How abortion bans make inequality worse

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  • čas pƙidĂĄn 7. 07. 2022
  • And the study that offers a glimpse into a post-Roe v. Wade future.
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    In 2008, researchers with the University of California San Francisco embarked on a study that compared the outcomes of two similar groups of women, each at a crucial juncture in their lives: a visit to an abortion clinic. The groups differed, though, in whether or not they were able to terminate an unwanted pregnancy. It was called the Turnaway Study, named for those who were turned away by the clinic because their pregnancies were past legal gestational limits, and it provides some of the best data we have on the impacts of abortion bans.
    Among the study’s findings is the severe financial impact of being forced to parent a new child when someone is already living in difficult financial circumstances. People who seek abortions, especially later-term abortions, are far more likely than the general population to be living in poverty, or otherwise financially unstable. That fact makes it unsurprising that, when researchers asked women about their reasons for seeking an abortion, not being financially prepared was the most common reason. This video offers a glimpse into the financial penalty of parenting under difficult circumstances.
    We interviewed several women who had similar experiences to the women in the study. We didn’t seek out interviewees who exactly reflected the circumstances of the study participants (i.e., the length of gestation when they sought an abortion, or their socioeconomic background) but their stories reveal some parallels: most people want an abortion because they don’t feel financially stable or don’t have a partner they want to co-parent with.
    The Turnaway Study also looked at mental health outcomes, relationship outcomes, and whether or not study participants chose adoption instead of parenting. Whether or not they chose adoption is relevant to common pro-life rhetoric, which encourages people to give unwanted children up for adoption rather than choose abortion. But the Turnaway Study found that 91% of women who were denied an abortion chose to parent, which indicates that adoption is not a feasible alternative for most people. We interviewed Gretchen Sisson, a researcher who looked at adoption rates and motivations among the Turnaway Study participants.
    For more coverage of the Turnaway Study:
    www.nytimes.com/2013/06/16/ma...
    For lead Turnaway Study researcher Diana Greene Foster’s book about her study:
    bookshop.org/books/the-turnaw...
    For links to further research using Turnaway Study data:
    www.ansirh.org/sites/default/...
    For Gretchen Sisson’s work on adoption:
    www.whijournal.com/article/S1...
    We also interviewed Katie Woodruff, who analyzed news coverage of abortion:
    pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30309...
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  • @Vox
    @Vox  Pƙed rokem +272

    Thanks for watching. To read more of our ongoing coverage on what the end of the federally guaranteed right to abortion means for the United States, catch up on our articles here: bit.ly/3bMm7sg

    • @TheWaleedKhalid
      @TheWaleedKhalid Pƙed rokem +20

      Vox should've asked
      *"Why didn't you use condoms?"*
      I am just curious.

    • @Xathos
      @Xathos Pƙed rokem +1

      Vox, all you guys made an argument for is the sterilization of those in poverty.

    • @rgn_105
      @rgn_105 Pƙed rokem +14

      @@TheWaleedKhalid condoms do fail you know

    • @nuance8530
      @nuance8530 Pƙed rokem +13

      While people were trying to survive the economic restraints of the pandemic at least one country was having more babies during lockdown, Denmark. A country that spends more than 10 times as muchas the USA in child benefits. If you really cared about children you'd spend money on women not economically prepared.

    • @lilytellez8526
      @lilytellez8526 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@nuance8530 ma’am what??? They should put moreeee money into helping the people/families. They need to help us be prepared rather than avoid the problem.

  • @christinebeyke5528
    @christinebeyke5528 Pƙed rokem +3739

    If you want to stop abortions, don't start by making them illegal. Start by fixing the problems that lead to abortions: poverty, insufficient childcare resources, etc. It feels like we care more about the unborn child than the living child and parent.

    • @deladen
      @deladen Pƙed rokem +391

      yes
 people need to realize that pregnant people don’t get abortion for fun đŸ„Č they weigh their situation and capability, it’s always a hard decision to take.

    • @samfooz
      @samfooz Pƙed rokem +127

      So true, but nobody's interested in fixing those

    • @daralic2255
      @daralic2255 Pƙed rokem +108

      That’s the right approach. Fix the system that leads to abortion

    • @flashstar1234
      @flashstar1234 Pƙed rokem

      The whole pro life messaging of making abortion illegal and unthinkable needs to change, it has to be the other way around.

    • @sherrychu3916
      @sherrychu3916 Pƙed rokem +54

      What's insufficient about America's childcare resources? I am honestly asking bc for goodness sakes yall live in the biggest country in the world????
      I came from a third world country. The poverty level is horrible here compared to America, abortion is banned, and yet the issue never came up in our political debate?? It feels like you guys are just making up things to avoid the guilt of killing unborn children smh

  • @ziqi92
    @ziqi92 Pƙed rokem +1773

    All of this doesn’t even begin to mention necessary abortions for miscarriages. My mom was pregnant again when I was 9, but that pregnancy just straight up failed. Fetus had died for unknown reasons after 4 months. My mom had to get an abortion in order to remove it. Complete abortion bans would have ruined her health.

    • @jeep0
      @jeep0 Pƙed rokem +43

      Nah, they allow for emergency circumastances too

    • @matasramrezdaz1880
      @matasramrezdaz1880 Pƙed rokem +52

      @@zevvxn in some states which they do allow it. but it costs more money if you don't live in the state that allows abortion. But that what the video is about

    • @anciaska6645
      @anciaska6645 Pƙed rokem +290

      "Would have ruined her health" is an understatement. Would have costed her life.

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem +53

      Miscarriages are not abortions. Removing dead fetal tissue is not against the law nor will it be

    • @Mendigom
      @Mendigom Pƙed rokem +199

      @@beefcupcakes5959 miscarriage is quite literally a spontaneous abortion. ask an OB-GYN.

  • @queensass93
    @queensass93 Pƙed rokem +2209

    As someone who is currently looking for an apartment with my 2 month old son, it’s not easy to do child rearing. I never wanted an abortion. But you quickly realize how the society is not prepared for children.
    Edit: ad hominem is an argumentative fallacy used to attack an individual instead of the argument. The fact that individuals assume my life based on a few words I commented on a CZcams video, is jarring and that’s why issues like these are still talked about!

