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  • @alexr1632
    @alexr1632 Před 8 měsíci +3079

    I love the concept that it has to be an explicit rule to not sing on a plane for this person to know that singing on a plane is not acceptable. That would be like playing a distorted metal guitar in a nursery.

    • @shuriflwrs
      @shuriflwrs Před 8 měsíci +152

      yeah everyone knows babies like classical guitar a lot better

    • @badassdookiefart
      @badassdookiefart Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@shuriflwrsLOL

    • @noodlesofoodles
      @noodlesofoodles Před 8 měsíci +183

      fr like if you want to give a performance, maybe don’t do it in a place where people literally cannot leave

    • @breadbird
      @breadbird Před 8 měsíci +33

      wait.. you don’t play distorted metal guitar in nurseries? /j

    • @Ernan_Films
      @Ernan_Films Před 8 měsíci +3

      Ayy look at Noel in the top right corner! This one step closer to a collab with the TMG

  • @rynbliss
    @rynbliss Před 8 měsíci +1351

    "are you willing and able to be quiet right now" 💀he was talking to her like a child and she just kept pushing it. he really does deserve a raise

    • @eminempreg
      @eminempreg Před 8 měsíci +52

      Dude already knew exactly the type of person he was dealing with

    • @bottombarrelbudgetfilms1854
      @bottombarrelbudgetfilms1854 Před 7 měsíci +44

      "muh lord muh lord muh lord" YOU'RE NOT IN CHURCH

    • @jackoh991
      @jackoh991 Před 7 měsíci +7

      I don't know. I found his tone awful. Like don't talk to adults like children. He said his instruction was to answer the question. He should have simply said be quiet or you'll have to get off which one. He needs to calm down

    • @mr.uncleg5307
      @mr.uncleg5307 Před 7 měsíci +40

      @@jackoh991she needed to not sing on a plane. She was behaving like a child, hence his tone.

    • @lizwohl4765
      @lizwohl4765 Před 7 měsíci +35

      @@jackoh991 I viewed his wording as being more explicit with his instructions. "Willing and able" is probably the wording in the policy for dealing with difficult passengers.

  • @spiffygroove
    @spiffygroove Před 8 měsíci +1924

    The second hand embarrassment I felt from this video is palpable how do people have so little shame in public

    • @worm-bri
      @worm-bri Před 8 měsíci +47

      bring back shame!!!!!

    • @unknown6390
      @unknown6390 Před 8 měsíci +72

      Shame? It's a matter of respect for your fellow passangers. I know you know but even if our favorite artist was on the plane it'd be disrespectful to everyone else to have them sing or play song out loud like that.

    • @greed13X
      @greed13X Před 8 měsíci +13

      ​@@worm-briShame never existed. People have always been this cringe.

    • @Natashamertens
      @Natashamertens Před 8 měsíci +5

      I had to pause the video 35 seconds in

    • @tripical
      @tripical Před 8 měsíci +2

      Anyone else remember “Rebecca star” singing that cringe song on the subway? Literally starts the song with the first two lyrics being “no cap”

  • @Sasha-qb6et
    @Sasha-qb6et Před 8 měsíci +861

    If people from any other religious group other than Catholic/Anglican/Christian started singing on a plane there would be mainstream news outrage

    • @gotmilkbutt
      @gotmilkbutt Před 8 měsíci +154

      The plane would be grounded due to the sheer amount of fear in the audience.

    • @aesthetix3398
      @aesthetix3398 Před 8 měsíci

      Seriously, any religious singing is horribly annoying.

    • @gluestickgirlie
      @gluestickgirlie Před 7 měsíci +85

      no like just imagine if a group of muslims started singing

    • @lillianmcevoy9014
      @lillianmcevoy9014 Před 7 měsíci +92

      I was going to say the same thing! It would be labeled as propaganda (which these Christian songs are, too).

    • @ericdpeerik3928
      @ericdpeerik3928 Před 7 měsíci

      Where's my Satanist at? 😂

  • @foggy7577
    @foggy7577 Před 8 měsíci +1444

    Reading minimal headlines, shes NOT nominated for a grammy but rather the gospel choir she's apart of is. They way shes talk about the nomination being hers alone is so vexing cause last time i checked a choir has many people all playing distinct roles and tbh...
    something tells me shes not the reason for their success

    • @strangeaelurus
      @strangeaelurus Před 8 měsíci +175

      It's the real world equivalent of one person taking all the credit for something their entire group worked for

    • @bingdinggold1877
      @bingdinggold1877 Před 8 měsíci +118

      😮😂Now im in Awe. The AWEdacity of that woman to not even mention the grouper a single time wtf actually
      Like they've gotta be a semi big part of your life in general not just the nominee. Like none of them are also your friends you're proud of???

    • @tleigh4583
      @tleigh4583 Před 8 měsíci +53

      Something tells me she’s not gonna be in that group much longer 😂

    • @poopybuttguy5523
      @poopybuttguy5523 Před 8 měsíci +25

      Bro thats so sinful wtf is she doing

    • @eminempreg
      @eminempreg Před 8 měsíci +41

      ​@@poopybuttguy5523right isn't that literally pride, one of the seven deadly sins? Like I'm not even religious anymore and I remember that.

  • @jebbyrat
    @jebbyrat Před 8 měsíci +807

    being loud in ANY way is so inconsiderate on a plane. you're gonna wake up sleeping babies, if there are autistic people you could cause them to have a meltdown with no way to escape. it's also literally just annoying but that's never enough for these people

    • @abbysharp1659
      @abbysharp1659 Před 8 měsíci +137

      i came here to say this, like idc if someone is a good singer or not. the whole flight process is stressful for so many people, someone believing that trying to perform for everyone could somehow improve that is so inconceivable to me, regardless of what the person is doing

    • @salemcrow5078
      @salemcrow5078 Před 7 měsíci +80

      I cannot tell you how many fucking meltdowns I had when i was younger because I was unable to escape the insanely loud music of the concert like youth services our old church had. And oh my god i wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy, and on a fucking flight?? Id be liable to punch out someone.

    • @analinrose
      @analinrose Před 7 měsíci +24

      when I am stressed I lose my brain to mouth filter. loud crowded areas are stressful. if someone near me starts singing I would start politely but if they keep going I would most likely snap

    • @johnrobertlamonaca6240
      @johnrobertlamonaca6240 Před 7 měsíci +3

      No doubt with some or most of them in their attention seeking hyperactivity, of what had begun from an earlier age. Of those whom had to always make a noise above the rest during their schooling days and since then. And with those that if they heard anybody else step in, then they will feel a need to intently compete, because without them then who is anybody else to hug the limelight in their mentality...

