Don't Be a Donkey - Make a Decision
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- čas přidán 28. 05. 2019
- We are faced with decisions all the time. But even when choosing is not easy, choices must be made.
But the truth is, we can't really know which choice will be better, until we tried out one of them.
Also none of the decisions have to be permanent. We can always change our mind and switch. So don't be afraid of making the wrong choice.
The worst thing that could happen is that you learn something new about yourself and what you prefer.
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I used to be indecisive. Now, I’m not so sure.
How am I the only reply (as of April 2020)
rollvideo you getting better
We've been there
no pun intended? lol
@@Nick-ko1tw ye
Don’t be fooled.
Not all decisions are reversible.
Some decisions will follow you for the rest of your life.
Like?
"When there is a will there is a way."
Like deciding on if you want a kid or not. You can't change your mind :)
@@parenthesiscolon8706 This video is mainly focusing on career choices though
I guess if you buy a house and take a 20y long loan investing all your money in it, it's not that easy to reverse indeed.
" There are no wrong decisions.. (they are) just learning opportunities "
Unless you die in the process that is...
But that could be a lesson for others so maybe success should be shared with the community, no?
Like old rich countries did a lot of ill stuff, basically learned and gathered wealth on the expense of other nations viewed as poor and underdeveloped. Now when those countries grow they want to take the same roads, it's logical. But the rich countries want to stop them from various reasons, like protecting the environment or whatever. It's like wanting to impose playing on a leveled plain, the current one but one is in his underwear and the other has a mech suit. That's not really fair now... So it should be logical to stay away of help them to compete at your level, give them a mech suit.
But it's worse that old rich countries seem to become oligarchy ruled and the plain ground is kept as a gimmick, as it's ok only as long the mech guys keep their advantage. All is for profits. Stifle foreign advancements such as the case of Huawei and th 5G implementation and the rest of the nonsense with fake news and espionage accusations without any kind of proof. And care less about the environment, exporting trash, buying o2 in the form of planting forests while not doing something in actually decreasing their carbon imprint, turning decade old protected natural zones in to mining territories. And it seem the seed is unregulated capitalism all spread from the most proud capitalistic power, USA.
Deciding to go kill somebody is a bad decision my guy
This is dumb. because if you fail to big, your dead.. Lots of little failures are way better than 1 big failure.. Use your brain people
Wrong
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Story of my life. I have been a donkey all my life, wasted years standing still unable to make decisions. Worse still, being an overanalyzer, overthinker and a major procrastinator has ruined my life.
the cool thing is... your life is not over, the ruining can only go for so long. You ruined it until now, fine. How about a little change. How about you man up, get out and get something done with your life. Good luck Halo!
@@johnpreston230 Thanks for your advice
@Steven Lee interesting, in fact.
Same bro. Same bro.
Pull et Together. Dont be the donkey! Be a magestic horse instead
"I don't believe in taking right decisions. I take decisions and make them right" - Ratan Tata
Ya ya I know a cellular company Tata DOCOMO
Money can make everything right
@@vysakkm3756 ohhhh.. do u know about TATA GROUP also..
@@jhingur7169 i think monney is great but like... idk man.
He mentioned, it was not said by him
When pocket is empty, every decision is good decision.
Don't let your analysis give you a paralysis cause it can be fatal!
I can't believe a 6 minute video can drastically change my life
Thanks
You forgot that there is sometime a cost (not necessarily money) to switching. And other times the choices are exclusives.
Just pick one, it doesn't matter, whichever one you pick will be the wrong decision.
- Al Bundy
Alastor 😹
Words of wisdom.
Over Analysis can definitely cause paralysis. I’ve delayed deciding on a major for so long I hadn’t realized THREE years had passed 😥
I just have to pick one I’m interested in and then focus on it. If I change my mind later then that’s ok too.
Same here, why are we this undecisive..
Same here.
true but i also read a quote that said do you really want your 19 year old self picking your career path ? basically its just as bad to rush into it too if your not sure! I'm glad i waited as i probably would of majored in something i would regret and wasted even more time...