    • @valerkis8280
      @valerkis8280 Pƙed rokem +73

      Well depends on the society... What I've noticed in my area (Hungary, Europe) is that old and young people are generally friendly to kids and babies even when they make a show like when they cry so loudly. They just understand that this is what it takes to raise a generation and to live a fulfilling life

    • @eewag1
      @eewag1 Pƙed rokem +62

      Abortion should still be illegal

    • @queensass93
      @queensass93 Pƙed rokem +103

      @@valerkis8280 I’m from the Caribbean and I could even ask my neighbor to have an eye on my baby. In the US, money talks first.

    • @r8chlletters
      @r8chlletters Pƙed rokem +164

      American society is unique in its refusal to support women who either want or don’t want a pregnancy, let alone women with children.

    • @xtrey19x
      @xtrey19x Pƙed rokem

      @@r8chlletters So food stamps and other cash assistance is not “support”?
      You only mentioned women and that’s a big problem right there with western women. Women cannot create babies by themselves so where is the father?

  • @canary8212
    @canary8212 Pƙed rokem +755

    If you look back at history a pattern shows up: if you ban something that everybody wants, it instead becomes unsafe and unregulated (Ex: prohibition. Instead of stopping people from drinking, they just started making their own drinks, and there was no longer any kind of minimum drinking age.). An abortion ban would have a similar effect. Illegal imports, unsafe methods of abortion, etc.

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem +9

      Except abortion was illegal not that long ago and the mortality rates from those abortions were extremely low. And now our science is far better so those rates would be miniscule, if that was even an issue. Remember, most of the US will remain far more progressive with abortion than any other country besides maybe North Korea

    • @stone8474
      @stone8474 Pƙed rokem +9

      But you wanna ban guns right

    • @canary8212
      @canary8212 Pƙed rokem +59

      @@stone8474 No. A full ban would obviously cause the same thing as with other full-stop bans, but we can tighten restrictions a bit. If there is a legal way to do something most people will take it, even if it is a hassle.

    • @tsupietko
      @tsupietko Pƙed rokem +5

      @@canary8212 so, overturning Roe v Wade was emm... "tightening restriction a bit"?

    • @thinktransnational
      @thinktransnational Pƙed rokem +39

      @@stone8474 No one is tryna to ban guns. Regulating is not banning. Y’all honestly act like progressives and liberal don’t own guns as if y’all have concerned the market.

  • @nickc3657
    @nickc3657 Pƙed rokem +308

    All this in a country without guaranteed healthcare or paid parental leave.

    • @777Skeptic
      @777Skeptic Pƙed rokem +39

      And a baby formula shortage.

    • @supermananimationsstudios8519
      @supermananimationsstudios8519 Pƙed rokem +5

      @@777Skeptic Yes!

    • @harrybelelopoulos31
      @harrybelelopoulos31 Pƙed rokem

      find the brain to elect someone without alzheimers first and then you see about the rest.......

    • @SorbusAucubaria
      @SorbusAucubaria Pƙed rokem

      Nice to be forced a pregnancy knowing that if you end up having pregnancy poisoning you end up with a big bill or dead. Or if you have difficult delivery you end up with a big bill and likely with huge injuries or even death. And multiple other harmful things that happens to women because of pregnancy.

    • @serenabramble260
      @serenabramble260 Pƙed rokem +4

      And a country that is far more economically worse off than it was when Roe v Wade was implemented. The middle class is essentially gone, as is the notion that a bartender could support a family of four with vacation and retirement.

  • @robinhahnsopran
    @robinhahnsopran Pƙed rokem +1384

    "If someone tells you they're not ready to carry a pregnancy to term, they're not. Believe them." This made me so emotional.
    I wasn't ready. I knew that. I was so, so lucky to be believed, and to receive abortion care. I can tell you with absolute certainty that my outcomes were better because I received that care.

    • @thedavidj1996
      @thedavidj1996 Pƙed rokem +52

      I’m glad you made the right choice for you 💙

    • @deladen
      @deladen Pƙed rokem +48

      only you know your situation and ability, so whatever choice you made, it’s the right one :)

    • @KerriEverlasting
      @KerriEverlasting Pƙed rokem +31

      Abortion care? Didn't care about the dead baby tho.

    • @LutraLovegood
      @LutraLovegood Pƙed rokem +72

      @@KerriEverlasting 👏 We 👏 need 👏 more 👏 poor 👏 babies 👏

    • @Lebronwski
      @Lebronwski Pƙed rokem +18

      @@LutraLovegood yes absolutely we need more poor babies if the alternative is killing a baby because they have a likelihood of being poor

  • @lralou8
    @lralou8 Pƙed rokem +1274

    Something this also highlighted is how fathers are not held to the same standard as mothers. And how the system set up in our country don’t hold fathers accountable. The mother is de facto parent. And that happens regardless. As somebody who divorced my son’s father, and he was planned, I am still dealing with a father who is not present and not financially supportive.

    • @zenstarling3899
      @zenstarling3899 Pƙed rokem +80

      I think that there's an interesting conversation to be had about weather fathers always have a responsibility to provide financial support given that, rightly, they lack the same opportunity to prevent a pregnancy from becoming a child. I suppose we should ask ourselves, if mothers have the opportunity to abort due to financial circumstances, what safeguards we can put in place for fathers who do not have the capability to fund an unwanted child. Perhaps a certain amount of tax based child benefit funding for single mothers instead?

    • @thizzgerald5709
      @thizzgerald5709 Pƙed rokem

      Lol the system is just now starting to hold women accountable lol I guess you can say your baby dad had a financial abortion lol

    • @EveloGrave
      @EveloGrave Pƙed rokem +95

      It's 2 sides of the same coin. Fathers are less likely to gain custody of their children even if they fight hard for it.
      If an abortion is to happen the father has no say even if he wants the child and the mother doesn't (Which the man doesn't have to go through pregnancy but it is still an issue)
      A father can be forced into child support even when they had no knowledge of conception (rare but it does happen).
      I grew up with a father who paid child support but hated doing so. I wasn't in his life, he shouldn't have to pay to support me.

