LGB Without The T: Trans Guy Reacts to LGB Alliance

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  • čas přidán 26. 10. 2019
  • Reacting and discussing the newly formed LGB Alliance, that claims to not be anti-trans, but most certainly is.
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  • @chaos55t
    @chaos55t Před 4 lety +2105

    There’s also the LGT who exclude bisexuality and just thinks that a person can only be straight, or only be gay.

    • @christopherb501
      @christopherb501 Před 4 lety +301

      I'm not really aware of an intersection of trans acceptance _and_ biphobia, but hey, wouldn't be the first time humanity's surprised me with its hypocritical BS.

    • @lycandusk7263
      @lycandusk7263 Před 3 lety +600

      Then there's LG which is an electronics company

    • @trouble.x372
      @trouble.x372 Před 3 lety +50

      So we not gonna talk bout how fucking CHAOS55T COMMENTED ON THIS?

    • @safala
      @safala Před 3 lety +12

      James Is A Meme DUH

    • @Mostlyharmless1985
      @Mostlyharmless1985 Před 3 lety +85

      LGT to over half of the people in the rainbow. "You don't exist, you aren't real."
      What?

  • @themuseboy
    @themuseboy Před 4 lety +4264

    I'm an old retired gay man, tomorrow I turn 66. After watching you for the last six months I can't begin to tell you how much I have learned from you. Keep up the good work Jamie and never give up!

    • @themuseboy
      @themuseboy Před 4 lety +350

      @@gibberish192 Thank You for the late Happy Birthday. To respond about being out, I was so far in the closet I was in Narnia! My first marriage was to a woman and it lasted 26 years. My second marriage was to a man and we lived together for 12 years and were married for the last 2 and 1/2. Like I said watching and listening to Jamie has helped me learn and understand so many things I did not know or understand before. You can never know too much, unless it's something the mafia doesn't want you to know. Oh, I am totally out now.

    • @themuseboy
      @themuseboy Před 4 lety +207

      @@gibberish192 I lived in the Midwest, the Bible Belt, and it was the 1970's. That's what you did then, and I had for the most part based on what the church told me convinced myself that I was straight.

    • @Sendboi
      @Sendboi Před 4 lety +92

      Aww no need to retire from being gay because you're old

    • @theanarchistocelot1620
      @theanarchistocelot1620 Před 4 lety +88

      Now there’s a boomer we can be proud of

    • @cr4zy_cycl0n3
      @cr4zy_cycl0n3 Před 4 lety +38

      Happy belated birthday 🎊

  • @Demonoicgamer666
    @Demonoicgamer666 Před 10 měsíci +47

    LGB are sexual preference not identities TQAI are to do with identities.

    • @KindlyKalen
      @KindlyKalen Před 9 měsíci +1

      Lesbian Gay Bi
      Trans Queer INTERSEX AROMANTIC/ASEXUAL

    • @littlefoxx333
      @littlefoxx333 Před 5 měsíci +2

      ​@@KindlyKalen intersex is not an identity

    • @KindlyKalen
      @KindlyKalen Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@littlefoxx333 I know.

    • @ia8018
      @ia8018 Před 4 měsíci +2

      ​​@@littlefoxx333it's a medical condition and has nothing to do with trans.

    • @pixer415
      @pixer415 Před 3 měsíci

      ​@@ia8018Trans and intersex are two different points where sexual dimorphism isn't perfectly clean. Both are valid, but both are medical conditions on the same wavelength

  • @zwozoa5630
    @zwozoa5630 Před 8 měsíci +14

    This is because sexuality and idenitity should be seperate, the ones who are just solo-ing trans people out are braindead. But there is actual logic to this, and I don't think it should be distorted.

  • @theyreapollo
    @theyreapollo Před 4 lety +4042

    Honey we need the transgender: why? Cause that’s the T, cis :)

    • @semenandgayuncle
      @semenandgayuncle Před 4 lety +347

      Me walking up to the doctors office to get my first testosterone shot: HERE’S!!!! THE MOTHERFUCKING!!!! T!!!

    • @Ty-gc6tk
      @Ty-gc6tk Před 4 lety +31

      Severus Snape we know, that’s the whole point of the joke

    • @PCmonke
      @PCmonke Před 4 lety +26

      @@severussnape5800 idk if you're serious or you're joking but.. Attention it's coming.. Whooooosh

    • @ash1118
      @ash1118 Před 4 lety +18

      I LOVE THISSSS!!! It's my new fav sentence

    • @rowan1471
      @rowan1471 Před 4 lety +8

      Thatwierdkid oh dear did I miss the tea

  • @nataliegiles2554
    @nataliegiles2554 Před 4 lety +2218

    Aw I love Jamie he said 'poop tornado' instead of 'shit storm'

    • @nadeezn
      @nadeezn Před 4 lety +29

      Happened right as I read that. So wholesome UwU

    • @nadeezn
      @nadeezn Před 4 lety +27

      @Sarah Kelly I agree to some extent. Sometimes swearing adds a good touch of emotion or helps you convey what you need. People who swear every other word are pretty annoying, but a cuss every once in a while can really kind of help. Using one every so often can also help normalize it. You know what happens when words are normalized? They lose their power. At one point saying "heck" was pretty bad, but now nobody bats an eye. It's lost it's power. If words lose their power, there's no impact. Once there's no impact it will just be like a little exclamation, like "Jeepers!" that nobody really cares about.
      Also your friend got that from Reddit.

    • @justeundonut-moi.7979
      @justeundonut-moi.7979 Před 4 lety

      @Cam Morrison Wut

    • @justeundonut-moi.7979
      @justeundonut-moi.7979 Před 4 lety +1

      @Cam Morrison That's not really Nice

    • @ezlyn
      @ezlyn Před 4 lety +1

      Cam Morrison her?

  • @susieoshea9
    @susieoshea9 Před 10 měsíci +13

    FYI Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P Johnson were self identified as trans vestites: they were gay guys who liked to cross dress. I'm 75 and I was in the Gay Liberation Front with Sylvia and Marsha P. I accompanied Sylvia to a presentation at NYU in which she defined Trans as trans sexual and trans vestites. Neither started the Stonewall riots. Sylvia was uptown at a party. Marsha arrived downtown at 2AM 2 hours after the beginning.

    • @aubreyravenl
      @aubreyravenl Před 5 měsíci

      Transwomen dont have a known positive history so they hog it for themselves

    • @steamboatwill3.367
      @steamboatwill3.367 Před 21 dnem

      ​@@Xxelviroxx) why are you being transphobic on a trans persons channel?

  • @stars_3.
    @stars_3. Před 4 lety +49

    These are the same type of people who say things like “wHy dO lGbT pEoPlE gEt a WHOLE mOnTh” istg

    • @a.kamileon
      @a.kamileon Před 3 lety +8

      yea, why do y’all get a whole month? care to explain?

    • @stars_3.
      @stars_3. Před 3 lety +19

      Aish Tuli because we get killed, assaulted, raped, executed, disowned, abused by our families, sent to conversion therapy, harassed, bullied and tortured.

    • @evlovesbooks
      @evlovesbooks Před 3 lety +8

      WhY dO cIs StRaIgHtS gEt A wHoLe YEAR!

    • @No-zp5mv
      @No-zp5mv Před 3 lety +7

      @@a.kamileon Yeah, why do y'all get the other 11? Care to explain?

    • @pluto3194
      @pluto3194 Před 3 lety +3

      @@a.kamileon
      I mean you get the other 11 so I think a month is fair

  • @Timetravelinfool
    @Timetravelinfool Před 4 lety +773

    All of history: "we want to have rights too! But we also want those guys over there to not have rights."
    I don't understand this logic, but it's a pattern I see throughout history.

    • @kortmann9
      @kortmann9 Před 4 lety +55

      Humans are weird.

    • @dexa6623
      @dexa6623 Před 4 lety +29

      Tbh when it's put like that it sounds like privileges not rights.

    • @CPBrodcast1
      @CPBrodcast1 Před 4 lety +10

      The T should have never existed in the first place 🙃

    • @kortmann9
      @kortmann9 Před 4 lety +93

      @@CPBrodcast1 That's not very metal of you, Jesus.

    • @dexa6623
      @dexa6623 Před 4 lety +38

      @The Crow When a group says they want rights but they don't want the other guys to have rights, it doesn't mean they want rights, it's they want power over the other group, which would be privlage.

  • @zraashaq
    @zraashaq Před 4 lety +1003

    I love the "any reasonable trans person" part because we all know what that's referring to.

  • @althepal234
    @althepal234 Před 4 lety +11

    Is the trans agenda just having dysphoria?? Like what does “agenda” even mean in this situation?

    • @alvegutt42
      @alvegutt42 Před 4 lety

      many non conforming kids are led to believe they are trans. when in reality they just grow up to be gay

    • @althepal234
      @althepal234 Před 4 lety +4

      @@alvegutt42 many? That’s a stretch

    • @twentyeight602
      @twentyeight602 Před 3 lety +1

      @@alvegutt42 didn't you watch the video? The detransition rate is 0,3%

  • @dinosoares2145
    @dinosoares2145 Před 4 lety +194

    Can we just all accept each other. Is it really that hard to not care whether someone is trans, gay, straight, bisexual, lesbian, etc.

    • @antonvinther31
      @antonvinther31 Před 3 lety +8

      💜

    • @caezero2072
      @caezero2072 Před 3 lety +9

      Nope, like, you do you, I don't care, just don't put your transgender things with lgb community.

    • @TheTossedOne
      @TheTossedOne Před 3 lety +14

      @@caezero2072 I personally don't want *you* in the LGB community. Signed, a bisexual.

