THE REALITY 12 || Why marry a divorcee??

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  • Salam alaikum brothers & sisters. Please support the Dawah by donating on the link below. www.gofundme.com/Helpthedawah1
    May Allah swt Mercy & Blessings be upon you all.
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Komentáře • 690

  • @gamerabossb1777
    @gamerabossb1777 Před 7 měsíci +89

    7 years later... Both are still world-class. May Allah bless and reward them both.

    • @konstantinosskordos8645
      @konstantinosskordos8645 Před 6 měsíci +2

      world class>???meaning??

    • @gamerabossb1777
      @gamerabossb1777 Před 6 měsíci

      world-class (adjective) · worldclass (adjective)
      (of a person, thing, or activity) of or among the best in the world:
      "a world-class player" · "British science and technology is world class"
      @@konstantinosskordos8645

  • @AP-mv4yz
    @AP-mv4yz Před 8 lety +621

    Ali, I swear I am a single divorced mother of two children, and the tears steamed down my face when I watched this video. I truly make sincere dua for you Ali Dawah, may Allah Taala keep u on the siraatul mustaqeem, and may He bless you with a pious wonderful wife who is the coolness of ur eyes, and may He bless you both with pious offspring. And may the duas of your parents always be with you. You r such a sincere and caring and mature brother, your concern for the sisters is truly from the heart and we do appreciate it, only Allah can reward you online behalf.

    • @AliDawah
      @AliDawah  Před 8 lety +173

      +Smap Petal Asalamu alaikum my dear sister May Allah swt grant you Jannah for your duas and kind words, all praises belong to Allah swt. May Allah swt make it easy for you in sha Allah be strong sister. ameeeeen

    • @shazalibnmushtaq444
      @shazalibnmushtaq444 Před 8 lety +13

      May Allah make everything easy for you

    • @seta-san2149
      @seta-san2149 Před 8 lety +1

      +Smap Petal have you ever considered dating outside your religion? it's clear that your religion doesn't actually want you. They have decided that you're used up trash. Despite what this guy is saying... no Muslim man will take you except as a man takes a hooker.

    • @shazalibnmushtaq444
      @shazalibnmushtaq444 Před 8 lety +14

      +Seta-San Why should one always have dating in mind? For those who have greater purpose in life and value time and authority and position much, they get to marriage soon.
      And brother, don't you think it'll be difficult to marry someone Not of your religion. I mean, not just what the Qur'ān says but even life becomes difficult.
      TRULY, ISLAM MAKES LIFE OF BOTH THE WORLDS SMOOTHER

    • @seta-san2149
      @seta-san2149 Před 8 lety

      how would you know? have you tried a different religion?

  • @hadjarmeftah1676
    @hadjarmeftah1676 Před 3 lety +119

    My first husband taunted my parents that nobody would want me after him because I was like damaged goods. The irony was that he was a divorcee himself when we married. After that Allah bought me someone better than him, younger than him, more educated than him. And this second time round, I was his first. Alhamdulilah all praise to Allah. I would advise all brothers to search for piety. Whether a maiden or a divorcee.

  • @hamdiharako1085
    @hamdiharako1085 Před 8 lety +96

    prophet Muhammad(salalaahu Aleyhi wa salim) was 25 years old when he got married to his wife khadija.She was 45 and divorced woman.

    • @SizShi
      @SizShi Před 6 lety +2

      Lacey Daley wrong. He kept Khadijah as his sole wife. After she died he had multiple....

    • @whathappenseveryday2024
      @whathappenseveryday2024 Před 5 lety +4

      Every women is not khadija or aisha that's where a lot women of today's society get it wrong, but continue please...........

    • @DARTH-R3VAN
      @DARTH-R3VAN Před 4 lety +6

      I know I'm answering late but, Khadija RadhiyAllahu Anha was not divorced. Her previous husbands died.

    • @amirahabdi
      @amirahabdi Před 3 lety +2

      Unfortunately we don’t have nabi Mohamed s.a.w in our life time and men like him are rare

    • @najmaahmed530
      @najmaahmed530 Před 3 lety +5

      Khadijah AS wasn’t a divorcee she was a widow

  • @arabqueenofengland1527
    @arabqueenofengland1527 Před 7 lety +346

    this is new to me , I am divorced with children. I am crying all the way with this talk. Alhamdulliah nice people do exist😭

  • @danielleterry2783
    @danielleterry2783 Před 8 lety +85

    I'm a revert of 5years now alhamdullilah and a single parant, thank you akhi for your views it really made me happy listening to you. I am a soldier and this is my jihad. may alaah bless you for your videos and may he keep ur heart good.

