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👇 Top 5 Reasons to Watch this Episode TILL THE END
1. You'll Know About Importance Of Setting Boundaries For Children
2. How Parents Are Unintentionally Teaching Wrong Things?
3. How To Understand Emotions Of Your Child?
4. Important Things Every Parents Should Know
5. Things We Should Do To Build Confidence Of Your Child?
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00:00 | Introduction
04:44 | Understanding a Child's World
09:44 | Should we give the child the time to self regulate or we should immediate go and rescue them?
12:07 | How Much Attachment is Right Attachment?
15:40 | Childhood Defines Who You Are
20:18 | How To Set Boundaries?
22:54 | How To Teach Discipline To Kids?
28:41 | How Parents are Unintentionally Teaching Wrong Things?
36:46 | 3 Universal Laws Of Parenting
41:17 | Childhood Is More Important Than You Think
48:28 | How To Build Confidence In Your Child?
50:42 | Right Way Of Praising Your Child (And What's a Wrong Way)
52:16 | For Parents Having 2+ Kids
56:02 | Definition of Success
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👇 About Guest
Ishinna Sadana Is Parenting Coach. She Has Consulted 25k+ Parents to understad their Children and their Emotions better. She Has Attended More Than 250 Workshops. She Is A Co-Founder Of @theboxpediaindia.
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👇 About Shobha
Shobha Rana, is an Emotional Intelligence Coach, Spirituality coach, Live show host, Anchor, Motivational Speaker, Podcaster, Holistic Wellness Coach as well as an Entrepreneur. She has hosted 2000+ events in 35+ countries and has coached over 15,000 people to live their best lives. Shobha is also the founder of The Yogini Square and co-founder of The Creator Pad.
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I'm almost 19 now and not even a single day I'm able to feel love for my parents, There might be sympathy there might be some feelings of obligations but not love!! I tend to respond negatively too!
This is happening in many relationships , if we only concern with duty to each other in a relationship and no love then in whatever relationship is that disscus it with your parents what u r feeling and it may be possible they are only doing the things because of there Duty and not out of love
All the best
Ok now think about them your mom and dad. Think abouttheir childhood and relationship with their parents. Many a times they don’t know how to give love because they themselves don’t have that, they also might not had received it from their parents. A person can only give something if they have. Read psychology u will understand. There might be something through which they show love to you think about that.
@@kc0369 I'm on a therapy from past 6 months and I know all that I read alot about psychology I've understood many things it's just that I'm still not able to feel that their actions and my raising was justified, I deserved love, I was so deprived of what I really should have got effortlessly
Parenting in many households have becoming a duty.
I received several wonderful observations while listening to this podcast. For example, we should praise efforts and not always the results. As for questions, I hope my comment will be read: please have a conversation on:
1) Why do we need to produce a child?
2) what are the pros and cons on a woman's life and health if she decides to become or not to become a mother.
3) There is a very strong myth in our Indian society that one child is not sufficient, at least there has to be two of them. Is it true or what are the hidden layers behind it?
4) As most populated country of the world, what should be our take on producing kids?
Spot On!
The best podcaster I've come
across. It really takes lots of patience to make something really meaningful and not capitalise on bhoot, horror and sensation. Thank you shobha for doing this and being so much thoughtful about the themes you choose to create podcasts on. The whole country I am seeing is running after BJP and congress and I really feel sad to see so much hatred spreading out.
There is nothing wrong in what the other Podcasters are doing, but at the end of the day, everyone, each one of us is a human being and all of the problems that we face all the solutions that we discover or innovate- it is on a very, very, very individual level.
Thank you Shobha for understanding it- I don't know if much people are observing it, but I can see that indirectly through the selection of your Podcasts
I would like Dr. Ishina to come afain on the podcast and talk about Patrnting Teenage children and its challenges in todays world, their scrren time, their mobile addiction and other topics
Wonderful episode... The burning questions and confusions of parenting answered in so simple words. Also explained what we should do ... Always have heard of what we should not do.... It always posed a question how not to hurt the child and still handle the situations... Its so clearly explained.. thanks for this episode
Level of conversation is really high, yet easy to understand. Appreciable.
Lovely 🌹 I am an ardent follower of Dr. Ishinna. She is magical and her words always puts my mind at ease❤ I'd be grateful if you can cover raising kids with these very principles amidst a joint family dynamics or with in laws where the other adults refuse to understand parental rights over their child's life or for that matter child's own rights over their emotional and physical being
The best podcast I have ever watched....everyone Must watch this podcast..