    • @caezero2072
      @caezero2072 Před 3 lety +14

      @@TheTossedOne lol imagine being bisexual but doesn't even understand that T is pretty much a separate concept than LGB.. just because you think it's like a right thing to do, doesn't mean it is. Signed, bisexual with alot of friends.

    • @milk_soap.
      @milk_soap. Před 3 lety +4

      @Kaitlyn Tolle I think what the LGB movement meant was that sexuality and gender identity are different things and that they should belong to their own respective groups, although it is true that some just don't believe in GNC people, which is a different matter entirely. But in the end I don't really care whatever happens since I don't associate myself with the LGBTQ+ anyways and what others do is none of my business.
      Edit: grammar

  • @anniechampion4353
    @anniechampion4353 Před 4 lety +2069

    hi trans people reading this, a message from ur local bisexual: ur valid, i love u and there will always be people who support and accept u. u got this.

    • @miss_drama
      @miss_drama Před 4 lety +18

      Thank you! Hugs! 💜

    • @peestorage6110
      @peestorage6110 Před 4 lety +10

      Thank u

    • @eleven-hopper
      @eleven-hopper Před 4 lety +27

      I'm not trans but this is sweet!

    • @lloyddragon2036
      @lloyddragon2036 Před 4 lety +17

      hey i'm bi too and trans thank youu 💜💜💜

    • @fawn8347
      @fawn8347 Před 4 lety +20

      Hi local bisexual writing this comment: No u!
      From, a trans person.

  • @EvTheVeg
    @EvTheVeg Před 4 lety +815

    When the terfs tell me I'm just a lesbian with internalized homophobia I'm just like ok but I'm bi...

    • @meuanglao7
      @meuanglao7 Před 4 lety +168

      Right like I'm a gay trans guy, but I guess I have internalized heterophobia

    • @EvTheVeg
      @EvTheVeg Před 4 lety +120

      @Spookay T'is Me trans exclusionary radical feminist
      (A transphobe that justifies their transphobia by saying they're just trying to protect women)

    • @chicka1415
      @chicka1415 Před 4 lety +91

      Terf implies that people who think this way are still feminists.
      Fart
      Feminism appropriating reactionary transphobe, is a better description.
      If your feminism doesnt include trans* it's not feminist.

    • @MiaRosenbloom
      @MiaRosenbloom Před 4 lety +40

      Evan Mark ftm Haven't you've heard? Terf is a slur, they're called farts now. lol Feminism Appropriating Reactionary Transphobes.

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +2

      When terfs don't exist but you can't accept the fact that diversity exists.

  • @merinnnnnn
    @merinnnnnn Před 4 lety +105

    "Trans = Internalized Homophobia"
    I'm bisexual tho °~°

    • @sirfluffydog3307
      @sirfluffydog3307 Před 4 lety +6

      I'm Pansexual. Wow, I have so many more problems if I'm internally homophobic as a trans. This is a confusing time mochamars, this is a confusing time.

    • @user-pp5oh9ee1k
      @user-pp5oh9ee1k Před 3 lety

      I would be straight if I was my agab, so I guess the people saying this are saying that heterophobia is an actual thing

    • @omnical6135
      @omnical6135 Před 3 lety +1

      @@user-pp5oh9ee1k well technically heterophobia IS a real thing, it's just that you can't oppress the cishets because they're the oppressors

    • @cannicole
      @cannicole Před 3 lety

      @@omnical6135 yeah, that's true

    • @BooksandBuns
      @BooksandBuns Před 3 lety

      I'm asexual :/

  • @Shamangirl92
    @Shamangirl92 Před 4 lety +568

    As a bisexual person myself, I am pretty certain they're gonna cut the B next. People like that are only happy when they can have someone to stigmatize and exclude from their group, so they don't have to look at their own toxicity. Everyone in their right mind should see their bullshit for what it is.

    • @jeywithane130
      @jeywithane130 Před 4 lety +66

      the pretent-hate against the word queer, then the exclusion of black members and members of colours, now the t, and pretty soon the b. i agree with you. theyre falling for a heteronormative dichotomy that simply doesn't fit into nature. ugh.

    • @WarKeineAbsicht
      @WarKeineAbsicht Před 4 lety +11

      That’s the first thing that came to mind when I saw the thumbnail

    • @CarmelWox11
      @CarmelWox11 Před 4 lety +41

      Definitely, which is why we need to support everyone in the LGBT+ community. We can’t let these bigots win

    • @aesaphyr
      @aesaphyr Před 4 lety +53

      I got a comment on one of Jamie's videos once from a gay man who told me he was glad the B was getting dropped in places, that the T was finally out, and he was hoping the L would also go. Basically, he wanted a community made up of only G. Go figure.

    • @tomatoMarz
      @tomatoMarz Před 4 lety +33

      and the thing that sucks is that some people are being bi as a “trend,” which invalidates us actual bi’s.

  • @Rayxster
    @Rayxster Před 4 lety +1242

    It is rather interesting how people who fought against the discrimination are now themselves on the wrong side of history, and standing in the very shoes of the people they fought against.
    I found LGB spray painted on some columns in my town, I'm gonna head there tomorrow and slap a T on there :P heck, i might as well ad QIA+ because yay inclusion and love

    • @LaciRae
      @LaciRae Před 4 lety +93

      do it! it would be funny if it was just someone spray painting their initials.

    • @rowan1471
      @rowan1471 Před 4 lety +27

      I’ll send u a thank u card lol

    • @meuanglao7
      @meuanglao7 Před 4 lety +60

      I live in St. Louis so this year I had to double take at all the LGBs (Let's Go Blues) I saw haha
      I'm not into watching sports, so I got so confused until my coworker said something lmao

    • @albertbundy1291
      @albertbundy1291 Před 4 lety +36

      Fat people are being discriminated. Jews are being discriminated. Blacks being discriminated. That does not mean they must all stick together, especially if their goals ain't the same. LGB is sexuality, T is not, they don't neccessarily fight for the same thing.

    • @aesaphyr
      @aesaphyr Před 4 lety +101

      @@albertbundy1291 I think you completely missed the historical point of how the LGBT community constitutes of ALL those letters in the first place. It is especially because a lot of "LGB" people are gender non-conforming and were discriminated against for it. Trans people started the movement that brought gay people rights, so if they were being exclusionists, we'd have trans rights by now and no gay rights. 🤦🏻‍♂️

  • @ZelnotaStan
    @ZelnotaStan Před 4 lety +230

    I thought "LGB without the T" was about just calling trans people as their gender and not labelling them trans.
    So... I was wrong.

    • @gothofgapefuitton8252
      @gothofgapefuitton8252 Před 3 lety +24

      If only it were that smh

    • @mbloom2275
      @mbloom2275 Před 3 lety +19

      Well the LGB is about sexuality. The T is about gender identity. I think maybe it's best to call your attraction based on gender as well example: homogenderality, heterogenderality, bigenderality etc. Once you do that all of these issues about sex will just go away and only be focus points for people that based their attractions on the sex of a person only.

    • @exposureeee
      @exposureeee Před 3 lety +2

      That's cute.
      Unfortunately though, humans are trash so...

    • @enderkatze6129
      @enderkatze6129 Před 3 lety +3

      As far as I know, this won't be possible for decades to come, since we can't 100% Change the Body yet

    • @BambiTrout
      @BambiTrout Před 3 lety +16

      @@mbloom2275 ...yeah but a) those words do not flow very easily out of the mouth, and b) it overcomplicates the issue. The common goal for all LGBTQ+ people is to be allowed to be who they want to be and sleep with who they want to without prosecution or persecution. Those goals apply whether you are cis, trans, gay, straight, bi, asexual, enby, etc.
      Separating attraction by genitalia ignores the fact that some trans people have genitalia that matches their birth sex, and some that matches their gender. If I were a transwoman who had bottom surgery, would I class as sexually male or female? My birth sex is still male, but functionally I would operate as a woman both sexually and socially.
      Also, it ignores the fact that most sexual attraction is related to the totality of someone's body. Like most straight women would not be attracted to trans women with penises, because they are attracted to a male body type - not just the penis. I am personally a transwoman with a penis who attracted to women, but I am not attracted to trans men even though they may have vaginas. It is not the genitalia that attracts me to women; it is the full nebulous package that is "womanhood" - the female body type, breasts, the hair, the clothes, etc., as well as the fact that I just find it easier to connect with women than men.
      A genital preference is fine, but that doesn't justify a whole sexuality of its own, in the same way that you don't call foot fetishists "footosexuals" or people who only like people with blonde hair "blondosexuals". Genitalia is a piece of someone's body that you are welcome to not like, but it is far less important in pure attraction than the totality of a person's appearance. I'm sure most straight men (if you ignore social pressures and ego) would rather go out with a trans woman than a trans man, because a trans woman is a woman, and overall is much closer to the average straight man's sexual desires than a trans man is.

  • @cirkusanette
    @cirkusanette Před 4 lety +209

    How can there be people that knowing what its like to be rejected, humilliated, and exlucded from society still try to do the same to someone else. Mindblowing

    • @isabellamurphy7057
      @isabellamurphy7057 Před 3 lety +39

      Maybe it’s because they felt helpless when it happened to them, and they now get some sort of feeling of power and control by doing it to other people?

    • @exposureeee
      @exposureeee Před 3 lety +13

      Black homophobes in a nutshell:

    • @omnical6135
      @omnical6135 Před 3 lety +2

      @@isabellamurphy7057 that's a really bad reason to do something like that

    • @isabellamurphy7057
      @isabellamurphy7057 Před 3 lety +9

      @@omnical6135 yeah, it’s a reason, but it doesn’t make the fact that they do that any less awful. It’s a reason they did it, but it doesn’t justify the action, if that makes sense.

