Please DON'T Visit Our Farm
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I can’t believe that people STILL show up to a creator’s houses unannounced. It’s insane people think that’s OK.
especially a creator who had to deal with scummy trespassers such as those hound hunters
Yep it is carless , selfishly indigent and inconsiderate.
He also said he's more introverted, so having people show up like thst is an introverts nightmare.
It’s not ok to show up at anybody’s house unannounced. Let alone somebody you don’t know.
I assume a part of it is the kind of parasocial relationships, viewers can get when they are exposed to a real person for so long, you forget that the person you are seeing every day can't see you back and doesn't know you.
I am baffled by why people would think it is okay to visit without prior consent.
In general, unless there is a standing invitation, do not visit people that you only know from the internet.
To be fair. Morgan did the exact same thing when he showed up unanounced to the farmer in Europe.
Because they are kooks. Or simply have no common sense.
@@jonesjeremiah not really, he was in contact with the guy for months prior, and probably scheduled a visit to the guy's farm there since he already was going to be in the country. That's a completely different scenario from someone just popping up on your house uninvited.
Many people are just being friendly. Some people along that just have a really poor sense of personal boundaries.
Guardian Eris Right, at least these people could have asked him first if it's okay to visit and always ask as long as he has time (though this could feel creepy to some too but much better than show up unanounced). Otherwise if people still show up he should just say that he doesn't have tine to talk and show the farm today as he has work to do with the animals, it's not at all rude and true too. I rhink most would understand and accept it, even those who think it's fine to show up unanounced.
It's not just content creators that this happens to, just farms in general too. I've seen news stories about people parking on the side of the road to go into farmers fields of wheat, sunflowers and lavender, etc. to take selfies. And doing tons of damage to the crops, because of the sheer numbers of people walking through the crops. Some people have no have no respect or common sense. It's trespassing and property damage, plain and simple. So don't feel bad about asking people not to show up without an appointment. You are well within your rights to make such a request.
I remember a frustrated letter to someone like Dear Abby decades ago, from someone repeatedly dealing with people stopping IN the roadway to lead their toddlers over to a corral to see the horsies, maybe even climb in with them. He said even young ladies with kids in tow would get rude and aggressive with him when the told them to back away because they were on private property and horses can be very dangerous.
This is so true I work on 15 acres with 700 organic free range layers and mini scottish highlands people will straight up hop the fence and go out to take pictures with our cows. I know they look tiny but that bull will shred a person without issue. Scary stuff liability wise.
Same problem here. We have 2 senior mares that love folks. But 1 of the 2 horses next door, is a flat out witch!! I fed her, cared for her wounds when she was injured, fed her treats, treated her better than the other 3. So, she bit the hell out of my arm!! Mangled me thru my winter jacket! So many colors on the bruise!!! It lasted 8 months, but 2 years later, i still have a shadow of the original bruise! People jump over in that pasture all the time to feed them bread, and one of these days that nag is going to run right over them! What a lawsuit that will be! *If I jumped the fence in their backyard, and played with their dog, while feeding it bread- the Police would be dragging me off in cuffs. Why do people think its ok to go in a pasture and mess with someones animals?????
You're not being whiny, you are simply setting your boundaries, and people need to respect that.
The only people who would think you a jerk are the ones who are rude enough to show up without an invitation.
I hope this very gentle message helps, otherwise it may be time for a locked gate.
Yes. And/or signs. Big signs...
@@jeno264 Signs don't always work. Locked gates don't work with some people.
Tbh, i think it's really gutsy to even say what city you live next to because it's a safety risk. I get that his farm is a business and businesses want to be located, but unlikely youtuber businesses like curiosity inc, they don't have their house and work sites at the same place.
@@lynnbetts4332 but a locked gate does help when you need the law to step up to give you a hand
@@colleenshaw1607 I’d definitely get a fence and gate with cameras. Cat is out of the bag!
You don't come across as a jerk, don't worry. I can't imagine anyone who thinks it's okay to just show up anywhere, and your time deserves to be respected.
The crazy part isn't that it happened. It's that it happens TWENTY TIMES A FREAKING WEEK! That's a lot of entitlement.
Morgan puts videos out to give people a glimpse into his life by an extent he feels comfortable, after which they would gladly invite themselves into his living room. Appaling. Good thing it ain't Texas.
And there are PARENTS, a grown ass adults who teach their kids that this is okay. It is not.
@@marekknieshtschav6391 No he puts out videos to make money. THey all do. I am not saying its bad or its wrong but make no mistake if there was no money in it non of them would bother.
I'd be so embarrassed if I just showed up at someone's house, let alone someone I didn't know, let alone a famous person I didn't know like you. I will continue to enjoy watching your channel while being glad I know what healthy boundaries are. Don't feel bad for asking that of your viewers.
Yes, most normal thinking people know it is rude to just walk onto people's private property, that you don't even know, without being invited first.
I can’t imagine 20-30 people a week showing up at my house un announced. I get irritated when more than 2 people do it. That’s just crazy. You definitely aren’t overreacting. You have a right to privacy at your home. Regardless of if you share your life online. People should respect that.
It’s rude to just show up at someone’s house unannounced and uninvited. You have every right to speak out about uninvited guests.
Its rude to not allow complete strangers to our homes.
No its not! You are allowed to say hi to everyone you want to, but its also not rude to ask people to leave since you do not have the right of someones time
@@wChris_ it’s sarcasm
@@Jenny.killjoy Oh right, because you can always detect sarcasm in the internet.
