12 small ways to feel HAPPIER ツ in the next 5 minutes

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  • @aliviadandrea
    @aliviadandrea  Před 4 lety +5129

    I hope this video brightens your day a little bit more 💛 Instagram & Twitter: aliviadandrea
    MY PODCAST: bit.ly/GlowUpDiariesGen

    • @leahwilliams9577
      @leahwilliams9577 Před 4 lety +24

      Ive been struggling with how i look and i havent been to happy about it but this video made me feel like my happy self :)

    • @monicanunez367
      @monicanunez367 Před 4 lety +11

      Gosh I love you and thank you for always helping feel good about myself and to always encouraging me to improve :) 💞

    • @dianacolis3299
      @dianacolis3299 Před 4 lety +11

      Hey Alivia I know I’m not the only one but you have changed my life. Thank you for being the inspiration I needed to change. You are one of the things I’m great til for. Once again thank you for kick starting my journey to creating the person I want to be. :) 💞😊

    • @danielaciciliano2775
      @danielaciciliano2775 Před 4 lety +4

      Your amazing Alivia 💖

    • @coffeerain4933
      @coffeerain4933 Před 4 lety +4

      love this video ❤

  • @ninahuang5388
    @ninahuang5388 Před 3 lety +4701

    Her: “I wanted to make a change in the world”
    You are.

    • @oishi9096
      @oishi9096 Před 3 lety +90

      I wonder if she knows how much she helped me ( and many others I hope) change my life around

    • @anuradhaagrawal6958
      @anuradhaagrawal6958 Před 3 lety +10

      Yes she is... She's just great.....

    • @Hi-en6sk
      @Hi-en6sk Před 3 lety +7

      Your comment was at 420 likes sorry for making that 421

  • @allisonbruehs3671
    @allisonbruehs3671 Před 4 lety +5841

    This girl needs to have her own ted talk

  • @charlottekyrenerogio3113
    @charlottekyrenerogio3113 Před 3 lety +1880

    Someone give this girl a *netflix show*

  • @Anandita_Singh
    @Anandita_Singh Před 3 lety +633

    1. Take a deep breathe
    2. Go walk in nature
    3. Whatever u focus on become reality
    4.Listen to upbeat music
    5. Unfollow people Who make u feel bad
    about yoyrself
    6. Smile nd have a 45sec dance party
    7. Do something for others
    Watch a good fiction or movie
    8.Cuddle ur pet
    9.Write n celebrate Wht ur grateful for

  • @amirablue4133
    @amirablue4133 Před 4 lety +8394

    She is a book with never ending positive thoughts and memories

    • @Thefitty
      @Thefitty Před 4 lety +30

      She is truly The girl next door.

    • @amirablue4133
      @amirablue4133 Před 4 lety +13

      @@Thefitty she always a smile away

    • @Thefitty
      @Thefitty Před 4 lety +2

      @@amirablue4133 indeed!

    • @Capturia
      @Capturia Před 4 lety +7

      Wow that's a really beautiful way of thinking about it♡

    • @emilytchuu9876
      @emilytchuu9876 Před 4 lety +2

      True life is made of bad and good things

  • @batyatsu9903
    @batyatsu9903 Před 4 lety +4334

    Damn, those colleges that didnt accept her missed out on ALOT.

    • @repent.
      @repent. Před 4 lety +61

      Exactly though

    • @billieatemyavocados3446
      @billieatemyavocados3446 Před 4 lety +7

      Don't you get to like try again or whatever thigh

    • @repent.
      @repent. Před 4 lety +55

      @@billieatemyavocados3446 "whatever"? It's COLLEGE!

    • @dangg8293
      @dangg8293 Před 3 lety +3

      Aww😊❤️✨

    • @elyc4894
      @elyc4894 Před 3 lety +7

      @@repent. college isn't that important

  • @wondermix1266
    @wondermix1266 Před 4 lety +611

    Did anyone imagine themselves when she said to imagine someone sad

  • @s0lar4k
    @s0lar4k Před 4 lety +131

    I just blocked all of the toxic girls in my school that make me feel bad about myself, and i already feel better. A few hours ago, i used to think that it would be disrespectful and rude to unfollow girls in my school that body shame other people. From this video, i have learned that i have nothing to be guilty or sorry about, and that by unfollowing/blocking them made me realize that i can do what i want to make me feel better about myself. Thank you so much❤️

