Hey Spuds! Hope you’re not too fed up with this by now. I don’t think theres any point in chucking a barrage of hate over this tbh, there’s obviously something going on (trans or not - it’s not up to us to say), and even if there isn’t, it’s a waste of time to just shout without being constructive. What did need to happen though is calling out damaging wording and misinformation. Hope you liked the video xx
I'm just wondering if maybe she's confused between being trans and gender fluid? Edit: Also, I think that this might be an attention thing because it seems like she did very little research. I think if you're really trans, you'd do a whole lot of research before coming out to family/friends/the public. 🤷♀️
Jammidodger It's complete bullshit. Don't fall for it, she is genuinely confused. She is struggling with her identity as a Bisexual woman most likely. These could be reall feelings, I mean, no wonder, her naked ass is on camera frequently, has gotten so many womanly enhancement surgeries. This is why the LGBT movement is harmful to society, it's completely flipped it's agenda from quiet acceptance, to complete demands to use outlandish pronouns for identities that do not biologically exist, or will EVER exist. You cannot be both, or neither gender--it's just impossible. After seeing this video being reacted to for the 5th time today, I am certain she is not trolling, she actually believes this shit because she's hit the point in her life where her hormones are affecting her body a lot more in her growing age. I've also seen a trend of middle-aged women who are going through menopause, identifying as trans. She is possibly experiencing extreme body dysmorphia or disassociation due to the issues from being constantly heavily specialized because of her content. She needs help Jamie, she should not be taken seriously.
"I like gay men because they're masculine, give off masculine energy, but are also sensitive" My boyfriend is bi and he cries when I tell him I can't wait to marry him. Like... Dudes can be sensitive regardless of sexuality.
if you are twenty rabbits in a trench coat then *give me a damn hug i need the floofy embrace right now-* if your not still give me a hug i need a virtual one right now
I am a girl. I have a ‘boy’ haircut, I have male friends, I don’t wear make up, I never wear dresses or skirts, I am a complete tomboy. But that does not make me trans. You don’t need to be really feminine to be a woman
Same with me, I felt more comfortable with myself after I cut my hair and I loved it when I acted mor masculine but I hate being called a boy or a sir because I am still a girl.
Watch the frenemies podcast with Dr. drew. It is interesting how Trisha tries to convey this topic. Trisha does identify as non Binary now, Also made an apology and donated to trans charity.
If you see how she fetishizes and yet speaks over Jews and attacks them and antisemitic It may be classic Trisha fetishizing and being discriminatory and staying at very least purposefully ignorant
same then, actually I'm currently sitting on the couch after brushing my hair once and putting it in a ponytail because i don't want to deal with it. (I'd cut it short but for whatever reason my mum won't let me) Update: my mum let me cut my hair
The "not being able to satisfy a gay partner" part pissed me off so much, I'm a gay trans man in a relationship with a gay cis man and the implication that our relationship is less legitimate or satisfying is honestly kind of offensive.
Honestly that's one of my biggest fears as someone who's attracted to men and is transmasc... I feel like a cis gay man would never be happy with me because I don't have what he wants. It's nice to hear that that's not the reality and im glad you and your partner are happy together 💜
@@JJ-jw9ec There's always gonna be men who will love and appreciate you for who you are no matter what, whether they be cis or trans. Keep fighting on, brother.
im a very young gay trans boy and hearing her say that being trans and never being able to satisfy a partner in the future honestly just made me lose all my self confidence. i already struggle with depression and anxiety and seeing that honestly just made me so offended and depressed.
Hey Jammie, first I want to say that I like your videos. I'm a 65 yo straight woman from the U.S. I can understand the information that you give. I have wondered for a while now how trans people felt. I'm sorry that society is so hard on you. You and Shabba looks so happy together. Congratulations on getting your PhD. I enjoy your videos because they are informative. I hope I can react the proper way if I were to ever meet a trans man or woman. I think you a courageous for putting yourself out there. I think Trisha is a very confused human being. After watching this video I'm not sure what to call her/him. She definitely needs to do research before she goes on about things, she was very confusing. Hope I didn't rant and hope you understand what I am saying. I really do enjoy your videos. More people need to understand before they make any judgements. I hope you answer me. The best of luck to you and Shabba. Marjorie.
i can say definitively that what trisha identifies as is an attention whore. she always pulls some stunt like this when it's been too many weeks/months without her name trending on twitter.
Not transgender, but nonbinary. And not using they/them pronouns is a personal choice. Although when she mentioned they/them being used by plural people I assume she meant people like me who have dissociative identity disorder or multiple personality disorder, because that's the only "plural" I can think of.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.
i also hate when people use the word “choose” like that when referring to the LGBTQ+ community. it’s a really uncomfortable word since sexuality and gender aren’t choices :/
I'm cis straight but when people use that term "choose" like that I ask if they chose to be straight. Often they are confused so I explain it like this. Suppose you lived in a society where it was most normal to be gay and only 10% of the population was straight. Could you just choose to be gay to fit in with the majority of the population. Some refuse to engage but I often get at least uncomfortable squirms.
Fun fact: "They" has been used as a singular pronoun for a person of unknown/unstated gender dating all the way back to middle English, which includes all of modern English :))
I dont like how trisha said they/them pronouns were "confusing " Like nonbinary people are constantly told theyre asking for too much when they just want decent respect.
Someone: “They/them is plural, idiot!” Enby: “Well, when you’re on the phone with a telemarketer, and can’t tell THEIR gender by THEIR voice, what do you call THEM?” Someone: “ .__. ......”
like, i dont think its confusing. its their pronouns. its like if i told you that i dont want to be called Anna, i want to be called Anna Jane, because that is the name that I was given at birth, and you said "well thats too confusing". like, its my name. whats so difficult to understand about that.
Hehe, bigender gang 💗💛🤍💜💙 💙💙💜🤍💜💗💗 💙💙🤍💜🤍💗💗 Sorry, couldn't help myself, we don't get mentioned much, and yes, there are a bunch of different hearts because us bigender peeps can't decide on a flag. For those who don't know, the second set of hearts is considered the official flag, while the first is newly made and less controversial, and the third is a slightly altered version of the official flag to be less controversial but still carries the original colours... So there we go, all three sets are my flag. Sorry for the lesson 😂
I think she's nonbinary, but hasn't done any of the necessary research to not sound like an uneducated troll. I'm nonbinary and I can choose how I present, but I can't choose how I feel inside. It would be hella convenient to not have to wake up with dysphoria...
Trish: They/them is plural Trish, a few minutes later: I wouldn't be able to satisfy them She literally used a singular them in the same video where she said it's plural
@@letterborneVods I picked up plural as meaning DID too. If she WERE to have it then it's not transgender or nonbinary it's your alters identifying as themselves. That said, a male alter in a female body (and vice versa) can have dysphoria about the body. It's the main reason my two male alters, that I know of, don't come out unless absolutely necessary. They usually step back and let female alters handle what needs to be done.