Fabulous conversation. Truly enlightening 🎉
Eye-opening conversation 👏👏
Such a beautiful episode! Loved listening to both of you! Please bring Ishinna back!!
Wow ❤❤❤being parent myself iam truly enlightened with the conversation here. Appreciate Shobha for hosting such an ❤️ 💙 💜 touching topics in your podcasts.
If possible i would expect podcars around guidance around teenage parenting ❤
Thank you mam for being in our life 🙏😊
Thank you very much, Ma'm
Your all podcast episodes on different subjects are the best, most appropriate.
Regards
Brilliant from both ..thanks ❤❤
Very informative podcast 😊😊 shared with my wife also, lets see what is her take on this...
Certain sentences are just mind blowing..... absolutely clear..... wonderful
Thanks for your kind appreciation & support. I’m glad you enjoyed this conversation. I hope you’re watching other episodes too 😊🙏
Offcourse n I've shared too.....the one with peepal baba is another fevorite.thank you.
Please add your podcast on Apple Podcasts. These are amazing would like to hear them while driving 😊
Wonderful episode👏👏
Bacho ke sath khelne se connect bhi hoga aur aapki bonding majboot hogi. Unke sath padhayi kijiye to unme discipline aayega.
Unke sath khaoge to definitely they will what u r having
very good work keep it up mam i am a big fan of your podcast. what a nice materialistic content you deliver free of cost salute to you 😊 and lastly one complement for u. your voice is so melodious ❤😊 your mr . perfect willl be a lucky person 😊
Ma'am please do a podcast on how overcome on fear . How the fear is connected with our name and fame... And how this thing play big villain role in journey of our life..... Etc...
And Yes... This podcast is too heart ❤️ touching really...
Very nice podcast and great guest
very nice work maam
My best way to pass time while having my meals.
Thnx learnt n need to unlearn a lot from u young enterprising people. Just wanted to know if d child has bipolar or some personality disorder is conscious parenting n inner work of parents help a 27 year old
amazing conversation ... loved it !
Glad you liked it!
Would like to know more about how to build connection with kids
It would be better,if you can add English subtitles for non Hindi audiences
Pure class ❤
Love this channel contents
Great content. Aapke technical team ko bolie aapki audio echo karti hai har podcast me
Nicely done keep it up 👏
one suugestion for you.lights putting on the face looks harsh and bright. make it soft
Shobha I love your podcast journey it's really making each of us learn & grow along & yes ,also viewers should feel lucky to gain such growing experiences through our podcast if she is giving us so much we too can do little atleast by subscribing her so as this journey goes a long way & benefit.
As a parent of 4 kids, i feel proud of being a good parent, i am glad that we share mistakes, so we can grow together
You are a nice parent looks like who gives attention to all 4 kids equally, unfortunately some parents with more than 1 kid are narcissists and they have a golden child whom they love the most and ignore others
@@ipsitakar6684 painful no?
Its hard to be equal, i tell the kids that
Nothing is, even the word equal had odd number of letters hehehehehe
Somewhere it heals our inner child❤
Please get Dr ishina again , request
About to have a kid. Learnt a lot.
growing good...right on path...thodi light and voice needs to adjusted..
wonderful podcast 👍👍👍
Thank you for your kind appreciation and support. Hope you’re watching other episodes too🙏😊
Awsum awsum
Beautiful podcast
Thanks for your kind appreciation & support. I’m glad you enjoyed this conversation. I hope you’re watching other episodes too 😊🙏
Well done beta❤
I have listened almost all of your podcasts but this episode contains too much of ad
Not just parents. siblings also try to become parents. Experiment...of parenting
There is Shobha at the top, then Ganesh and the ones who can learn from them, like Ranveer
Very tough to follow
Shobha, Dog, Chldren, Bathroom Servant & condition of their vehicle , this tell you all...
Very informative, just wanna request ya. Could you make show on autism, its very common here but majority of indian parents are not aware about autistic kids ? Thanks 🙏
Will try to raise your question in the next episode. I’m glad you enjoyed this conversation. I hope you’re watching other episodes too 😊🙏
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Nature of the kid is all dependent on vibration or aura you have created at your home... and environment you have created... am i correct? what's your thoughts on this??
I can completely relate that... I have 8 month old daughter and trying to do best what can be done...
It definitely depends on the aura at home.
