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0:00-1:30 Intro
1:31-5:43 I lied to break them up / aita_for_breaking_a_co...
5:44-13:10 They failed because of me / aita_for_not_sharing_m...
13:11-26:33 I don't want my gf to repay her parents / aita_for_not_wanting_m...
26:34-31:07 I switch places with my twin on dates / aita_for_not_telling_m...
31:08-38:38 Exposing a girl with fake seizures / aita_for_exposing_a_gi...
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40:31-50:34 Brother is marrying my HS bully / aita_for_exposing_my_f...
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"They failed because of me" No. They failed because they stopped going to class, and didn't study. That's 100% on them.
didn't they also say that there were marks based on attendance
@@cricketcoop2038yup. My mindset is they're all dumb for banking everything on this single thing, ESPECIALLY the ones who wouldn't graduate if they failed. Even then if you're gonna depend on the study sheet at the very lowest least SHOW UP! 20% grade for attendance is not something to just shrug off. At least show up even if you're not gonna put in effort and depend on what they were treating as basically a cheat sheet. Don't know the timeframe between the mid and final term, but that's a big chunk to just shrug off so you can go party.
The fact that everyone told this girl she "caused them" to fail is so wild. She was literally just attending the class, she's not obligated to help other people who don't even want to be associated with her.
Right. If it’s a 20/40/40 deal and you got a 75 on the mid, I’d think you’d be doing everything in your power to bump up that attendance score. Like the curve can help a bit, but really get the easy points.
The roommate is the actual asshole here
It is truly amazing how many bullies apparently suffer from the medical condition of intermittent amnesia.
It's more they gas light themselves.
"It didn't happen like that, I'm a good person"
Then they tell themselves this until they literally no long remember what happened
the good old 'politician at a hearing" trick- they do not recall
@andyp4437 Those who do not remember the past are doomed to repeat it. And those who do not atone for their sins can not be forgiven. It can even be argued that by willfully "forgetting" their bullying past, they are, in fact, continuing to bully their victims. And even if they truthfully could not remember, a decent person would apologize for any hurt or pain they caused another when reminded of it, if only to help alleviate another's suffering and help their healing journey.
@@LordGertzWell Said!! ❤
No seriously, i think its actually a thing. Most people somehow dont remember their behaviour as bullying. Its just a small part of their high school experience while its way bigger for the person experiencing it sees it way bigger
That last story was a literal psychological horror movie for me. Like imagine having a best friend for years and then he is suddenly a misogynistic piece of garbage.
A24 logo popped up before that story, for sure.
Sadly it happens a lot, it's super shitty
happened to me nd i was horrified
Something similar happened to me, after 10 years found out she was homophobic
Yeah. People you trust seem to do that. Pisses me off. It’s sad.
On the bullying story: I once had a guy lie and say I was sexually harassing him and almost got me expelled from high school. I met him again years later and he genuinely didn’t remember me. For me it was my life almost getting ruined and for him it was just another Tuesday.
that's how it be - usually the bully doesn't remember bc it's just another day for them, but the victim is scarred for life
this can happen with like stray comments that aren't intended to be offensive, or even a comment that's meant to like encourage you, in a way.
Yeah that's how crazy some people are. They dont remember cause its so casual smh
You've got the gross flag as a pfp so you definitely made unwanted advances towards him. Nobody wants you.
I’m so sorry that happened to you, hope everything’s better now. ❤
I hope u are better now🥺❤
Noah - "That's a wives tale?!"
*pause*
Noah - "I've assaulted someone."
Time stamp?
@@luicidreaming 34:07
hes on the right track tho. you're supposed to put something in their mouth (NOT your fingers) to keep then from biting through/off their tongue. i've got 2 friends who have/had seizers, so i have a background.
@@KatterTheMadHatterIs this trolling? You shouldn't force anything in their mouth. It can seriously injure someone. The best thing to do is support someone's head and let the seizure run its course. Obviously call 911 as well.
@@KatterTheMadHatterNO NO NO DONT DO THAT
The way Shayne said “Genuine friendships with women” followed by Spencer almost certainly pointing to Kiana was the greatest highlight of this video.
Timestamp??
@@SirNightmareFuel 1:09:06
That was so cute, honestly. 🥰
I HAD TO REPLAY IT after seeing this comment!!! this was absolutely adorable
this moment made me so happy omg
As a nurse, I'm so glad you guys immediately debunked the seizure/tongue issue! I can confirm you don't want to insert anything into their mouth and don't want to restrain them during a seizure. You can move things away that they might bump into and can put a pillow, balled up jacket, or slightly elevate the head so it doesn't hit the ground, and call EMS if it lasts more than 5 minutes.
You forgot to bring up getting them on their side to make sure they don’t choke on spit
The one thing I took away from being a lifeguard as a teenager was that, when it comes to seizures, I think of two things, and two things only: “Don’t constrict the movement, but protect the head.” One of those things I never thought I’d use, but lo and behold, my younger brother had a seizure in the garage in front of me not six months ago. We never knew he was epileptic before, but that phrase was the only thing in my head, and I feel like it really made a difference
Thank you. All I was thinking was "for the love of God please don't do that"
My cat has seizures, so I've done some general research on epilepsy. Most of what I know is regarding cats, but the recommended reactions seem to be relatively the same.
He’s absolutely correct about his classmate faking.
The bully story...
Yes she remembers. She's embarrassed. Instead of apologizing she's pretending.
She deserved what she got. If she'd changed. She'd request a meeting with carter present in order to apologize.
The fact she's playing amnesia and then runs off crying. Naw she's still manipulative.
🙌Exactly🙌
Look, I agree with you, but please learn what a comma is
@margauxcy I understood what they meant. If you didn't, maybe that's a you problem 😂
@@Cissy777No they 100% knew just were being a prick
NOAH SPEAKING STRAIGHT TRUTH! "Ask a woman. They will have answers for you."
Right???
It’s so crazy to me that people need to be told this, as a cis man. Like, just talk to women, please. They’re not Lying to you about what women are like; if they tell you something and it’s different for some other women, that’s just because women are people and are Not a hive mind ffs
@@undeniablySomeGuy exactly, it’s not hard to ask and you’re right, women are not hive minded, we all have our own opinions and feelings - if a man would like to know what those feelings are, he needs to ask that person. We’re all different and feel differently but the only way to know how that person feels is by asking!
SERIOUSLY
And take them seriously. I’m so tired of this sigma male mindset. You have to be strong you have to assert dominance you have to be aggressive. I’m so over it. That’s not how life works. Just because you found someone to manipulate doesn’t make it true.
It’s funny how high school bullies always seem to “not remember” bullying you
it's the old good "politician at a hearing" strategy. they don't recall.
this HAPPENED recently, i blocked them after
She does remember otherwise why run out of the room crying.
For the people being bullied, those actions were traumatic. For the bully, they were Tuesday. Why would the bullies remember it?