Right! My family and friends wouldn’t even show up unannounced. Anyone I know would make plans with me and strangers who show up, often times selling things or pushing their beliefs, are asked to leave.
People forget this is a workplace…not a petting zoo. You wouldn’t take your family to visit a stranger working in an office and expect them to chat for a while without an appointment. I have experienced this in the past when I had a business from home…used to drive me nuts.
Over Texas with Ben on the Urban Rescue Ranch he keeps saying this too, people especially young people with too much time and hype on em gotta take it easy with the parasocial relationship and think about how will the content creator feel with unexpected routine breaks like a visit from strangers
Good Lord.......how weird.
People do exactly that. I know someone being quite popular but he still kept working, because he isnt that wealthy yet and he doesnt want to stop having a regular job in case the youtubehype stops for him. He was asked to leave the company bc more and more "fans" showed up there.
After that he got an offer by a icreamshop. The owner payed him well and was expecting lots of customers, who come to see him. Actually a crowd of teens showed up each day without buying ice and other potential customers were not coming bc there were so many people in front of the shop.
You can imagine how it ended.
My office is locked out to the public. Even family is frowned upon. Unless they’re beebies
Imagine the folks that come but "missed" this upload.
Highly recommend secure fencing and signs, as your channel and you are growing and newer folks in the future may miss out on seeing this.
Be safe as it is a huge security issue.
Sign reads as follows …
‘Not a real farm’
😉
Or Jedi waves a hand …
‘These are not the quackens you are looking for
Move along
Move along
😊
Having watched your channel for a while now, I completely agree with you guys. I worked on an organic free-range farm for a while and it was so disruptive with people just randomly showing up unannounced. Not only that but bio and contamination issues drove us crazy. We had 3000 chickens plus goats, sheep, 100 plus pigs from 400+kg boars to little baby ones, cattle, plus the managers horses and rabbits. Luckily we had a massive (much bigger than Toby dog) guardian and 3 females and whenever someone would arrive unannounced his presence was enough to deter most... Only reason I got the job was I was the first and only person brave or silly enough to just walk up to him and give him a pat L O XL. Keep up with the good work, we had a 4 man team and I still don't know how we managed to make sure we cared for them all.
When will people learn that there's NEVER an EXCUSE to "visit" an online creator, in their privacy of their home? It's exhausting how many times this happens.. Please be safe Morgan and crew, I hope fans will realize how wrong it is to do that!
It's because people form parasocial relationships with creators and especially because youtubers aren't seen in the same way as regular celebrities people feel even more of a familiarity with the creators to the point where they think it's okay to do stuff like this. And I mean look I get it, sometimes you watch someone for so long and you think "gee I really think we'd get along, I'd love to be friend with them" but if they've got hundreds of thousands of people who think the same thing then it's way too much for one person to handle. Not to mention that, they don't even know you.
What Natalie said but my answers simpler. They're idiots. Done and done.
@@NatalieSanguis There are plenty of examples of people in the entertainment world being stalked.
@Joey The Goaty Burrito Not all. Just some.
@@Purdey921 Yes there are but I wasn’t talking about people who are stalkers, I was talking about average people who just want to say hi to someone they feel a connection with albeit one sided.
Totally feel for you Morgan, I've had people turn up at our place because 'I worked out where you live!', I was freaked out to say the least! Hopefully people will now think twice and stay at home rather than invade your privacy. Thank you for sharing your farm with us via videos 😀
That's awful! I hope you're ok!
See you tomorrow! 🙃
Creepy!!! Sorry to hear about that!
God, why are people creepy like this?! 🤦♀️
NOT the Jerk. Morgan, you’re a lovely man with you hands full creating content for us polite people who were brought up with manners, and running your farm full time. Don’t hesitate to protect you and your family and farm, ever. Watching since 2018
There’s really no way to draw boundaries without offending SOMEONE, but I think being clear and telling why, which is exactly what you’ve done, is the best way to communicate with everyone. I think it’s weird that someone would just show up like you own some kind of theme park. (I actually check hours of operations before going to theme parks or anywhere). Good job and I hope it helps!
You aren’t a jerk. You are an educator. We have people show up to “visit” too. It’s not easy to set boundaries but sometimes you have to.
Educator of shitty farm tactics? 🙄🥱
@@kingslayxr Where’s your successful farm big boy? Last time you worked a hard day in your life? (If you’ve ever worked a day in your life.. lots of trolls online have nothing elSe going for them but trolling..)
@@kingslayxr I think we found the jerk.
@@kingslayxr then why are you here? Go away! No one wants toxic people here! We are a happy community
@@kingslayxr "King slayer" sounds like small 🍆 energy.
It’s shocking that you and Allison have to clarify this for people. I don’t even go to my family’s house without checking in if they’re going to be around. This isn’t because we aren’t a loving family, but because we respect that everyone has stuff they’re doing, and you want to be kind and considerate.
Yes same for my family 💗
That's exactly what I was thinking. I don't even show up at my family's homes unannounced.
Just to share a perspective somebody who comes from Eastern European roots,
NONE of our friends from that circle, appear pre-scheduled. That is the standard.
They are bothered and confused why people schedule to visit good friends.
I get it though.
I always schedule it before I visit, and insist my parents schedule with me, before they visit me.
Just wanted to share how different it is for other cultures.
One way or the other, isn't necessarily good or bad. It's just different.
The USA is a mix of people who've been raised under different cultures and experiences.
What one considers "polite" others will see as "rude" and vis-versa.
