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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 17. 05. 2024
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Dela Xx
Take time to know him don't rush into a thing. He wasn't for you. Too getto
lol he was quite ghetto. He reminded me of a character from âFridayâ
@@TheChariot99yâall are hilarious
Dela, he was your practice boyfriend. đ I don't think he is husband material. I do think you and Steve will be great friends. As time goes on, you'll meet someone who will be your life partner.
It seems a lot of us knew he wasnât the one for you before you realised. I love love your transparency and honesty. Bless your subscribers. And bless you too. Youâll be alright koraaađâ€đ
What youâre saying doesnât sound bad at all. We all need to be with the right people for usâ€ïž
Youâre gorgeous, perfect skin and body never settle for less than what you deserve.
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â@@moretodela Interesting how you have no problem telling us why you and Steve are no more but when it comes to the details bout Kwame you are so hush chale!!!!
I think you have to understand that a woman only leaves her husband if he is unable to do the role that he supposed to so thereâs no need for dela to address that or to go into depth about the breakdown over marriage. The answer to the question is simple. @dandiablo3809
â@@dandiablo3809That part đ
â@@dandiablo3809how was she harsh kindly pls elaborate what did she say
A lot of us told you to tread lightly with him because Americans know each other well, darling. He was âghettoâ, plain and simple; not a horrible person or anything, just not of the quality you need. Forget the âlistâ, God has a plan for you.
What happens is that if someone did not grow up in the USA they will have trouble reading the cultural differences. Once the novelty runs out... the cultural difference will get ugly. It is a learning process.
This is it! He was definitely ghetto. The way he was talking I was embarrassed for her. He also came off as a bit immature for an older man.
He lacks self-confidence, he tried, but he knew that a powerful, confident woman as yourself , he would not be able to rock with you the way you needed. He caught you off guard as you were at a sad period of time losing your dad
â@@shirleygrant8989She said they were talking for a year.
@@jackiedelvalletalking donât mean anything. He will talked, you go to sleep and then call his home gurl for some putay, how would you know. Most men/women canât go without sex for more than a couple of days.
Some relationships are for a reason, a season or a lifetime...your involvement with Steve was for a reason...no hard feelings bcz it's a part of dating...with that said, I again humbly advise that you keep your intimate relationships private, just to save you time and effort of explaining to the world...I know this wasn't easy but as always ty 4 sharing...
i always say dela if its meant to be for you it will remain permanent in your lifeđ
Wow Dela, you are so TRANSPARENT.. to me, that implys that you are a really open soul. I personally am not that brave, (I'm a bit personal).
but I DO understand why you live your life the way you choose. Jus wanted to say Thank You for being so candid and honesty about Life.
(its taught me a few things about human nature) up UP!
Sis Dela, I am so happy for you to see things for what it was. Please Sister we as women need to see our souls, our hearts, our minds our very essence as sacred and precious. Even when you did not show his face and I just heard is voice and the few interactions he was having with you in that first video. I knew you were wasting your time. Time which you do not have. Sis Dela you do not have to listen to me I am just a faceless comment but if I could have spoken to you in person I could have told what type of man he is, it was clear as day, that he was not for you. Many people are watching Sis. Your future husband could be watching you do not know. My advice is to know yourself more, deepen your relationship with God. Please do not leave your faith behind. Become a bride to Christ and you will see what will happen. And I am not talking about church going because in these last days there many fake churches teaching strange doctrine but get some tools and learn how to study the Word of God for yourself. Anyway, relationship with the Father is a personal thing. I hope you will give him a chance because with God your discernment with people and especially with men will heighten. You will able to sniff them out from 10 miles away. There some men you do not allow in your space at all. If I were you I would not keep him even as a friend. You think I am harsh but I saw something that is not beneficial for any woman in him. Sometimes we have tell it as it is. He may appear nice, but he is not marriage material. He showed that by his actions and his words. He was not there in Ghana for you but entirely for himself. Sometimes he would tell you right to you with some of his words but I do not think you were paying attention. Matthew 12:34 KJV. God bless you Sister I will praying for you, that God will give you a entirely different perspective. Pick you friends male or female wisely. đđđ Also I respect you for your honesty because some people would not have admitted that they realise he was not worth the time.
