Intervention: Melanie Breaks Down at Son’s Birthday Party (Season 21) | A&E
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Melanie gets anxious to be around so many people and breaks down crying at her son's birthday party in this clip from Season 21, Episode 1, "Melanie (#55)." #Intervention
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Alrighty then !!!I 👍🏽
As a child who had an addict mother, These events really effect a child. Children absorb everything around them and they carry it with them as adults
It's so so sad....
Absolutely. We carry it forever.
@@charisselewis5401 Sadly,I think ,many people can agree.....but heald your head up high. You are not your parents limitations 🙏💖
@Sarah Hulsey @Faust Hey man what where you typing.....i wanted to 'share' common stuff......
This is true.
She acted just like my mom during family functions/my birthday parties. Jealous of grandma doing anything because, "she isn't the mom," but when you rely on mom nothing gets done.
So sorry:(
Seriously. Same.
Honestly breaks my heart, I try so hard to never judge someone else, but I also have severe anxiety and depression, but I tried my hardest to never let my kids see it, I actually use to lock myself in the bathroom for ten to fifteen minutes at a time to get myself under control. I understand that everyone feels things differently, so no judgment to this mother, I just hope she gets or has gotten help so she can be there for her child, and have a happy life with him ❤❤ hope that they are all doing well now ❤❤
Truth! hope youre doing well these days despite issues your mom had. ❤
have you ever thought it was not just your moms addiction but your grandmothers control and not asking your mothers input in the first place. my moms not an addict at all and my grandmother would take control of every event and not want my mothers input all because my mother was an Asian woman. my mother wanted to help wanted to help and my grandmother would not let her say you know nothing about american birthday parties. i know as recovery and being addicted it is that kind of behavior and saying my mother acted just like that gives you no right to say that. i have been clean for 4 years now. don't go casting stones and educate yourself to look through and addicts eyes.
This is exactly why they say addiction is a family "disease". It effects EVERYONE negatively. Not just the addict.
Exactly. And it's also a family issue at the core.. Because although individuals suffer from addiction (like in this case, it's only Melanie who's using), but the problem doesn't exist in a vacuum - it's always a sign of preexisting, major _family_ dysfunction.
I’m very sad for her son, because he’s so innocent and in the middle of this. If this goes on he will grow up with some emotional problems
@Glennandrews you're entitled to your opinion. There are more brain studies out now maybe take another look at more recent research.
@Glennandrews here's the definition of a disease.
Drugs change the way your brain functions. Your brain will no longer function the way it used to. Therefore, you become addicted and it usually results in consequences to your health among many other areas of life.
dis·ease
/dəˈzēz/
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noun
a disorder of structure or function in a human, animal, or plant, especially one that produces specific signs or symptoms or that affects a specific location and is not simply a direct result of physical injur
@Glennandrews I mean I do see what you are saying. But if it was just a hard wired habit it wouldn't be so hard to stop a live a normal life after.
Idk I guess we just have different opinions and that's completely okay ❤️ glad you are sober!
It’s so sad because the kid desperately just wants to spend time with his mother.
What kid dosnt all kids seek parents attention
@@ryans413 True, but not all kids have a drug addict parent that leaves their birthday party because they're itching to get their drug fix
but you can tell how much she does love him, shes going through a rough patch and needs help. she wants to be there for him, but she needs help first
She did NOT want any parts of building that lego set
No she dont want it
“Stop that, in front of him!” Poor grandma, definitely cares more about the kids mental health than she does or is capable of
She sick. She needs help. It's a simple as that. If and when she ever does get help she will look back on this video with a certain amount of shame, and remorse.
@@markg.1078 addicts never change
If the grandma cared so much about his mental health, she would have banned her from seeing him. Drug Addict parents think they can come and go as they please. The damage it does to the child is worse than if they were non-existent.
@@ewjiml they might have a court order that lets her see him.
Atleast act right in front of ur son
It actually seems like she might have done him a favor by leaving. She wasn't having anxiety...the drugs were wearing off and she realized she didn't have any more. Had to go and re-up.
Exactly
It might be anxiety you can’t say something like thatv
@@elloguvna6820 drug-related anxiety, yeah...