“Straight guys turn me off. I never liked that over masculine energy” Ahem Not 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 guys 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 feminine 👏🏻 please 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 stereotyping 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 men 👏🏻
Me around my close friends who I am out to: do I identity with non binary 1000% Me around my other friends and family: do I identify with my natural born gender 1000%
“I’m not like other boys, therefore I’m a trans girl.” True, but correlation isn’t causation. Idk what led Trisha to say what they said, but for me, while I never fit in in an all guys schooling set-up, as soon as girls were added in, I found it 1000x easier to relate to them, despite being neurodivergent, and therefore most likely to struggle with relating to anyone. I always had a deep-seated envy of the girls I was friends with, I wished I could be one of them rather than the token guy among them, because I felt like inside that’d feel better for me.
is it bad that i want an uncut version of him going off on her? probably? oops. in all seriousness though, i think she needs to be educated on what gender actually is. it’s not a choosing thing. this ain’t the supermarket, that’s down the street. gender is what you are, it’s a know. as said in the video, even gender fluid people don’t choose, they just know. i’m honestly wondering how this is gonna turn out in the end.
My mother is a radical feminist and I’m a FTM,,, this is how i think she sees how I feel. She is a scary woman and I don’t know how to argue with her other than just give up on what I’m gonna say and agree with her. My mind always goes blank when I try to explain to her “why I feel this way”
I just find it sus that *specifically* she says she is attracted to gay men. Like, hunny, that's an attraction to a sexuality- aka it's a fetishism, as opposed to saying you're attracted to men, which is a gender- so an orientation.
As a woman, I noticed that I felt attracted to gay guys at a certain point in life. I realized that's because I was raped by my first boyfriend and gay guys aren't interested sexually in me, thus they feel very safe. I like feeling safe ☺️. Still the best feeling ever 😊.
Realistically there are certain types of people that are overwhelmingly more likely to be gay/lesbian/etc. If you like only butch women, you're going to mostly like lesbians. If you like lispy effeminate flamboyant bottoms, realistically that's mostly gay men, even if it's bc society quashes those traits in others. Don't front like there's no different between the populations, and like the chemistry isn't different when someone's perceiving you as their own sex vs another sex. She says "attracted to", but it could be bc she vibes with them bc there's lowkey that energy there, you know?
@@Tijggie82 when I still identified as female as a teenager & thought I was ace, instead of, say, wanting a relationship with another ace person, I wanted a relationship with a gay man who could get his sexual needs met outside our relationship. The thought of being touched sexually absolutely repulsed me. Maybe it was because I didn't know any ace men to know it was an option. But I find that "he's not attracted to me and thus won't touch me but I still get emotional validation from the relationship" thing extremely relatable.
I’m a cis woman who is bi, but when I was questioning my gender identity and sexuality, I have had similar thoughts to Trisha, especially going through a phase where I was only attracted to gay men (very confusing for me). I know now that these thoughts don’t make me trans, but I understand where Trisha is coming from trying to sort it all out. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
You have made me a lot more open to trans people, just so you know you’re doing great work. I never thought being gay/lesbian/bi was odd because I new what it was from an early age, and at time myself have felt attraction towards other women. But i didn’t know what trans was until i was like 14, and so its taken longer for me to stop thinking of it as weird. I now see it as normal as cis, just a longer journey. Thanks :)
How does one identify as a black woman when they are not black 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ she probably said i feel black because i like " insert stereotypical things here"
she said she identified as everything. Like, all the labels. You cannot be a guy that likes guys and a woman that likes women at the same time. There is a contradicting thing.
Ofc they did 🙄 people who are so obsessed with mental health to the point they fake having these things and talk over those of us who actually have these things are so annoying. DID, OCD, tourettes, etc are not fun or quirky. They are disabling and cause a lot of distress. And the fakers are the biggest reason that non-fakers get told we're lying and have to jump through a ton of hoops to prove we aren't lying, only to still not be believed.
logic: *exists * This woman: "I am transgender 1000%!" logic: "okay, nice." Also this woman: "I identify as the gender I was born as." logic: * *has left the chat* *
@@teefsart yeah, it's just that people think that once you have short hair, it is impossible to be anything but a transgender or lesbian. While in reality, it is highly possible to be just a straight cis female, or anything else.
Ok, just like random thing since Trish said “Signs from childhood”, did anyone else the other day just realize how many signs they missed?? I used to dress up in my brother’s clothing and act like his friend so that I could feel like a guy. And not once did I consider, hey maybe your trans. Years later I’m realizing how obvious it was 🌻😩
It’s been said in other videos that she has fallen in love with her gay best friend, Cedric. She realizes he will never love her back romantically and so this has triggered this weird coming out identity crisis. She really needs to get off the internet and get some help.
@Whitney Gordon Yeah I agree, although on a side note, do think your parents would let you make a personal email account? You could give your personal account a gamertag-like username that doesn't give an actual name. This way you won't make your parents suspicious, and you won't have to worry as much about being misgendered online.
Whitney Gordon does your school not monitor your account, mine does that’s why I use a personal email. I just am concerned that they might try to get you in trouble.
9:54 as a genderfluid person, I can confirm it’s not a choice. I can choose to dress feminine or dress masculine or do “girly” or “manly” things, but my gender changes regardless of how I dress or act on that day. If it was my choice, I would always choose to be a girl on Sundays when I wear dresses, but it doesn’t work like that.
Yeah she's just really confused because she doesn't know what any of these things mean. It seems that she just never stopped being a middle schooler, which is where people generally find out their identity.
Sounds like shes wanting to say she feels more nonbinary than anything else 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ not only that but it's not hard to tell shes also trying to 'embrace' a more "black look" since the whole "I'm black" video 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
@@leavemealoneha8042 Cis=your gender identity matches the gender you were assigned at birth. Trans=Your gender identity does not match the gender you were assigned at birth. In short cis just means not trans. Your comment is not stupid, it's always good to learn. (As long as you're not sealioning people)
Hi! Genderfluid here! It does kinda sound like she's genderfluid, but it almost sounds like she WANTS to be genderfluid rather than actually identifies as it. Genderfluid is a really cool identity, and it's also kinda comforting if you want to experiment with things, such as different pronouns, a different name/names, or different ways to look/gender expression. However. Being genderfluid doesn't mean you wake up and decide what you feel like identiying as that day. I guess it's more like you have to analyze how you actually feel that day, and analyze what expression (clothes, pronouns, name) will make you feel the most comfortable that day (this can change throughout the day.) Genderfluid doesn't equal having a wide range of style... It's not the same as "I feel like wearing a dress today" or "I feel like having short hair today" or even "I feel like wearing sweatpants today cuz they're comfy." It's not like that, as I tried to explain above. This is why you can't just say "short hair is more convenient, therefore I feel like a boy everyday" because that's not how it works. You don't "decide" what gender you are that day because it's not a decision. Gender expression is different from gender identity. Also, don't stereotype that short hair equals boy. Girls with short hair aren't men. The video annoys me because when I try to explain to someone what genderfluid means to me, they think of videos like hers, because they sound similar. I didn't wake up today and chose to be a boy because of the convenience of the hair. No, I woke up, analyzed how I felt, discovered that I felt more like a boy than anything else, so I chose to express myself as male and use he/him pronouns for the time while I identify as male. Also, there's a difference between "today in particular, I *feel like* identiying as a boy because that's how I feel today" and "I *feel like* identifying as a boy because it's more convenient." The first "I feel like" is referencing how your brain is telling you you feel that day, and the second "I feel like" is making a choice. It's like how "I feel happy today" and "I feel like buying _____today" use the term "I feel" differently. So the way she says "I feel like" really makes it sound like genderfluid is a choice, and you choose how you identify every day, when that's not what it's really like. It makes it harder for people to learn, understand, and accept the community. And it makes us look crazy. So please stop. I think Trisha should really experiment with different things, and decide how she feels most comfortable. Maybe she is genderfluid... But the way she phrased it made it sound like she's choosing to be something similar to genderfluid rather than actually being it. Maybe she just wants to be a masculine girl in a relationship with a more stereotypically feminine guy (straight/bi/pan/etc man can all be feminine, and it's ok to have a type, as long as she's not fetishizing.) In conclusion, • Although it's true that being genderfluid means different things to everyone when it comes to their personal identity, and everyone feels differently/has different experiences as a genderfluid person, what she's describing is just... Not what genderfluid MEANS. • It sounds like she's choosing to be genderfluid. • That's not how genderfluid works. • She's making us look bad/making it look like we choose everything. • Wanting to look a certain way doesn't determine your identity, and I don't think she understands that. • It's ok to experiment and want a certain type of relationship, but it's not ok to stereotype and fetishize. Hope this helps ♥️
This was the most explaining text about gender fluid I've ever seen, now I understand it better and hope to never be disrespectful to gender fluid people!!thank you so much for sharing your experience!! (If the comment sounds like mocking or trolling, it's because English is not my first language, so I'm not that good at it yet. Please don't read it like that)
This is such an excellent comment! Wow I wish I could pull this out of my pocket whenever someone is spouting misinformation about gender identity. Thanks so much for such a positive and thorough explanation!
