Marriage & Money Ep. 3: Drs. Contessa & Scott Metcalfe: Doctors Need Healing Too

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  • čas přidán 24. 08. 2024
  • In a touching and honest sit down, "Married To Medicine" Drs. Contessa and Scott Metcalfe discuss therapy, separation, and maintaining a marriage when the reality TV cameras are off.
    On the heels of all their success on HGTV's "Married To Real Estate," fans have requested more access and knowledge to the two as it pertains to their lessons on marriage and relationships as well as wealth-building strategies, catalyzing the Marriage & Money Podcast. The weekly podcast is full of humorous stories, valuable life hacks, honest & meaty marriage dilemmas, wealth & legacy-building knowledge, and special guests. Also available on iHeart Radio, Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and Amazon Music.

Komentáře • 195

  • @lawestphilly
    @lawestphilly Před rokem +59

    Dr Contessa is the total package brains beauty and financially responsible. My kinda role model 💯🖐

  • @vintagelove7702
    @vintagelove7702 Před rokem +11

    Wow, when Egypt and Mike explained the "Manish" part, she hit the nail on the head. I found myself being masculine because I didn't feel safe. I always felt that way but never could put that into words. She and Mike explained it perfectly, so thank you for that truth that so many couples experience. #thatpart

    • @sandragibson4173
      @sandragibson4173 Před rokem

      I agree. Wish I had understood that earlier in my life.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem +4

      Yes every action stems from something... an emotion. If we can learn to articulate the emotion versus acting it out, we can communicate our needs better and in a way that can be reciprocated.

  • @madameclark3453
    @madameclark3453 Před rokem +9

    I’ve been stressing about being homeless since I was 4 years old. I get it. I did become homeless in my youth. Today, I’m going to retire with a warm and safe place to lay my head and a meal in my tummy.

    • @thebattlesbelieversgroup7951
      @thebattlesbelieversgroup7951 Před rokem +1

      Wow!! Thank you for sharing. This gives me insight to my own children’s lives, and memories. 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @FloJoBum
      @FloJoBum Před 23 dny

      @@madameclark3453 happy for you and God’s blessings upon your retirement life!👏🏼😊

  • @elainepalmer7979
    @elainepalmer7979 Před rokem +10

    Egypt and Mike, this podcast is so rich and important to family. Keep up the great work.

  • @karenplater6350
    @karenplater6350 Před rokem +8

    I'm so happy that Contessa and Scott went to counseling and is working things out in their marriage.

  • @Mochadee2003
    @Mochadee2003 Před rokem +7

    ❤ The Metcalfes I’m so glad that they did the work on rebuilding their marriage. I ❤ the show. The hosts are so transparent

  • @QueenC89
    @QueenC89 Před rokem +4

    Married to Medicine has done this couple an injustice. They are engaging and I have truly enjoyed this segment. ❤

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem

      Yes on reality tv you only get a snapshot.

  • @Kedia12
    @Kedia12 Před rokem +6

    So Contessa speaks so much better here than she did or what was shown on married to medicine.

  • @FloJoBum
    @FloJoBum Před 3 měsíci +1

    This is a great wonderful show that young singles should listen to to learn how to become husbands and wives. It really prepares you for a relationship and not blindly enter a marriage and learn from the school of hard knocks.

  • @danielleh4998
    @danielleh4998 Před rokem +4

    Dr. Contessa and Dr. Scott are amazing! I’m so happy that they chose go to therapy and make their marriage work. They dropped some 💎

  • @moormorebooks5103
    @moormorebooks5103 Před rokem +2

    Just subbed. Didn’t know they had a podcast. I think a great unspoken takeaway from this….you first have to have a good foundation in a relationship. Dr Contessa and Dr Scott were very compatible. My husband and I both come from previous marriages. We were living the ideal life just a few days ago and I got some really bad news. Because we have a good foundation, I’m surprisingly not devastated. I actually said today, “When we get through this it will be a testimony”. I think in our community many couples come from dysfunction and bring that into a marriage. And one thing that’s certain is challenges, crisis will come. If you’re already on shaky ground (marrying someone whom you’re not equally yoked or not compatible) it will be almost impossible to stand.

  • @rai55
    @rai55 Před rokem +9

    When I tell you I’m OBSESSED with this podcast since discovering it 4 days ago!✨❤️ Keep dropping those jewels 💞

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem +2

      That is such a compliment we don't take lightly. Thank you for being a part of our tribe!

