Giving My Wife 1 Night Off To Do What She Wants

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  • čas přidán 6. 03. 2024
  • In order to be your best, you have to take care of yourself so you can take care of those around you. I’ve always understood this, and I want my wife to implement it as well.
    It took time for us to make this a consistent thing every week, but we found out how to prioritize it. Now that it’s a part of our weekly routine, we can see how this helps her wear all the hats she is wearing and show up in those roles how she would like to every week.
    Much love,
    Ced
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  • @tonyathomas2034
    @tonyathomas2034 Před 3 měsíci +21

    I applaud you for recognizing that taking care of your mental health is equally as important as taking care of your physical health; in order to show up as your best selves as a partner and as parents. Bravo Sir!👏🏾💪🏾💜

  • @chelseam.stevens
    @chelseam.stevens Před 3 měsíci +20

    Maddie is SO funny. Asking for one item at a time on purpose... lol! She has grown so much!

  • @ct580
    @ct580 Před 3 měsíci +36

    You are such a wonderful dad

  • @leabarnes9142
    @leabarnes9142 Před 3 měsíci +6

    My husband was like this with our granddaughters. We had them during the week because the school where we lived was better for the girls. They went home on the weekends. I'm 60 now and the oldest is in college the other is a freshman in high school. I miss the days that u are having. Please enjoy them to the fullest. U two are wonderful parents. When they grow up they will look back and talk about these loveable days.

  • @HappyBlueButterfly
    @HappyBlueButterfly Před 3 měsíci +26

    Ced so proud of you ! Doings things like the new generation would do❤❤❤! Catherine is certainly a sweetheart❤!

  • @luzrodriguez7251
    @luzrodriguez7251 Před 3 měsíci +18

    The way the family has evolved is beautiful, I still remember when baby number 2 was about to be born... bless 😏

  • @MetalxxDragoness
    @MetalxxDragoness Před 3 měsíci +17

    For sure this is important for both parents in any relationship. It is equally important to make time for your relationship. Spend time with each other and with each child individually and time together as a family. Bless your family with many beautiful memories!

    • @user-pl5lh7vj6o
      @user-pl5lh7vj6o Před 3 měsíci

      He needs to realize that he is in a marriage of 2 and that he and wife need to spend time together to connect to be good partners but he is so dumb.

  • @Baesic1
    @Baesic1 Před 3 měsíci +17

    Congrats 🎈 on the new 🏡 and office 🖥️ !!! It’s great that Charollette gets alone time. You both need it. Keeps the relationship strong and is needed for mental health! Food looks delicious 😋The girls are so smart and beautiful 💗

  • @lilylee5924
    @lilylee5924 Před 3 měsíci +7

    Just came across your video and you are one great dad to your kids. Your wife is very lucky .

  • @ilovesilver205
    @ilovesilver205 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Ced you're an amazing Man!!! I love how hands on you have Always been with your family. Maybe I'm bias, because that's exactly how my husband is. Even though our daughters are almost 24 and 25. We still need and want his input in our lives. Your wife and daughters, will be better humans because of your Love and Attention 💜💜

  • @pwilliamsj5444
    @pwilliamsj5444 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Its always encouraging to see the husband and wife learn to give each other the time and space needed for a healthy and thriving relationship. I can imagine its not easy, but videos like this keep the ones who want this type of relationship, hope that it's still out there.

  • @courtneyelizabeth1008
    @courtneyelizabeth1008 Před 3 měsíci +14

    so grateful to see you guys back on youtube. much love and respect to you ced for the father and husband you are :) look forward to more videos

  • @krisclemence-lucas7343
    @krisclemence-lucas7343 Před 3 měsíci +3

    Thank you for showing lots of women and men what a loving and cooking 😀 and awesome dad looks like!