as a genderfluid person (im way more enby leaning and its more like... I'm basically agender but with occasional flashes of Stronger Gender Feelings TM), ayup! like man oh man i wish i could just wake up and be like 'ohoho this is gonna be the gender for today' instead of having to analyze it :/
I'm here because Trisha just disrespected DissociaDID and the whole DID community in her new video. So sad to see how much harm she's done to other communities as well. I hope she can find chill one day and stop spread misinformation for attention.
I came here from that video to. The fact that she is so uneducated makes me sad. Like if you are going to claim something at least understand what it is first.
Me too, although I've been here before. When it was just trans, I was just like, "I hate this, this is a lot of misinformation, it's dangerous, but okay. It's just one really underinformed person. It's fine." But now its DID too, and... ... I'm really concerned. Especially now the DissociaDID system got hurt in part because of this.
She sounds like she's just fed up with societal expectations on women's appearances and that she's attracted to feminine/androgynous men. She needs to see a good counselor to talk through her feelings.
Jesse Houston thats the thing! in the “apology” she said she was seeing a gender therapist for m o n t h s. idk how tf that therapist didnt shut her down immediately or teach her any terms and actual imformation
Sarah L well say youre going to therapy for being depressed. if youre not depressed the therapist is not going to encourage you to go on anti depressants and will or should tell you youre not depressed. same for a gender therapist. if youre not trans, they should encourage you to see a therapist for maybe split personality disorder or not to go on testosterone and would stop encouraging her to say shes trans when shes not
@@ruetistic you're fine ! enbies or more commonly known as non binary people are people that feel like they don't quite fit under the male or female label. it's an umbrella term that includes genderfluid , agender and demigender ( and more ! ) . you could look it up for more info. hope this helped ^^
Yay! Enby pals! Just want everyone to know that no matter what anyone says...you’re always valid! I also like the term thude sksks Imma use that in my day to day life now!
@@lances4801 they're the same and also different. Some of it is up to the person deciding what labels fit them but they have the same idea of not being in the typical male female thing.
I don’t think she really understand what “to identify” means, especially in terms of gender... she basically thinks that it’s a conclusion you reach intellectually, and not a feeling or sense you get that actually transcends intellect.
As I've always said, it's the people who are the most insistent about gender being inflexible, biological, and binary, who are the ones who need to be constantly reminded about what gender is by slapping blue or pink on anything and separating the world into cars and barbies
My friend has the most amazing hair. He grew it out and because its long and Blonde, he looks like Thor. It is really cool. Also if you were to live in a hot country short hair would be good.
Berger Queen excuse me she's a gay man,, and also a straight man, and a bi man, and a pan man, and an ace man, and also a straight woman, and a gay woman, and a bi woman, and a pan woman, and an ace woman, and evidently gender-fluid but probably also bigender and pangender and agender because come on she wants all the labels.
@@strawberryboy9045 the comments section is basically school for me bc im not super educated and i had no clue what intersex was. thanks for telling me.
@@tea_addict2453 hey, im always down to learn more about the different sexualities and genders, and anything else like that. i know the basics, but i hate offending people, it gives me literal anxiety, and learning more about this stuff makes me feel more confident that im not going to offend someone.
"So do I think I'm transgender, yes 1000%." "Do I identity with my natural born gender, 1000%" Sweetie, that's not how being trans works or how maths works.
I don't understand this though, if you identify as transgender you absoloutley have to identify as the gender you're transitioning too ? Is it possible at the time maybe she doesn't consider herself a male yet. I'm not here to defend her, she doesn't make a lot of sense, but i just want to hear your thinking, or anyone else's for that matter.
Hey Spuds! Hope you’re not too fed up with this by now. I don’t think theres any point in chucking a barrage of hate over this tbh, there’s obviously something going on (trans or not - it’s not up to us to say), and even if there isn’t, it’s a waste of time to just shout without being constructive. What did need to happen though is calling out damaging wording and misinformation.
Hope you liked the video xx
I'm just wondering if maybe she's confused between being trans and gender fluid?
Edit: Also, I think that this might be an attention thing because it seems like she did very little research. I think if you're really trans, you'd do a whole lot of research before coming out to family/friends/the public. 🤷♀️
I like to use sports headphones~ they come with little grippies on them so they stay in my ears better!
Jammidodger It's complete bullshit. Don't fall for it, she is genuinely confused. She is struggling with her identity as a Bisexual woman most likely. These could be reall feelings, I mean, no wonder, her naked ass is on camera frequently, has gotten so many womanly enhancement surgeries. This is why the LGBT movement is harmful to society, it's completely flipped it's agenda from quiet acceptance, to complete demands to use outlandish pronouns for identities that do not biologically exist, or will EVER exist. You cannot be both, or neither gender--it's just impossible. After seeing this video being reacted to for the 5th time today, I am certain she is not trolling, she actually believes this shit because she's hit the point in her life where her hormones are affecting her body a lot more in her growing age. I've also seen a trend of middle-aged women who are going through menopause, identifying as trans. She is possibly experiencing extreme body dysmorphia or disassociation due to the issues from being constantly heavily specialized because of her content. She needs help Jamie, she should not be taken seriously.
@@dylancole1910 are you ok ? it sounds like you're having a stroke
Think you were very kind about it but honestly she clearly has no idea what she's talking about she's either trolling or very confused 🦇🖤🦇
"are you trans?"
Trisha: "yesn't"
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ArtOfMondoma its evolving just backwards
Ha
Best comment
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What’s wrong with CZcams?
"I like gay men because they're masculine, give off masculine energy, but are also sensitive"
My boyfriend is bi and he cries when I tell him I can't wait to marry him. Like... Dudes can be sensitive regardless of sexuality.
So romantic ❤️
Aw. That’s cute.
Aw adorable.
Aw so cute!
aWwwWw 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 thats cuteeee
‘I think they/them is plural’
Me, being agender: ‘What do you know, Trisha? I could be twenty rabbits in a trench coat.’
this made me laugh, thank u
Thanks this joke made my day!