  • @Konkretelotus
    @Konkretelotus Před rokem +6

    I love it here! This is so needed even for us “SINGLE INDIVIDUALS”

  • @robinchism8704
    @robinchism8704 Před rokem +4

    I am loving this podcast I was married to my husband 18 years got divorced for 7 and remarried him again now we have been married since 2011 I agree with most of what you are saying I like and love my husband now more than ever we pretty much grew up together and learned a lot about each other

    • @sandragibson4173
      @sandragibson4173 Před rokem +1

      That part! You can love your spouse but not like them!

  • @jantoles
    @jantoles Před rokem +6

    You guys just keep getting "gooder and gooder"!!! 🙂I LOVE IT!!!! So far, ALL of your guests gonna have to come back!!!

    • @toniwilson5832
      @toniwilson5832 Před rokem +1

      I love gooder too lol! I usually say more gooder from the commercial 🤣

  • @delorisnixon444
    @delorisnixon444 Před rokem +6

    I'm not really a fan of podcasts, but I'm hooked! Glad I stumbled upon this. Your genuineness and transparency with your guests and audience, as well as the guests transparency, has destined this to be a success. PLUS, I love everything that you guys do. Good people. ❤

  • @MrsDMG2024
    @MrsDMG2024 Před rokem +6

    QUICKLY becoming one of my favorite podcasts.
    Thank you for your transparency!

  • @Justnik05
    @Justnik05 Před rokem +7

    Wow! I'm really enjoying these. Love you two! I've followed Egypt since (for me) her early days on HGTV. So glad Mike had the idea. Blessings on both for keeping God and true-to-life decisions in the conversations.

  • @sigma_man886
    @sigma_man886 Před rokem +3

    I really enjoyed hearing the husband perspective. What I got from this was don't be stuck in it but grow from it ... powerful episode!!!

  • @elles.6768
    @elles.6768 Před rokem +12

    I love the show, the episodes are never long enough! Please invite Kandi and Todd.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem +3

      Noted and thank you!

    • @delorisnixon444
      @delorisnixon444 Před rokem

      That would be interesting. I might be a little nervous about that one.

  • @Finishedin52Insurance
    @Finishedin52Insurance Před rokem +5

    Thank you for your transparency. I pray many blessings over everyones marriage and family in Jesus Name.🙏🙏🙏

  • @diquecannon
    @diquecannon Před rokem +3

    So happy to see Black ⚫️ Excellence in love from both couples, thank you kindly 🙏

  • @stacyo.1080
    @stacyo.1080 Před rokem +3

    That happened to me also. Citibank was waiting for me freshman year in the student union and I had no money or clue about money management because my parents didn’t talk to me about money . I didn’t get on track until my late 20s and fast forward many years, my credit score is excellent and I have been able to show my daughter the road to money management and 2 years after college, her score is fantastic. I just love your show and the topics you bring to surface.

  • @RobynHeliece
    @RobynHeliece Před rokem +3

    Great episode. This is what we want to see on black reality shows. Contessa looks gorgeous!!!

  • @susancastro2261
    @susancastro2261 Před rokem +2

    Dr Contessa is a great communicator I love that she worked at her marriage and loves her husband. Egypt & Mike are so wonderful love watching them keep God in the center 👏🏼🥰👏🏼🙏🏼

  • @becausewesaidyesmrs.wilson984

    I LOVE THIS PODCAST… I am Relationship Coach and I am always searching for content, resources, and other materials that are thought provoking. It has also helped me understand and find some new tools for my own marriage! Thank you!!!

  • @diquecannon
    @diquecannon Před rokem +3

    Men we Ladies don't want to be mannish, we want to be soft, as long as you prepare for the leadership ❤

  • @bobbie4165
    @bobbie4165 Před rokem +5

    My new therapy session. Love this my husband is really getting Into this so thankful he's talking about his childhood through this podcast.

  • @cynthiajackson3038
    @cynthiajackson3038 Před rokem +3

    Thanks Mike and Egypt for having my two favorite doctors on. Keep it Real!

