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This is a talk on how to engineer an attractive lifestyle that draws people into your life. You will learn the three pillars of natural seduction and the principles behind what works consistently, so that you can form deep connections and be successful with women.
In this presentation you will also learn:
- How to get over your ‘approach anxiety’ and never run out of things to say
- Why and how you should let women teach you how to seduce them
- How to have charisma and create an emotional impact around people
About the speaker :
Before founding the Natural Lifestyles, James had a very colourful career in an amazing variety of areas. His different vocations and passions have given him a unique set of skills directly applicable to seduction and modern romance. From touring the country in his band (playing everything from huge festivals to a private performance for the Rebel Motorcycle gang), running his own successful massage business, to studying martial arts at Shaolin temple and representing Australia in Kung Fu; James has always pushed himself to explore his ultimate potential in whatever he pursues.
Women are naturally attracted to men who follow their dreams, so along the way he has developed great proficiency with them. Applying the discipline and intensity of a martial artist, the sensitivity of a masseur and the artistic passion of a musician to this pursuit; he has dated many incredible women and learned a great deal by observing and listening to them.
As a coach James is an astute listener and is able to read between the lines to get straight to the heart of his clients issues. He has an deep knowledge of body language and conversational patterns, which allow him to transfer immediately useful practical advice to his clients. His style infield is relaxed and charming and he is particularly good at helping clients get into deep rapport with the women they meet and setting them up on the path to successful relationships.
James brings a wealth of life experience, innovation, empathy and humour to the Natural and is committed to seeing other men making the absolute most of their time on this planet.
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"When you challenge people, you are actually doing them and you a favor. Being so fucking polite, actually means that you don't have real connections with people. Trying to make sure that the boat is never rocked, means that you just sail past each other.." - Big Game James Marshall
14:00 james take on being yourself. find out what else u are
5:15 presence and awareness
16:50 princple base vs technique base
20:10 pressure and release
27:20 awkward situations
29:00 the 3 pillars of seduction and balance all 3
30:50 if u get blown out ask for feedback and dont take it personally
35:33 ask why u are doing it, the outcome u are after and is it your outcome or the one that has been sold to u, check in at different times to see if u are still on track
37:10 inner game, internal change- awareness is key- approach anxiett
43:40 the best time to change a habit and deal with aa
53:13 intent
54:15 nice guy is a technique, a disgusting one
37:30 external game- quali
Timeless advise. Watching this in 2020 and still valid
2022 still holding up
2023
I've repeated 1:00:00 to about 1:02:45 over and over and over again. All this time I've been that person that tries NOT to rock the boat thinking that I'm doing other people a favor by keeping them out of situations where they might feel pressured or uncomfortable. I was fucking wrong! No wonder I've always found it difficult to connect with other people... I never created any emotional spikes! This is BIG for me.
Thank you James and 21C
Me too! Are you making some improvements so far?
James is so wise. This talk goes far beyond seduction.
0:00 Introduction
29:00 Three pillars
37:09 First pillar - Inner game / internal change / self-actualisation
53:23 Intent
1:03:30 Lifestyle design
What are the 3 pillars? It seems like only 2 @29.00
Thank you! This is what I was looking for. Missed #2
It blows my mind that more people haven't watched this video. I've watched quite a few PUA videos, and this has got to be the most powerful and effective one by far!!! James is right on. Truth be told, I watched this video and put it to the test the same night. I kid you not, I saw incredible results. This video is THE BEST!
Not sure how anyone could possibly consider this man any less than THE man. His message is clearly of kind and helpful intent and is essentially saying that it is the holistic development of attributes that we as men have always had (but are somewhat suppressed by society) that helps you in life. Anyone that has a purely healthy intent of helping others should be looked up to.
14;00 james take on being yourself. find out what else u are
5:15 presence and awareness
16;50 princple base vs technique base
20;10 pressure and release
27;20 awkward situations
29:00 the 3 pillars of seduction and balance all 3
30:50 if u get blown out ask for feedback and dont take it personally
35;33 ask why u are doing it, the outcome u are after and is it your outcome or the one that has been sold to u, check in at different times to see if u are still on track
37;10 inner game, internal change- awareness is key- approach anxiett
43;40 the best time to change a habit and deal with aa
53;13 intent
54;15 nice guy is a technique, a disgusting one
37:30 external game- qualifying
1) be in the moment
2) if you overthink -> feel your soles, think „I wanna f* you”, move towards her and just talk
3) challenge her
4) ask categorizing questions - if you are learning facts, you are doing it wrong.
