good violence and bad violence (Mr Inbetween S02E06)

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  • there's good violence and bad violence.
    --
    Yeah, I started the hostility log thing this week.
    -PETER: How's that working out?
    -CARLO: Oh, yeah, good. Yeah. Um...
    Had a bit of a situation Wednesday with somebody.
    Yeah, it was just-just some guy eyeballing me at the pub.
    But I was getting pretty pissed, and I used the stop technique,
    you know, we spoke about.
    So, yeah. It's... I'm-I'm getting pretty good at it,
    -so that's good.
    -PETER: Great. Um... Ray, how have you been?
    Yeah, good, mate.
    -PETER: Yeah?
    -Yep.
    Is there anything you want to talk about?
    Nah, I'm good.
    PETER: Are you sure?
    -Nothing at all?
    -(Ray chuckles)
    I beat my, uh, girlfriend's brother up over Christmas.
    (inhales deeply)
    Okay.
    (coughs)
    Um...
    What happened?
    I went round to her parents' place, and, um...
    Yeah, we did the whole, uh, Secret Santa thing.
    Me daughter got this unicorn candle,
    which she was pretty chuffed about,
    and, uh, me girlfriend's brother decided he wanted it,
    and when it was his turn, he, uh, took it off her.
    -So you assaulted him?
    -Well, he was being a dickhead, so, you know.
    -PETER: So you assaulted him?
    -Eh, pretty much.
    And how did your girlfriend feel about this?
    Well, she's not my girlfriend anymore, so...
    VINCE: Shit. Sorry, mate.
    -Mm.
    PETER: I mean, uh, you know, without wanting to state the obvious,
    can you see how violence is perhaps not the best way
    for you to resolve your disputes?
    No, I think it generally is.
    But, you know, just don't do it in front of your girlfriend, you know?
    (all chuckle)
    PETER: Uh, what's great about it?
    I mean, it doesn't seem to have worked for you this time.
    -RAY: Yeah, well,
    sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't, you know?
    PETER: Can you give me one example of violence ever working?
    -World War II.
    -World War II?
    -RAY: Mm-hmm.
    We didn't beat the Nazis just by talking to them.
    We used violence.
    PETER: Okay, sure.
    So every now and then, violence is necessary as a last resort.
    But for you, uh, with your girlfriend's brother,
    I mean, would you call that an example of violence working?
    -Yeah, look, I shouldn't have done what I did.
    You know, I'm not making excuses.
    But I don't think you can say that all violence is bad.
    I mean, I think there's good violence and bad violence.
    What's good violence?
    World War II.
    Thanks Vince.
    Um...
    -Yeah.
    -Uh, all right, maybe it's about time.
    Maybe we should leave it there.
    Thank you, everyone. Thank you.
    -NARRATOR (on TV): German forces had already moved in
    and now occupied the abbey ruins in force.
    Here you go, mate. You can have the fatty bit.
    Mate, you didn't even chew that.
    Meanwhile, in the town below,
    the 28th Maori battalion had led a successful attack
    on the casino railway station, only to then become trapped
    and cut off from their support across the river.
    -(machine guns firing)
    -(bullets whizzing)
    ----
    cut -ss 1:05.140 -to 05:17.000
    audio:
    Crickets Chirping At Night - Sound Effects
    • Crickets Chirping At N...
    Mr FijiWiji - Growing Up
    • [Electronic] - Mr Fiji...
    A Life Divided - Walking In My Shoes
    • A Life Divided - Walki...
    ---
    here is the original clip. happy leeching!
    magnet:?xt=urn:btih:a0016a28e84f2206b95d571db87c6cf356f67ea6
    www.keeplinks.org/p77/6467444...
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Komentáře • 324

  • @milahu
    @milahu  Před rokem +52

    yes, the soundtrack is annoying. but i must edit the audio, otherwise youtube censors the whole video.
    let me know if you have better ideas for a soundtrack for this clip, then i will make another upload

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před rokem

      Eminem - Criminal (Instrumental) czcams.com/video/dCB0pEpEMbY/video.html

    • @matthewcoase6314
      @matthewcoase6314 Před rokem +2

      Soundtracks mad goes with the attitude the show is portraying well done

    • @snowscapephile4709
      @snowscapephile4709 Před rokem

      Use Conflict-Mighty And Superior as a st.