    • @drowsyspook3455
      @drowsyspook3455 Před 6 měsíci

      🤓

  • @MosesSuppose
    @MosesSuppose Před 8 měsíci +1471

    When I was in high school I was one of those annoying theatre kids that would take any opprotunity to sing at people in public. Thankfully, my friends were successfully able to get it through my thick skull how annoying that was

    • @haleyh9875
      @haleyh9875 Před 8 měsíci +109

      I was the same way. Thankful for our character development : D

    • @literallyanythingelseother
      @literallyanythingelseother Před 8 měsíci +102

      unfortunate lore

    • @GuntWastelander
      @GuntWastelander Před 8 měsíci +11

      @@literallyanythingelseotherlmaoooo

    • @itsnina09-xw6be
      @itsnina09-xw6be Před 8 měsíci +47

      ex theater kids in the comments plz help me how do i convince my high school theater kid singing friend to stop singing and have a genuine conversation????

    • @jodikirsh
      @jodikirsh Před 8 měsíci +48

      @@itsnina09-xw6be Might not happen. I was at an art college info session the other day and the student presenting would not stop enunciating certain words with this obnoxious operatic vibrato

  • @EricMoranFilms
    @EricMoranFilms Před 8 měsíci +1633

    Let’s extend this message to trains too cause last week these 2 guys started singing on the train, received no applause and then went up to each person asking for money. I picked a bad day to not have my headphones.

    • @chrisjfox8715
      @chrisjfox8715 Před 8 měsíci +55

      Just wow

    • @Kimiko1005
      @Kimiko1005 Před 8 měsíci +128

      NO WAY THEY ASKED FOR MONEY AFTER ;aldjsfa'dkjs

    • @EricMoranFilms
      @EricMoranFilms Před 8 měsíci +220

      @@Kimiko1005 The funny thing was they weren't terrible it was just 8:00 am and everyone was on their morning commute to work. I feel like a good rule of thumb is if we physically cant leave to get away from the music, maybe don't play the music haha.

    • @fogcat5
      @fogcat5 Před 8 měsíci +31

      ignore them and stare blankly ahead. they will go away

    • @Kimiko1005
      @Kimiko1005 Před 8 měsíci +1

      @@EricMoranFilms noooo, oh my god

  • @7thDayAdventures
    @7thDayAdventures Před 8 měsíci +947

    She is clearly the main character in her mind. How are self centered people so lacking in self awareness?

    • @shaynestanz1
      @shaynestanz1 Před 7 měsíci +23

      No you don't understand, "the Lord called her to minister to them." AKA she was feelin' herself a bit too much after her nominations. 😂

    • @billtomson5791
      @billtomson5791 Před 7 měsíci +5

      Ironic, isn't it? Especially when "The Lord" is involved.

  • @CarysCreatesThings
    @CarysCreatesThings Před 8 měsíci +381

    About a decade ago, a video of The Lion King cast singing on a plane went viral. It was a short domestic flight in Australia, and as far as I’m aware they asked permission from staff who agreed, and the captain made a passenger announcement that the cast of the Lion King were on board the flight and would like to perform for the rest of the passengers.
    They sang Circle of Life and it was incredible, and the passengers seemed to love it. As I said, though, this was almost a decade ago and was a novelty at the time. I’m sure many people on the flight felt like it was a once in a lifetime experience to have a free surprise performance from the cast of a world famous musical on their flight.
    The issue now is the entitlement. People want to go viral, or they want to “witness to people” on flights. They don’t ask permission or care about disturbing other passengers, they just want to show off.

    • @Aece753
      @Aece753 Před 7 měsíci +69

      Plus the professional cast of a show singing a very well known song from the show is different from one person singing gospel from their own religion

    • @edgegymnastics8409
      @edgegymnastics8409 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@Aece753it wasn’t about what she was singing. It was her entitled attitude.

    • @threeminuteshate
      @threeminuteshate Před 7 měsíci +7

      I do not care if it’s Michael Jackson back from the dead wanting to sing a song, if one person on the plane does not want a song sung, do not sing.

    • @CarysCreatesThings
      @CarysCreatesThings Před 7 měsíci +1

      @@threeminuteshate It’s a good job nobody audibly objected then.

    • @edgegymnastics8409
      @edgegymnastics8409 Před 7 měsíci +2

      @@threeminuteshate I agree! (Except for the Mj part lol). If he’s there I want to hear him sing hahah

  • @anotherwordly
    @anotherwordly Před 8 měsíci +516

    Imagine having to sing somewhere where people physically can’t escape it

    • @caitlinrix294
      @caitlinrix294 Před 8 měsíci +77

      It's like listening to music or watching videos on the bus without headphones/earphones. Just don't fucking do it. It's disrespectful.

    • @babyzorilla
      @babyzorilla Před 7 měsíci +3

      “I…Am …in. A world Of ..cringe” -Private Pyle

    • @MamaTriedSolo
      @MamaTriedSolo Před 7 měsíci +1

      Yes, like screaming kids.

    • @anotherwordly
      @anotherwordly Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@MamaTriedSolo at least with the kids you know it’s gonna happen

    • @dinkenspeir
      @dinkenspeir Před 4 měsíci

      The third video was obviously not real lol. Can’t believe you didn’t notice dev…

  • @natrosenquist
    @natrosenquist Před 8 měsíci +587

    I'm tempted to write Delta begging them to give that man a promotion so he doesn't have to deal with this nonsense anymore

  • @number1whalesharkfan
    @number1whalesharkfan Před 8 měsíci +792

    if i'm on a flight, finally able to board my plane after at least three hours in an airport, i seriously don't want to hear someone singing

    • @salemmarz3809
      @salemmarz3809 Před 8 měsíci +35

      same, i dont even like loud people normally but when im tired im 10x more annoyed

    • @NearsightedNarhwal
      @NearsightedNarhwal Před 8 měsíci +28

      These are the kinda people who say “you just need to think positive!” And then become monsters when they don’t get their way

    • @salemcrow5078
      @salemcrow5078 Před 7 měsíci +1

      ​@@NearsightedNarhwal"you just beed to think positive!" "Okay well im POSITIVE that im going to bite your head off it uou dont stfu"

    • @colorbugoriginals4457
      @colorbugoriginals4457 Před 7 měsíci +7

      especially religious stuff when so many people have experienced trauma and abuse in churches.