    • @enderkatze6129
      @enderkatze6129 Před 3 lety +6

      Thing is: the People who say this don't know what it's Like to be rejected from society for the way you are. They're spoiled upper-middle class White People who have never faced any Kind of Problem in their lives, which, from my personal understanding, causes Them to subconsciously Want to start conflict, so they have something to Fight.

  • @remmi-is-a-rat4847
    @remmi-is-a-rat4847 Před 4 lety +853

    People need to realize that equal rights aren’t a pie giving more to someone else doesn’t mean less for you

    • @AngelaR47
      @AngelaR47 Před 4 lety +23

      Well said!

    • @ian_edits_
      @ian_edits_ Před 4 lety +57

      Right? Cis people be acting like first children who are afraid mummy and daddy won't love them once the new baby arrives.

    • @fairycat23
      @fairycat23 Před 4 lety +23

      Equal rights are like love: if your heart is full, there is enough for everyone, but if your heart is empty, there is barely enough to go around.

    • @cole6893
      @cole6893 Před 4 lety +3

      @@ggjr61 there are no rights being taken away from them by trans people existing. maybe if a pre-transition trans woman played against them, they'd lose, but the majority of trans women aren't athletes

    • @zahnpastacremetube
      @zahnpastacremetube Před 4 lety +4

      @Remmington Sylvia
      Exactly. Actually the opposite is true. The more tolerant and understanding a society gets, the more it is also for other minorities and marginalised people.

  • @gsmarkham
    @gsmarkham Před 4 lety +508

    Cis gay male here. This group sounds fear-reactionary. In order to take such an illogical stand which is going backwards in terms of science and social progress something has to be scaring them. Irrational fear leads to bad decisions. I feel so bad for my fellow gay people who have not learned inclusivity and compassion. I can understand your frustration.

    • @mckenziewilliams4656
      @mckenziewilliams4656 Před 4 lety +10

      Thank ye

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +7

      "This group sounds fear-reactionary. In order to take such an illogical stand which is going backwards in terms of science and social progress something has to be scaring them."
      Not more than all the lGBTQIA+ people who are afraid of diversity and human rights.
      Fear of diversity.
      Fear of freedom of thought.
      Fear of freedom of association.
      Fear of freedom of expression.
      Fear of Science.
      You all sound manipulative,dictators, supremacists...Sorry.
      It isn't love nor compassion nor equality.
      It's manipulation, hive mind and egocentrism.
      If you love somebody, if he/she wants to go, let him/her go.
      If you respect somebody, if he/she wants to go, let him/her go.
      People have the right to be independent.
      People have the right to choose their own path.

    • @bgreaud
      @bgreaud Před 4 lety +16

      I agree. Fear is definitely being used as a weapon. The biggest issue that I see is that the uninformed public doesn't understand transition. I'm so tired of people claiming brainwashing, forcing children to change, and other scare tactics. They don't realize (at least in my state and others) that we are required to see a gender therapist and/or phycologist for however long it takes for them to conclude that the person has dysphoria. Which in my case was well over a year. An endocrinologist in my state will not see you without documents in hand. Next, they don't typically prescribe meds for children pre puberty. At puberty onset, most are encouraged to take blockers. Blockers do not make any changes. They just pause puberty for a while. Then later they are allowed cross ex horomones closer to 16ish (give or take). But the public has a misconception that kids are being abused by being pumped full of drugs. It's just plain fear and lack of education...

    • @SladeL
      @SladeL Před 4 lety +6

      Steve, youre transphobic when you dont sleep with transmen.

    • @goawayleavemealone2880
      @goawayleavemealone2880 Před 4 lety +10

      It's not about inclusivity, or exclusivity. It's about million and one genders and self ID, eroding the credibility of the LGBT community.
      When Lunar Gender and Jupiter Gender and Latte Gender are apparently real things then I don't want them associated with me. I've spent quite long enough dealing with people conflating my sexuality with mental illness. I don't need to relive it, in a mental illness by proxy sort of way.

  • @buildscharacterz
    @buildscharacterz Před 11 měsíci +9

    If you research psychology, why do you ignore science? LGB people have scientific backing. The TQ+ not so much...

  • @pixieproductions_3952
    @pixieproductions_3952 Před 4 lety +26

    Ok, question here:
    You said “same *gender* attraction
    That means that there could be a version of gay or lesbian
    For non-binary people?
    That would answer a lot of things.
    If anyone could answer my question, Thanks!

    • @probablefrog
      @probablefrog Před 4 lety +4

      I think so... But nobody talks about it so I don't know.

    • @kayleighglenn6705
      @kayleighglenn6705 Před 4 lety +20

      Yes, two non-binary people can be considered heterosexual/homosexual, assuming their genders align that way. The problem is, most people think of gender as 2 or 3 unrelated points with no grey area on the scale, when it's more like a big color wheel/gradient scale with lots of room in between 'man' and 'woman' (as well as things that are nowhere near either one!) You can be a man, woman, nonbinary (which is a big umbrella), asexual, genderqueer, demi-boy, bigender, and on and on. Sexuality and gender aren't points that can be plotted on an x-y graph, so much as they're a huge spectrum that sometimes aligns well, and sometimes falls into weird, muddy, grey-blues. Many people like to imagine it as 'there's as many genders as there are humans.' If that sounds complicated, it's because it really is, but it's a great way of remembering that sexuality and gender cannot simply be limited to 'man,' 'woman,' and 'neither.' They're a complicated experience for which there aren't nearly enough labels, and largely even less understanding.

    • @raviosolaire
      @raviosolaire Před 4 lety +4

      @@chopscock holy heck that actually helps a lot. I was wondering if there were names for that..

    • @romanjancura9651
      @romanjancura9651 Před 4 lety +1

      @@kayleighglenn6705 There are 2 or 3 genders (if you count intersexuals). Because genders are based on biology. If not, you can say that homosexuality/bisexuality/heterosexuality are social constructs and in that case, homophobes will be right in say that homosexuality is only lifestyle, which is now. Gender politics are strongly homophobic/biphobic/heterophobic, despite their good intentions.

    • @romanjancura9651
      @romanjancura9651 Před 4 lety +1

      @@chopscock This is one of worst text I ever read and it is great support for homophobes by relativization of sexuality.

  • @rowan1471
    @rowan1471 Před 4 lety +1141

    This'll get buried in the comments but
    you've really helped me accept myself as not being cis (still figuring out if im non binary or male but yh)
    you're an amazing person and an inspiration to all of us

    • @rowan1471
      @rowan1471 Před 4 lety +17

      Haruash I hope so too 🙃🤣♥️

    • @PaperbackPlanes
      @PaperbackPlanes Před 4 lety +11

      @Haruash good luck! 💚

    • @rowan1471
      @rowan1471 Před 4 lety +39

      Jett Jo johnson yeah I might be male (still figuring it out) but non binary is a thing soooooo

    • @semenandgayuncle
      @semenandgayuncle Před 4 lety +45

      You should ask your friends to call you he/him pronouns for a bit and they/them for a bit
      I did that and I realized they/them made me super uncomfortable and I like he/him so it rlly helps

    • @rowan1471
      @rowan1471 Před 4 lety +53

      Regan Ngo oh ok thanks♥️
      *googles how to get friends*

  • @BrookeBaubles
    @BrookeBaubles Před 4 lety +700

    This isn't a negative video, it's positive because you're fighting for something positive. Don't feel like you're obligated to talk about lighthearted subjects.

    • @FellowLee
      @FellowLee Před 4 lety +1

      +

    • @zerokura
      @zerokura Před 4 lety +9

      Ya i like finding his videos recommended to me and take a look i learn more about tran stuff and other topics.

  • @broccolite8297
    @broccolite8297 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I can't stomach that your argument against 'same sex attraction' vs 'same gender attraction' was simply, 'Do we look like lesbians?' There's a great reason why we have precise language. I respect your opinion, but that defense was so lazy and it makes me honestly skeptical that there is any sense to it.

  • @scraprat4479
    @scraprat4479 Před 2 lety +8

    "and they're also saying that young lesbians are being pressured to transition to make just because they are too stereotypically feminine."
    That's what my mom was trying to say I was doing. For clarification, I'm trans male, and I only said so halfway through my girlfriend and i's relationship. I always felt like I was trans, but I thought I was just weird and unusual, so I never said anything. Not like I was given a choice to anyway, everything I do Is whatever my mother wants. A while ago my girlfriend came out as trans because that's what she thought she was but quickly realized she didn't like being a guy, and felt didn't feel like that was her. She just didn't like the female stereotypes and assumed because she liked doing things that were considered "boyish". It was only then that I found out what trans was, and realized that it fit me and I'm not just a weird screw up. So no. I'm not trans because my girlfriend "failed to be the man in the relationship." I'm trans because that is who I am, and that is what I identify with. To the kind stranger who is reading this, thanks for taking the time to read it all. I hope you have an awesome day.^^

  • @cfor8129
    @cfor8129 Před 4 lety +241

    When I came out as a trans man I got people trying to convince me I was a lesbian even though I only date men
    Nobody ever tried to convince me I was trans

    • @jabbathehutt888
      @jabbathehutt888 Před 4 lety +2

      C O'R 👀 tea

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +40

      The bad part of your history is people trying to convince you.
      Nobody should convince you.
      You are not a marionette.
      You are the one who decides about your own life.
      It's your life, not theirs.

    • @jjju3
      @jjju3 Před 4 lety +51

      @@KHDecoder if you mean the 41% suicide rate for trans teens
      The suicides NEVER come _from_ transitioning you nut job lmao. It comes from gender dysphoria and social isolation that stems from transphobia and bigotry. Telling a trans person _not_ to transition will actively make that person more suicidal bcuz of their dysphoria. You are actively killing trans people with this belief. shut the fuck up.