    • @elrobertode-stagia5994
      @elrobertode-stagia5994 Před rokem

      Violent Femmes, Country Death Song..

    • @peruzfinest07
      @peruzfinest07 Před rokem

      Maybe don't steal other people's hard work

  • @gumbercules3925
    @gumbercules3925 Před rokem +57

    "no violence ever for any reason" is a shield that bullies and predators hide behind

  • @laurencelance586
    @laurencelance586 Před 2 lety +197

    Reality is that bad people exist. Evil exists. Pain is a pretty good way to convince bad people to look somewhere else.

    • @stojanjankovic5669
      @stojanjankovic5669 Před rokem +4

      Whatever belief or lack of it you have in invisible things, you can't deny the reality of pain. Both physical and psychological.

    • @robertlaporte2998
      @robertlaporte2998 Před rokem +2

      I always believed people are despensible.Just keep moving forward and be grateful for what you have and thank God it wasn't worse.

    • @benaldridge6341
      @benaldridge6341 Před rokem +2

      Bro. Deep

    • @JdotMdot91
      @JdotMdot91 Před rokem

      iron sights?

    • @scottmichael3745
      @scottmichael3745 Před rokem

      Amen.

  • @mirso990
    @mirso990 Před 2 lety +101

    They all came to learn from the therapist about anger management, but I hink they learn more from Ray about standig for your principles.

    • @JayPotatoes
      @JayPotatoes Před rokem +4

      I hink you are right

    • @user-bn2wt7pf2b
      @user-bn2wt7pf2b Před 11 měsíci

      What exactly does standig mean

    • @mirso990
      @mirso990 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Guys, first English is not my mother language, and standig stands for standing. Everyone with IQ above room temprature, has got it.
      Yes I have some mistakes, but I think everyone understands the main message.
      Is that everything you guys see in this comment? Really sad.

    • @mirso990
      @mirso990 Před 11 měsíci

      @@matt_z_07 btw, I checked the word management, and it isn't a mistake ;)

    • @mirso990
      @mirso990 Před 11 měsíci

      @@matt_z_07 oh i didn't see the hink, it should be think...my bad. I wrote it fast and didn't check the grammar..😬

  • @Aleksamson
    @Aleksamson Před 2 lety +148

    We were raised with: Violence is never the answer - violence doesn't solve anything. But you can realise early in life -first time you stand up to bully, that sometimes violence is the only answer. Or just the threat of violence. Some ugly situation (with neighbour or whatever) dragging on for years can end over night. After trying everything possible to resolve an issue you come to realise that some people simply cannot be reasoned with and just don't understand any other language But violence.

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před 2 lety +16

      "We were raised with: Violence is never the answer - violence doesn't solve anything."
      its usually teachers who preach this religion, while they "of course" use violence (legal violence, psycho war) to spread their "good faith". rule by force. anti-voluntary. blind for natural order (talents are inborn)
      that whole religion/church/state thing is one big faccade for organized crime, always looking for scapegoats ...

    • @stevehodgkins8801
      @stevehodgkins8801 Před 2 lety

      Violence is not always the answer, but it is an option.
      You gonna be a little bitch and let punks roll you over, or are you man enough to do something about it?
      I choose violence. Sometimes you just have to push back and make them pay.

    • @TruthHurtsLikeH3ll
      @TruthHurtsLikeH3ll Před rokem +2

      @@milahu such a childish comment...

    • @omegaman7377
      @omegaman7377 Před rokem +17

      @@TruthHurtsLikeH3ll Obviously you never been the victim of bullies. Teachers are good at preaching and turning a blind eyes to bullying. And one days a students show-up and make a massacre. And nobody have a clue why...

    • @chrisaston4793
      @chrisaston4793 Před rokem +1

      I think Ray I'd s good guy in a bad world .
      I think he is a legend

  • @cantstop-wontstop2138
    @cantstop-wontstop2138 Před rokem +55

    "Give me an example of when violence worked."
    (Ray's thoughtful pause)
    "...World War 2, we didn't beat the Nazis jus by talking to them. We used bombs."