    • @rebecca5088
      @rebecca5088 Před 4 lety +7

      💕💕

    • @louisejones3907
      @louisejones3907 Před 2 lety +4

      Holy good for you. Plus this is probably the most impactful thing to them. Not only are they clearly heavily looks/perception/appearance oriented, you choose to not follow them, conform, entertain them, care to connect or interact with them, I feel this is such a power play and win for you, and it didn't even necessary come after drama, you acted as "judge", you revoked access to your life, you show judgement and how much you think about them, and probably it only will hurt them and their fragile egos. Bravo, and the best thing... you just don't want negativity and nastiness, you don't say or maybe even think about any of this, as you're just making you're surrounding environment a happier place 😍

    • @__julia___749
      @__julia___749 Před 2 lety

      block body shamers with no remorse, no one asked for them to comment on people's bodies

  • @neoluvhimbi7805
    @neoluvhimbi7805 Před 4 lety +8429

    I love how she doesn't care about her acne when on camera she's real when telling us she's sad and giving us tips that helped her

    • @nouralissawi2706
      @nouralissawi2706 Před 4 lety +250

      Neo Luvhimbi no one should care about acne it’s something they have and can’t change so it shouldn’t be something she should cover up

    • @neoluvhimbi7805
      @neoluvhimbi7805 Před 4 lety +29

      @@nouralissawi2706 true dat

    • @hallohallo3487
      @hallohallo3487 Před 4 lety +83

      Nour Al issawi yes but it is a insecurity. we know it's normal, but we don't want to show it. it's not easy

    • @nouralissawi2706
      @nouralissawi2706 Před 4 lety +52

      Neo Luvhimbi awww okay! I’m so sorry if you’re feeling insecure about acne or something similar!! You’re beautiful never forget that!! I was just trying to say that we should all normalize somebody having acne and being comfortable in their own skin and not covering it up, I didn’t realize how hard it was to get over!! 💓💓💓💓

    • @FARAH-kw3eu
      @FARAH-kw3eu Před 4 lety +25

      Acne is natural and she looks so cute🥺 I really don’t find acne a problem at all

  • @JaydenRedd
    @JaydenRedd Před 4 lety +2239

    Shes like my therapist that just understandsssssss maaaan~

    • @kimminjungparkjeonsarang8980
      @kimminjungparkjeonsarang8980 Před 4 lety +8

      Lol soo cute same here:))

    • @stephanierose9503
      @stephanierose9503 Před 3 lety +3

      Here I was thinking music was my only therapist
      Alivia changed my life she really understands

    • @ryle2814
      @ryle2814 Před 2 lety

      Okay but what is your profile picture they're literally brothers 😭

    • @sirahmad
      @sirahmad Před 2 lety

      this is true she just almost cure my brain

  • @queeno9010
    @queeno9010 Před 3 lety +150

    I just love this girl can’t believe I didn’t find her before

  • @reemulde6550
    @reemulde6550 Před 4 lety +121

    If "positive" was a person it would be her

  • @pqdcentertainmentartists4497
    @pqdcentertainmentartists4497 Před 4 lety +2114

    I like how she shows a 2 year process of a glow up when a lot of youtubers think 2 hours is a glow up she takes time to get where she wants she takes time to study and see y she feels the way she feels she takes time on her goals and no matter how much she may fall she keeps pushing and makes progress

    • @random49261
      @random49261 Před 3 lety +18

      i'm so proud of her and i wish to be like that

    • @majonaisse3986
      @majonaisse3986 Před 3 lety +2

      @@random49261 and you can! I don't know who you are but i'm rooting for you !

    • @random49261
      @random49261 Před 3 lety

      Pink Shell 🥺🥺

  • @emmah7299
    @emmah7299 Před 4 lety +2301

    i think there is a reason i got on my phone at the exact minute she posted this. perfect timing because it’s been a bad week

    • @pandafam0416
      @pandafam0416 Před 4 lety +27

      I hope it gets better! Smile at the ceiling! Let's hope it smiles back! (Not in a creepy way lol)

    • @ejgirl4292
      @ejgirl4292 Před 4 lety +6

      I hope you'll be fine in no time!! ❤️ lots of love!!

    • @anacstress123
      @anacstress123 Před 4 lety +1

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @hurricanetortilla-91
      @hurricanetortilla-91 Před 4 lety +3

      @PandaFAM idk why but i just laughed out loud when i read this

    • @pandafam0416
      @pandafam0416 Před 4 lety +3

      @@hurricanetortilla-91 that was the point thanks.😂

  • @lydial2136
    @lydial2136 Před 3 lety +57

    I don't think she realizes how many lives she's *changing*

  • @asiamarie7138
    @asiamarie7138 Před 3 lety +154

    Alivia-“ cuddle your pet”
    Me -🐢👀 “ hey Curtis the turtis🥰”

  • @sophiaphan777
    @sophiaphan777 Před 4 lety +2964

    Alivia has faced so many hardships and so many obstacles. But she moves on. She lives life the way she wants to. She doesn’t let negativity get to her. She’s made mistakes. We all have. But she learns from the mistakes. She powers on. She inspires us all. Let’s all learn from Alivia. Learn how to work harder. Learn to be at peace. Learn to love ourselves. Thank you Alivia. ❤️

    • @afifaanjum4215
      @afifaanjum4215 Před 4 lety +28

      Aren't we all Alivia in one or another way?