    • @yaboimagnus4776
      @yaboimagnus4776 Před 4 lety +13

      Yeah same! I find it really weird when people tell me I was forced to be trans because that’s the opposite of my experience

    • @charmingjim
      @charmingjim Před 4 lety +1

      @@jjju3 Is there any data on the suicide rates of trans teens from 30 or 40 years ago ?

  • @thisguy4593
    @thisguy4593 Před 4 lety +350

    last time i was this early, i thought i was a girl

  • @Lucas-ug6zs
    @Lucas-ug6zs Před 2 lety +7

    Marsha P Johnson was a gay man. He was not trans he identified as a gay man and a transvestite. Sylvia identified as a “gay man and a gay girl” and a drag queen. Neither of them were trans.

  • @Charlswim
    @Charlswim Před 8 měsíci +13

    One is identity one is sexuality

  • @guy_onfire
    @guy_onfire Před 4 lety +22

    "Do we look like lesbians to you?" made me laugh so hard for some reason.

  • @lawli56
    @lawli56 Před 4 lety +695

    I was being told 40 years ago that I couldn't be Bi by people in the Gay and Lesbian community because there was no such thing. It was BS then and it's BS now. It's history repeating itself with the Trans community. Just carry on being you and getting the right information across to the people who matter. ❤

    • @gezi5927
      @gezi5927 Před 3 lety +10

      i’m not lgbt but i find the issues and politics around it interesting, and hearing about things that happened years ago is so interesting

    • @gender-fluidARMY
      @gender-fluidARMY Před 3 lety +24

      I’m scared because I’ve been told that my bisexuality is wrong and that it’s a phase. As well as the argument that I’ll go to Hell for being bi.

    • @cloverleaf9885
      @cloverleaf9885 Před 3 lety +30

      @@gender-fluidARMY i mean, if hell is where all the bi ppl are then im happy because i can find my people. But, theres nothing wrong with ANY sexuality/gender

    • @gender-fluidARMY
      @gender-fluidARMY Před 3 lety +9

      chloe barbour not only that, but I'm trying to socially transition. (I'm genderfluid I think) but I'm nervous. I'm just a blob. 😂

    • @zaryaislegit125
      @zaryaislegit125 Před 3 lety +9

      I'm so sorry that the gay and lesbian community wouldn't accept you. - a lesbian

  • @Z.gawk-gawk
    @Z.gawk-gawk Před 4 lety +1894

    Disrespectful to the trans people who helped our community gain rights.

    • @JuiceMade3603
      @JuiceMade3603 Před 4 lety +75

      Anthony Genzale i hope this is a joke, because a transgender woman of colour started the stonewall riots

    • @Liz-uv3fz
      @Liz-uv3fz Před 4 lety +32

      @Anthony Genzale Please, go troll somewhere else.

    • @fdsjdhebjcs6726
      @fdsjdhebjcs6726 Před 4 lety +14

      @Anthony Genzale why are you here then?

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +26

      "Disrespectful to the trans people who helped our community gain rights."
      ...Because diversity exists?
      ...Because they don't agree with the hegemonic LGBT?
      ...Because lesbians, gays and bisexuals aren't slaves?
      How is diversity disrespectful?
      How are human rights disrespectful?
      Are indigenous people, black people, arabs, atheists, christians, muslims, feminists...disrespectful because they don't agree with you?
      Talking about love, equality and diversity...while killing others's human rights.
      The situation is serious because LGBTQIA+ community is toxic for others and for itself.

    • @oxoClareNoxo
      @oxoClareNoxo Před 4 lety +33

      How some trans women are behaving is disrespectful to the lesbians who helped give them rights but it must be ok to disrespect them because they are female.

  • @perynice
    @perynice Před 11 měsíci +11

    If you advocate for children to transition please hear me
    I’ve grown up in a progressive city. I had previous trauma that made me fear being attractive anyway to a straight male so I acted and dressed as boyish as possible. My friends in middle school kept pushing the idea that I’m trans, my close teacher also supported me in this choice. Online I saw so many people speaking of how healing it is. from ages 12-15 I made my own binders, i hated my body for being female, i would make cuts on my breasts and cry for long hours at night.
    I dont think my friends and teacher were trying to push their AGenDa on me, they wanted to help me. But when i grew older and came to terms with myself and stopped hating and blaming my body I started my healing. I’ve done irreversible changes to my body as a child and I’ve spoken to other women who went thru the same, we were lead to the wrong solution with no thought of the dangers.
    I do believe transitioning is right for some people but how many more kids have to go thru what I went thru (and even worse) for people to take this more seriously?!

    • @jamesnelson6656
      @jamesnelson6656 Před 10 měsíci

      You’ve made it through. We’re all proud of you🏳️‍⚧️💜

    • @scottmcgee9079
      @scottmcgee9079 Před 9 měsíci +1

      Maybe a video detailing an ideology surrounding the removal of trans people from a community we built (and society at large) is not the place for you to trauma dump

    • @jamesnelson6656
      @jamesnelson6656 Před 9 měsíci +1

      @@scottmcgee9079
      1. people have trauma and it's ok to talk about it, or not to. sometimes it helps sometimes it doesn't
      2. trans people have existed since the beginning of civilization back to Mesopotamia. We have always existed and always will.
      3. It doesn't cost anything to mind your own business. trans people can exist without fracturing your barely existing masculinity.
      🏳‍⚧💜

  • @albertfralinger2711
    @albertfralinger2711 Před 2 lety +106

    I’ve never understood why T was added to LGB. The two groups seem to be completely different

    • @jadapinkett1656
      @jadapinkett1656 Před rokem

      @@xinim-san8011 Utter horseshit

    • @abyssblood5520
      @abyssblood5520 Před rokem +25

      Me neither. They don’t belong

    • @abyssblood5520
      @abyssblood5520 Před rokem +39

      @@xinim-san8011 oh come on! Then one would have to add every letter for a minority in this never ending acronym. Regarding religion, race etc. it’s stupid. LGB = sexuality
      T= Gender identity

    • @abyssblood5520
      @abyssblood5520 Před rokem +32

      @sewer~rat we have to know differences between the two. LGB = sexuality & T = Identity. LGB ≠ T

    • @lunarlightasmr4660
      @lunarlightasmr4660 Před rokem +18

      The T was never added. It was there from the beginning, trans people were at stonewall, leading the charge just as much as the others, y’all just like to forget that fact now that y’all got ya rights while trans people are still fighting for many of theirs

  • @anotsocheerio755
    @anotsocheerio755 Před 4 lety +729

    Transgender people: Am I a joke to you?

    • @mauriceperham5150
      @mauriceperham5150 Před 4 lety

      @Jett Jo johnson??

    • @anotsocheerio755
      @anotsocheerio755 Před 4 lety +16

      @Jett Jo johnson I'm a wizard harry

    • @Shadow1Yaz
      @Shadow1Yaz Před 4 lety +3

      Some people who don’t understand: yes, you are!
      Me: 😞

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +3

      "Transgender people: Am I a joke to you?"
      TWIST, the response to transgender people:
      Diversity: Am I joke to you?
      Humanity: Am I joke to you?
      Human rights: Am I joke to you?

    • @alisonlopez7932
      @alisonlopez7932 Před 4 lety +5

      yes. they are.

  • @abbymydland9527
    @abbymydland9527 Před 4 lety +94

    I’m a cis straight female and I love your videos. I find them very informative and sometimes fun. I also love your relationship with Shaba sorry for the spelling

    • @jordan9224
      @jordan9224 Před 4 lety +14

      abby mydland Hi! So I just want to let you know that it’s always lovely to see allies in the comments, thank you for supporting the LGBTQ+ community! Have a nice day!

    • @cyt0skeleton934
      @cyt0skeleton934 Před 4 lety +5

      @Anthony Genzale *sigh*

    • @travelsandbooks
      @travelsandbooks Před 4 lety +4

      @Anthony Genzale I've got loads of information from him. He's super smart, teaches me a lot, makes me laugh, and I even have a bit of a crush on him. Hope you enjoyed the video!

    • @KHDecoder
      @KHDecoder Před 4 lety

      "cis straight female "
      You mean a normal healthy female?

    • @merlinalexcleveland3357
      @merlinalexcleveland3357 Před 4 lety +5

      @@KHDecoder obviously you ain't normal or healthy if you get off being a nasty shit insulting people in the comment sections of CZcams? Honestly so silly (and a little sad) that you think your behavior is healthy. But no one is unhealthy or abnormal for being cis, that's true. Just for being an abusive jerk.

  • @junhansguitar1036
    @junhansguitar1036 Před 4 lety +75

    Hey, transpeople this is a message from your local ace enby mess: you are all valid and incredible and I respect and you all so much!
    To the trans guys: you are very handsome
    To the trans girls: you are so pretty
    To the trans NBs: you look so awesome

    • @hunty12we12
      @hunty12we12 Před 3 lety +2

      I am also bisexual and gender fluid

    • @hunty12we12
      @hunty12we12 Před 3 lety +4

      I also support people that exist and are not trying to say other people don't exist

    • @atlantic_love
      @atlantic_love Před 2 lety +2

      Thank you and hugs to the supporters (and sis/bro) in here.

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      You’re an nb? So you’re literally just like the Colorado shooter.

    • @kittypeanut4102
      @kittypeanut4102 Před rokem +2

      Thanks! You too!

  • @missiingno
    @missiingno Před 3 lety +13

    This joke *isn’t* *mine* but “trans agenda” sounds like “transgender” in Italian

  • @aetherm4867
    @aetherm4867 Před 4 lety +196

    Hi! I know you probably won't see this, but you have helped me through a lot in my transition. Thank you.