  • @Lavin.
    @Lavin. Před 5 měsíci +5

    I am watcing this video in 2024 and wow has akhi ayman changed into a much more confident individual. so happy for him to see him now and watching his videos about islam motivate me to do whats right

  • @cameroonbeauty4ever
    @cameroonbeauty4ever Před 8 lety +74

    aww the part he praises his wife!! mashaAllah :)

  • @muhammad180
    @muhammad180 Před 7 lety +35

    Brother ayman looks very handsome mash'Allah but his character is even more beautiful. AlI also looks good and he has good character. May Allah give them and those who struggled in this dunya jannah

    • @alaaahmedahmed7473
      @alaaahmedahmed7473 Před 6 lety +2

      Muhammad Salallahu Alayhe Wasalam Mashallh they both are cute

  • @fanforeversrk
    @fanforeversrk Před 8 lety +52

    His story of how he got stabbed is the most touching story ever, it will bring tears to the eyes. May Allah heal him and grand him and his wife jannah al firdosa.

  • @ikram2719
    @ikram2719 Před 6 lety +28

    I didn't think that guys like him still exist in this world.

  • @barabebe
    @barabebe Před 8 lety +125

    Masha'Allah, very true but for me my divorce was the best experience of my married life as I would have been on the road to hellfire if I still was married to him. Today I am much closer to my deen, I am raising my little one in a happier home environment as a single Muslim woman, I am myself teaching him how to pray and handling all of his needs with the help of Allah...
    I rather have the best husband in Jannah if it means to never get married in the dunya again...if it is Allah's will any woman who went through a divorce will remarry insha'Allah, regardless of culture or any dysfunctional belief. JZK

    • @Kedda486
      @Kedda486 Před 6 lety +4

      Barakatou Kone alhamdulilah blessings to you sister ameen

    • @aminasharif5856
      @aminasharif5856 Před 5 lety +7

      I agree he humiliated me in the entire city. Said nasty stuff about me he made me think I am crazy or I have jinn in me then he made me look like a liar a thief then he divorced me while I was pregnant.

    • @moodmeditation4458
      @moodmeditation4458 Před 3 lety +2

      @@aminasharif5856 Typical and in the end they want sympathy and act like wives are not fulfilling what can we do with these drums with abnormal desires and rotten cores.

  • @84khadijah
    @84khadijah Před 7 lety +25

    Asalamalaikom as a divorced revert sister with children. This video gave me a boost of confidence alhumdulilah. InshaAllah there's more brothers out there like these. Who accept and understand. Allahumma barik!!
    May Allah guide us all.

    • @jonnamjonnam1084
      @jonnamjonnam1084 Před 7 lety +1

      Jody Boisson May Allah swt bless you sister.

    • @84khadijah
      @84khadijah Před 7 lety

      Jonnam Jonnam JazakumAllahu Khairan wa Allahumma barik 😊

  • @mohsj88
    @mohsj88 Před 8 lety +122

    I totally agree that inferior look of society towards divorcee's is stupid and we should put it aside. But one important thing is never get involved in a relationship or marry a person just because you feel pathetic for them and want to help them out or just to prove that your not racist for example . You should only marry a person that you like as a person and for her deen regardless if she's a divorcee or not . Pathetic relationships will be cold and won't last it's also part of looking down on the person .

    • @asifgoldmine228
      @asifgoldmine228 Před 8 lety +4

      dw bro you'll find a wife relax

    • @asifgoldmine228
      @asifgoldmine228 Před 8 lety +4

      sisters contact ur wali n holla at this don he's thirsty

    • @mariamwakeel2887
      @mariamwakeel2887 Před 8 lety +6

      I agree and this is actually true .. Love a person for who he or she is and not their situation and condition

    • @firstnamelastname4427
      @firstnamelastname4427 Před 8 lety +1

      +Asif Goldmine Lmao

    • @mohsj88
      @mohsj88 Před 8 lety +7

      +Ayman Marwa Dude are you the brother in the video ? If you are then you 100% misunderstood me and i don't blame you for being angry , but i swear to god i wasn't talking about you neither your wife at all , i don't know your intention and i will never judge a person like that . I'm sorry for your misunderstanding, i was only speaking in GENERAL not about you , because i was afraid people may get ali dawahs words wrong by him encouraging marriage from a divorcee . You don't marry a divorcee or any other girl just because you want good deeds "ajr" out of her thinking your helping her out and looking down on her , thats not a type of relationship that would last , and obviously from the video you love your wife why would i judge you and get into your intentions? May allah forgive me and you bro .

  • @ilikecookies6406
    @ilikecookies6406 Před 8 lety +128

    My right ear enjoyed this 👂

    • @CHEBOYKA
      @CHEBOYKA Před 8 lety +24

      My left one.

    • @alishbah090
      @alishbah090 Před 8 lety +6

      StrongWOLF my left too ahahaha

    • @JustinCredible786
      @JustinCredible786 Před 8 lety +2

      +StrongWOLF I thought it was raining but turned out it was the sound of my right headphone lol, but the sound came through my left ear too aha

    • @marym6823
      @marym6823 Před 8 lety +4

      +Ilikecookies lol I kept taking out my headphones tinking theres summat wrong with em - my left one!