    • @niroblimon3056
      @niroblimon3056 Před 4 lety +2

      I agree

    • @afifaanjum4215
      @afifaanjum4215 Před 4 lety +5

      @m c I can see you are deeply hurt. I don't know how to comfort you but if u were here i would have given u a tight hug. I hope u get people who will genuinely love you and give you space to grow.only Love and Hugs.

    • @jayfeather1789
      @jayfeather1789 Před 4 lety

      Yea she already has made a diffrence for so many people

    • @sallen_ly363
      @sallen_ly363 Před 4 lety

      I agree 💯💯

  • @tenshiai1462
    @tenshiai1462 Před 4 lety +1324

    Alivia: "Close your eyes and now picture a sad person."
    Me: *pictures myself*

  • @bossqueennnn
    @bossqueennnn Před 3 lety +100

    "Think of a happy person"
    My mind: JHope❤️

    • @honeytoast8925
      @honeytoast8925 Před 3 lety +7

      HII FELLLOOOOWWW ARMMMMMMYYYY💜

    • @bossqueennnn
      @bossqueennnn Před 3 lety +3

      @@honeytoast8925 Helloooooo thereeee!

    • @imnotangryimlonely9930
      @imnotangryimlonely9930 Před 3 lety +6

      Our sunshine and happiness 💜

    • @fernandaortiz3607
      @fernandaortiz3607 Před 3 lety +4

      I WAS THINKING THE SAME, HE IS OUR ANGEL, SUNSHINE, RIGHT?
      i love to find armys in random places 😔

    • @bossqueennnn
      @bossqueennnn Před 3 lety +5

      @@fernandaortiz3607 yes he is and forever will be😔saranghae Army💜💛

  • @gigii9860
    @gigii9860 Před 3 lety +361

    *“I never knew I needed this.”*
    I needed this. I knew I needed this.

    • @saiful9680
      @saiful9680 Před 3 lety +2

      should i make it to 101 likes? ^_^

    • @gigii9860
      @gigii9860 Před 3 lety +2

      @@saiful9680 indeed you should

  • @khadijah7990
    @khadijah7990 Před 4 lety +432

    therapy : expensive
    alivia : free and effective

    • @sarah-vf3xr
      @sarah-vf3xr Před 4 lety +1

      Khadijah Kamal she’s so amazing

    • @graceelathrop6371
      @graceelathrop6371 Před 4 lety +3

      If you want free (ish) therapy, 7cupsoftea is completely anonymous and online :)

  • @user-rn5mq2bd4c
    @user-rn5mq2bd4c Před 4 lety +2128

    When you said “ I really wanna make a difference in this world “ at 0:23 I said to my self you already did,oh my god you have no idea how much your videos changed me and I thank you for that 🙏, and l am suuuree that everybody that watched it did.

  • @mirayertunallar777
    @mirayertunallar777 Před 3 lety +126

    You said : "Whatever makes your heartbeat faster , keep doing it."
    *Well YOU made this , and Im so thankful to you. I will keep watching you :)*
    And I really appreciate your hard work! This give me motivation :))

  • @SimBits
    @SimBits Před 3 lety +37

    The part about the brain not wanting to think about good things when you're sad as a way to protect itself makes so much sense, I always wondered why when I'm really low I almost WANT to stay in that moment and mindset...

    • @daffodil815
      @daffodil815 Před 2 lety

      Do things get better tho?

    • @itznaisa2536
      @itznaisa2536 Před 2 lety

      @@daffodil815 are you okay ? 🥺

    • @daffodil815
      @daffodil815 Před 2 lety

      @@itznaisa2536 i have anxiety disorder but I take medicine for it which helps a lot. But I still have my days

    • @itznaisa2536
      @itznaisa2536 Před 2 lety

      @@daffodil815 i feel that I just keep trying to look forward to the good days I’m glad you’re doing better though

  • @kurowskysarah1999
    @kurowskysarah1999 Před 4 lety +1070

    "Studies show that those who slouch experience more bad moods"
    Me: *cries in scoliosis*