Luckily my HS bully remembers and regrets bullying me deeply. We're actually friends now
About the guy secretly "dating" the girl for a year: I guarantee you most girls listening to this story saw the coffee shop scene coming. We've all experienced men like this.
yep, knew what was happening before the update
I knew IMMEDIATELY that he was gaslighting her by acting like he was her boyfriend all of a sudden. He thought he was being slick. I’m bummed she didn’t call him out right away, though, and nip it in the bud. I would’ve been like, “Did you just call me ‘babe’??” before he ever had the chance to kiss me.
I cannot get over Noah’s immediate, sympathetic reaction to a woman saying she’s used to harassment 1:06:07
Noah's reaction in the last story when the guy grabbed the girl's arm says a lot about who he is as a person. He looked angry and horrified.
Was about to comment that! :')
That part made my stomach flip
He visually represented how we all felt 🤢
hopefully how most sane humans would react
@@Vic-Valentine agreed.
Man, when the guy in the 3rd story said, "I'M okay with cutting YOUR parents out" really gave me Farquaad "Some of you may die, but thats im willing to take" vibes
For me it was weird that the parents were to blame.. the OP's partner chose to go to a for profit private college to get a degree she should have known wasn't going to get her a job, and paid for it by agreeing to pay for it with a job that never existed. Gives me "You maybe protected but your family will suffer" vibes.
Right? Like, I get the money is a huge deal and it would be hard to come back from it, but... cutting her parents out of their life over it it so dramatic omg. Before they've even TRIED discussing it with them. Maybe they were fine with her not paying back? Maybe they were okay with some sort of payment plan over decades? Like, there's options here other than paying it all at once and not paying it at all and cutting off the family lol.
@@azarinevilShe was 16-17 when she made that decision. I don't agree with the op in the story but americans ARE weird when it comes to debt.
@@azarinevil the parents have WAY more life experience and would certainly know how difficult it would be to pay back. it depends on how strict the parents are being about the loan and how quickly they expect money back.
@@horizonkyun7203 They clearly aren't being unreasonable about the money, it's not like a debt collector is banging on the OP's door and nowhere was "with interest" mentioned. OP is taking out his frustrations with his significant other's bad decisions out on the people who tried to convince her not to, and still supported her bad decisions. The parents did everything right as her parents.
The reason the brother didn't tell the family is 100% because he was afraid his sister would tell the family and thought she wouldn't say anything if they were all at dinner.
I also think he knew that if he told them her name while dating they would not approve at all. With how the parents reacted, it's almost a guarantee that he knew (even subconsciously) that if he could make it all the way to the fiancee stage that his parents would be willing to drop the issue.
it's like that one comment said, the brother was manipulative too
I went to school with someone who developed narcolepsy or some other condition in 7th grade. Everyone was convinced he was faking fainting to get out of class to the point where no one would try to catch him when he started to faint to “prove it”. I was in several classes with him but didn’t sit anywhere near him so couldn’t try to catch him either. It took him fainting and hitting his head on the radiator for everyone to realize he wasn’t faking it. So yeah, maybe just believe people because it’s really not hurting you that bad and if they are faking it they’ll get bored of it after a while anyway 🤷♀️
They’re a nightmare for hospital doctors though. Massive time wasters.
If it gets all the way to the hospital or emergency services level that is where there should be consequences. Like if someone calls 911 with a non-emergency issue.
The commenter obviously meant classmates and other students,not medical workers.
If a student fakes, which is not that common,it's none of their business (if their studies are not interrupted by it). People need to care for eachother,so health concerns should be taken seriously.
One time a had a fever and had to postpone my presentation (I had it documented by a doctor in case and notified my class beforehand in a groupchat) and some students tried to bully the hell out of me,cause they didn't prepare for the test that was planned anyway. They thought that I'd prolong the presentation and save their asses
They thought wrong. Being a jerk and being stupid is where they fumbled
Absolutely NEED you to cover this one called “i didn’t get a job because i was a bully in high school.” It’s in best of redditor updates and it is WILD.
Omg that one was incredible
Can you link it
Link?
Homie please we need the link
Please can we have a crumb of the link
yo that last story hit really hard, because I feel like a lot of women including myself eventually have that crazy mindfucky moment in high school or college when they realize that guys they thought saw them the same way they see themselves actually view them in a completely unhinged, misogynistic way and it really changes your entire worldview
My first bf was like this. His family held the same beliefs but they all kept it silent because they knew others would judge them?! Yeah, that is a big hint for them right there that maybe their beliefs are unhinged and misogynistic. The bf was unhinged, but the mom saying this stuff made my head spin and then I lost a little faith in humanity.
I believe that situation happens often but that specific story they read is so fuckin fake lmao
@@highdefinition450 how can you tell for sure?
yeah it takes a while to realize men don't deserve the benefit of the doubt lol
To be fair, this dude was exceptionally stupid. He was one youtube recommendation away from believing in flat earth theory and that the moon landing was faked, IF he doesn't already
the high school bully one genuinely makes me so mad. her description of feeling physically sick when she saw her bully again was all too familiar for me (i was bullied pretty badly in 8th grade and felt sick even just hearing her name)-and what she’s describing is actually a trauma response. she went through some serious shit
The seizure "faking" story messes me up because I got accused quite a bit about faking vasovagal syncope when I was a kid. I wasn't faking it. Why would I want to pass out in the middle of my meals, or even worse the few times it happed when I was in the restroom? If she was faking it, she's the AH, but really the OP is the AH in every situation.
I totally agree. I have chronic health problems, and being accused of faking something that affects your life so deeply... really hurts. I'm sorry you had to go through that. I get vasovagal syncope as well
Same. I have psychogenic seizures like the girl in the story. They’re not a neurological misfire, but it usually takes DAYS for me to feel better after having an episode. It makes your body hurt.
That final story scared me. Scared me to the core. To think that so many men, and even women, are falling into this hateful mindset. I just hope someday, people will accept one-another.
Ik right, I totally agree with you. That story is genuinely nightmare fuel. Imagine anyone you love no matter who or in what way is secretly, well, evil pretty much is terrifying.
The men being misogynistic af, alpha etc, meet the sexist, anti man women. I like read their Facebook arguments, but I don’t wanna meet any of them irl. Lol
The scary part is that so many of these people just can't be convinced that what they believe is bad. No matter how many rational arguments you throw at them, their brain just can't comprehend actual logic and form their own opinions. They need a big muscular cigar smoking dude to tell them what to think. They can't actually use critical thinking to reason about their opinions and question if they actually make sense or not. They're like conspiracy theorists. Trying to convince a flat earther that the earth is round is almost impossible. It's one of the fears I have of making friends with people online (or even real life). You never know how insane someone is until after quite a while.
I’m Korean. The gaslighting and the type of misogyny from the guy from the last story is pretty typical of Korean men. The way he behaved, screaming at her and grabbing her when she tried to talk to him, is also pretty typical too. I’m not sure if this type of behavior exists in other cultures, but I definitely see it in Korean men.