Learn about what kind of person is she.
- the most precious currency is human emotions, use that in your advance
- do not give away things for free, try to make a playful deal
This is the key that was missing not only in my game but in my life. Thank you James.
Well, brother, we just went out to a movie today. At the end of the date she told me she didn't want to be in a relationship. Afterwards, I went in for a kiss and she didn't shut me down. In general, I took the whole situation pretty well, though I am having difficulty figuring out how exactly to interpret everything. I'm proud of the fact that I went for a kiss successfully, although the rejection was somewhat unsettling. Thanks again for all the help so far.
1. Awareness
2. Project your intent
3. Challenge in conversation (1:00:00)
(4. seduction often happens at low energy, slow down and use plenty of silences (if you're naturally introverted))
5. Be working on your ultimate lifestyle
6. Trading on the level of human emotion (if you can look people in the eyes, ask them questions about who they really are, and allow them to express themselves they will love you)
7. Two rules in seduction
- Right to freedom rule; make no apology for who you are and what you want, and take full responsibility for the fact you have to make that happen.
8. Don't try and pretend to be someone who you are not; be willing to explore and expand who you thought you were.
This guy gets results, plain and simple.
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As Chris Traeger would say, this was literally the best video I have ever seen. James' ability to outline and portray information about this subject which usually arises anxiety for me, finally felt comforting and really clicked on an emotional and physical level. The area focused on understanding the way your body is reacting to the stress of approaching and how to manipulate it by focusing your mind, felt like I was finally handed the key to become a much fuller self. Of all the different people I have watched on youtube whose content revolves primarily on self help or seduction, this absolutely resonated with me most deeply.
The most valuable currency: human emotion
looking for some on ebay as we speak
You maybe can't believe, but this video helped me in my job interview.
i know its tough being a wokkie these days....
sure it helped because it makes you more human
It surprised me how much of pick up and seduction leads back to you as a person and becoming the best version of yourself. It all seeps into every aspect of your life
I just started my personal journey in the world of seduction. I watched this video a year ago and nothing made sense for me. It was like listening to somebody speaking a completely different lenguage. But it helped me becoming aware of something new. Now I'm putting myself into seduction and I begin ti understand the immense value of this speech and this man. I am so grateful ☺️
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One of my favorite self developement/seduction speeches of all time. Thanks James and 21 convention
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This guy is legend in the game a person that knows him self will understand him fully .
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Just started watching James Marshall. Fantastic and humorous individual. Wish there were guys like him giving advice when I was young. I think about all there was when I was younger was a book called Nice Guys Don't Get Laid.
WOW, I didn't know James studied in China, what an awesome bloke.
Finally, my garden had become a mere shadow of what it once was. I ran out of allegories and metaphors, so I'll put it like this. I decided to begin harnessing myself from the inside out. I took up mediation and strove to increase my compassion and awareness. So far, this has helped me eliminate most of the weeds and insects and I've made good headway toward rebuilding my garden (mind). When I return to game, I'll have a much stronger "pesticide" to handle the pests of my inner mind.
Hey James, part of my meditation practice is to bow a few times and think of things I'm grateful for. Since this lecture made a BIG impact on me, I thought instead of bowing and only thinking of how thankful I am, I would actually go turn on the computer and tell you so myself. And throw some love to Sasha and Liam too. You guys are awesome.
This is the talk that changed EVERYTHING.
I've watched this talk about 5 times. It's so dense with truth that I keep coming back and getting good information from it.
Hello Murphator! When I first read your comment 3 months ago I had a hard time understanding it, to be honest. But now I think I know what you're talking about. I've quit game for now because it was stressing me out way too much; it felt like I was running a marathon every time. Recently, I've been along a different path which has led to places I once could only dream of being. Though I'm no longer in the game, you helped me get over a lot of the mental barriers I had throughout the experience.
"You have to understand that when two strangers meet, it's often... it's strange"
I laughed so hard at this. Because it's awfully obvious, but God, do we try to ignore that fact. James Marshall is great
This is a fantastic speech. Don't forget that this guy trained with Mongolian master martial artist who taught him how to think!
Guys don't turn on the captions because you'll be rolling on the floor pissing yourself and then you won't here what this guy has to say.
Aaaand now im gonna go do it
hahahahaha no shit
hahahaha
Watching in 2023, and a younger James Marshall speaking more than a decade ago... 😎.. the world has changed a lot since then.