Dela you need someone who will love you unconditionally, love your quirkiness, and the way your brain is wired. You need tenderness, nurturing, and also a partner you can build an empire with.
You said it perfectly! â€ïžđđŸ
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Didn't she have that with her Husband? Instead she flaunted a ninja that just wanted to "smash" and a free place to stay while in Ghana ..
Dela!
No need to put everything out there.
Your big fan!
Do YOU Della. Keep it moving.....đ
Yes, men should keep the cursing and rough talk for other men. Women are softer so please respect our femininity if you want to receive its benefits. Also Dela, I love you, but you were too taken by insignificant things like his height and good looks. When women place significance on a manâs physical looks the men subconsciously view themselves as the prize and the woman as being âluckyâ to be with him. The natural energetic dynamic is that the woman is the one who is admired for her beauty and good looks. When we reverse the gender roles our relationships become chaotic, toxic and worst of all⊠nonexistent. Stay discerning ladies! Be attracted to the attributes they will make a man a good Provider and role model for your children and/or a future family together. âšâšâš
Honestly he wasnât good looking. Potty mouth stole away from whatever looks he thought he had.
In nature the male is the gender that is usually adorned to attract the female. Men made up that beauty standard stuff so that they can be unattractive and still think that they deserve the best looking female. We like who we like, that's it.
Girl, donât stress you had a fling so what time to move on! Youâre a grown ass woman and entitled to have some fun and get your needs met when needed. LOL turn over analyse and overthink it too much. But maybe next time, even though youâve been speaking to him for a year you probably didnât really need to introduce him to your children and bear that in mind for next time. Maybe take a leaf out of your friend, Rochelleâs book, we all know she has a partner and is happy with him, but she doesnât really talk about him and he doesnât feature much on her channel. She keeps him very private and it seems to work for her although people will always ask questions! Keep doing you and keep having. good times!
âHey Dela, just wanted to remind you that you made a brave decision leaving that relationship. Itâs okay to prioritize your happiness and well-being. Youâre strong and youâll get through this. Be blessed!
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The way he was flying curse words around was it for me. I never had the courage to watch all his episodes again. 1x was enough for me.
â@@moretodela i did not like him. I felt because you don't live in America you dont have a reference of gaging men in America. If you lived in the states you wouldn't have dated him.
He spoke broken English. That's lack of education. He's good for fun but not the guy you could carry on an intelligent conversation with. People curse when they have limited vocabulary.
Your wise auntie here.
Keep him in the friend zone.
I had formed no opinions when you were with him and l wonât form one now . Who feels it knows it , your call to make , just move on .
Thanks for this update .
Thanks for sharing. (I wasnât sure it was a match?) Do whatâs right for you Dela, but donât leave it too late though DelađđŸAnd you will never find someone who has all the things on your list, which I am sure you are aware of. Wishing you all the best. đ
Hush Dela. You were wise to listen to Yahuahâs voice. When the one arrives you will know. Still here for you lil sis. Stay blessed. đđŸâ€ïž
I knew from the bat you were too sweet for him
I watched a video with you and him together. I jdidnât see you being with him long-term so good for you for knowing what you want and deserve . Time is too precious. đ You deserve the right person.
I personally think that social media doesn't have to be included in every aspect of our life..Steve may not have been your kind of guy but that should've been a conversation between both of you, not social media..Other men are watching.
@traciaasphall1702 - Speaking Facts! đŻ Other men are watching. Some may think twiceâŠbecause they will be afraid their business will be put on social media. đ€ŠđŸ
@@AccidentalCarnivore-ul3kg It's about the views chale!!!
I totally agree
I would offer the argument that anyone involved intimately in Delaâs life would have to be strong/vulnerable enough! Dela has built a powerful platform and an ideal partner wouldnt be intimidated by this.
How would you be able to comment if there were no social media? If u are against social media get off it.
Well done for reflecting Dela, keep it moving darling đ
IF ANYONE isnt on a _healing journey_ by now, 2024, then they are still Living in their *Shadows!* đ€đ€Ź
Keep Shining Queen đ Always know your worth. Your A Strong Beautiful Woman With great values. Follow your Heart â€ïž Blessings Always âŁïž
The relationship was a fun, comforting distraction during a time when you needed both. I don't think any of us saw a love connection, but it was good to see you enjoy yourself. You are a wise, smart, strong, courageous, and passionate woman who we are pleased to watch grow while keeping it all the way real both with yourself and your viewers. I've told you before I see you with someone who matches your goals, focus, and hustle in the future. Don't know what's on your list, but I'm glad to know you have one and have your standards set. You are clear on what you want and don't want and I'm sure you're not in a rush because you have so much other satisfying and meaningful work to do. Thanks for the update. We appreciate your transparency and join you in wishing Steve the best as you two take different paths.