    • @brendanrourke9418
      @brendanrourke9418 Před rokem +5

      I laughed hard as fuck by the moment Ray says World War 2.
      🤣

    • @michaelglazier9932
      @michaelglazier9932 Před 5 měsíci +1

      He said violence not bombs… Just saying… 👍🏻

    • @cantstop-wontstop2138
      @cantstop-wontstop2138 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @michaelglazier9932
      So bombs aren't violence?
      Evidently you haven't been paying attention

  • @synthonaplinth5980
    @synthonaplinth5980 Před 2 lety +36

    "...but you know, just don't do it in front of yer girlfriend."
    There's not many things that sound more atypically Australian.

    • @Gyrobobb
      @Gyrobobb Před 2 lety

      Do you mean "don't do it in front of your girlfriend" sounds Australian or does NOT sound Australian?

    • @synthonaplinth5980
      @synthonaplinth5980 Před 2 lety +2

      @@Gyrobobb *Sounds Australian.

  • @roguecheddar
    @roguecheddar Před 2 lety +11

    Woe be unto those that provoke the quiet good man beyond his temperment.

  • @SukhoyBoy4113
    @SukhoyBoy4113 Před 2 lety +125

    If violence doesn't work, you are using it the wrong way.

  • @darrenc4096
    @darrenc4096 Před 2 lety +85

    I tend to agree with Ray.

    • @skylined5534
      @skylined5534 Před 2 lety +2

      "World War 2"

    • @jamessmith530
      @jamessmith530 Před 2 lety +1

      O yes there is only one way to help people thump them

    • @hiroplays6884
      @hiroplays6884 Před 2 lety +2

      Who wouldn't?

    • @thatoneguy6165
      @thatoneguy6165 Před 2 lety +2

      We all do

    • @jamessmith530
      @jamessmith530 Před 2 lety +3

      I wish I could find the full series I wish I could find a full service that must be available on DVD somewhere

  • @Rhondaandjames
    @Rhondaandjames Před rokem +3

    Violence is never the best answer. I agree. But sometimes its necessary.

  • @honinakecheta601
    @honinakecheta601 Před rokem +10

    I respect men like ray.

  • @shanequigley7552
    @shanequigley7552 Před rokem +5

    One of the greatest shows everrrrrrrr

  • @brianpeterson5559
    @brianpeterson5559 Před rokem +59

    He's kind to his dog that says a lot about him in my opinion. When I was younger in school I got into a fight with the big jock basketball player who decided to slam his lunch tray on this kid with a disability. No one said a word, something inside me rose up and I snapped. Turns out a teacher saw it and tackled him down after I acted, I think he was gonna just let it go. To me that was righteous indignation (good violence) great example Ray says world war two... He ain't wrong, sometimes extreme violence is called for to right a wrong

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před rokem +3

      background: ray is type 1 = "the animal" ... so naturally, he wants to meet at eye level with animals, for example, share his food with his dog ... not force the dog to eat "dog food". also the dog is sitting at his table, and probably sleeping in his bed

    • @thomasborger6548
      @thomasborger6548 Před rokem +2

      Brian Peterson, good on you for stepping up.

    • @AnnieNelson-wo6bm
      @AnnieNelson-wo6bm Před 11 měsíci

      Who's dog?

    • @Inbraneinthememsane
      @Inbraneinthememsane Před 5 měsíci

      Hitler liked his dog
      It doesn’t mean shit

  • @cecilkeith1951
    @cecilkeith1951 Před rokem +4

    "bad men are needed to keep the other bad men from the door"

  • @josephricci7391
    @josephricci7391 Před rokem +3

    TBH the man that took his daughters unicorn had it coming...

  • @punkinhaidmartin
    @punkinhaidmartin Před 2 lety +14

    What a great idea!
    Get a bunch of scrappers all together in one place, and talk down to them!
    Awesome way to train yourself to make it in the MMA world.

    • @heteroclitus
      @heteroclitus Před rokem

      If I had to listen to a bunch of domestic abusers talk about their feelings for a living I'd probably develop an attitude too..

  • @brucekaren6693
    @brucekaren6693 Před rokem +3

    Violence is seldom the answer. But when violence is the answer it’s the only answer.

  • @therealericjackdaniels
    @therealericjackdaniels Před rokem +4

    My new hero: Ray. This guy is on his shit. Outstanding.

  • @YoraKhunt849
    @YoraKhunt849 Před rokem +5

    I agree 100% with that statement. As with everything in life, there is good and bad.