  • @GoldilocsOfficial
    @GoldilocsOfficial Před 3 měsíci +4

    Awwww such a sweet family! Maddie speaks so well and her Drawing Present 💝 for Mom 👩🏻 was Spectacular 🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🏼🙏🏿🙏🏿 You are a Real MVP 🏆 Sir Dad 👨🏽

  • @RusscanFLY
    @RusscanFLY Před 3 měsíci +5

    Glad to see you’re back active on your CZcams channel. This is where the whole CZcams thing started for me. So it’s nice to see my original inspiration for starting my own CZcams journey back in action. I don’t know where this will lead me, but I want to thank you for inspiring this creative side That I did not know existed. Keep thriving young man. I’m glad to see you growing in every aspect of your life. Be well, and God bless!

  • @mauricedavis3015
    @mauricedavis3015 Před 3 měsíci +5

    Ced, you did yo thang man ‘ I give you yo props , love how you allow your wife to go out and have her some alone time with her girls we love you guys strong bond that y’all have . Keep on grinding growing and shining PD we are so glad thst you’re back 😊

  • @prvnchyy
    @prvnchyy Před 3 měsíci +5

    Great to see your faces again! Congrats on the new crib!!

  • @ndulaottance7297
    @ndulaottance7297 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I just love you for what you are doing for yourself family and I pray I have Such an understanding husband in life.

  • @ladyt4062
    @ladyt4062 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Beautiful family, I remember needing and taking a break from mommy duties when our 3 daughters were younger.
    We now have 5 beautiful daughters,ages 32,30,28,19,19!
    Praise God for awesome Husbands and Fathers!
    It’s so awesome when they are little, and when they grow up!

  • @desiraymelendez22
    @desiraymelendez22 Před 3 měsíci +6

    so glad these videos are back!!!🙌🏼🥳

  • @trae2831
    @trae2831 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Ced so happy for you, Charlotte & the kids!! Happy to have you back on YT!

  • @suziesmith9076
    @suziesmith9076 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I’ve been a subscriber from the start, and you’ve grown soooo much ced, the reflection and sensitivity toward Charlotte speaks volumes!!!

    • @baconmetra
      @baconmetra Před 3 měsíci

      What sucks is it seems like he’s working on himself and only he wants the marriage

    • @suziesmith9076
      @suziesmith9076 Před 3 měsíci +1

      @@baconmetra I didn’t want to say it because we only see short clips of their relationship and It’s easy to make assumptions based on tiny parts of their lives but she does come across badly particularly when they did the podcast

    • @baconmetra
      @baconmetra Před 3 měsíci

      @@suziesmith9076 my mom was saying that too apparently she’s been following them since the jump also

  • @rut8851
    @rut8851 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I really missed you all but am so proud of how your family is progressing.

  • @kp02042
    @kp02042 Před 3 měsíci +3

    We've missed you guys!!!!! ❤

  • @wensimm6006
    @wensimm6006 Před 3 měsíci +1

    I love this and it is needed. You are setting a great example for your daughters. Marriage was designed by God for us to be helpful to each other. Thank you for this video.

  • @HINDZSIGHT
    @HINDZSIGHT Před 3 měsíci

    this was vibes

  • @crystalgarcia2430
    @crystalgarcia2430 Před 3 měsíci +2

    I’ve been watching y’all since the birth of Maddie and I must say you and Charlotte have done an outstanding job with your kids I just love watching them grow into these beautiful sweet girls super proud of the both of you 👏🏼 Maddie reminds me so much of my oldest daughter my kids enjoy watching y’all’s videos with me a wonderful family indeed. So excited for your new journey with the new house can’t wait to see it. Your such a great dad and husband Ced keep doing your thing and being a great example for your girls a father daughter relationship is so important ❤and Charlotte from one mother to another I’m super proud of you as well you have done an amazing job with your girls❤ I’m excited for what God has in store for your family can’t wait to see more videos.. much love from my family to yours 🫶🏼

  • @annad6870
    @annad6870 Před 3 měsíci

    You are such a wonderful father

  • @patriciaf6266
    @patriciaf6266 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Loved watching this❤️. Well done on recognising that your wife needs her time too. You are showing your children how any future partners should be with them. What a great husband and father you are👏👏. You should be very proud ❤️😍

  • @marciamullings3787
    @marciamullings3787 Před 3 měsíci

    I give you props you are an accident father to your friend who take care of them so well God bless you all the time🙏🏾❤️😊

  • @mcbenphynn5167
    @mcbenphynn5167 Před 3 měsíci

    Man I like the fact that you’ve been able to keep your family together and you are still keeping them all together up to date that’s really nice and good of you. Keep it up man.