  • @aidenLjmz
    @aidenLjmz Před 4 lety +612

    As a trans person, my trans agenda includes having a nap, doing by university homework, hanging out with my friends and destroying capitalism :D

    • @trol_8889
      @trol_8889 Před 4 lety +19

      Based.

    • @theanarchistocelot1620
      @theanarchistocelot1620 Před 4 lety +6

      😄

    • @onyxxdrako4648
      @onyxxdrako4648 Před 4 lety +17

      Luv U :) destroy capitalism comrade

    • @thegreenmanofnorwich
      @thegreenmanofnorwich Před 4 lety +12

      I support all of these goals, though the doing homework one somewhat less ;-)

    • @HubertJasonCumberdale
      @HubertJasonCumberdale Před 4 lety +15

      my trans agenda includes:
      Losing some weight this summer
      Having some dinner later
      Watching more CZcams
      Having a nice day
      and having a well deserved glass of H2O

  • @Tayedaye
    @Tayedaye Před rokem +75

    I’ve been a lesbian all my life I just like vagina (not post opp vag)
    All of this stuff is confusing
    So I kinda see where the LGB is coming from

    • @Tayedaye
      @Tayedaye Před rokem +6

      @sewerrat7418 you care enough to say something 🤷🏾‍♀️ lol guess you’re wrong
      It’s okay to be triggered
      But your whole statement is incorrect

    • @lunarlightasmr4660
      @lunarlightasmr4660 Před rokem +12

      I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that, as a trans woman myself, genital preferences are valid. At the same time, trans people have been a part of this community since the beginning, since stonewall, and while it may be ‘confusing’ to you, that doesn’t mean it isn’t a legit, valid thing. The same could be said of how many straight people viewed gays and lesbians for so long: they found it confusing. Was it really? No, of course not, someone’s just gay/a lesbian, so be it. Same with being trans. It’s not anything ‘new’, as I said it’s been here since stonewall, and just because it’s confusing to someone who isn’t trans, doesn’t mean it’s then not valid or legit.

    • @kptang9603
      @kptang9603 Před rokem

      The worst part is many of them don't even have post opp vag. They demand that you accept their 'lady penis' into your personal life.

    • @earthworm2590
      @earthworm2590 Před rokem

      I agree but is trans a sexuality ??? Being a gay man I wouldn't go near a female
      So why would I go near a trans man vise versa 🤔
      Sorry also any body operations adjustments to suit your needs to come from your pocket should not be payed by the tax payers
      There are people dying with cancer
      I'm sure you live without having your forearm made into a tube and attached to make look like a penis?

    • @Avenz0r
      @Avenz0r Před rokem

      It’s not rocket science but being anti-trans is messed up because we are all deserving of our rights to exist. Also bigots treat us like secondhand citizens so what’s the point to backstab our community . Just because you don’t want to sleep with a trans person doesn’t mean they aren’t allow to be themselves.

  • @JasieStyles
    @JasieStyles Před 4 lety +234

    Everyone: shitstorm
    Jamie, a wholesome potato: poop tornado

  • @shaaba
    @shaaba Před 4 lety +37

    Proud of you

  • @myotiswii
    @myotiswii Před 4 lety +21

    Well, I guess I am straight then. Hey Dad, come back, apparently I am not gay!

  • @HaleyJo1992
    @HaleyJo1992 Před 2 lety +6

    Why can't we all just want each other to be happy, whatever shape that happiness takes?

  • @anonx3332
    @anonx3332 Před 4 lety +1956

    LGB is cool, but keeping the T is a rule

    • @Andythenurse
      @Andythenurse Před 4 lety +25

      Want that on a t-shirt.

    • @umbraiitenebris5610
      @umbraiitenebris5610 Před 4 lety +6

      andytnurs me too

    • @Sl1mch1ckens
      @Sl1mch1ckens Před 4 lety +66

      @bub personally im a trans man and i dont really understand why the T is even there. Trans is a medical condition so to me its like having lesbian gay bisexual and diabetic people, doesnt really make sense. I think there is an argument for why the T doesnt belong in the LGBT.

    • @lloyddragon2036
      @lloyddragon2036 Před 4 lety +11

      that's why i prefer to say GRSM it's much more inclusive

    • @lloyddragon2036
      @lloyddragon2036 Před 4 lety +20

      @@Sl1mch1ckens gender and sexuality are kind of inherently related, being left out just feels like we have no support, we already get enough shit as it is. not only should trans people but also nb people be included as well. it's not just a medical condition, yes there's medical evidence to back it up but it's also an identity and affects sexuality because sexuality inherently has to do with _sexes_ and being trans is switching sexes. leaving that out is just like another stab in the back. yes there's an argument, but i'm a trans guy too, and especially being pre t it feels like we need to be represented. gender, romantic, and sexual minorities are all related and we should all be allowed to be a part of the same community.

  • @carlpojk9562
    @carlpojk9562 Před 4 lety +64

    It seems like as soon as one part of the Lbgt gets more acceptence some of them just want to throw the rest under the buss, sad. Besides what about non straight transpeople ?, can't imagine how uncomfortable they must feel in the spaces that should welcome them. As someone that is both bi and trans I wish the Lgbt movment remains united cause that is what has given us progress/equall rights over the years .

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Před 4 lety +2

      The thing is the group probably would have stayed together if it wasn't for the militant people who constantly accuse others of being transphobic or they get offended over an everyday word or something. It's hard to sort out issues when you have people constantly complaining about minor things. So the lgb want to distance themselves from trans.. ok it's not great but what's stopping the trans community from making their own? Trans is now an umbrella term and literally anything can be trans now, so there is more than enough people to start a trans only group.. If there weren't so many people out to cancel others all the time, then I don't think this would have happened. A quick scroll through Twitter and I always see someone who says they are non binary ect who will attack people and lobby to get their fired for making a mistake or for a joke said fifteen years ago.. it's seems no matter what you do you can't win, and the attitude is very self indulgent, now everyone is playing top trumps of who has gone through the worst time. It was only a matter of time before the community turned on itself, I know quite a few activists who said this would happen.
      A group is just a group, does it really matter if you're included or not? Straight people aren't allowed into certain groups and that's fine apparently but trans people not being included into a group that is for sexual orientation and the world is ending.. you can't have everything that's just life and going through a struggle does not entitled you to be accepted into every single group, and now I'm seeing comments of people attacking the gay community.. when will it end

    • @frayna3666
      @frayna3666 Před 4 lety +1

      @@gemmacook1753 The issue is maybe because there is not that much trans people in the "trans community"...

    • @tanyanikolaevagizdova6571
      @tanyanikolaevagizdova6571 Před 4 lety +1

      @@frayna3666 That is literally nonsensical.

    • @frayna3666
      @frayna3666 Před 4 lety

      @@tanyanikolaevagizdova6571 I know, but it's the reality.

    • @comichb
      @comichb Před 4 lety +1

      @@tanyanikolaevagizdova6571 they mean that a lot of "trans" out there are trans-trenders or just confused. ...it's kind of true. I'm a trans man and I've meet A LOT

  • @gabe7519
    @gabe7519 Před 4 lety +3

    regarding Marsha P. Johnson & Sylvia Rivera being "forgotten" There's a group of TES's going around insisting that these ladies were "just drag queens" and calling them "Gay men" anytime people talk about how important they, as trans women, were to the whole LGBT+ movement

  • @kizzume
    @kizzume Před 4 lety +3

    My issue is when people tell me that I'm transphobic because I'm not interested in someone with a vagina. Push that message enough and it will backfire, and that's what's happening. My sexual orientation is not about someone's gender, it's about someone's sex. Trans activists declaring that my sexual orientation is transphobic is deeply offensive to me, and I will push back against that notion.
    I could be more interested in a woman with a penis than a man with a vagina. Does that suddenly make me bisexual? No.

    • @alexschaffer1500
      @alexschaffer1500 Před 4 lety +2

      You realize how invalidated that trans woman would feel, tho? It’s fine to have a genital preference (even tho, some trans people do get bottom surgery) but if you’re interested in women and men, then you’re bi. I really hope you don’t ever date a trans woman. It’d break her heart to know that, even being with her, you’d still identify as gay. That shows you still see her as a man.

  • @teosuena7954
    @teosuena7954 Před 4 lety +233

    The 1 dislike is from LGB Alliance
    Edit: how tf did I get these many likes? 😅😂

  • @kentevandill4270
    @kentevandill4270 Před 4 lety +82

    My trans agenda: To be able to go swimming for the first time in 20 years.

    • @andrewsmith211
      @andrewsmith211 Před 4 lety +15

      My trans agenda is to not look 12 anymore. Maybe grow a beard.

    • @abudgie6909
      @abudgie6909 Před 4 lety +4

      KHDecoder no1 cuts their kids’ dicks off. Demonizing people you disagree with is what nazis do.

    • @archiejohnston8
      @archiejohnston8 Před 4 lety +6

      KHDecoder Have you ever met a real trans person??? they certainly care a lot less about ‘making kids trans’ than you seem to about ‘keeping’ them cis

    • @enderkatze6129
      @enderkatze6129 Před 3 lety +1

      I don't know who "KHDecoder" was/is but gathering from y'alls replies it's a good Thing His comment was deleted

    • @No-zp5mv
      @No-zp5mv Před 3 lety +1

      I can build you a pool

  • @blobfish_art5366
    @blobfish_art5366 Před 4 lety +39

    Bleh honestly I am a cis lady and I stand with the community as a whole.. people just want someone to put down and belittle so they can feel stronger ... it's really sad because the lgbT community is (mostly) so accepting and wonderful compared to the general cis crowd 😥

  • @WindupCrow
    @WindupCrow Před 4 lety +4

    I'm Australian, we have an odd arrangement of "Medicare for all" where doctors can choose to take medicare funding or not, so when I first sought therepy in a rural coal-mining town there was one medicare doctor who worked one tuesday a month from 1pm to 4pm, bulk-billed (free) with a 5 month waiting list, who would only reffer you to a one federally funded gender clinic 17 hours drive away in the capital city which didn't take Medicare and cost $570 per session, yet that clinic would only allow HRT after 18 months of constant monthly contact, if you missed a monthly appointment they scrubbed your records and forced you to get a new referal, 5 month weight and all...
    That's what it's like to be trans in rural Australia...

    • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
      @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa Před 3 lety

      What the FUCK?? That's just wrong! Goddamn. For once, I'm glad the US is the way it is. The waits for everything, medical to psychological, are a lot shorter. The only thing is either they're expensive af or the insurance to pay for them is expensive af. My breast reduction was around $8,000 USD (~$10,113 AUD), insurance paid none of it since even though I was in an immense amount of pain, I had to go through SO MANY hoops just to get them to pay for A PART OF IT. And at that point I just wanted the pain to STOP, regardless of the cost. Ugh. Sorry, I'm venting again. I'm sorry to hear Australia is that way. I wish there was a way I could being you over here to the US temporarily so you could get everything you need/want to transition. Despite what transmeds usually say, you are trans enough despite not being able to transition atm, and you deserve to be gendered correctly, even if you don't 'pass' (fuck the thought that all trans ppl gotta pass, do what makes you happy! If that's blending in, do it! If that's standing out, do it!). Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You're worth it.

  • @honokylesunwukung4969
    @honokylesunwukung4969 Před 4 lety +217

    I love this man, he sites all his sources and is so logical, just over all he's amazing

    • @cockroachteeth
      @cockroachteeth Před 4 lety +2

      @Cam Morrison bruh, you got some serious brain rot

    • @cockroachteeth
      @cockroachteeth Před 4 lety +7

      @Cam Morrison sure dude, you can believe that if it makes you feel better

    • @wcollier8313
      @wcollier8313 Před 3 lety +3

      Lol logic lol

  • @Ohmygodifyoudontgivemethat
    @Ohmygodifyoudontgivemethat Před 4 lety +42

    Them: Trans men are just confused lesbians
    Me, a gay trans man: *HUH*

    • @phantomliege
      @phantomliege Před 3 lety

      As a pan, trans man, i am also *very* confused

  • @Ratsmacker-qr8ex
    @Ratsmacker-qr8ex Před 2 lety +6

    i just dont get why sexual orientation and geneder are lumped together .

    • @Ratsmacker-qr8ex
      @Ratsmacker-qr8ex Před rokem

      @@xinim-san8011 Thanks for helping me understand why this really helped me

    • @lieutenantcandlewax
      @lieutenantcandlewax Před rokem +1

      @@xinim-san8011 so are albinos. Should they be in the lgbt+ community?

    • @jadapinkett1656
      @jadapinkett1656 Před rokem +1

      @@xinim-san8011 Sure, jan.

  • @tripwire202
    @tripwire202 Před 3 lety +30

    My own trans agenda is sitting oddly on chairs, procrastinating, buying into rainbow capitalism (everyone knows you need fifty rainbow duffle-bags to be a True Gay™), equality, and imbibing tons of coffee. Run for the hills!

  • @sirnutmeg3901
    @sirnutmeg3901 Před 4 lety +97

    straight cis people can be oblivious and close-minded, but these LGB people know who trans people are and what they’re going through, and the fact that they’re still being transphobic just disgusts me.

    • @jadeguevarez15
      @jadeguevarez15 Před 4 lety +7

      It kinda just shows that they are privileged now....they basically have there rights....trans people still get murdered like crazy and are seen as insane and worse then being simply gay....

    • @sirnutmeg3901
      @sirnutmeg3901 Před 4 lety +9

      SkinNYmini yes exactly like yes it’s harder to be gay etc. instead of straight, but it’s so much harder to be trans or something other than your assigned birth gender. we get more hate than them and they don’t care

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +10

      And the fact that LGBTIQA+ can be so toxic, supremacist, racist, xenophobic, colorist, eurocentric and hipocrite disgust me.
      But hey, the world must do what transgenderism supporters want the world to do, right?
      We are slaves. Why do we need human rights?
      We can't think.
      We can't decide.
      We can't do.
      We must do what the leader tells.
      The leader is good.
      The leader is love.
      We love the leader.
      We don't need anything else.
      Right? right? Riiiight?

    • @sirnutmeg3901
      @sirnutmeg3901 Před 4 lety

      DuskSunDawn the leader is a bitch bro

    • @gemmacook1753
      @gemmacook1753 Před 4 lety +5

      @@sirnutmeg3901 everyone knows trans people can go through a really hard time but the problem is there are too many people all shouting problems out and it's become too noisy. I don't understand why this group has to be for trans too. If a straight man started complaining about not being apart of it he would be shut down immediately. Everyone knows that trans people are struggling but that shouldn't mean that every single queer group must include trans people.. I've seen groups that are dedicated to only non binary people.. again straight people are ostracized but that's fine.. so why cant there be specific factions within the LGBT+ community? The word trans has been diluted so much it's losing its meaning. Now, trans can be almost everything and is extremely confusing and there are gatekeepers who go off constantly causing everything and everyone of being transphobic or a bigot and it's no wonder some people are splitting off into Their own group, they are being dragged into this conflict when all they want to do is provide support and guidance to each other but at the moment there is just people tearing each other down and fighting about who is the most repressed or who has had the harder time.

  • @CarlTippins
    @CarlTippins Před 4 lety +24

    Sounds to me like the same LGBTQ internal prejudices we've had for years on steroids. I'm 58 years old and came out when in 1975, when I was 14. Back then, you'd see Lesbians, Bi, and Trans people in "Gay" bars and clubs. (I put Gay in quotes because they were just bars that had a majority of gay men as the clientele , but they weren't exclusive.) Somewhere around the mid to late 1980's Lesbians and Trans people started being not welcome to bars, and some clubs. And Bisexuals were pushed into non-existence. Seems like it's the next "phase" of the internal prejudices that is way to prevalent in the LGBTQ community....first is was Lesbians, then Bisexuals (who are constantly being referred to as "straight" if they're with a person of the opposite sex, and "gay" if they're with the same sex. There is no "Bi" in their frame of reference), and now it's Trans people. Why don't they just drop the L & B from LGBTQ, because that's what will happen if this crap continues. It saddens me deeply that it's gone this far. If we can't fight for each other, what good are we?

    • @chaossmith3864
      @chaossmith3864 Před 4 lety +5

      The problem when a group gets so big I think is that too many loud voices start shouting to look out for themselves. Not each other.
      It's the loudest that always get noticed, and the more people the more chance of more selfish people.
      Fandoms are like this too. Haven't seen a large group that hasn't turned to shit yet.

    • @melitajay
      @melitajay Před 4 lety +3

      @@chaossmith3864 basically this. In-group fighting is inevitable.

    • @science_bear
      @science_bear Před rokem

      I have more of a problem with b and t because they actually shoot gay spaces. Lesbians and ace/aro people don’t do that.

    • @teresalandreth9516
      @teresalandreth9516 Před rokem +1

      I beg to differ, I am a trans woman and I am Bisexual thank you very much.

    • @teresalandreth9516
      @teresalandreth9516 Před rokem

      @@melitajay having disagreements is fine, but not this kind of malarky.

  • @raversfantasy
    @raversfantasy Před 3 lety +20

    i don’t think the t belongs in lgbt BUT it’s simply because trans and being gay or bi isn’t even remotely similar. it would be nice to have a trans only “group”..a place for themselves instead of being bunched together with us where it doesn’t match.

  • @They_not_like_me
    @They_not_like_me Před rokem +9

    What does t have to do with lgb 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @SeymourDisapproves
    @SeymourDisapproves Před 4 lety +14

    LGB Alliance: "We support the community, we just don't care about trans people :)"
    Gay and bisexual trans people: ,':/

  • @jemimariley-peters4876
    @jemimariley-peters4876 Před 4 lety +11

    Thank you for always caring about relevant issues and giving at least a few people a voice I appreciate it x

  • @Whatever-pod-support
    @Whatever-pod-support Před rokem +5

    Marsha and Silvia never identified as transgender also Silvia did not like labels. Silvia did not like the word transgender.

    • @dontspikemydrink9382
      @dontspikemydrink9382 Před 11 měsíci +1

      yes, they did :)

    • @littlefoxx333
      @littlefoxx333 Před 5 měsíci

      ​​@@dontspikemydrink9382no Marsha did not and I know that cause there IS a video explaining he's a boy in a dress, a TRANSVESTITE which just means to wear clothes associated with a different gender. So now we are calling gender non conforming gay people trans ? You're speaking FOR THE DEAD?

  • @lilymm35
    @lilymm35 Před 4 lety +6

    I think the lgb people are too extreme. And I’m very supportive of trans rights in general. However I did recently see an interview with a psychologist from the Tavistock who is whistle blowing against them because she thinks they are rushing children into hormone therapy, partly because of increased pressures on caseload. This does concern me because i am worried that we will see an increase in adults wanting to detransition having already had irreversible changes to their bodies such as infertility. I am a clinician (not working in gender) and the way we look at interventions is through risk assessment: what is the risk of intervening? What is the risk of not intervening? I wonder whether risk assessment of irreversible interventions for young trans people should be reviewed.