Having traveled to >15 different countries for work, it's eye opening as to different cultures of what is "polite" and "rude"
The variety will surprise you.
Again...
It's not necessarily "good" or "bad"..
It's just different..
@@Leshic2 Yeah but they’re in Vermont, not Eastern Europe.
@@Leshic2 You can't justify this behavior. Viewers don't really "know" Morgan. Dropping by is inappropriate, period.
I was wondering when this was going to happen and how you would address it. I have gone through the same thing. When I have kittens available and folks want to come over to see the kittens as potential buyers, it's always a delicate subject about boundaries. I want people to see and meet my cat/kittens and I want to share my love of my breed with them as well as possibly send a kitten home with them. However, I am not a pet shop, I am not a zoo, I am not the weekend outing for your entire extended family. This is my home and cats and kittens live with us in our home. So I don't expect you to bring every living relative and friend with you when possibly choosing a kitten. It's important to me that you concentrate and focus on becoming educated on the breed and how to care for your kitten. The worst one was when a family brought an entire picnic lunch with them and asked where they could camp out and enjoy it. YES!! at my home. So please people, respect Morgan's family's privacy and do not treat him and his like a public entertainment stop.
I am glad I don’t deal with that anymore it does take one person to ruin it all that person was my counselor that comes to the house she decided I had too many cats and etc. she went to the animal control officer and got the spca involved that was a nightmare. And the counselor was fired by me.
@@misbeautifulable wow. That's invasive. I'll bet you could do more about it, if you wanted to. That's shocking.
Going for therapy doesn't entitle them to come judge your whole life and home.
That's so weird to think you are invited to picnic on someone's land just bc they have kittens
WOOOOW! Smh.
I’m sorry, but your wording had me cracking up! 😂
Some people just have no consideration for others.
I’m a private person so I can totally understand you and Morgan’s stance. When people come to my door unexpectedly, I just don’t answer it. Lol That’s sad but totally the truth. Just not answering, is probably a bit harder to do on a farm though.
So you've gone through the same thing w/ 8 subs? I'm confused.
You are absolutely not being ungrateful by setting this boundary! We all understand how much you appreciate us, the quality and frequency of your videos tells us enough along that front. I respect your dedication to your farm and am 100% behind you establishing this precedent
If someone has the time to drive a couple hours for a "visit" then they have time to contact you beforehand. Nothing wrong with setting boundaries! And those new ducklings are so precious!!
I just can’t picture brining your kids and driving hours to show up unannounced at a strangers house
The sad part is, those of us who "get it" would never dream of just dropping in. The ones that don't get it, well they will think it doesn't apply to them! Sorry you have to deal with that crap.
Don’t feel bad. I was taught it’s bad manners to show up at anyones home uninvited. Just because you are on CZcams doesn’t mean that people should invade your privacy.
The amount of people mad about not being able to visit A STRANGERS HOME is so funny to me.
Good on you for the boundaries.
😳 wow people do not just show up at someone's house. That is creepy and rude. You may need to put a gate and fence at your driveway. I'm with you, I support you 100%.
Also potentially dangerous!
It's extremely creepy. Got to be mentally ill to think it's okay to show up uninvited.
That doesn't even stop some people. An alpaca breeder had people climb their gate and bring their picnic into the backyard. Another found them wandering inside the pastures. A friend has people get really mad that they couldn't bring their RV and park there overnight. There are programs for that, but this farm was not part of it.
@@lynnbetts4332 crossing a closed fenceline where I live is legally considered sufficient reason to go into 'self defense' mode. That picnic would be left behind if that happens around here.
My mother used to do this kind of thing when I was a kid. She planned our vacations around where her favorite celebrities lived so she could visit their houses and try to see them.
The only thing that stopped her from literally going up to these people’s houses, walking around the property, looking in the windows, etc, was if there was a fence and a locked gate.
Sometimes she would make us sit in the car at the gate for an hour or so (sometimes with binoculars!) in hopes of seeing the celeb in case she could talk to them or follow their car, but thankfully that never happened. We just sat in the car for an hour bored out of our minds.
But I was always relieved when a house had a gate because when she went around looking in windows, I was sure someone would call the police.
The only reason I can figure that no one ever did is because it happened so often that the house owners didn’t bother? Which is sad if true.
Not only should you not come to someone's home without a prior agreement, remember that visitors can unknowingly spread diseases like bird flu to the animals.
Good to see that Abby is doing well, now she and Toby can be buddies without the stress of having to separate them regularly.
That was my first thought bird flu and other diseases can destroy a farm.
😂
Ahhhh but then how could you become a Jehovahs Witness?
People don’t spread bird flu .wild birds spread it and non vax birds
Wow, I can truely appreciate your position about visitors. The videos are my way of following you and what you're up to. Thank you for letting me see your life, professionally and personally.
Toby is just such an amazing dog. The model dog. I watch your videos in anticipation of watching the cattle, toby and their interactions. Just pure joy!
No one should visit without arranging the visits. Your are absolutely correct. It's just wrong. Also, 10-20 visitors a WEEK?! Hell no.
I wouldn’t even let my mother visit without calling first lol.
My jaw dropped when he said that!!
@@zenluvsfun right?! 😅
Especially with CHILDREN!!! It's like they think that guilting him into it by not wanting to "disappoint little johnny, who watches you EVERY day, and who I PROMISED would get to pet the dogs and geese, and we drove HOURS to get here, give us a tour or you'll make little johnny CRYYY, and he's your BIGGEST FAN who SUPPORTS YOU!!!" It's just, so manipulative and gross. I cannot believe that people still think this is OK.