Parenting के बारे मे इतना भी मत डराओ लोगो को की यंग कपल बच्चे पैदा करने के लिए दस बार सोचे। हजारों सालों से पेरेंटिंग हो रही हैं। आम तौर पर बच्चे की परवरिश, मानसिकता ग्रोथ, रिलेशनशिप ठीक ही चल रहा है
Parenting pura circus he.. maximum parents khud hi uchal kud wale hote he...khud hi ko samjh nahi .bas jhumte rehte he ...
Kbi English kbi Hindi je Keya hai....apni matr bhasha mein bolo to jeyada asha hoga...kush imandari honi chahiye kisi bhasha ki tarf...kbi Hindi kbi English
भाई अगर आप हिंदी में कमेंट कर रहे हैं तो हिंदी में टाइप करें। अगर हिंदी का झंडा लेकर दौड़ना है तो हिंदी पूरी तरह से व्यवहार करें।
ऐसे नहीं के हिंदी में बोल रहे हैं और स्क्रिप्ट अंग्रेजी।
😂😂😂@@KILOMIKE86
Please try to invIte shri kamlesh D patel leading person of heartfulness meditation
Kuch bhi karlo there is no proper solution how to handle kids.
Apse request hai ya toh English me bolo ya toh Hindi me bolo, bich bich me mix math karo.
Overall nice video👍
But how should the child deal with toxic mother
That’s a topic we will cover in a future episode. Stay tuned :)
In this podcast the guest has been allowed to speak less and the host has done most of the speaking.
Shobha, I am great fan of your podcasts. But what I am seeing is you reframe the same things which your guests are telling. You need not do it again and again and disturb the train thought’s of the guests. Please let them finish and ask the leading questions. Don’t repeat the same. Secondly you interrupt so much…
please do not get carried away by your own questions which will be answered eventually. Your curiosity kills the whole podcast. Last podcast which was very good ( on metabolism) could’ve been more about informative if you would talked less. The lady had so much to offer, she was so articulate and inspite of your interference she came back again and again. You should be a sutradhar …. Let your guests finish…
Why do we connect those things with such things which have no connection with anything. You should make podcasts but not on such topics which seem different everywhere on an individual level. Every child is different so how can things be same. Till the time you do not know the correct DNA memory or genetic memory of the parents you cannot do a proper upbringing. Why do we forget that humans have learnt everything from nature and everything is different there, such things will mislead the parents instead of leading them forward. You should know how to find out the soul journey of your child. Otherwise you will be seen making him dance everywhere like a monkey.
You will find thousands of children around whom everything is ruined and yet their human value is very high....
All our things are written by writers from foreign countries and we keep telling them to everyone in a roundabout way. But why do we never talk about Chanakya. His thoughts on upbringing. Madam, when the parents themselves have brought up the wrongly, then how can the right upbringing happen?
With all due respect Shobha, please let the expert talk. It felt like u keep on interrupting. We would like to hear more from the expert. Thank you.
With all due respect, please note that it’s a conversation, not an interview. And in a conversation/podcast, being a host I need to interject, include multiple perspective about the same thing. Moreover, I’m also an emotional intelligence & mindset coach and in that capacity it’s my attempt to bring in multiple perspectives. It’s not an interview with flat questions and answers. It’s an insightful discussion. Hope you’ll watch it from that stand. Thank you 🙏
Absolutely, but you must also take feed back from Audience positively. You bring the topic of the podcast really clasic and very insightful but I have also observed that you must also allow the speaker to speak his/her mind filly before putting another clarification, rest you are the best judge of your podcast.
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I’m sorry I am saying this, but I have to say that you speak really really fast. You don’t even take a breath in between. I understand that you have to ask questions as many as you can because of the time limit, but still I think it is necessary to go a little slow the way your guest is speaking.😊😊. By the way, I really love your podcast.😊
Thank you for your genuine feedback. I’ll try to work on it 🙏
Kya bakwas hai , bacho ke sath khelo , khao aur unko padhane ke sath apna office ka kaam karo. Unke sath khelne ,khaane se 70% baat aapki maan lenge kyunki bacho ko aapka saath pasand hai.
Don't have kids
This discussion is nothing but spoil children. Child will never have self confidence to live life . Parent will regret and would not be able to die. Depression ?
Loved but not liked
Hindi me bolo ya English ye nhi chalega
English is super lingo
She didn't talk much abt how important is giving and treating ur children with respect. Some parents let their childrens down in every aspects and don't give a shit to their privacy. I know a person who has lost his personality just bcoz of his father laughed at his emotion when he told him that he cries alone in a room bcoz people bullies hik fr his complexion 🥲