I mean there is a billion things living on me
if you are twenty rabbits in a trench coat then *give me a damn hug i need the floofy embrace right now-*
if your not still give me a hug i need a virtual one right now
Me, uses "it/its": Oh my gosh HOW DID YOU KNOW?! WHO TATTLED?!
this is why we need LGBT+ education in schools. This doesn't feel like Trisha is being malicious, just...really really confused
Yeah. Also I feel like if she felt that way she should've made some research to see if that's really what she is before making a video about it.
I’m getting the vibes thst she’s gender fluid
"But muh gay indrtrucnation"
-Mat Walsh probably
agree
We don’t need that shit in school. We need real education. Not live in a fantasy
I am a girl. I have a ‘boy’ haircut, I have male friends, I don’t wear make up, I never wear dresses or skirts, I am a complete tomboy. But that does not make me trans. You don’t need to be really feminine to be a woman
Agreed 100%. Also unrelated but love your profile pic ❤
Gabriela Pastafrola thanks!
Also that would invalidate a lot of trans women.
I agree with you
Same with me, I felt more comfortable with myself after I cut my hair and I loved it when I acted mor masculine but I hate being called a boy or a sir because I am still a girl.
Trisha is the 'yes, but actually no' meme at this point.
lmao
lmao
@@shr00m1sh6 bi like meh
@@rcps3166 hey fellow bi :D
@@jdthebanana7967 may I join the party
I don't think Trisha is trolling...she's just extremely confused about who she is and uneducated/ignorant
Watch the frenemies podcast with Dr. drew. It is interesting how Trisha tries to convey this topic. Trisha does identify as non Binary now, Also made an apology and donated to trans charity.
If you see how she fetishizes and yet speaks over Jews and attacks them and antisemitic
It may be classic Trisha fetishizing and being discriminatory and staying at very least purposefully ignorant
Agreed
You do not think a person that makes a living upon trolling people on very very sensitive subjects is trolling ?
logic: *has joined the chat"
Trisha: "im trans, but i identify as my gender that i was born with"
logic: *has left the chat*
*don’t do it don’t do it*
lOgAn!!!
Tbf that could mean they’re Bigender
@Jazlyn Yeoh
Logan Sanders???????????
@@x-ca1iber i like patton :3
*Bigender exists.*
people.
i just learned.
that i'm a boy.
*because i don't do my hair and i don't care about my body.*
same then, actually I'm currently sitting on the couch after brushing my hair once and putting it in a ponytail because i don't want to deal with it. (I'd cut it short but for whatever reason my mum won't let me)
Update: my mum let me cut my hair
IM A BOY?!?
ah yes I do those things and I don't wear makeup ever so I guess I'm a boy too
yayyy daaa boisss
I guess I am a trans guy rather than a trans enby
@@nightsky5264 awww so lucky. I'm still trying to persuade my mum to let me cut my hair. Hope u live it tho.
Am I vegan ? 1000%
Do I still eat meat? 1000%
Yes we exist
Just spat my tea out 🤣🤣
I am a vegan who is a meat eater, yes.
🤣
Am I alive ? 1000%
Am I dead ? 1000%
Yes we exist
Trish needs to realise that “being attracted too” and “fetisizing” are 2 different things
"im not like other girls, im a bisexual women/gay man/a transgender/a gay ally"
Hey I like ur pfp
a t r a n s g e n d e r
i hate that stupid phrase 😭
The "not being able to satisfy a gay partner" part pissed me off so much, I'm a gay trans man in a relationship with a gay cis man and the implication that our relationship is less legitimate or satisfying is honestly kind of offensive.
Same here
Honestly that's one of my biggest fears as someone who's attracted to men and is transmasc... I feel like a cis gay man would never be happy with me because I don't have what he wants. It's nice to hear that that's not the reality and im glad you and your partner are happy together 💜
@@JJ-jw9ec There's always gonna be men who will love and appreciate you for who you are no matter what, whether they be cis or trans. Keep fighting on, brother.
im a very young gay trans boy and hearing her say that being trans and never being able to satisfy a partner in the future honestly just made me lose all my self confidence. i already struggle with depression and anxiety and seeing that honestly just made me so offended and depressed.
I’m scared of that
Sounds like an awful lot of internalized misogyny and gay fetishism.
That's literally what I said in the comments of her video LMAO Bless
Yeea
Yes!
I literally said the same thing 😂
Samuel Lowery see we're on the same level, I have never met anyone I would agree to more,
Which is you, by the way.
She doesn't want to be a boy she just wants the privilege of being one
Which doesn't even work because trans people have it worse than cis women
Hey Jammie, first I want to say that I like your videos. I'm a 65 yo straight woman from the U.S. I can understand the information that you give. I have wondered for a while now how trans people felt. I'm sorry that society is so hard on you. You and Shabba looks so happy together. Congratulations on getting your PhD. I enjoy your videos because they are informative. I hope I can react the proper way if I were to ever meet a trans man or woman. I think you a courageous for putting yourself out there. I think Trisha is a very confused human being. After watching this video I'm not sure what to call her/him. She definitely needs to do research before she goes on about things, she was very confusing. Hope I didn't rant and hope you understand what I am saying. I really do enjoy your videos. More people need to understand before they make any judgements. I hope you answer me. The best of luck to you and Shabba. Marjorie.
i can say definitively that what trisha identifies as is an attention whore. she always pulls some stunt like this when it's been too many weeks/months without her name trending on twitter.
I love that you are trying to educate yourself on trans people. :)
"Do i think i'm Transgender? Yes 1000%. Do I identify with my birth gender?" Yes 1000%"
Me:*Dan.exe has stopped working*
Daniel Thomas i will say that a lot of Bigender people are their assigned gender at birth and another gender.
@@hollyrose9336 yeah, but that's not what she was talking about, I'm pretty sure Trisha doesn't even know what Bigender is
Not transgender, but nonbinary. And not using they/them pronouns is a personal choice. Although when she mentioned they/them being used by plural people I assume she meant people like me who have dissociative identity disorder or multiple personality disorder, because that's the only "plural" I can think of.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.
@@minimariaandthecrew8811 No, she meant "plural" as more than one person. As in, using the pronoun "they" to talk about more than one person in the third person. Back then she hadn't even started with the DID crap she made up (not saying DID is made up, but she obviously made up that she has it), probably she didn't even know it was a real disorder.
i also hate when people use the word “choose” like that when referring to the LGBTQ+ community. it’s a really uncomfortable word since sexuality and gender aren’t choices :/
Preach!
I'm cis straight but when people use that term "choose" like that I ask if they chose to be straight. Often they are confused so I explain it like this. Suppose you lived in a society where it was most normal to be gay and only 10% of the population was straight. Could you just choose to be gay to fit in with the majority of the population. Some refuse to engage but I often get at least uncomfortable squirms.
Yea I am bisexual and I have had a lot of people be like "just choose one, boys or girls" and I'm just like ._.
@@kristinwright6632 yo cis het here and I ask people that too. Do they choose to be straight? Cuz I sure haven't. Nobody asked me.
Blizzard_the_seal if I could choose to be gay I’d be gayer
Fun fact: "They" has been used as a singular pronoun for a person of unknown/unstated gender dating all the way back to middle English, which includes all of modern English :))
They has been used in the singular longer than "you" has as a singular, its existed since we used thou
She has just never heard of a masculine female i think.
