Is it really sunnah to marry a divorcee?
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Neither is it Sunnah to marry more than one wife, it is mubaah (permissible) and doesn't hold any extra virtue. In addition, if you are pro nuclear family and anti divorce, you could easily quote statistics that show marrying a second wife leads to marriage break-down.
"Neither is it Sunnah to marry more than one wife"
It was narrated that Sa’eed ibn Jubayr said: Ibn ‘Abbaas said to me: “Have you gotten married?”
I said: “No.”
He said: “Get married, for the best of this ummah are the ones with the most wives.” Narrated by al-Bukhaari (5069).
Firstly: plural marriage is Sunnah for the one who can afford it, and is not obligatory, according to scholarly consensus. See al-Mughni, 9/340.
Shaykh Ibn Baaz (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked: Is plural marriage permissible in Islam or is it Sunnah?
He replied: Plural marriage is Sunnah for the one who can afford it. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):
“And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphan girls then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (slaves) that your right hands possess. That is nearer to prevent you from doing injustice”
[al-Nisa’ 4:3]
And it is Sunnah because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) did it. He had nine wives and Allaah benefited the ummah through them. This is one of the things that applied only to him (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Other men are not allowed to have more than four wives.
There are many benefits in plural marriage for men and women and for the Muslim ummah as a whole. Plural marriage enables everyone to lower their gaze and guard their chastity, to have many children, and for a man to take care of many women and protect them from the causes of evil and deviation.
As for the one who cannot afford that and fears that he will not be able to treat co-wives justly, he should settle for just one wife, because Allaah says: “but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one”. From Fataawa Islamiyyah, 3/202
"if you are pro nuclear family and anti divorce, you could easily quote statistics that show marrying a second wife leads to marriage break-down."
is polygyny to blame for that? or is it those (men and women) who practice it incorrectly.
because if something was legislated in Islam and practiced by the Prophet S.A.W and the early muslims, it can not be mentioned as the root cause of a marriage break-down. you can only make the case that incorrect practice of polygyny leads to marriage break-down.
and guess what? mahdi has videos on this.
czcams.com/video/E88CoAT8KjI/video.html
Are u a simp who has to belittle polgyny to get validation from women 🤡?
I’m a convert of 20 years who worked very hard at a marriage which didn’t work from the very beginning. Put in 16 years of sacrifice and patience, telling myself I’d keep my commitment to the marriage until it either caused me to really start struggling with my Deen, or led me into a depression which would subtract from my ability to be a good mother to our children, or I felt like I’d end up hospitalized for mental health problems (which I don’t have on my own).
I never got close to cheating, lived conservatively, never went against his orders, didn’t work, was known to be a nurturing and devoted mother, and was submissive overall. I tried every route of improving the marriage possible.
So I stayed until all 3 of those dealbreakers above started to happen. And my kids started to suffer, while we were still married. I couldn’t do it anymore. I had hit a wall of pure and utter loneliness and misery. Even though he paid for everything and I wanted for nothing material.
Now, two years after divorce, my kids are happier than before, earning straight A’s and saying all their prayers on their own without reminder. I am happy and content. Financially we’re doing fine. My ex-husband and I are great coparents, without fighting. We get along quite well. I’m still close to his family. I thought, “Thank God I’m not Catholic anymore. THANK YOU ALLAH for allowing divorce. Because I just couldn’t do it anymore.”
It’s not necessarily divorce that’s the problem. It’s how we handle the divorce. Sometimes it can be a blessing for all.
The real problem is selfish, narcissistic parents, whether they’re together or not. I have so many adult friends still struggling after being raised in a toxic two-parent household. And friends of divorced parents who are successful in home and career MashAllah.
I was trying to marry a divorcee and she gave up real quick the moment she felt I was " controlling " save yourselves from divorcees people ,don't marry them
It's 99.8% mothers get the custody!🤦♂️
The fact that you are bashed for this and called ''hater'' ''mysogynist'' and what not, just goes to show how insecure muslim women have become.
Honestly I think muslim women would rather throw Islam under the bus than accept truths such as the ones you are espousing.
I live in the States and I know sooo many good muslim men from all backgrounds who have been burnt, from gaslighting to having been cheated on to being robbed of their assets to having their kids taken away and yet no one even talks about this. I swear man, I fear there is going to be a huge backlash against muslim women and they are going to suffer in the long run.
Also, why is it that you are getting next to nothing views, yet guys like Ali Dawah (A businessman specialising in appeasing and giving lip service to muslim women) gets 100's of thousands of views. Strange times we live in, power to you brother, I hope you never stop...
Asc brother. Please don't forget both marriages and divorce are decrees from Allah SWC.
don't be a qadariyah. also actions do have consequences. but you lot never believed in the consequences and refused accountability at all times. either you lot start middle ground fallacy or you list more bad things regarding men to cover your vileness.
@@mrethanever Where Qatar comes from?
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Did anyone object to this in the live?
Nope
this man is treating the subject in such foul way.
Brother this is not your place to talk about anything in religion.