  • @gissellrios3219
    @gissellrios3219 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Ced this is very awesome been a mother is super hard and you doing this for your wife and kids is lovely 😊 ❤️🙏I’m going to enjoy watching yall new subscriber over here

  • @godcaresjab
    @godcaresjab Před 3 měsíci

    First time watching, and I have so much respect for you as a man, father, and the King of your home, not only that how you support your mate in her alone time, I pray that nothing but blessings for you and your family.

  • @MyLIFE-iu6df
    @MyLIFE-iu6df Před 3 měsíci +1

    This was amazing to see the family back! Until next time 😊

  • @lynnbrown3777
    @lynnbrown3777 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Congrats on the new house!❤

  • @miriamvandenheuvel556
    @miriamvandenheuvel556 Před 3 měsíci

    So good to see everyone! What a gorgeous family Ced! Miss seeing you guys! All the best! Much love from Canada ❤

  • @shahnazwillis3931
    @shahnazwillis3931 Před 3 měsíci

    Ced congratulations for all your progress for future stay blessed

  • @baconmetra
    @baconmetra Před 3 měsíci

    He’s the BEST dad/mom🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @Allisonp1024
    @Allisonp1024 Před 3 měsíci

    Congratulations on all the hard work and changes you and Charlotte have made over the last year.
    I'm glad you found Embrace North as well! It has truly been an amazing part of my routine!

  • @serginechrysostome5305
    @serginechrysostome5305 Před 3 měsíci

    I am very happy for you Thompson family. You deserve everything. Love you

  • @Donnelia820
    @Donnelia820 Před 3 měsíci +1

    So excited 😊

  • @Liss_320
    @Liss_320 Před 3 měsíci

    It was so nice to see everyone! The girls are beautiful!! Congratulations on the house, can't wait to see it!! Welcome back Ced, you guys were missed 💞😊

  • @debradunham8508
    @debradunham8508 Před 3 měsíci

    Ced, the family is beautiful, and the girls are getting so big. I'm happy for all your business ventures. You will succeed. Many Blessings.

  • @nikkisaracini1948
    @nikkisaracini1948 Před 3 měsíci +1

    The baby is adorable

  • @danielnicholson239
    @danielnicholson239 Před 3 měsíci

    Glad to see you are back.

  • @salmasky9739
    @salmasky9739 Před 3 měsíci

    This helped me a lot. Thank you. 🙏🏽

  • @sweettkillavlogs6933
    @sweettkillavlogs6933 Před 3 měsíci

    Thank you for sharing!!

  • @rosawilliams9145
    @rosawilliams9145 Před 3 měsíci

    Glad your back! The two older girls sure have grown. So pretty.

  • @EscapemyFate07
    @EscapemyFate07 Před 3 měsíci

    Ced is back! Good to see you and the fam!

  • @creating1_c1999
    @creating1_c1999 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hey Fam!
    Ced we know you ball so hard in all aspects of your life, but your family game is just righteous! Goodness, your dexterity is so on point~
    How does it feel to have a dedicated workspace outside of the home and is this something you plan to continue when you guys move?

  • @Mgenao76
    @Mgenao76 Před 3 měsíci

    Man I didn’t realize how much I missed your videos until I watched this one!! Thanks for sharing!! ❤

  • @4everkim693
    @4everkim693 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Maddie has a beautiful personality

  • @lorrainelambert2943
    @lorrainelambert2943 Před 3 měsíci

    Much love...thanks

  • @tevin3949
    @tevin3949 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Been following your channel for sometime now and I got hooked. I also feel like part of the family😂🇰🇪

  • @jolenebauser408
    @jolenebauser408 Před 3 měsíci

    Haven’t seen a video in ages. So glad to see you guys!! You have such an adorable family ❤❤

  • @sarahmashiqa8573
    @sarahmashiqa8573 Před 3 měsíci

    Welcome back. I'm so proud of you.