    • @artski09
      @artski09 Pƙed rokem +20

      but *you* divorced him and drove him away

    • @JENDALL714
      @JENDALL714 Pƙed rokem +3

      The mother is always the de facto parent because that's how nature works, in nearly every animal on earth, the mother takes care of the child, take it up with mother nature and or god, which ever you believe in, they created it the world, not me, I just live in it.

  • @elizaiv
    @elizaiv Pƙed rokem +447

    This only comes to show that abortion is not just a pro-life or pro-choice matter, because the consequences of a pregnancy don't simply end by giving birth, and that's particularly valid in countries without strong social system. It's a matter of taking responsibility, having the resources (incl. financial) and being able to commit long-term - so many things men can easily escape by simply leaving. I just cannot understand how decision makers in the politics/judicial system don't see that.

    • @jusletursoulglobaby
      @jusletursoulglobaby Pƙed rokem +1

      bc their decision has absolutely nothing to do with that. it's about electability AND about the declining birth rates for the non-white population... which goes back to electability. idk if u realized but if you are not flushed with cash, they kinda dont care about you. and if ur flushed with cash abortion bans are a non-issue for you.

    • @whydontyouhateme
      @whydontyouhateme Pƙed rokem +3

      Why don’t you see that murdering a human brcause of its cost is evil?

    • @JottoHearthStone
      @JottoHearthStone Pƙed rokem +72

      @@whydontyouhateme we do that all the time, safety regulations, denying health care by artificially increasing prices. Refusing to introduce plague related restriction due to the economy etc. etc.
      That's besides the fact that we aren't talking about a human, we are talking about an bundle of cells very much still part of the mother which doesn't have a nervous system or independent processes.

    • @takeshikodama5671
      @takeshikodama5671 Pƙed rokem +5

      You can't avoid being asked to pay for child support if a wife decided to have a child. He can't easily escape the made up responsibility the wife decided for him. It's not fair. Sending some financially incompetent fathers to jail seems to be not in the best interest of a child(children). If we gonna allow abortion, men should have an equal say in it. I don't have any suggestion for a tie-breaker though.

    • @goodwork887
      @goodwork887 Pƙed rokem +3

      Oh they do see it. It's a feature, not a bug, to them.

  • @emexdizzy
    @emexdizzy Pƙed rokem +396

    It's almost like if we don't make sure people can afford to be parents, they they try to avoid becoming parents. Who'd'a thunk? IDK, maybe if we want fewer abortions, we should have extensive support systems like universal healthcare, free childcare, paid parental leave, et cetera.

    • @Lebronwski
      @Lebronwski Pƙed rokem +2

      Well you would suppose but Nordic countries still have very high rates of abortion while healthcare, child care, school and college is all free, paid leave. It almost takes 0 dollars for rasing a child in such countries assuming your in the lower class getting more welfare benefits on top of the universal ones.
      Nordic countries also have lower birth rate than African countries in abject ducking poverty. So it’s not about being able to afford being a parent.
      Also if abortion isn’t bad why would lowering it be a concern to you?

    • @theperson431
      @theperson431 Pƙed rokem +54

      @@Lebronwski Abortion isn't bad or good. It's just necessary for survival for many women. Making it illegal, while not helping her survive after forcing her seems extremely immoral.

    • @whydontyouhateme
      @whydontyouhateme Pƙed rokem +1

      Avoid becoming parents by killing their own children? What about abstinence?

    • @theperson431
      @theperson431 Pƙed rokem

      @@whydontyouhateme Abstinence could work if people were really taught that level of self-discipline. But unfortunately, that's a long shot for America.

    • @MasqMasque
      @MasqMasque Pƙed rokem +15

      @@Lebronwski Well that’s a lie lol. I’m from Denmark, and (high) expenses very much still go with child-rearing. Then there’s the fact that our systems, at least in Denmark, have been getting worse and worse lately (similar to the UK), the fact that our sectors which take care of ill and disabled people are awful in many regions (special education especially), the fact that there’s a lot of racism and xenophobia here, etc. The people who are very aware of that, and who know that their child could meet those issues, and that they, as parents, wouldn’t get much support in overcoming them, is probably why some still choose to get abortions. You’ve got to have a very stable position in Denmark to feel safe in bringing a child into our systems.
      Plus, even if we lived in an ideal utopia, abortions would always be needed, anyway. Because some people just get pregnant and aren’t ready for it, or don’t want it. And some people could be at high risk of becoming physically or mentally ill because of it, or disabled, or risk death.
      Pregnancies will never be a dance on roses, no matter how supportive the country you are in is (and again, Nordic countries most certainly are not as supportive as they could be) and for some people, having a pregnancy would either destroy their quality of life, or significantly burden it. People should never be forced through that.

  • @Sonydev19
    @Sonydev19 Pƙed rokem +213

    Making childcare accessible and free is important, secondly allow women to take more parental leave , childcare leave with pay. Raising a child is no joke, harder if you are a single parent.

    • @masada2828
      @masada2828 Pƙed rokem +9

      Don’t be a single parent, use contraception.

    • @Sonydev19
      @Sonydev19 Pƙed rokem

      @@masada2828lol, so then what is the difference between contraceptive and abortion, you are anyway killing life before it attaches to an egg

    • @sadscientist9995
      @sadscientist9995 Pƙed rokem +13

      Allow men to take more parental leave too.

    • @skrittle555
      @skrittle555 Pƙed rokem

      @@masada2828 contraception, even if you can afford it, is not 100% effective.

    • @dianamarcekova9615
      @dianamarcekova9615 Pƙed rokem +23

      @@masada2828 And if the contraception fails what then?

  • @nicolegrace188
    @nicolegrace188 Pƙed rokem +50

    the people who made these laws have never been impoverished. never been without food, electricity, or a roof over their head. just give them to foster care!!! like are you so detached from reality that u think being abused/r*ped in the system until u age out is beneficial to anyone??? 1 in 3 homeless ppl in AZ are children who aged out of the system

  • @iamthirdyt
    @iamthirdyt Pƙed rokem +753

    Forcing people to go against their wishes, whether to keep a child or abort a child, causes so much trauma. That’s why not giving people the ability to choose really shackles their lives.