    • @RJ-si7it
      @RJ-si7it Před 4 lety +20

      I FELT THAT😭😭

    • @fruiteend
      @fruiteend Před 4 lety +3

      What is scoliosis exactly? 😅

    • @RJ-si7it
      @RJ-si7it Před 4 lety +10

      @@fruiteend curvy spine 😭😂

    • @marilyn3624
      @marilyn3624 Před 4 lety +3

      Sarah Kurowsky LOLLL

    • @lunicalll
      @lunicalll Před 4 lety +6

      bruh yes i’ve been wearing a back brace for three and a half years, and it’s messed up my life in so many ways lmao

  • @annarantis5849
    @annarantis5849 Před 4 lety +2215

    "Think of a happy person"
    Tell me why Jojo Siwa was the first person I thought of

  • @factsthatnooneaskedfor133
    @factsthatnooneaskedfor133 Před 3 lety +36

    ''Be your own best friend''
    When I'm desperate to find a best friend I forgot that I could lift myself up... Thank you, Alivia💛

  • @ghastxm2083
    @ghastxm2083 Před 3 lety +21

    Honestly you are one of the most genuine, honest, and nicest person(s) I’ve ever seen online. Thank you for making these videos.

  • @MrBrady55555
    @MrBrady55555 Před 4 lety +827

    “You have to be your own best friend.” This hits home for me. I always had different best friends every year, and I don’t think I have ever loved myself and been there for me. I think it’s time. :)

    • @trishadm5525
      @trishadm5525 Před 4 lety +4

      I had the same experienced. :):

    • @arunagupta2422
      @arunagupta2422 Před 4 lety +6

      in fact, I too had different best friends every year and I was too possessive about them that I didn't even care about myself. but life planned things for me, I learned how to love myself and I am trying to be strong. In the end, everyone leaves and this is the truth. So yeah we have to be our own best friend.

    • @chere4512
      @chere4512 Před 4 lety +3

      That’s so true for me, I’m going to 7th grade and I haven’t had any friends that have lasted more than a year.

    • @arunagupta2422
      @arunagupta2422 Před 4 lety

      @@chere4512 that will be the case till your high school gets over,you'll meet a lot of temporary people,dont cry over them but remember to give your best always in every relationship. Take care sweetheart.

    • @chere4512
      @chere4512 Před 4 lety

      KHUSHI GUPTA thanks for that 😊 plus if I never have any friends then at least I have CZcams and my books

  • @aslezhs
    @aslezhs Před 4 lety +659

    She makes me cry.
    She's such an inspirant human being.

    • @nathasia680
      @nathasia680 Před 3 lety +8

      i have no idea why im crying too but I'm sure this is because im happy 😊

  • @jessicarodriguez5442
    @jessicarodriguez5442 Před 4 lety +66

    I love this. I literally looked at the ceiling and smiled like a crazy person and automatically started laughing. Made me feel so happy! 😁😁😁

  • @sujata8957
    @sujata8957 Před 3 lety +13

    One video before sleeping every night has become a habit of mine,wether you see this comment or not I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for the beautiful content that you share and I wish you all that you set your heart for💓

  • @tsukijams1127
    @tsukijams1127 Před 4 lety +552

    _“Cuddle your pet.”_
    Me: *hugs my plushie because I don’t have a pet😂*

  • @Velvetterosee
    @Velvetterosee Před 4 lety +310

    I was victim of sexual harassment a couple months ago, i was 16 at the time and decided to finally talk and speak up about it today. I was feeling really hopeless and was tempted to commit suicide but then this happened and i felt like maybe just maybe things could get better, so i gave it a chance. Alivia im so thankful because you changed my life without even knowing.

    • @kaelynsourya
      @kaelynsourya Před 4 lety +35

      I am genuinely so proud of you! You are so strong and amazing and you were born for a reason! Keep going, you’ve got this!!!

    • @zhyannoble7974
      @zhyannoble7974 Před 4 lety +17

      You are so amazing and strong for speaking up. Keep ur head up queen or ur crown will fall. 💞👑💞

    • @aliahbegum2929
      @aliahbegum2929 Před 4 lety +11

      I am so proud of you ❤️

    • @killervfrost7260
      @killervfrost7260 Před 3 lety +8

      I believe in you, keep your head up 👆🏻

    • @elpzie_492
      @elpzie_492 Před 3 lety +7

      We love you

  • @lzylouwho
    @lzylouwho Před 2 lety

    you look so pretty when you’re happy !

  • @abinayam5229
    @abinayam5229 Před 2 lety

    This lifted my mood with so much positivity

  • @nurinbatrisya8412
    @nurinbatrisya8412 Před 4 lety +562

    “If you want to continue to choose to focus on how much your life sucks, you wont get anywhere in life. you’ve gotta be your on best friend and lift yourself up!”
    thanks Alivia. i needed this

  • @green9554
    @green9554 Před 4 lety +684

    "Go outside and spend time with nature"
    Me, 1 ½ in quarantine: what... what is "outside"?