@zaytin1 I'm a white person. However, I briefly dated a Korean-American boy once when I was 21 after my bf broke up with me. Didn't consider this going anywhere serious but omfg.. He was really immature and took pride in drinking and driving.. Like you're a psychology student at Emory why would you put that in the line?
And told me I needed to shower more. I didn't stink, but for some reason me not showering twice every day wasn't enough. And made some comments that were just like... wow you don't understand how women work do you? Needless to say, that was an interesting experience.
This just confirmed my belief that teenagers are always unhinged, including myself when I was one.
Yeah you’re definitely right
As someone who used to be a teen,yea definitely
Part of growing up is realizing how stupid and insane you were lmao
@Angela-zp1qseveryone report the bot
As someone who is unfortunately still a teen for another 4 months, I can confirm this is the case, for the majority of people.
holy crap that last story was rough. I feel so bad for her but Jesus Christ she made the best choice for herself, props to her psychiatrist for helping her see the clearly at what has happened
Why is adorable how when Spencer said “ this is gonna sound chosen “ shayne just started smiling
The last one is terrifying for so many reasons. Imagine a person you trust manipulating your life without you even knowing. That’s nightmare material and I hope OP is okay.
Making everyone accidentally gaslight you as well. Horrific.
Too many of us don't have to imagine unfortunately
General info: if somebody is having a seizure DO NOT restrict movement or put anything in their mouth. Put a pillow/shirt/anything soft under their head to mitigate head trauma from convulsions. If you can, try to put them on their side to prevent aspirating on vomit.
If you’re there at the start, try to time the length of the seizure and tell EMS when they arrive.
Remember, many times seizures look scarier than they actually are. Just do what you can and make sure emergency services are called and on their way
Epileptic here. No need to put anything under the head, just move tings away from the body. If you try to move their head to put something under it, it could do damage.
Also, if the person has epilepsy, just monitor for safety, time the seizure (if it lasts longer than 5 minutes call Emergency Services), after the seizure, roll them onto the recovery position (look it up, it's a fancy way of placing them on the side), if the person has difficulty coming out of the seizure also call emergency services. As they wake up, you can ask them simple questions to help the brain make connections again.
But with people you know have epilepsy, please don't call 911 for me. I'll recover fine on my own and don't want to pay for the ambulance ride and spend time going to the hospital and back just for them to say oh, you have epilepsy, so you had a seizure. I don't need an ER trip for something I know I have, unless it's one of the two things I listed above, prolonged seizure or struggling to come out of it.
@@alisaishere YES! I don't want to pay that medical bill lol
Edit: "who's the president" usually gets me to come around
@@Junksaint Who's the president has always been a good one. I had a well meaning bystander asking me what my favorite things are, like color, food, etc. When I was finally up and awake, I thanked him, but had to correct him. "Part of the questions are so you can assess if I'm making sense and aware, so those answers don't really work."
So weird to hear him say he'd pull at someone's tongue. You're gonna either harm the person seizing or they'll clamp onto your hand like a Dobermann, I've personally had very bad damage to my mouth after a seizure. I tend to also tell people it looks horrifying but I'll likely be fine, emergency services are often not even needed
Especially not your fingers, good way to get them bitten off or at least badly damaged.
My father has frequent seizures, diagnosed by a professional, he always closes his eyes when it happens and can recall if someone was touching him during the episode. in fact when one of our family friends were riding in our car when he had an attack, the friend tried to help by hold his shoulders down (a panic induced impulse to seeing the seizure I guess). when he recovered from the attack my dad told him not to do that because when the episode is happening it becomes a very scaring feeling and being pinned down only makes it worse.
We mostly just protect his head or arms from hitting anything near by, or hold his hand until it stops.
I love that after all these years I can never decide if Noah is just the most positive human alive, or just batshit insane. And I like to believe its both, and that's pretty great.
The fact that Noah heard the homework story and his thought was "that's a chance to make some money" is genius. W takes as always boys
I had a great prof in uni who always told us not to give our notes/study guides away for free
Depends on the university, for us you get kicked out of the university and I'm pretty sure cannot come back. So better hope you're not reported or have a back up college that will accept your credits and you don't have to move for.
@themaddiemads That’s a good professor.
Saw tons of people sell their study guides in college, especially for the massive bs courses that people tend to skip.
250 person class-sold guides for $8 and would sell like 150+ every test lol.
" there's nothing more valuable in your life than truly genuine friendship with women "
Spencer pointing probably for Kiana and smiling 🥺
I LOVED that! Spencer is a good egg
YES!!
For someone who claims to not want to be in any videos, Kiana spends an awful lot of time making her presence known from off-camera
@@CrashSable She obviously just doesn't want to be in front of the camera. It's not like she's inserting herself from behind the camera. She speaks when she has info to give or when talked to and laughs when something is funny. Which is normal.
@@CrashSableme when I’m a hater for no reason? Lmao
God, I need that on a shirt! Front Side: "Men stop asking other men for women advice." Back Side: "go to the fucking source!"
For a seizure, you roll the person on their side (so they don't choke on their tongue or vomit) and elevate their head. You NEVER want to hold their tongue...you can lose a finger.
My grandpa was a twin. When he first started dating my grandma (back in the 1950s) he jokingly asked what she would do if he ever had his twin pretend to be him on a date. Her answer was, "probably the same things I'd do with you." Grandpa never made that joke again 😂
Don't ask questions that you don't want the answers to! 😂
We love a sassy grandma. 😅❤
That’s fantastic 🤣 she’s was quick with it hahah
Legendary grandma
That last story becomes so clear as soon as Shayne reads "he started sharing his opinions about women with me". That guy went from ok dude to incel in one sentence.
Which honestly makes me feel like it's maybe be fake... like you're telling out of all the time, they've hanged out not once those opinions ever came out.... not even like in an argument... it's just too perfect of a scenario...
@@nickenglehart6469it’s happened to me with some guy friends. Most immature “Andrew Tate” men know that it’s looked down upon and women don’t like it, so they’ll genuinely hide it until they get into a situation where there is tension with a woman.
@@nickenglehart6469 its happened to me before. Men like that will hide it because they KNOW the women in their life wont tolerate it, so instead of just changing their views they keep it hidden. It's crazy people behavior
@@nickenglehart6469 its happened with me too, it takes one disagreement(that relates to women most times) and they do a 180
@@nickenglehart6469I've been in similar situations, people are very capable of hiding opinions and sides of themselves until tension arises and their tongue slips.
The last story mentioned something about how they were watching Sonic cartoons and all I can picture is her having this shocking, earth shattering moment in her life while the Sonic Underground theme song plays in the background.
As a twin, we only ever did the "swap places" prank once and during band class in high school. I played the trumpet and he played the drums. The teacher never caught on even though neither of us knew how to play eachother's instruments and did EXTREMELY poorly--even called us out saying "wow you two just aren't doing very well today" whole class was in on it and we had a good laugh about it with the teacher after class.
That accidentally dating my best friend story was wild. It's like she woke up accidentally in the wrong reality.