    • @fafnyrslair
      @fafnyrslair Před 4 lety +1

      I think it is too soon to say how many people from the recent increase will have regrets or detransition. It may only be a small precentage now but we know that more than half of young children with disphoria will grow out of it. We definately need more studies. I personally know 3 people who have transistioned and hate themselves but are not willing to detransition because they think people will hate them and they know the physical surgies cannot be undone. They are counted as a success since they didn't detransition, so we don't know the full figures. Clearly, many trans people know exactly who they are and what they need but some people could benefit from more counseling and yes, risk assesment, before fully transitoning.
      I agree with Jammie though. He definately doesn't belong in the women's bathroom

  • @rainyrainold
    @rainyrainold Před 4 lety +9

    I just want to say thank you. I'm cis and straight and you have really helped me understand the issues that my brothers and sisters and siblings are going through. I support all humans having equal rights. Things that hurt no one should not be hurt themselves. I love you and your girlfriend, and am proud to stand shoulder to shoulder for any fight for human rights. Any fight against human rights and equality is on the wrong side of history.

    • @Jammidodger
      @Jammidodger  Před 4 lety +3

      This is so sweet, thank you 💛

    • @michelemcdaniel6032
      @michelemcdaniel6032 Před 4 lety

      I dont care what anyone does as long ss they do it with a consenting adult

  • @_antictrl8223
    @_antictrl8223 Před 4 lety +109

    We love you watching ‘trans hate’ and reacting to it and seeing how stupid transphobia is
    Carry on we love it ❤️❤️

    • @Showbizboy
      @Showbizboy Před 4 lety +4

      Alan Dominiak sadly the word transphobia is such a broad brush it’s virtually meaningless!

    • @missylks1239
      @missylks1239 Před 4 lety +3

      I love seeing your lack of proof and simply calling people “transphobic”.

    • @atlantic_love
      @atlantic_love Před 2 lety +1

      @@Showbizboy Oh, it's not broad. At all. It's very clear what the word means. There's no better word to describe you.

    • @Showbizboy
      @Showbizboy Před 2 lety +1

      @@atlantic_love …and there’s no better meaningless word to sling around. Keep on slinging!

    • @atlantic_love
      @atlantic_love Před 2 lety

      @@Showbizboy Why are you transphobic?

  • @vOtEbIdEnTosAvEdEmOcRaCy
    @vOtEbIdEnTosAvEdEmOcRaCy Před 3 lety +8

    As a recently out gay man, transmen are some of the most attractive men I've ever come across! Keep being you and I'll keep fighting for your seat at the table! ❤

  • @Pfoffie
    @Pfoffie Před 4 lety +7

    The current climate in our «community» really makes me sick. I used to be so happy that we are these LGBTAIQ+People who stand together even if our struggles, issues and goals are so different.
    And now everything is falling apart :(

    • @michelemcdaniel6032
      @michelemcdaniel6032 Před 4 lety

      When was that I had to buy votes in st loui to get t included 20 years ago luckily I had money and AB PRODUCTS WERE FAIRLY INEXPENSIVE

    • @michelemcdaniel6032
      @michelemcdaniel6032 Před 4 lety

      Never was a community. L&G ddnt T and felt that B didnt exist

  • @fdsjdhebjcs6726
    @fdsjdhebjcs6726 Před 4 lety +41

    LGB? Ok. But pls add the tea 🍵

  • @katherinestar1831
    @katherinestar1831 Před 4 lety +40

    Side note: thank you for mentioning Sylvia Rivera and Marsha P Johnson. As a young (member of the LGBTQ+ community and) ally of the trans community, I don't always know the full history of the struggle for rights. It's cool when people like you talk about it, so I can find out more (by looking online)

    • @shaunpatrick8345
      @shaunpatrick8345 Před 4 lety

      Older members know the T was never part of it. Look at the names of organisations from the 80s and 90s. Read some old newspaper articles. A movement for sexuality is being taken over by an incompatible ideological movement whose main weapon is intolerance.

  • @xoNatalieShaw
    @xoNatalieShaw Před rokem +8

    Are you actually telling people that it is ok for transwomen to take part in womens sports…

    • @WokeandProud
      @WokeandProud Před rokem +2

      Yes.

    • @xoNatalieShaw
      @xoNatalieShaw Před rokem +3

      @@WokeandProud youre not very smart are you? Sports are separated based on sex (biological differences), NOT ‘gender’. Smol brain

    • @philipchesleyiii
      @philipchesleyiii Před rokem +2

      For someone who's part of Western academia, he's abnormally intellectually dishonest. So yes he would probably say that.
      But no they shouldn't. Joe Rogan touched on a perfect example of why they shouldn't. A Trans Woman has no business fighting full contact with women.

  • @Paramart
    @Paramart Před rokem +67

    LGB is who you want to be with, while T is who you want to be. My fear is that the current TQ+ movement is gonna drag the LGB people back to the stone age.

    • @LanaDelReysBabe
      @LanaDelReysBabe Před rokem +1

      they already have. Thanks to their bullshit especially the Q, people hate us again these past 2 years.

    • @sajjadkhan7255
      @sajjadkhan7255 Před rokem +21

      Thats why every lgb need to cut the TQMABCDHDHDH

    • @dontspikemydrink9382
      @dontspikemydrink9382 Před rokem

      @@sajjadkhan7255 no, they will stand with their queer siblings

    • @dinuffin
      @dinuffin Před rokem

      You're allready in the stone age.

    • @teresalandreth9516
      @teresalandreth9516 Před rokem +1

      you do realize that the biggest step forward for LGBTQ+ rights was the stonewall riots, started by the T not L or the G right? while a lot of the T were, and are, part of the LGB groups also, not all are. if the T had not been there you could still be fighting to NOT be considered a mental disorder, with mandatory chemical castration, or even sterilization.

  • @justdamienhere1325
    @justdamienhere1325 Před 4 lety +45

    Imagine kicking a part of the community out that has been apart since the beginning.

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn Před 4 lety +6

      Imagine having congress where doctors, psychologists and social workers attend to discuss about poverty.
      Some social workers and psychologists think the issue is too diverse to be treated on a single congress, that they should create a congress where psychologists and social workers attend. They still have the intention of going to the older congress.
      They created the congress.
      Doctors complain about it because "Imagine kicking a part of the community out that has been apart since the beginning."
      That's you and the rest of LGBTQIA+ community who think that diversity is bad.

    • @translucentbear
      @translucentbear Před 4 lety +4

      @@DuskSunDawn
      Social workers would be very useful in a conversation about poverty, and the effects of poverty are important for doctors and psychologists. Your analogy is nonsense, as is your point.

    • @jjju3
      @jjju3 Před 4 lety +2

      Imagine kicking a part of the community that helped _build_ it.

    • @translucentbear
      @translucentbear Před 4 lety +1

      @@KHDecoder
      That's exactly the arguments that were used against gay men, years ago.

    • @ReplyGuy22345
      @ReplyGuy22345 Před 4 lety +3

      They aren't kicking trans people out, it's that LGB folks are tired of having trans people speak over them and call them "TERFs" for not wanting biological males in women's spaces

  • @evawilson913
    @evawilson913 Před 4 lety +30

    This whole "LGB" rights is bs (also, my computer says that LGB is misspelled...). But, I think you handled this wonderfully. Even though I've run my schools GSA for four years and have educated those students, I didn't know about half the things you mentioned.

    • @travelsandbooks
      @travelsandbooks Před 4 lety

      I hope you teach them about Marsha P Johnson 🧡

  • @jumpingspider6659
    @jumpingspider6659 Před 2 lety +6

    For myself I am now moving towards being a part of the LGB community as the direction of the LGB............... so called community feels totally alien and out of control to me. I did find this video interesting and would love to be able to have a sit down conversation with someone holding your positions as I think there is a lot to learn on both sides. For me some of the things you said made me think but it is hard for me to take in information presented in machine gun fashion. Sad to say that whatever is happening in our alternative community I think is taking any progress made in an unhealthy and unsustainable direction and we will all be not happy with were we find ourselves in the future.

  • @shark1751
    @shark1751 Před 3 lety +11

    Being gay does not give you a right to discriminate.

  • @Graveyard_Ghoulfriend666
    @Graveyard_Ghoulfriend666 Před 4 lety +22

    I think it's messed up that people can be homophobic and transphobic even when that person is apart of the community.

    • @ReplyGuy22345
      @ReplyGuy22345 Před 4 lety +3

      there is nothing homophobic about this group. What is homophobic is telling lesbians they are "TERFs" for not wanting to be with biological males

    • @kaylol934
      @kaylol934 Před 4 lety +1

      Michael Merritt shut up

  • @anomienormie8126
    @anomienormie8126 Před 4 lety +58

    The research is solid, he’s a professional, the delivery is gentle and objective. I love Jamie.

    • @graciep.6984
      @graciep.6984 Před 4 lety +4

      True. There’s just something about him that goes straight to the heart.

  • @blingblingdymondbby8633
    @blingblingdymondbby8633 Před 10 měsíci +4

    As a Transwoman myself i don't think intersex or trans belongs with lgb or A or enby indentities....

  • @CustardoTart
    @CustardoTart Před 4 lety +196

    If you’re trans, aromantic, asexual, ya’ll belong to this community. Mad respect my dudes and dudettes ✊
    Edit: So uh I’m trans now 🌝

    • @somerandomperson6851
      @somerandomperson6851 Před 3 lety +26

      As a closeted asexual, trans boy that's really nice to hear. Thanks.

    • @quariryraisin
      @quariryraisin Před 3 lety +14

      as a non-binary, asexual and aromantic person this makes me happy.

    • @maddysolis1646
      @maddysolis1646 Před 3 lety +12

      I'm cis, but I'm an aro/ace, so I thank you a lot for the support.

