among them.
Correct
The guy in the middle and the lady have issues with Nigerians because they are always angry when anything good is said about Nigerians. We all heard her, and she didn't say all Kenyans.
Preach. They both harbor a deep hatred for Nigerians. Especially the woman.
They might have a complex and it's understandable. Their culture is less competitive/aggressive compared to 9ja 🦅
That woman on tik tok talking has been run through big time.
26:59 😂😂😂😂 imagine giving an ultimatum and the man thinks and realises his life wouldn't change with you in or out of it 😂😂 This is probably why some men dropped me before. Technically just the one. But wow wow. 💀
This infatuation some Kenyan women have for Nigerian men will blow over just like their infatuation for Congolese men fizzled after they got scammed left and right.
She clearly did say not ALL , more than once. She didn’t generalise in that case .
This Sunday morning I'm all prayed up. Reum Doc Jackson and Apostle Agaba preaching the gospel.
Praise KS
People like to paint the entire nation just because of on persons opinions
Love you sis I got your point 👏👏✌️✌️👋🇮🇹🇮🇹🇳🇬🇳🇬
You heard the lady: "If you decide to date a Nigerian man, that's on you!".
You also heard the man say, 'all of my Nigerian friends are in happy successful marraiges".
@@sylviasworld9397Nigerian folks marry each other so she'll learn. I just want me a Kenyan Husband
The lady just gave you guys a feed back, instead of thinking of how to fix the inadequacies she pointed out you’re psychoanalysing her. Keep playing until you find out it’s too late.
That fake psychoanalyst sitting the middle talks so much bullocks! He tries to camouflage his envy and scorn for the Nigerian man in his pseudo psychoanalysis. Nigerian men are brought up from childhood to take care of their women -- something very few other cultures do.
@@onthegofm1887 I’m not surprised at the stance of the black American guy, but what I’m not quite sure of is if it’s born out of Man’s inherent nature to compete against another that appear to be a threat or if it’s just him trying to save face amongst his business audience. Nigerians are just simply misunderstood. Nigerians I would say most times unintentionally see themselves and act as global citizens. That’s why they go all out and act in other countries as if it’s theirs and find it difficult to understand why anyone would want to think themselves better than them. This is probably the reason why When they find themselves in developed or developing climes they try to quickly fit in and be at per or if possible supersede the best placed individuals there. Because they always aspire for success by being better versions of themselves. And it’s only natural that people who don’t share equal motivation, drive or ambition often develop a complex and the disheartening part is that a Nigerian won’t slow down for anybody. Not even for any member of his or her family.
I’m not surprised at the stance of the black American guy, but what I’m not quite sure of is if it’s born out of Man’s inherent nature to compete against another that appear to be a threat or if it’s just him trying to save face amongst his business audience. Nigerians are just simply misunderstood. Nigerians I would say most times unintentionally see themselves and act as global citizens. That’s why they go all out and act in other countries as if it’s theirs and find it difficult to understand why anyone would want to think themselves better than them. This is probably the reason why When they find themselves in developed or developing climes they try to quickly fit in and be at per or if possible supersede the best placed individuals there. Because they always aspire for success by being better versions of themselves. And it’s only natural that people who don’t share equal motivation, drive or ambition often develop a complex and the disheartening part is that a Nigerian won’t slow down for anybody. Not even for any member of his or her family.
Brilliant discussion.
They worship money, when they say romantic, they're really talking about money beind spent. Get your momey up fellas or get treated like a bum.
Oshay got the brand new kicks👏🏾👍🏾
😂😂😂😂
Here is where other African men missed it. You can't tell a woman anywhere in the world to do your bidding without proving and showing her love and care. A woman will do anything for you she is sure you love her. I'm a Nigerian, it's instinctive with Nigerians to care for their women. I learned Ghanaian women too preferred Nigerian men. African men should up their games!
The man in lens spoke my mind. That's something I've been saying for sometime now. The hasty generalization is damn annoying
Woowee! If you're around Kenyans and hear them talk about Nigerians, you'll be shocked. This is especially strange because Kenyans generally don't dislike foreigners and have more issues amongst themselves than with the many expats and refugees. When there were tribal tensions in Kenya a few years back, foreigners from other African countries were left alone.
Blame the conmen, drug dealers and pimps, they've tarnished their reputation. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me. Naijas luring young Kenyan women into apartments where several men are waiting to rape them and perform rituals is bound to cause national outrage. How dare you come to my country and continue your illicit activities?
I love Juanita's energy she brings to every podcast. 🤗🌟🇺🇸
Very interligent guy in the middle ! Great guy
There is a cultural aspect to Nigeria men. Most Nigerian men especially the Igbo men are thought by their mothers and family from Child hood about the importance of women to a man's life. The Igbos daughters are also thought about naturing their man and her family from childhood. The Igbo cultures believes a good woman brings wellbeing and wealth to a man's life and women should be protected and taken care of. The woman in return, takes care of her man and kids and runs the family. Its a well known fact that most Igbo men will deprive themselves of some Luxury but will make sure his wife and kids are taken care of. The Igbos are very Family oriented. It is a cultural thing with them that most Africans don't understand . In addition, Nigeria has so many tribes and different cultures and religion . Nigeria is like 20 African Countries put together as one Country. There is no other country in Africa like Nigeria. It sometimes does not make much different for a Nigerian dating any other African woman, because Nigeria has so many cultures and people that some of these African cultures are similar to some Nigerian culture too.