    • @tomaz3487
      @tomaz3487 Pƙed rokem +28

      What about giving the unborn child a chance to live! Unborn child is genetically unique individual from the moment of conception. Adoption not abortion is the morally right choice for mothers who cannot care for their babies.

    • @piter4466
      @piter4466 Pƙed rokem +127

      @@tomaz3487 the child doesn't have trauma cause they don't even know they exist. They don't have nervous system, they don't fell pain and don't even know they're being aborted. A woman carrying unwanted pregnancy fells a lot of physical pain especially durning birth, that causes huge trauma and her whole life changes 180 from work to finances to education etc. Woman's life is 1000000 times more important than fetus

    • @dancinggrace22MSU
      @dancinggrace22MSU Pƙed rokem +101

      @@tomaz3487 There are 108,000 adoptable children in the US right now. The average age of a waiting child is 7.7 years old. 29% of these children wait more than 3 years before being adopted. Adding to our already overburdened foster care system is just condemning more children to being unloved and unwanted and abused.
      And that completely ignores that forcing a woman to carry an unwanted pregnancy in the country with the highest maternal mortality rate of all industrialized nations is basically the government killing women.

    • @frankalmanzar3492
      @frankalmanzar3492 Pƙed rokem +9

      The consequences are steep I’m sure but why wasn’t a condom being worn? That’s the part that I have a hard time understanding. Is it a heat in the moment thing to not wear a condom?

    • @piter4466
      @piter4466 Pƙed rokem +56

      @@frankalmanzar3492 it doesn’t always work 100%. That enough should be a reason for abortion to be fully legal

  • @abhinavgv5178
    @abhinavgv5178 Pƙed rokem +141

    as in the book Freakonomics, Steven D Levitt says that when crime was peaking in 70's and 80's in the USA and suddenly dropped in the early 90's and people suddenly grappling for explanations. Many were floated around. Better policing, stricter punishment for criminals, a growing economy and a myriad of other reasons. But the true reason was the Roe v Wade decision in 73 that made abortions legal for all in the USA. This led to women of colour, of poor economic background, material abusers and all others who had unwanted or unplanned pregnancies get an abortion. But before that, they had to have a child. And that child was more likely to become a criminal because of the mother's background and subsequent parenting. hence crime was in a growth. but by late 80's, the children who would have been born if abortion wasn't legalized would be in their late teens. An age where they would be at their criminal peak committing violent crimes. This led to low criminal population in all. hence the drop in crime rates.
    Its true that overturning Roe v Wade sent USA by 50 years. But in 20 years, if it isnt overturned back again, we will see higher crimes and more violent crimes.

    • @davidalearmonth
      @davidalearmonth Pƙed rokem +18

      I expect this is likely. Though I've also seen correlation with the removal of Lead from Gasoline. (Not poisoning the population may have also had some impact)

    • @bobbirdsong6825
      @bobbirdsong6825 Pƙed rokem +17

      @@davidalearmonth i'd imagine it's a myriad of things that worked in tandem. there were also major civil rights steps, both a decade before and during the 70's

    • @ieat10kittens94
      @ieat10kittens94 Pƙed rokem +3

      Roughly at the same time police were allowed assault rifles and were given heavier weapons too, so it could be multiple factors

    • @i10i60
      @i10i60 Pƙed rokem +3

      I believe it was a sort of mix of factors, but Roe v Wade absolutely contributed to lower crime rates.

  • @MrErdbeerjoghurt
    @MrErdbeerjoghurt Pƙed rokem +311

    From a European's perspective, the US is just one giant clown show

  • @woefulmelancholy
    @woefulmelancholy Pƙed rokem +52

    Just wanted to mention that not all abortions are because of unwanted pregnancies

    • @woefulmelancholy
      @woefulmelancholy Pƙed rokem +12

      @Robert Martin I don't know. How should the state control how a women can form a family? I don't think the state should control how a woman can form a family.

    • @felicitymousey1195
      @felicitymousey1195 Pƙed rokem +1

      @woefulmelancholy agree, what some do not think of is birth control can fail and also r@pe can also happen

    • @woefulmelancholy
      @woefulmelancholy Pƙed rokem +2

      @@felicitymousey1195 also medical issues happen or financial difficulties or living in an unsafe environment, lots of reasons

    • @grovr7543
      @grovr7543 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      The vast majority of abortions are due to unwanted pregnancys. unless you are against elective abortions, why even bring this up?

  • @deannaeasy5188
    @deannaeasy5188 Pƙed rokem +173

    Everyone needs to come to terms with the fact that people who are pro-forced birth just don't care. They know the realities of the struggles these women will have to experience and they don't care. They know that this will lead to more people being stuck in poverty, they just don't care. You cannot reason with these people, no new information will matter, they have the information and they still just don't care.

    • @davidmei3702
      @davidmei3702 Pƙed rokem +9

      They do care, just more for the baby than the mother.

    • @StrawberryLaces2012
      @StrawberryLaces2012 Pƙed rokem +28

      Yes your right, I’m done talking to these people. In fact if I find out someone is pro forced birth I want nothing to do with them. They make me sick.

    • @endel12
      @endel12 Pƙed rokem +50

      @@davidmei3702 they don’t care about the baby either. These are the same people who are against stronger social welfare and aid for struggling families. They care about the *idea* of a baby. The concept of a child. But the actual kid? The actual health and growth of the baby? “Well they can always get adopted” or “the mother should have prepared for a child better” or “you just need to work harder.”

    • @i10i60
      @i10i60 Pƙed rokem +25

      @@davidmei3702 They don't care for the baby, they care for the birth.

    • @SorbusAucubaria
      @SorbusAucubaria Pƙed rokem +18

      @@davidmei3702 they don't care for the baby either because it is highly likely to end up growing poor and more likely to end up sick or dead anyway, because the mother hasn't the finance needed to take care pregnancy or the child after birth.