    • @imvandenh
      @imvandenh Před 7 měsíci +8

      ​@@colorbugoriginals4457or people who just plain find religion and people who passively evangelize to be annoying and ridiculous. I can't stand people saying, god moved me this or God told me to do that like it gives them license to do whatever they want. I have no reason to believe that any gods exist or have ever existed. God told you to sing on a plane? Well, he should have put it in writing then and like maybe prove he exists in the first place. Someone mentions God like that's a concept we all believe to be real, I tune out. Believe what you want, just keep it to yourself.

  • @chrisjfox8715
    @chrisjfox8715 Před 8 měsíci +938

    Me personally, it doesn't matter at all how much I love a song and how great the singer is...doing so on a flight is not the time

    • @raeofsunshine8377
      @raeofsunshine8377 Před 8 měsíci +27

      exactly. if i wanted to listen to music on a plane, i'd use headphones 💀

    • @jamiecurran3544
      @jamiecurran3544 Před 7 měsíci +2

      Indeed, also I've just give your comment the 666th like!😈😂

  • @IsSarahPi
    @IsSarahPi Před 8 měsíci +395

    In Japan, you literally have to be quiet on public transport, you cannot even take phone calls. I miss being there.

    • @manyyoumas
      @manyyoumas Před 8 měsíci +76

      when i found out about this i kinda wondered why it isn't just the norm. but then you realize how super egotistical, self-centered and more narcissistic western culture is. some people here can't even fathom the idea of why that would be a rule because they just HAVE to do "X" thing on commute.

    • @thesingularbean5915
      @thesingularbean5915 Před 8 měsíci +9

      i miss being there too, i'm not saying japan was perfect but for the year i stayed there it was amazing

    • @chadrific
      @chadrific Před 8 měsíci +8

      I love how quiet trains are here that when people speak I have the nerve to be annoyed, like today on the train a man had his earphones on full blast and it was so disruptive!

    • @chadrific
      @chadrific Před 8 měsíci +3

      @@manyyoumasI have had people ask me about it as if it’s the weirdest thing, even saying they’d make noise because they’d be too uncomfortable 😩

    • @avelynn5976
      @avelynn5976 Před 8 měsíci +9

      ​@@manyyoumas glad to know they had the sense to illegalize obnoxious people blasting the shittiest music you've ever heard in your life from a boombox

  • @pinheadlarry2921
    @pinheadlarry2921 Před 8 měsíci +207

    she really thought the whole plane would come to her defense 😭

    • @CourtTV.
      @CourtTV. Před 8 měsíci +6

      What do you guys think?

    • @youtubename7819
      @youtubename7819 Před 7 měsíci +17

      And also even if every single passenger wanted her to sing, it wouldn’t matter because THE FLIGHT ATTENDANT WANTED HER TO STOP.
      Like pissing off your flight attendant is like pissing of your hair stylist or your waiter…bad idea.

    • @me-myself-i787
      @me-myself-i787 Před 7 měsíci

      ​@@youtubename7819It's the flight attendant's job to serve the passengers. Not to make everyone's flight worse for their own comfort.
      Also, everyone else on the flight did support her. When she asked them whether she should stop singing, they all said "No!"

    • @youtubename7819
      @youtubename7819 Před 7 měsíci

      @@me-myself-i787 no, asshole, if ONE person on the plane wants you to stop, you STOP.
      No means no.

    • @dustyrose192
      @dustyrose192 Před 7 měsíci +4

      @@me-myself-i787 the flight attendent told her to stop

  • @greed13X
    @greed13X Před 8 měsíci +234

    As someone who works for Delta. They absolutely did not reach out to her. Delta's main offices are in Atlanta, Georgia. She got a call from somewhere in Texas.

    • @sashawolfson3602
      @sashawolfson3602 Před 8 měsíci +18

      I had a suspicion about that cause I looked closely at the contact she screenshotted and doesn't look like the exact Delta phone number. Thanks for clearing that up.

    • @tinydream
      @tinydream Před 7 měsíci +16

      Even if it was legit (which it wasn’t) it could have just been them calling her back after she called them demanding someone call her back and they talked for 7 minutes.

    • @gordons-alive4940
      @gordons-alive4940 Před 7 měsíci +10

      @@tinydream Yes. They might have told her that they had rules against making noise on a flight and the attendant did nothing wrong.

  • @simplebeauty120
    @simplebeauty120 Před 8 měsíci +275

    I think the main problem with the Bobbi storm thing is that she was asked to stop. Multiple times. If you really feel the need to sing on your flight, then sure do what you want. But if you’re asked to stop, then stop.

    • @bipo819
      @bipo819 Před 8 měsíci +63

      what gets me is like how she acted after she really made it out to seem like the flight attendant was in the wrong and like even said "he shouldn't lose his job over this" as if he was gonna lose his job in the first place doing his job she was the one being a nuisance. This is pretty narcissistic behavior.

    • @CookiesAreNoice
      @CookiesAreNoice Před 7 měsíci +2

      I also think it has to do with how she did it . A lady later in the video told the plane she was gonna sing .

    • @goochgoosh
      @goochgoosh Před 7 měsíci +8

      Right like he is also part of her audience. If he was instead a regular passenger would she have questioned him?
      On the other side, it does seem interesting that all these supported singers are white. But I also think a lot were staged, private, or group event flights so idk.

    • @MatthewMerengue
      @MatthewMerengue Před 7 měsíci +1

      Or don’t sing on planes at all since it’s RUDE

    • @theraccoonwhotriedtowashco6194
      @theraccoonwhotriedtowashco6194 Před 5 měsíci +1

      @@bipo819 tbh he was pretty rude from the beginning so i kinda get why she became defensive

  • @bookspastbedtime
    @bookspastbedtime Před 8 měsíci +520

    as a flight attendant, i appreciate ur defense of us

    • @SamRabbitx
      @SamRabbitx Před 8 měsíci +51

      Yall dont get credit enough for your job. We always try to get our flight staff gifts when we fly because yall deal with a LOT

    • @bookspastbedtime
      @bookspastbedtime Před 8 měsíci +23

      @@SamRabbitx THANK U!!! you’re seriously the best and all flight crew appreciate you so much!!