    • @babiemazzy5051
      @babiemazzy5051 Před 8 lety

      +Mary M LMAO Same! and I have just bought these earphones, I thought great, been a few days and these earphones busted already. :')

  • @mdgfosho
    @mdgfosho Před 8 lety +41

    Subhanallah what an amazing couple. May Allah grant them both jannatul firdous!

  • @Islamis4all
    @Islamis4all Před 5 lety +41

    A marriage is more successful when both spouses love each other and they have the same lifestyle and similar ambitions.

    • @moodmeditation4458
      @moodmeditation4458 Před 3 lety +1

      Right understanding is the key and both should be granted the same respect with no men superiority as if wives are to serve only. Both should focus on their roles women are burdened to carry both the roles just so she can stay safe with so called man beside her sucking on her.

    • @CowvertedHindu.
      @CowvertedHindu. Před rokem +2

      Not always

    • @prizma45
      @prizma45 Před 6 měsíci

      a marriage is successful when the man is 10 inches taller than the girl

  • @MsRamy92
    @MsRamy92 Před 8 lety +13

    Wow when he was talking about his health I realized that you never really know what people are going through. Be kind to one another.

  • @nadinads9556
    @nadinads9556 Před 8 lety +8

    Jazak Allah Khair for this. I've written top scholars to talk on this matter but they have not. May Allah continue to guide and protect you all. Well said.

  • @zainabadeyemi5264
    @zainabadeyemi5264 Před 8 lety +14

    my mums divorced i needed dis thanx

  • @zarinamalik1010
    @zarinamalik1010 Před 5 lety +33

    Assalaam o alekum
    I cried watching this because I am a single mum and because of family I have to remain silent about my feelings in regards to finding a husband.
    I just focus on my kids, my Namaz and make Dua to Allah Taalah .... Ameen.
    He knows best 😊 💚

  • @thamina25
    @thamina25 Před 7 lety +106

    For so long I've been angry at society, at my life and at the world for being a divorced Muslim woman. I've been living with the stigma for over nine years. This video gave me a new perspective on myself. Society was chipping away my self respect even though I know I done nothing wrong. After watching this I regained my self respect.

    • @wonderwoman7969
      @wonderwoman7969 Před 3 lety

      Why mr Aweful are you a divorced woman?

    • @ikramikram9140
      @ikramikram9140 Před 3 lety

      Remember you have kids u don't know the world wee live in full off child abusers this lot don't now sheet nobody is going to look at your child the same way as theres

    • @rashid6437
      @rashid6437 Před rokem +7

      @@wonderwoman7969 what kind of question is that?

    • @MohammedAli-ho3kf
      @MohammedAli-ho3kf Před 7 měsíci +1

      Hi

    • @2020Wanderlust
      @2020Wanderlust Před 6 měsíci

      Salam my sister, please do not EVER be ashamed of anything or let anyone make you feel that way . Allah knows what is best for us all. May Allah (SWT) keep you strong and close to him always inshallah 🤲🏽❤️🌻

  • @marosjl5781
    @marosjl5781 Před 7 lety +12

    Ali, May Allah swt grant you and your team Jannah in sha Allah . You guys have changed me as person so much in a very great way . Forever thankful to you all my brothers .

  • @Nothaleema12345
    @Nothaleema12345 Před rokem +9

    This episode made me had tears. Jzk for speaking out for sisters like us. This means alot to me.

  • @Monkiii2
    @Monkiii2 Před 8 lety +53

    I'm a revert, also a single mother who was never married, and even though I am not looking for a husband and I accept my current situation, it is pretty nice to see men like yourselves who would not mind marrying someone who is divorced and has a child. someone once told me that in order for me to find a husband I'd need to accomplish the unthinkable so I can be worthy, but I realized that marriage isn't for everyone and now that I think about it, maybe I gave up and closed my heart for a potential husband with the excuse that it's better off for me to be alone learning my religion on my own. Additionally, I would like to thank you for commenting on traditions that are mere cultural and not Islamic. I have not found a community which could teach me Islamic traditions and knowledge vs cultural traditions.

    • @912deborah
      @912deborah Před 6 lety +6

      Monkii marriage is apart of the sunnah . To say marriage is for everyone is a fallacy. Allah made Adam for eve and everything that exists has a pair. We are human and not made to live alone.

    • @Kedda486
      @Kedda486 Před 6 lety +1

      Monkii allah will guide you please keep praying mashallah

    • @anisoibrahim5279
      @anisoibrahim5279 Před 5 lety +2

      That’s true allah said in surah عم وخلقناكم از واجا please sister keep that in mind remember prophet Muhammad’s scw that get married at the age of 25 so don’t think just that marriage has been late for it don’t mean that no one wants to get married to you

    • @mohamedsidi5097
      @mohamedsidi5097 Před rokem +1

      Monkil I would encourage to delete the part where you stated " I am not looking for a husband". Marriage is Sunnah and be optimistic about marriage as a muslim. It protects your from every evil in this society. I am divorced but I still value marriage as it will open me furthers doors in terms of my imaan.

