Asking Married Couples for Secrets to Finding Love
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We sat in Central Park in New York City and asked married couples for their best love advice, how to find love in today's dating world, and much more.
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I was 18, my husband was 21 and we didn’t have money for expensive rings! We are married and still together for 52 years! Can’t imagine something else!❤️❤️
"I deleted my dating app two years ago because I still believe that God has a Godly woman prepared for me. I'm unsure when we'll meet, but I continue to pray for her."
Start to Fast and Pray weekly --- and Jesus Christ, through the Holy Spirit, will reveal to you your next steps. DO NOT FOLLOW your heart - the bible says in Jeremiah 17:9-10 King James Version (KJV) The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked: who can know it? I the LORD search the heart, I try the reins, even to give every man according to his ways, and according to the fruit of his doings.
What constitutes a biblical marriage:
For the Men:
It is a promise to love his wife as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25)
It is a promise to live sacrificially for his wife (Eph. 5:25)
It is to lead his wife spiritually (Ephesians 5:26)
It is to leave his parents and cleave alone to his wife (Ephesians 5:31)
It is a promise of monogamy (I Corinthians 7, Hebrews 13:4)
For the Woman:
It is a promise to joyfully submit to her husband (Ephesians 5:22)
It is a promise to respect her husband (Ephesians 5:31)
It is a promise of monogamy (I Corinthians 7, Hebrews 13:4)
Therefore, for a marriage to be a marriage in the eyes of God, a covenant must be part of the process.
I’m sure that the God Sent wife will overlook all the STD’s and the many women tossed and thrown away. 😅 😉
Same here..Theres a Right One for Us..That is Gods Will
I believe the same dude. Don't look for someone. It is a waste of time. The one for you will arrive when you expect the least. At work, in the park , during a travel etc. Just be opened, love yourself. Wait nothing.
Keep believing!
Where are you located? Just curious
You know the good, know the bad, know the ugly, know everything about that person and still love that person, that's a healthy and long lasting relationship ❤.
it was great to watch
& know we are not alone 37 years married & has it's up & downs . 😊🙏
No dating app can beat the wisdom of real life experiences like the couples you have interviewed..this is reality...
My husband and I met on a dating app and are celebrating 25 years in May. Blended family with 5 adult kids and a 9th grandchild due in July. My first blood grandchild. It’s a BOY! So, all 4 of my mom’s great grandchildren are boys.
I have uninstalled my dating app. There's something very superficial about it. It's like a woman or a man has to market oneself to find love, and quite honestly, it's exhausting. It's always better for love to find you. Until then, evolving oneself into the person you are seeking is a great thing. So, fingers crossed there...
Don’t always follow your heart! Your heart often lies to you. Make sure you use a lot of logic as well.
Been with husband for more than a decade. Fight to keep each other. Be on each other's team. Most often than not, couples fight to be right, to one up the other. You can disagree but always fight to keep the peace in the relationship
My husband and i met as babies, started dating at 15 and 16 and married at 18 and 19. Now in our 30s with 17 wonderful years together. Weve had a partner for every struggle life has thrown at us and grew together. Some said we were too young, but it was the best decision we ever made. Some say travel first, but the most beautiful view in the world would mean nothing to me if he wasnt by my side. Marriage is hard work but well worth it with the right person and a beautiful sacred gift. ❤
You’re blessed! Touch wood
I'm one of those people who doesn't want to get married until I'm old (if I ever do get married at all) and I want to say I think you're smart for doing what's best for you. The advice to wait may be good for a lot of people but not all. Every individual is unique and every partnership is unique too. Happy for you that you've been blessed with a great partner to go through life with.
How could you afford marriage at 18 and 19 years old?
We are a gay couple who have been together for 43 years and still very much in love.. we love your interviews .cheers to you.❤
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A couple is when there is a man and a woman. The all rest is a perversion.
Not sure why you need to state that you’re gay? You’re the problem.
Congratulations!!! It’s an achievement for anyone to have 42 years together and still be very much in love. For a gay couple, you have really endured to make it this long successfully! I’d love to hear your advice!❤
you always somehow manage to find the most beautiful strangers with the most beautiful stories to share; another good video!
Probably he is leaving out not so good ones😊
@@KumariKumari-fw7nc still the ones he shares are all so unique and special; it would be even more surprising if he conducted all the interviews in the same week, running into so many strangers who have lead such incredible love lives with stories they are willing to share!
WE NEED GROUPS DOING THINGS TOGETHER. THAT IS HOW MOST PEOPLE USED TO MEET.
My advice is find a partner you can be best friends with as well as a lover! Paul and Linda McCartney would be the epitome of the ideal relationship
I saw linda on keyboards and paul sing barefoot at home in perth and their connection was palpable
True love is not dead but classy people are rare. People wanting a solo realiknshil are rare and want new but with the right person of spark is always there and it’s intense and amazing
There was so many beautiful moments in this! The couple on the couch needs to write a book or do a TED talk.
