How Moving to Canada Alone Impacted My Marriage | Long Distance Relationship & Therapy

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  • čas přidán 12. 09. 2024
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    Moving to Canada alone had a profound impact on my marriage, transforming our relationship in ways we never anticipated. In this video, I share our journey of navigating a long-distance relationship, the challenges we faced, and I've been leaning towards therapy to me through this. If you're in a similar situation or simply curious about the dynamics of long-distance marriages, this video offers insights, advice, and real-life experiences.
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    How Moving to Canada Alone Impacted My Marriage | Long Distance Relationship & Therapy, Moving to Canada, Long Distance Relationship, Marriage Challenges, Relationship Advice, Therapy for Couples, Immigration Stories, Personal Journey, Long Distance Marriage, Marriage Counseling, Living Abroad, Expat Life, Canada Immigration, Couple Therapy, Relationship Struggles, Marriage Tips
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Komentáře • 54

  • @winifredkal
    @winifredkal  Před měsícem +4

    You are not Alone🤍✨
    Visit betterhelp.com/winifred and enjoy a special discount on your first month of therapy🤍

  • @yetundeolubodun8346
    @yetundeolubodun8346 Před měsícem +4

    Winnie, you will make it. You will graduate on schedule. You will get your dream job quickly. You will bring your family over. You will get your Canadian PR and your Canadian citizenship in record time. God will reinvigorate your marriage. Your husband and your son love you. You will enjoy many happy years with your husband and son. You will have more children with your husband if you so desire. There are many ways to be a good mother. What you’re doing is one of them. You are your family’s ambassador. You will succeed. Weeping may endure for the night, but surely joy comes in the morning! No condition is permanent. Your dreams will come true and everything you are fighting for, will become your reality. Your joy will be full. Your harvest will be bountiful. You are an overcomer. In Jesus name. Amen🙏🏾

  • @omotosomagret3366
    @omotosomagret3366 Před měsícem +4

    Thank you winifred🙏
    This is so timely for me..
    I miss my darling husband n my 3-year old so much too😕
    I pray it all worth it eventually though…🙏🙏🙏 for the challenges I can totally relate and I hope we pull through 🙏
    Love and Light sis💙

  • @nene7343
    @nene7343 Před měsícem +1

    You're doing really well Winnie. I understand how big this sacrifice you've made is and I'm proud of you for taking that leap to chase your dream. I pray that at the end of the day you will achieve your goals and even surpass your expectations.
    May God Bless you and perfect all that concerns you and your family.

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem +1

      Amen! Thank you so much for your kind words🤍🙏🏾

  • @Cellycera
    @Cellycera Před měsícem +5

    May God give you strength to pull through ❤

  • @mrsranciz
    @mrsranciz Před měsícem +1

    You are strong! Gods grace is sufficient for you. I didn’t think you’ll be able to survive this long without your little boss baby😍
    It’ll all be worth it in the end ❤️

  • @aqueen232
    @aqueen232 Před měsícem +2

    This is my exact experience. God will be with us

  • @Aadjoa_Pee
    @Aadjoa_Pee Před měsícem +2

    I started watching your videos from Ghana till we got here, mama just listening to the tone of your voice made me teary, I always tell my husband God should give you strength and can't wait for the video where you tell us they are here........ Am a mum of two, when my husband came in Dec I told you know understand what Winny goes through..... I didn't watch your video about your struggles with depression I don't have the heart to watch.......... tight warm hugs and kisses Maama😘😘😘😘😘😘 God be with you huni, this tooo shall pass 😢😘😉

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem +2

      It is well. Thank you Mama🤗🤍

    • @Aadjoa_Pee
      @Aadjoa_Pee Před měsícem

      @@winifredkal Always welcome Mama hang in there grace will see you through...... a question dear I watched one of your video, where you talked about spoiledchild the liquid collagen.......will you still recommend because I want to get one after watching your vlog I got interested 😄😉

  • @AkubudeIfeoma
    @AkubudeIfeoma Před měsícem +4

    I will say IT IS VERY TOUGH. I am currently in a long distance but we are both in Nigeria nd it is tough. Weldone and the Lord will keep your family safe

  • @priscaamakah8073
    @priscaamakah8073 Před měsícem +1

    Wini, this just gave me hope, I left my husband last year as well to Canada it’s been a year and 5months i totally relate to your struggle and I pray God makes us reunite soon. It’s not been easy for any of us, atimes I just cry myself to sleep, the loneliness it’s not even funny 😢

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem +1

      Awwn stay strong! Sending you lots of hugs and kisses Mama🤗🤍

  • @Eatwithjakwa
    @Eatwithjakwa Před měsícem +1

    It’s well with you Winifred ❤ its not easy living without your family, but God will continue to give you and your husband the strength.