MARY HARTMAN, MARY HARTMAN did you read what you just wrote?
@@elloguvna6820 lol people who don’t suffer from anxiety disorders won’t get it. It’s like describing breaking a bone to Someone who hasnt. With that being said I do think it was drug related anxiety but yea the two don’t mix well
Shes lucky she has a family to take care of her kids.
When I was growing up when my mom was addicted to drugs I didn't have anybody 💔💔
So true
The kid is really the lucky one.
@@christiemon7066 I’m sorry.
I hope you’re doing okay now. 💖
@@christiemon7066 I know what that feels like, too.
Hearing kids say things like "play with me" to their parents brings tears to my eyes. It's overwhelming the love a child has. We all take it for granted.
its all "I wanted something small" "I'm not even in there" "I can't do this" its all about her on her sons BIRTHDAY. I really hope that kid grows up to be okay.
My thoughts exactly
Exactly my thoughts. I can't breathe i can't see my son open his presents i can't stay here i can't i can't hate to break it to you Ms Polly pity panic the world revolves round me "Get a grip girl" its your sons birthday not your birthday or your day his birthday he gets once a year don't be a spoiled brat and make it all about you. 😨😧😵😱👎. Its a good job the little boy has such a loving caring grandma 💜❤💙 and family 💚💛 that care and stood in to take her son until she is capable of looking after him. She is very lucky because some folk don't have that choice of family members to take the mammy daddy parental role/ duty's on for their children and they end up in the system and we all know what way a lot of children end out😥😢😭💔💔 that where put through the system not good.
Yeah I understand that she has issues but there’s a point where you have to grow tf up she’s like an arrested developed teen
I thought the same thing
“Like how can they sit there and sing happy birthday and I’m not there?!” Girl it is not YOUR birthday it’s your sons. Those drugs had fully taken over once those words came out her mouth, the catering/attention she’s used to burnt in her mind so hard that she really wanted everyone to drop everything they were doing to accommodate her comfortably smh I hope she’s doing better now especially for her son & family.
"They think they can just sing happy birthday and be all happy without me?!" Yes. When you have a crack induced melt down insisting you need to leave then yes. Your family will pick up the slack to ensure your innocent son still has a somewhat enjoyable birthday. Even as his addict mother has a meltdown in the background. So yes your family can and will be happy without you when you do stuff like this.
That part literally fried my brain 🤦🏼♀️
Janelle.. Jace... Barb is that you??
OMG LOL THAT'S WHAT I WAS THINKING
Lol right?!?!
Omg ikr!!!!
right !!!!!!
LOL
She can’t stay still and do LEGO’s with her son .... horrible
Yes... really Horrible... That was really sad to watch...
She takes meth or crack...
@@svarogeuropeidentity4355 could just be withdrawling off heroin
Thats crack
💀💔
Grandma should have full custody if she can’t fix her life she shouldn’t be in it simple as that
But then grandma will probably end up raising another innocent, impressionable young child who later on turns out to be a drug addict. Melanie has her major share of responsibility of course.. But grandma obviously failed at being an effective parent, to say the least. To think anything otherwise is just ignorant and unaware. So, terrible idea
@Cheryl Smith Uh.. Matt's entire point was specifically about the grandmother and _her_ parenting, just as it reads, in reference to the initial comment. You also misconstrued what was meant by the mention of Melanie's role in being responsible-regarding her _drug use_ ... i.e. the clear implication that she should have some degree of a sense of agency, and has made certain decisions of her own volition that have led to the current state of substance addiction. In other words it's being asserted that 100% blame probably can't be put on the grandmother - and so Melanie is to be held responsible to an extent too, for her behavior/ choices that directly led to her present-day drug addiction. No one was talking about her being 'responsible' in the type of context you used.
Moreover what does Melanie's role as a parent while also an addict, or the fact that they aren't good people, have to do with the price of fish? Again, the contention was strictly in relation to grandma's accountability as a parent (with the alleged potential inherent risk, if she were to raise Melanie's son).. and based on the show, grandma isn't a drug addict.
sometimes having the parents in their life does more harm then good if another good family member can take care of them Im sure that kid gets destroyed by her addiction all the time hopefully she got help after this though.