  • @Jprice141788
    @Jprice141788 Pƙed rokem +392

    Things i didnt even think about until this video:
    1) Mourning a life and a career without the responsibility and burden of an unwanted pregnancy/child.
    2) Being able to leave a relationship without having to consider a child/family being impacted

    • @jessicaly9245
      @jessicaly9245 Pƙed rokem +8

      Open mindeness

    • @brianag9726
      @brianag9726 Pƙed rokem +6

      Thanks for watching with an open mind! I wish more of the decision makers were like you.

    • @GG-um8ug
      @GG-um8ug Pƙed rokem

      People just dont understand the consequences of their wrongful actions

    • @Jprice141788
      @Jprice141788 Pƙed rokem +16

      @@GG-um8ug what wrongful actions are those

    • @kellharris2491
      @kellharris2491 Pƙed rokem +21

      The second one is big because women in abusive relationships are not always allowed contraception. If they are the man certainly isn't wearing a condom. And can they afford contraceptives for the woman? Even with every precaution you can't put a child up for adoption without the fathers consent. And women are unwilling and unable to leave in many cases if they have a child with the abuser. It creates a permanent connection.

  • @chef_miku
    @chef_miku Pƙed rokem +983

    Loving this season of America so far, the directors did a really great job making this show

    • @generalblack5556
      @generalblack5556 Pƙed rokem +17

      Lol funny!

    • @yichentang4021
      @yichentang4021 Pƙed rokem +206

      Have to disagree, the show is way too unrealistic. How can so many mass shootings and this abortion case and other absurdities happen so frequently anywhere in real life?

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Pƙed rokem +51

      Yeah if it was a horror story đŸ„Č

    • @sarosaroyan5042
      @sarosaroyan5042 Pƙed rokem +5

      Bahahahaha!

    • @midnightscreamer2481
      @midnightscreamer2481 Pƙed rokem +41

      @@khalilahd. American horror story

  • @Zibonnn
    @Zibonnn Pƙed rokem +221

    Fix your healthcare, America. Many of these people won't even seek abortion anymore. The medical expenses in the US are a joke to humanity!

    • @gorbachevspizzahut2809
      @gorbachevspizzahut2809 Pƙed rokem +21

      I agree, the US needs to fix itself and fast

    • @EveloGrave
      @EveloGrave Pƙed rokem +16

      If only it were that simple and quick. With the absolute power of wealthy individuals/companies it is nigh impossible.

    • @KingVermilion
      @KingVermilion Pƙed rokem +3

      I know this isn’t a very good idea, but the US needs to turn to Communism for a while, then go back to capitalism.

    • @kalliesbaker6800
      @kalliesbaker6800 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@KingVermilion Yeah and no one will like it if it happens.

    • @EfrainRiveraJunior
      @EfrainRiveraJunior Pƙed rokem +1

      Yup! America has many issues, starting with the "we're #1" fallacy.

  • @sb782
    @sb782 Pƙed rokem +393

    The US is slowly becoming a theocracy, and due to that they are going though a period that most other counties have gone though but that was atleast 300 years ago for most of Europe

    • @x-popone6817
      @x-popone6817 Pƙed rokem +28

      How is banning abortion making it a "theocracy"?

    • @shaqsoda9627
      @shaqsoda9627 Pƙed rokem +111

      What he means is that strong religious views in the US heavily influences it's legislation

    • @user-op8fg3ny3j
      @user-op8fg3ny3j Pƙed rokem +11

      @@shaqsoda9627 I don't seem to recall people complaining that religious morals were a strong influence on Human Rights?

    • @mr.goodbullet3077
      @mr.goodbullet3077 Pƙed rokem +40

      An absurd take. You can value life without religion.

    • @khalilahd.
      @khalilahd. Pƙed rokem +7

      Sad but true đŸ˜Ș

  • @dirigible806
    @dirigible806 Pƙed rokem +22

    I think Layidua Salazar at around 10:46 shines a light on one of the motivations for men who want to outlaw abortions. If she would have had a child she wouldn't have left her bad relationship. It is a way to trap women. Having a wife to bring in a second income while still taking on most of the household and childcare duties is a great deal for HIM! :(

  • @DecMurphy
    @DecMurphy Pƙed rokem +156

    Good lord it's depressing this even has to be discussed. As a brit myself I just hope the US can get back to something approaching sanity soon, the rest of the west would be relieved.

    • @mcfly2872
      @mcfly2872 Pƙed rokem +2

      You do realise that the women in this study who were denied an abortion are really close to the line in the UK? And depending on which point they went to the clinic, would have been denied in the UK too


    • @love__and__hope__
      @love__and__hope__ Pƙed rokem

      They have time to have fun but no time to work hard to become less poor. Inequality is product of different levels laziness and fun seeking among people .

    • @LoreEclectic
      @LoreEclectic Pƙed rokem +2

      We would be relived too

    • @LilacMorelli
      @LilacMorelli Pƙed rokem

      @@mcfly2872 yes but abortion is literally illegal in most places in America anyway
 you can go to jail for ‘murder’ of an unborn, undeveloped, non breathing foetus

    • @NyanyiC
      @NyanyiC Pƙed rokem +2

      ​@@TheDogGoesWoof69 it's always murder, stop comforting yourself 😕

  • @EvolLove
    @EvolLove Pƙed rokem +82

    I'm remembered of a song an Australian guy wrote about how people think kids only matter when they're not born yet. Think of it this way. If a mother is going to suffer and have a miserable life, it would be natural that their child would sustain such a life as well, maybe even worse if the mother becomes abusive because of her misery. So by denying abortion from her you have essentially ruined two lives. People talk about how the potential of the child's life would be denied if they were aborted but I don't think they've thought about the potential of the mother's life. Is that not a life?

    • @athaya2992
      @athaya2992 Pƙed rokem +18

      fr nowadays govt think a fetus life is worth more than the mother. and ppl say we have equality already 😭

    • @thecoolannishatk.
      @thecoolannishatk. Pƙed rokem +6

      Exact-a-mundo. Everything wrong in the world from mass murderers to dictators could be traced to unloving parents.