  • @johndugger1028
    @johndugger1028 Před rokem +3

    best show on tv in the last 10 yrs

  • @gerhardthen8851
    @gerhardthen8851 Před 2 lety +84

    Funny that when quiet, unassuming characters like Ray , that were bullied in their youth, start to stand their ground, and put fool, and cowards in their place , are called violent people.....it amuses me that the perpetrators, the gutless smart Aleks that prey upon quiet people, who, are generally asuaging some shrivelled up, and insecure pain from an early age, are held to be the victims, when they get what they deserve, and are lauded in court as "up-standinging members of the community".... really ....leave people alone in the first place, then, if you bother someone who didn't deserve to be bothered...then got your ass kicked for it ... don't cry like a stuck pig...just do the right thing....Karma will bite you on the ass, otherwise.🤔🙏

    • @Knight192
      @Knight192 Před 2 lety +4

      what are you on about mate? shut yer gob

    • @borntoclimb7116
      @borntoclimb7116 Před 2 lety +1

      Karma is just a utopia, in the reality a lot of violence people attack another for no reason and play the victim

    • @winstonmarlowe5254
      @winstonmarlowe5254 Před 2 lety

      Ray murders people for a living, you simpleton.

    • @lordmonarch2995
      @lordmonarch2995 Před 2 lety +1

      Karma doesn’t exist but I do agree with what you said

    • @raymondo2469
      @raymondo2469 Před rokem

      Correct, arseholes will give you up to the coppers as quick as they can , start shit then squeal .

  • @andypandy8569
    @andypandy8569 Před rokem +6

    Such an outstanding show!

  • @williamdeasy4501
    @williamdeasy4501 Před rokem +2

    WW2 .The councilor got schooled.

  • @partymanau
    @partymanau Před 10 měsíci +1

    The Anger Management dude is clueless.

  • @geniusdavid
    @geniusdavid Před 2 lety +59

    The anger management host got on my nerves and made me want to punch him which made me think for a second but he (actor) did a great job acting here - just his (character) facial expression to he talks made me feel like he judging the people in the room and acts likes they are worthless and cannot change.
    Amazingly executed and how much they got with time they had (20mins) which allows you to watch all three seasons in one go.

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před 2 lety +1

      matrix 4 ... the psycho therapist with blue glasses

    • @winstonmarlowe5254
      @winstonmarlowe5254 Před 2 lety +7

      I think you're projecting. Nowhere did he indicate that they were "worthless" or "could not change."

    • @tomwright9904
      @tomwright9904 Před 2 lety +2

      I mean he's just expects people to agree and doesn't know what to do when people don't.

    • @me.ne.frego.
      @me.ne.frego. Před 2 lety +6

      I'm too want to punch that "anger management" guy! His sense of moral and intellectual superiority is so obvious, he's only a gutless coward like all "never violence" people.

    • @prayunceasingly2029
      @prayunceasingly2029 Před 2 lety +2

      @@winstonmarlowe5254
      I think what people were picking up from the therapist is his view that violence is bad, and that seems like a judgment on everyone there. He's trying to help them become less violent but seems to do it in a way that the violent are always wrong and the non violent are always right. Something like that.

  • @shannonnichols4721
    @shannonnichols4721 Před 2 lety +5

    we call this nessary violence

  • @Hatarrk97
    @Hatarrk97 Před rokem +4

    Such a cool series

  • @RubyRub68
    @RubyRub68 Před rokem +39

    When I was the eighth grade ,I kicked the crap out of this one person who kept bullying me . My principal asked me , “what does violence solve ?” At the end of the school year I told the principal, “you asked me at the beginning of school year ,what does violence solve?,” that person I kicked the crap out of , never messed with me again ! That’s
    what violence solves!!”

    • @dannylin5342
      @dannylin5342 Před rokem

      Tell the principle “Then, fucking do your job you useless piece of shit.”

    • @kevinwightman1
      @kevinwightman1 Před rokem +3

      Lies

    • @simbz194
      @simbz194 Před rokem +1

      @@kevinwightman1 it does sound a bit fixed together doesn't it, but I love me a good happy ending so I roll with it

    • @SilencerXLR8
      @SilencerXLR8 Před rokem

      @@kevinwightman1 🤨proof?

    • @TheStealthyPyro
      @TheStealthyPyro Před rokem +2

      And then everyone clapped and carried you out on their shoulders

  • @SharkHustler
    @SharkHustler Před rokem +14

    Watching several of these previews now, I can't help but liking this guy - some absolutely spot-on acting! ... I really should watch the entirety of this series.