I don’t agree with that I’m a recovering opioid addict with 6 months sober at this point, my parents aren’t perfect but they are good parents and my addiction was through my ex bf not them.
@@ALN-ns4kw Im not saying that for most parents I truly believe all family should be together if possible that mother was doing more harm though. His mother was addicted not him he could easily go down that path too always being around her like that I believe she needs to get clean first then be with him but if she cant get clean I think it will do more harm then good so two things not most parents and if they can get clean deff should be together again.
The title should be "Melanie Ruins Son's Birthday Party"
“Melanie makes son’s birthday party all about herself.”
💯
🤣🤣🤣
Always the victim.
So true 🤣🤣🤣🤣
“How can they sing happy birthday and I’m not even there!”
.... because it’s your SONS bd party😭😭
“I hangout with crackheads, I don’t hangout with family” oh my..did she really just say that out loud ?!
she knows she's an addict. you can tell it affects her mentally that she feels stuck in this state of "I need this drug to live." it's hard to snap out of after doing it for so long.
She did say it out loud. She knew her situation and she stated it.
The birthday party isn't about mommy dearest she needs to get real with herself and get help or leave permanently don't drag the kid through your mess
True
Shes the mon she decides end of
the mum is trying her best, she knows shes struggling and shes upset about that. she wants to be supermum. she should give full custody to her mum but she wont because she doesnt want to admit her drug use has destroyed her
Yup. bigtime loser. Like most people who bring someone in to this world she was completely unprepared and grandma is crazy too.
Exactly!! This is so damaging for the child. My god..
"It's MY kid..." yeah that other people are raising. I know it's the drugs, but she's so entitled. "I wanted something small" but IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU.
Exactly
I feel like her anxiety is genuine. The guilt of being who she is trying to have a normal life, the shame of her son and family seeing her in that way, her physical urges and biochemical dependencies overriding her integrity to uphold responsibilities nonaddicts take for granted... it may have been selfish to leave, but at least she didn't make things hectic or got high in front of her family like other addicts.
In the very least if it's not genuinei think she fully believes this is anxiety
She is anxious to begin with because she is beginning to withdrawal and can't get more stuff quick enough
watching how much that little boy is attached to his mom breaks my heart so bad .
that poor little boy. this is gonna have a huge impact on his childhood. i hope he’s okay :(
God I can't stand mother's like this. That poor kid. Just because you're addicted doesn't mean you have to hurt your kid.
Yes it does. Part of the package.
Yes it does. You can't be a crackhead and a parent.
I hate to say it but Unfortunately it happens. My bio mom was a crack addict plus an acalholic, shed go with "friends" for days. I even witnessed her shoot up once too. and my grandparents got custody of me, i told her" you had your chance to get help, you where to wrapped up in your addiction. Their my parents. Dont blame them for your choice"
“I can’t even watch my son open his presents.”
... because you chose to do crack, which has made you inapt to handle social situations with anyone who isn’t a tweaker. You said it yourself,” I hang out with crackheads.”
Thats not other people’s fault
She choose to start using which she then got addicted
I feel sympathy for some of the people on this show but boy, this one was not one of them. She’s truly awful the entire episode and blames her mom (who is raising her son and supporting her crack habit because she can’t say no) for everything. She steals from everyone including her dealers so when her mom drives her to buy crack, she asks her mom to buy it for her (using her mom’s money, of course) because she has burned that dealer. She then smokes it in the car despite her mom’s protests. She smokes crack on the porch during her son’s party. And she quits rehab.
Hope no one you love becomes addicted because your severe lack of empathy helps no one.
@@jessicarhinehart9668 lmao sis spoken like a crackhead ;)
@@jessicarhinehart9668 Not sure who this was in response to but maybe some of us have family members who are/were addicts (like my brother) and that's why we feel this way. Sometimes the empathy for addicts is leached out of you. Still feel enormous empathy for her child and family though.
“I hang out with crackheads, not family”
As if that’s an excuse or reason. I literally laughed out loud when she said that
bruh like that makes it better
She being honest tho
It do be hard to hangout with families tho especially when ya can’t relate to their mundane things
She knows she will be judged, because compared to her they all normal!.. being around junkies all day.. you never have to feel that guilt or pain…
They are running
Okay The Bearded Gamer
Ive been in her shoes n i know how that is. Ive been clean for 10 years now.