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If you're not familiar with American men other than the movies and music.Please don't think you know us,cause anyone could see that the guy was a bum. YOU HAVE CHILDREN!!! PICK BETTER!
Well, this is a common issue. Nothing new. Women who did not grow up in the USA can get excited about the new experience initially. Eventually, women will step back and look at the situation objectively. Such is life.
Iâm not gonna lie, he was quite ghetto. I think African women think thatâs how all blk men are in the states but a lot are actually quite cultured and well educated, those ones usually date the whiteâs
The man needs to be better vs the woman picking better
I stopped watching your videos from the day I heard his voice. I was very shocked about some of the things he was saying
đđđđđ I wish the best for you Dela.
Dela,
You are just living your life and sharing. You are trailblazing and brave (others may say silly to be unbiased) in sharing with us. No matter what we are all learning and benefitting from what you have shared in the early days to the transitions you have made and the person you are to date. You are you, you are unique. Dad is looking down he is happy of his little girl and saying..... "Just be Dela"
We are here for you girl ! Itâs okay donât stress too much am glad your doing whatâs right for u thatâs what matters the most⊠be proud of your self for doing whatâs right for u
Interesting how Dela have no problem telling us why her and Steve are no more but when it comes to the details bout Kwame she's so hush chale!!!!
And What will you do with her and Kwame's details?
â@@dandiablo3809how was she harsh with kwame she didn't even give us details
@@wendy--- Just read the comments section when she responds to people asking about Kwame. She tend to sneak dis Kwame on the low
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You deserve the best, The right person will come along don't force it and always remember to love you more. đ
Thanks for sharing your personal experience. Sometimes when you are close to someone, you canât see them for what they really are. I think that was the case with you. I have been watching you for sometime now and was happy for you when you shared your personal relationship with him. My observation of him with you and the way he was acting around you did not look good. I thought to myself that the relationship will not last. I remember the time when the subject of a baby came up, and he was very negative about that. And there were other things that made me wonder about him. Anyway, this is the first time I am writing to you about anything. I want you to know that I enjoy watching your videos. All the best to you.
I found him not wanting to share his food a bit weired, I'd never seen that before.
Me too, thank you âïž
Yea i thought so too
yeah, that was strange, and childish
I donât share food off my plate either to be honest that was the least of his issues. He wasnât a bad guy, just not for her.
You both are very mature and no doubt in time will find the right person. I admire you both were involved in a long term marriage so you both know what you want. Thanks for respecting each others time and not wasting it. Yes itâs true some men love their food and prefer not to shareâŠI didnât understand it with my husband when we were dating but in time in marriage he gladly shares. So I could so relate and we have now been married 17 years
I didn't like Steve. I'm from the States and knew immediately he wasn't your match. Glad you were able to test it out though.
Greetings!, I never felt in my heart that he was the one for you, picked up that he was not truly that much into you for all the right reasons, or picked up a man that lacked confidence
Perfect Hook! When are we shooting the movie?
Haha right!
Iâm proud of you. He was what you needed at the moment and thatâs ok. No one can judge because we all are just figuring life out. But of course many will judge and be like I told you so. Pls ignore them. Life is about experiences so we know what we want and need. Someone said he was your practice boyfriend and I agree. Onward and upwards.
Too beautiful. Some of us have lived in the States for a long time. He wasn't for you. You are beautiful ! I wish you hadnt gone there but anyway. Maybe as you continue dating get some trusted people to help you see what you cant see.
We â€U regardless! Life happens it was long distance so please date and be happy do you â€. You are a strong woman and I admire how you manage motherhood and business đ
Thank you
Glad you finally realized he was not good for you. in time someone more better suited for you with your best interest at hear will come into your life, Pray and be patient help is on the way.