Yeah I hate it too when people use their kids "little Johnny is your biggest fan, he just wants to see the animals" as it can be so hard to say no to kids and specially as they don't always understand why. People seem to think it's some petting zoo, you shouldnt touch others animals without asking.
I don’t even show up to my brother’s house without telling him at least a week ahead of time I’m thinking about visiting. Constructive communication about boundaries is always important.
On another note, it seems like Abby is doing a lot better with the birds! She also seems she’s got the makings of a good cattle dog too. Maybe getting her spayed helped calm her down a little bit. Can’t wait to see how much progress she’ll make in future!
I definitely agree Abby is gonna make a good cattle dog; it’s not a bad thing to have a dog focused on cattle and keep Toby in the poultry guarding spot :)
My brother walks into my house unannounced at least once a week. He also lives next door to me so it’d be odd if he didn’t haha.
Same yesterday I had my birthday at my parents house and I was talking about that I have the key to there house and that of my younger brother but I will never come there without saying anything. Don’t know how some people think it’s okay to just come to people and not say anything.
the geese might've also beaten her up a bit and she finally picked up on birds not being playmates
Thank you for all your videos man! Unfortunately I'm sick today on my birthday but your videos always manage to bring a smile to my face.
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Put up a gate at the road entrance with a surveillance camera with a buzzer and call box that has a "Please Do Not Disturb" or "Not Opened to the Public" sign. When someone you don't know or who shows up uninvited, don't answer the buzzer to let them in. Besides harmless "fans" there are creeps who may be stalking you as you are a YT star so you have to be vigilant in protecting your family.
That's a good suggestion, he should do that.
thats a great ideia
He really should do that, he's far more polite than I'd be in this situation haha
That's exactly what he needs to do. I'm sure it could be connected to a cellphone so he could get the notice while outside working.
Then he can just glance at the camera & say no to unwanted visitors. Maybe even with a pre-recorded message.
@@Sienisota I'm not talking about the entire farm to be fenced with security fencing. It's already fenced to keep the livestock in. What I'm talking about is a gate at the road entrance which would prohibit vehicles from driving onto the property. With a buzzer and sign that says "Not Opened to the Public" the people cannot enter by vehicle. Obviously, if they wanted to, they could leave their cars on the roadway and climb over the fence but hopefully if it came to that common sense would take over and they realize they shouldn't do that. It would keep about probably 90% of uninvited folks from trespassing.
"Gold Shaw Farm: Visitors welcome by appointment only." Sounds like a perfectly reasonable sign to have on your front gate.
Yeah I was thinking this too. A sign would help turn people away before he even has to be distracted from work and speak to them.
A very good and polite way of deterring visitors. Maybe also a fence and gate along the road.
and a qr code with a link on how to do it the right way
Mention something about "to prevent the spread of Bird Flu" on the sign too, might help some people understand the seriousness of it.
Your message of today is understandable Morgan...Abby is such a darling Pup, I'm so happy her behavior has changed.
I am here from the Urban Rescue Ranch,uncle Ben..
Really good to see your channel..A farm is a working place,not just that its your privacy & that..Hope you are keeping well,stay safe & takecare,xx
Your not coming across as a jerk,you are just explaing how it affects your productivity & the legal side of things..
I will never understand how people think it's OK to just show up to some internet person's home. Like.. WTF is going through your mind to think that's ok?
agree! people are so self absorbed these days
Indeed, so rude!!!
It's nothing new, and it's quite common for people who live in the public eye (actors, musicians, politicians, activists, anyone who gets seen on TV)
It's one of those things where you have to understand that there are so many people out there, and not everybody is in good mental health and has healthy understandings of boundaries and privacy.
It can be pretty scary and unfortunately it's something they are going to have to consider when securing their farm from this point on.
I was involved with local activism for a years and even after I went quiet I would have local drunks showing up at my door trying to "debate" or even fight me.
It's nothing new, people are crazy and scary.
I think some develop some kind of parasocial relationship with the people they watch on the internet. Tho i think the amount is lower to live streamers on twitch or so.
In times of growing uncertainties and mental issues caused by lockdowns, its not too far off to expect such things. The growing subscriber/viewer numbers plays into it as well.
This video was necessary and there is nothing wrong with establishing clear bounderies.
Most are probably kooks, or simply have no common sense or social skills.
I know a lady, among others, who is motorcycling from South America to Alaska. She has had to publish two weeks later so folks don't know where she is right now. It's a matter of personal safety and security for her.
Her name i Noraly and her channel is called "Itchy Boots," she has thousands of videos and millions of subscribers, excellent channel to watch on the regular.
I find it strange that you didnt mention her name when she already takes many precautions and has bazillions of fans all around the world. What are you doing for her by not exposing her to a few hundred thousand farming enthusiasts? lol. Relax chum
@@paddington1670 👍🙂
Good video Morgan! Most people would not appreciate having droves of people just showing up at their homes or work places unannounced. You and Allison are doing a great job!!
You do such a good job showing us Gold Shaw Farm life on social media. I can't comprehend why anyone would think it's okay to just appear and invade your privacy! I was going to say maybe designate one or two days, but obviously you've got that covered.
It's baffling that some people think showing up uninvited to the place of someone they DON'T personally know is okay. Heck, I wouldn't even show up uninvited to the place of someone I DO personally know. Asking for permission/invitation from the owner would've been the respectful thing to do at least. And if they don't give you permission to visit, just courteously accept it that you can't go. Don't act like a self-entitled person.