  • @KBMac-tu2mg
    @KBMac-tu2mg Před 3 měsíci +1

    The salt has me dying 😂

  • @bensonblessing6813
    @bensonblessing6813 Před 3 měsíci

    This is very beautiful, God help my husband to consider me like this

  • @ladyt4062
    @ladyt4062 Před 3 měsíci

    It’s beautiful that your wife is still nursing baby girl! It’s definitely a little guilt when you leave, but I just see it as it’s a 2 parent love story. It’s a loving thing when the dad or mom gives one another a break. As a wife I definitely wouldn’t do anything out there, that a single person would do.

  • @JuliaNkota
    @JuliaNkota Před 3 měsíci

    your content and editing is top tier!!

  • @coversbythedaughtersofGod
    @coversbythedaughtersofGod Před 2 měsíci

    God bless this man and his family in the name of Jesus ❤

  • @kiafrazier-humphrey5843
    @kiafrazier-humphrey5843 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Missed my fambam so much ❤😢

  • @ct580
    @ct580 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Hello Fam....good to see you all

  • @justinsingleton2113
    @justinsingleton2113 Před 3 měsíci

    Last time I seen the middle child she wasn't old enough to form complete sentences and now I'm just amazed at how well she speaks, Lol, time goes by fast, they're growing up

  • @vernelllevingston1800
    @vernelllevingston1800 Před 3 měsíci

    That It's so right. Your mental play is a big part. You can't take care.Of nobody else if you don't take care of yourself first

  • @kristac3120
    @kristac3120 Před 3 měsíci

    Maddie and her supper 🤣🤣🤣 omg!! "Don't ask me for nothin else dawg" 🤣🤣

  • @daybyday0731
    @daybyday0731 Před 3 měsíci

    I love this fsmily. ❤

  • @patriciapettway9091
    @patriciapettway9091 Před 3 měsíci

    I hope you are getting some time to yourself as well 🙏🏾🙏🏾 you seem to be such a good husband and family man ❤️❤️

  • @jancarlson2165
    @jancarlson2165 Před 3 měsíci

    Ced, such a great Dad, husband and ping pong player!!! Love you guys!! ❤❤❤

  • @terryramos7126
    @terryramos7126 Před 3 měsíci

    Wow your girls have gotten so big! So nice to see you & ur beautiful family again!🙌 your office is so cool & so nice to have a partner & U get to get play ping-pong too!😅
    Your little girl, Quincy what a personality she’s so expressive & so smart! And congratulations on your new house! Wow that’s awesome!!👏🏻 can’t wait to see it!!

  • @pamelarogers9768
    @pamelarogers9768 Před 3 měsíci

    Awesome daddy and husband ❤

  • @joanhowze1069
    @joanhowze1069 Před 3 měsíci

    You are a wonderful man I appreciate how you help your I’m sure she does too

  • @Eggs4breakfastt
    @Eggs4breakfastt Před 3 měsíci

    Dope Vid, you dropped a lot of gems

  • @dickieelitetraining6769
    @dickieelitetraining6769 Před 3 měsíci

    Great vlog love it. Great message on how to support your partner in life

  • @debbiemcclure2874
    @debbiemcclure2874 Před 3 měsíci +2

    Ced unfortunately I believe its been ingrained into the female to be the care talker of the kids, more or less its her job and has been frowned upon if she doesn't. When my mother was raising us (without a father) she rarely let us out of her sight and trust me looking back I realize how wrong that was a was not good for her. Years later when raising my daughters I was the same way except I had to work a job working 14-16 hours day. Rarely went out without them and when I did I felt guilty. No dad in the picture in my situation either. I was alone. But they were loved and cared for. Don't reget that at all.
    Your girls have grown so much and I've missed it all lol. Little characters and so sweet and beautiful 🥰🥰🥰. Love ve you guys, take care. Char will get use to her time😊. Tyfs God bless you

  • @carmina8143
    @carmina8143 Před 3 měsíci

    Great video , as a first time mom I too feel guilt for even wanting alone time . But I can see how that is important to establish with my partner so that I can be a better mom and partner .

