I often wondered what this meant. Top 5 people you hang with.. The way I see it is every person you pull from for self-improvement isn't always in your backyard or your contact list. Sometimes those people are from the past. Sometimes those people are authors of books and speakers on a podcast. Influence isn't always face to face in-person personal. Sometimes it's you and a book, you and a course, or you and a CZcams subscription.
I mean... If you're consuming content about communication skills, & you are actively sharpening them, then don't you get to have your cake & eat it too?
as a result, if you're struggling with your own identity, spend time with yourself. understand your body and its needs and you'll feel more comfortable in your own skin
If you are struggling with your own identity STAY OFF SOCIAL MEDIA. Watching Tick Toc and CZcams videos of other people telling you about their Gender Identity delusions is just going to reinforce delusional behavior. Bad company corrupts good morals. Look up Medscape articles about PSYCHGENIC EPIDEMICS . This used to be called " mass hysteria". In 2020 Emergency Rooms saw a 600% increase of false facial Ticks and Tourettes cases . The psychgenic epidemic was traced to a handful of content creators on Tick Toc. Children and teens were watching these videos and unconsciously imitating the facial Ticks. We now have an unprecedented 1500% increase in Gender Dysphoria and Body Dysphoria amoung young people in America over the last 2 years. Doctors, hospitals and Pharmaseutical companies are exploiting the most vulnerable members of our society, children and adolescents PURELY FOR FINANCIAL GAIN. Cutting off healthy breasts, giving puberty blockers and Hormone Replacement Therapy. GENITAL MUTILATION FOR PROFIT. And calling it " Gender Affirming Care." It is neither CARING NOR AFFIRMING. It is MUTILIATION and PERMENANT STERILIZATION FOR PROFIT. THIS IS EVIL. Brainwashing confused young people into a Cult. The behavior of all involved is clearly Cult Like. Anyone who speaks out on this is labeled " SEXIST" " RACIST" " "TRASPHOBIC". Free Speech is no longer allowed. Now they are trying to COMPEL SPEECH. This is the first step of All TOTALITARIAN REGIMES. " If Freedom of Speech is taken away we will be lead dumb and silent like lambs to the slaughter". George Washington. If you need help healing Body Dysphoria there is a huge amount of work on how to do this. Don't look to the LGBTQ Transgender Cult to find answers. They are promoting DELLUSIONAL behavior. I wish you Clarity and Peace and Joy on your Healing Journey. Hold the Lantern and Light The Way. I am sending regards from Washington State, USA, Jeanne of In Loving Hands Counseling
The bit about student and master really got me. I got a degree in physics but a job in engineering where I don't use any physics or high level math. I realized recently it is a huge detriment to the health of my passion for physics that I don't hang out with anyone smarter than me in that area.
I studied science at Uni (major in physics and mathematics) after getting my engineering qualifications and now wipe asses as my job.. Best decision of my life! Keep it simple and help others no matter how smart you think you are makes you a content and happy person
If I may ask, what sort of engineering job are u doing? I am curious because my son is also studying physics but he may be interested in job in engineering.
@@nayabahmed1245 Automation Engineering where I deal mostly with drafting electrical schematics, assigning electrical parts, and writing control code for industrial machines in the packaging industry. Most skills I've used from college could be covered in a basic electronics course, a java/C class to learn the basics, algebra, and maybe freshmen physics when programming with speeds and accelerations of motors.
🌸 you can read so many books and this in a way is spending time with amazing people I could never leave my humble friends behind, as I always help others. However the negative people around me like bad acid, I ditch them in a heartbeat lol ✨ Happy New Year everyone, make 2023 the best so far 🎉🎊✨💗
Vinh I just Love how you bring your insight, in a humble, loving way, but yet filled with Hope, Encouragement, Allowing us to see our options so that we dont remain stuck ..its so easy to feel stuck & feel captive like we have no ability to change.
In the past, we learnt from people we know and know us, but today, we can learn from many sources as long as we have the time, interest and money. For example, I can learn from you by signing up for your communications courses.