I totally understand Morgan, as a dairy farmer, when too many visitors show up most with good intentions somehow the apple cart just gets disturbed. That's why my Dad would make the visitors get assigned chores like weeding the garden or loading hay bales or pitching calf pens. They all left pretty quick.
I think I would stick around for a chore or two knowing that up front so I was prepared but its not like I would be in Peacham any time soon.
If I showed up uninvited (which I wouldn’t) I would 100% be down to help with some daily tasks! Hopefully cut his time down
Anthony, your Dad was a genius at understanding humans!😂 Morgan, check his idea out!👍👀 I grew up taking care of my horse and cleaning up manure, even from the horse you love, can be a real test of *sincerity*. 🏃🤸🏃♂🏃♀🪣👨🌾
Brilliant idea!
While he said he can’t do tours because of insurance reasons (and likely couldn’t accept help from fans for similar reasons) the experience of helping out for a day sounds great! Especially for anyone who’s wanting to get into owning farm animals but who’ve unfortunately missed out on things like 4H programs.
(I’m one of those people. Didn’t realize I wanted to keep chickens until adulthood and I wish I could see what kind of hands-on care they need _before_ I get a flock.)
It is good that you are setting boundaries. Your work is so important and necessary. You have the right to protect your wife and your farm. It is wonderful the way you care, respect and love your farm animals. Really enjoy your videos and am thankful that you take the time to share your life and farm with us. Thanks!
I’m honestly glad that you brought it up. Because I thought that issue stopped a long time ago. I’m so sorry that people think it’s okay to go to someone’s HOME and think it’s okay. Even when they don’t know you personally, I hope everything calms down and you can get your time on the things that’s needed to continue your farm. Thank you for all the advice and lessons you’ve taught and shown us
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You handled this problem with a lot of grace. I can’t imagine just showing up at your place, but I can’t wait to pick up the duck I just ordered!
It's never OK to show up at a creators house uninvited. We need to get that message out there, no one can cope with that level of insecurity for long and remain sane.
the best way to join you on your farm is through the camera you allow us to view what you want us to see of what your upload in the comfort of our home/device.
Thanks for all the great videos. This video is TOTALLY understandable!
As cool as it is to meet fans people need to understand that this is your workplace & home, it's not one or the other and I doubt many people would like to have strangers randomly come to their workplace and try to talk to them. People just gotta remember, they know you from your videos but you don't know them, most people don't want strangers randomly appearing at their house.
ben from urban rescue ranch had the same issue with people just being far too overfamiliar.
Uncle Ben!
People just need to think that it's his private home and workplace and not a public zoo.
Most people wouldn't like that, which is why most people don't become CZcamsrs. Putting out 3 videos a week with nearly 200k views each this guy is probably making $10k a month off them. If I could make that money from uploading random, unedited videos of my life I would be giving people personal tours when they came over lol
@@makokx7063 so you think because people post something on the internet for their source of income means they instantly lose all rights to privacy and security??? I’ll never understand why people feel that way. As a basic human right you should be able to live your life in peace and security. Just because someone shows you a few parts of their life does not make you entitled to anything else they may not want to share. Y’all forget it’s the same as any other job you could have. Being a content creator is running and business. It’s a job. People like Ben choose to share their life to spread awareness for their passion, which for him is animal rescue and farming. Yes, his income has enabled him to buy land and expand his farm and animal rehab work, but what’s wrong with that????? Why does that fact mean he should have to allow strangers into his literal HOME? He’s stated at some point he would like to expand enough that they can do tours. But right now that’s his actual HOME. I’m glad you would feel okay having strangers showing up whenever and giving them endless tours of your personal home, but I know I sure wouldn’t, and no one should be expected to.
@@makokx7063 Are you saying that these videos aren't edited? They clearly are.
If you're trying to work, you don't have time or energy for tours. Running a farm isn't something you do whenever you feel like it. Also, most people don't want strangers on their land.
What exactly is stopping you from making random unedited videos?
Thank you for this PSA, and this goes for all farms! I'm not even well known, and people still show up at my farm uninvited all the time. It's infuriating - people think all farms are open tourist attractions, but they are private homes and people need to learn to respect boundaries.
We had it too back in the 90s on our family dairy farm. No, we can't just show you around. No, you can't just stand in the pasture with the girls to take pictures with them (Holsteins are big and if the lead/alpha/whatever word works for the layman with no farm experience cow decides to head in your direction, they are all heading in your direction. Now let's add them being spooked on top of it). No, you can't just go pull over and go deer hunting on our property (ex: when my ex was 14 when he was on the combine, knuckleheads were chasing a deer and shooting at it in the same direction as my ex. There was more than one bullet hole in the combine and by absolute luck my ex wasn't hit. When they were confronted by the Sheriff's department, the literal response was "oh, we thought we could just hunt here because it was an empty field!" We were just off the interstate so it was a regular thing as far as casual "foot traffic" was concerned.
I understand that not everyone grows up with this but use even a little common sense.
@@primad8781 exactly! This kind of behavior goes on all the time around rural areas. What a crazy story!
@@primad8781 Common sense no long seems to be common, sadly. 🤔
@@petgranny194 The incident with my ex on the combine was over 35 years ago so I'm not sure it's a recent phenomenon that people have no common sense, we just didn't have the internet to document it back then.
Seems common sense and proper manners are not so common anymore.
It is good to see Abby finding her place on the farm. I can tell you care and love. You are an awesome person.