  • @liyasamat2447
    @liyasamat2447 Před 6 lety +7

    I'm a single mother..I'm crying while watching this

  • @johannaliceaga5936
    @johannaliceaga5936 Před 8 lety +8

    Ali dawah you have really changed a part of me with this video, you have noooo idea how important this video is to divorcee single mothers as myself!! may God reward you immensely for this I am in tears... I can never thank you enough for this video really...

  • @Ayubyboss
    @Ayubyboss Před 8 lety +30

    The guy on the right is beard goals ما شاء الله

  • @shafiq154
    @shafiq154 Před 8 lety +43

    My wife is going to leave me with two kids after 10 years of marriage !!!!! 😢please pray for me to find a divorcee cos I wanna live and spend rest of my life with complete deen inshaa-Allah, thanks for clip.

    • @somaliyahh
      @somaliyahh Před 6 lety +6

      Mohamad Sekandar what did you do

    • @alidasher
      @alidasher Před 5 lety +17

      @@somaliyahh why does it have to be something he did? this mentality is rotten. a woman or man can be at fault. It is not always that a man is at fault.

    • @somaliyahh
      @somaliyahh Před 5 lety +4

      alidasher Most women don’t go around leaving their husband of 10 years. They’re most likely to stick out and stay in a toxic relationship, if not for anything else but for the sake of their children. This is not to say women can’t be at fault but it is unlikely, especially in Muslim households. So I ask again, what did you do?

    • @alidasher
      @alidasher Před 5 lety +14

      @@somaliyahh do you know most women? I could sit here and say most women are reason for toxic relationships as well and men stick it out for sake of kids but that would be wrong. Please we need to stop with assumptions and asking questions where you already held someone guilty because of their gender. You could've just asked him what happened instead of your line of questioning. There is a reason he hasn't responded to you in all this time.

    • @whathappenseveryday2024
      @whathappenseveryday2024 Před 5 lety +2

      Shafiq your wife soon to be your ex... in few years she will be watching this video getting all kinds of emotions about the hash reality.

  • @yumchi09
    @yumchi09 Před 6 lety +6

    Subhan Allah the way the brother described his wife's skin tone was so sweet masha Allah :)

  • @mariamwakeel2887
    @mariamwakeel2887 Před 8 lety +16

    very touching story .. I seriously enjoyed every second .. May Allah guide this Ummah to the straight path and thought too !
    keep the greatness up :)

  • @keamoussaoui13
    @keamoussaoui13 Před 8 lety +102

    ÄsalamuÄelaiköm I wish more brothers would hear this. Especially the color part... I'm a black, divorced, mother of 4 and I swear brothers speak to me like I'm a prostitute. Like I'm a lowly street hustler... I'm a Muslim revert and I feel like wow what makes you think I want or need to give you sex to only get married? This is a very sick, demented, twisted, evil form of nafs. To all my sister's going through this, hold your head up. Ąlläh swt knows our struggle.

    • @hawagiwa4283
      @hawagiwa4283 Před 8 lety

      Where u from sis?

    • @keamoussaoui13
      @keamoussaoui13 Před 8 lety

      I'm African American what about you?

    • @keamoussaoui13
      @keamoussaoui13 Před 8 lety

      +salman yusuf thank you... NshąĄllah my situation will get better

    • @keamoussaoui13
      @keamoussaoui13 Před 8 lety +1

      +salman yusuf what race are you, no man should have a hard time marrying a good sister... Most divorced sisters come with a family, divorced men do not.
      The UK is great for variety of cultures. MashaAllah I love it.

    • @keamoussaoui13
      @keamoussaoui13 Před 8 lety

      +salman yusuf wow I'm so sorry to hear your also a divorcee, but I'm glad you're happy. NshąĄllah may Ąlläh provide you with immense wealth.
      Caribbean ohhh wow, my step dad is from the Bahamas love it!

  • @katerinaarif1053
    @katerinaarif1053 Před 7 lety +28

    Alhamdulillah I was able to meet sister Marwa (the wife of brother Ayman) on a piknik for sisters and brother Ayman is completely right. Sister Marwa is real gem ❤️ May Allah always guide them, ease their health conditions and grant them Jannat ul Firdaus

    • @swafaasalim9802
      @swafaasalim9802 Před 3 lety +2

      SubhanAllah my name is Marwaa too.. may Allah Grant him en his wife Jannah

  • @hs-freepalestine
    @hs-freepalestine Před 8 lety +6

    Mashallah... very inspiring person (brother Ali) Jazakallah :)

  • @sijoka2008
    @sijoka2008 Před 8 lety +8

    Masha'Allah brother. You are so brave to make this video about this sensitive subject. It's refreshing to see two young brothers talking so beautifully. This is very personal to me. I am revert to this beautiful deen. I am 45 years old. It has been so difficult. I take this as a test from Allah. I did marry 2 brothers that treat me as such :(. So yes I am that divorcee :(. Now I am traumatized. I am so very scared even to get confronted by a brother for marriage. I ask Allah swt for wisdom , peace of mind and clarity insha'Allah. I know Allah swt is with me and that's all that matters. Great video brother. Allah bless you both ameen.