Sorry to hear that but be extremely careful. There is no perfect ... out there, there might be things you just have to live with or work on it â€
Dela, just be you. For me, it takes me only a week to find all the red flags, after my experiences. My eyes are wide opened now.
You look great Dela.
Thank you
Ah well, Dela just life. I wasn't completely convinced, but you're a grown woman and for you I'm just some random person on the internet, so my views on your relationship are null.
Plenty more fish in the sea, some lovely guy out there waiting for you. Keep it movin â€
Dela please donât try to change grown people⊠we can only accept people for who they are⊠some people are just not a good fit for us⊠Iâm glad heâs out the door. Keep it pushing. Dating is also a learning experience⊠keep upgrading, and leveling up as you go. đđœđ©·đž
Him being Rochelle subscribers and claiming he found you through her was a dead giveaway đ he was chasing clouts
Nah he was chasing Rochelle
Chasing clout? Lol what. The guy is not even active online. You must be another Ghanaian that refuses to use his/her brain cause itâs too hot.
He was chasing booty and a free vacation
Aww poor Steve. Jkg. Iâm sure both of you will find whom youâre looking for.
I wholeheartedly believe and see you with a man that more than ticks all your boxes...not a hard ask for you at all. You will have many applications....
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If you want a forever relationship, your list have to match your condition.
Anyone younger than you is a no go area ,its fun and hot but definitely wont be real.
You need someone who is on the same financial level as you and also someone with kids like you or divorced.
Anything other than the above situations is a gamble but can be fun as well depending on you.
There is a perfect person for everyone at all times,choose wisely.
'Pump and dump' LOL ... I learned a new expression there! ... this made me laugh ... take care
What does that mean Mark?
@@zenahj5526 its english slang for a situation where a person uses another for quick sex with the intention of discarding them immediately afterwards. Thats the politest way I can think to describe it
Timing of his coming to Ghana was good for you but not for doing a relationship. it was clear you were NOT emotionally available to invest in relationship. No problem. I understand reevaluating your priorities after significant loss (your dad). It's a good thing for you both. Long distance love requires lots of strength and investment that you may not have to give to one right now.
A COURAGEOUS and mature decision to cut quickly and not keep up appearances. Good for you. Here's to good health, success, prosperity and money.
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The good thing is I'm back in with a chance đ
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Thanks for sharing....
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Your thoughts about what would happen to your kids should something ( God forbid ) happen to yourself now at this stage..?
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Please do not just bury those thoughts or scenarios ones and for all about your kids, then indeed anything can happen to anyone, at any given time.
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Here is my little advise to you about those scary scenarios, PLEASE KINDLY LOOK FOR A GOOD REPUTABLE INSURANCE COMPANY HERE IN GHANA and get yourself and your family ensured,...
Some Insurance companies even offer farewell ( funeral ) packages or something of that nature...
It would be sooooo unfortunate if you fail to put precaution measures in place for your kids should in case something happen to yourself....
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I personally live alone, yet I have secured those precaution measures, including insurance for my funeral etc. just to ease the financial burden on my relatives or family members, who would be conducting my funeral and all the necessary rites....
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Funerals in Ghana are very costly, I hope you can personally attest that by now..
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STAY SAFE, SOUND AND BLESSED, Sis
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Enjoy your selfđđđ [with God advice]
I was happy for you but we all see red flags as you spend time with the person. It's up to us to bow out gracefully or stay. You made the right decision for yourself! Be patient with yourself and just spend time with your children and your businesses for now. Prayers and Yahuah will send you the right person in His timing!đđŸđ€
I could tell from the one video I saw both of you in that it was all about him. From a 69 year young perspective.
Dela you are too classy for him, he was screaming GHETTO đđ
Donât forget the impact on the kids in your reflection. Itâs not just about your needs dear.
Never mind, we move.
I don't think anyone will expect the worst of him. He appeared like a gentleman aside from the cursing.
"Good, job. "Dela.đ.
It's unfortunate that in today's world, people share details about their personal relationships publicly on platforms like CZcams. But have you considered whether he is aware and consents to being discussed in this manner? It seems you may be seeking validation or attention through your relationship status. This behavior is not uncommon among some Western women. "A List" says it all!
We are still friends. He knows about the video. We talked about it. This is not about seeking any validation of anything. What would that do for me?