Just found your videos and am so bummed I missed the event by ONE DAY. Been so interested in learning as much as possible about sustainable farming and guardian dogs.
that is so incredibly CREEPY...I hate when people I KNOW show up to my little home unannounced so I can only imagine people from the internet just showing up. Please be safe...
The people you have to tell not to show up uninvited are the ones who need to hear it most. That's completely unacceptable, nothing to do with fame or ego, just simple boundaries.
I drove bye on my way to the Groton Festival 2021 and was super excited but did NOT stop. Even though I came all the way from Seattle! I work with Special Needs students and my parents always wanted to meet them-no can do. Props to Allison👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
So glad you posted this! Makes me not want to share stuff online. Yikes!!!
Hope you end touring for you and families safety!
Honestly I don’t intend any disrespect to anyone who’s doing this kinda thing, but showing up unannounced and without permission is extremely rude.
That’s not JUST your farm but also your home, and I know for a fact I wouldn’t want just anyone stopping by my home.
I think the way you have this message was very constructive and should be completely understood
@@miketheratbastard40 Watching his videos is free and his farm is his home and private property. What makes you think you’re entitled to be able to visit?
@@miketheratbastard40 what a stupid comment. he aint public property..?
@@miketheratbastard40 oh so u are one of those that visited morgan without an invite
@@miketheratbastard40 i dont think anyone would like your visits
How utterly rude of total strangers just showing up on YOUR property and trespassing and stealing YOUR time. I can thoroughly understand the stress and frustration you and Allison are experiencing from this invasion. Let alone the frightening fact of the violation of your personal security. There are just so many hours between sunrise and sunset and you need to complete your errands and tasks each day. You're absolutely correct to set boundaries and limits.
I think one of the problems is that people naturally equate office buildings and factories with places that people work at, but the outdoors? Not so much.
They wouldn't dream of dropping by for a visit while you're working, but they fail to understand that what this man is doing is also work.
Also, can you imagine stopping what you're doing, that really needs to get done, to entertain some people who you don't know and weren't invited, only to have one of them get injured while they're wasting your time and end up suing you?
@@donmiller2908 Not really. People stopped by Casey Neistat's New York City office/studio all the time.
@@chinaberg That proves nothing. Every rule has it's exceptions. For the most part, people visit you in your home, not your place of employment.
I would put up a sign up and not interact with any of them showing up. It is a scary thing with weirdos are showing up. Anyone that would show up has low common sense and maybe low IQ.They can't think and plan out how life works or they don't care. Generations of bad habits and parenting leading to lots of strange behaviors these days.
No its not! You are allowed to say hi to everyone you want to. Its also not trespassing since you by law you have an implicit invitation to enter someones property for the sole purpose of knocking or ringing the door.
This is the problem that How Farms Work over five years ago had and it got real bad. The problem with people coming to the farm is the potential of introducing disease and insurance problems. Also people could get a disease from the animals. As you said. Was the chicken 13:47 a silky? Thank you and have a good day.
You've got to set boundaries. And honestly, I think most folks, even when it's family and they encourage you to just show up sometime, though they usually mean it, most of us just won't end up doing it and would rather instead arrange a day and time to do so, or at the very least, shoot a text or quick call over to whoever we're looking to meet with if they're able and willing to meet up and talk/hang out. I know it's that way in my family, and everyone else's families that I know of around here. It's just common courtesy. I think most people don't really like it when people just show up without at least some semblance of warning.
I'm always shocked to hear that parents themselves will take kids to their favourite CZcamsrs home. They should have more sense. Parasocial relationships are a very strange thing.
Parents that can’t say no to there kids……..big problem 😎😉😇🤨
Boundaries people! Has he ever said “come on by”, NO. He is a busy farmer. This is why we watch from afar.
I know. They’re crazy. Anyone who does that is absolutely crazy. I don’t care how nice they seem. You have nice, crazy people… until they’re not.
@@nordicpink 😅
One day, if you and Allison decide, a farm tour would be amazing! You could have a greeter, the tour guide(s), and then still be productive. Also the neighbor boy that lost his cat, I'm wondering if it may help him to help you and be around other animals. Love from CT 💙
That was a real hard thing for you to do and we are proud of you for being able to do it. Maybe you should think of a sign-off for each video that appreciates your audience but says let me have my space/time/privacy. For example:
Thanks for taking time out of your day but please remember Visitors are a cattle's milkweed...
also, a sign out front
No Soliciting or Visitors
Seriously
Don't ring the bell
Don't make it weird
I can't wrap my head around why would people show up uninvited...and to even take KIDS with them? Do they think that Morgan runs a theme park there or something? Baffling. And Morgan, you're 100% in the right. You've given us so much insight into your personal life already. Whoever's demanding your time so flippantly needs to rethink their attitude. Don't worry about the eventual backlash. There will always be some who cannot understand and/or accept clearly stated boundaries, but it's on them. Keep on rockin'!
There are *specific agritourism* farms for this sort of thing!
I’m glad that you made this video even with the fear of being looked at like a jerk, I’ve seen it multiple times with farmers that I watch where people just think it’s okay to show up on your property. It’s not okay when it isn’t a scheduled visit. You’re not a jerk, this is a very valid thing to be posting about!
The disrespectful trespassers are the jerks
you’re such a hard working man, I can’t believe people think they can just show up and basically waste your time, farming takes a really long time and a lot of dedication like I can’t believe that
In total agreeance with you. I don't think any of those people would appreciate the same thing they are doing to you.