I think we now know the video JK Rowling was talking about when she said she's done a lot of research on trans people
LMAOO YEAH 💀
IM SOBBING YES EXACTLY
This
That was the most beautiful thing I've read in a long time.
Dying.
I dont like how trisha said they/them pronouns were "confusing "
Like nonbinary people are constantly told theyre asking for too much when they just want decent respect.
Those pronouns work for literally everybody: women, men, and everyone else.
Someone: “They/them is plural, idiot!”
Enby: “Well, when you’re on the phone with a telemarketer, and can’t tell THEIR gender by THEIR voice, what do you call THEM?”
Someone: “ .__. ......”
I don’t have think I love that reference and makes people realize how wrong they are about certain stuff that they don’t know about.
Hailea Shephard I was talking about how I recognized that reference and liked it but I don’t know what happened. Sorry for the confusion.
like, i dont think its confusing. its their pronouns. its like if i told you that i dont want to be called Anna, i want to be called Anna Jane, because that is the name that I was given at birth, and you said "well thats too confusing". like, its my name. whats so difficult to understand about that.
Trisha: I'm a boy!!
Trisha: but I'm also a girl too!!
Trisha: but I'm NOT nonbinary!!
Me: ....who wants to tell them about bigender
LITERALLY!! thats what i was thinking the WHOLE time
SAMMEEEE
You are like the only other person in the comments who even considered bi-gender.
Hehe, bigender gang 💗💛🤍💜💙
💙💙💜🤍💜💗💗
💙💙🤍💜🤍💗💗
Sorry, couldn't help myself, we don't get mentioned much, and yes, there are a bunch of different hearts because us bigender peeps can't decide on a flag.
For those who don't know, the second set of hearts is considered the official flag, while the first is newly made and less controversial, and the third is a slightly altered version of the official flag to be less controversial but still carries the original colours... So there we go, all three sets are my flag.
Sorry for the lesson 😂
OMG WAIT
I think she's nonbinary, but hasn't done any of the necessary research to not sound like an uneducated troll. I'm nonbinary and I can choose how I present, but I can't choose how I feel inside. It would be hella convenient to not have to wake up with dysphoria...
I feel like she's gender fluid, or female but has never heard of not being a girly girl. Probably the ladder.
I love your profile picture
Yeah dysphoria is a bitch
It's true. They recently (ok, maybe not so recently) came out non-binary
Trish: They/them is plural
Trish, a few minutes later: I wouldn't be able to satisfy them
She literally used a singular them in the same video where she said it's plural
Chameleon Tea and now she’s saying that she IS plural (DID). I don’t want to accuse her of anything but it’s just weird 🤦♀️
@@letterborneVods she's a faker and a shitty person. FUCK Trisha Paytas
@@letterborneVods ugh yeah that vid was even more yikes... and i haven't even seen the original, only a reaction vid
@@letterborneVods I picked up plural as meaning DID too. If she WERE to have it then it's not transgender or nonbinary it's your alters identifying as themselves. That said, a male alter in a female body (and vice versa) can have dysphoria about the body. It's the main reason my two male alters, that I know of, don't come out unless absolutely necessary. They usually step back and let female alters handle what needs to be done.
LaughingForNoReason XD Oh oh, I WANT to accuse her of trolling topics that hurt others for views 🙄
“Straight guys turn me off. I never liked that over masculine energy”
Ahem
Not 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 guys 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 feminine 👏🏻 please 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 stereotyping 👏🏻 gay 👏🏻 men 👏🏻
Not 👏🏻 all 👏🏻 straight 👏🏻 men 👏🏻 are 👏🏻 over 👏🏻 masculine 👏🏻 please 👏🏻 stop 👏🏻 stereotyping 👏🏻 straight 👏🏻 men 👏🏻
Yas
Sexuality 👏 Has 👏 Nothing 👏 To 👏 Do 👏 With 👏 Gender 👏 Identity 👏 Or 👏 femininity/masculinity 👏
"Straight guys ... ... over masculine energy"
Bears:
Hunks:
Twunks:
Cubs:
But why
Aren't gay man painting their nails wearing make up and dresses ?
(It was sarcasm 😒)
Me around my close friends who I am out to: do I identity with non binary 1000%
Me around my other friends and family: do I identify with my natural born gender 1000%
LMAO SAME
SAME lmao
Jeez this is so freaking accurate
Trisha: I’m all of it
Me: when did the lgbt community become pokemon.
She has made this a game of Pokémon, gotta catch ‘em all
@@natalie8111 me a demi-panromantic asexual genderfluid: I've collected the whole set
@@sampepper7682 me a pansexual she/they still questioning my gender but knowing my pronouns
@@natalie8111 yay thats good for you cause them you can at east have the pronouns and feel comfertable!!!
Lol! Gotta catch'em all!
„I’m not like other girls, guess I’m a trans guy“
Trisha Paytas in a nutshell-
“I’m not like other boys, therefore I’m a trans girl.”
True, but correlation isn’t causation. Idk what led Trisha to say what they said, but for me, while I never fit in in an all guys schooling set-up, as soon as girls were added in, I found it 1000x easier to relate to them, despite being neurodivergent, and therefore most likely to struggle with relating to anyone. I always had a deep-seated envy of the girls I was friends with, I wished I could be one of them rather than the token guy among them, because I felt like inside that’d feel better for me.
Him, jokingly: "Identify as guys, identifying as multiple guys." Me, from the future: "Honey, you've got a big storm coming."
AHAHAHA I GET IT
I don't
Does he actually identify as multiple guys now?
what
@@baguettegott3409 she says she has DID (dissociative identity disorder, previously referred to as multiple personality disorder)
I knew someone would comment this 😂😂😂
"stereotypes do not dictate gender" my exact feelings the whole time.
"they/them are for multiple people"
me, pretending to be enby but is actually multiple raccoons in a trench coat: oh shit she onto us
"Stereotypes don't dictate gender" dang Jamie
Amen!
We love Jamie
Isn’t that how most of the alphabet community define gender?
Kia Kaha you mean trans people?
@planet 4 We know what we see. ignoring biology, all you have are stereotypes to say you are a man or woman.
20 minutes 29 seconds of Jamie trying his hardest to be nice.
Fr tho
I think it's great that he was being so nice and using just facts, because then others can't label him as being a bully.
Max Day honestly he doesn’t seem like someone who would be mean anyway
Yeah, Jaime is honestly such a sweetheart
is it bad that i want an uncut version of him going off on her? probably? oops.
in all seriousness though, i think she needs to be educated on what gender actually is. it’s not a choosing thing. this ain’t the supermarket, that’s down the street. gender is what you are, it’s a know. as said in the video, even gender fluid people don’t choose, they just know. i’m honestly wondering how this is gonna turn out in the end.
"You can reject labels, but you can't have them all" so well said!!
My mother is a radical feminist and I’m a FTM,,, this is how i think she sees how I feel. She is a scary woman and I don’t know how to argue with her other than just give up on what I’m gonna say and agree with her. My mind always goes blank when I try to explain to her “why I feel this way”
i'm so sorry
Trisha Paytas, 1000% transgender, 1000% cisgender, 2000% on the kitchen floor.