  • @ADivaAlways
    @ADivaAlways Před rokem +6

    Keep this up please! I loved the one to go on and grow on tips at the end. I wholeheartedly agree with both of you. This podcast gives me that warm cozy feeling you have when you’re in a spiritually sound environment. ❤

  • @cherylwalker7923
    @cherylwalker7923 Před rokem +4

    This was such a great interview. Giving thanks to both couples for your transparency.

  • @darlenewilliams-moore9569

    Hello Mike & Egypt: You guys are so down to earth and keep it real and in perspective, most definitely your the (Power Couple)❤💯, Luv your podcast, Good Luck, Luv this Session with the Doctor’s ( Black Love)❤

  • @chanreka
    @chanreka Před rokem +5

    Such a beautiful conversation!!!

  • @jacquih8804
    @jacquih8804 Před rokem +5

    This episode was "soooo" GOOD!

  • @jessicam7872
    @jessicam7872 Před rokem +6

    This is why my husband and I have separate bathrooms. Lol

  • @c.r.1940
    @c.r.1940 Před rokem +3

    I always loved them! Thank you for being so transparent. I love to see our beautiful black queens not only mothers, but successful, brilliant, courageous, and willing to not assist with bringing their kings to the top with them. Teamwork makes the dream work. Keep doing phenomenal things. Much love and respect ❤❤

  • @Msgroovystyle
    @Msgroovystyle Před rokem +2

    Such good honest and open dialog. I have been married 25 years and I'm learning some jewels from your podcast🥰🥰🥰

  • @latashawesley2198
    @latashawesley2198 Před rokem +5

    This is so on point. I totally love this episode. The viewers need more of this ❤😊

  • @lashaundadiaz7453
    @lashaundadiaz7453 Před rokem +3

    I have always loved and admired Dr. Contessa. I am inspired by her the most out of all of the women on M2M!

  • @crystalharris-thomas1939

    Dr. Scott that was beautiful. Go get your wife. Don't ever let her get away.. That's right she is a queen and your her king. I love you two ❤️ All four of you are awesome ❤️

  • @Tgallager2742
    @Tgallager2742 Před 2 měsíci

    I love Contessa she's my favorite on 'Married to Medicine' love her

  • @kayl7189
    @kayl7189 Před rokem +5

    Awesome awesome awesome!! Please rehearse the “femininity” part again women need to hear that. I can tell when my husband is turned off with me so I know when to back down but my sisters don’t and their husbands “do the most” 😳🙁

  • @stylesbyp9137
    @stylesbyp9137 Před rokem +4

    True words at the end Mike! You must love and like the person who you are married to.

  • @jerralynh7335
    @jerralynh7335 Před rokem +5

    Love this episode and the transparency!❤

    • @lindak3545
      @lindak3545 Před rokem

      Yes!! They all kept it REAL real!! ❤👍🏽

  • @travelwithsouthernchick5112

    Really like to see shows like this! It put light on family issues and how to reprogram ourselves to do better!!

  • @deeCheeBee5
    @deeCheeBee5 Před rokem +1

    This one made me smile the whole time! Thank Scott and Contessa. I used to watch the show. I stopped watching for my own personal reasons! I appreciate your honesty and growth! Keeps shining. Mike and Egypt we adore you!

  • @teresacathey8189
    @teresacathey8189 Před rokem +3

    Hello. This was a very good episode. Enjoyed your guest. Young people should be listening to this because nowadays people don’t put in the work to try and stay together, they get mad, and want to break up at the least little thing. Another words, they don’t want to listen or communicate with one another to try and solve the issues. 🥰🥰🥰

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem

      Yes that's why we started this podcast, to build community and show people LOVE and MARRIAGE can work.

  • @TOMMYBITESTV
    @TOMMYBITESTV Před rokem +3

    My husband and I both had bad credit for the same reasons. Well my husband first started building his back better and placed me on his and now mine is almost
    Better then his. We aren’t really taught about credit like that.

  • @denital7666
    @denital7666 Před rokem +2

    This is great! It goes to show if you are willing do the work to be a better you as an individual and couple with the understanding that holding yourself accountable via the lens of transparency built on a strong foundation of faith will grow that union. When you two agree that ignorance within your marriage is not an option, marriages can grow. I will be subscribing to this channel.👏👏👏👏👏👏🙏

  • @kellyguy7990
    @kellyguy7990 Před rokem +4

    Yes!!
    Mike and Egypt, thank you.
    I'm loving this

  • @jerlynnghee207
    @jerlynnghee207 Před rokem +2

    Love the transparency in this episode. I am the overly communicative, and my husband internalize. This helped me see how my childhood affects how I am in my marriage. Thank you!!