@@moretodela I appreciate your response, and I understand that seeking validation might not be your intention. It's valuable to acknowledge that cultural perspectives can influence how actions are perceived. What might be seen as seeking validation in one culture could be viewed differently in another. Your experience living in Africa likely offers insights that challenge Western norms. Perhaps exploring these cultural differences further could enrich the conversation and provide a deeper understanding for all involved.
Steve was not right for you. Definitely a solid guy though. You are a very intelligent woman and I hope you realize this. I think you need someone who will keep you challenged intellectually. You Brits have a natural curiosity and value logic. Most of us African Americans canât have a conversation without it becoming an argument!
Steve keeping things 'warm' in case he decides to return.
Nope
Forget about that fake Steve.
The real Steve wonder is now officially a ghanaian abd currently in ghana on his 74 th birthday.
You can Steve wonder not Steve fake â€â€â€
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Hi Dela, curious how come you look for a father in potential relationships and not in your ex who is their biological father? (smile).
Anyways do Dela! đ
Iâm not surprised at all because most of the American guys are just users and always looking for an opportunity. He definitely wasnât your type,but just didnât want to say anything to make you feel bad. Wish you all the best moving forward.
Most people who have not lived in the US are fascinated by Americans.
Personally I just think relationships are better left in privacy but I understand she is a content creator. Just hope the kids donât look at the channel and see a different man every so often. Dela seems smart and lovable so either way wish her luck
Just hold on. I'm coming
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You just need someone who wants to build a life and legacy with you. It is pretty simple. A business minded man would do that sis.
Della that was not a relationship. It was a check list
Interesting how Dela have no problem telling us why her and Steve are no more but when it comes to the details bout Kwame she's so hush chale!!!!đźđźđźđź
Is Kwame her children's father? If that is the case then no, she shouldn't speak about him.
Her business, her choices. Plus, he's the kids' dad. Steve's no one in the scheme of things.
@@jackiedelvalle Everyone is someone. We are from all walks of life. No need to bad mouth Steve. He's just not for Dela.
There is a big difference between someone you have a fling with! Then someone you are married to for nearly 20 years
She has children to protect that is still the Father you keep private for sake of childrenâŠ
I would've been seen as a hypocrite for not committing on this post because I did it on the other post; and I was very critic of you as a kid bro.
I am happy you reflected. May the ancestors guide you. As for bra. Kwame, he must come back home. Not for you but for the kinds and for us. We don't need him on the camera with you again. I love you!
We are doing just fine, alone đ
It's the people in the comments FOR ME, that are pretending to know you and relationship well enough from a 30 minute youtube video to "predict" that it wouldn't have worked out. GUYS.
1) you don't know Dela (Dela, you tell us a lot, but let's be for real. we are JUST viewers.)
2) You don't know Steve. It's the xenophobia coming out for me, in these comments.
2) She is a grown woman. Leave her alone. lol
Dela, this was your first real time exploring the dating pool after a long marriage (as you said). Like it's not that DEEP. Dating is for exactly what you're doing - getting to know someone and evaluating them as a longterm partner. If it doesn't work out, it doesn't.
It's just difficult to do this publicly.
I just need people to stop pretending "they knew it". Please you didn't know anything lollll.
(your viewers take this parasocial relationship seriously oh
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I like the parasocial term...
People knew. Check the comments under the videos. Itâs up to you but the receipts are there
@@brownbabygirl LOL you realize that it is a 50/50 chance that they would be correct?
Iâm sure there were people commenting saying they know it will work.
If she had gotten married to this man, those people wouldâve said they knew as well.
My point- as the gen z say, letâs âtouch grassâ and realize that we donât know her life.
Just wish her the best and pray that God guides her.
@@minaa.1984 we are all wishing her the best. Nothing wrong with sharing our opinion. It was so obvious. Sorry. Weâve had exact same situation with another influencer.