This is one of the coaches I would listen to most this man knows his shit
i am truly glad i could help man. one more thing tho. you can't quit. im not telling you not to quit. its just you dont hav a choice the only way to quit is to get a cabin alone in alaska and cut off all social interaction. we all have expansions and contractions and for you, this is a contraction following expansion. when your sick, contraction. injured, contraction. soon you will enter an expansion and you will feel awesome. and there's really nothing you can do cept induce this or delay this.
One of the best explanations of Qualification I have ever seen. Very helpful. cheers mate
Yes, I agree. What I like is that you can see in one part of the video (only like 10 seconds) he emulates the body language of a nervous guy who's unsure of himself. He loses all charisma and attractiveness in those 10 seconds.
James Marshall, I am from this moment declaring you to one of my most favourite inspirational figures. I've watched a lot of pickup seminar videos, a lot of same crap over again. This day I had so many question, for example "does lifestyle matter or should I just keep picking up girls?" This video really hit me deep man. I really dig you as a person, I love your low energy and how u think. You feel very real to me. This gave me total clarity.
Lastly, how do you feel about this comment? ;)
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This guy is the best. The way he conveys his message is very clearly and descriptive.
This was great. Been watching RSD a lot but this seemed to provide a full-picture and left me away with a more holistic game plan.
But I was confused what the three pillars were after watching this. Please tell me if this was intended to be your three pillars:
1. Show intent: eye contact and presence.
2. Challenge her to find out who they really are.
3. Work on lifestyle.
Avishek Saha The three pillars are:
1) The nuts and bolts of seduction
2) Internal change (aka inner game, awareness)
3) Lifestyle design
Brian Plante Got it;)
As someone who totally bought all the plastic, scripted PUA bullshit, this is an absolutely refreshing change of perspective. James's way of interacting is so honest and direct, no games, no bullshit. This is how men should interact with women- as equals, just two people in an otherwise lonely world trying to connect on a deeper and more real level.
This is THE session to listen to. The number of insights crammed into this well-spoken talk is just amazing! Just like a deep movie it takes several rounds to sink in.
I totally feel wiser every time...what about you?
Still golden in 2022. Richness here 👍🏾
One of the most powerful and helpful seminar I have ever seen.
Thank's a lot Under21convention, James Marshall, and all the others, your work is great.
I've watched this talk weekly, and each time I watch it I learn something new from it... James is amazing.
By far one of the greatest speeches of James 👌
i lived in shanghai for 5 years, and let me tell you it was one of the safest places i've lived. anytime we went out clubbing i RARELY had any problems, of course there was always small fights but there was never anything too serious and in general, it was extremely safe.
James Marshall, Jon Matrix and Liam McRae...all you guys rock. This is my style. Chilled!
So you’ve just blended the concepts of qualification and compliance together... that’s impressive. Both mental games that show the value while making emotional impact.
1:09:23 - 1:09:30 this is the best quote in the world
most people don't understand it but this is so true.
I agree. So fuckin true
Thanks a lot, James. You Australian guys put this on a new inspirational level.
This is a continuation of the previous response. Think of it like this. I am like a garden. Game enabled my flowers to blossom, to evolve, to explore new horizons. But, like all gardens, there were weeds and malicious insects that sought to destroy, not only the virgin flowers of my garden, but also it's very foundation. The pesticide I used as a countermeasure proved dully ineffectual and soon, disease and decay spread like wildfire. I'll concluded this in my next response.
I keep seeing all these different PUAs and some talking shit on eachother. Many of them used car salesman and it can be hard to trust. Having talked to a decent amount of women (way less than I want to...but that's on me and working through motivational issues) I feel like James is one of the better ones
Thanks man. I guess, I have been putting too much pressure on myself. It's just that I feel as if I HAVE to do this now so that whenever an opportunity arises in the future (for instance, at school) then I won't feel any anxiety and I'll now exactly how to approach her. Also, I don't understand why a girl is sometimes super receptive when I meet her and give me her number yet still reject me when I text her later.
I get you're trying to be helpful but many guys don't know what to do around women and can't even take initiative to get a desirable woman into their lives. Learning how to interact and convey our genuine selves is a part of his teaching
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whats the quality of 100's of these girls.. when a good one to keep is one of thousands. James you got good point and experience, but the root of your journey that makes me question you as a whole is the fact that you got on this journey with revenge in mind at all the jocks and all the hot girls that weren't for you back then. of course though if only you were spiritually aware. but still respect man. it is what it is. i appreciate your input.