So glad I got to meet you back in 2019 and shoot the breeze randomly with you at the HOA conference. I had never seen your videos, wasn't aware you did you tube and learned about you and your farm (Rememer the store bought vs homegrown tomato tasting we did with Jess and Kaylee). You were such a nice personable guy and sparked my interest to check out your videos. I went home and checked out your CZcams and have been watching ever since. Now you and Jess are my top 2 I watch weekly. Never feel bad needing to set your boundaries! However if I ever visited Vermont (I have a cousin that lives in Brookline). Id love to come to Peacham for a visit if I was allowed lol 😊 Good luck and keep up the good work friend!!
People driving hours to get to you unanncounced feels like some really big red flags for me. Thats just very creepy.. 😬
It’s your HOME! You deserve the privacy just like anyone else. We are LUCKY that we get to share your life as much as we do. ❤️
It's always welcome and refreshing to hear healthy boundaries being set. Glad to see such a positive rollmodel in the community!😉
I understand, so see ya next Tuesday for a visit!
I live in England and watch your videos. Our viewers in the uk never cause problems. I lived in a village called mcduff in Scotland. My question is; have you ever thought about moving to Scotland? It’s amazing!
These people have no perception of how labor intensive farming actually is.
There’s only so many hours in a day and he is doing all the work himself. Just because he’s on social media doesn’t give people the right to trespass and invade his privacy.
It’s also very stressful for his animals to have strangers wandering around, not to mention the diseases that could be brought in on people’s shoes.
His wife works full time and I’m sure most working people will agree, after your shift is done you want to come home, relax and not have your yard filled with strangers.
These people need to put themselves in their place.
Being in the public’s eye doesn’t give anyone entitlement to invade that person’s life, whether it’s the entertainment industry, farming, politicians, people dealing with natural disasters, or people affected by acts of violence.
charge $50 per person and appoint a guide to show around . After paying him what is left can be profit
set the rules on what , where they can go in the farm. All visits with appointments
People feel they are entitled to just show up at a private residence. You need to put signs up, this is a working farm not a tourist destination. People are down right stupid. It is called trespassing. Stay home, it is a video not Disneyland! Good job Abby!
It’s completely understandable and thank you for talking about it. Hopefully some day you can manage things with people visiting or even coming by to pick up more types of animal produce (like eggs) if that is a route you want.
I honestly find it difficult to imagine someone is “super friendly” when they just show up unannounced to a someone’s home.
Here's the thing, Morgan. No one has a right to your time. That's a lesson I learned the hard way as a service dog handler. People always want to stop service dog handlers to ask questions, pet the dog, talk about their own dog, or tell us how their aunt's ex-husband's cousin's kid had a service dog, so they know all about them. Most of these people are very friendly and well meaning. But when every tenth person you walk past tries to stop you, it's easy for a quick five minute run for milk to turn into an hour long marathon of "avoid the curious shoppers." And that's not even getting into the less friendly, more self-entitled folks who either demand our private medical info or literally follow us around the store demanding we let them pet our dog. Or the parents who treat us like some sort of store-provided babysitting service for their out of control kids. Nor is it addressing how dangerous it can be to distract a working service dog whose job may literally be saving the life of their handler.
But that's off topic. My point is: it's okay to set boundaries. Yes, you are choosing to put this content out there (whereas for many service dog handlers, there is no other viable option to meet our medical needs), but that doesn't take away from the fact that you have a farm to run, as anyone who watches your content can clearly see. On top of that, your farm is also your private home, and just like any other CZcamsr, you have a right to privacy and to share with us only what you decide to share. So don't feel bad. Keep on doing what you need to do. Your fans will understand.
Wait, how do people treat you like a “store provided babysitter??” I always feel so bad when I see handlers going through that stuff. And yeah like anyone else I’d love to stop and talk about dogs with anyone!! But as an adult I know to just keep walking and if I really feel the need to talk I can call a friend! If I had kids the most I would do would be to point out the vest, say we don’t disturb or touch, and maybe at the very most, if my kid was staring or asking, I say look at how the dog is helping, isn’t that neat, we need to let him do his job now let’s go look at the toys!
AMEN! True Dat!!
@@katietrongogo You sound like the kind of person I love passing in stores. You love and appreciate dogs, but know not to interfere with a working dog.
As for kids... oof. I have so many horror stories, haha. A few years back, on my current service dog's very first public training outing (after loads of training in private, of course), we visited Walmart late at night when it would hopefully be less busy, since that's generally preferable for the first several store visits. As we were walking through the baby section, three kids around the ages of 7-10 decided it would be fun to play a game of "run full speed at the dog, stop two feet away, throw hands in the air and run away screaming... then repeat the whole process" with us. Thankfully my dog handled it like a pro, but I wasn't so thrilled. Another time I had two kids who looked to be around 10 follow me into a restaurant's bathroom and literally take turns peeking under and over the stall to look at my dog while I alternated between asking them to stop and trying to ignore them long enough to pee. Eventually I gave up and left with plans to return a bit later.
As far as parents treating service dog handlers as a store provided babysitting service, it's not uncommon at all for parents to see their kids mob a handler, only to smile and walk several aisles away to continue their shopping. I still remember the first time that happened to me. Three kids surrounded my dog (one in front, one behind, and one on the side) and insisted on petting her. I couldn't move, as I rely on my dog to help me walk safely (I tend to fall a lot and appear as though drunk when walking without her). When it became clear the kids wouldn't listen to me, I spotted the parents a couple aisles down and tried asking them to call their kids, but they completely ignored me. In the end, I was forced to let go of my dog's harness handle and take several wobbly steps forward so that she could maneuver herself around the kids to catch up to me, at which point we rushed the exit together.