    • @daanjoubert5297
      @daanjoubert5297 Před rokem +1

      I found these clips and binge watched the whole lot. You should definitely watch it

    • @howardcroft3748
      @howardcroft3748 Před 11 měsíci

      You will like Ray.... but the feeling that you should not will never leave you.... it's brilliant writing, just brilliant.

  • @dannycostello3048
    @dannycostello3048 Před rokem +7

    Just when I thought this show couldn’t get any better, Brooke satchwell appeared as his girlfriend. So good

  • @YukonDemon
    @YukonDemon Před 2 lety +12

    I have to check out this series. I've seen a few clips on CZcams now and it looks f**king awesome. Right up my alley kinda shit.

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před rokem

      on par with fight club ... but rare

    • @drewby613
      @drewby613 Před rokem

      It is funny AF as well. The Ray's Porno episode will have you peeing your pants.

  • @TheREALOC1972
    @TheREALOC1972 Před rokem +1

    As he just pointed out, sometimes violence is the ONLY answer.

  • @jackvoss1527
    @jackvoss1527 Před 11 měsíci

    The concept of "The life-giving sword."

  • @Gyrobobb
    @Gyrobobb Před 2 lety +10

    Is this scene available on youtube without the distracting "music" ?

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před rokem

      no, they delete the clip with original audio

  • @tommyjoestallings855
    @tommyjoestallings855 Před rokem +1

    I found that very profound and life-changing

  • @lisemarie5875
    @lisemarie5875 Před 11 měsíci +1

    Love ya Ray 👍

  • @barryscott8041
    @barryscott8041 Před rokem +1

    3:43 Man in black vest watches Ray leave

  • @darrenbennett1597
    @darrenbennett1597 Před rokem

    Universal answer for everything

  • @bronzemen34
    @bronzemen34 Před rokem +1

    It is necessary - when it is necessary 🔥
    don't get it twisted

  • @beholdiamglamdringsbane89

    "Fighting is a method of speaking when words have lost their meaning." My sons Tae Kwon Do instructor. I think if you instigate the violence it could be seen as wrong and a lot of times that is correct. However, we must all walk the line of 'if you're gonna be in a fight; throw the first punch.' That's a tough balance and can lead to charges filed. Just remember it is ALWAYS better to be tried by twelve than carried by six.

  • @beetroot4798
    @beetroot4798 Před 2 lety +50

    Here's a nice famous line from several audiobooks I listen to, that seems to fit this show perfectly:
    *Don't start sh!t and there won't be sh!t*
    Great words to live by.

    • @YoraKhunt849
      @YoraKhunt849 Před rokem

      They're big words from one of the most hated toppings on a burger 🤣. You've cause just as many arguments as pineapple on pizza 🤣🤣🤣.

    • @beetroot4798
      @beetroot4798 Před rokem +2

      @@gypsy547 too long, my guy.

  • @patrick4996
    @patrick4996 Před 2 lety +4

    Raymondo u legend

  • @samcoolbaugh7754
    @samcoolbaugh7754 Před 2 lety +15

    There's bad violence, and there's necessary violence. Sometimes it is the answer, but it's tragic it has to come to it.
    WW2 was necessary, but it was also undeniably tragic.
    "The only reason there's bad people is because the good people let them get away with it."

  • @skinnydogkew
    @skinnydogkew Před rokem

    This is probably one of the most important videos you will ever see. Don’t forget it.

  • @palmeraz73
    @palmeraz73 Před 2 lety +8

    What’s with all the blacked out scenes?

  • @barryscott8041
    @barryscott8041 Před rokem +1

    Long ago I got sentenced by a local Judge, to go to a class just like this. It was a stupid waste of time; Ray knows that too it appears

  • @johnjohnson1681
    @johnjohnson1681 Před 2 lety +8

    Why the music ruins the whole vibe

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před 2 lety +1

      sorry mate. otherwise yt would censor the clip

  • @abdosimon
    @abdosimon Před rokem

    i love whatever music you have on this clip. what is it? lol would like to download

  • @isucktoesmomdealwithit1396

    Yo! How the hell ya make the background keep zooming in and out like that??? Feels like you’ve successfully created a placebo form of LSD. I’m actually genuinely honestly impressed with your video editing ability to trick me into thinking I smoked out of the wrong pipe/causing a slight panic attack/resulting in a free high plus the high I’m already on, so thankies

  • @AaronAlso
    @AaronAlso Před 10 měsíci

    Even most religions of the world teach us that there is good violence that serves a greater purpose of protecting the innocent and there is bad violence that serves the personal ego.