And most of these talks aren't for the men who are looking for the one girl. It's like James said in this video or a different one, he's has long term ralationships and has appreciated them; but "right now" It's not what he's looking for. I completely understand, in high school I wanted the one love, and found it it few times over, but now that I'm in my early twenties I'd rather have fun and not be tied down, until, like he's said before, I find a girl that I can't stop thinking about and decide to make it long term. I can say however I appreciate that you appreciate his input in it all, I see a lot of comments that are like yours, but they completely bash what he's saying and spew on about finding the right girl and settling down and all that. From experience with friends, it's mostly guys who have never had more than one or two serious relationships and think they should only be in relationships for love rather than fun. Not saying that's your case though. Have you ever watched any Johny (sp) sapornos interviews? He touched on this kind of. I recommend it.
This is a mindfull person who uses it into pickup, like many pua. Some of them even say: "U have to meditate".
dahay6 other old school seduction gurus use the idea of calibration, so James goes, how are you gonna calibrate without awareness.
dude you plan on going to the mall and working cold approach game? geez you got balls. not saying its bad. i just know when I was in high school there was NO WAY i'd have done that. props to you man. if you get this social anxiety BS out of yur way now? you WILL be a boss in college i guarantee it. wish i started back then. in mean time, in you journey to improve yourself and social performance,i should hope u find highschool popularity to come at you as a byproduct. glad you like the advice man
yes, but do it without fixation on outcome, mold it to being friendly, just building rappport, and having fun, try to get in as many friend groups as possible. You will meet resistance however. Lots of groups get clingy, but meet your resistance with an understanding and awareness and figure it out. remember high school isnt the real world. It has the potential to completely revolutionize your future college experience (if thats where you want to go)
I wish I started in high school.
i always thought game/girls were separate from sports/talking/eating/sleeping. that life was a series of categories that we classify. its bled into our culture 4 years. since life is because of water, LIFE itself is fluid, things flow in and out around all over. girls flow in and out, difference between u and guy in the vid is HOW he went about it and CONTINUES to go about it. u wanna be a better friend? open your mind. remain present. receptive and empathetic. be the friend u want for yourself.
I'm a woman listening in today. Liked your content and your style. Interesting to hear the "guys" point of view for a change. Wish I could add to the conversation. Maybe not. Carol
so your saying not to be afraid to make mistakes. she cancelled on sunday because her parents but we're on again for next sunday so i'll try to implement some of your advice then. thank you
well its good you progressed even without feedback from some random guy on youtube (me) It sounds like your on another tier which is awesome.
more important than any advice you can get is that no matter where you go, you feel comfortable. If you feel comfortable talking to this girl make sure thats possible wherever it is. if dancing, make sure thats possible, etc
I too have worried bout this, but honestly dont. remember shes there for YOU and NOT for the VENUE if she is, then shes not for you
This dudes a boss
Nice M140i there!
@@joeconcertshd3451 Thankyou sir 🙏
I feel the need to restate my previous assertion that I've 'quit game.' It was a crude and inaccurate description of my current position. I've simply decided to take a temporary tactical retreat in order to re-evaluate myself in a new light. I see what you're saying with contractions and expansions. I wouldn't say I've contracted necessarily, but momentarily deviated from a particularly unfruitful expansion onto an expansion of a different kind. Hold on, I ran out of space.
Thank You under21convention for putting up all these videos, this really is helping me open my eyes to what is possible and its putting out a lot of information that I wouldn't be able to get or understand any other way. I have literally watched every single video ever put up and in many ways it has helped me better understand myself and The Game period. So PLEASE keep doing what your doing and hopefully in a year when I turn 18 I can come join you for next years(2013) under21convention.
Very thought provoking talk. I don't necessarily agree with it all but it has made reconsider and think about my whole social and personal philosophy. So, thanks!
He lists the 3 pillars at 29:19
Which are they? I understand only two: internal change and lifestyle design. What is the third?
Nuts and bolts of seduction (technicalities)
Thanks!
@Daniel ... Intent
Absolutely PHENOMENAL speech. Practical advice and concepts to apply to all facets of life without the BS. Love the man's authentic vibe and love the Mystery impersonation at 1:06:48. James Marshall is on that real ish son.