I want to like your comment, but it’s at 69 likes
bahahahah fr 🤣🤣💀
😝
1000 0000 000 'ercent Desperate attention seeker as always lol
@@rainbowunipenguins5956 We're at 690 likes now
1000% trans + 1000% cis = 2000% transcis
guys I figured it out
You deserve a Nobel prize for this crucial addition to science.
Lol
Lol. S c i e n c e. . .
Sounds like the name Trisha
Lmao
Trisha: I don’t wanna offend anyone
Also Trisha: offends an entire community
I'm pretty sure it's more that just one community at this point
"An"?? Multiple.
@@KaiahAurora obviously the LGBT+ community, whats the others?
I'm really impressed to see that even when he's angry, he's still a very kind and respectful cutie pie.
I just find it sus that *specifically* she says she is attracted to gay men. Like, hunny, that's an attraction to a sexuality- aka it's a fetishism, as opposed to saying you're attracted to men, which is a gender- so an orientation.
That was very confusing. It's like she's stating a stereotype, that all gay men are one way and straight men are another way.
As a woman, I noticed that I felt attracted to gay guys at a certain point in life. I realized that's because I was raped by my first boyfriend and gay guys aren't interested sexually in me, thus they feel very safe. I like feeling safe ☺️. Still the best feeling ever 😊.
Realistically there are certain types of people that are overwhelmingly more likely to be gay/lesbian/etc. If you like only butch women, you're going to mostly like lesbians. If you like lispy effeminate flamboyant bottoms, realistically that's mostly gay men, even if it's bc society quashes those traits in others. Don't front like there's no different between the populations, and like the chemistry isn't different when someone's perceiving you as their own sex vs another sex. She says "attracted to", but it could be bc she vibes with them bc there's lowkey that energy there, you know?
@@Tijggie82 when I still identified as female as a teenager & thought I was ace, instead of, say, wanting a relationship with another ace person, I wanted a relationship with a gay man who could get his sexual needs met outside our relationship. The thought of being touched sexually absolutely repulsed me. Maybe it was because I didn't know any ace men to know it was an option. But I find that "he's not attracted to me and thus won't touch me but I still get emotional validation from the relationship" thing extremely relatable.
she do kinda sound like someone that has a lot of baggage as a result of being sexualized by older straight men since she was young
She also implied that having short hair would make her trans. Girls can have short hair, boys can have long hair.
fun fact hair and gender are the exact same thing
and what will she imply next? enbys are all bald?
@@aiijae9884 we neither have hair or not have hair, we are voids of genderless space, true story
@@aiijae9884 No... They all have mullets, duh 🙄🙄/j
"I might be too harsh but it makes me squirm a little"
-The least harsh statement
Jamie my budgie really loves your channel, she gets super excited everytime she hears your voice.
I just think you should know.
as a nonbinary person, this hurt to watch
@cherri
Especially the part where she says you can’t use they/them pronouns...
cherri same
@cherri I love your profile picture!
ArtistAsriel aww, thanks!
Sammmmme
“I don’t like being the center of attention unless I want to be the center of attention.”
Yep that is how it works.
isn’t that what anyone wants anyway
the only thing she said that was true. as an introverted leo i hate being the center of attention until i want to be lmao
Excactly! Wow you described every person ever Trisha!
Disk of Prudence same
And she said it like she was dropping some sorta bombshell
I’m a cis woman who is bi, but when I was questioning my gender identity and sexuality, I have had similar thoughts to Trisha, especially going through a phase where I was only attracted to gay men (very confusing for me). I know now that these thoughts don’t make me trans, but I understand where Trisha is coming from trying to sort it all out. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Trisha: I am 1000% male, and 1000% female.
Jamie: *Jamie.exe has stoped working*
Her: I want to be part of the community!
Also her: *blatantly insults the trans (and specifically enby) community*
Yeah I felt quite offended by it as an enby :(
@@__husk__5512 Same :
Same ＼＼\٩(๑`^´๑)۶//／／
t w i n
Yeet
"trans people are lovable whatever stage of transition" Okay. Uh. I had no idea how badly I needed to hear that until now :"))
Callum you are lovable no matter what stage of transition. :)
I agree. You are loved at every stage of your journey.
That's because, no matter what, trans people are people. And all people are lovable.
@@trekadouble757 that's a very wonderful thing to say ♡ I love it
You're valid! No matter what stage you're at, or even if you decide not to do T or surgeries! (っ˘з(˘⌣˘ )
trisha paytas: *suggests that long hair makes her female*
dave mustaine: *am i a joke to you?*
You have made me a lot more open to trans people, just so you know you’re doing great work. I never thought being gay/lesbian/bi was odd because I new what it was from an early age, and at time myself have felt attraction towards other women. But i didn’t know what trans was until i was like 14, and so its taken longer for me to stop thinking of it as weird. I now see it as normal as cis, just a longer journey. Thanks :)
Well, she did once say she identifies as a black woman, lesbian, bisexual and a chicken nugget so there's that.
don't forget that she's also a teletubbie.
How does one identify as a black woman when they are not black 🤦🏿♀️🤦🏿♀️ she probably said i feel black because i like " insert stereotypical things here"
I need to see this chicken nugget video, I can't believe that actually happened.
What the fuck
Sparrow Cunningham come on teletubby teleport us to mars!!!
i just feel like she's confusing gender expression & gender identity
This makes sense
I feel she making whole a lot of money for doing so.
That’s what I think, if she’s being serious that is
Or its both.
No she literally said she was a trans man gay man no confusing there she literally straight out said what she was.
Trisha we non-binary people are secretly 10-100 goblins in a trench coat
YEE
😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈
she said she identified as everything. Like, all the labels. You cannot be a guy that likes guys and a woman that likes women at the same time. There is a contradicting thing.
"I dont like lables."
"IM ALL THE LABLES"
lol
her logic is fucked up
yes i'm vegan. yes i eat meat. we exist.
I didn't quite understand your comment
@@Marion89gr by definition, vegans do not eat meat. similarly, she is contradictory when describing being trans
Being a vegan is a choice 😂
@@LeviAckerman-tn4zj oh, thanks. I didn't get the sarcasm
Sister-in-law is 1000% this. And I'm not even joking.
If i remember correctly, they also self-diagnosed themself as having D. I. D. and called someone WITH dissociative identity disorder crazy.
Ofc they did 🙄 people who are so obsessed with mental health to the point they fake having these things and talk over those of us who actually have these things are so annoying. DID, OCD, tourettes, etc are not fun or quirky. They are disabling and cause a lot of distress. And the fakers are the biggest reason that non-fakers get told we're lying and have to jump through a ton of hoops to prove we aren't lying, only to still not be believed.
"Local woman thinks she is a guy because she doesn't like to brush her hair... A haircut might be underway,"
You wish this was an onion article.
logic: *exists *
This woman: "I am transgender 1000%!"
logic: "okay, nice."
Also this woman: "I identify as the gender I was born as."
logic: * *has left the chat* *
🤣
*woman
@@LeGoodMusica23 oh sorry! I just noticed, I'll correct it
@@suspiciousdonut8640 bro its ok
@@LeGoodMusica23 thanks dude have a nice day!
Me, a cis girl with really short hair, who doesn't wear makeup and uses a lot of male clothes....
So am I a boy now?
Ingrid Stephane Welcome to the club
You are either a boy or lesbian, must be. At least, that was what happened to me when I had short hair
@@Rebster I'm actually asexual 😂😂😂
@@teefsart yeah, it's just that people think that once you have short hair, it is impossible to be anything but a transgender or lesbian. While in reality, it is highly possible to be just a straight cis female, or anything else.