  • @user-kv1po2dm5j
    @user-kv1po2dm5j Pƙed rokem +458

    i think a huge factor in this is that fathers aren’t held accountable. it takes two to have a child. and as a man, i’m disappointed with the amount of men that don’t step up and take care of their own child. it’s cowardly and should be punished.

    • @59master60
      @59master60 Pƙed rokem +32

      Agreed

    • @valerkis8280
      @valerkis8280 Pƙed rokem +30

      Agreed. It's their job as well.

    • @MSthesmart
      @MSthesmart Pƙed rokem +13

      Factuals I feel same. Abortion isn't permanent solution

    • @mkhud50n
      @mkhud50n Pƙed rokem +15

      Maybe they are used to women having abortions to fix their “problem”.
      Women have more options than men to prevent pregnancy. Women aren’t held to account nearly enough. It takes two to tango.

    • @valerkis8280
      @valerkis8280 Pƙed rokem +38

      @@mkhud50n it really depends on the individual's body and health whether those contraceptive methods will actually work. But yes, it takes 2.

  • @nelsonth
    @nelsonth Pƙed rokem +57

    Of course. If unwanted children are not brought up in impoverished circumstances, how else will they become the future surplus blue collar labour for capitalism, and the cannon fodder aka soldiers in neo imperialist wars abroad?

  • @IOwnKazakhstan
    @IOwnKazakhstan Pƙed rokem +152

    I've seen a lot of comments saying "just don't get pregnant in the first place" or something along those lines.
    Contraceptives do NOT have a 100% success rate. You can do all your best to not be pregnant and still get pregnant.
    It's like getting mad at someone for using braces, you can do all you want to prevent crooked teeth but you can't guarantee you won't need braces.
    I personally would prefer to see 2 happy people in a secure relationship, than 3 people in an abusive, financially unstable, and rocky relationship.

    • @Untamedbeauty015
      @Untamedbeauty015 Pƙed rokem +14

      Not 100% but most forms of birth control have over 97% success rate. Truth is, many people just don’t want to use contraceptives or birth control. Not sure why but they don’t. I think before it gets to the point of needing an abortion there are many options or preventative measures that can be taken, many people just think they won’t get pregnant and ignore these preventive measures- these are the individuals who are getting majority of the abortions. Those who say no to every other method in place to protect them from unwanted pregnancy.

    • @jimbach3724
      @jimbach3724 Pƙed rokem +17

      @@Untamedbeauty015 you are 100 percent incorrect.

    • @kittykittybangbang9367
      @kittykittybangbang9367 Pƙed rokem +22

      Plus contraceptives are also really hard to access and can be very expensive. And some states are thinking about banning contraceptives.

    • @sareneve1626
      @sareneve1626 Pƙed rokem +15

      i can personally attest to the "contraceptives do not have a 100% success rate" bit. i know people personally for whom contraceptives just haven't worked, and they ended up pregnant.

    • @iROChakri
      @iROChakri Pƙed rokem

      Dont finish inside. There is always way. So ...

  • @Melissa-xo6xm
    @Melissa-xo6xm Pƙed rokem +26

    No one even talks about the affects of pregnancy imagine forcing a women to go thru an unwanted pregnancy all bc “my religion says abortion is a sin” “abortion is murder” “she needs to take accountability for her actions”, and that women gets ptsd bc of how traumatic and painful that pregnancy was on her mentally and physically, bet y’all pro lifers feel great but hey at least you saved a life huh, what about her life does that mothers life not matter to you ?

    • @Flyeaglesfly00
      @Flyeaglesfly00 Pƙed rokem

      Women are forced into pregnancy, you realize people are forced into abortion too. If not financially then through family or relationship pressure.

  • @ven7165
    @ven7165 Pƙed rokem +57

    Exactly what I was concerned about when I heard of the ban. Everyone was talking about right to life, nobody was talking about guaranteeing a good life.

    • @naz6james570
      @naz6james570 Pƙed rokem

      What?? There is never a guaranteed a good life for anyone. Good or bad life is choices and consequences. There is nothing right about ending or killing a person. I dont get it about americans, how can one side likes gun but dont like abortions, but the other side wants abortion but dont want gun?? Why always choose killing as resorts answer to any of your problems?

    • @samb.7395
      @samb.7395 Pƙed rokem

      @@naz6james570 You summed it up perfectly👌

    • @zapazap
      @zapazap Pƙed rokem +2

      Guaranteeing a good life *starts* with guaranteeing life.
      Don't hate on pediatricians because they are not involved in geriatrics.
      Cheers! :)

  • @HeyThisIsPouya
    @HeyThisIsPouya Pƙed rokem +219

    "How abortion bans make inequality worse" is the most common sense title I have read. It's taking away the right for a person to choose what happens with their body but not just anyone's body.. and issue which only effects women... so yea inequality is going to be worse.

    • @peskypigeonx
      @peskypigeonx Pƙed rokem +12

      The problem is that Americans are _really_ hard at acting in common sense so you need a very direct title

    • @NewCreationInChrist896
      @NewCreationInChrist896 Pƙed rokem +5

      No one has the right to take away an innocent life, if that's the case there would be no life.
      John 3:16-21 💝
      1 John 1:9 🙏
      "If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness."

    • @spidermantom4367
      @spidermantom4367 Pƙed rokem +36

      @@NewCreationInChrist896 Then do the Father who abandon their children and go away without any problem in his life is innocent????

    • @peskypigeonx
      @peskypigeonx Pƙed rokem +58

      @@NewCreationInChrist896 1. You’re prioritizing a clump of cells which doesn’t socialize, have complex thoughts, over an actually present woman’s health and support system, which is quite alternate to that quote
      2. Stop bringing church into state.

    • @HeyThisIsPouya
      @HeyThisIsPouya Pƙed rokem +43

      ​@@NewCreationInChrist896 ok that's your religion. you have the right to practice it. you don't HAVE to get an abortion. No one is FORCING women to have them. But taking the right to choose you are FORCING people to have kids. Whether they have been victim of assault, health risk for them or their possible baby. If you live in the United States you're protected by your first amendment rights which embodies Separation of Church and State. Your religion and beliefs shouldn't be forced on others.
      United States is a democracy not a theocracy.
      Keep your religion to yourself and practice it without imposing on others.