This is the best video on CZcams
Mann JAMES is the besttt
he has a very impressive and charismatic style of talking, great video :)
Of course this guy's gonna do good with women, he's hella handsome.
yuve grown so much in these past few months lol. im gona phlosophize u here. the way I see it(hope u c the logic in it) there is no "better" or "worse", but only what is, and what isn't. contemplate that statement. it goes against everything we americans are taught but it should hopefully bring you peace of mind. everything ur doin is right because it CANT be wrong, it just is or isnt my advice to you is view the bigger picture game is game but life is life game isonly a very small part of life
R-Kelly "Slow Dance" Lyrics;;; Feel My Nature Rise Girl I am going to make you feel good tonight
Thanks a lot for your response. I posted my comment three months ago, though, so it would have really helped for me to have read your comment then so that I could learn what I had to discover the hard way. (You know what I mean?) Actually, now i'm trying to figure out what's the place i can take out this girl i know on a budget. any suggestions on this topic? thanks again for your response, i didn't think I would ever actually get a response.
DUDE! I'M proud of you and I dont even know you! good show man! best thing to do is not interpret anything, focus on what ACTUALLY occured, NOTHING hypothetical, thatll mess you up. go on what you know, your gut is more powerful than your head always was always will be. you learn that now, youll be in good shape. do what YOU want. you wanna call her call her etc. but DONT force it! its on u to escalate man. unless you want a relationship, then look elswhere, otherwise this could be fun, huh? ; )
thanx George Mcfly, nice video!
James has such a laid back game.. pleasure to watch him in action.
Dustin: Hmm.. I'd suggest you look into the one on *"BeTheBadBoy, c0m"..*
I went through a phase about a year ago after I broke up with my girl where I read all the PUA guides I could get my hands on.. that was the best of the bunch.
Amazing story ! We all have our own stories as to why we went into dating coaching. Mine is a lot like yours.
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This was so awesome. He really knows his stuff!
PRESENCE AND AWARENESS
just do what you can to keep the lane of communication open. Or at least take notes about how/whether or not she responds to your texts, calls, etc. that will determine whether or not she's down. BUT more important than anything, make sure you follow through with what you say your going to do. That has nothing to do with her, just follow through for yourself. I've had lots of cancellations too man, it definitely sucks. you sound pretty about it. good luck to you my friend I hope for the best
I think you got this all twisted. This isn't about manipulation or objectifying women, this is about learning to be better men and learning to relate to women in a way that's fun and satisfying for both you and her.
One thing I'll agree with is that it is a bit "creepy" that there's a whole bunch of dudes learning to pick up women and be better with women... but you want to know the only thing creepier then that?? It's guys who have no idea how to relate to women trying to pickup women...
This is PURE GOLD
good luck to you my friend, you need to do what YOU think is right make a real mans mistake, do whatever you want to do, and if it works, great, but if not, that's okay too. (Big lesson I learned) her decisions are hers like yours are yours. The only thing that could justify waiting is if, you feel a tiny spark and you feel like you'd benefit from a little more time together, to lock it in. buildng her interest. if your receptive to her signs, and YOU feel a click, then you should be fine.
thats sick dude, I'm happy for you.3 visits is good dude, especially considering yur in highschool and some kids yur age cant even talk to girls, your doin it to RANDOM ones. Impressive man. but ya u said it yourself, do what you want. as far as ur emotions go, let the fear be there, understand that its there and let it be. its chill to be excited man, take pride in ur accomplishments, no prob. and who cares if nothing comes out of it the beauty of this is you can just go right back to the mall!
This speech is so dense with information
He's got a point about putting ones attention on our feet when approaching a woman. That's why and in addition its very important to wear very good quality shoes that suits your outfit and more so accentuates your height and appropriate to the occasion. Your shoes influence your confidence. But whatever you do don't look down! Selfie preening doesn't look good in front of women. The feet/shoes are a man's peacock moment. No shxx! ) haha. Maybe.
what a king.
Great talk, perfectly resonates with my personal strategy to uncomplicate my mind, my professional and social life. For inner game I study Stoicism and mindfulness meditation, and writers like Tim Ferriss have inspired my current lifestyle design.
My question: several times in this talk James summarizes (or intends to summarize) the three pillars, but I only pick up on "inner game" and "lifestyle design". Call me inattentive, but what is the third pillar? (is it keeping pressure on people?)
Intention
hes a gud talker i like him, tnx James it helps a lot for a Single Person like me.
Maybe Johnny Bravo might need to Take this class. He might learn a thing or two about being a ladies' man.
hey murphator! it's been a long time brother (more like a month or so). hey i just wanted to tell you that i've really liked your advice and help so far. it's really unique. also, now that it's summer I've been really looking forward to working on my game more often (i'd stopped for a while). i'm already planning to go to the mall tomorrow and see how things go. I'm interested in hearing your thoughts. thanks man.