That's something I've read about in a story once 😂. Never thought I'd hear about it in real life though like bruh 🤦🏾♀️ that's just wild 😮
This right here! 😮😮
I'm flabbergasted!
Honestly, this sounds like a horror movie
It HAS to be fake, too many plot holes
That’s exactly what I said too
I’m disproportionately happy that Reddit stories has legit sponsors now. That hopefully means we’ll keep getting story time with Shayne for a long time!
couldn’t agree more, but unfortunately betterhelp has a very shady history. i recommend looking into it, as they were fined $7.8 million THIS YEAR for selling users’ private info, and there have been countless stories of people getting very unprofessional or even scammers as therapists. get that bag smosh, but please not betterhelp!
Reddit stories with therapist Shayne isn’t going anywhere. It is one of the most popular shows out of all smosh channels. Super easy to make and brings in tons of views.
@@sera.tonin.why does every big sponsor end up with controversy smh
@@sera.tonin. wow that’s so sad. Definitely will look into it and hopefully a better sponsor will come through!
@@green7449 oh absolutely. I’m glad it’s getting recognition from other places now too!
34:14 Epileptic person here! The proper procedure when dealing with someone having a convulsive seizure is to put them on their side :)
The whole "my daughter doesn't hear me" reminds me of when I was little (like 5/6) my parents got my hearing checked bc I wouldn't respond/ asking for repetition to questions. I had (maybe I still do idk) perfect hearing and they the doctor told me that I was just ignoring them.
I ACTUALLY have a auditory processing disorder that causes me to literally not comprehend people (it's usually in people with ADHD/Autism but idk if it's exclusive) but I used to get into SO much trouble because I legitimately wouldn't understand/hear them and parents/teachers thought I was being defiant.
For anybody in the comments going through something like that last story, you are NOT overreacting to share your location. that situation can become stalking or worse very fast. It is never bad to be too careful---if you feel unsafe trust your gut. Take care of yourself and stay safe.
I was gonna comment the same thing!
💯
It was also very smart of her to meet him in a public place, from my perspective if she felt that she couldn’t speak with him in private she felt threatened by him, with good reason and that post could have ended very differently. I’m glad she’s safe now.
The fact that everyone didn’t immediately hear loud alarm bells for that one blows my mind
@@bej7784 I did wonder in the beginning if he had girlfriend zoned her and just assumed they were a couple because they spent so much time together but I wanted to give the benefit of the doubt. I should have trusted my instincts. It’s sad and really scary that this happens.
Shayne will never understand the public school struggle
Or the epic highs and lows of highschool football
@@clartblart3266it's what happens when you drop out in 4th grade to run drugs to support your Nana 😞
@@clartblart3266the fact that this is a real line on Riverdale is still hilarious to me
Elementary/middle school wasn't too bad, my first high school was entirely too crowded though.
@@clartblart3266 I was literally just about to post that haha. As soon as I read the first comment that popped into my head
i love how when Shayne said about true friendship between a stright man and a woman Spencer immiedietly pointed to (most likely) Kiana
The story about the girl who spread false rumors, I’m glad y’all acknowledged how weird it is to fabricate lies from nothing. If I were the brother I wouldn’t want to be with someone who has done something like that idc if it was high school that takes a specific kind of person with specific mental issues to do. The only time I’ve lied was to get out of something or to avoid offending someone but it has never occurred to me to completely make up a story about someone like it’s bizarre and weird and you’re not someone I want to associate with if you are ok telling tall tales. The lies we’re against his sister that’s bad enough but the fact she felt ok doing that to anyone wouldn’t sit right with me if I were him.
Misogynistic stories like the last one usually send me down a pessimistic spiral because I’ve been through some really bad gaslighting situations. But hearing these three guys talk about it in such an emotionally intelligent, caring, and mature way, helps remind me of all the good guys out there who still understand what’s right.
Yeah I think both women and men have good and bad people. It's just that we see the negativity and that's all we can think of. We might see just as much good but it gets less attention or it's not as memorable because negative emotions are so much stronger.
This is why I watch. I mean, the stories are amazing, but the discussion is primo.
Agree 100%, which is also why I got really happy seeing Noah's very obvious reaction to when she said he grabbed her when she tried to leave. Men knowing right from wrong for these cases is always a relief
@@SEAkuaayeah propably isn't right of the comment above to associate gaslighting with just one gender. But I get why. The trauma my mom gave me makes me weigh my words much more carefully around women and I start having a panic attack when I have to disagree with them. Linking trauma to a gender can happen pretty easily.
@@SEAkuaayou are ignoring that men, because of society, tend to be misogynistic therefore they tend to gaslight and force women into doing stuff they don't want to do, yeah all sexes have "bad people" but at this point is more of a problem the majority of men have so that is an issue that we can't ignore, i hope you understand. Sorry for my english
That poor girl. My heart dropped for her realizing she’s losing her best friend.
Ikr.
Like was he always a raging misogynistic weirdo? Or was he brainwashed by those "alpha" podcasts?
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40:31 that story is word for word the plot to “You Again”
I fuuucking love Noah, honestly he reacts exactly how I would, hits the nail on the head with everything he says and has me in stitches! Don't get me wrong I enjoy ALL of the Smosh gang 😘 but NOAH! ❤️😂🙌
These are easily my favorite videos on Smosh, it's great seeing Shayne actually be able to use his degree lmao.
What is his degree on?
@@kizi180psychology I think lol
@@shabangbangg_ Correct from Arizona State
@@michs342online
@@shabangbangg_how is he using it in this tho lmao
Licensed Nurse here, Shayne is correct on the protocol for seizures. Don’t put anything in their mouth, like a spoon or especially a finger unless you plan to loose it. A seizure is essential neuron overload and that overload could cause their jaw to clamp shut beyond normal strength possibly biting your finger off or breaking their teeth on a spoon.😅 After getting them to the ground safely, the two big things is protecting the head from injury, laying it on your lap is fine, and airway protection including removing tight jewelry or clothing around the neck and turning them in the recover position if they start to vomit so they don’t choke. Stay with the victim and don’t hold them down, let the seizure happen. Many times seizures resolve themselves. Do be ready to orient the victim after they come too because confusion post seizure is common.
And eyes closed isn’t impossible. I had a customer have a seizure and his eyes were closed the whole time. It was absolutely real as we called ems and they took over. He was in the parking lot and I put his my tennis shoe under his head to protect him from the asphalt. It was so scary, but my basic cpr and safety training kicked in. Ems said I did a good job. I hope it never happens again, but at least I know what to do.
Note don’t move the person unless necessary (I.e vomiting, choking or unsafe environment). My sister has dislocated her shoulder because she got stuck in the couch during one, you holding them could cause the same effect
@@C0ttonEyes That is correct! The big thing people don’t realize is that a body that is fully seizing holds nothing back and doesn’t follow the normal movements of the human body because all your fine and gross motor skills go out the window. All movement is random in direction, speed, and power. If your hand is stuck or held down and you yank with only your torso at full force and your actual arm and shoulder is relaxed, it wouldn’t be that hard to dislocate your shoulder. I think many people don’t realize how violent seizures can be. I guess they want to think of it like Parkinson’s which is very different. I’m sorry to hear about your sister, I hope she’s ok!