  • @dzonbrodi514
    @dzonbrodi514 Před rokem +2

    Would have been better without the music

  • @JolyonPatten
    @JolyonPatten Před rokem

    Amazing to see Guy Pearce in there!

  • @familyof404
    @familyof404 Před 2 lety +3

    Why the background music!!!!

  • @stevepaerau
    @stevepaerau Před rokem

    Ray your a legend.

  • @harvestcanada
    @harvestcanada Před 2 lety

    And a good evening to you too sir. 😊🌃☺️🎂

  • @peterdangelo5882
    @peterdangelo5882 Před 2 lety +1

    Exactly

  • @milahu
    @milahu  Před 2 lety +10

    fuck mate. you guys are crazy, watching this shitty clip 4K times
    imho not my best upload, so check my other home-o-rotic clips : P

    • @cuylermarvin2783
      @cuylermarvin2783 Před 2 lety

      Just to ask, the song in the description isn’t the one that’s playing. What’s this badass metal/rock song?

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před 2 lety

      @@cuylermarvin2783 its in the description. A Life Divided - Walking In My Shoes czcams.com/video/73WpN--VRKg/video.html

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před 2 lety

      @@cuylermarvin2783 metal you say? Emil Bulls - Porcelain (winter of hate) czcams.com/video/Y9cyLc6a-JM/video.html

  • @roaddoggypsy9142
    @roaddoggypsy9142 Před 2 lety

    Absolutley.

  • @dazmac159
    @dazmac159 Před 2 lety +1

    no answer, 'we'll end it there!'

    • @kougerat5388
      @kougerat5388 Před rokem +1

      I rolled my eyes when he came out with that one. Just like in so many political talk shows !

  • @johnnatandc
    @johnnatandc Před rokem +1

    i sorta of agree with him... However, I wouldnt classify violence as good or evil... for me it is a tool, and its moral classification falls within the purpose or the use of it. So there is violence used for good and there is violence used for bad. What we see almost all days in the news is violence being used and abused by bad people for nefarious purposes. And sometimes, that requires to be paid on the same coin to bring balance, so you emply violence against these violent individuals to neutralize them. Will it be the end of teh circle? no... but it will bring peace. So violence used for good purposes or circuntances can be when used or employed to save someone, to free hostages, to stop terrorists from bombing innocents, to stop a serial killer, or to punish child abuserd... then it is tool that is used for good. In fact, violence is a deterrent used or employed or threaten with to keep at bay the evildoers

  • @TheAngelThatCry
    @TheAngelThatCry Před rokem

    whenever somebody says violence is not the answer, just say ww2 or 1, or any war.

  • @carpballet
    @carpballet Před 11 měsíci

    Godwin’s Law. No brainer.

  • @patricioulano
    @patricioulano Před 3 měsíci

    In this clip ray was 100% wrong. He skirted the point by bringing up a war instead of an example when violence worked in his life. The therapist was written to not challenge Ray on his answer in an effective way.
    Beating up that brother, from what Ray says in this clip, was a mistake. And he refused to learn from it

  • @drewby613
    @drewby613 Před rokem +5

    I remember reading something in a martial arts, Daoist kind of book about a state of mastery that gives the adept the exalted state of living without fear. (Jack Reacher comes to mind.). That particular way of being, living without fear, had never occurred to me before, which I realized means I'd never confronted the fact that most people, myself included, actually *do* live with an element of fear. We block it out, and usually don't have to think about it, but it exists in the background, and occasionally it jumps out of the closet and freaks us out. Ray seems more or less like one of those adepts, and I think that's one of the reasons why he doesn't feel the same way about violence that many people do. He's not afraid of it. I guess it's kind of like people who don't have guns or know anyone who does, develop an irrational fear of guns. People who live with them, practice with them, repair them, maintain them, etc, are not afraid of them, per se. They are simply tools, very powerful tools. I think Ray looks at violence like that. It is a tool for creating particular outcomes that would be impossible otherwise.