Yea sorry
7:32 reminds me of that one tumblr post
"this character is LGBTQ+"
"what, all at once?"
Ok, just like random thing since Trish said “Signs from childhood”, did anyone else the other day just realize how many signs they missed?? I used to dress up in my brother’s clothing and act like his friend so that I could feel like a guy. And not once did I consider, hey maybe your trans.
Years later I’m realizing how obvious it was 🌻😩
sounds like this lady has a problem with society's sexism and misogyny, not with her gender identity
Don’t we all...
Her biggest problem seems to be with maths. 🤣
Definitely feels trapped by societal norms and standards, but this does not make you transgender.
The patriarchy! Waaaaaah!
@@leahbrandman7549 exactly!
She sounds like she is attracted to more feminine men who treat women nicely
It’s been said in other videos that she has fallen in love with her gay best friend, Cedric. She realizes he will never love her back romantically and so this has triggered this weird coming out identity crisis. She really needs to get off the internet and get some help.
@Whitney Gordon Yeah I agree, although on a side note, do think your parents would let you make a personal email account? You could give your personal account a gamertag-like username that doesn't give an actual name. This way you won't make your parents suspicious, and you won't have to worry as much about being misgendered online.
she litterally said that she's not attracted by bulky/muscular man, what does that have to do with being trans?
Whitney Gordon does your school not monitor your account, mine does that’s why I use a personal email. I just am concerned that they might try to get you in trouble.
Right, and along with that, it seems she doesn't like being treated the way that women are treated. She wants male privilege
"I identify as guys."
Holy shit, he predicted Trisha would pretend to have DID
can someone share with her the fabulous thing called "gender fluid"
Or bigender B)
Or non-binary even though they now identify as that now omfg shut the f*** up trish
gender expression does NOT equal gender identity 😔
yes! i present femininely (can’t transition yet) but am a guy. it’s important to know the difference!
@@SashaPosting hi! what does gnc mean? if you don’t mind me asking :)
@@SashaPosting thank you!!
"I know guys are into bodies and all that" *OMG Trisha! NO! as an asexual trans man I feel o f f e n d e d*
Same tbh
Not trans, but asexual, and same.
I’m not asexual but I still feel offended by that. I support you 😊
I saw your pfp. Are you a fander?
Not asexual or a trans man, but she makes me want to die
respect for staying so calm despite all the shit she talked
9:54 as a genderfluid person, I can confirm it’s not a choice. I can choose to dress feminine or dress masculine or do “girly” or “manly” things, but my gender changes regardless of how I dress or act on that day. If it was my choice, I would always choose to be a girl on Sundays when I wear dresses, but it doesn’t work like that.
I can’t think of an identity that she hasn’t offended at this stage..
Kate O'Riordan she hasn't identified as asian... YET
True
she didn't say she's asexual, did she?
Has she offended pansexuals?
@@josiemay2982 As a pan, not that I've seen yet lol. It'll probably happen sooner or later but I won't be paying attention unless Jamie reacts to it
It honestly sounds like she’s misinformed and just doesn’t like stereotypes or gender roles that are forced upon her.
Yeah she's just really confused because she doesn't know what any of these things mean.
It seems that she just never stopped being a middle schooler, which is where people generally find out their identity.
Agreed! Very well put.
Sounds like shes wanting to say she feels more nonbinary than anything else 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ not only that but it's not hard to tell shes also trying to 'embrace' a more "black look" since the whole "I'm black" video 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Adhley Severeyns honestly when I saw her for the first time I thought she was at least mixed
I agree!
Trisha: You can change day to day
Genderfluid go brrrr
*Sounds like Trisha is referring more towards being genderflulid O-O*
or bigender
Trish: I don't wear make up and I have a zit and I don't like sexual harrasment from men so I'm a man
Me, a cis female:.... am.... am I a man?
I know my comment is stupid but what is cis
@@leavemealoneha8042 Cis=your gender identity matches the gender you were assigned at birth.
Trans=Your gender identity does not match the gender you were assigned at birth.
In short cis just means not trans. Your comment is not stupid, it's always good to learn. (As long as you're not sealioning people)
Existencial Dread what is sealioning?
@@kafkafication3449 yes what is sealioning? Making a bunch of noise for attention?
😂😅
Hi! Genderfluid here!
It does kinda sound like she's genderfluid, but it almost sounds like she WANTS to be genderfluid rather than actually identifies as it.
Genderfluid is a really cool identity, and it's also kinda comforting if you want to experiment with things, such as different pronouns, a different name/names, or different ways to look/gender expression. However. Being genderfluid doesn't mean you wake up and decide what you feel like identiying as that day. I guess it's more like you have to analyze how you actually feel that day, and analyze what expression (clothes, pronouns, name) will make you feel the most comfortable that day (this can change throughout the day.) Genderfluid doesn't equal having a wide range of style... It's not the same as "I feel like wearing a dress today" or "I feel like having short hair today" or even "I feel like wearing sweatpants today cuz they're comfy." It's not like that, as I tried to explain above.
This is why you can't just say "short hair is more convenient, therefore I feel like a boy everyday" because that's not how it works. You don't "decide" what gender you are that day because it's not a decision. Gender expression is different from gender identity. Also, don't stereotype that short hair equals boy. Girls with short hair aren't men.
The video annoys me because when I try to explain to someone what genderfluid means to me, they think of videos like hers, because they sound similar. I didn't wake up today and chose to be a boy because of the convenience of the hair. No, I woke up, analyzed how I felt, discovered that I felt more like a boy than anything else, so I chose to express myself as male and use he/him pronouns for the time while I identify as male. Also, there's a difference between "today in particular, I *feel like* identiying as a boy because that's how I feel today" and "I *feel like* identifying as a boy because it's more convenient." The first "I feel like" is referencing how your brain is telling you you feel that day, and the second "I feel like" is making a choice. It's like how "I feel happy today" and "I feel like buying _____today" use the term "I feel" differently. So the way she says "I feel like" really makes it sound like genderfluid is a choice, and you choose how you identify every day, when that's not what it's really like. It makes it harder for people to learn, understand, and accept the community. And it makes us look crazy. So please stop.
I think Trisha should really experiment with different things, and decide how she feels most comfortable. Maybe she is genderfluid... But the way she phrased it made it sound like she's choosing to be something similar to genderfluid rather than actually being it. Maybe she just wants to be a masculine girl in a relationship with a more stereotypically feminine guy (straight/bi/pan/etc man can all be feminine, and it's ok to have a type, as long as she's not fetishizing.)
In conclusion,
• Although it's true that being genderfluid means different things to everyone when it comes to their personal identity, and everyone feels differently/has different experiences as a genderfluid person, what she's describing is just... Not what genderfluid MEANS.
• It sounds like she's choosing to be genderfluid.
• That's not how genderfluid works.
• She's making us look bad/making it look like we choose everything.
• Wanting to look a certain way doesn't determine your identity, and I don't think she understands that.
• It's ok to experiment and want a certain type of relationship, but it's not ok to stereotype and fetishize.
Hope this helps ♥️
This was the most explaining text about gender fluid I've ever seen, now I understand it better and hope to never be disrespectful to gender fluid people!!thank you so much for sharing your experience!!