10 years later I'm still trying to decide what to get my Master's in. 😩
Hope you made a decision! It took me more than 15 years to realize what to do with my life.... And now I'm picking up where I left off at 36 years old
When you made so many bad decisions that you are to afraid to make any more.
Always go for the water 1st it's mostly what we are comprised of as biological entities. Next after hydrating you will be better suited to intake the dry food.
@No Name Especially if it's hay
r/thankscaptainobvious
Specifically when you are about to die
First go for the water, then go for the pussy.
yea eh? why would u feel like eating hay if your throat is dry. of course water!
Bob Proctor says a lot of times that "successful people make their decisions very fast and change them very slowly, if and when they change them". It is written in Think and Grow Rich as well, by Napoleon Hill.
You'll never have enough information in decision making.... This is the Crux.
Exactly - if you have enough information, then really there is no decision to make. You need to realize that in deciding, the choices will never be less uncertain, so just pick one.
(Out of topic) whenever I see your videos my headache completely vanishes without me knowing and every time I see your videos it helps me a lot believe me I don't usually comment like this but I am being honest this is one of the best youtube channel in this category
Having a child? You can’t go back on that decision 😅
You can.I like to call this highly sophisticated maneuver: "Yeetus the fetus".
Adoption exists, so you can put them up for adoption, the kid might not like that though
CookieCakeEater Can’t undo the act itself. Can only mitigate the damages.
@@fosterrico5546 lmfao
@@cookiecakeeater6340 its extremely hard to give up a child for adoption even if you have good reasons to do so. Even having an abortion can be really hard too, especially if you initially wanted the child them changed your mind.
Indecision can better be overcome by discussing options with those you trust to help you make decisions. The reason we stall on decisions is deep down were looking for a sort of social approval.
What if we lack those with whom to talk to?
That becomes another challenge. You got to find your herd. We are a social creature, we need tightly nit social structures for our health and well being.
The challenge is we have systematically removed this in our Western Societies. We don't socialize like we used too. And the Cellphone Epidemic cements that problem ever further as people are having harder times socializing outside of an App.
@@chrisklugh true that. I'll try to find some new peers...
me: taking 20min to decide ice cream flavor
better than yesterday: "we can always change our mind and switch"
me: oh
*Gets refund
I was a donkey for so long till I started feeling that I am running out of time!!!!
How have you been lately?
I feel you
thats how school work...
it teach you to pick best answer and don't give you damn excuses to pick wrong one.... it will blames you and gives you bad scores for your wrong decision....
"We will almost never have all the information we need to make the perfect decision; however we must do our best to find out what we can, and then just pick one thing.' 4:45
Just when I needed, I was anxious about my career and this video made me feel High. Thank you keep up the good work
well I still don't think you can have a change in career so easily compare to other decision. So do take your time.
high on weed i hope
love you dude. you make the best videos. this is a realization i made a few years ago but this was a nice reminder, especially the part "you still have 50 years to do what it is you want to do"
i would often beat myself up for not getting anywhere in life and i made mistakes but its ok. all that matters is everything happening from now on. i am almost 30 and finally know what i want and what im gonna do to get there. and im not ashamed of not "achieving" anything yet. life is not a race. i used to compare myself to my high school friends. i like that quote "you should only compare yourself to yourself from yesterday"
Great I was a donkey before watching this video, thank you very much.
I am a donkey even after wstching this 😥
I was a donkey, now I’m an ass 😂
@@MaryShelleysNib hold my cow milk 😂😂
"one at a time and not at the same time" 🙃
I feel like a different person after watching this one video. I don't know how to describe what I feel right now but all I wana say to you is that thanks for letting me know that I still have 50 years to experiment, learn and find out what I wana do in my life.
50 years ..
💛 your attitude .... “50yrs to find out what I wanna do ....” So true. Such a great perspective. Thank you 🌈👌🏽
"50 more years" is definatley not a guarantee. Choose wisely or you may have wasted your time and resources. Something done have the luxury of a do over. Once the opportunity is gone, is may never be back.