  • @louieb3430
    @louieb3430 Před rokem +4

    Violence was a way of life for me growing up. Dysfunctional angry parents, being violent or threatening violence, druggies hanging out 30 feet from my door smashing each other over the head with bats, police there all the time. Bullies in my neighborhood. Violence was ever present and always a possibility for me to either be a victim of, or, and because of my fear and rage being the aggressor. Having said that , I still knew there was Bad violence, and good violence. When I punched a bully in the face before he could punch me that was good violence. When I punched someone's lights out because I was provoked verbally, that tended to be bad violence. Fortunately as I grew older I curbed most of my violent tendencies, and the threat of prison stops me from giving people what they probably deserve today.

  • @RubyRub68
    @RubyRub68 Před rokem +1

    If you disrespect somebody in jail, you can end up dead! That's reality!! So why are people so disrespectful to each other out here on the streets? Because there's no consequences!

  • @richardcampbell9168
    @richardcampbell9168 Před 2 lety +16

    Ray has to come back!!!

  • @shaunlowndes
    @shaunlowndes Před rokem

    Is it possible to join a group like that near Nottingham. Looks bloody marvellous😂

  • @matthewmckever2312
    @matthewmckever2312 Před rokem

    Its pointless trying to explain to those that haven't had to resort to violence to actually survive, how it is sometimes necessary. They are from different worlds .
    I once had a probation officer who said to me
    "Imagine that you are surrounded by 4 men with metal bars and you have a knife, what would you do ? "
    I told her, matter of factly that I would stab one of them and run through the gap he had provided
    She asked me if it wasn't better to try and talk to them first.
    I sighed, and said if she tried that she would be raped and murdered .
    Afterwards, I told her what she wanted to hear because the great majority have not existed in my world.
    And I'm happy that they haven't.
    Strange though that these same people enjoy films and books on serial killers and violence and people like me generally find it funny or tiresome as its mostly fantasy. Except for the odd show. Mr Inbetween is one of them it can have colour for the stories sake but it's not glamorous violence.
    Try getting out of bed the morning after a fight, it takes 5 minutes to sit up and then washing blood and clumps of hair from your head when you can't even raise your arms, where real facial bruises can swell your face like a melon. But the least glamorous thing is when you catch the way a loved one looks at you when they see what you can do, the fear.

  • @kubanofan
    @kubanofan Před rokem

    Welcome to the real world. Good violence is a plan B after the failure of plan A. From Russia with love.

  • @Vaderd2k926
    @Vaderd2k926 Před rokem +2

    Love these clips. HATE the added background music.

    • @milahu
      @milahu  Před rokem +1

      sorry mate. youtube censors the orignal audio

  • @WE_WUZ
    @WE_WUZ Před 2 lety +9

    This is a great show. I honestly didn't think Australia put out anything good except Men at Work and a the like.

  • @petezuhhut5664
    @petezuhhut5664 Před 2 lety

    Don’t start none, won’t be none

  • @ThisNickIsNotTaken
    @ThisNickIsNotTaken Před rokem

    Name of the piano melody in the beginning?

  • @ifrite3
    @ifrite3 Před rokem

    the counselor actually looks like tom cruise

  • @lucindacorral2769
    @lucindacorral2769 Před rokem

    For like me and my trust administrators you know maybe we should get a hostage negotiator to help us with this

  • @therealericjackdaniels
    @therealericjackdaniels Před rokem +2

    I gotta know does he ever slap the therapist? I can't help but feel it coming because the therapist is damn near outright condescending of Ray and RAY is RIGHT.

    • @desiolle2874
      @desiolle2874 Před rokem

      I'm not saying anything but if there ever is a season 4 I'm hoping he ends up in the boot of Ray's car.

  • @howardcroft3748
    @howardcroft3748 Před 11 měsíci

    Losing her must have really hurt ... she was special. But her brother really did deserve a very serious talking to.... just like Hitler did. That said ... given the choice between Ally and hitting her brother... I would have always chosen Ally

  • @tacticalforcecombatives7154

    Walking in my shoes Depeche mode cover but who is the band covering it?

  • @sniper161718
    @sniper161718 Před 2 lety

    Humans and animals are very similar in primal instincts. Animals choose the path of least resistance and least risk. They select their prey. Humans also select what they believe is the easiest victim. However, every once in a while an animal chooses a prey that will fight with ungodly aggression. Same applies with humans. Make your predator regret their decision.