  • @teridavis5050
    @teridavis5050 Před rokem +2

    Thank you for sharing this information. Transparency is important for financial stability in marriage. Secondly, the humbleness from this successful couple is important. They could have hidden their financial information.

  • @juanitasmartofremaxexcelle5080

    OMG...This was Extraordinary!! I sent it to my husband, friends, clients, children. There is soo much in here for everybody. Especially if we choose to do the hard work, after acknowledging the fact that there is indeed a problem...Thank you!!

  • @buhakeg
    @buhakeg Před rokem +3

    This is so good and revealing of so much for me in my past and current relationship. Thanks Egypt, mike and Drs Contessa and Scott!

  • @princessbc9791
    @princessbc9791 Před rokem +2

    I agree w/Contessa on a lot of things, especially money. Most of my friends know if you ask me for money and I don't see you that day to return it, I will be calling you the next day. So, when I've given money, they call me immediately if they can't pay it back. And when they find out I move that way, they always stop asking.

  • @julielove8932
    @julielove8932 Před rokem +3

    After watching this today, hmmmmm....i pray for this union. 🙏🏾

  • @realtalkwithtammycooper2318

    Truly a fantastic inspiring transparent show. Thank you, I pray your platform and reach of influence will experience abundant growth.

  • @marywilson7651
    @marywilson7651 Před rokem +3

    Love the show. So heartfelt and informative. Keep it coming.

  • @sugraliaferrell9030
    @sugraliaferrell9030 Před rokem +3

    I love me some Dr. Contessa

  • @MsMekia-yy9qb
    @MsMekia-yy9qb Před rokem +4

    I loved everything about this episode. 💜

  • @ThePhoenix-me5ni
    @ThePhoenix-me5ni Před rokem +4

    I’m really enjoying this series!

  • @diquecannon
    @diquecannon Před rokem +4

    Joint account for bills and separate accounts for personal purposes ❤

  • @tonyatalented4275
    @tonyatalented4275 Před rokem +3

    God bless their marriages!!

  • @richardgreen8950
    @richardgreen8950 Před rokem +3

    OMGoodness I absolutely love you two..

  • @dlfaulkner1
    @dlfaulkner1 Před rokem +2

    Ya'll are funny. Sounds like my hubby and I. We work together everyday too. I'll finish looking at this tonight. Have a blessed day,

  • @lolitaforest6197
    @lolitaforest6197 Před rokem +3

    Congratulations on this show I'm enjoying it. I'm not married but, it's giving everything.....

    • @lizt.3176
      @lizt.3176 Před rokem +1

      Me either sis. However, I really enjoy the topics and open conversations between the hosts and the guests.

  • @anniehall1919
    @anniehall1919 Před rokem +4

    Beautiful couple the Scotts💕

  • @SeyoDeline
    @SeyoDeline Před rokem +1

    This was the best! When you hear people that make you realise you're not crazy. I was on their wavelength even as a teenager! 🦉

  • @jhurbon12
    @jhurbon12 Před rokem +3

    I am really enjoying your podcast Egypt & Mike!!!❤❤❤❤❤😊

  • @HealthPursuits
    @HealthPursuits Před rokem +1

    Thank you for the refreshing transparency and laughter!!

  • @PatriciaShortsColbert
    @PatriciaShortsColbert Před rokem +3

    Thank you for this yall real and raw .

  • @ladonnaspencer340
    @ladonnaspencer340 Před rokem +1

    One my favorite relationship podcast now!! I love Mike & Egypt and all of the beautiful couples that come on the show to share their stories…💕

  • @AllOfKee
    @AllOfKee Před rokem +2

    Luv Dr. Contessa

  • @Sandra-ly1ss
    @Sandra-ly1ss Před rokem +2

    This was such a great video/discussion! Thank you for sharing these dynamics, these are real issues in marriage. ❤

  • @thisisHowHedidit
    @thisisHowHedidit Před rokem +3

    FANTASTIC EPISODE ONCE AGAIN!! I JUST LOVE YOU TWO!! AND YES, SHOUT OUT TO THE SCORPIO GANG!! 11/10 🦂♏ #SCORPIOSARENOTCRAZY LOL

  • @rosaborian
    @rosaborian Před rokem +2

    Thank you coz Man always say am menish but now i realise that i have never had someone to lean on

  • @ayannagrant3668
    @ayannagrant3668 Před rokem +2

    This episode resonates with me. Being married 23 years. Counseloring was very important to us before we got married. Also couples marriage retreats helps as well. I look forward to more episodes. My Take away on finances . We are stronger when our strategy of savings are together.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem

      That seems to be the strategy working for many of the couples.

