Men are always great in the first couple months. You don't really get to know them for who they are until see you how they react to disagreements, how they handle their anger, notice consistencies in their behavior etc. Ask the big questions and make sure your interests align.
I ignored so many red flags ! And you're so right I didn't ask the right questions early ! He started out sweet as pie and then he drastically changed overnight. Love bombing is something he did all the time
Hey, tbh i know how hard a breakup can be. I just went through one a month ago. And i know a breakup can make someone feel depressed and sad. I really admire that you have decided to focus on yourself and your faith. It takes a strong person to do that, especially after a breakup. God is with you 🙏. And if you ever need someone to talk to i am here to lend a listening ear. 😊
I am old enough to be your father and have a daughter around your age and a 24 year old niece serving in the Air Force so I will give you this little fatherly advice from experience . In the future never date someone in your unit I made that mistake when I was a young soldier, now that you’re out of that toxic relationship concentrate on your career by Getting that Corporal pin on and becoming an E-5. I promise you like I once told my heart broken daughter and niece you will meet the right guy it may take some time but you will.
you still young but you can't let nobody get the best of you i hope you did not loose sleep over him its okay to be single its okay to be your own best friend if people don't want to be in your life for the right reason its okay put this behind you and keep on working on your goals
i notice you know how to really cook you have so much potential when you leave the army anything is possible its 365days a year for every bad day you have its going to be better days coming your way you is right everybody not going to like you but as long you keep god in your prayers thats all that matters try to stay strong keep on manifesting good things about your life watch god make it come true i love your journey keep shining you made to be successful you deserved the best for the hard work you put in if nobody can't see that in you i do god do & you do
Joy don’t feel too down and out over a breakup. I too was dumped a couple months ago. You’re a young beautiful woman with a great future ahead of you. The right people will come along your way and be there by your side. Love your content and one day I would like to chat you on streamyard or Zoom. And by the way, I have less than 6 weeks to Air Force basic training Oh and by the way, a person with a drinking problem or relies on alcohol to have a “good time” is a serious red flag. I quit drinking 8 months ago, but then again I rarely drink alcohol.
You are a wonderful woman. A man is blessed to date you. I've been following you for a long time on tic tac and CZcams you are going to be all right that God and your life and and everything will work smoothly. Always put God first
Omg Joy im so sorry u felt that no one cared about you because you are one of my favorite CZcamsrs and I am inspired by your content ❤❤❤ and when you first fall in love with someone you overlook a lot of their shortcomings because love makes you blind to their actions. Im glad you we able to see the real him and now just focus on yourself and keep God first in your life🙏💖
Thankyou for being a loyal viewer and watching my content 💕it's not easy trying to balance, work, love, and other overwhelming tasks. Your right love is blind and I to focus on my own happiness !
the small things you did for him should mean a lot to him just the fact you had his back when people was telling you it will not work out but it may take time for you to fully get over this but you did nothing wrong for taking a change with love but you already know your boundaries if somebody cross it just let them go
Thankyou for taking the time to watch the video, I mentioned your comment in there ! I should've cut the relationship off months ago but I wanted to be a good gf. Now I need to make myself happy and let God do the rest
@@joypressley4821 you will have your ups & down on your journey but just keep on going hard for your future you can make big things happen for yourself you have a great mindset you have a great personality don't let nobody take that away from you
Hallo beautiful girl .how are you doing i hope you doing great and move on with your beautiful you .i am 55jr old and have the same thing ,thats how man acting. Much love baby girl .love frome Belgium ❤❤❤❤❤
Sorry to hear about that🥹i hope you’re okay Please i have a question which literally not related to this video but about the army basic training. How were you able to pay your phone bill during training?
Everything happens for a reason. Live & Learn, Learn & live.
Men are always great in the first couple months. You don't really get to know them for who they are until see you how they react to disagreements, how they handle their anger, notice consistencies in their behavior etc. Ask the big questions and make sure your interests align.