  • @tarakalam865
    @tarakalam865 Před 3 lety

    Im obsessed with your channel🧡🥺

  • @Lifeunrevealed
    @Lifeunrevealed Před 3 lety

    Hey Alivia thank you for existing ❤️

  • @giannac7069
    @giannac7069 Před 4 lety +197

    i think it's so cool how she has so many random video clips from throughout her life that she is able to use in these videos

  • @DexieEvangelista
    @DexieEvangelista Před 4 lety +440

    See how she didn’t mention “do your online class activities”? Jk. Thank you so much for doing all of these videos. Really means a lot to me 💛

  • @UnraveledwithJoy
    @UnraveledwithJoy Před 4 lety

    You’re always so motivating

  • @aMinivanLife
    @aMinivanLife Před 3 lety +2

    this video brought tears to my eyes, your content is well needed in this world

  • @neila5913
    @neila5913 Před 4 lety +584

    Alivia : close your eyes, now picture a sad person
    Me: picturing myself from last year
    Alivia: noe picture a happy person
    Me: picturing myself now and how I've been this year
    Just remember that whatever you're going through you're gonna get over it just stay strong 💓💓

    • @repent.
      @repent. Před 4 lety +2

      🥺

    • @nicoledlugopolski4621
      @nicoledlugopolski4621 Před 4 lety +7

      im happy you’re happy now :)

    • @Lara-gc5mn
      @Lara-gc5mn Před 3 lety

      I’ve been trying to stay strong for over 2 years now and it’s just too much. 💔

    • @neila5913
      @neila5913 Před 3 lety

      @@Lara-gc5mn I'm so sorry just remember that you're not alone and never lose hope better days are gonna come your way just believe it and be patient 💓💓💓

    • @Lara-gc5mn
      @Lara-gc5mn Před 3 lety

      Neila thank you so much 🥺🥺

  • @maddiee4737
    @maddiee4737 Před 4 lety +559

    1). Sometimes you just need to cry it out.
    2). Spend some time in nature.
    3). Whatever you focus on becomes your reality.
    4). Listen to music you LOVE.
    5). Only follow social media that makes you feel good about yourself, that inspires you, etc. Thoughts come from what is around you.
    6). Smile and have a 45-second dance party.
    - Smiling and have good posture, good thoughts-choose to outsmart your brain and lift yourself up
    7). Talk to a friend/family member or write out your feelings.
    8). Do something for someone else.
    9). Read a good book or watch a show/movie that makes you happy.
    10). Celebrate your progress, no matter how small. Don't feel bad about mistakes, because they mean that you are trying. Link happiness to progress, effort, and learning.
    11). Cuddle with your pet!
    12). Write down what you're grateful for-write about what do DO have, not what you don't.
    - Do more of whatever makes your heart beat faster and your eyes glow brighter. Do what you love.

    • @ameliamartinez5669
      @ameliamartinez5669 Před 3 lety +4

      thanks

    • @lalalalavender1638
      @lalalalavender1638 Před 3 lety +1

    • @prabhdeepkaur6785
      @prabhdeepkaur6785 Před 2 lety

      Oh I love it

    • @Srliss1-93
      @Srliss1-93 Před 2 lety

      1 i cant because of my dad thats the reason im sad
      2 its 3 am
      3 already tried atleast 10 times did NOT work
      4 back to 2 and 1
      6 to 9 is back to 1 and 2 again
      10 its hard no matter how hard i try and it ends up making me feel worse
      11 my dog doesnt like cuddles and is too big
      12 is back to ten

    • @_prodspace
      @_prodspace Před 2 lety

      I love you so much and you deserve nothing but happiness bruh, you helped me

  • @shirokuma4296
    @shirokuma4296 Před 3 lety +1

    Thank you for changing people lives

  • @bubblegumrapper1167
    @bubblegumrapper1167 Před 3 lety

    so positive in this video 💞💞💞

  • @Mia-sb1bb
    @Mia-sb1bb Před 4 lety +537

    11: cuddle your pet
    me: *cries internally because i reallyyyy want a dog*

    • @haku_alo
      @haku_alo Před 3 lety +2

      😓😓😓😓

    • @areeeash1124
      @areeeash1124 Před 3 lety +2

      @Terri Charles i love chickens they're so cute

    • @deadshot4839
      @deadshot4839 Před 3 lety +4

      Yeah my dog I had with me for 13yesars passed away

    • @idonthaveausername1197
      @idonthaveausername1197 Před 3 lety +1

      @@deadshot4839 sorry for your loss 😔

    • @deeznuts601
      @deeznuts601 Před 3 lety

      Get a ham ham or a guinea pig theyre not that expensive and you can afford em

  • @ainaniazzyati
    @ainaniazzyati Před 4 lety +452

    Is she stalking me ? I ve been so sad and thinking about suicidal thoughts and this save me that i still have tomorrow to live

    • @rosek1282
      @rosek1282 Před 4 lety +47

      Ainani Azzyati I’m sorry you feel such darkness right now... you’ll be okay

    • @pandafam0416
      @pandafam0416 Před 4 lety +35

      Sending a virtual hug your way!