  • @0tismadaline
    @0tismadaline Před měsícem +2

    It’s definitely not easy and thanks sharing ❤

  • @samuelkem
    @samuelkem Před měsícem +7

    Don't lose what you have chasing after a dream that when you achieve it it might be found to be fool's gold. When you take a vow before God your family becomes your priority, not your dreams. Be blessed

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem

      Thank you

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 Před měsícem

      We are all different, some will be forced to move away for a while, such is LIFE,, all you have to do is pray for them and not discourage them with your words.

    • @samuelkem
      @samuelkem Před měsícem +1

      @@homeandaway2811 no one is discouraging anyone. I have been following her since the beginning and know how important her family is. Once you start a family you have to know where your priorities lay. You can have both family and dreams but if it is necessary to pick one you pick your family. You tell me to not discourage her makes you sound like someone who would throw away your family to chase after a dream. All the people I know who have done this in the end regret it. Be blessed

    • @yetundeolubodun8346
      @yetundeolubodun8346 Před měsícem +1

      @@samuelkemare you God? Are you her husband? Are all the people you know, all the people in the world? The answer to my 3 questions, is NO! Look at how you’re talking so authoritatively and judgmentally over someone else’s life just because you have followed her on social media? She will not be the first neither will she be the last to go on this journey. I also happen to know of couples who were separated due to immigration, one couple for even 10 years, in the era of no mobile phone and they made it. Love will always be tested before it becomes trusted. With GOD, ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE. With the right support, she can and she will make it. If you cannot wish her well, keep your negativity and lack of empathy to yourself. Your opinion does not count anyway, so shove it where the sun does not shine.

    • @samuelkem
      @samuelkem Před měsícem

      @@yetundeolubodun8346 do you even listen to what you say. Compare my words to yours and honestly ask yourself who is being judgemental. She had no problem with what I said are she would said so. I believe she had no problem because it was linning up with what she was thinking. I was not disrespectful or judgemental, can you say the same? Your words reveal the depth of your heart. Be blessed

  • @Vivianemenike
    @Vivianemenike Před měsícem +1

    We are in the same boat 😢😢😢, my mental health is miserable and I feel terrible as well😢

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem +1

      Awwn please take care of your mental health Mama and do the things that make you happy. Love you🤍

    • @Vivianemenike
      @Vivianemenike Před měsícem

      @@winifredkal love you too❤️

  • @doreenonekalit9888
    @doreenonekalit9888 Před měsícem +1

    We have admired you.We miss our cohost

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem

      Thank you Mama🤍
      I miss him too🥹

  • @kelechiikwuegbu9547
    @kelechiikwuegbu9547 Před měsícem +1

    I am in the same boat with you its not easy😢

  • @siphiwenkosi4280
    @siphiwenkosi4280 Před měsícem +2

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @krisemsrelationshipacademy8849

    Why dont you makr him join you through the spousal open work permit?

  • @JoeBIgLotto
    @JoeBIgLotto Před měsícem +1

    He is proud of you Canada 🇨🇦 didn’t freeze you up 😂🎉🎉❤❤ l have a good idea make a Barbie doll of yourself and send it to him 😊❤❤

  • @ifeyinwaosigwe4364
    @ifeyinwaosigwe4364 Před měsícem

    I can not leave my hubby and my child to go study abroad oooo, if it’s not possible for all of us to move together, omo make that abroad offer wait ooo…

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 Před měsícem

      That's you and we are all different, our lives/situations can be same or different but some will always have to take RISKS, all you have to do is pray for them and not discourage them with your words.

    • @ifeyinwaosigwe4364
      @ifeyinwaosigwe4364 Před měsícem

      @@homeandaway2811 she is already there, so how am I discouraging her, she is an adult, so she and her hubby has made that decision, I am talking about my own self..

  • @amarachilovina8074
    @amarachilovina8074 Před měsícem +1

    I am😊....but Thank God for grace, its well with you sis, i really understand you so well... but if i may ask sis , why haven't they been able to join you ?

    • @winifredkal
      @winifredkal  Před měsícem +1

      Help me ask IRCC o😫

    • @amarachilovina8074
      @amarachilovina8074 Před měsícem

      Hmmmmm same too, it's like we would hold protest o, honestly, because IRCC are indirectly tearing and separating families yet they claim they uphold family values. So many delayed visas.

  • @dollyosadolor1489
    @dollyosadolor1489 Před měsícem +1

    But how long are you going to live apart from you family mustly your husband? I remember when you get married and have a child and also doing well in Nigeria. your marriage is very young when you left them. My advice to you is to work towards get back together to your family befor is too late. not all men can have the patience to wilt that long. Canada is not everything, your Marriage, family is very important. I which you well.

    • @homeandaway2811
      @homeandaway2811 Před měsícem

      This is a GROWN UP woman, God fearing, you think she just woke up and made the decision to go for studies and leave her husband behind? Let alone her child ? Her own flesh and blood? Seriously? You guys should think before commenting.

  • @realwithupodcast
    @realwithupodcast Před měsícem +2

    It is well🤍