    • @ThatGirlJD
      @ThatGirlJD Před 8 měsíci

      ​@@bookspastbedtimeAs soon as I step foot in the isle to use the restroom or while I'm in the restroom the seatbelt signs come on and we hit turbulence 😂🤣. I'm out here risking my life to use the restroom and these people never seem to hit turbulence!

    • @alexiaatheducc
      @alexiaatheducc Před 8 měsíci +6

      I APPRECIATE YOU!! THANK YOU FOR PUTTING UP WITH US!!!!

  • @animanga103
    @animanga103 Před 8 měsíci +460

    The overwhelming theme of gospil singers specifically performing to people on planes and in elevators is just ridiculous 😂 you know "god" is only telling them to sing because their audience is quite literally trapped and they know no one actually wants to hear it but their cult minds are convinced that this is their time to save these poor lost souls 😂

    • @alexakelley2353
      @alexakelley2353 Před 8 měsíci +106

      Also they’re not doing it to “spread the word of god” or whatever (which wouldn’t be okay either, but that’s their reasoning/justification). They’re doing it to have all the attention on them and their BEAUTIFUL SINGING VOICES!!!!!!! Like maybe they’ve deluded themselves into thinking that’s why but deep down they just want everyone to applaud them. Narcissistic attention seeking behavior.

    • @strangeaelurus
      @strangeaelurus Před 8 měsíci +42

      ​@@alexakelley2353and even if they _were_ doing it to spread the word, isn't there a verse in the Bible that said that if people don't want to hear about God then don't force them to listen?

    • @alexakelley2353
      @alexakelley2353 Před 8 měsíci +10

      @@strangeaelurus i’m not sure, I haven’t heard that but you could totally be right. If that’s true it’s even more evidence that they care more about people hearing them sing than spreading the word or whatever hahaha

    • @deep_and_profound_topics
      @deep_and_profound_topics Před 8 měsíci +15

      @@alexakelley2353they think their voices are “anointed” 😂

    • @NatalieeeJayna
      @NatalieeeJayna Před 8 měsíci

      No Christian hate please, do you know how awful that is? Not saying they should sing on planes just saying, the condescending tone is terrible

  • @mariahocchiline8527
    @mariahocchiline8527 Před 8 měsíci +138

    I think it’s so cringey to be like “hey everyone! Ik we’re on a plane and you’re all minding your business but I just wanted to tell you all that I’m nominated for a Grammy! *starts singing*” like girl they were just being polite 😂

    • @manyyoumas
      @manyyoumas Před 8 měsíci +21

      i know its so embarrassing, omg. actual grown child behavior tbh. like, i used to do that sort of attention-seeking crap as a kid, not knowing people were just entertaining me to be polite. but then i yknow, grew up and realize that's what was happening... lmao

  • @lh8956
    @lh8956 Před 8 měsíci +100

    What they’re doing is a sneaky intrusive tactic. They take advantage of the fact that they literally have a “trapped audience” who can’t leave. You’re trapped so now I’m going to force you to listen to me sing. That’s all it is. I support that flight leader 100%.

    • @me-myself-i787
      @me-myself-i787 Před 7 měsíci

      I would support him if one of the passengers complained. But they all supported the singing. When she asked the other passengers whether she should stop, they all said "No!"

    • @Feverm00n
      @Feverm00n Před 5 měsíci

      @@me-myself-i787 I mean, I didn’t hear them ALL saying “no.” Someone definitely could have complained but not have been willing to draw attention to themselves.

  • @hiwathegardener
    @hiwathegardener Před 8 měsíci +337

    why do people feel the need to do this like.. nobody wanted or asked to hear you sing?? the people on the plane could care LESS you're getting 2 grammies 😭

    • @nari5161
      @nari5161 Před 8 měsíci +44

      A group she was in was nominated, she was not personally nominated much less getting, and couldn't care less - if you Could care less that means you care

    • @animanga103
      @animanga103 Před 8 měsíci +42

      9/10 times it's gospel singers so it's just their cult brains thinking in cult ways 😂

    • @RL_ManicFX
      @RL_ManicFX Před 8 měsíci +6

      @@animanga103that makes sense lmao they think everyone around them thinks exactly like they do cuz it’s all they’re surrounded by.

  • @SimplyMattis
    @SimplyMattis Před 8 měsíci +192

    This should be grounds to un-nominate someone from the Grammys

  • @ellewoodsismyidol169
    @ellewoodsismyidol169 Před 8 měsíci +118

    Her main character syndrome is INSANE

  • @lilliputianhitcher3808
    @lilliputianhitcher3808 Před 8 měsíci +278

    okay this is the nail in the coffin. people who can sing are the most annoying people on the planet like imagine if your skill was woodworking like hey guys gather round and watch me build this bench

    • @kittygoesWOOF
      @kittygoesWOOF Před 8 měsíci +72

      I don't think it's people who can sing that are the most annoying, just the people who force others to pay attention to them, esp when there's no way for you to leave without a parachute.

    • @_BubblGum_
      @_BubblGum_ Před 8 měsíci +40

      why are you generalizing people who can sing? its not like every person who can sing is like this 💀

    • @manyyoumas
      @manyyoumas Před 8 měsíci +39

      nope, you're right. and it's always the most mediocre singers who sing unprompted or in public spaces... like okaaay, thanks for filling up the bathroom stall with that beautiful melody, allow me to follow you up with a fart girl 💀

    • @ajak281
      @ajak281 Před 8 měsíci +8

      While I agree you shouldn't force people to listen to you sing, I feel like it's not quite the same because the woodworker is an artist, but his finished work is the art, while for a singer, the song is the art.
      If the woodworker just forced you to look at their creation it would only take your eyes and a second or two, but with the singer, you "seeing" their art takes longer and stuff.
      I'm overthinking it but yeah I mainly agree

    • @sarahbulle8704
      @sarahbulle8704 Před 8 měsíci +46

      watching a carpenter build a bench randomly in front of me might be the coolest thing that I could ever witness

  • @wormitha
    @wormitha Před 8 měsíci +488

    Man, this video felt personal. I need a gentle way to tell my bf that his constant singing is actually a bit of a nuisance. He constantly does it at board games, which sucks because he sings while everyone is trying to talk. He'll also just sing while I'm trying to talk to him, and it's so frustrating. He only started doing this after he took singing lessons for a couple years, and I get that he's proud of his singing... but it's at everyone else's expense/comfort.