  • @EveloGrave
    @EveloGrave Pƙed rokem +180

    My heart aches thinking of the future and current children who were abandoned, neglected, abused, or are in the system.
    Abortion saves the lives of children. The people who are anti-abortion need to allow abortion and focus on the already numerous children who deserve to be brought into a loving family through adoption or foster care.
    Save the already birthed children.

    • @JD-yp9zr
      @JD-yp9zr Pƙed rokem +23

      How does ending the life of a baby save the child?

    • @quyha3234
      @quyha3234 Pƙed rokem +31

      @@JD-yp9zr Who gonna pay for the baby?

    • @59master60
      @59master60 Pƙed rokem

      @@JD-yp9zr the baby will suffer more if it’s alive and has no one to take care of it, it’s practically fending for itself. Abortion is basically mercy killing

    • @midwhore
      @midwhore Pƙed rokem +48

      @@JD-yp9zr it's literally better than having a lifetime of trauma.

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem +6

      @@midwhore being poor is better than being dead explain

  • @feiti5879
    @feiti5879 Pƙed rokem +101

    pro-life is a strategy that does precisely what capitalism wants: it supplies the market with desperate working-class people willing to bear minimum wages in order to sustain themselves; and high criminality rates that enrich private-owned prisons, fund the companies that supply estate prisons, and motivate the population to get attached to conservative views regarding social causes such as the prison system.

    • @Cecilia-ky3uw
      @Cecilia-ky3uw Pƙed rokem

      What do you define capitalism as?

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem +10

      The party that wants mass immigration and large amounts of women in the workforce want to tell us we are trying to create a free labor market

    • @yourdad2917
      @yourdad2917 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@thegreatprogressivemind788 lol true

    • @whydontyouhateme
      @whydontyouhateme Pƙed rokem

      Propagandist

    • @AN-sm3vj
      @AN-sm3vj Pƙed rokem +5

      @@thegreatprogressivemind788 yes because a parent that has to support a child is much more vulnerable to exploitation than a single person. Especially if that parent is also a young person with an unplanned/unwanted pregnancy. Having a child in general can take time/energy away from protesting, agitating for workers' rights and limits your capacity for risk. As in, quitting a job that is underpaying you or treating you unfairly. Or moving for a job if it's in the middle of the school year or the schools in another area are far or bad quality.

  • @thecinematicmind
    @thecinematicmind Pƙed rokem +295

    This will also affect the disabled community significantly.

    • @jjdelft3216
      @jjdelft3216 Pƙed rokem +11

      Are disabled people not able to use condoms?

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem +8

      ​@@scoob7995 you make it sound like it's better if disabled people were never born when you say they're too expensive...

    • @maximilian_k.2453
      @maximilian_k.2453 Pƙed rokem +1

      ​@@beefcupcakes5959 Every child, that can not be financially supported according to their specific needs, is better off not to be born. Logically, children with higher maintainance cost are more affected (within this paradigm) then their peers.

    • @gorbachevspizzahut2809
      @gorbachevspizzahut2809 Pƙed rokem +27

      @@scoob7995 also a possibility that genetic malformities will pass on to their children leading to even more financial burden to look after them.

    • @LilacMorelli
      @LilacMorelli Pƙed rokem +17

      @@beefcupcakes5959 if they’re too badly disabled to have a good life and the parents don’t have to money for the hospital bills then yeah it’s better

  • @katielangsner495
    @katielangsner495 Pƙed rokem +91

    I wish we could get information on the biological fathers: their finances, how long they stay in relationships, how many relationships they've had and how many of those relationships resulted in pregnancies, do they pay child support, what their occupations are and even what political parties they choose.

    • @80xdplays88
      @80xdplays88 Pƙed rokem +7

      I really don't think there politics matter if they are a good parent.

    • @kellharris2491
      @kellharris2491 Pƙed rokem +4

      It matters because some parties are for paid parental leave and assistance and some are not.

  • @cruzer0561
    @cruzer0561 Pƙed rokem +37

    If the government wants people to have children, it should enable people financially to do so. Why would you kids want to grow up in poverty and stress bc they weren’t supposed to be born. Those people will later struggle in life and end up poor or even jobless.

    • @feiti5879
      @feiti5879 Pƙed rokem +9

      criminality rates amongs those kids is also pretty high

    • @cruzer0561
      @cruzer0561 Pƙed rokem

      @Tnkrhll well if there’s a lack of fiscal money just increase taxes for people who doesn’t pay enough yet which would be rich people.

  • @purplemarsmotionpictures
    @purplemarsmotionpictures Pƙed rokem +89

    The solution to the inequality caused by giving birth is solved by providing proper maternity leave and child support, like we do in the UK and the EU. The only acceptable reason for a woman to have an abortion is that she choses to have one. No other arguments needed. No other explanation needed.

    • @unreal111
      @unreal111 Pƙed rokem +1

      US is not the EU or the UK.

    • @sonderlateka
      @sonderlateka Pƙed rokem +21

      @@unreal111 Cheesecakes are not dumplings or calzones.

    • @unreal111
      @unreal111 Pƙed rokem

      @@sonderlateka ?

    • @purplemarsmotionpictures
      @purplemarsmotionpictures Pƙed rokem +9

      @Les Toussaint well we have decades of data and public policies from the aforementioned United Kingdom and European Union. If we still feel "lost" on how to help economically disadvantaged pregnant women, then we could sneak peek at how New Zealand, Australia, or heck even Canada do it.

    • @purplemarsmotionpictures
      @purplemarsmotionpictures Pƙed rokem +3

      @Les Toussaint I've lived in the UK, Australia, America, the EU, and been to Canada. If there are any countries in the world that America can take lessons from these are it. Not China, not India, not Japan, nor Indonesia. The EU would be bigger than America if it was its own country, and the federated system in the EU is very similar to the American federal system. Besides America is a union of states, and each state is not much bigger than Canada, Australia, or New Zealand. If the EU can mandate laws and regulations for 400 million people and be this succesful, and Canada, Australia, New Zealand and Ireland can run policies for states with population of 35million - 4 million than so can America and its states.