I ignored so many red flags ! And you're so right I didn't ask the right questions early ! He started out sweet as pie and then he drastically changed overnight. Love bombing is something he did all the time
Hey, tbh i know how hard a breakup can be. I just went through one a month ago. And i know a breakup can make someone feel depressed and sad. I really admire that you have decided to focus on yourself and your faith. It takes a strong person to do that, especially after a breakup. God is with you 🙏. And if you ever need someone to talk to i am here to lend a listening ear. 😊
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I am old enough to be your father and have a daughter around your age and a 24 year old niece serving in the Air Force so I will give you this little fatherly advice from experience . In the future never date someone in your unit I made that mistake when I was a young soldier, now that you’re out of that toxic relationship concentrate on your career by Getting that Corporal pin on and becoming an E-5. I promise you like I once told my heart broken daughter and niece you will meet the right guy it may take some time but you will.
your absolutely right thankyou for that honest truth. I have to do better for myself. Thankyou for watching
you still young but you can't let nobody get the best of you i hope you did not loose sleep over him its okay to be single its okay to be your own best friend if people don't want to be in your life for the right reason its okay put this behind you and keep on working on your goals
Amen to that Thankyou for listening to my story 🤎🙏
i notice you know how to really cook you have so much potential when you leave the army anything is possible its 365days a year for every bad day you have its going to be better days coming your way you is right everybody not going to like you but as long you keep god in your prayers thats all that matters try to stay strong keep on manifesting good things about your life watch god make it come true i love your journey keep shining you made to be successful you deserved the best for the hard work you put in if nobody can't see that in you i do god do & you do
Reading this really touched my heart... God is my best friend and you're right better days are coming ! Stay blessed and thank you for watching !
Joy don’t feel too down and out over a breakup. I too was dumped a couple months ago. You’re a young beautiful woman with a great future ahead of you. The right people will come along your way and be there by your side. Love your content and one day I would like to chat you on streamyard or Zoom. And by the way, I have less than 6 weeks to Air Force basic training
Oh and by the way, a person with a drinking problem or relies on alcohol to have a “good time” is a serious red flag. I quit drinking 8 months ago, but then again I rarely drink alcohol.
Thankyou for watching ! I need to focus on making myself happy again, keep pushing and I hope you do big things !
His drinking problem was a huge turnoff always throwing up and acting crazy 🚩
You are a wonderful woman. A man is blessed to date you. I've been following you for a long time on tic tac and CZcams you are going to be all right that God and your life and and everything will work smoothly. Always put God first
Thankyou so much 🤎God bless you
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Omg Joy im so sorry u felt that no one cared about you because you are one of my favorite CZcamsrs and I am inspired by your content ❤❤❤ and when you first fall in love with someone you overlook a lot of their shortcomings because love makes you blind to their actions. Im glad you we able to see the real him and now just focus on yourself and keep God first in your life🙏💖
Thankyou for being a loyal viewer and watching my content 💕it's not easy trying to balance, work, love, and other overwhelming tasks. Your right love is blind and I to focus on my own happiness !
the small things you did for him should mean a lot to him just the fact you had his back when people was telling you it will not work out but it may take time for you to fully get over this but you did nothing wrong for taking a change with love but you already know your boundaries if somebody cross it just let them go
Thankyou for taking the time to watch the video, I mentioned your comment in there ! I should've cut the relationship off months ago but I wanted to be a good gf. Now I need to make myself happy and let God do the rest
@@joypressley4821 you will have your ups & down on your journey but just keep on going hard for your future you can make big things happen for yourself you have a great mindset you have a great personality don't let nobody take that away from you
@@tony-rs2bxThankyou I really appreciate that
Hallo beautiful girl .how are you doing i hope you doing great and move on with your beautiful you .i am 55jr old and have the same thing ,thats how man acting. Much love baby girl .love frome Belgium ❤❤❤❤❤
Wow Germany, Thankyou for watching ! Stay blessed
Sorry to hear about that🥹i hope you’re okay
Please i have a question which literally not related to this video but about the army basic training. How were you able to pay your phone bill during training?
I think you an set up auto pay or something.