I’ve been the first on scene to my coworker having a seizure and she had bitten her tongue so we elevated her head and put her head kinda sideways to let the blood out of her mouth
@@philmccraken I’m sorry to hear that, I hope your friend is ok! You did the right thing though. People normally get so caught up on saving the tongue that aspirating on the blood is something they don’t think about so good job prioritizing!👍
Shayne: The only motive I can think of is if Annika liked a guy who liked OP
Me: OR... Annika liked OP...
Spencer: What if Annika was in love with OP?
GREAT MINDS AT WORK TODAY
Unfortunately I’ve been in a situation similar. My ex started introducing me as their partner to people without telling me first, and I unfortunately ended up staying with them for over a year. It’s a weird situation
i cant imagine the absolute TEA to hear your friends who are dating broke up and then when you ask the friend about it she's like "we weren't even dating in the first place" like how WILD would that be
Hey, just a nursing student but as far as the seizure thing goes, DO NOT support any part of the body or hold anything down, first thing you should do is slowly get them on the ground, turn them on their side so you help them maintain their airway and they don't inhale any spit, then clear the area of anything hard that they could hurt themselves on, then put something relatively soft and flat to elevate the head off the ground, something like a pillow is ideal but in a situation where that's not possible use something like a hoodie or a jacket that's folded up, finally if they have glasses on take them off, that is all you should do if you don't have further training. Hope this helps, sorry if this has already been posted somewhere else.
Yep this, you don't need to apologize btw I'm still seeing comments from people confused, hopefully with enough likes more people can be educated on what to do, thank you for the info
So glad someone commented this!!! Why they are trying to give out medical advice is beyond me if they are 100% certain !!
@@KF-tq2dfthey weren’t trying to they said “I think you’re supposed too” unless I’m hearing wrong
hey i've been in the same situation of not knowing you were dating someone... im aromantic, quite a shock to realize that the person i was hanging out with didn't think my romantic orientation was valid and just kinda ignored it. she also ignored the fact that im poly and got mad that i was interested in another person when i was under the impression that we were friends...
"I heard that high school girls were the meanest things to be ever created" as someone who grew up with five sisters this is very accurate
I was literally bullied by a girl for 2 years because of my name 😂 it stopped when I was like "yeah my name is shit but at least I don't have the name of a hooker"
I thought the same and then i met adult men
As someone with 8 sisters, I concur
@@izzycooper9742 i can't imagine having 8 oh my gosh
@@Amber-yv8wq lol, I have ten siblings all together. The oldest is at 34, the youngest is less than a year!
“Trying to debunk a seizure mid seizure? That’s insane.” Spencer only speaks truth 33:26
And dangerous for the person having the seizure. What would it even entail to disprove this seizure? It's like that witch thing where if you live you're a witch and killed but if you die thank God you're not a witch poor corpse.
Want to just state for the record DO NOT PUT ANYTHING IN ANYONE'S MOUTH DURING A SEIZURE! the chance that they will bite off your fingers and choke on your digit is a lot higher than them choking on their own tongue.
And do not use your hands to protect a person's skull, they'll just break your hands, put a sweater or some clothing between their head and the floor, and look up the appropriate recovery protocols for Grand Mal (body shaking and convulsions) seizures.
I think because for this generation specifically, it’s “cool” now to have something wrong with you from mental illness and disorders to faking seizures and sicknesses for attention from others. So while it is kinda sh*tty to question it, it’s a highly plausible thing.
Yeah, if you try to do that with the wrong person ina seizure, you can get injured pretttty badly.
22:37 I already knew before that it was about someone in Germany... but with the update, I was absolutely sure 🤣
I was looking for someone to say he was German hahaha
The phrase of 'useless debt' by that euro dude grinds my gears, like it paid for his girlfriends education and even if it might not be in a super employable field, he's essentially saying her education and all the work she put towards her degree was useless.
I think his argument is that she could've gotten just as good an education for free. If you go into debt to get something you could've gotten for free, that *is* useless debt. Like Smosh said, I think he has a good argument but he's going about it in the most AH way possible.
Especially because there is nothing in the story about her regretting any part of her decision. She has a first job and is ready to start paying her parents back however much at time and I just see him as being out here saying "Your parents need to understand that you wasted their money pursuing your failed dreams."
If I was him I would tell her hey you pay back your debt to your parents cause I get it you made a deal but leave me out of it I'll leave and find someone I'm more compatible with and just break up with her it's that simple talk communication is key when it comes to a romantic relationship of any caliber
you'll literally get the same education for free. if the end result of two methods is the same but one costs nothing and the other costs more money than you will in decades, then you did indeed waste your money.
As someone with epileptic seizures, Noah saying he was gonna grab the tongue genuinely terrified me😅 Also thankful cast/crew knew what to do to help😊
First thing I thought of when he said that was that that's a good way to get your fingers bitten. I know you don't have to hold the head the whole time. Just pretty much make sure nothing is around for safety & get them in the recovery position & keep an eye on them
Well it's also good that they corrected him immediately but too be fair that's a very common misconception that alot of people have about how to handle someone having a seizure.
I honestly was surprised when he said that cause i never heard that. That is absolutely the worst thing you can do lmao
@@antonela7743 I've heard it before. That or to use something to hold the tongue in place. Definitely not recommend lol
@@csi2000 agreed. I work as a nurse and i work a lot with people with epilepsy, seizures they have are terrifying, i would definetly get my fingers bitten or they would bite of their tongue if i tried to pull a stunt like that
Dude, no exaggeration, that last story legit terrified me even before the update reveal, during the moment I placed myself in her situation of finding out everyone of their mutuals thought they were dating. "Wrote a Love story"? Girl, you have a horror best-seller in your hands. I felt second hand anxiousness from just listening and thinking about the before and after the comfrontation. If that's all real, this girl needs to move ASAP because thats scary as hell, it almost sounds like a documentary story iykwim.
LITERALLY, that was giving horror vibes so much
True, I'm even having a hard time with excepting that this was real. However, the best part is that her entire family is moving from there, regardless of these events that would drive everyone at least 3 states further away. This guy is a psychopath, no matter if it's another culture or another planet, that would be my nightmare.
Spencer pointing at someone (Kiana, maybe?) behind the camera as Shayne talks about the importance of having female friends is so cute 🥺
With the not realising they're in a relationship one, the weird part is how suddenly everything came upon them. It went from nothing to hearing it from 5 different sources in 10 minutes.