Wow !!! Very very powerful, I have a become clear in what I want over personal development in the last three years and he’s totally right. When I resonated with certain teachers with clarity ,more and more appeared… thank you, appreciate you
Bob Ross was one of my teachers. I watched all of his episodes and loved them. The paintings were great but his teachings were invaluable. Just because we don't hang out with them in person doesn't mean they can't teach us lessons. It's the influence they have upon us. Currently I'm learning fashion/color pallettes from one of my favorite shows.
that's true and i don't think it's bad. some books i read as a child had a huge impact on me and i would even say they had a better influence than a lot of the real persons in my life had.
@@senggaopurusa8843 yeah, that's why it's important to watch good content creators... obviously you can watch humor/entertainment but it's good to throw in a bit of productive/educational stuff too (a few I recommend are Julien Blanc, Cole Hastings, and also the creator who made this short)
Amen! Thats the thing no one wants to admit! But bad people are mostly that way because good people don't want to be around bad people or have them in their life, so all the dumb people, all the bad people, all the outsiders get Trapped, they can only only find other people like them that will stay in their life consistently, so they never learn how to be different
Thank you for a quote from one of my biggest childhood master, Bruce Lee! I was so fascinated w this persona! I adored everything about this great soul! 👌👏☮️🙏🙏🙏
You, David Goggins, Frederick Nietzsche & Alan Watts to name a few.👨🏫 I watch/download ALL of your content to work on my public speaking skills. It's working,thank you. 🙏☯️🧔☯️🥋
When you used the word apparent i instantly thought of the word "Apprentice" and my brain realized how intricate your word play is. Your a craftsman of your work.Thanks for the life changing advice😁
those top 5 could also be characters you see in film and tv, if you are that attached to them and watch them long enough you can drag attributes from fictional characters onto yourself.
I agree...prepare first, only then you find the master. Don't find the master first, and learn the skill because you might end up learn something you don't really need/like. Same concept as sharpening your saw first, then cut down the trees and not the other way around .
I can hold 5 mirrors, definitely. On the flip side though, if you're a reflection of those 5 people, and those 5 people suppose also reflect you, who are you really reflecting?
Bruce Lee quoatation is really impressive as I observed this recently! Secondly This man has mastered the ability to transfer knowledge to lay audience
Right now I have 2 people. They challenge me to be better. But I only see them at work rn :/... regardless I live on my own and don't have many friends so 🤷🏽♂️.. also I need more clarity on the skills I want to master to fill my top 5.
So if you're a reflection of 5 people and the 5 people are each a reflection of 5 people as well and those sets of 5 people are also each a reflection of 5 people too, then who are the original 5 people?
If I could choose who to hang out with, I'd want a millionaire online business owner, an acrobatic, super fit athlete, a martial arts master, a tech genius and a dating expert. 😬
Okay fine. But sometimes you’re not sure where to look to find these individuals you wish to associate with, or perhaps they don’t want to associate with you.
We probably won't take the time to think about it because they don't want to hang out with you and they don't know you're well enough. They also know that if you get information asking them you just ask another question and it'll be more time around the person they don't want to be around. Figure out the skills that you want to have and work on it. You have to do some homework before the master appears and you don't know how much. Nothing is promised but much is available.
People say your pet is a reflection of their owner, so this makes a good bit of sense. I'd say my wife and cat are 2 of the people, then the other 3 vary day to day.
the part of my life where I want to be better, to develop and change to evolve.. I found this channel randomly. so far I have heard only useful and clear advice and teaching. thank you
My 3 Part Communication Skills Course:
gifts.vinhgiang.com/youtube
I often wondered what this meant. Top 5 people you hang with..
The way I see it is every person you pull from for self-improvement isn't always in your backyard or your contact list. Sometimes those people are from the past. Sometimes those people are authors of books and speakers on a podcast. Influence isn't always face to face in-person personal.
Sometimes it's you and a book, you and a course, or you and a CZcams subscription.
well said
Yes one of my top 5 is Nimsdai Purja.
I'm totally with you on that..👍
well said
Very well said. You have just ignite a new node in my brain.
Jokes on you, those 5 people don't want to hang out with me
Don't worry. They're not the right ones! You better ones coming in the way
Principle applies to content consumption too.
@@josephcolon5812that's a good one since most have turned to consuming media and extending less external contact
I mean... If you're consuming content about communication skills, & you are actively sharpening them, then don't you get to have your cake & eat it too?