  • @lorainwalker5468
    @lorainwalker5468 Před 3 měsíci

    I love that you are a great father
    Great fathers are producers healthy Fam

  • @deborahblackshear3325
    @deborahblackshear3325 Před 3 měsíci

    ❤❤😊. Good Family. Thanks for sharing 👍

  • @deborahandrianos463
    @deborahandrianos463 Před 3 měsíci

    Wow Dude you must of had an Amazing Mom❤to be such a caring Husband and Dad 😇🙏❤️

  • @desiraymelendez22
    @desiraymelendez22 Před 3 měsíci +1

    we gotta have dinner with y'all when you're in Cali!!!🙌🏼😁

  • @nunuallen4327
    @nunuallen4327 Před 3 měsíci

    Ced has always been productive. I use to watch him before he stop doing CZcams, he talks about Christ and who he is as a Christian man. His wife is awesome too .

  • @hillarycooper2853
    @hillarycooper2853 Před 3 měsíci

    Great dad

  • @ladyt4062
    @ladyt4062 Před 3 měsíci

    Very intelligent daughters!
    That’s really a blessing that she wanted salad with her pizza!

  • @dadyzheart92
    @dadyzheart92 Před 3 měsíci

    Look at God!! So thankful y'all bought a home! Blessings have been reigning down on y'all!🎉
    I'ma need you & Alex to have a personalized handshake lol🫱🏻‍🫲🏾👊🏾
    That food looks so yummy! You Killin it chef Ced!👨🏽‍🍳
    Maddie's voice is so sweet! Crazy how big they are all getting❤ love that you did all their hair post bath🥰
    I hope Charlotte had a fun night out🎉❤
    Much love, so glad you're back at it💪🏽

  • @sanelehopewell7612
    @sanelehopewell7612 Před 3 měsíci

    Love your channel happy to see you back from s a

  • @clarenacelia9168
    @clarenacelia9168 Před 3 měsíci

    Omgggggg a house? Congrats guys!!!

  • @joshuaharris3711
    @joshuaharris3711 Před 3 měsíci

    My man took 9 months off and leveled up everything

  • @quendablaze3413
    @quendablaze3413 Před 3 měsíci +1

    i really like your channel.

  • @papazjose1274
    @papazjose1274 Před 3 měsíci

    you made my favorite frozen piZZA!!

  • @chall1307
    @chall1307 Před 3 měsíci

    Greetings & love from Louisiana!🥰 Beautiful video & relationship w/ your girls. Maddie is such a big girl nowadays!❤

  • @shadesoffamily
    @shadesoffamily Před 3 měsíci

    A patient man you are. Alone time is very important for each partner

  • @sarad6278
    @sarad6278 Před 3 měsíci

    The kids are so funny.

  • @sherlymillender4951
    @sherlymillender4951 Před 3 měsíci +1

    ❤❤

  • @clarenacelia9168
    @clarenacelia9168 Před 3 měsíci

    I would love to see you in your element with a boy. You’re such a good girl dad but seeing you with Marcus was so different… I pray you get one if thats in the cards for you guys 💙

  • @mrs.howell1905
    @mrs.howell1905 Před 3 měsíci

    Love yal channel.

  • @yayacentella
    @yayacentella Před 3 měsíci

    💚

  • @HoneyLove40
    @HoneyLove40 Před 3 měsíci +1

    ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️

  • @ANGP-db1bi
    @ANGP-db1bi Před 3 měsíci

    luca so cute but all 3 daughters are beautiful!

  • @xiomaradavis3480
    @xiomaradavis3480 Před 3 měsíci

    Hi Alex❤

  • @StoniStoneyStone
    @StoniStoneyStone Před 3 měsíci

    1. You been gone so long that the baby WALKING?! Now Ced brother 🤣🤣 you terrible for that 🤣 but man congratulations on the new home and office space!! Good to see you were still in good spirits while away! ❤