Congratulations 🎉. Keep going!! 😃
Congrats i’m at 2 years and counting!
@@Ohhhoneyyy Thanks, im also a suvorvior of Domestic Abuse/violence.
Im still dealing with the emotional scars from the abuse.
that's good, same to you.
Breanna Baxtron whoop whoop 👍🤙🎉
@David DeVito Ive two children. Ive lost alot of things. Ive come back stronger then ever n become even stronger. Ive been down n out.
That boy reminds me of me when even after asking where my mother was going I'd follow her. And she would say she's going out for a bit and will be back. Then find myself after midnight still waiting for her. Sometimes she'd be gone almost a week before returning. I was living off bread, ketchup, and cheerios.
I begged my neighbours for food and I remember an old couple across the hall took me in. The wife made the best lemonade and they were guardian angels to me. I think God sent them when my parents kept abandoning me. The old couple always checked up on me. When I was alone for too long I'd knock on their door and they would provide for me. They were amazing. They're probably not alive anymore but I wish I can thank them.
I had parents that were addicts. I was taken into foster care and raised by a loving family. Even though I was saved, and never touched drugs and alcohol till this day I'm still suffering for my parents actions and I'm almost 30. Haven't seen my parents in 17 years. I don't even remember what they look like.
Meth heads are hard to convince. She wasn't ready to be a mom and she resents her son. She's bored by him and that's how the rationalizes creeping out and taking vacations. All her interactions with him are stroking her ego. Then she has the audacity to blame others for doing normal things after she singles herself out for being supposedly special enough to do drugs. No sorrow for her. She needs some hard losses to understand what she's doing. People are being way too nice to her.
She should be jailed
Eyes Dut no
Im recovering from my additions Meth n Crack Cocaine. Meth is the hardest drug to come off of. Do you know how hard it is to get off of it?
Boot Scoot, have you ever been addicted to any thing?
I understand all tooooo well what she's going through.
Im also a vic. of Domestic Abuse/violence. Im having to deal with that every day. Ive lost things that I loved that means everything to me.
@@aurorarose280 I was on meth for a couple years. That's how I understand what she's going through
@@bootscooty 👍👍👍
I hope she got help. That poor little boy i hope to god hes ok.
She went to treatment and left treatment and relapsed 😞
Deana Wells sad:(
@@deanawells4395 are u for reals
So she back on drugs again and putting her family towards stess again.
this episode was so hard to watch...
Omg hey girl!!!!! I watch your videos 😂😂😂😂
Imagine going through this (I did) I'm 110% sure that boy is dissociating and resenting his mother for the time she spent getting high rather then the time spent rasing her son.
Kids gonna go ballistic or hurt himself when he grows up if he gets no help
I'm watching this episode now! Love ya mama goose✌🏻✌🏻✌🏻
Extremely
This is why I recommend having kids in your 30s. Still plenty young, and use your 20s to build your career like crazy, have young fun and get yourself together. My family has done it for generations, and better to be childless in your 20s than in your 50s (if you like kids).
You're right. Unfortunately a lot of women have diffuculties conceiving past 30. For me it wasn't a problem at all, I had my first at 31, the second followed at 32 and I was pretty much done with everything. Still studying besides job, because it's never enough education.
You’re so right! Most of my family started having kids 18-22 and they’re great parents but didn’t get a chance to blow off that extra steam. Just entered my 20s and I’m planning on stopping the young mom cycle for good!
Agreed. I’m 24 now and can recognize I’m definitely not ready to raise a child yet. My mom was in her mid 30s when she had me and my sister and we had a really good childhood.