    • @animanga103
      @animanga103 Před 8 měsíci +286

      "Babe you have a wonderful voice, but when people are actively trying to talk to you, or someone else in our group, and you just won't stop singing it feels disrespectful and like you aren't actually listening." Might be a good starter. I'd let him know you feel ignored and drowned out by his occasional lack of situational awareness.

    • @dangerxbadger2300
      @dangerxbadger2300 Před 8 měsíci +99

      Holy shit I feel so sorry for you. I would never know how to handle that, especially not gently.

    • @catcatcatsillycat
      @catcatcatsillycat Před 8 měsíci +51

      try to explain it to him clearly, he'll hopefully stops if he understands it bothers you.. i had a similar problem with my bestfriend but it wasn't that bad since it was piano, not singing, so at least she wasn't able to play outside of her house.
      What worked for me was to explain it to her clearly, she was a tad bit hurt but she understood and stopped ! What also works is a little reassurance and ego boost, instead of him singing all of the time schedule singing moments, like a private concert or some shit like that, tell him that his singing is so beautiful that you only want you to hear it ( no idea if it's gonna work i'm just bored and making shit up). Other tactic is to pretend to have a seizure whenever he sings, it'll probably make him stop ! Good luck

    • @maem7462
      @maem7462 Před 8 měsíci +37

      One way that could help get him to stop or at least to sing less is to tell him abt the dangers of overusing his vocal cords. Getting nodes is one thing and there is some other stuff and I can’t remember what it is right now.
      If he is similar to a lot of ppl who sing and want to perform he might be persistent and be willing to risk it. The other option could be to explain that you’re glad he’s proud of his voice but you want to be able to talk to him without him interrupting you in any way.

    • @molly4561
      @molly4561 Před 8 měsíci +20

      this sounds like it could be an i think you should leave bit lol that's actually so crazy, i genuinely wouldn't know how to approach that

  • @basementdwellercosplay
    @basementdwellercosplay Před 8 měsíci +59

    "Theyre clearly enjoying it"
    "Well i dont"
    I wish i had the courage to just straight up say this

  • @guyblack9729
    @guyblack9729 Před 8 měsíci +75

    i don't know anyone under 50 who cares about grammys or any of those legacy media awards. That flight attendant is a working class hero, an absolute icon of the proletariat.

    • @josieann5031
      @josieann5031 Před 7 měsíci +6

      I'm in my 60s. Have never cared about media awards of any kind. This sentiment applies to many people in my age group.

  • @Texastrout62
    @Texastrout62 Před 7 měsíci +32

    They paid for a plane ticket, not a ticket to her concert. She wasn’t spreading the love of Christ. She was spreading her love for herself.

    • @RealWonderTweek
      @RealWonderTweek Před 3 měsíci

      Fr and I bet she flip out if someone asked her to stop cuz they where another religion 😭😭😭

  • @jillianc2405
    @jillianc2405 Před 8 měsíci +37

    the “god told me to” justification always blows me away

  • @benc728
    @benc728 Před 8 měsíci +240

    Singing on a plane is one of the few things that I think would make me lose my mind, I don’t wanna be forced to listen to people sing, I don’t care who’s singing or what song they’re singing

  • @samanthabahde9690
    @samanthabahde9690 Před 8 měsíci +92

    as someone with panic disorder and a phobia of planes i'm gonna freak out very publicly if you do this😭

    • @manyyoumas
      @manyyoumas Před 8 měsíci +1

      another reason why these people who claim to be "directed by god" are just actually delusional narcissists who can't accept the reality of how annoying their shit is

    • @mossryan4027
      @mossryan4027 Před 8 měsíci +17

      ​@@CedarMountainsnowexcept someone freaking out or having a panic/anxiety attack isn't a conscious choice, it's a reaction they cannot control. Yeah it's not an ideal scenario for themselves or the people around them but not really comparable to singing in a crowded space

    • @biker6070
      @biker6070 Před 7 měsíci +4

      Thank you! I have severe phobia of flying and any other stimuli would send me off the edge. I’m literally white-knuckling the entire flight, I don’t need screaming people pretending to have meltdowns and using real breakdowns as an excuse, or gospel singers exacerbating my panic. Hope you and I and all others with flying phobia can get better about it with every flight we take ❤❤❤

    • @MamaTriedSolo
      @MamaTriedSolo Před 7 měsíci

      You probably shouldn't fly. There are so many triggers whilst flying.

  • @becca53444
    @becca53444 Před 8 měsíci +36

    I literally graduated college as a vocal major and you couldn’t pay me to sing on a plane full of strangers that are forced to listen to me. That’s just insane. I feel like a basic rule of performing is to make sure your audience has a choice to watch you or not.

  • @Triple-Vee
    @Triple-Vee Před 8 měsíci +82

    personally on flights i get terrible headaches and bad nausea so if i were there id literally start crying because that would be so annoying to deal with. especially if people around me started singing as well. not to say "but what about me" im just saying its kind of inconsiderate to just start singing to everyone someplace where they physically CAN'T leave😭

    • @journey7701
      @journey7701 Před 8 měsíci +12

      I get very painful bloating on flights now to the point where I’ve avoided eating hours before and during flying. It just sucks generally being in physical discomfort or pain surrounded by a bunch of strangers in small quarters. The last thing you need is having one of them sing at you so I totally get it.

  • @finx1582
    @finx1582 Před 7 měsíci +25

    i'm autistic and any of these situations would probably make me cry honestly. it would feel like being forced to listen to nails on a chalkboard for several minutes straight like this would be literal torture to me

    • @Nylak-Otter
      @Nylak-Otter Před 7 měsíci +4

      I'm also autistic, and if they made you cry I'd over-empathize and then get violently pissed at them for upsetting you. 😂

  • @shilohennis4223
    @shilohennis4223 Před 8 měsíci +157

    There’s a difference to me between singing on a plane and essentially gospel proselytizing on a plane with worship songs. Also idk it’s just weirdly narcissistic to sing on a plane with a captive audience which makes it really hard to tell if the person is being genuine.