😂
as a result, if you're struggling with your own identity, spend time with yourself. understand your body and its needs and you'll feel more comfortable in your own skin
BIG FACT!!
If you are struggling with your own identity STAY OFF SOCIAL MEDIA. Watching Tick Toc and CZcams videos of other people telling you about their Gender Identity delusions is just going to reinforce delusional behavior.
Bad company corrupts good morals.
Look up Medscape articles about PSYCHGENIC EPIDEMICS . This used to be called " mass hysteria". In 2020 Emergency Rooms saw a 600% increase of false facial Ticks and Tourettes cases . The psychgenic epidemic was traced to a handful of content creators on Tick Toc. Children and teens were watching these videos and unconsciously imitating the facial Ticks.
We now have an unprecedented 1500% increase in Gender Dysphoria and Body Dysphoria amoung young people in America over the last 2 years.
Doctors, hospitals and Pharmaseutical companies are exploiting the most vulnerable members of our society, children and adolescents PURELY FOR FINANCIAL GAIN. Cutting off healthy breasts, giving puberty blockers and Hormone Replacement Therapy. GENITAL MUTILATION FOR PROFIT. And calling it " Gender Affirming Care." It is neither CARING NOR AFFIRMING. It is MUTILIATION and PERMENANT STERILIZATION FOR PROFIT. THIS IS EVIL. Brainwashing confused young people into a Cult. The behavior of all involved is clearly Cult Like.
Anyone who speaks out on this is labeled " SEXIST" " RACIST" " "TRASPHOBIC".
Free Speech is no longer allowed. Now they are trying to COMPEL SPEECH. This is the first step of All TOTALITARIAN REGIMES.
" If Freedom of Speech is taken away we will be lead dumb and silent like lambs to the slaughter". George Washington.
If you need help healing Body Dysphoria there is a huge amount of work on how to do this. Don't look to the LGBTQ Transgender Cult to find answers. They are promoting DELLUSIONAL behavior. I wish you Clarity and Peace and Joy on your Healing Journey. Hold the Lantern and Light The Way. I am sending regards from Washington State, USA, Jeanne of In Loving Hands Counseling
Needs: water, food, shelter, determination, and curiosity.
No one hangs out with anyone because everyone is looking for better people but don't want to be the better person. Sounds like a good system
The bit about student and master really got me. I got a degree in physics but a job in engineering where I don't use any physics or high level math. I realized recently it is a huge detriment to the health of my passion for physics that I don't hang out with anyone smarter than me in that area.
I studied science at Uni (major in physics and mathematics) after getting my engineering qualifications and now wipe asses as my job.. Best decision of my life! Keep it simple and help others no matter how smart you think you are makes you a content and happy person
If I may ask, what sort of engineering job are u doing? I am curious because my son is also studying physics but he may be interested in job in engineering.
@@nayabahmed1245 Automation Engineering where I deal mostly with drafting electrical schematics, assigning electrical parts, and writing control code for industrial machines in the packaging industry. Most skills I've used from college could be covered in a basic electronics course, a java/C class to learn the basics, algebra, and maybe freshmen physics when programming with speeds and accelerations of motors.
Go get a job interview with and hopefully work for Elon Musk like seriously he wants young minds like yours at work doing amazing things
Absorb what is useful, reject what is useless, and add what is essentially yours.
🌸 you can read so many books and this in a way is spending time with amazing people
I could never leave my humble friends behind, as I always help others. However the negative people around me like bad acid, I ditch them in a heartbeat lol ✨
Happy New Year everyone, make 2023 the best so far 🎉🎊✨💗
I spend ALL my time alone,but I learn from people just like this. ALL DAY.
Same here. Keep grinding!!
The people you fallow or listen to online is almost the same as hanging out with them
You need action. Ie relationships. Theory won't get you far
You can’t just learn; learning is good but you need to DO things too.
Same here buddy, just me and my progress
I'm so glad I spend most of my time with you, Ali Abdaal, Brendon &Jim Kwik here on CZcams & I'm the fifth one in the group😀😂
Vinh I just Love how you bring your insight, in a humble, loving way, but yet filled with Hope, Encouragement, Allowing us to see our options so that we dont remain stuck
..its so easy to feel stuck & feel captive like we have no ability to change.
