Beating The Holiday Blues

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  • čas přidán 10. 09. 2024

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  • @ziziroberts8041
    @ziziroberts8041 Před 2 lety +15

    Happy holidays. Happy every day. Give the gift of love in whatever way you can, some way, somehow, somewhere. Show someone you care, even if it's a total stranger. You'll know what to do when the time comes. Trust your heart. Let your light shine. ✌🏿❤️🌹

    • @haleya9510
      @haleya9510 Před 2 lety +1

      Sending love and happy holidays to you too Zizi xx

  • @charlesandrzejewski7405
    @charlesandrzejewski7405 Před 2 lety +4

    We must make the most out of it and celebrate true meaning and not get caught up in materialism.

  • @quietcrochet8168
    @quietcrochet8168 Před 2 lety +8

    I am really overwhelmed. No energy to exercise or clean my house. And having family over on Christmas Day. I pray I will find energy 🕯❤️

  • @luguy8347
    @luguy8347 Před 2 lety +8

    I miss my Dad, who passed Sept 13/21. All I do is cry, I wish I could hear his voice. Scary, to go anywhere with CORONAVIRUS variants. Tears spontaneously leak out, am missing my Dad something awful.

    • @Baci1603
      @Baci1603 Před 2 lety +1

      So sorry you lost your Dad,.God bless.

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety +1

      That is very tough. I hope you can find other people who can help you mourn. In Portland we have grief groups at hospitals where you meet with other people who have also gone through a loss. It seems to help.

  • @kevinwilson1070
    @kevinwilson1070 Před 2 lety +7

    Thanks Mr Douglas Bloch 😍 I have lately been trying to practice that everyday is Xmas thanksgiving and Easter. It's not looking like I will be with family or friends but God is always with me,and he is the best friend and family anyone could have.....😁😍

  • @docter_memory
    @docter_memory Před 2 lety +4

    all i want for christmas is for it to be over

  • @Serg_R
    @Serg_R Před 2 lety +6

    Thank You, Douglas Have a Great Holiday

  • @lorenheard2561
    @lorenheard2561 Před 2 lety

    Post-Holiday Blues seem real as well.... The disappointment of not being so great,and being isolated as well. Your advice for structure is perfect! Merci Beaucoup!🥰😎💯

  • @chessdad182
    @chessdad182 Před 2 lety

    I was feeling quite down this Christmas. Then I received a call from a relative I had helped out financially for Christmas. It helped to raise my spirits and made me think how Jimmy Stewart had to learn that he was a positive influence for others in It's a Wonderful Life. Sometimes we forget the positive role we play, and dwell too much on the negatives in life.

  • @caroann
    @caroann Před 2 lety +3

    We lost my husband’s Mom on November 3rd. She was 91 and some have said “Well, she lived a long life!” Yes, she did. She was the matriarch of this family! We’re just trying to get through it. Thank you for your kind words/tips. Just working thru the pain, ♥️

  • @haleya9510
    @haleya9510 Před 2 lety +4

    Thanks so much for being here Douglas. I hope you take comfort from someone/something the way so many of us across the world find comfort in you and your videos.

  • @GeorgeMakrides
    @GeorgeMakrides Před 2 lety

    Thank you Doug. Watching your videos and reading your books has brought me relief and helped me improve my life. You’re appreciated! 🙏🏻 🤗

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety

      You are very welcome. Which books have you read?

  • @peggysullivan5396
    @peggysullivan5396 Před 2 lety +2

    Some of us are ok not being around our families

  • @AJ-dc2fj
    @AJ-dc2fj Před 2 lety +5

    Thanks for what you do Douglas. Your videos have helped me through tough times. Merry Christmas from an orphan.

  • @23Dakini
    @23Dakini Před 2 lety +5

    Thank you Douglas for all your wonder videos. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year to you!

  • @trilokatmadasa3180
    @trilokatmadasa3180 Před 2 lety

    Thank you Douglas. All the best 🌞

  • @Cat-bz7tm
    @Cat-bz7tm Před 2 lety

    January and February are the months I always stay busy as much as possible , ile go for a swim , the cinema and theatre , library ,the cold weather can be a big restriction , but by keeping extra busy you can counteract it .

  • @pmbluemoon
    @pmbluemoon Před 2 lety +2

    *SUBSCRIBER HOLIDAY HUGS* to everyone out there who feels the same. I also have too many things to list here, but I for sure needed this today Douglas 🥰

  • @rvavelasco
    @rvavelasco Před 2 lety +1

    Your timing is perfect! It is comforting to be reminded that i am not alone when i feel lonely during this time of the year, when everybody else goes home to their own families and i have nobody but myself. I am introverted and i like being alone most of the time but Christmas season is supposed to be a time for family reunions. Listening to Chistmas carols just makes me more homesick.

  • @johnmccann8319
    @johnmccann8319 Před 2 lety

    Thanks Douglas!

  • @vincesza8464
    @vincesza8464 Před 2 lety

    Great video, always love hearing what you have to say. Thanks Doug!