The last story made me genuinely upset because I relate to the shock of finding out a man in my life was secretly a psycho misogynist. My cousin has fallen into that Tate, alpha male, podcast bullshit. He has become someone I don’t recognize in only a year. He has become cruel, violent, with deeply warped views of the word. I’ve cut him out of my life, but I hear stories from other family members still in contact with him and the things they tell me are scary. I do not know how anyone can help him out of this well he’s fallen down before he does something he can’t take back. It’s such a weird, other worldly experience to realize someone you loved is not the person you thought they were.
i’m so sorry :( it’s so scary how quickly stuff like that can happen
The only time they will know that the screw up is when they don't have what they want a girfriend to marry to make family, they are gonna be all alone and miserable thinckin that the "perfect girl" exist, those "alpha youtubers" contradict themselves all the time, one video is attacking women who watch for his career rather than being housewife's and then in another video they are attacking the women who want to make a family and want to be housewife (in the before video his "ideal women" were housewife's).
The "alpha idiots" just wants to attack any prospect of women, they just want to see like "profesional migonistic imbecils"
I’ve had a similar experience where he did something that I never expected and couldn’t get over. It completely destroyed my view of him. He was the person I was closest to and now it’s like he’s a stranger. I’m really sorry you went through it as well
That's definitely fake believing the menstrual cycle is fake is just unbelievable to me
I imagine the guy in the last story needs therapy. Forget not having a female authority in his life. It seems he doesn’t have a positive male figure in his life, either. I find that the Top G community gets more views from people with no positive male influence.
It’s so refreshing to see such emotionally mature men, in a calm and respectful environment, with compassionate and logical opinions about misogynistic issues in particular. I’m struggling quite a bit at the moment with men in my life being disrespectful and immature. Hearing their thoughts at the end of the last story genuinely made me emotional. I definitely need more people in my life with their mindsets ❤
Yeah we aren’t all assholes. We’re out there
@@drakestallworth3621unfortunately the ones who are assholes tend to be louder to make sure you can hear them above anything else and don’t understand they are being annoying 😅.. guy whose girlfriend owed her parent money is a prime example of that.
@@drakestallworth3621 as a woman, plz dont say that. that is literally the worst response you can say about these issues. it is derailing
@@drakestallworth3621 take ur "not all men" and shove it up ur ***
@@perlita_100%. Don’t just say “well there are good men out there, you just gotta find them” that’s not enough. If you’re truly a good man then you need to be an advocate for change and be active when you see/hear toxic male behaviors and hold other men accountable. You cannot just be a bystander to the abuse and suffering of women and still claim to be a good man. Yes, good men are out there. We know. But every single man is potentially a threat, potentially dangerous and we have no idea which ones and often they won’t show their true colors right away. We are walking in a mine field and you’re saying “well there’s some safe spots, just step on those”
The "Brother is marrying my HS bully" is literally a plot from a movie (it's called You Again and Kristen Bell starred as the ex-bullied girl)
I was looking for this comment!! My family watches You Again at least once a year and it’s truly insane
I have psychogenic non epileptic stress induced seizures, and people have told people I'm faking when they have literally ruined my life. The fact that people will say people are faking their disabilities is so massively upsetting. A psychogenic seizure isn't like some make believe thing, I have literally collapsed in the street having seizures... I'm conscious during my seizures and it's SO FUN to have people arguing over my spasming body, about if I'm faking or not. Thank you Shayne, for shutting down other people implying that you should try to figure out if someone's faking their seizures.
Exciting always to get Noah on these, because he does NOT care who he pisses off with his opinion.
exactly why the Noah and Damien episode was my favourite ‼️
@@rae5602 100% Damien and Noah are GOATED in that Devil reddit ep, man
He's right a lot!
@@Sam-fq8dmhi veterinarian here,if u or anyone u know come across a K-9 or Feline having a seizure never try to grab their tongues including humans it’s extremely dangerous U can get bitten really bad or hurt them just protect them from falling off anything or hurting themselves same for humans roll them on their side call for help just incase u ever come across this again 🥰
SHUT UP! Shayne is reading reddit stories.
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1:09:17 Spencer pointing at Kiana (I assume) when talking about a genuine friendship!! So sweet. 🥹
I just gotta share this, I literally experienced the exact opposite of the "accidentally dating my bff" story. This was like 3-4 years ago, I (m, 23 at the time) was still in collage and had a "gf" (f, same age) , we were together for like 6 months. One day, seemingly out of nowhere, she ghosted me for a whole week. I messaged her "what's going on?" multiple times, at last she replies with "what do you mean what's going on? We don't have to talk all the time". Mind you, we talked/saw each other everyday for that whole 6 months. We did more than talking actually, we called each other "honey" and stuff like that, had sex every chance we got, went on dates multiple times a week just two of us, said "I love you" all the time to each other, she was staying over at my house more often than not, and I met her sister (close go her age, we hung out together sometimes) and *they were introducing me to her sister's friends as her boyfriend* . She was introducing me as her boyfriend to her own friends too, of course, but having her sibling do the same thing just solidifies that a little more, you know?
But, after the week of not responding I mentioned, she started to say we were just really good friends, I misunderstood her intentions, she said "I love you" to me in a friendly way, the sex was just like a friends with benefits thing, etc etc, and straight up denied ever calling me a boyfriend, despite having done so a million times. I was never gaslit so hard in my life.
I guess at some point she got bored and wanted to break up, but girl, just say "this isn't working, let's break up". Don't try to convince me I'm delusional and just imagined the last 6 months of my life 💀 Like, near the end of our relationship, she used to talk about how she wanted a small wedding if we ever got married. She would talk about every small detail of that wedding. Who tf dreams about a wedding with their friend?
It is absolutely nuts that people can do something like that. It's like supervillain shit. I thought for sure the reddit post was fake because it was just so cartoonish, but people be crazier than I gave them credit for. I'm sorry that happened to you, it's a crazy story
Omg it's wild
I'm sorry it happened to you
In kindergarten or 1st grade I told a kid he smelled like pancakes. I meant it as a compliment, pancakes are the best, but he started crying. I'm pretty sure I apologized right away, but that still haunts me.
As a 24 year old, I'd love it if someone said I smelt like pancakes
@@gemgwilliamAs a 31 year old, I concur. 😊
in high school I told a girl I really admired that is she had super powers her glare would turn people into stone (sixteen year old me thought this wad a compliment) and she started crying and it still haunts me to this day.
i have a habit of thinking i’m complimenting someone and they get insulted. sometimes it’s just poor wording and other times, they just don’t get what i’m trying to say and other other times, they think of what i’m complimenting as negative. ex. called my brother “wide” because his shoulder were filling out with muscles and he was looking strong. broad would have been a better word, and i was able to clarify what i meant so it was all good
For me that's the best compliment I could get from anyone in kindergarden. Smell of maple syrup
I really appreciate and agree with Noah's stance on, "ASK THEM!" You don't have to guess, just ask us and we will be happy to explain it. Asking questions is a necessary part of life. We don't bite
This, a million times. If the kids in my school had had that kind of class or explanation or message the kids AND the teachers at my school might not have caused so my trauma.
I totally bite.
unless we like you
This story is straight up the plot to "You Again" 45:47
That last story broke my heart and nearly caused me to spit out my water onto my work computer, especially because of his attitude to her. That’s an awful person and I’m so sorry she lost her best friend. I hope she knows how much we all support her and care for her.