Agreed, they were lovely
I think comparing with older couples is difficult because they didn’t have the main contributors to current issues with relationships = MOBILE PHONES. There are major communication issues today where we use the phones to communicate so no one talks anymore let alone face to face. Covid added to this too. Dating has become an unfortunate minefield where many are mistreating the system ie they join apps when they are unhealed, angry and perhaps sometimes still in relationships which creates further pain to those involved.
As one of the guys say ‘take this a flush it down the toilet’ re the phone.
That’s on you. Men need to stay off the phones it’s literal corn on demand. Get a life and be brave enough to talk to women.
I've heard of girls in relationships being on tinder talking to guys then some things guys say about girls it honestly seems pointless to date half the time.
@@Adam-go8ozI have a male friend who is in s relationship and dating other people from apps.... The dishonesty angers me
7:07 The way she looked at him. That's love
I think the advice about unrealistic expectations is good one. For some reason, in today’s day and age we put really high expectations on romantic relationships. Maybe the reason is that we’re lacking the ability to form intimate connections in all areas of life so we put immense pressure on this one area. Let your partner be a wonderful addition, a teammate but don’t expect them to be every single ideal imagined walking on earth. That’s too much pressure on anyone!
Basic criteria like loyalty , integrity, similar future vision and commitment to build with each other no matter what - this is a great launching pad.
I literally had an ex hate me because I didn’t understand his music.. but I was there supporting him anyway which wasn’t enough bc apparently “we weren’t similar enough”. All this BS complicates love. Let love be free and without irrelevant conditions.
I love the couple he was interviewing in their living room.
Marriage is not 50% - 50%. Marriage is 100% - 100%. Marriage is both spouses giving 100% of themselves to their partner. If you’re not completely committed 100% all the way, then the relationship is not ready to move to marriage.
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What if you are already married?
@@KumariKumari-fw7nc
Then you give 100% and your spouse gives 100%. Isn’t that why people get married? It’s not supposed to be just for a few months or a few years - it’s for better or for worse til death do us part.
Already know this is going to be a great video! Keep it up Will, love these kind of videos
Oh gosh, this fills my heart. I like this video. I don’t know if i wanna cry in elation seeing these people still in love.
Really enjoyed this content ❤️love you covering this topic ☺️
Good point, if one really likes their job one doesn't regard it as a sacrifice, the thing is most people hate their jobs, and their marriages, if they were sincere!
The couple on the couch are the real marriage counselors!
Wow!
I'm happily single and staying that way 🎉
Enjoy the wine and cats!
Me too #copeium
@@tmux enjoy the wine and cats 🐈
Same here
@@j23222Enjoy your bald head and growing belly 🤡
Will, thank you for sharing this ! 😊😊
Thank you Will
Yes as you get older , you need companion and it’s important .
I am getting older i am 51 and I just want peace in my life i am alone and happy ok I can accep someone that add in my life not put weight I am happy
I can’t get enough of these videos!
Saying sorry is massively important for me. My wife neess to say sorry, and i need to say sorry, so that we can move on. She will bring things up, but i can always say that we said sorry about that, and we need to move on for the betterment of our love, and family
Wise words from wise people. The wisest IMHO was that marriage is not for everyone...
Fantastic work,so worthwhile 💛🌻🙏
Hello hatty
Thank You for doing what you do! I love your vlog and subject matter so very interesting! 🌈🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️
Thanks!
Really loved this video. So wholesome
"Follow your heart" is horrible advice. The heart sometimes doesn't know what it wants so you got to use your head.
Wow, there advices are so on point.
Wonderful video!
6:24 best advice
Mocking your 2 kids for being single and divorced is wild 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Once they teens they pretty much their own humans.
Shame can serve a positive social function. It’s a fine line.
They’re boomers. They literally laugh evilly at other generations demise.
Very nice, thank you
From Bangladesh ❤
I used a dating website in 2009 but it was very different from the dating apps people use today.
Very good video
This was 10/10!
I suffer in relationships. I'm happy alone.
You have to say to yourself: Are you better with this person or without.
Yes it's being friends first. Meeting someone naturally. But I've been waiting a long time. In my 60s now. Is there anybody out there?
Just exactly the video, manifestation brought me
That was fun
This brought tears to my eyes, 😅 such a beautiful video 😊❤
Married 20 years in August. Together 21 this past February 2024❤
I enjoyed the video but wanted to hear more from some of the couples.
Beautiful
Love is experienced, evolves from inside out, is given, can be seen in physical but can never be found as it IS, it just is. If we speak about real, unconditional love and not some flinking emotions. Like coffee gone, love gone 😉
In the eyes of others I've achieved so much - surviving a dysfunctional childhood with coercively controlling parents; buying my first house at 19; paying off the mortgage at 32; being financially stable; sustaining a 40-year corporate career etc - BUT all I ever truly wanted was a long and happy marriage which at nearly 70, I will never achieve. So I feel like a total failure.