  • @husseinibra6039
    @husseinibra6039 Před 8 lety +33

    Ali Dawaah my favorite, keep up the the good job and May Allah give you shifa in sha Allah

  • @LaLa-qn6gk
    @LaLa-qn6gk Před 6 lety +3

    Masha'Allah, we divorced sisters with child/children, need more brothers like you. May Allah swt bless you.

  • @afiabegumahmed4794
    @afiabegumahmed4794 Před 8 lety +2

    Subhan'Allah Brother. Ja'zak'Allah khair for backing up women like us. may dua will always be with u from now. Honestly made me cry today...Ja'zak'Allah khair brothers!

  • @Aliwiinter
    @Aliwiinter Před 4 lety +3

    Masha'Allah! Subhan'Allah Alhamdulillah Allahu akbar, this is a great advice and reminder for those who are arrogants and ignorants. May Allah swt protect and bless you all brothers!

  • @nadiramartinez4351
    @nadiramartinez4351 Před 8 lety +4

    Ma sha Allah ! It reaches the bottom of my heart :)

  • @moeas2467
    @moeas2467 Před 8 lety +2

    Mashallah may Allah reward you both for this video. I was divorced once, I appreciate everything you said in this video. Jazak allah alf khair

  • @strivingsister1784
    @strivingsister1784 Před 8 lety +11

    I ask Allah SWT to cure you brother Ayman and may Allah Bless your marriage, you are inspiration. Your video made me and my sister cry. Brother Ali and your team may Allah reward you for what you do Amiin.

  • @ChamakbyH
    @ChamakbyH Před 7 lety +6

    What u said about men saying they might marry you as a second really hit me! Been there, heard that, and it kills until this day. More than being a divorcee with 3 kids i think those words caused more pain. Love this video. May Allah Bless You

    • @MrSbhussain
      @MrSbhussain Před 6 lety +2

      sisters would rather stay single with 3 kids than have halal relationship that could help other sisters out too, unless its for a full scale marriage!

  • @IbnSaifi
    @IbnSaifi Před 8 lety +6

    This was my grandmother. Divorced, she brought up my father and his 3 siblings single handedly and did it with such success Allah yer7amha. My father is a better man for not having his own father growing up al7emdulillah 3la kol 7aal and I wish I could be half the man he is today. May Allah grant him jannatul firdaws and insha Allah one day be united with his beloved mother, mother of 4, grandmother of 9. A great jihad indeed. May Allah reward all single mothers around the world. Jannah is beneath their feet.

  • @naimaabdul2030
    @naimaabdul2030 Před 3 lety +2

    I saw brother ayman’s video as i was scrolling thru youtube i rem crying so hard that my family thought i was having problems from that day on u became a big fan of the brother .may Allah bless you abundantly ❤️😭🙏

  • @diamondsweetful1
    @diamondsweetful1 Před 8 lety +47

    I personally don't even like culture . I like the food culture but the moral culture towards people of different race, class makes me sick .

    • @kingkatiin2658
      @kingkatiin2658 Před 5 lety +1

      It is kinda haram too lol

    • @danceillusions13
      @danceillusions13 Před 3 lety

      I like food culture 😂💚

    • @kingkatiin2658
      @kingkatiin2658 Před 3 lety +2

      @I.Am. Abd She was describing racism and I was just saying her not liking should be the standard cause racism is Haram and we should dislike the Haram

  • @shortmaster101
    @shortmaster101 Před 10 měsíci +3

    This is what it looks like when someone is sincerely listening to you❤❤ pure love

  • @UndercoverHijabi
    @UndercoverHijabi Před 8 lety +6

    This akhi is inspiration! 👌🏽

  • @UmmSakinahJamilah
    @UmmSakinahJamilah Před 6 lety +21

    As salamu alaikum dear brothers,
    your clip made my heart melt. I'm a divorcee with 2 Kids (and a revert) and I'm treated, especially by muslims, like damaged goods. Most of the ppl I meet they want a divorcee and even less when I mention my beautiful kids. SubhanAllah, that makes me very sad. I didn't expect that by "so called" muslims. But Allah knows best. May Allah grant you Jannah...Jazak Allah kheiran.