In the past, we learnt from people we know and know us, but today, we can learn from many sources as long as we have the time, interest and money. For example, I can learn from you by signing up for your communications courses.
Love your actionable shorts
so basically I'm a reflection of my dog 🐶🙈
He said people but ok:)
He said people
Last time I checked a dog wasn’t a person but ok ig
You got that dog in ya lmfaoo
Dogs are people
Wow !!! Very very powerful, I have a become clear in what I want over personal development in the last three years and he’s totally right. When I resonated with certain teachers with clarity ,more and more appeared… thank you, appreciate you
Bob Ross was one of my teachers. I watched all of his episodes and loved them. The paintings were great but his teachings were invaluable.
Just because we don't hang out with them in person doesn't mean they can't teach us lessons. It's the influence they have upon us.
Currently I'm learning fashion/color pallettes from one of my favorite shows.
So many people talk and talk without saying anything its refreshing seeing someone who's actually sharing valuable information.
I spend lots of my time with my lord and savior so ….fantastic ❤️
Thanks for sharing your knowledge to us
I only hang around books, I'm becoming the books I read.
You may be joking but this is true too, fiction can have a huge impact on who you are and who you become
that's true and i don't think it's bad. some books i read as a child had a huge impact on me and i would even say they had a better influence than a lot of the real persons in my life had.
Yes, too bad you don't get notifications to your own comments
@@dcgreatman is it also true for the content creators I watch? I am in monk mode and most time I spend is with myself and some YT videos
@@senggaopurusa8843 yeah, that's why it's important to watch good content creators... obviously you can watch humor/entertainment but it's good to throw in a bit of productive/educational stuff too (a few I recommend are Julien Blanc, Cole Hastings, and also the creator who made this short)
I tried following Vinh around but he filed a restraining order. 😂
Lmao
🤣
Amen! Thats the thing no one wants to admit! But bad people are mostly that way because good people don't want to be around bad people or have them in their life, so all the dumb people, all the bad people, all the outsiders get Trapped, they can only only find other people like them that will stay in their life consistently, so they never learn how to be different
Thank you for a quote from one of my biggest childhood master, Bruce Lee! I was so fascinated w this persona! I adored everything about this great soul! 👌👏☮️🙏🙏🙏
You, David Goggins, Frederick Nietzsche & Alan Watts to name a few.👨🏫
I watch/download ALL of your content to work on my public speaking skills.
It's working,thank you.
🙏☯️🧔☯️🥋
Years ago I realized I am the Master, I walk alone.
Yes, I agree.
This is gold!
This is sooooo true!
1. Vinh Giang
Excellent !
"When the student is ready, the teacher will appear. When the student is truly ready, the teacher will disappear."
True
Great man logical, intelligent, great advice, very smart man
Thanks Charley 🙏
Aint this the gawd damn truth!!
Thanks ❤️🙏
Love this
I spend most of my time with my four grandchildren - all under ten years old. I’m probably into my second childhood. 😂
That's adorable, ma'am
When you used the word apparent i instantly thought of the word "Apprentice" and my brain realized how intricate your word play is.
Your a craftsman of your work.Thanks for the life changing advice😁
Epic advice!!!!!!!
i just found your channel yesterday. you're amazing, thank you for your uploads ❤️
That suit is amazing
Valuable advice
😮 clarity 😊
✊
That suit is on point
I like your videos.
Very good.
You are very powerful sir
very well said
"When the student is ready master will appear" is one of the quote of book "WINGS OF FIRE" by "APJ ABDUL KALAM SIR"
🙌🙌🙌💐💐💐❤️👏👏👏Awesome wisdom! So true!
Bro watching you from some time and love your communication skills and just to let u know my master has arrived big fan and hope to meet you some day
Powerful ✌️💥💥💥
those top 5 could also be characters you see in film and tv, if you are that attached to them and watch them long enough you can drag attributes from fictional characters onto yourself.
When the student is ready,the master appear. ✊
Spend Time with The Father, The Son and Holy Spirit if you want to find your true self. In Him. By Him. And For Him.
Yes! And Now I 👀 on your messages 👁️👁️🗣️ so, go on
You the 1-st in the 5 now, the next will appear 🎉
Thank you
I wish I heard this advice 40 years ago. My life would have been so different
This is so on point!