You sound very successful to me. It's a shame you never found the right person for you but no one gets everything they want x
Bless you, sending you a hug 🤗
suzannefitzpatrick
Not TOTAL surely?
2:50 That man is lucky.
Hello ❤
Don't use tinder❤
No real women are on Tinder. Seems like you learned the hard way. 😅
@@brooklyn3299 it takes two.
True hard to find someone these days that doesn't talk to ten different people as "options". Idk how people can do that and not feel bad
And no real men
@@brooklyn3299
On the issue of long marriage. I don’t know if it’s a coincidence or not, but all the couples in the video, especially the older ones, are very slim, if not thin.
Your opinion.
You stay in shape for you and for your spouse. Sacrifices.
Or maybe because it's in NYC & ppl don't have cars so they walk everywhere 🤔
There's actually some survivor bias in that. You don't see really old obese people. They tend to die earlier.
Guy u too much 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽🌠🇬🇭
This has nothing to do with this video but you commented on a yt video I posted 3 years ago. I read your comment and it has inspired me in rebooting my yt channel. If you see this thank you
Will !!! I love your content! Please interview Black couples Black people
Are you serious? Black men are not getting married and staying married. They are also abandoning women who have their children at a rate that makes heaven weep. Wake up!
I’m a teen rn and I’m crying. This probably seems childish, but Ik damn well I won’t ever find a dude who loves me. I just know it and nothing can change my mind.
You will, there's someone out there for everyone.
Our minds are really strong forces, and what we tell ourselves subconsciously manifests in our lives.
You need to rewire your mind, and work to become that person you want in your life
Tell yourself that the right person will come
You should also practice journalling and affirmations
I'm rooting for you ❤
The #1 problem now days is; high and unrealistic expectations. These people will stay single forever.
QUIZ
Yes, I do 😂
fuck, theses couplels are gonna make me cry
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I married 3 times and regret each one.. I discovered that I’m happiest on my own
I just stop looking . I always found men would physically and mentally be abused . Glad there love is still alive
3:59 7:39 7:56
I’m older and my advice is: HAVE REALISTIC EXPECTATIONS!!!!!
How can you see all these testimonies about marriage and say “I DEFINITELY have no plans of getting married anytime soon” like r/woosh, except there’s no joke.
“Be friends first”, I don’t know how that work in today’s generation 🤔💔😂?!
The stuff that held society together has all been smashed in the name of progress. Enjoy the wreckage.
Comment: People should abandon the cell phone and we should go back to the pay phone. People need to socialize even more now a days. May 2024. USA
Love is a four letter word.😂
Different generations... back then, you go to uni, then hold a job for life. One can be a provider, and the wife stays at home looking after the household. Nowadays, both need to work, and the wife still expects to run the housework. Why married and have kids and be a slaves
I think its difficult for single people to adjust to marriage because they stay single a lot longer now and are too set in their ways to make it work just an observation of some one who is married for 25 years
'No intention of getting married anytime soon'??? SRSLY?? Dude, you're going to lose her.... GROW UP!!
He’s an idiot
Who are you to say something like that? He can make his own decisions, and he has a better chance than most to make the right decision bc of all these videos he makes, he learns and character develops.
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The guy that spoke to “refreshing the relationship” I think is right but that shouldn’t only fall on that man to “refresh” and keep that relationship going…
So sad for a change I thought this guy with this video might had a good intention for others but no no, on half way of video started advertising for some non sense jewelry company
1st of all STOP interviewing ppl married 50 years , after year 2000 nothing s normal
2- start talking to those who can’t figure it out
3- Long marriage / partnership does not mean happiness
4- stop advertising
That ad is nasty dude... very manipulative
How about be grateful for the free character development and life lessons which are invaluable! Instead you decide to comment that? Lol how u grateful can you be?
Mr. Sprouht, sorry I don’t know your first name. Perhaps I have missed it, but I noticed the videos that I’ve watched regarding what people have learned in life, never include anyone talking about the God factor; I find that very odd. Seems to me that God has kind of been a big thing, with the big thinkers through the ages. Sure hope you’re not editing out those interviews, that would be a shame considering that would seem to work against your quest to figure it all out. But what do I know……
Will, sorry dude, but it’s like you are trying to convince yourself of love.
I'm your 1k like 🥰 (can I get pinned ? )
This could be us………..
But you don’t
EXIST
Zero interest in getting married, even after watching this. I've seen too many ugly divorces. People become vile when it comes to splitting assets.
Follow your heart follow your passion is the worst advice to take 😂
Stop isolating. Get out and be with people. Seems pretty simple to me.
“And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.” - Jesus Christ
Clk bait title! No content on "tinder" You want subscribers???
Shitty advice considering everybody is in their pod at home watching netflix and when they come out of their hole they are on their phone. Society is fucked
As a guy why the hell would u want a relationship in this era...u gotta be seriously naive to think that’s a good idea..have a rotation of chicks it’s better And never sign contracts.. focus on fun And hobbies.
whoring yourself isn't something to be proud of
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@@AlexTodd-60s I am doing good
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