@@abcxyz6606 I know that the opportunity might never come back but there are equal chances that we may get the opportunity also. For now, I've decided to live to my fullest in the present moment and if I happen to get my lost opportunities ever again in the next 50 years I'm sure I'm gonna grab onto it. 😉
Edit: I will continue to hope and try my best to make my dreams come true.
@@tejaswinisingh6645 wish there were more people like you! love it!
Wow! Thank you so much for the video! This was exactly what I needed to hear right now.
Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! ❤
Laws of serendipity...
I couldn't agree with you on the subject of time. Time is precious! Try changing your career at 45! I'm 32 and back at school for the third time, trying to find a suitable career path and, trust me, it's not as easy as it was 10 years ago. As an adult and eventually as a parent you have waaaay more responsibilities and dropping everything so that you can chase a dream is nearly impossible. So, NO! You don't have an eternity to make mistakes and learn whan you don't want! Focus on your strengths and find a path that utilizes them. Get a professional help if needed.. Or available because it's hard to find where I'm from.
Well said
I get the point of this video, but for anyone worried about the donkey, rest assured that it would go for the water first if it is thirsty - even if the water is farther away. I say this as someone who has three sweet little donkeys. ❤
HAHAHAHAHA "Who you want to date" as if i had a choice between multiple girls XDDDD nice joke man
U do i don't know why people think they can't
I don't even have one
Value yourself and aim toward your goals, and then gils will fight for you!
Once you don't look for a girl they will flock to you
Trust me, it's actually the worst when you have to choose
Great. The points hit home and I believe I will be more decisive now. Thanks.
Same
There was this multimillionaire who I liked at our little meetings, and he said,
"The only difference between you and me, is that I've accumulated more Failures than you have!" 🤣
I've remembered that, and have been having remarkable experiences accumulating small, manageable failures ever since.
Makes me happy in my successes and my choices. Good luck! 👍
This reminds of the time I had acted like the Donkey. In terms of deciding between two topics on which to learn, I ended up learning neither one of them. 😢
I think had the donkey been honest with himself he would have known that deep down he wanted one of those things more than the other.
Best advice I have heard in a long time
Same here
@@jamiuomoniyi9579 good advice right?
@@tabithacharanza2263 yeah...you are correct.
Your “stocks, real estate, online store” example is so timely for me because I’ve literally been trying to choose between those options myself recently. 😅
I am as indecisive as that donkey rn in my life
Dude, it's like you opened a door to my soul and peered in. Amazing stuff, thanks!
Many choices don’t allow for changing course once a decision is made. Some of my deepest regrets are found in these types of choices.
Thank you so much! That totally is what I need to hear every once in a while because I really tend to overthink almost everything... Thank you for your great content!!
This video has helped me immensely...being a dreamer who constantly generates new ideas, ive always had trouble choosing a path, but this video makes sense. Thanks, you've got new loyal subscriber.
It looks like youtube knows exactly what I want to see, I am struggling to choose between animation as career or just going with science in college, and youtube showed me this 😙.
"I do not believe in a wrong decisions. I take a decision and make it right".
- Muhammad Ali Jinnah
“Yes there are two paths you can go by but in the long run, there’s still time to change the road you’re on“.
What if someone is on Covid-19 road? 😊
Thank you so much! You are the life changer... I thought about this but never got this good and short conclusion
In most decisions, there is also the choice to do nothing, which is usually safe (and valid), but then there's no chance of your life becoming better than yesterday.
This video helped me a lot, thank you. Now I appreciate the meaning of my friend's advice on non-straightforward decisions:
Ready, fire. . Aim better based on first shot. . Aim better. . 2 misses but 1 hit.
or
Ready, aim, keep aiming, aim some more... no misses, but no hits.
As good as the advice is, it is important to consider that opportunities come at specific times.
Thank you so much. Excellent video.
Thank you sir for making me not be afraid of making some important decisions
Very good example..! Thanks 🙏
I started college for biology, changed to early childhood, quit college to get a percussion degree, opened a coffee shop, taught drum lessons, and ultimately quit all of that and became a farrier. Lots of trial and error went into finding a job that I love. Now the investing or real estate example... that hit home.