I am a reflection of myself
I agree...prepare first, only then you find the master.
Don't find the master first, and learn the skill because you might end up learn something you don't really need/like.
Same concept as sharpening your saw first, then cut down the trees and not the other way around .
When the student is ready, master will appear.
damn y'all are hanging out with 5 other people, huh? :(
Right. I don't have one friend. How do I find 5?
@@marianichellewanna be friends?
Well if you have parents they are part of these people unless you really spend time with them
🤣 i feel it tho
Some people are really rich in friends 🥺😔
What if you spend time mostly with yourself? What does that person become? Musk?
Great advice!
You speaks like Dr John Demartini 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Your messages seem to be right on point, in what I want to hear.
You obviosly have been spending time with the Heath Leadger Joker, (RIP), sweet suit I have to say
🤣
I spent my most of time with books and learning stuff on youtube.
Can it be someone online i watch everyday like watching vinh to become a master in communication?
Where did this guy come from and why am I addicted
I can hold 5 mirrors, definitely. On the flip side though, if you're a reflection of those 5 people, and those 5 people suppose also reflect you, who are you really reflecting?
Let’s put all the responsibility onto someone else “making” you into the person YOU CHOOSE TO BE. FFS people need to grow up.
When student is ready master will appear
Bruce Lee quoatation is really impressive as I observed this recently!
Secondly This man has mastered the ability to transfer knowledge to lay audience
My top5 1.elon musk 2.sadhguru 3.dalai lama 4.bruce lee and5.most with myself &god and books too lol
I have 4 kids and a wife, and I work from home so….we’re ALL each of us direct reflections of the other 5 family members? Mind boggling.
Right now I have 2 people. They challenge me to be better. But I only see them at work rn :/... regardless I live on my own and don't have many friends so 🤷🏽♂️.. also I need more clarity on the skills I want to master to fill my top 5.
Nice. God's Love and Blessings!
I choose to spend my time with no one, for I am no one. I am faceless.
Interesting. I would love to listen more.
So if you're a reflection of 5 people and the 5 people are each a reflection of 5 people as well and those sets of 5 people are also each a reflection of 5 people too, then who are the original 5 people?
1. Write down the skills you want to improve.
2. Find people who have already that skill
When you have clarity on what skills and attributes
As a stay at home, homeschooling mom to 6 I’m a bit worried…
Did I hear...six?
He said 💯💯💯💯💯💯
True❤️❤️❤️
If I could choose who to hang out with, I'd want a millionaire online business owner, an acrobatic, super fit athlete, a martial arts master, a tech genius and a dating expert. 😬
This is it!!
Okay fine. But sometimes you’re not sure where to look to find these individuals you wish to associate with, or perhaps they don’t want to associate with you.
We probably won't take the time to think about it because they don't want to hang out with you and they don't know you're well enough. They also know that if you get information asking them you just ask another question and it'll be more time around the person they don't want to be around.
Figure out the skills that you want to have and work on it. You have to do some homework before the master appears and you don't know how much.
Nothing is promised but much is available.
So true...
Ya I hang out with:
Mike Tyson
David goggins
Vidyut Jamwal
Elon musk
Jordan Petersen
And the great gama
Every single day
People say your pet is a reflection of their owner, so this makes a good bit of sense. I'd say my wife and cat are 2 of the people, then the other 3 vary day to day.
He has a speakers voice 🔥🥶
the part of my life where I want to be better, to develop and change to evolve.. I found this channel randomly.
so far I have heard only useful and clear advice and teaching.
thank you
When everyone's busy, no masted has time.
So I'm left to fend for myself.
So true 🙌👏👏👏
ngl he really is kinda like bruce lee in terms of his body language 👏
Straight out of the book "Think and Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill. It's good advice.
It’s already been said Proverbs 13:20 “The one walking with the wise will become wise, But the one who has dealings with the stupid will fare badly”
The master becomes apparent
So that’s how you get someone pregnant
Great lesson! Thank you
Man I’m struggling enough to find one person to hang out with, but five??
But thanks for the reminder!
Top 5, that's a reference to Daniel Penna.
Agree 💯
Nice