It gets crazy out there. It's enough to make me genuinely grateful for every single person who chooses to just let me shop in peace.
When i see someone with a service dog i smile to the dog- but only for a brief moment and only when the dog and the handler are standing at the spot or sitting down. If the Handler starts a talk i tell them that they should give the dog a hug at home in my name and wish them a good day. I would never pet a service dog unless the owner says it's ok... Those dogs are at work . So please... be respectfull and a smile is enough.
@@nicked_fenyx holy cow! yeah i've never personally witnessed behavior that bad, but it sounds like a nightmare. Maybe hopefully things will get better now that social media is around to call people who do stuff like that out. Never be afraid to wip out a phone and post to local groups! and like you said, kids will be kids but it's completely the parents/gardian's responsibility to educate and control them. I'll forgive someone if they genuinly didn't know, but cmon, the giant vests with DO NOT PET should be enough! Best of luck to you, and give your pup a good pat for me!
Setting boundaries, we love to see it.
Edit as I finish the vid: it is never whining to protect the peace of you, your wife, or your livelihood. You have asked what should be the bare minimum in the politest possible manner. Anyone who takes this badly needs to examine why they think their wants are more important than your needs.
Your farm is your home, and should be respected as such! People who just show up, are very much out of line, and I think you covered this topic quite gracefully.
I won't even show unannounced to my FRIENDS houses, can't imagine the courage to just drop in Morgan's place. I don't understand these people, you are absolutely right to turn down visitors!
I don't think "please strangers don't come to our home uninvited" is that unreasonable of a request. I hope these people stop doing it, it's actually really weird of them to do.
It's totally gross that people feel so entitled they will just show up at somebody's house or farm expecting a tour
Great video! So sorry people are so oblivious, rude, selfish, stupid, whatever. Unacceptable. But thanks for sharing!
I get it and I'm happy to just watch your videos. We get a better daily 'tour' anyway than you can give us in-person.
I don’t like unexpected visitors that drop by when I’m home and I’m not trying to run a farm and get all the farm work done. People really need to respect boundaries.
its so nice to see Abby look so happy and calm sense she got spayed, I really think that getting her spayed was the right thing for her, she really seams less stressed without all the teenage hormones after her first heat
Wow! It's like you're a big time celebrity! Unexpected interactions with fans and everything. People need to respect boundaries!! Good luck!!
Setting reasonable boundaries does not make you a jerk. Good for you to be able to set boundaries between you and your audience, it can help prevent burnout!
I don't like people just showing up at my home. It's hard for me to imagine thinking it's OK to just show up at your farm. You've already made it quite clear that it's not OK to show up.
I'd love to hear what someone who just showed up at the farm thought. Like, how does it occur to someone to just go to a strangers home and think that it's an ok thing to do? It literally sounds like a flat out insane thing to do.
Same, I waana know what goes through their head that says. "Yeah, this is okay, I should do this, I deserve this person's time."
That's the problem. They don't see a stranger.
That sounds like an entitled person's things to do... Like "everyone should be honored to have me visit". So creepy and sad
they could be autistic too, I've had to catch myself from doing stuff that many might find weird, but in my head It's how I try to reach out. Trust me in my head I'm thinking what is so wrong with wanting to show up and meet someone you like, but the normal part of me is saying "would you like a stranger showing up acting like they knew you?" lol no I would not, but I can see how the other person thought it was innocent.
@@Anna-lz7mr If you asked the person they might say: "We are not strangers, we know Morgan and Alyson very well."
And they are not wrong. They just don't think about what other people think or might feel.
Morgan, you've handled this situation much better than most! I get a little annoyed when family drops by my home unannounced (I'll graciously accept them though, of course) I can't imagine day in and day out having to entertain strangers from the internet. Maybe a good compromise would be to have a couple tours one day a week?
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I know the feeling, ive got a lot of classic cars in my parking lot on a busy road. People stop by all the time and i even catch people opening doors and rooting around in them
You should put a sign that say "no trespassing" so other people would know not to enter your farm without permission or consent
People who show up unannounced are unwanted and rude and just plain not raised right
Completely understandable and very politely presented 💖
Upmost respect for you for the way you treat the animals, even those used for food are treated with respect.
Definitely not a jerk! You share so much of your beautiful life with us already! If there ever comes a time when you can receive visitors, we will be there to support that as well. I know I would love to meet the Toby, Abby, and the barn cats. But I would never just show up to your home, disrupting your farm. Wishing you the best!
Can you imagine stopping what you're doing, that really needs to get done, to entertain some people who you don't know and weren't invited, only to have one of them get injured while they're wasting your time and end up suing you? It would drive me nuts
A farm isnt a drop-in centre , it's a place of work that has no time for visitors. I'll bet that 0% of your "visitors " were farmers themselves .
Its terrible behaviour , no matter how harmless they think it is .
You did the right thing , Morgan 👍👍
I am amazed that people think that they can't just turn up. This is a working farm. Emphasis on the 'work' part. Plus, with COVID you can not afford to get sick.
I can see your point. Just because you are available on line doesn't mean its an open invitation.
Keep on keeping on x
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Totally get what you're asking Morgan, I regularly find people wandering through my property (and I'm not on CZcams!), even peering through my windows - and when I front them, they get annoyed at me for asking how they would feel if I just went for an unannounced look through their back yard and say things like "well you should have a sign" (in Australia it is not usual to place no trespass signs). Should the sign read "no sticky-beaking rude people welcome here?" Lol