This channel is so fruitful. Thank you
It is better to make the right decision, choose the right option from the beginning.
It will save you time, you will succeed right away.
If you choose trading stock, after one year you know it is not for you.
Then you choose online business, after one year you know it is not for you.
Now you go for real estate, and you succeed finally. But you have wasted 2 years doing other things.
If you could do a good analysis from the beginning and find out real estate was the best option for you, you would work in real estate and start making money 2 years ago.
Thank you 😊
Thank you.
This is exactly what I need right now.
I've been such a donkey. Thank you! best video for me right now
Thanks so much for this video!
Very reassuring. Thank you.
Thank you so much
Thank you very much
I'm glad I just decided to pick one of those recommended videos and watch it.
Thank you
Helpful message with a good example
Amazing video. Thank you for breaking down such a stressful topic ♡
Urgh, this one hits me particulary hard. Tried out lots of things, came quite far in a lot of them but life intervented and I had to drop them, telling myself for quit the time being. Fast forward a few years to today, now free from my issues, I'm unable to decide which of my projects I should pick up again. I want to do them all somehow, but I can't since I have lost most of my skills/progress and it's driving me nuts.
So I'm like that donkey, torturing myself because I can't sort out my feelings (yet I hope) and make a decision.
Being aware of the issue is half the battle :)
Pick the most rewarding - to gain momentum.., and FOCUS on it. You might be slow at the beginning, but eventually - hopefully - you will remember everything, and speed things. When we stop PROJECTS, and return to them later, we r usually more mature, we ve added more experiences and learnt other skills that might make us see our Projects from another and better angle...
Best of luck.. don't lose faith in urself & FOCUS !!
P.S find the ONE Thing Book
Thanks for advice.
THANK YOU
Thanks fir this video. I was having difficulty making decisions lately and searched for an answer and i found this video.
Thx you for this video.
Great video thank you.
Thank You for a short motivational video clip!💞❤
Thanks.
I'm a Donkey , I need to change
Thanx alot
Best social media outlet...simple
Fantastic video👏
Thank you sir for sharing this with us
Thanks
I'm glad i came across this, i didn't realise but i overthink every decision, even going to the beach for 2 hours i overthink/Analyse.
Trying is better than regretting it later.
Thanks buddy for this info...
Excellent!, love this video.
Thanks for this
I love your videos! Thank you for sharing them with us! ☺️💛
Thanks for watching!
Loved ur video
It really help me
Thank you 😊
this is a very good one. thanks
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR THIS 💖
Thanks a lot for sharing this video ❤❤❤❤!!!!
You just opened my eyes🙏🙏
Best video ever.. Thank you for this video
Thank you so much. I really needed to hear this :)
WOW. This is actually helpful advice to me. I nostalgically think I wish I knew then what I know now. I got helped by many older people when I was young, but attracted people who meant me harm, wanted to hold me back. I wish I'd listened to the right people. Plus it's painful when I witness younger people doing similar. Getting older lets you see history repeat itself, a wisdom only long living brings.
Today in UK the headlines are about nearly 40 Chinese people found dead from suffocation in the back of a lorry. There was a near identical tragedy some decades back. Their deaths were unnecessary. There was an air vent in the cargo hold where the desperate people were sent to. The driver though generally closed the vent. When they went in it was open. But before setting off out of habit the driver closed it. The contempt for the human cargo as sickening as trying to think of the distress inside, and of the one survivor who apparently lived from eating tomatoes. I've worked out why but am already aware this is the wrong place to post this.
Thank you Sir
thank you for this wonderful video.
Thanks for this!
_If you have multiple equally good choices and you cannot decide which one to choose, then it is important for you to know that the choice of not choosing anything is far worse than choosing either of those choices._
Just realized this a few days ago. I was a donkey for a year. And finally, after I had realized my mistake CZcams decided to recommend me this video.
Love your page, well done!
thankyou.. this was helpful
Thank you so much to give a world best advice 🥰♥️😍
I love this channel.