    • @leix7
      @leix7 Před 8 měsíci +18

      Religion has narcissistic women in a chokehold it's crazy

    • @drowsyspook3455
      @drowsyspook3455 Před 6 měsíci +1

      ​@@leix7just like i do to women at night

    • @mydrillasanjay5397
      @mydrillasanjay5397 Před 4 měsíci

      ​@@drowsyspook3455😟

  • @andicrossley6562
    @andicrossley6562 Před 8 měsíci +47

    Crazy how many grown adults don't understand that it doesn't matter what your intentions are, it's the effect of your actions that matters.
    If people don't like it, they don't like it. End of.

  • @vau_st
    @vau_st Před 8 měsíci +52

    imagine being in a plane and your ego is still the highest thing nearby

  • @skulls1269
    @skulls1269 Před 8 měsíci +33

    Man, imagine you’re stressed after getting to your flight, and some guy stands up and starts singing Christian worship songs. I’d jump out of the emergency exit mid-air

  • @phiLAWsophy
    @phiLAWsophy Před 8 měsíci +87

    I've never been on a plane and thought hmmm i really wish we had someone singing some acapella rn

  • @vcleverclover
    @vcleverclover Před 8 měsíci +25

    imagine getting your baby asleep and someone starts singing

  • @MoonAndStars25
    @MoonAndStars25 Před 8 měsíci +65

    I don’t usually mind it if people are joining in and it’s not a night flight but the Christian songs rub me the wrong way cos it’s just not the place and I say this as a Christian. Like it’s not god calling you to sing trisha it’s your ego lol 😂

  • @ree1425
    @ree1425 Před 8 měsíci +67

    i think its the difference between singing AT everyone vs singing WITH everyone

  • @flexaunya
    @flexaunya Před 8 měsíci +136

    Dev, thank you. I've been like this feels like narcissistic behavior. all my friends are like, OH MY GOD I CAN'T BELIEVE THEY DID THAT TO HER!! and I'm like bruh.

    • @sinfulsystem6248
      @sinfulsystem6248 Před 8 měsíci +7

      I have NPD and I’d never do this, man. It’s not NPD, it’s plain stupidity 😭

    • @Louis-ty6li
      @Louis-ty6li Před 7 měsíci

      @@sinfulsystem6248 Seconding. Sometimes people just can't read the fucking room and are obnoxious. It's not a mistake that it's a lot of christian folk, either, given that current mainstream Christianity is very much about trying to force God's light onto other people or whatever the fuck.

  • @TheZombifiedGuy
    @TheZombifiedGuy Před 8 měsíci +29

    If you think about it, what Bobbi was actually implying with her "that was god" explanation is that god reached down from the heavens to break something on the plane, inconveniencing everyone and possibly posing a safety hazard if the crew hadn't noticed, so that the plane could be grounded long enough for everyone on board to become a captive audience for her singing, infused as it must be by his joy and grace. Or... maybe she just wants the attention for herself. Especially seeing as she goes on to say that the idea of singing when they land is unappealing to her specifically because the people in front won't be able to *see* her. Because she needs everyone to LOOK at her, not just listen. Right. And of course, Delta reached out to her personally in order to say how she's totally awesome and definitely allowed to sing on their flights, because giant companies definitely call people's cell numbers to tell them things like that.
    So absurdly self-centered.

  • @m8trxd
    @m8trxd Před 7 měsíci +7

    The problem is... people on the plane will be too uncomfortable to stand up and say: "excuse me lady, I would like you to please stop singing." But they WILL pull over the flight attendants and complain. So the flight attendants have to advocate for everybody.

  • @oogiegoogie2826
    @oogiegoogie2826 Před 8 měsíci +41

    Notice how many of these are people thinking they’re allowed to do whatever they want because they’re ordained by God. So arrogant.

  • @nickbyrd1027
    @nickbyrd1027 Před 8 měsíci +23

    Nothing screams "main character syndrome" more than singing on public transportation

  • @Ohmygodaprayingmantis
    @Ohmygodaprayingmantis Před 8 měsíci +17

    When I think of hell on earth I think of being stuck in a plane with people singing

  • @SapphireSeahorse494
    @SapphireSeahorse494 Před 8 měsíci +57

    idk if this is a hot take, but I feel like if someone wants to do this, they should sing in the airport instead. bigger space that you're not physically trapped in. people can choose to walk by or stop and listen. idk. no matter what song it is I don't want to hear it on a plane

    • @user-vm6mw5xw7o
      @user-vm6mw5xw7o Před 7 měsíci +4

      yeah my airport actually hires musicians to play in different areas of the airport, I’ve played a few times. it’s really nice and not obnoxious and people enjoy it because it’s an actually appropriate setting lmao

  • @SasquatchAtTheSpaceDisco
    @SasquatchAtTheSpaceDisco Před 8 měsíci +24

    If I remember correctly, the second video was a charter flight where everyone was from the same church. The third one was filmed on a special set that's used by a lot of content creators to make fake viral videos. The lights are a dead giveaway.

    • @panmoncada7257
      @panmoncada7257 Před 8 měsíci +3

      Also they don’t pan and show the rest of the plane or anything

  • @SonjaUnapologetic
    @SonjaUnapologetic Před 7 měsíci +12

    For Bobbi Storm, the flight was already delayed. People were super frustrated. She didn’t get permission to sing and the conflict with the flight attendant made it super awkward for everyone around her. And she was singing a song that no one is familiar with.

  • @emanthekind2140
    @emanthekind2140 Před 8 měsíci +10

    This lady: "I can't hold my need to show off" = God

  • @FunWithColeen
    @FunWithColeen Před 8 měsíci +76

    i personally enjoy singing. would i ever subject people to this in public unless its an appropriate setting? absolutely not. i know i'm not the only one existing in this space and its like people have lost having common courtesty to others in public spaces bcz they think they're the main character or some annoying stuff

  • @briannamcfarland5974
    @briannamcfarland5974 Před 8 měsíci +9

    This is like those people that busk on the subways in NYC but 10x worse because instead of bothering people for 5 minutes and leaving at the next stop, you could be stuck with the singer for literally hours.

  • @CherryXXCola
    @CherryXXCola Před 8 měsíci +9

    They need to start sorting flights into “down for in-flight shenanigans” and “begging for some peace and quiet ” groups

  • @marleyandmitchg4204
    @marleyandmitchg4204 Před 8 měsíci +11

    Singing on planes is worse than children crying because kids can’t control it but adults absolutely can

  • @mariahocchiline8527
    @mariahocchiline8527 Před 8 měsíci +11

    btw guys if you ever see videos of that plane with the navy blue leather seats and literal led lights and also NO WINDOWS. ITS A SET AND THE WHOLE VIDEO IS STAGED. I’ve seen so many viral plane moments happen on that exact plane in those exact seats. Also what plane has no windows and LED light strips on it

  • @texasrefugee7888
    @texasrefugee7888 Před 7 měsíci +5

    She's taking total advantage of having a captive audience. It's like she's shop lifting attention.