@@cathrinerhardt no necessarily true at least for my family anyways, both my aunts had their kids in their mid to late 30s so it is not impossible at that age. But every family is different though
@@cathrinerhardt "it's never enough education." YUP. I love that. There's so much interesting stuff in the world
She wants to be a mom so bad, but being in and out of a child's life and behaving this way in front of that child will break them. This poor kid doesn't deserve to go through this trauma she's causing. I'm glad this kid at least has his nana to be a role model for him and take care of him properly
Oh man that poor kid is going to need so much therapy I hope all is going well for him now
I was in active addiction for years until I found out I was pregnant with my son. I got clean and I thank the lord every day that he allowed me to get sober for my son so he didn't have to go thru something like this! This is heartbreaking
Never hug someone when they are having a panic attack or anxiety it just exasperates the problem.
That girl kept trying to force herself on her with unwanted hugs. It is like just leave her alone.
well it depends. i don't get panic attacks but i do get horrible anxiety attacks and in those moments hugs really helps me calm down. It might just be because i'm a very physically affectionate person tho, i guess everyone is different. I do get why touching someone during a panic attack isn't a good idea, from what i've heard it feels like youre gonna die and i can imagine getting a hug at that moment can make it worse
She wasn’t having a panic attack she was coming down from drugs
@@scorseseholic ignorant
@@Flusterette accurate. I suffer from panic attacks and anxiety I know what they look like and feel like. She’s an addict that’s why she’s on the show INTERVENTION. She happily received a hug from her cousin moments earlier but the one who knows her better and tries to comfort her she rejected because she didn’t want to hear the truth about her addiction and face her reality.
The whole series of Intervention shows should be played in every school’s anti drug program
That's facts its way better than whatever they do now
That’s actually not a bad idea
💯 %
The idea of an “anti-drug program” is ridiculous in the first place. Drugs aren’t bad. Abusing drugs is bad.
Wow that's a really good idea!!
That poor boy. It’s heartbreaking.
I love how she’s blaming everybody for it. She’s the one that chose the drugs over her child so nobody’s doing anything, she’s doing it to herself.
Correct me if I’m wrong but she never once blamed anyone for her addiction
i feel sorry for the son. His mom left him at such a young age.
did she die?
This special day was for your son and you made it about you. Please get help. I pray for your recovery. God bless you.
So sad. I'm blessed to have amazing, sober parents.
“I can’t breathe!” she yells clearly.
Would you say the same thing about George Floyd?
@@traviszacher6028 George Floyd died from being choked due to asphyxiation, so no, I wouldn’t. Nice try though.
The girl who insists on a hug mid anxiety attack then goes “ooh la la” would make me keep using crack out of pure spite
Her “best friend”
Poor kid. So lucky grandma’s an angel.
Man I feel so sorry for that little boy.
I only hope he grows up to be a good man.
"he said mom I want to open presents" good lord, drugs or not, she's a self centered person. Drugs only do so much to someone personality. She's always been that way internally I'm sure.
i noticed that too, everything has to center around her and be about her, even on someone else’s birthday. she probably considers it HER birthday just because it’s her son lmao
No daddy around or No sober minded mommy around kids thrown to grandma ... generational cycle continues...😢
At least that little boy is being raised by people who love him and will put him first. That kid doesn't need to be dragged into his mother's mess.
Why does her friend continue to grab her and get in her face when she’s clearly having a panic attack?
seriously it was giving ME anxiety lol. People dont get that when youre having those attacks you need to be nearby, but not smothering. Mental health issues are so poorly understood.
Glad I finally found this comment. Thank you for noticing that.
I truly thought...in these comment sections of bashing that there wasn't anyone who actually understands anxiety. Thank you for this.
I have MASSIVE anxiety. It has nothing to to with being Selfish, whatsoever!
Some people just make me want to cry. How do they not even attempt to understand how it must feel to have this elephant on your back. Lord God, So shameful OF THEM
I dated a girl who had anxiety attacks and I thought she was nuts until I had one myself. It ain't no joke. I thought I was dying.
She's not having an anxiety attack she's coming down from the drugs
Addicts always make everything about them. I know because I have been around addicts for a huge chunk of my life. It is sad and painful watching someone you love dissolve right in front of your eye.
Not true
This brings tears to me. I know just how lost the family members of an addict feels. The denial & pain brought on by the addiction is real, but just admitting isn't enough. GOD BLESS US ALL EFFECTED BY THIS EPIDEMIC
@David DeVito I have MY life together. Unfortunately my daughter doesn't right now. The world is filled with advice but short on action. I truly hope you are never put in this predicament.