  • @karengriffiths9549
    @karengriffiths9549 Před 2 lety +1

    Doug theirs is not that much their for housebound people or even bed bound.
    Iv had a caregiver just leave. And iv cryed for 2 days. Its hard finding caregivers.
    If I was well I would be out doing kind things for people.
    Yesterday I was ready
    To throw myself in the river.
    Due to health reasons I can not have the vaccines so that means I can not go in a care home.
    I have very little quality of life.
    And am weary.
    Just as I get over something
    Something else happens.
    Its a freezing cold foggy night just what i love and I would love to be out feeling the cold whilst helping the homeless.
    But am here alone as always ever evening.
    To Fatigued to do anything. Carnt watch t.v iv still got daily migraines and vertigo and chronic fatigue syndrome.
    Am ready to go doug
    I really am ..
    Much love 💘

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety

      Is there anybody you can talk to either in person or over the phone to give you comfort?

  • @MJ-sd1gf
    @MJ-sd1gf Před 2 lety

    God bless you and thank you for the video. A couple of your videos that I came across really helped me a year or so ago and you helped me turn things around. Your words of encouragement really help and I can't thank you enough for doing what you do.

  • @pageantgrosvenor
    @pageantgrosvenor Před 2 lety

    Me too. Thank you for your video.

  • @Samtheman85844
    @Samtheman85844 Před 8 měsíci

    I get Christmas blues.

  • @QuoVadis773
    @QuoVadis773 Před 2 lety

    Excellent.....thanks for posting

  • @einsteindarwin8756
    @einsteindarwin8756 Před 2 lety

    Happy Holidays Douglas!

  • @owoolleyi
    @owoolleyi Před 2 lety +2

    I’ve had trouble getting out of bed. Getting behind on work. Can’t sleep

    • @charlesandrzejewski7405
      @charlesandrzejewski7405 Před 2 lety

      Detach from the world; be good to yourself and celebrate the fact that you are uniquely and wonderfully made!

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety

      These could be signs of depression. Have you reached out to a mental health professional?

    • @owoolleyi
      @owoolleyi Před 2 lety

      @@DouglasBloch I have not yet.

  • @jerryseinfeld5713
    @jerryseinfeld5713 Před 2 lety +2

    Your hair looks better Douglas, lol. Great video once again.

    • @charlesandrzejewski7405
      @charlesandrzejewski7405 Před 2 lety

      Now that you mention it it does I think he is using product now and not telling us.☺

  • @cbarrett6780
    @cbarrett6780 Před rokem

    Such a help, thankyou 💕

  • @cleopatraoatcake7364
    @cleopatraoatcake7364 Před 2 lety

    Thank you, Douglas! For the millionth time, this is exactly what I needed! I must have holiday depression!

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety

      I’m glad it was helpful. I like your name.

  • @Linda_m87
    @Linda_m87 Před 2 lety

    ❤️

  • @wordscaninspire114
    @wordscaninspire114 Před 2 lety

    Very well said Douglas 🎄🌲 ( I'll email you soon )

  • @antenman
    @antenman Před 2 lety

    It is truly so, even though I've managed to cope relatively well with stress, it has become more difficult as of late... I really dislike the winter...

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety

      Fortunately, winter is always followed by spring

  • @mjllorg6631
    @mjllorg6631 Před 2 lety +1

    Thank you for many tips.

  • @candyjay370
    @candyjay370 Před 2 lety +1

    I can't work because of mental illness and this time of year make me feel like $hit because I don't have enough money to shop and buy my family gifts.

    • @DouglasBloch
      @DouglasBloch  Před 2 lety +1

      I understand. You’re not alone.

    • @charlesandrzejewski7405
      @charlesandrzejewski7405 Před 2 lety +2

      Give them yourself the best gift and inform them that world received the best gift of all on this day.

  • @lorenheard2561
    @lorenheard2561 Před 2 lety

    She may have been just a chicken 🐔,but a very adventurous,spiritual chicken😂💞

  • @dirtyunclehubert
    @dirtyunclehubert Před 2 lety

    i am in a similar annual pickle for christmas. no family. literally none. so of course the damn media is working on your mind with its sugarcoated nonsense about family unison and happyhappyjoyjoy. F THAT! here's some truth:
    a lot, if not the most cases of domestic violence emergencies happen on 2nd christmas day. presents have been gifted, everyone is coming down from the food and alcohol binge....and then the ohohohohohohooooold family quarrels are coming up again et voila! also keep in mind, if you feel totally lonely - there are so so so so many people who are lonely on christmas. its not a specific curse against you and its not your fault. i am pretty sure, reddit, discord and other online social get-togethers offer a good way to hang out with likeminded lonely people during those 3 days.
    may i contribute my personal mantra, that always helps me (besides getting hammered!) during the years end period, and trust me, its working since over 150 years now:
    *BAH, HUMBUG!*

  • @elisha_jane
    @elisha_jane Před 8 měsíci

    I looked up videos about beating the holiday blues and found this. You spoke some good words to me, there. 🫶🏻
    I'm glad I chose to do that today.