THIS IS NOT A NEW YEARS RESOLUTION VIDEO! || What We Are Leaving in 2023.
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- čas přidán 1. 07. 2024
- This is NOT a new years resolution video BTW, its our take on something i find to be much for gentle and effective. I do this every year to reset and start fresh. I don't like normal new years resolutions, I prefer just taking the unhealthy habits and unkind toxic traits and leaving them in the past! So this is my "What I am leaving in 2023" in order to make 2024 the year I choose myself!
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Please let me know what you're leaving in 2023 here in the comment section below! Happy New Year Y'all!
“Figure out what you’re thinking about all the time, and make that a priority.” When you said this it immediately struck a chord in me. It struck me so hard I scrambled to add it to my quote board, and now it is right below a quote from Stephen King. I wish you good luck in your endeavors going into this year! May learning K-pop dances be fruitful and fun for you!
So happy that you’re prioritizing takin care of YOU! The most important person!!! 💕💕💕💕🎉
Thank you! We are trying our dang best out here, ya know?!
0:45 Caring Laurel Voice? 🥺
1:30 Can...can we DO that??? That's allowed???
7:20 so MORE affirmation redemptions?
10:40 what...the HELL...did you just say? 😮
12:40 WOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! [insert chaotic, tearful celebration gif]
I have been wanting to bring back dance parties too!!! I realized I’ve barely had any dance parties in this apartment, but I thought about using “dance parties” to help me clean more too. Using dance parties as both motivation and a reward of cleaning, even if I only cleaned for 5 minutes.
I absolutely agree with the negative inside talk. Gotta stop that. Also I think singing at the top of your lungs at least once a day is so therapeutic!
Ooooooh I love this. Noted!
Your account has been so healing for me not only because we share a lot of the same interests but I highly relate to these more personal videos and it does a lot to know I am not alone
this is actually so clever- new year resolutions never worked for me, too much pressure but this? Leaving bad shit behind? I think I can handle that better. Thanks Laurel
I love this. You got me emotional at work watching this. I was doing so well and taking care of myself after I was in a bad place when my nephew passed away. But im slowly sliding back again, but I needed this motivation. I go to work and then sit in my room . Its become a sad life. I have no friends just music and CZcams.
Less screen time is a big one for sure. I did that with social media specifically this past year and like you said, it gets you to focus more on yourself and you become more productive from it. It took me a while to try not to pick up my phone and open up Twitter/Instagram throughout the day but once you get over that hump, things start clicking and it only gets easier to ignore social media. So if anyone reading is considering doing that, I highly recommend it. You will not regret that decision.
Ok heard! Glad it worked for you!
You are very much human, and an awesome human at that. I'm glad to have found your channel to be able to see your progression into accepting the best parts of who you. Keep it up because now that I've found the haunted house, I can never leave and won't say boo about it.❤
one of your newer viewers, so this my first time seeing an end-of-year video of yours and i usually shy away from content like this as i often find the people behind it either disingenuous and/or dismissive of neurodivergence. but i’ve enjoyed your outlook in your other content and know you’ve talked about working with yourself as opposed to trying to force yourself to fit the habits/schedule/etc. of a “normal” person, so i thought i’d listen in while i’m having a slow work day, and i’m really glad i did. 2023 was a really tough year for me too and i let myself kinda fall to the wayside, and this has definitely got me thinking about how i can take better care of myself in 2024
i’ll have to think some more on my own lists, but i like your ideas of not saying ‘i can’t,’ of flipping negative into positive talk, of not calling yourself ‘stupid,’ no screen time hours, thought auditing, and romanticizing your life
sorry for the long comment 😅
but happy new year 🎉
Don’t apologize for the long comment, this meant the world to me. Thank you for your comment. And I’m so grateful this video has been helpful in some way. Let’s both try to take better care of ourselves next year! ❤️🩹
Definitely needed to see this today, I’m excited for the both of us this coming year
SO EARLY. was scrolling trying to find something to watch and this popped up and immediately had to watch. happy end of 2023, happy new year laurel🩷
Happy new Year Love! 🥰😘
Great video. Definitely going to be keeping this in mind going into the new year, especially as someone who struggles with avoiding burnout/finding time to rest. ❤
I’m definitely gonna take note of this, especially the burn out one. It’s been a hectic year for me with big change and even bigger change into the coming new year. I’m scared but I know I have a support system that will keep me grounded. Sending hugs to you and fellow ghoul kids out there reading this, may we all have a good year ahead! 🫂💝
Thanks for this reminder for me to start my list! I always look forward to these videos :) So far on my list I have the following:
holding onto people & things that no longer serve me
-Eating out so much, food delivery apps
-unrealistic goals
But I love thinking about what I want to bring in for the year. I’m going to have to make some more journal time for this :)
Have fun journaling!!!
This is actually so much better than making a resolution. Take the good and leave the bad! I love this. You have really inspired me to try this out. I got a new journal as a gift for Christmas and will now be using it to start on this idea. Thank you for sharing with us.
Ugh you're so right about the negative self talk 😭 I need to leave that one sooooo far behind.
And I get you on the not feeling like you're good enough to even start things you really want to do, I struggle with that so much... I wish you all the success with these goals and more, you amazing human! 🎉 let's go 2024!!
This is so inspirational! The idea of New Years resolutions have always put a bad taste in my mouth - it's so much pressure to set goals sometimes and that feeling of failure when you don't stick to it. But this idea of leaving/taking things going into the next year feels much less pressuring because it's not really set goals but it feels more like baby steps to living a better life. Which feels nicer than hard resolutions! Something I've been waiting to achieve is finding more ways to spend my time creatively. It's been tough when it's so easy to be lazy 😅But with your method in mind, I'm going to try hard this year to take creativity and motivation to be creative with me into the New Year!
I'm so excited to see how the new year turns out for all of us! I'm wishing you and the community a wonderful new year!!! ❤❤❤
hi laurel love this video miss your streams love you ❤
I'm gonna follow your advice
Love this 🌹🧚♀️
Could you share with us your burn out plan when you come up with it! It would be so helpful
absolutely! gotta test it out first though!
0:45 Caring Laurel Voice? 🥺
1:30 Can...can we DO that??? That's allowed???
7:20 so MORE affirmation redemptions?
10:40 what...the HELL...did you just say? 😮
12:40 WOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!! [insert chaotic, tearful celebration gif]