How much the son would rather be with her and do ANYTHING with her than be at his own party :( Awwww sweet kid.
"I wanted something small!"
"I can't handle this!"
"I can't even watch mu son open his presents!"
"I Hang out with crackheads, I don't hang out with family!"
"I, I, I, I, I, I, I,"
Anyone else noticing a pattern here?
I hope her mom has custody of Caleb because God knows he doesn’t need that kind of instability in his life.
when someone tells you to back off back off
I have no sympathy for her. Her poor child.
My sympathy is for the boy and the family.
This episode was heartbreaking! My parents battled with heroin and cocaine. I was 4 when my dad had a heart attack & passed away. I was 5 when my mom took her life. It might sound bad to say but I'm thankful I didn't have to go through what this little boy is going through!
How can they sing and open presents without you, Mom? It's not about you. It's about Kaleb. I know that addicts are in a super selfish place but it's so sad that he has to see his Mom like that. Maybe they could have arranged for just a short one on one time with mom and son but not at the party. So sad for everyone involved.
The way she is with her kid reminds me of the addict that lives in my building with her young daughter. Loves her so much but it’s heartbreaking because she acts so irritable when she needs.
I mean , I can see both sides. As someone with anxiety who isn’t an addict that wasn’t a small party... she wanted to spend time with her son. On the other hand he deserves to see all of his family regardless of how mom is feeling. I feel sorry for them both and I hope she gets help
That party looked tiny to me. They might have a huge family and that was small for them. My family is gigantic the parties are ridiculous.
I have been clean for 9 months and seeing this .. literally brakes my heart.. I pray god never to go back to my old habits.
Stay safe everyone
*breaks .. my bad lol
@@exequielvega506 💜 GOD BLESS YOU 🙏 PRAYING FOR YOUR HEALTH & HAPPINESS IN YOUR SOBRIETY. STAY WITH IT, IT DOES GET EASIER, I PROMISE! TAKE CARE, NAMASTE 🙏😊💜💜💜
@@katymcginn4644 thank you ❤️
“Why are they singing and smiling while I’M not there!??”
Because it’s NOT all about YOU… Melanie.
This child completely broke me down I can't even imagine his mom and family ❤️hope everything gets better in your life's ❤️❤️excuse my bad English ,your son is gorgeous
I'm just going to say this, because throughout my childhood/teenage years my family never understood this and neither does this family. I've never done drugs but I do have acute anxiety that would often look something like that. If someone is clearly panicked and anxious for whatever reason and says don't touch them... DON'T TOUCH THEM, DON'T TRAP THEM, DON'T CORNER THEM... In this case the family and cameras were making it so much worse by piling into the room with her and getting in her face against a wall.
Kaylee I agree. I also know how she feels on the anxiety part and I even felt overwhelmed and anxious watching that part ❤️
@Suspicious Ned "panicked or anxious for whatever reason" Be it a comedown which can heighten or create a sense of anxiety or a pre-existing anxiety disorder, she was pretty clear about not wanting people touching her. My point still being, the family and cameras were only making the problem worse because of what they were doing.
On a light note, that chik in the black hat is beautiful!
There are no words to describe a mother like that…
Mothers with addiction don't know how hard it is on their children, it's a miserable gut punch feeling and it's also embarrassing going through life knowing you can't help
Yep my mom showed up drunk to every baseball game and left early on my graduation to drink. It was embarrassing seeing other friends with their parents.
@@TheSlashSlingingSlasher it’s very embarrassing
That's exactly how to describe it
My heart breaks for the boy. I hope he’s able to have therapy at some point to deal with this trauma.
Dang i knew what she was on, one of my family members struggled with this for years..It is so sad..They are still human, even with their addictions...Sometimes it takes tough love to help someone..
“How can they live like I’m not even there” cause life goes on whether you’re in it or not
You could have stayed and watch presents but you started to throw a fit and get dope sick .
I'm guessing she was in withdrawal or her dealer contacted her and she pulled this anxiety bit as an excuse to leave. I hope she is better..love her sons little heart 😔
This is heartbreaking. 😓
Melanie: "I'm the mommy"
Me: Then act like one.