Stop with the igbo men, I'm from the south we are thought same thing on how to take care of the woman so it a Nigerian thing...
STOP with the liesssss Nigerian scammers are hiking up the price for women.. Everyone knows the give women plenty of money 💰 like the simps they are
😂😂😂 some igbos like this person here are very insecure and are looking for someone to validate their existence, well it's a good thing that the world can see how desperate you are.
@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799 Mr Oghene, I am speaking from experience. Your people from Delta state may have the same culture with the Igbos. Every tribe in Nigeria has a different culture. What is your point.
@@chrisoghenetegamaloney5799hating is allowed,you can talk about your own group without talking down on igbos,the person talking isn't even Igbo but spoke from thier experience.but I understand,you no go gree for anybody.kwantinue .
Nigerian men are very sweet talking they will go above and beyond to please you, but they do that to every woman they met. They don't know are to be faithful to one woman
There is so much diversity in Afrika
Very good open views .
The Guy in the middle completely missed the message of the lady in the video. I'm shocked that Joanna did not make the point that she did not say all Kenyans are bad! You all are biased anyway.
excellent epsiode.
"Failures". Kenyan Men are not Fleeing their Country, she should go try to live in nigeria and see😂
Nigeria just to competitive for the average nigerian now adays especially in the major cities.
Go and tell the Chinese 🇨🇳 in your country the same bulshit. Shameless xenophobe!
That's why your women are falling for us. You need to travel more mumu
What do you people refer to as fleeing? Nigeria has four and a half times the population of Kenya, it’s natural that there will be more Nigerian migrants.
Exactly! Kenyan men are not dying in the desert and drowning in the sea trying to leave their country. No country in the world has a Kenyan migrant problem. That's Nigerians including the one she's dating that seemingly has her sprung to the point of lashing out at her own countrymen.
I'm not wealthy born in UK but don't take disrespect either. It's not about money, just about peace and loyalty. When a woman isn't bringing peace or loyalty then my financial situation doesn't matter, I'm bouncing or trying to check the dysfunction.
Love can let you put up with more or patience... but both have a time limit.
Good luck no matter where you are dating.
Nigerian guys have money and East African women want money . Nigerian men are also apparently very strong in certain areas 😅😅😅
Naking area? With multiple positions
Strong at scamming
It's important to acknowledge that generalizations are a common aspect of human communication, often arising from a lack of complete information or personal experiences. While it's true that people tend to generalize, it's also crucial to strive for understanding and avoid stereotyping. Encouraging open dialogue, sharing diverse perspectives, and promoting education can contribute to breaking down stereotypes and fostering a more inclusive and informed society.
Exactly. We can only make generalizations from our own experience and that of trusted people. If you don't take into account was is generally said or known about a person, people will wonder how you didn't know and not sympathize with you. Generalizations are short case studies because as individuals, we cannot do as real case study on everyone we meet. Even case studies use a sample, only that it is a bigger sample. I think we should use our generalizations as a precautionary rather than an exclusionary measure but we cannot ignore them.
I have listed to so many of your conversations and I have realized that you have never visited Barbados 🇧🇧
That lady!!!!!😅😅
No matter how you guys twist it back and forth, Nigerians adore women and therefore provide their needs, protect them, and still respect them period.
Nothing lasts forever, even love doesn't, marriage included. Even our Sun will burn off one day. As such what happens along the road to a successful marriage, always allow love to guide you to your destination; not money or material wealth because they are all vanities; happiness is the best outcome which adds to longer life and more loving relationships. One day it will end just like it began as a relationship of love. Take heart and do your best people. Being a Nigerian or a black American or a kenyian has nothing to do with how a woman is treated because that way of thinking is subjective since all men and women of different nationalities also vary individually depending on their upbringing and societal values.
You only have love and happiness in Kenya why the person looks like rags
Nairobi has a lot of women looking for "soft life" and Nigerian culture produces a lot of "tricks." Not hard to understand.
Don't worry, leave the Kenyan women and their Nigerian lovers alone, they will sort themselves out. Look for those Kenyan women who will add value to you life and allow Nigerian men to have the rest of them. Just stop making videos crying about the same women you claim not to want loving Nigerians.
Did you said slate
They're not a lot. They just seem many because they're loud, like this girl complaining on social media.
As the lord has reveal this problem, the solution has come.
Which means more love and peace towards Nigerians.
Glory be to God, who work in me through my lord and saviour Jesus christ Amen 🙏
This is specifically Igbo men in Nigeria. We are the most caring in the country.
Excatly, They keep saying "Nigerian men. It's actually Igbo men. Yoruba men also give money, but most of the time, it's for sex.