Very glad that they immediately corrected Noah on the tongue thing. As long as the person having the seizure is in no danger, don’t touch them *at all* and if they are in danger of hitting their head, then you can support it (with a pillow or something soft, don’t just like stand there and hold it). Touching someone who is seizing risks both harming them and them accidentally hurting you
Aside from rolling someone on their side and cushioning their head with something soft, yeah, never touch someone during the seizure
Yep. As a person with epilepsy, and who has seen people have them, I can attest. If anything (and really, you should be very cautious with this), attempt to get support under the head, especially if it happens while on a hard surface. But, yeah, definitely don't stick your hands, or anything else, in their moth, eyes, etc. That kid also angered me when he posted that they were having "fake" seizures because the pattern on the EEG wasn't "correct" for a seizure. You can have nonepileptic seizures as well. I did after having brain surgery back in May. People need to learn the facts and stop believing crap on the internet and on TV. Sorry for the rant.
@@emilyferguson3718100% agree.
I had a high school classmate that faked having lung cancer. She was a chronic liar so I was skeptical, but wasn’t about to assume she was lying about something so serious. It was solidified as a lie when she came to school one day and she said she was “cured” because the doctors scraped the cancer out of her over the weekend.
HOLY SHIT LOL. I love how fked up the implications are when it comes to chronic liars like that. "Oh yea, I got my cancer scraped out over the weekend... Yup, easy as that.... Nah, anyone who dies of cancer just didn't bother getting it scraped out... You can defs do that..."
Ew. What goes through these peoples head?
Someone in my middle school pretended to have eye cancer, and when everyone found out he lied they bullied him really hard. He ended up switching schools.
I always felt kinda bad for him, but at the same time karma’s a bitch.
Lmao thats such a bad lie. They cant even operate on both lungs at once, because whichever one theyre working on gets deflated and needs a few weeks to heal before they do the other one. And it cant possibly all be taken out, they can only operate on a small part of each lung at a time and only go for the biggest or easiest to get to nodules…… and honestly its usually just for diagnosis, they take some out to test exactly what type of cancer it is and then treat it with chemo/immunotherapy. Source: i work in medicine and have a family member going through lung cancer treatment right now.
Had a girl say her dad died because he was shot in California. He picked her up from school a few days later.
I cannot fathom as an identical twin, why other identical twins would just switch places for s’s and g’s. Just the thought of it alone stresses me tf out.
hey y’all despite it being a reddit episode, thank you for opening up the door of what to do in seizure emergencies! as someone with seizures, the best thing to do if u witness one is lay them on their side to prevent them from choking and then let it happen. love u noah but the last thing u want to do is grab a hold of them. making sure they don’t their hurt their head is for sure a plus! thanks for opening a conversation, even if just a small one
This is easily my favorite Smosh segment. Still waiting to hear from the pregnant mom, who found out her husband and bff were having an affair.
Looking forward to the updates as well!
Definitely I cannot wait for that update!
Yeah, I hope she’s doing okay
We’re all so invested in it
i didn´t waited and looked it up in the link of that video, things went very smooth after it happened, the ex visits the pregnant mom every now and then
Imagine how much funnier shayne could’ve been if he went through public school life
He’s already really funny. He could’ve not flourished more if he did go to public school. Him being like this is a canon event
Y'all are great, but I was particularly here for Noah this episode! Very welcoming, very emotive, very insightful.
That last OP dodged a crazy bullet!!! 1:04:09
I’m glad they told Noah before someone started having a seizure, and he tried to grab their tongue.
“Noah, wtf are u doing?!?!” 😂😂
My 16yr is an epileptic and I about died when he said that lmao. You never ever stick anything in the mouth.. Now while seizing they can absolutely bite the tongue and it'll bleed ect. My poor baby has gotten hurt so many times. He has T.C. or tonic clonic or Drop seizures. They used to be called GRAND MAL, people would always say GRANDMA lmao. Make sure they are safe and not going to hurt themselves. You can hold them but don't restrain them..if that makes sense. I'm sooo happy they told poor Noah 😂
@@sarahwalters4428 drop seizures, is that like all of a sudden, with no warning? My cousin has seizures and she knows when they’re about to happen. It was a metallic taste in her mouth. The warning would come so far before the seizures that she would be able to call the ambulance and her mom.
@fosixsix225 No hunny, Drop seizures or Tonic Clonic seizures are where the whole Body convulse's. If you're standing up, you will drop.. What your cousin? I think is what you said, has is actually called an AURA. Many ppl have them right before a seizure happens.. kinda like a warning system lol. My son screams😭. So that's extra fun.. Some people can actually tell before hand and get to safety like sitting down or out of the shower ect. Which honestly is AMAZING! My son also has absent seizures where it looks like he's just day dreaming or staring off into space but he's actually actively seizing. It's just not a whole body seizure. Also with drop seizures, It makes your body go limp.. So for instance, my sons last seizure he was sitting down and because of that his head flopped forward and cut his airway off.. He's slammed his poor face into desks and tables and he's busted his nose,he's hit his face on the bathroom sink cuz he was brushing his teeth at the time.. I TRY to not think about what if I wasn't home or in the shower or anything when my baby stopped breathing.. It happens and sometimes they person doesn't make it.. It called SUDEP. Sudden Unexpected Death from Epilepsy. Thank you for educating yourself!! Ask questions! Always! The more you know, the better prepared you can be and the safer your cousin will be!!🥰🥰
As someone who’s had a seizure, maybe two I’m not to sure, Noah if I’m having a seizure around you, you can do whatever you want to me
@@sarahwalters4428 Drop seizures and tonic clonic seizures are different kinds of seizures, actually. Both will make you fall down, but a tonic clonic seizure causes convulsions while a drop seizure makes you just collapse like a ragdoll.
Noah and Spencer give really big "we would've been best friends back in Highschool" energy
Noah still looks like a high schooler tho
Lol a white dennis rodman playin high schopl basketball
@@highdefinition450yeah he still youngest cast on smosh
@@simpayshenaides Nah Arasha is 23/24 so she's the youngest now!
That last story was genuinly insane
When Shayne was talking about how people can see anything medical online they feel they are a doctor. I had a friend who wanted to be a nurse and felt that because she saw a video on CZcams on how to put an IV in someone, she can be ahead in medical school! The amount of times I had to hide my face when laughing 😂
The bullied sister should have also said that she does not remember speaking up over dinner and embarrassing her brother's fiancé... 😂
Killed me 😂💀
Dude the story about the twins and swapping places gave me such a bad feeling in my stomach. I know this isn't really near the extremity of the reddit story, but a long time ago I often fell victim to a lot of scenarios where I would be having a nice long conversation over text with a friend, only to find out a different person that I didn't know had been using THEIR phone. It always left me with a strange feeling in my stomach like I almost never knew if who I was messaging was who I thought they were. Often it lead to times where I had to ask "Is this really you?" if I noticed my friend acting a little differently over text. It may appear as a silly joke to them, but having it occur more than once is pretty concerning.