    • @xxOsnapitzlanixx
      @xxOsnapitzlanixx Před 4 lety +21

      stay strong queen!

    • @marialuiza-hx2km
      @marialuiza-hx2km Před 4 lety +26

      i don’t know you personally and your own problems, but i’m sure you are strong enough to get through this!! keep going, your destiny has not ended yet, your history, is much longer than that, if you haven’t heard that today yet, you are loved, i love you, sending virtual hugs right now! 💖

    • @aylees395
      @aylees395 Před 4 lety +14

      Ainani Azzyati i hope that you can get professional help to get better, but you are doing amazing and this will pass keep fighting sweetheart

  • @audreysinlao7260
    @audreysinlao7260 Před 3 lety

    You are so pure and a kind person, thank u for your motivational videos, worth ittt

  • @genaugleich222
    @genaugleich222 Před 3 lety

    You ARE making changes! I thank you so much ♥️ I needed this Video!

  • @carlieobregon
    @carlieobregon Před 4 lety +371

    “Pain is just a weakness”
    -alivia
    Were I learned this? Crying while doing the middle splits for 30 seconds

  • @mahtab8436
    @mahtab8436 Před 4 lety +100

    tips that are mentioned in the video:
    #1 sometimes you just need to cry it out. Feeling the emotionally fully can set you free
    #2 Go take a walk in nature
    #3 whatever you focus on, becomes your reality
    #4 listen to upbeat music you LOVE
    #5 unfollow anyone on social media that doesn’t make you feel good about yourself
    #6 smile and have a 45 second dance party
    #7 call a friend or write down out your feelings
    #8 do something for someone else
    #9 read good fiction or watch a show/movie
    #10 celebrate your progress, no matter how small it is
    #11 cuddle with your pet
    #12 write down what you are grateful for

  • @Just2Bii
    @Just2Bii Před 3 lety +1

    This is seriously amazing. Thank you.

  • @TaeTae-zg1tz
    @TaeTae-zg1tz Před 3 lety

    Sis you’re such an open and inspirational person! Thank god i found ur channel ahhh i dunno what I would do without your positivity❤️ keep on going! I’ll always support you

  • @raniaasad9440
    @raniaasad9440 Před 4 lety +180

    Why is she the most inspiring person on the internet? She'll go far. She already has.

  • @keirafay4969
    @keirafay4969 Před 4 lety +335

    Alivia: *posts*
    Me, trying to find inspiration to do better on my glow up journey: YASSSS THANK YOU QUEEEEEEEEN!

  • @samruddhi7262
    @samruddhi7262 Před 3 lety

    I love how you speak from experience and are real to us 💛 thank you

  • @marionettebutterfly1363
    @marionettebutterfly1363 Před 3 lety +3

    I love this girl! She makes me feel so inspired and helped me turn my life around

  • @yan9560
    @yan9560 Před 4 lety +250

    I love that you’re here to give tips to everyone

  • @elainapease8704
    @elainapease8704 Před 4 lety +536

    I was actually about to self harm when this video popped into my recommended, now I watch this whenever I'm about to 💜 thank you Alivia

    • @sammyjohnoo
      @sammyjohnoo Před 4 lety +38

      I’m proud of you :)

    • @kaelynsourya
      @kaelynsourya Před 4 lety +28

      I am so proud of you! Keep going!!! You’ve got this!

    • @hannahpellett2417
      @hannahpellett2417 Před 3 lety +22

      so proud of you! life can be hard sometimes, but just know that good things are coming your way :)

    • @tukabugu
      @tukabugu Před 3 lety +18

      Great job. You are worth it

    • @Kimtaehyung-vz6rj
      @Kimtaehyung-vz6rj Před 3 lety +12

      You nice, keep going!