Stay away and fear Allah of talking about what you do not know. this advise I give first to MYSELF before anybody else.
whatever mistake/wrong in this post is from me.
whatever good in this post is from Allah.
here:
‘Abdallah b. ‘Amr reported God’s messenger as saying, “God does
not take away knowledge by removing it from men, but takes it away
by taking away the learned, so that when He leaves no learned man, men
will take ignorant men as leaders. Causes will be presented to them
and they will pass judgement without knowledge, erring and leading
others into error.” (Bukhari and Muslim.)
وَعَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرٍو قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «إِنَّ اللَّهَ لَا يَقْبِضُ الْعِلْمَ انْتِزَاعًا يَنْتَزِعُهُ مِنَ الْعِبَادِ وَلَكِنْ يَقْبِضُ الْعِلْمَ بِقَبْضِ الْعُلَمَاءِ حَتَّى إِذَا لَمْ يُبْقِ عَالِمًا اتَّخَذَ النَّاسُ رُءُوسًا جُهَّالًا فَسُئِلُوا فَأَفْتَوْا بِغَيْرِ عِلْمٍ فضلوا وأضلوا»
مُتَّفَقٌ عَلَيْهِ (الألباني) حكم :
Reference : Mishkat al-Masabih 206
In-book reference : Book 2, Hadith 9
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Al-Baqarah 2:230
فَإِنطَلَّقَهَافَلَاتَحِلُّلَهُۥمِنۢبَعۡدُحَتَّىٰتَنكِحَزَوۡجًاغَيۡرَهُۥۗفَإِنطَلَّقَهَافَلَاجُنَاحَعَلَيۡهِمَآأَنيَتَرَاجَعَآإِنظَنَّآأَنيُقِيمَاحُدُودَٱللَّهِۗوَتِلۡكَحُدُودُٱللَّهِيُبَيِّنُهَالِقَوۡمٖيَعۡلَمُونَ٢٣٠
So if a husband divorces his wife ˹three times˺, then it is not lawful for him to remarry her until after she has married another man and then is divorced. Then it is permissible for them to reunite, as long as they feel they are able to maintain the limits of Allah. These are the limits set by Allah, which He makes clear for people of knowledge.
- Dr. Mustafa Khattab
Allah allowed divorced, legiferate, established it. 14 centuries later.. some random creation goes public and claim that the prophet this, sunnah that, we should this and that..... Brother get off the internet you are hurting yourself and the ummah.
This divorcee issue was started by muslims mothers who wanted control on their daughters -in-law and Allah knows best. while in fact she is not obliged to even give her mother-in-law a cup of water. now their son are like them. soon their own daughters will suffer and they will not know why.
Islam is not Christianity. it does not have divorcee issue or else.
our generation take issue out of everything and detail and deliberately leave the real matter. out fear death and love of this dunia.
starting by myself first.
As for the broken muslim families in the west, go back to your land this will not be an issue for you. you will see nor hear about them and their broken family. but you wont because you are too comfortable here. you cannot go face to face with any parliament, or prime minister, or minister or a deputy forcing transgender agenda on your siblings and kids but you are online spurring hate and disinforming muslim on their religion. no need for non muslims.
Take the book of Allah. if you want, leave what the prophet says and did that should suffice, but please brother get off the internet.
Will never marry divorcee or widow for first wife NEVER
Just vet a widow properly, and there is an authentic hadith(S) for it
@@mrethanever what is vet
@@theterminator6121 doing a background check
@@mrethanever yeah
There’s nothing wrong with marrying widows but there is a risk to marrying a divorcee
سلام عليكم..
No..
Yet marry a divorce or widow doesn't mean that you support broken home..
Sunnah?
Our Messenger *Saw *married Our Mother Zaynab Ra..
You seems obsessed by belittling divorces..
Not about justify it by calling it Sunnah..
Just like many did marry" young" women..
Our Mother * Ra* Aysha..
..
What problem do u hv with men going for younger women? U r jealous of younger women? Don't show double standards if u want to get bitter in men marrying younger women and want to support men marrying divorcees.
@@sophiesumleen7872 سلام عليكم..
This made me Laugh..
Or big smile..
Kind of Judgemental..
@@sophiesumleen7872 & I am Not الحمد لله jeliouse of younger Women..
I deeply wish for every one young and Elderly..
I am completely comfortable being a Grandmother of four..
And Enjoy seeking quality of Life..
I am sad for those women and men who need support and protection..
Men are important..
Islam is Perfect..
I see that more and more..
And honestly I don't like to Argue..
Toxic attitude everywhere including among ourselves..
Ummah 🕋
One Body..
So It's Sad the indirect "Trolling"..
Not beneficial @ All..
More Demoralising honestly..
Stay Safe 🌍💝
@@aminahbergliotrolsdorph7557 marrying a divorcee is allowed and many people do that.. but to culturally enforce it in the name of religion is trash.. i won't marry a divorcee, why? simple because i can and i am allowed to not marry them either.. ok? .. and, asking a young person who is not divorcee himself/herself and who is trying get into a precious and special relationship with a man/woman to make a pure connection, these divorcees are shamelessly invading in the passion of their marriage..
@@mathew1812 I don't see Muslims culturally force anyone to marry divorced or widows..
Its some stigma but sometimes it's a situation where people choose that if the women is worth it and have qualities and Eman ..
Some attractions and caring..
So that's 👍