I had this acquaintance in high school that I was trying to talk to I had something serious going on and he had offered support (it was a family health matter) but half way through our text conversation the person said they were another one of his female friends. It honestly made me really mad and I called her out on it and that friendship didn't go to far after that.
This has happened to me, I met a interesting friend on Facebook and either they lost their phone or account or something cuz when mentioning the name to them on the phone number message texts they didn't know what I was talking about and said I'm not that person you named.
Thing is about the guy in a relationship, he was basically saying ”people with loads of money(the parents) will cripple our tiny economically gaining relationship with no money. He wasn’t an asshole, he just worded it wrong. I’m actually kind of dissapointed that he was seen as a ”mega asshole” as all he was implying and trying to get was insight into ”is being secondhandedly affected by a immoral debt on my girlfriends side something i should intervene in?”
True! Agreed
I don't have many comments about this episode as most have already been said but I will say that I do love when they reference the stories and smosh related things in the episode. I don't know why but it just always make me laugh. It probably has something to do with the fact that Shayne's laugh is so contagious.
Don't let Noah anywhere near someone having a seizure lol. Noah, if you see someone having a seizure take two steps back and let someone else cover it.
Yeahhhh that was scary when he said you “grab their tongue” like dude… you’re gonna break someone’s jaw, actually make them choke or get your fingers bitten off. I linked a ton of seizure safety guides
If anything, catch them if they fall near you and you can react quickly enough, then IMMEDIATELY lay them on their side and put something like a pillow or folded sweater under the head to avoid choking on saliva and avoid head trauma.
@@hunterwhitley9582 and if things are close by, get it away from them so they won't hurt themselves
@@emilyferguson3718 It's a very commonly misbelieved thing I don't think Noah is to blame here.
@@emz2969Yeah, I’m in my 30s and it was this video that taught me not to do that 😂
As a teenager with epilepsy, who is about to move out, it’s so nice to see people know how to support someone having a seizure! I appreciate how Noah’s first instinct was to help, though he was thinking wrong, and I love how everyone jumped in to kindly correct. Wonderful episode! :)
As a mother of an epileptic teenager,when Noah said to stick his hand in the mouth ASAP I ABOUT DIED😂😂 I was like NOOO OMG NOOO 😂😂. Unfortunate as it is to have to do, you just Need to let them seize.. Make sure they aren't in danger, make sure if they are still seated that the head isn't tilted forward essentially cutting off the airway ( MY son graciously taught us that one.😢) Talk to them,tell them they are OK ect. DO NOT RESTRICT MOVEMENT. Make sure they are safe,but don't try to restrain. Epilepsy is awful.. Its so fucking scary for everyone. Now you listen here.. you had better call your mama EVERYDAY!! Make sure to take your meds on time and please let those know around you that you have Epilepsy and educate them on how to handle you in an emergency. Good luck in all your endeavors darling!! AND CALL YOUR MAMA❤❤❤
Just to add to his stupidity he said it was psychogenic and not a real seizure. Psychogenic seizures are a real thing and are real seizures. So him saying its both faked for attention and psychogenic is completely contradictory. Psychogenic seizures are also called Psychogenic Non-Eplileptic Seizures (PNES).
@@sarahwalters4428oddly enough I’ve been in situations where I’ve had to support people of the public having a seizure.
One person it was from ptsd. The store I was in no body knew what to do.
I took a first aid course a few years ago and it’s really come in handy
Sticking your hand in the mouth of someone having a seizure to grab their tongue sounds like a great way to lose a finger.
@@euryid8920Yes! I have them and they are SO real and can be crippling
The old bullying friend becoming the fiancé is exactly like the movie “you again” it’s a good movie if you want to see how the drama plays out
This might sound silly but the Bettee Help ad actually got me to call a therapist. I went w/ a different option, but I still likely wouldn't have if not for y'all ❤
The bully 100% remembers and was hoping to manipulate the situation and escape accountability. I hope OP shows the post to her parents and brother.
I feel bad for OP to have a brother who cares so little for the wellbeing of his sister. If he really loved her he would mever date her former bully, not the least without Anika sincerely apologizing and making up. I can't imagine dating someone in my siblings' circles let alone anyone who had bullied them, regardless of change or not. OP did mention that "they're made for each other" so it seems like he is indeed just as shitty as Anika.
The bullying one absolutely got to me. I got bullied pretty bad from the age of 10-18 in high school and sixth form. And if someone from that time 'turned up' and 'forgot' that they bullied me, I would be SO angry. And the brother knows she went through that and chose to not put his sister first. So maddening.
That's what really had me boiling! He has no consideration for what she went through, which I cannot fathom. My sister's enemies are MY enemies.
I feel like the brother is the true villain here. Cause the bully might be a bitch, but he straight up betrayed her
The brother is what pisses me off the most. He remembers this girl putting his sister through hell and then forgives her and keeps dating her. What a shitty brother.
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What really gets me is his gall to support his sister's bully and still act like his opinion on the situation is valid or worth anything. Like, whether or not you wanna be there for your sibling is your business; but don't act like everything's fine or they owe you their compliance just cause you trying to get hitched. It's the two-facedness.
That last girl did nothing wrong, and the fact she said "that's on me" with people thinking they're dating because of her actions makes me so sad. People always assume men and women are dating if they're close, so she was destined to lose on that front. She's not the one spreading lies. I want to let her know she will be okay. When she said that he grabbed her arm I was hoping she'd say someone would step in since they were in public. I had too much faith in those bystanders.
would like to at least point out that psychogenic seizures aren’t the same as someone “faking a seizure”! I have PNES (psychogenic non-epileptic seizures) which, for me, is essentially a panic disorder that manifests as fainting spells that are seizure-like in appearance.
also, noah, you freak, if i had an episode and i came to to you grabbing my tongue, I’d bite your hand off 😂
as a recent high school graduate it's absolutely crazy how much cyberbullying happens now like everything is online and it's so much harder to not be made fun of
Like someone else on the internet said.
The internet just exposed how much of the population is actually dickheads.
I was in middle school during the MySpace era and the cyber bullying was bad then too. People would post bulletins about you and everyone would pile on. The thing is that back then we didn’t have a name for it and parents and schools didn’t really care.
We also had a top friends portion on our myspace pages and that caused a lot of drama too.
But I imagine that it’s just insane these days with all the platforms
@@cosodesign8953I was literally talking to a buddy the other day about all these new features they keep adding on insta that no one is asking for and we joked about bring a top friends section back and how it would literally crumble society in this day and age 😂
I went to high school before cyberbullying was a thing, but it was such a small school in such a small town that we all knew everything about each other anyway.
@@Subsistence69 Haven't they basically done that though? There's a story feature for chosen people, right? And when it was released, it would tell that person that they were on the list... I don't think they do that anymore, but still. It feels kinda like a top friends thing lol.