No y'all aint😂
Other Africans are jealous, intimidated by Nigerians we are very intelligent and hard working.
Why are y'all making weak arguments based on outliers? 😂 Generalizations CAN be made based on CULTURE, which is the dominant factor here. Even the lady on the panel admitted that Nigerians always give you 150% -- you think women don't feel this energy? Lol. Culture is in fact generalized.. there's a reason why there is a "Latin lover" stereotype, and women romanticize Italian men over German men.
But the same lady said what about how it ends?
Also this would have made more sense if you actually had a real Kenyan girl/ guy and a real Nigerian guy/ girl on the show. I mean what the heck is the purpose of discussing this topic if all you can share are the opinions of a bunch of Americans who shouldn’t even be part of this discussion in the first place?
Find someone on your level. 😂
How are we on top and got all this bad heat?? So what's going to happen when we weed out bad apples... we no gree for anybody 2024 and hence!
Oshay, it doesn’t matter how rich a man is, if I can’t express my opinion especially when it differs from his, I’m out. I noticed your passion when you spoke about rich African men getting rid of a woman who won’t allow themselves to be dominated confused 😕
I think any people who migrate tend to be more resilient and successful than locals and so they tend to be not liked by locals in a kind of mild jealousy and this thing about nigerian men in Kenya is no exception
Never lead with your wallet!
That Lady is Biased and generalizes a lot and i believe its due to her own personal experiences. She has an attitude which seems like she asks too much to be put on the table while she brings nothing herself! Biased !am Kenyan myself in the diaspora and i don't like generalization..
When are they moving to Nigeria?
Oshay rocking the Nizikes!
If you know you’re clean & without sin, then throw the first stone. Y’all calling out 9ja without mentioning our benevolence. The guy in the middle, has no pint or fact. Just speaking English. I’m sure he feels so inferior of himself to 9ja men. None of u can match up to 9ja, it’s just a gift from God.
facts
Wada Maya himself used to use Nigeria as an excuse why they treat him bad in African airports . He stopped it when they messed him up completely and tore his ticket to pieces and withheld his passport in Uganda airport. Now he knows that it is not because they thought he was a Nigerian.( He did not look nor talk like a Nigerian) If you are black confident and well off African traveling in Africa , you are bound to face mistreatment from other Africans due to colonized mentality ,were people from other continents with different colour are treated nice and Africans are treated as ....why do you want to visit my country. I have witnessed it in many African airports.
Secondly it always becomes an issue when anybody says something positive about Nigeria. This lady is talking about her personal experience and it is becoming an issue with biased analysis based on assumptions . To the extent were the man in the middle is trying to rubbish the kenya girl. Same was noticed when Akon said Nigerians are the smarted people on earth. Several Africans and black groups made videos (including Oshay Duke Jackson) attacking Akon and Nigeria .The girl said 60 percent of kenyans hate Nigerians.Yes that is true .All I can say is Nigerian youths should stand on the "WE no go gree" mantra and fight back these malicious scam, criminal BS on Nigeria because most Africans will not speak of those that have come to the continent to scam them of land ,resources and are still continuing to scam them. The African mindset in most cases is to smear and slander on anything that looks like them.
Nah. To East Africans, Nigerians and Ghanaians sound the same. Wode said he was instantly treated differently in Kenya when they found out he's Ghanaian, not Nigerian.
Wada Maya use to use Nigeria as excuse but they messed him up in Uganda as Ghanaian. A Tanzanian told me how bad he was treated in Nairobi airport.I know Tanzanians or Ugandans and they are different from Kenya. Ghanaians look and speak different. My experience with Kenyans in India was very bad. And my experience in Nairobi airport was very very bad also. But I do not generalize that all kenyans are bad. Africans are good in slandering and putting down others that look like them.That's how they feel good about themselves@@freedomm
@@user-nf9tz6bd2l Kenyans cannot tell the difference between Ghanaians and Nigerians. They look and sound the same to us. And Kenyans don't like Nigerians because their reputation for crime in the country. Many Nigerians get arrested, imprisoned and deported every month. Kenyans have no issues with other Africans, but Nigerians are another matter due to their criminality.
30:34 I don't think the successful men are only looking for looks tbh. There's also advisory skills and peace 😅 31:09 Omg the analogy of foreigners being stupid till they ain't no more 💀
How old are y'all? 12?? Yesterday Kenya today Kenya.....you are a Ugandan platform talk about that useless area.....
Best comment and in a Nigerian I like this comment, see this oshay is a dirty from the useless usa and a hater of Nigerians too he's in Uganda doing blogger that's all he from America very fake guy with no sense
Now look at this Wajinga
Stop being abusive...am kenyan and they got a lot of sense...let a woman who wants to go south go silently instead of trashing the nstion for views and clicks
Thank compliment Nigeria man, that we all Nigeria guy we own u something I e either money or boby or citizenship
Since the year 2000 Nigerians do not have any problem with South African with Kenyans is this new generation we start hearing a lot of problems because you people have been coming so jealous of Nigerian men.