  • @ree1425
    @ree1425 Před 8 měsíci +47

    squealing and kicking my feet bc i got a dev notification

  • @caterpee
    @caterpee Před 8 měsíci +60

    every day im thankful nothing ever happens around me cos idk if id live through someone singing on a plane

  • @AvaD2626
    @AvaD2626 Před 8 měsíci +18

    I was once on a flight going from dublin to italy which was over 4 hours long and about 3 hours into the flight its announced that the flight is delayed. So everyone is really tired and annoyed when some dude at the top of the plane stands up and says he wants to lift everyones spirits and stars playing songs from his phone and singing. Everyone was super weirded out and he was trying to get people to join in with him. Eventually some people were dancing and there were kids running up and down the aisles, it was just crazy and there was at least 3 babies all crying while this was happening. The flight attendents had to tell the dude to stop as people were complaining and getting in the way. Wildest flight of my life. (also sorry this is long)

    • @Hooperjz78
      @Hooperjz78 Před 7 měsíci

      That sounds like my worst nightmare. I have flying anxiety. I would have been a MESS

  • @reloreo2899
    @reloreo2899 Před 8 měsíci +15

    If someone did this on a flight I was on. I would slide on my noise cancelling headphones, pull up my hoodie and pull the string until you can't see my face, and cover myself with a blanket. Just ceasing to exist as much as I could.

  • @Reg_g.
    @Reg_g. Před 8 měsíci +25

    I’ve been on a plane that had about 6 people who sang vaguely gospel sounding music. They only sang about 5 minutes or so and people did clap (probably just the ones singing) but it was very awkward.

  • @PsychoBabble2168
    @PsychoBabble2168 Před 8 měsíci +23

    Omg this is literally a scene out of Planes Trains and Automobiles. Like, crickets for some crooner song that Steve Martin sings, but they break out the Flintstones theme and everyone's singing along XD
    But seriously, don't sing on airplanes. Even if it's just one person who's not speaking up who's bothered by it (sensory issues, headache, etc), that's one person's flight RUINED.

  • @boobooday
    @boobooday Před 7 měsíci +4

    If your audience can't get away they are actually hostages.

  • @1313TommyGun
    @1313TommyGun Před 8 měsíci +5

    1 fear of flying.
    Crashing? No.
    Singing Christians 😨

  • @ttm77777
    @ttm77777 Před 8 měsíci +114

    i would be SO mad if right as they announce the flight is delayed, someone gets up and starts singing. like genuinely i know i would probably come off as very rude but i wouldnt wait to tell her to stop.
    if she wouldve just announced that she was nominated it wouldve just been a fun interaction.

  • @Lessthanaverage16
    @Lessthanaverage16 Před 8 měsíci +21

    That video you think is staged 100% is, it’s also the same set for multiple other viral videos

  • @bananabob4567
    @bananabob4567 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Delta: “do not cause a disturbance for other passengers.”
    Bobbi: “they didn’t say I couldn’t siiiiiiing!”

  • @Cheska1
    @Cheska1 Před 8 měsíci +13

    Came RUNNING

  • @youremyfavoritesong9868
    @youremyfavoritesong9868 Před 7 měsíci +5

    THREE people singing with ukuleles sang "three little birds" on my flight once and I was convinced the plane was going to go down bc the flight attendants called them down specifically to sing

  • @PenelopeAstony
    @PenelopeAstony Před 8 měsíci +28

    Flash forward to Dev singing Pineapple Upside-down Cake on her flight home for the holidays and getting kicked off a plane

  • @anissacole5285
    @anissacole5285 Před 8 měsíci +23

    When I went to New Orleans for a band and choir trip the flight attendants literally asked us to sing the star spangled banner before we left it was so embarrassing😭

  • @Kimiko1005
    @Kimiko1005 Před 8 měsíci +32

    I just wanna know what the hell this person did in the "many other times" she's sang on a plane. Did she get the same reaction?? Is it the entitlement that got her this time??

    • @abbysharp1659
      @abbysharp1659 Před 8 měsíci +4

      yeah im literally baffled bc it seems like she was using that as some kind of excuse? like pretending she used to do it all the time and it was normal then? i dont get it

  • @Matt-Sh
    @Matt-Sh Před 8 měsíci +29

    Not everyone can be Adam Sandler in Wedding Singer smh my head

    • @nuggetdoja871
      @nuggetdoja871 Před 8 měsíci +5

      Shake my head my head

    • @Matt-Sh
      @Matt-Sh Před 8 měsíci +4

      @@nuggetdoja871 I'm glad you understood the joke

    • @nuggetdoja871
      @nuggetdoja871 Před 8 měsíci

      @@Matt-Sh Oh me too 😬😂

  • @lucyab
    @lucyab Před 8 měsíci +22

    the plane environment already makes me somewhat stressed, so if someone started singing mid flight i would actually lose it. like on a plane in in no bs mode i’m just trying to get from one place to another don’t push it.

  • @Dixiedingo_LBB
    @Dixiedingo_LBB Před 8 měsíci +27

    I used to be a hospital stocker worker that had to travel a lot via plane. And maybe it's because this was during the rona, but immediately when I see shit like this, I feel like crawling and writhing. Like, I guess I get it, but bro, sometimes people are coming from like a 6-hour connection, chill out lmao

    • @jaymogrified
      @jaymogrified Před 8 měsíci +1

      “The rona” 😂 first time I’ve seen that

  • @isaiah5465
    @isaiah5465 Před 8 měsíci +7

    Never been on a plane before. New Fear Unlocked: People Singing on the Plane.

  • @tabsterg
    @tabsterg Před 8 měsíci +37

    can't believe they turned that disney movie into a real thing

    • @dangerxbadger2300
      @dangerxbadger2300 Před 8 měsíci +3

      See, I was thinking it was someone who had seen The Wedding Singer one too many times

  • @erinepstein3473
    @erinepstein3473 Před 8 měsíci +18

    the one you think is staged is staged

    • @lilacsilk
      @lilacsilk Před 8 měsíci +3

      Which one? Can you say the time stamp?