    • @dali338
      @dali338 Před 6 lety +3

      N M may Allah swt give you the righteous spouse

    • @mechtron2544
      @mechtron2544 Před 5 lety +2

      May Allah bring a deserving husband into ur life. Im a divorcee too. I got divorced 6months into my marriage. I dont think i will ever marry ever again. Because im too scared nd ofcourse because of what everyone thinks of me as. Allah knows whats in my heart. My divorce has given me a different kind of purpose in my life.
      Im thankful fr that

    • @Theshowoffcollector
      @Theshowoffcollector Před 5 lety

      You can't make takfir on them just because they don't want to marry a widow hahaha

    • @reezis1619
      @reezis1619 Před 4 lety

      @@mechtron2544 Why did you divorce?

  • @tracywade2652
    @tracywade2652 Před 6 lety +4

    Thank Allah for you to share your life story with us. Alhamdulilah I'm praying for you and your family. Alhamdulilah

  • @shamzf1116
    @shamzf1116 Před 8 lety +1

    i love you alo dawah, your videos inspire me so much, i am watching them everyday and benefit from them everyday, allahamdulliah..

  • @seangaw6429
    @seangaw6429 Před 5 lety +1

    Brother Ali your follwers are increasing everyday. This is Allah's blessings coming to your way due to your justified heart warmning view and truthfulness. Love from Toronto Canada. May Allah bless you.

  • @human_being99_3
    @human_being99_3 Před 9 měsíci +1

    May Allah reward you abundantly for talking about this
    it was eye opening to me 💚

  • @maryammonroy1435
    @maryammonroy1435 Před 3 lety +3

    All the man should follow the steps of our profet peace be upon him, he was the best man ever 🥰

  • @user-nt7ts7ct5y
    @user-nt7ts7ct5y Před 7 lety +2

    MashaAllah.. 😊👍
    Alhamdulillah for everything.. ☺
    The way he is talking about his wife.. mashaAllah 😢😍😍

  • @lailamuller3006
    @lailamuller3006 Před 6 lety +1

    SubahanAllah. What brilliant gentlemen. May Allah reward you both...

  • @dulcebombon007
    @dulcebombon007 Před 6 lety +2

    MashAllah.....May Allah swt continue to bless us with amazing spouses....In Shaa Allah...and may Allah swt..also continue to bless you with a wife who you will guide you to jannah...In Shaa Allah....

  • @pennyaa2
    @pennyaa2 Před 8 lety +2

    Subhan Allah I'm glad you spoke on this and may Allah reward you both ameen. My husband married me even though I am older and a divorcee as well.

  • @SudaneseChamp
    @SudaneseChamp Před 3 lety +15

    advantage of marrying someone divorced is that they won't have that expectation of having this perfect Instagram marriage.

    • @soubermed2175
      @soubermed2175 Před 8 měsíci

      Not all divorced women are sunshine and rainbows, BTW, for she or her ex-husband divorced for a reason. So I would look at what leat to that, if it wasn't her fault then no problem however if she had part in it then mate why would I set my self for failure. Marrying a divorced woman, there is always some trauma that comes with it.

  • @safurafathimaquadri
    @safurafathimaquadri Před 8 měsíci +2

    Akhi ayman such a simple, soft, kind person, may Allah bless you bro and give u a quick recovery from whatever u are going through ❣️❣️❣️❣️

  • @mummylina
    @mummylina Před 7 lety +5

    As a single mother of 4, I was thinking about alot of issues you have raised in this video just the other week. I was listening to the stories of our mother Khadijah r.a and thought SubhanaAllah. It's really sad- we facing the same problems in Aus. The things ppl think you'll do just cause you are a divorcee is really sad as well. May Allah keep us steadfast and guide us back to the pure teachings of Islam. May we live our life by our great examples. آمين يارب العالمين

    • @user-eb7dm6ti3m
      @user-eb7dm6ti3m Před 10 měsíci

      HI HOW YOU IM A SINGLE MUSLIM MALE WOULD YOU LIKE TO CONNECT

  • @KamranKhan-pg3vp
    @KamranKhan-pg3vp Před 6 lety +8

    Salaam alaikum
    Wr Br
    I married a divorcee , and WALAHI best choice i made.

  • @lisal440
    @lisal440 Před 4 lety +1

    May Allah reward you guys for speaking the TRUTH!!!! Men need MEN to speak up and say the obvious because no matter how many women speak they don’t listen!!! JazakhAllah khair!!!! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @tracywade2652
    @tracywade2652 Před 6 lety +2

    Inshaallah it's not easy but Allah give us the strength to keep moving on. I'm divorce and alot of men mistreat us and treat us like we are nothing to them. It's very hurtful. I'm dealing with chronic pain in my body but before when I was working people use me to help them but now no one wants to be with me because of this issue. But I trust Allah to keep guiding me and I'm patient and I know Allah will bring someone that will love me and treat me the right way. Alhamdulilah I'm so happy that Allah has bless you with a wife that will love you for you and help you to grow in the way Allah will bless you both. Alhamdulilah

  • @hannakeinanx
    @hannakeinanx Před 8 lety +7

    Thank God I'm Somali, this taboo prevalent in South Asian and Arab communities doesn't exist within the Somali culture. We have a saying that says "silac ku nool, sodaan jir guurso baa ka roon." which translates as "Living in oppression? The one who marries 30 men is better off."