  • @sentherengmotshwaiwa813
    @sentherengmotshwaiwa813 Před 6 měsíci

    I'm really enjoying your podcasts. Dr Contessa is my girl, I think I'm more like her when it comes to life and money. Thank you, we are learning all the time 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @Sojournerofhope
    @Sojournerofhope Před rokem +2

    Love the transparency

  • @log...
    @log... Před rokem +3

    Love your segment! I'm learning so much! Awesome interview

  • @roxannewilliams7913
    @roxannewilliams7913 Před 8 měsíci +1

    I love watching these videos. You guys give great marital advice.

  • @natashawashington7834
    @natashawashington7834 Před rokem +2

    I really enjoyed this episode. 🎉❤ I enjoy them all immensely.

  • @shonbond8074
    @shonbond8074 Před rokem +3

    I am in marriage counseling before I get remarried again thru this podcast. I guess my husband to be need to show up.

  • @tonyatalented4275
    @tonyatalented4275 Před rokem +2

    That's was Fire Scott!!

  • @FYIRFILLED
    @FYIRFILLED Před 2 měsíci

    Awesome one to grow on, Egypt. Amen 🙏🏽

  • @deborahwhaley6395
    @deborahwhaley6395 Před rokem +2

    I love you guys, Egypt and Mike! ❤️❤️

  • @tanishalavernegrant9774
    @tanishalavernegrant9774 Před rokem +2

    Wow! Just Wow! Whew! Another great show!

  • @rubyredd6366
    @rubyredd6366 Před rokem +1

    Enlightening interview!
    Liked them on Married to Medicine! Very profound and lovely business educated loving couple! ✨️✨️

  • @deyaonsotti9594
    @deyaonsotti9594 Před rokem +1

    Excellent episode! Grateful for their transparency.

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem +1

      They indeed brought it all to the table!

  • @kimbranch4242
    @kimbranch4242 Před rokem +3

    This was amazing I learned a lot

  • @ylondascott6789
    @ylondascott6789 Před rokem +2

    I respect and love them both even more❤

  • @nakitapurrher
    @nakitapurrher Před rokem +1

    Great platinum. Thanks for the time and transparency.

  • @lynnettereid424
    @lynnettereid424 Před rokem +3

    This was excellent!

  • @cjbfire95
    @cjbfire95 Před rokem +4

    Mike is definitely handsome!

  • @hellenstrong8628
    @hellenstrong8628 Před rokem +3

    Loving the shows and Your guests 🙏🏾♥️💯🌹💯♥️🙏🏾👍🏽🤟👌👋🖐🏾👀👊🏻🙏🏾

    • @egyptandmike
      @egyptandmike  Před rokem

      Thank you! We love them too.

    • @avisrobinson1150
      @avisrobinson1150 Před rokem

      @@egyptandmike I am truly enjoying your podcast, I am so thankful you both decided to do this. I would love to see Samuel L. Jackson & LaTanya Richardson. Denzel & Pauletta Pearson-Washington, Cameron & Lauren Hamilton from Love is Blind. Just a few for now🤣.. Seriously this is the best Podcast on CZcams for me. Congratulations and keep up the great work!!

  • @jenniferu5955
    @jenniferu5955 Před rokem +2

    Love this show !!!!

  • @nahomieriche4827
    @nahomieriche4827 Před rokem +2

    I so enjoy you guys podcast Mike and Egypt😊

  • @candidbutsweet9613
    @candidbutsweet9613 Před rokem +1

    This was really a 👍🏽 conversation.

  • @ninaprior49
    @ninaprior49 Před rokem

    I ,over this video Scott and Contessa are great and the bomb. So authentic, loved it.

  • @lynettegreene9265
    @lynettegreene9265 Před rokem +1

    Very well said. I enjoyed the interview.