    • @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa
      @duetopersonalreasonsaaaaaa Před 3 lety +4

      I'm an aroace, transmasc NB. I must be everything exclus hate.

    • @ajlee3668
      @ajlee3668 Před 3 lety +4

      I’m a transman and asexual and seeing this bumped up my self esteem

  • @the1ladytammy
    @the1ladytammy Před 4 lety +10

    Sad, we all are just human, trying to get through life.

  • @hescrem9316
    @hescrem9316 Před 4 lety +20

    My brother is a gay guy, so I thought it was ok to come out to him as trans. He then told me I needed to take a DNA test “just to be sure”(probably confusing trans and intersex), saying that pan, ace, and bi aren’t actual LGBT and are just wanting to get attention, and telling stories about how “an entire club of butch lesbians suddenly decided they where trans overnight” and bs like that. It was shocking because I expected him to be supportive, he knows what its like to be discriminated against and hated.

    • @sydvvt
      @sydvvt Před rokem +4

      Good gracious...

    • @teresalandreth9516
      @teresalandreth9516 Před 11 měsíci +1

      Sorry you had that experience. Sadly a lot of the LG have those beliefs I just hope its a vocal minority

    • @tarathoughts13
      @tarathoughts13 Před 8 měsíci

      I mean yes there are certain butch lesbians that might be getting told that they are trans, but no one can become trans, you either are or you’re not. And yes there are certain ‘trans activists’ that do push these ideologies and they suck yea - but there are gender clinics and counsellors for that reason - and if you want to change anything, imo, make the therapy part of transitioning longer and more intense and MANDATORY - and have quicker access to it.

  • @TimwiTerby
    @TimwiTerby Před 3 lety

    This video was extremely informative and enlightening! I want to hear more of this kind of essay-style exposé on topics that are dear to you. In particular, since you often flash citations of scientific studies, it would be cool to have some summaries of what those studies actually say and what their methodologies were.

  • @hugomarquez3189
    @hugomarquez3189 Před rokem +4

    That group deeply misunderstands why it is that mainstream society has had a problem with us, it always boils down to gender…gay people were oppressed, and are oppressed in many parts of the world, because they violate gender norms. It ain’t about the sex, because straight people have had gay sex for millennia (raping prisoners, raping conquered populations, receiving oral sex, etc), and never had an issue so long as they continued expressing their gender in ways that were deemed appropriate. The problem has always been feminine men, masculine women, and that puts us in the same space as transgender people, who are to mainstream society the ultimate violation of gender norms. We are absolutely part of the same umbrella, we are family, and as one goes so go the others. If they end up banning transgender people, drag queens, etc, they’re next coming for the rest of us.

  • @lucienjohnbajada4110
    @lucienjohnbajada4110 Před rokem +14

    The LGB has nothing in common with the T , trans is about conforming to
    Stereotypes , LGB is about being who you were born , not changing it

  • @missrobinson1212
    @missrobinson1212 Před 4 lety +32

    I've been stalking ur channel for the past few hours and now I'm sad with you

    • @Tiggzg
      @Tiggzg Před 4 lety +6

      Major Robinson why? He only spoke the truth, this is the 21st century and we should not be cutting out brothers and sisters . We are still fighting homophobia it depresses me that this shit is going on. Putthe T back in LGB. I’m gay and love my trans brothers and sisters. I am just so proud of you Jamie this was a well informed video. Love you man 🌈❤️🇨🇦🌈

    • @missrobinson1212
      @missrobinson1212 Před 4 lety +9

      @@Tiggzg Well I was just sad because I feel like Jamie should have be noticed a lot more on his platform! Anyways power to you my fellow LGBT+ Member😊

    • @missrobinson1212
      @missrobinson1212 Před 4 lety +5

      @@Tiggzg and you r right he did speak the truth❤🧡💚💙💜

    • @Tiggzg
      @Tiggzg Před 4 lety +4

      Sorry I miss understood your comment ☺️

  • @jeagerbomb8142
    @jeagerbomb8142 Před 4 lety +54

    'poop tornado'
    Funniest part of the whole video

    • @raiokaii
      @raiokaii Před 4 lety +1

      Lissa Silva i read your comment exactly as he said it 🤣

    • @jeagerbomb8142
      @jeagerbomb8142 Před 4 lety +1

      @@raiokaii love when that happens 😂

  • @Liggliluff
    @Liggliluff Před 3 lety +9

    Instead of splitting sports into men and women, how about splitting them into the reasons why they're separate. Boxing has weight classes, for example. There's other ways to split up people into groups for sports. Don't do it based on gender.

    • @journeywaitz5826
      @journeywaitz5826 Před 3 lety

      there you go. easy as pie. i'm in a specific weight class, yet i can't go play baseball because my DAD thinks that baseball is ONLY for boys, and softball is ONLY for girls. like, why? lighter people play in a different weight class. nothing wrong with that.

    • @bird4816
      @bird4816 Před 2 lety +1

      Because it's not as simple as weight. There's hormones, bone density, muscle mass.

    • @TheChilllerrrrrr
      @TheChilllerrrrrr Před rokem

      @@bird4816 so by race then? as the bone density of black cis women are infact overall denser than white men's, this was actually was used against black women participating against white women in the 1900s.
      also I know it wasn't about trans women specifically trans women have been in sports, losing in sports for decades, a myth thrown around about Ledecky was that she was a terrible swimmer before she transitioned but the scores --wherein she was compared to her Male colleagues-- were used after she started she was an amazing swimmer.
      not a bad man infiltrator.
      this also doesn't account for sports where physical abilities aren't as important like skateboarding, or in marathons where women's chances are higher than mens the longer it actually is.

  • @MaelZack
    @MaelZack Před 2 lety +4

    The issue is with people who demands others to do something which… is why trans tolerance getting less and less

    • @abyssblood5520
      @abyssblood5520 Před rokem

      That is the core problem. LGB wanted what they were deprived from. T wants more than what the Straights have, if you know what I mean.

  • @LittleDoobyBoy
    @LittleDoobyBoy Před 4 lety +7

    don't apologize for tackling real issues! i prefer these types of videos honestly.
    also, love the hair dude looks fantastic

  • @antonyslack1
    @antonyslack1 Před 4 lety +13

    So I'm gay and have found trans men attractive and dated a couple of them. According to the LGB Alliance am I straight or.... I dunno.
    All I see is ohhh there's a pretty guy I wanna talk to him.

    • @ReplyGuy22345
      @ReplyGuy22345 Před 4 lety

      Yes. Gay men are males who date males.

    • @mbloom2275
      @mbloom2275 Před 3 lety

      Well you sound like a homoGENDERal. HomoSEXual men only date the same sex.

    • @xaverlustig3581
      @xaverlustig3581 Před 5 měsíci

      At least you have no issues with dating someone who has or had a vagina, and who lived part of their life as a girl and will therefore have girly experiences and attitudes to some extent. That's different from garden variety gay men, who would not.

  • @galepaquet8690
    @galepaquet8690 Před 4 lety

    I think this is my favorite video of yours, it’s so refreshing to hear such a well thought out intelligent response to something so hurtful❤️

  • @Rubberbandman0529
    @Rubberbandman0529 Před 10 měsíci +8

    A lot of messed up, confusing stuff here. Just keep it all to yourself

  • @jonmcintosh8653
    @jonmcintosh8653 Před 2 lety +15

    I'm speaking as a gay man here. I feel zero community with you as a trans person. I have a sexuality. You have a gender thing. So I support LGB existing. I feel that trans people have latched onto gay people and it's negatively affected gay people overall.

    • @KC-dw6yz
      @KC-dw6yz Před 2 lety +5

      Did you watch the video? He makes it very explicit that for LGB to exist is not inherently transphobic, it's this specific 'LGB Alliance' that is transphobic, due to them posting on their own website the arguments he then deconstructs in the video (and not simply because they represent only LGB interests). I agree that the T in LGBT is a little different from the other three because the first three are about sexuality and the last one is about gender. I totally disagree that this by itself means that we should kick them out. Why should it? Have we forgotten our own history as a societal minority that thoroughly?
      It's not that trans people have latched onto gay people. Does Marsha P. Johnson at Stonewall not ring a bell? It's that they've been with us from the very beginning. I'm sorry mate, but I feel like you need to study more about this.

    • @jonmcintosh8653
      @jonmcintosh8653 Před 2 lety +3

      @@KC-dw6yz you have every right to your opinion and I disagree with it wholeheartedly. Trans activists have damaged gay people in the last few years, so I'm fully supportive of dropping the T and it just being LGB. T, Q and all the others should go their own way. History is irrelevant when the trans/non-binary community are turning people's attitudes towards gay people back due to the way they force their views on others. I want no part of it.

    • @dontspikemydrink9382
      @dontspikemydrink9382 Před 2 lety +2

      @@jonmcintosh8653 no, no they have not

    • @iu_7222
      @iu_7222 Před 2 lety +2

      @@jonmcintosh8653 you just old bro

    • @purpleblack475
      @purpleblack475 Před rokem

      @@dontspikemydrink9382 Yes they have

  • @littlekingbaku5092
    @littlekingbaku5092 Před 4 lety +33

    It feels like some people forgot about asexual and romantic people

  • @tishi602
    @tishi602 Před 4 lety +2

    I love how respectful he is when it comes to topics like these. He brings the facts and he seeks to educate. Not argue or bash or bring anyone down. Keep it up!!

  • @kirarimomobami5215
    @kirarimomobami5215 Před 3 lety +4

    This youtuber is speaking on his own experiences but you haven't met some toxic trans who have called people transphobic for not dating them or try to exclude them from different stuff
    We support trans but they are taking things too far