  • @aussiesam01
    @aussiesam01 Před rokem

    Yeah, overlaying the crap loud music over it works really well (sarc).

  • @shoot-n-scoot3539
    @shoot-n-scoot3539 Před 2 lety +1

    Stalin used violence to settle problems. Didn't cost Stalin a thing. But unless you're Stalin with the military behind you, better to walk softly and carry a big club (Teddy Roosevelt).

    • @TotalAlchemy
      @TotalAlchemy Před 2 lety

      You could argue stalins obsession with control may have contributed to his stroke

  • @potterj09
    @potterj09 Před rokem +1

    Aww man this broke my heart. If Ally was my sister I might've talked to him & tired to patch it. Meh would he have dealt with a guy my size who could've fucked him up bad, but obviously he had friends. Ray was never ready for a long-term relationship.

  • @Bentriverrusher
    @Bentriverrusher Před rokem +8

    This was a great show with more reality in it than 95 % of the other weak kneed content on tv that whimpers whines and apologizes for living a thousand times a day. If you get bored Ray, come on back and entertain us some more.

  • @jesseprice964
    @jesseprice964 Před rokem +2

    If only there wasn’t music in the fucking background

  • @markwoldin162
    @markwoldin162 Před rokem

    What's with all the blanks?

  • @jenniferh.7219
    @jenniferh.7219 Před 2 lety +2

    Does this channel post a video to play this s*** out of their metal music?

  • @LiftUpYourEyes
    @LiftUpYourEyes Před 2 lety

    I've always said war is the mother fucking answer. Believe that.

  • @ronkeely909
    @ronkeely909 Před 2 lety

    Me too

  • @claudioholzer5404
    @claudioholzer5404 Před rokem

    This blur filter makes me sea sick XD

  • @Ed19859
    @Ed19859 Před 2 lety

    I like Ray 👍

  • @punkinhaidmartin
    @punkinhaidmartin Před 2 lety +26

    Ray seems like one of those little guys who's figured out that no one likes getting punched in the nose, and doesn't mind punching you in the nose.
    Works real good until you get to someone who doesn't freak out when they get punched in the nose.
    I know.

    • @diggs5518
      @diggs5518 Před rokem

      Get punched in the nose a lot, do you?

    • @darrenjpeters
      @darrenjpeters Před rokem

      That's why you make sure you skill up before you find that guy....It was headbutts for me, most blokes think that headbutters are crazy, plus once somebody sees you smear a guy's nose all over his face with a headbutt, they don't want to take the chance that that could happen to them.

    • @punkinhaidmartin
      @punkinhaidmartin Před rokem

      @@darrenjpeters try a pool ball in your jacket pocket.
      Pretend to take your jacket off and then sling the pocketed ball like a mace.
      It's a big surprise.

    • @decespugliatorenucleare3780
      @decespugliatorenucleare3780 Před rokem

      @@darrenjpeters if you're into headbutting range he's into elbow range - whcih you DONT want to be

    • @darrenjpeters
      @darrenjpeters Před rokem

      @@decespugliatorenucleare3780 I've got elbows too, bud, and knees...

  • @Straywalker0420
    @Straywalker0420 Před 2 lety

    These violent people don’t know how to communicate other than physical altercations
    So you speak to them in their language and explain they are being unreasonable while punching them repeatedly

  • @l.d.p.9365
    @l.d.p.9365 Před 2 lety

    Si vis pacem parabellum.

  • @huntergrant6520
    @huntergrant6520 Před rokem

    The idea you can remove violence from life naive and dangerous. I'm not one to go pooking for trouble. But my job is to bring trouble to those who want it most. Anyone who disagrees hasn't seen evil people you can't negotiate with. Vile people who find amusement in your pleas and arguments. I don't like that this is reality. But I'm not gonna delude myself into thinking all issues can talked out. Tho I will try if I can.

  • @lilmsgs
    @lilmsgs Před 10 měsíci

    what's with the music?

  • @MrAvoltz
    @MrAvoltz Před rokem

    Fucking made me think I was having an acid flashback Jesus Christ the things y'all have to do to get around copyright protection.

  • @alexgrenlie862
    @alexgrenlie862 Před 2 lety +3

    Wavy camera no please don't

  • @edwardzimmer2171
    @edwardzimmer2171 Před 2 lety +3

    Yep he is right. I also would agree