  • @dianaamaya8203
    @dianaamaya8203 Před 4 lety

    watching your glow up diaries have helped me soo much. I changed my bad eating habits as well as improved my mentality. I honestly thought it’d never happen but i’ve been feeling so good ever since i decided to actually make a change. I thank you bc you really are the reason i’ve gotten so far so thanks for being so motivational! I love your videos so much!❤️

  • @user-kk6ip
    @user-kk6ip Před 3 lety

    I am sooo proud of her

  • @adaraaccalia6459
    @adaraaccalia6459 Před 4 lety +97

    Step 1: watch any of Alivia's videos

  • @dn4298
    @dn4298 Před 3 lety +4

    Literally the world needs you Alivia, thank you for everything🥺💓

  • @vidhisingh4824
    @vidhisingh4824 Před 3 lety +1

    You’re so amazing and relatable - I find so much of myself in you. Stay blessed and pure ❤️

  • @kimallyson5445
    @kimallyson5445 Před 4 lety +165

    When you said to imagine a sad person, I immediately thought of myself. I saw myself walking and talking like how I normally would. But when you said to imagine a happy person, my mind just went blank. It made me realize how little I do to actually make myself happy.

    • @tukabugu
      @tukabugu Před 3 lety +9

      Don't worry i was there just remember things will get better and one day you will see yourself as the happy person and your mind will go blank in the thought of the sad person. 😘🙂

    • @repent.
      @repent. Před 3 lety +2

      Yeah. I hate myself rn

    • @xoxodelphi
      @xoxodelphi Před 2 lety

      same but i imagined myself when i'm happy as the happy person and realized how different it feels

  • @isabellalindudottir6755
    @isabellalindudottir6755 Před 4 lety +46

    you should make a podcast, i would listen to every single episode, seriously

  • @sujata8957
    @sujata8957 Před 3 lety +1

    Been having an off week and honestly, this is home.Thank you for your videos, your honesty and just YOU

  • @angelrossflores6236
    @angelrossflores6236 Před 3 lety

    THIS CHANNEL IS LITERALLY WAT EVERYONE NEEDS!! THANK GOD TO PEOPLE LIKE YOU IM CRYING

  • @writingclass2023
    @writingclass2023 Před 4 lety +52

    God has a pen. 🖋
    Alivia has a highlighter. 🖊
    God drew the earth... ✍ 🌎
    Alivia made it 100 times brighter 🖍✨

  • @debopriyaghosh5000
    @debopriyaghosh5000 Před 4 lety +131

    I tried looking at ceiling and laughing but I ended up crying 🙃

    • @monica.castro101
      @monica.castro101 Před 4 lety +6

      R U OK?

    • @suzzshakya8968
      @suzzshakya8968 Před 3 lety +3

      Debopriya ghosh same 😌

    • @yaqutamohamd581
      @yaqutamohamd581 Před 3 lety +12

      This comment made me feel i am not alone

    • @kirtu9035
      @kirtu9035 Před 3 lety +7

      Aww get better soon i remember when I feel like that its a guilty nostalgic feeling and don't worry, it will pass, talk to someone, cry it out, do what makes you shine and be happy

  • @s.h.8410
    @s.h.8410 Před 3 lety +1

    I just wanna say I am soooo happy and grateful that I found your channel. Love your aesthetic thank you so much love 💕

  • @samairab3972
    @samairab3972 Před 3 lety +1

    Mannnnn I love this girlllll!!! You are so positive and I absolutely love that❤️ The world needs more people like you! 😊

  • @kimminjungparkjeonsarang8980

    When you said close your eyes and imagine sad person i imagined myself and then when you said imagine happy person i imagined happy me and that made me sooo much happy thanks alot i can't even express my thoughts for you. Love you:)))Keep doing GOOD things sis.

  • @basil-li1jw
    @basil-li1jw Před 4 lety +94

    I can't express how much this channel has done for me. You are one of the few people on the internet that is fully and totally human to me, and I am so grateful.
    Thank you so much

  • @nkeruperera8124
    @nkeruperera8124 Před 4 lety

    This has really inspired me way beyond I can even explain ...I've been feeling so low and just horrible ..I struggle to keep myself motivated and often find myself wanting to just not get out of bed .
    I want to make a change in this world and my life and this really helped . This just showed up on my reccomend and I'm so grateful. Thank you so much for inspiring me and being who you are really inspiring.
    Loads of love 💛

  • @digoksv
    @digoksv Před rokem +3

    This video is a masterpiece. I often come back here to watch it. Thank u so much for it! ❤