    • @tedros6917
      @tedros6917 Před 7 měsíci +1

      I know what you're talking about, but honestly this is such a good rule of thumb for anything you see online lmao

    • @erinepstein3473
      @erinepstein3473 Před 7 měsíci

      @@tedros6917 hahah I totally agree

  • @chelktty
    @chelktty Před 7 měsíci +3

    The funny thing is, if some random non-Grammy nominated person stood up in a flight and started singing because they felt the hand of God on them, she would be calling them crazy.

  • @imdoneplus
    @imdoneplus Před 8 měsíci +39

    As far as Lewis Capaldi, he’s leaving on a plane from the UK so, based on age range, that means virtually half the plane owns his album. Everyone will tell everyone they know about that moment. But I promise you no one had Bobbi Storm’s album on that other flight.

    • @bassetts1899
      @bassetts1899 Před 8 měsíci +12

      I don't even like Lewis Capaldi but he's famous and talented enough that I'd be excited if he was on my flight singing! I know how much his gig tickets sell for and I'm getting that for free? Yes please

    • @imdoneplus
      @imdoneplus Před 8 měsíci +14

      @@bassetts1899 yeah, like I don’t like Katy Perry very much but if she sang on my plane it would be cool. It’s all based on “how many actually want this.” Most people want to see a famous person perform.

  • @imdoneplus
    @imdoneplus Před 8 měsíci +11

    Any place where someone cannot get away from you is a place where you need to comport yourself well. I’m pretty sure you wouldn’t want a Satanic beatboxer to get in your face on a plane, the exact same way that I don’t need a self righteous Grammy nominee singing at me. This wasn’t even a humble brag, this lady was like “oh, you’re gonna LOVE this.”

  • @coopquitetired
    @coopquitetired Před 8 měsíci +23

    i know someone who, as a very young girl, sang “The Sun Will Come Out Tomorrow” from the broadway musical Annie. it was on a flight to NY. allegedly, people applauded at the end, allegedly.

  • @JessScreams
    @JessScreams Před 7 měsíci +7

    Maaaan, i dont care how beautiful your voice is (because to be fair bobby storms voice is amazing in that video) or how famous you are, if I’m in a stressful and overstimulating situation like being in an airport or on a plan and have nowhere to go to avoid the performance I will not appreciate it. I have no problem with people wanting to spread joy or celebrate a safe flight but you’ve GOTTA be considerate. Yeesh!

  • @eminence..
    @eminence.. Před 8 měsíci +4

    “They enjoy it >:(“ ITS A CAPTIVE AUDIENCE A MILE ABOVE THE GROUND THEYRE ALL TIRED AND THERES PROBABLY A BABY SCREAMING SOMEWHERE. WHOS ENJOYING IT 😭😭

  • @leighmadison
    @leighmadison Před 8 měsíci +5

    This reminds me of the person on my (high school) school bus who sings everyday really loudly and when people ask him to stop he makes violent threats to them... It's so uncomfortable to be around someone just singing in a typically quiet public place. I feel horrible for the people on these flights.

  • @xanderguyer7512
    @xanderguyer7512 Před 7 měsíci +4

    I don't care if the world’s best orchestra has decided to perform a beautiful symphony on the plane. I would prefer quiet in that space. A trapped audience is not a willing audience.

  • @SoCalJellybean
    @SoCalJellybean Před 7 měsíci +2

    “I’M not enjoying it.”
    This guy is my hero. 🤣👏🏻

  • @George_vv
    @George_vv Před 8 měsíci +5

    Not gonna lie, the Lion King broadway cast singing Circle of Life on the plane and on the train is one of my favorite videos.

  • @junebugx1312
    @junebugx1312 Před 8 měsíci +6

    “i’m doing what the lord is telling me to do” SENT ME

  • @Ben-ex1kv
    @Ben-ex1kv Před 8 měsíci +8

    I've always said absolutely no singing on planes but tbh the sweet Caroline one looked fairly real and like ppl were having fun. So I say the rule is 1 song, no following acts or anything, either right at the beginning or end of the flight so you're not disturbing sleepers, it's gotta be something everybody can sing along to, and absolutely not religious music of any kind

  • @scuffedharrypotter4733
    @scuffedharrypotter4733 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Do that on a greyhound theyre gonna leave you at a gas station in the middle of nowhere

  • @ethanbeavers5800
    @ethanbeavers5800 Před 8 měsíci +13

    This holiday season I hope someone sings a crowd pleaser on my flight home like “liver” by queef jerky

  • @vashtiwix9225
    @vashtiwix9225 Před 8 měsíci +4

    Choir kids need to learn the appropriate time and place to sing lol

  • @cookingwithsilence
    @cookingwithsilence Před 8 měsíci +5

    "Ladies in gentleman at this grocery store, I submitted a Pumpkin for the county fair that is up for two awards!!!" *starts doing pumpkin dance "Pumkin Pumkin yayaya pumkin on the billboard charts yaya"

  • @urfavmandy333
    @urfavmandy333 Před 8 měsíci +9

    we all flew to get here early

  • @meganmeyer8525
    @meganmeyer8525 Před 8 měsíci +14

    Singing is something I do as a kind of stim, which sometimes happens in public, but it's never more than one line and it's usually just me humming it (quietly). Part of me feels better after watching this bc if people have the audacity to sing loudly on plans to all the passengers, like I think I'm okay humming something while looking at cereal boxes. But on the other hand I feel like these kinds of videos make people more frustrated about people singing in public, so it makes me more anxious when I do it in public.
    I know it's annoying af for people so I try to just listen to the songs I want to sing lines from but that's not always possible and ahhh this video stresses me out

    • @cyprinidae
      @cyprinidae Před 8 měsíci +6

      I relate to that! Singing is one of my main stims and I have to be mindful about it in public. For me personally, I think it’s important to match the volume of the place you’re in. Humming/singing under your breath in the grocery store doesn’t feel bad to me because there’s a certain amount of ambient noise so other people aren’t as likely to notice or care. But in a quiet place like a plane or waiting room, I try not to hum/sing so I don’t bother the people near me (:

    • @meganmeyer8525
      @meganmeyer8525 Před 8 měsíci +2

      @cyprinidae I'm the same! I try to reserve loud stimming time for just when I'm at home, and preferably when I'm alone since it can be a bit much for my partner who can get overwhelmed by loud noises. I'm glad to know there are other people who feel the same :D