(If the comment sounds like mocking or trolling, it's because English is not my first language, so I'm not that good at it yet. Please don't read it like that)
Im trans and I hate my life, but this sounds very fun
Ps. That was long
This is such an excellent comment! Wow I wish I could pull this out of my pocket whenever someone is spouting misinformation about gender identity. Thanks so much for such a positive and thorough explanation!
Bruh this just made me realize I'm actually agender. Thanks!
as a genderfluid person (im way more enby leaning and its more like... I'm basically agender but with occasional flashes of Stronger Gender Feelings TM), ayup! like man oh man i wish i could just wake up and be like 'ohoho this is gonna be the gender for today' instead of having to analyze it :/
Jammi: I am confused
Me: so is Trish
Who we are is like a monarchy system, we don’t get to pick and choose
I’m in my rewatching Jammi’s videos arch 💛
I'm here because Trisha just disrespected DissociaDID and the whole DID community in her new video. So sad to see how much harm she's done to other communities as well. I hope she can find chill one day and stop spread misinformation for attention.
I came here from that video to. The fact that she is so uneducated makes me sad. Like if you are going to claim something at least understand what it is first.
Her face alone is a trigger for our anxiety...it’s really not fun. -Void
Оксана Хлебникова she also claimed to be black once 🙄 oh and she converted to Judaism after dating a Jewish guy for 2 weeks.
Me too, although I've been here before. When it was just trans, I was just like, "I hate this, this is a lot of misinformation, it's dangerous, but okay. It's just one really underinformed person. It's fine." But now its DID too, and...
...
I'm really concerned. Especially now the DissociaDID system got hurt in part because of this.
I THOUGHT I RECOGNISED HER!! i couldn't remember why tho, but wow, she really do be disrespecting every marginalised community
She sounds like she's just fed up with societal expectations on women's appearances and that she's attracted to feminine/androgynous men. She needs to see a good counselor to talk through her feelings.
Jesse Houston agree
Jesse Houston thats the thing! in the “apology” she said she was seeing a gender therapist for m o n t h s. idk how tf that therapist didnt shut her down immediately or teach her any terms and actual imformation
@@trishfish6914 I think shutting people down is the opposite of what therapists are supposed to do, right?
@@trishfish6914 like I said she needs a GOOD counselor lol one that can help her intelligently verbalize her thoughts and feelings.
Sarah L well say youre going to therapy for being depressed. if youre not depressed the therapist is not going to encourage you to go on anti depressants and will or should tell you youre not depressed. same for a gender therapist. if youre not trans, they should encourage you to see a therapist for maybe split personality disorder or not to go on testosterone and would stop encouraging her to say shes trans when shes not
9:30 the earliest known use of "they" was a singular pronoun. It became plural like 200 years later.
“I identify as transgender, non-binary, and straight”
There are 2 imposters among us
"Sterotypes do not dictate gender"....I love that!
Same!
exactly!!
YES
Her: I don’t like they/them pronouns, that’s multiple people
Me: *sad enby noises*
it's okay im enby too :))
tho i go by he him instead of they them
Don't worry thude, they/them pronouns are awesome
What is an enby? Im really sorry if this comes off as rude or offensive
@@ruetistic you're fine ! enbies or more commonly known as non binary people are people that feel like they don't quite fit under the male or female label. it's an umbrella term that includes genderfluid , agender and demigender ( and more ! ) . you could look it up for more info. hope this helped ^^
Yay! Enby pals! Just want everyone to know that no matter what anyone says...you’re always valid! I also like the term thude sksks Imma use that in my day to day life now!
This has revived my soul, just a bit. I needed this.
Trisha: That's like plural people-
Me: I am plural person
I feel like she’s poorly expressing being pansexual and genderfluid
yep
Or even agender. Its like yhe opposite of nonbinary isnt it?.
lance S Agender and nonbinary are the same, though I understand what you mean.
@@lances4801 they're the same and also different. Some of it is up to the person deciding what labels fit them but they have the same idea of not being in the typical male female thing.
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Someone take a shot every time she says "choose" when describing her gender
i took a shot of hot sauce each time and now i am a dragon
@@harrypotter-el6hs damn, respect
i am bending over my toilet, but the one millionth shot *must* be taken
please don't, you'll be dead halfway through
OKAYYYY
I don’t think she really understand what “to identify” means, especially in terms of gender... she basically thinks that it’s a conclusion you reach intellectually, and not a feeling or sense you get that actually transcends intellect.
I think she meant that you can choose to express how you feel that day. I think Trish is confused, and was trying to work things out.
Transphobes really dont realize that you can be a girl and have short hair huh
as well as hate makeup and basically be a mascgirl. I bet trisha doesn't believe in femboys either
and dave mustaine is apparently a girl bc he has long hair, according to her nonexistent logic
As I've always said, it's the people who are the most insistent about gender being inflexible, biological, and binary, who are the ones who need to be constantly reminded about what gender is by slapping blue or pink on anything and separating the world into cars and barbies
My friend has the most amazing hair. He grew it out and because its long and Blonde, he looks like Thor. It is really cool. Also if you were to live in a hot country short hair would be good.
@Esther Podolny im so happy for u!!!!
"I identify as both a trans man and as a lesbian"- trisha
Berger Queen excuse me she's a gay man,, and also a straight man, and a bi man, and a pan man, and an ace man, and also a straight woman, and a gay woman, and a bi woman, and a pan woman, and an ace woman, and evidently gender-fluid but probably also bigender and pangender and agender because come on she wants all the labels.
Kiara Blitz mooom trisha is hoarding all the identities, you said it was my turn on the gender :c
Berger Queen Trisha: I am bi, a man, gay, lesbian, straight, a woman, non-binary, and asexual all at once.
@@elizabethcabbage9817 lol
Don’t forget she also identifies as a chicken nugget
Btw, Remember that you do not need dysphoria to be trans. I feel like thats making being trans sound all painful.
Just wanted you guys to know that y’all are valid af🥺
Trisha: sees lgbtqia+
Trisha: I’ll take your entire stock
diva bhardwaj It stands for intersex. Because they have both genitalia they identify how they want.
@@strawberryboy9045 the comments section is basically school for me bc im not super educated and i had no clue what intersex was. thanks for telling me.
Anna Jane Banana nice to know that someone is using this as a way to learn
@@tea_addict2453 hey, im always down to learn more about the different sexualities and genders, and anything else like that. i know the basics, but i hate offending people, it gives me literal anxiety, and learning more about this stuff makes me feel more confident that im not going to offend someone.
Anna Jane Banana same tho. Also you have restored my faith in humanity, thank you
"So do I think I'm transgender, yes 1000%."
"Do I identity with my natural born gender, 1000%"
Sweetie, that's not how being trans works or how maths works.
I don't understand this though, if you identify as transgender you absoloutley have to identify as the gender you're transitioning too ? Is it possible at the time maybe she doesn't consider herself a male yet. I'm not here to defend her, she doesn't make a lot of sense, but i just want to hear your thinking, or anyone else's for that matter.
Mauricio Lara the reason why someone’s trans is because they don’t identify with their “natural born” gender
thats kind of the whole point
@@santiv4 gotcha so like by defintion word for word cool cool thanks
Mauricio Lara i cant tell if this is sarcasm or not
@@santiv4 I don't think so, I think they're genuinely confused but who knows
Every time I watch another one of your videos the more I learn and is great, thanks for making all these videos!! :D