  • @Spidermonkey04
    @Spidermonkey04 Před 4 lety +393

    The 12 ways (I would say: this is for those who don't have 9 minutes but seriously who doesn't have time for Alivia?) 😅🥰
    0:29 - Sometimes you just need to cry it out. Feeling the emotion fully can set you free.
    1:21 - Go for a walk in nature.
    1:41 - Whatever you focus on becomes your reality. Focus on your wins and happy moments in life.
    2:52- Turn up UPBEAT music and listen to it. Songs that make you happy.
    3:10 - Unfollow people on social media that make you feel bad about yourself. By comparing yourself constantly you are forgetting what's awesome about you. Focus on your strengths and your victories
    4:17 - Smile and have a 45-second dance party.
    5:34 - Call a friend or write it down.
    6:45 - Do something for someone else.
    7:12 - Read some good fiction or watch a good TV show or movie.
    7:30 - Celebrate your progress no matter how small it is.
    7:51 - Cuddle your pet.
    8:03 - Right down what you are grateful for.
    Extra
    8:45- Whatever makes your heart beat faster, eye glow brighter, do more of that. Make a list of what you love and what you are doing every day and adjust the list accordingly.
    Thanks for the video 🧡

  • @invaliduser216
    @invaliduser216 Před 4 lety +188

    I actually cried when she asked us to smile 😂

  • @rachelyy
    @rachelyy Před 4 lety

    Such a beautiful, practical and emotionally attuned video. Alivia you should be proud of yourself and your platform!

  • @meg6950
    @meg6950 Před 3 lety +9

    you need to have a podcast i would listen all the time

  • @ellagrace7456
    @ellagrace7456 Před 4 lety +73

    When she said Imagine a happy person, I imagined a person smiling with hidden pain. Laughing with undiscovered tears.

    • @maymay4034
      @maymay4034 Před 3 lety

      Same, I tried my best to stop imagining a happy boy with a sad life

    • @aliyahhoward8854
      @aliyahhoward8854 Před 3 lety

      Ella Grace when she said to imagine a sad person I thought of a person who looked somewhat happy on the outside but sad on the inside

  • @emwyatt311
    @emwyatt311 Před 4 lety +58

    2018 Alivia: how can I do great things if I don’t get into my dream schools
    2020 Alivia: inspires 1.7 million people with her own thoughts and research every day

  • @briannacontreras8208
    @briannacontreras8208 Před 2 lety +2

    I’m so so grateful for Alivia. She’s so transparent with her journey and sooooo relatable

  • @meggie1446
    @meggie1446 Před 2 lety

    This video is so helpful. Thank you for being you. And your video and editing skills are amazing!

  • @leahdudash9421
    @leahdudash9421 Před 4 lety +124

    When she said, “picture someone sad” my eyes started watering because I thought about my friend who had major depression. He’s okay now btw :) You will get through it too. If you need to talk, my insta is @my._.brain

  • @jodieleigh6633
    @jodieleigh6633 Před 4 lety +107

    I was literally sobbing on the phone to my dad about how sad I was and stress eating but this THIS is what I needed. I feel ten times better and I’m going to go for a walk ❤️

  • @kasiekk193
    @kasiekk193 Před 3 lety +1

    thank you so much for sharing this and letting yourself be vulnerable so publicly, i cried with you, and you've truly inspired me to keep going.

  • @yavuzmarifet4528
    @yavuzmarifet4528 Před 3 lety

    You are so real and relatable, human thanks for inspiration

  • @Kkkkkmmmmm463
    @Kkkkkmmmmm463 Před 4 lety +40

    One of the best things about Alivia is that she kept going forward. She still kept going forward after getting rejected from her dream college. That is so damn inspiring.

  • @suzineeya
    @suzineeya Před 4 lety +154

    Alivia: *"Take a deep breath"*
    me: **burps**

  • @jelkekersemans8072
    @jelkekersemans8072 Před 3 lety +3

    I’m just feeling sooo goood after seeing this video!! You’re positivity and you’re mindset is such a example for everyone🧡🧡

  • @leannes5511
    @leannes5511 Před 3 lety

    Miss Alivia I cannot tell you how happy I am to have found your CZcams at a time where I need it the most.

  • @summerain
    @summerain Před 4 lety +80

    her voice is so calming, this channel is honestly one of the best on yt

  • @annedashwood5619
    @annedashwood5619 Před 4 lety +92

    When you said "smile and have a 45 sec dance party"
    I asked my sister to come and dance with me but she didn't Come coz she is more of a singer, so I put on my earphones and started dancing by myself and right at that moment my mom came in my room and was so suspicious as to why I was smiling like crazy and jumping around in my room( to her without a sound)
    But in the end we all laughed about it and I feel very very happy and at peace with myself thanks to alivia
    So to everyone reading this
    Go and dance like a crazy person, it's fun(tip don't put on earphones coz your family will tease you about dancing without a sound for days!)💖💖

  • @anafernandes9669
    @anafernandes9669 Před 3 lety

    Alivia, Thank you for this video, self love is important. YOU GOT THIS!!

  • @DeYaa
    @DeYaa Před 3 lety

    What a great timing ! Thank youuu😭😢