  • @munaibrahim2054
    @munaibrahim2054 Před 7 měsíci +4

    Maashallah akhi ayman was soo calm 😂😂😂😂

  • @imanliban8274
    @imanliban8274 Před 6 lety +2

    Ma sha Allah my brother Ali may Allah bless you and shower you in His rahma. I completely understand the subject you are talking about subhana Allah. Please my dear brother make a video about men asking divorcee sister to marry them in secret telling that they want to do ihsan or favour for her but they have a wife they don't want her to know. I am mother of three children and that is what I heard for the past 11 years while struggling with these little children. Alhamdulillah Allah saved me from that but it hurts me. Jazakumu Allahu khairan my brothers carry on the good work and may Allah make it easy for you aamin

  • @Rowhanthewellwisher
    @Rowhanthewellwisher Před 10 měsíci +2

    Watching it after 7 years. Subhanallah

  • @ghostwriter4620
    @ghostwriter4620 Před 8 lety +2

    Subha Allah this very beautiful speech Masha Allah . May Allah bless you all

  • @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
    @Aliyahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Před rokem +1

    This was absolutely beautiful ma sha Allah allahumma baarik

  • @AAMKH488
    @AAMKH488 Před rokem +2

    Walahi brother Ali Dawah I misjudged you before. This video and your sincere genuine concern for the sisters is truly a breath of fresh air. When divorcees and single mums are teared down left right and centre from our brothers you come up with this heartwarming video about marrying divorcees

  • @noonafatima4566
    @noonafatima4566 Před 8 lety +10

    Akhi I can't stop watching your video "why marry a divorce" I keep rewinding it. That was the best video you have done according to me. So beautiful Ma Sha Allah. May Allah bless you Akhi. And am waiting for more videos like that In Sha Allah.

    • @user-eb7dm6ti3m
      @user-eb7dm6ti3m Před 10 měsíci

      HI MRS FATIMA IM A MALE LIVING IN CANADA I WANT TO TALK TO YOU WOULD YOU LIKE A PEN PAL

  • @wonderingstar29
    @wonderingstar29 Před 7 lety +2

    Your a good man! May Allah bless your marriage abundantly!!

  • @marinemariam3448
    @marinemariam3448 Před 8 lety +3

    Great video Ayman should do more videos for Muslims to learn from his experiences mashaAllah

  • @terintiaflavius3349
    @terintiaflavius3349 Před 6 měsíci +3

    My ex husband was a drunk who tried to kill me several times. I have a scar on my palm from where i was cut holding a knife back from my throat. The stigma is real, i wish people would get to know the divorcee before judging. Allah does not want us to be tortured and abused.

  • @haleemfarid
    @haleemfarid Před 3 lety +7

    My mother had a forced marriage at 15 and she was divorced by 23 with four children (sons) without no family support and the amount of agro we had growing with harassment and the struggles she had trying to marry somebody. It’s given me an insight of how things are in society. Divorce women are looked down upon!

  • @CherilovesLi57
    @CherilovesLi57 Před 8 lety +2

    His story on the other channel was so inspiring, love videos like that!!!!!☺❤ Ameen.

  • @SamaraTrollero
    @SamaraTrollero Před 8 lety +11

    The sahaba would die to marry a divorcee? They would put their life on the line only on the battlefield and to protect the Prophet (peace be upon him)...
    Just be careful of overdoing it.

  • @officialyusra
    @officialyusra Před 10 měsíci +3

    aymans still happily married and has 2 kids mashallah may allah bless him

  • @mumtazkhanum3594
    @mumtazkhanum3594 Před 7 lety +5

    This so true I'm 33 divorced with two children from UK n over years of searching for a partner I have always come across negativity n it makes you think twice. We are like any other women...sad times. May Allah reward those who marry divorced women with or with out children Ameen

    • @mounirartists7409
      @mounirartists7409 Před 5 lety +1

      Mumtaz Khanum don't worry my sister our allah is great we have faith ....

  • @bergkamp4928
    @bergkamp4928 Před 8 lety

    I love the way imran always jumps in from nowhere, keep up the good work ak

  • @JDNR30k
    @JDNR30k Před 9 měsíci +1

    Mashallah this guys is now a Sheikh giving bayan

  • @demilovatobiggest
    @demilovatobiggest Před 8 lety +2

    What I just needed to hear....