First of all Dela u just met Steve and he is not responsible for ur kids. Ur children have a father and am sure although he is not in Ghana those r his children and he is still responsible if anything happens to u. The best time for a woman is when they r single believe it or not . Steve was a calming period in ur life and that's ok. When he said he saw u through watching Rochelle was a little questionable. He was a bit much with his tongue but am sure he gave u ur grove back during his visit which u really needed at that time in ur life .LOl đą
If something happened to you the kids would go with their dad right? American culture can be very rough. When he said he was from Detroit I thought... ole lord đ. You should watch this American tv show on Starz called BMF. That story is about two brothers in Detroit that will give you an idea of how some of them acts. I am in a similar situation. One guy is 5 years younger than me, he's rough around the edges, rough upbringing, works, does well as a truck driver little class, has a bad boi past but lives in my city (convenient but I feel like sometimes we hv nothing in common) the other has class but lives out of state and leaves the US frequently for wrk, does well ( I hv 7 yrs until retirement I'm not moving), guy number 3 I just met is an entrepreneur appears to do well, in IT toots my horn often relocating to my city in Oct. (Might be some potential there). I said all that to say this I'm currently vetting applicants, and I won't be sad if the man that I choose doesn't work out, I'll just start vetting appicants again.
Hmmm you did me a favor lol, now I don't have to show him up đ
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@moretodela when you ready for some serious conversation it's here in Dallas
@@mkkk33 Singing "Don't save her, she don't wanna be saved"...đđđđ
@@dandiablo3809 I see you in line to in the back đ
@@mkkk33 Nah Chale a no go for seconds or thirds
Dating with kids in 40s is kind of hard, especially if you want the perfect man. Iâd suggest dating a nerdy man that will love you unconditionally rather than 7 foot wish list man. Usually these men just want to have fun. But youâre like 40 something so Iâm sure you know what I mean.
A nerdy man? đ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł
What is not for U, is not for you.we thank Steve for his present, but if it doesn't workout it doesn't work.we don't need see your lovers in your platform keep it quite the devil and his workers are watching.sometimes we think things don't work out BC people are putting evil eye.i hope U pray about it before U let them in your house.
Friend with benefits
Nope
Pump and dump is a two-way street.
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You sound like a teenager. Why are you speaking about this part of your personal life? How do your children think about you sharing this on social media?
I wish you well Della in all of your endeavors. But to be honest girl he had the I am trying to get in your pants vibe. Donât come for me ladies âŠwe all know the typeđđ
You don't think Steve flew all the way to Accra and didn't get the cookies do you???
You really do not owe an explanation to anyone about how you choose to move with your relationship or life. You are beautiful intelligent educated and intentional in your decision making. Do you, make your decisions prayfully. No judgement here. Nothing but đâ€
Was Kwame at your dad funeral or burial?
The story is incoherent, and you think the timing was perfect? I rest my case.
Should I say, what I want to say... there was no compatibility... and I hated the slang... the English was bad. We all have to try and if it's right move on.
****.....probably, most local men won't make the list. The guy flew thousands of miles just to get more of Dela. Hmmm!
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When did he divorce his wife?
It was the other way around actually.
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In all due respect this situation did nothing to lift you up, but it did expose that you are only human. Be cautious of your environmental surroundings and who you allow into your spiritual space! Because the devil answers "please is there anyone out there who can help me " calls đ„
I'll tell you what happened to steve he just wanted to "smash" and go to Ghana to stay in a free place ..
Ahhhh I am confused, I thought you were married to the dark skin guy Kwame.??? Or he was your builder?
Divorced. Ages ago.
Kwame was her hubby that helped her build the house that she was now letting ghetto Steve chop her down in...
He was both
He wasn't right. I didn't like how he spoke; he was being too forward and inappropriate in my opinion. It makes total sense to express how you like someone, but it was weird. He's the type of guy I'd not be interested in here in America at all. Like someone else said below, he is not husband material. Great 'practice' though.
Yeh Steve got in some "practice" too though...if you know you know
@@dandiablo3809idk, explain more please?
@@TheChariot99 Do you think Steve travelled all the way for USA to Accra and didn't stick his banana in the cookie jar???
Girl i knew he wasnt the one for you when he couldnt fit the gas cylinder đ
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You need a REAL man Dela. Was not your type. He was limited on where he was in life. He is a typical American dude. The type you donât build a life with. He is a homey, a friend, but not someone you could grow with.. you would be holding yourself back to and making yourself small for him. You would have regrets because you would not meet your goals. Sorry Steve! Stick to your list!
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You said a bunch of nothing, but if you didn't sleep with him, then you would be good, but if you did, you would be causing more trauma to yourself.
Are you sitting on the kitchen counter?