BAM!
I recommend having walls of mirrors!!
Not just because it makes a room look larger but also I can see myself clearer.
More then three in a room opens a portal for 👻 .just saying
She is a beautiful woman and beautiful mama I hope she got clean.
She belong to da skreetz
This woman reminds me of my cousin , if it wasn’t for my aunt or uncle her son would have been in the system , funny thing too is she blames her parents for everything but nobody forced drugs down your throat !
Having a kid should be a good enough reason to quit drugs , if you can’t t and have family who step in than you should appreciate those ppl not bash them
Home girl had a panic attack over what? Open the presents and spend time with your son... is that so hard to do?
I have dealt with anxiety my whole adult life and it’s not helpful when I’m having a panic attack and someone tries to touch or hug me. I have tried to explain this to people several times and they don’t get it and get upset and make everything worst. So I learned to run and hide when a panic attack starts until I calm down. I sooooo get her!
Poor kid, his mom could careless about herself or him.
I want to give her a huge hug dude, i legit had the same situation on my daughyers 1st birthday love 💕
I think Melanie would benefit From mindfulness just being by herself in a calm space. And focusing on herself and relaxing
This is terrible. I’m 25 and I have a 4 month old. I was drinking wayyy too much and when I found out I was pregnant I stopped and never looked back because that’s what you do when you’re sharing your body and life and motherhood with another human who is completely dependent on you.
i bet half the people dunking on her have never been addicts lmao. i feel so bad for her and her son.
Either that or they are telling themselves they aren’t addicts. They can stop anytime they like, they just don’t want to. So easy to blame and shame much harder to understand and off appropriate support
I was shooting meth every day, when I found out I was pregnant I stopped, no detox, no treatment, no support groups. I have anxiety and went on proper medication to manage it. It's not that hard, people make it hard.
I have no sympathy for her. I feel sorry for her kid that she drags him into her dope drama.
Amanda Kedrowski thank you! People will make a million excuses for why they can’t do something when in reality, deep down they don’t want to!!
@@Cscott1821 yep, I agree. It was my choice to start using, and my choice to continue, and my choice to quit. And yes, most people use drugs or alchohol because they have a mental illness driving the need to feel better, but I really believe that labeling it as a disease takes away the addicts power.
I cant even finish this video. Breaks my heart to see how much he wants to spend time with his mom and she's just not there - mind focused in her addiction
She was given the chance to get clean and be with her son and leaves treatment to relapse..... what a shame
That kid deserves so much more than this
Lord. I completely understand her. She is me. Thank God I just smoke weed but she is hurt and just wants to feel loved. It’s possible she also suffers from depression and other mental health issues clearly she’s having a panic attack. I can relate my family is the same way. I pray she heals.
my mom was like this on so many of my birthdays, ill forever hate her and never forgive her. i hope her son is more forgiving than me
Look I know she’s not perfect but she is clearly having a meltdown. She says don’t touch, she tells them she is experiencing anxiety and they crowd her into the corner of a bathroom. Then they chase her outside once again crowding and trying for a hug. Any chance that chick has of calming herself went out the window at that point
Never been a drug addict but I know with anxiety people overwhelming you is huge. When I say I need space I need SPACE!!
She needed space because she panic to not have her next shoot.... 🙄
We gon rock out with these glizzys like we rock out at these shows🔥🔥
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It’s so sad that she’s making this whole party about her instead of him.. he deserves much better ❤️
Typical addict - blames everyone and everything else for her problems. Its so tragic to see what she's doing to her son and the life long damaging effects her behavior is going to have on him.
i can see she’s trying too be there for him unlike most addicts that care only about themselves, but she really needs help and she knows that i hope she’s better now
I've been in her position and I never disrespected my mom or my kid by being a complete drama queen and making his day about her.
This reminds me of my ex roommate and it’s a blessing that kaleb has his grandma. My ex roommates mom really stepped up for her grandson
It was very sad, that she didn't even have the energy, or patience to play with him, building his Lego, when he wanted. These times, these Birthday traumas will deeply effect him.
My grandmother is so torn. Heartbreaking