  • @Abdullah12794
    @Abdullah12794 Před 7 lety +1

    Masha Allah very beneficial video, I agree a lot with with brother Mansur said. He's so funny. Love you all brothers. Jazakumullahu khayran

  • @queenieislam204
    @queenieislam204 Před 7 lety +1

    Ali dawah mashaallah may Allah bless you for speaking the truth and being honest love you for the sake of Allah

  • @anonymousshahana9134
    @anonymousshahana9134 Před 3 lety +6

    When my grandfathers 1st wife died he married my grandma .He had 3 children from 1st wife.So he kept a maid to help her care for kids .My grandma loved the 3 children ,her parents too loved them ,gave them gifts later my grandma gave birth to her own kids she said every tym if i planned to give somethg to children 1st i would give to those 3 children than my own.I feared Allah 2 treat them bad or b unjust to them.

  • @MyBanglaKitchenMBK
    @MyBanglaKitchenMBK Před 8 lety +14

    Its hard to find anyone like this :/

    • @krispy395
      @krispy395 Před 7 lety +1

      im here

    • @mounirartists7409
      @mounirartists7409 Před 5 lety

      Jasmin K you have a wrong it more persons here in this life still looking for seriously woman's

  • @leeshabeaumont2863
    @leeshabeaumont2863 Před 6 měsíci +1

    I really needed to listen to this

  • @abdulmahamadi4276
    @abdulmahamadi4276 Před 8 lety +2

    mashallah brother imran at the end brought balance to the whole thing brother ali was making it seem like its easy thing to pick a divorcee over your parents
    jannaah lies at the feet of your mother no woman will come before my mother

    • @moonraker008
      @moonraker008 Před 4 lety

      The Hadith is not authentic, the virtues are highly commandable.

  • @msamini123
    @msamini123 Před 3 lety +2

    so much respect for these two!

  • @johnnywalker4897
    @johnnywalker4897 Před 7 měsíci +1

    Am proud you guys are having these type of talks to adress some ignorance

  • @varin1052
    @varin1052 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Love from Kurdistan! 🤍 Allah bless you my brothers

  • @yonimz1104
    @yonimz1104 Před 3 lety +5

    my left ear was tingly the whole video

  • @ruhelmiah10
    @ruhelmiah10 Před 8 lety +64

    This brothers beard is on fleek , mashallah

    • @fatimxh
      @fatimxh Před 8 lety +2

      +ruhelmiah10 Allahuma Barek Lahu

    • @ritageraghty1601
      @ritageraghty1601 Před 8 lety +1

      What is a fleek?

    • @ruhelmiah10
      @ruhelmiah10 Před 8 lety +5

      +Rita Geraghty it's slang language in London, the phrase "on fleek" is similar to the expression "on point" or "on form" .

    • @ruhelmiah10
      @ruhelmiah10 Před 8 lety

      +Mustakeem Ayuby yeah I completely forgot that, it originated there if I'm not mistaken, JZK

    • @nachosost8247
      @nachosost8247 Před 8 lety +1

      +Rita Geraghty fleet kind of means on point

  • @enjoininggoodandforbidding8918

    Assalamu Alaikum wrwb dear brother I just came across this vid and it was really relatable and an inspiration for me that you discuss this issue being a divorcee myself with a child. some of the things you say really brought tears to my eyes subhanallah I really thought I had no where to fit in in todays society being from a Uyghur (old Turkish) background. subhanallah what the brother said also about her current wife was really emotional for me. please make dua for me in sha Allah to settle with a righteous spouse ameen.
    jazakallah khayran

    • @mounirartists7409
      @mounirartists7409 Před 5 lety +1

      Munira Idrees my allah give you better soon I'm mounir from Morocco

  • @onedae2609
    @onedae2609 Před rokem +1

    I wish every person heard this 🥺

  • @fhdujdjdjdudjud7534
    @fhdujdjdjdudjud7534 Před 4 lety

    May Allah grant you’s jannah InshaAllah, and may he make it easy for the brother with his marriage InshaAllah

  • @ramzanzahra929
    @ramzanzahra929 Před 3 lety +1

    Barakallahu feekum for you both brother Ali and Ayman . Just seen this video after 4 years but really make sense in a Muslim world bcs lots of brother out there still judge the sisters without analysing our stories. And trying forget the sunnah of our prophet Muhammad ( pbuh) . This matter still exists and should pass on from time to time . RasoollAllh ( pbuh) left us a beautiful message before he passed away that noone is superior to anyone bcs of his or her colour of the skin but many Muslims are still racist. I, am sorry to say this but it's evident and it still exist .

  • @queen_haya
    @queen_haya Před 7 měsíci +1

    For all the sisters out there who’s doing through the difficulties of divorce may Allah swt make it up you don’t ever blame for ur for others mistakes only u and Allah know best what u have been through so stay strong I’m sure ur Mrs right will come soon in sha Allah

  • @LoveStruckGR3Y
    @LoveStruckGR3Y Před 8 lety +1

    you should have kept the discussion at the end longer bro. we enjoy the discussions between u guys it gives more of an understanding. jazak'Allah khair