  • @denelson83
    @denelson83 Pƙed rokem +59

    Let us make it perfectly clear. Total bans on abortion are misogynistic.

    • @athaya2992
      @athaya2992 Pƙed rokem +10

      louder for the ppl in the back !!

    • @NDB1010
      @NDB1010 Pƙed rokem

      I mean no they are separate things. But one can lead to the other

    • @tarag7292
      @tarag7292 Pƙed rokem

      I agree. They are misogynistic. This is all about controlling women's bodies. And no one believes that, then why isn't that fetuses growing in science labs are not getting the same strident protest against that that equals to women wanting an abortion? People will say it's about "the murder of children," but it never really was about that. It is, underneath it all, about controlling what women do with their bodies.

    • @michaelryan3960
      @michaelryan3960 Pƙed 6 měsĂ­ci

      What?

    • @grovr7543
      @grovr7543 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      yeah, I was waiting for this comment lol. The evil men trying to control women, classic. Apparently banning the killing of your child is misogynistic smh.

  • @OBIIIIIIIII
    @OBIIIIIIIII Pƙed rokem +113

    You could also do a video on the drop off of crime 18 years after roe v Wade. I wonder if this will reverse in 18 years in the future

    • @baby19981997
      @baby19981997 Pƙed rokem +16

      @@rickybobby7276 what graph are you looking at? Crime has been decreasing for decades. The overall trend has been lowered consistently

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem +1

      Crime is going back up because of the defend the police movement, isn't it?

    • @davidalearmonth
      @davidalearmonth Pƙed rokem +9

      @@beefcupcakes5959 You must watch Fox "News". Lol

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@davidalearmonth Actually I listen to Reuters
      And if you can provide data on left leaning cities that have lower crime rates since 2020, that would be great! I want to stay informed

    • @davidalearmonth
      @davidalearmonth Pƙed rokem

      @@beefcupcakes5959 There have been protests, and rightly so, after so many police killing innocent people.
      But most violence and mass shootings I'm aware of tend to be from Right Wing individuals and groups.

  • @Writing-tu6jc
    @Writing-tu6jc Pƙed rokem +72

    Being pregnant is a commitment in itself. You are sick most the time and it is exhausting. I’m 20 and pregnant and it was unplanned. I thought about abortion and made the appointment but the entire time wanted to keep it. So I’m keeping it. I have a choice and I’m sick of people telling woman they need to do.

    • @madmouse4400
      @madmouse4400 Pƙed rokem +6

      So do you agree , that if a man isn't ready to be father , doesn't have a good financial situation or simply doesn't want to be a father , he should be able to opt out of parenthood the Same way women do and should not being looked for child support if a pregnancy occurres?

    • @hannahspencer9857
      @hannahspencer9857 Pƙed rokem +18

      @@madmouse4400 abortion is opting out of pregnancy, which is different than opting out of parenthood. If the woman gives birth to the baby and decides she wants to give it up for adoption but the father objects then she has to give the baby to the father and pay him child support.

    • @hello-xf5ow
      @hello-xf5ow Pƙed rokem +4

      Abort it sis
      It's just a cell less lively than an insect itself

    • @manjulachamala9224
      @manjulachamala9224 Pƙed rokem +4

      @@hello-xf5ow how sick are u

    • @BrandonMunsonakaMrYoutuber
      @BrandonMunsonakaMrYoutuber Pƙed rokem

      @@madmouse4400 women only want these laws to benefit them , they don't care about their health or the baby , they just selfish

  • @SchgurmTewehr
    @SchgurmTewehr Pƙed rokem +94

    Completely hypothetically, if men could become pregnant, I don’t think the right to abortion had ever been abolished. That is to say that this seems like a part of a bigger crackdown on reproductive and especially woman’s rights. I feel so sad for American women whenever I read or watch something about Roe v Wade. Honestly, I think you (women in the US) should all move out of your country or your state, at least be prepared for that.

    • @LutraLovegood
      @LutraLovegood Pƙed rokem +13

      Interesting how it seems to hurt a certain portion of women more than others, if I was one to theorize you could even say it was intended.

    • @louisratatoulielinson
      @louisratatoulielinson Pƙed rokem +18

      I just want to add that abortion is totally illegal in Philippines. Its sad. Just look at the overpopulation here and teenage pregnancies mostly coming from poverty areas

    • @nicokelly6453
      @nicokelly6453 Pƙed rokem +2

      Some men can get pregnant, it’s just rare (some intersex and trans men). But it’s hard to tell how things would be different if more men in power could get pregnant. Certainly, misogyny has had a big effect on this whole issue, in both the legal and the social sides.

    • @sbhatakolom
      @sbhatakolom Pƙed rokem

      Are you okay? Their main argument is for babies. Not women.

    • @purplerain5910
      @purplerain5910 Pƙed rokem +2

      I am for sure. Right now I live in state where abortion is allowed but for how long is the question it can change every time an elected officials deems otherwise. I work in healthcare and I will take my money with me to a state that allows choices for women if need be.

  • @omarabdali979
    @omarabdali979 Pƙed rokem +229

    which is sadder?: that we feel the need to conduct studies to figure out that women should have rights or that empirical facts don't matter to conservatives anyway đŸ€”đŸ€Ź

    • @Munchausenification
      @Munchausenification Pƙed rokem +9

      I dont get why its sad to do a study on the matter? More informed we are the better.

    • @samuraijosh1595
      @samuraijosh1595 Pƙed rokem +6

      It's actually a good thing to empirically confirm something before we kickstart a policy program blindly to appease women or any other demographic.
      Nothing about it is sad.

    • @Lone-Lee
      @Lone-Lee Pƙed rokem +1

      Replace _"conservatives"_ with _"liberals"._ They're the ones who deny the fact that abor-tion is mur der and that fetus is a human being.

    • @grmpEqweer
      @grmpEqweer Pƙed rokem

      Yes.

    • @grmpEqweer
      @grmpEqweer Pƙed rokem +24

      @@samuraijosh1595
      We appease Christians and right-wingers often. This usually causes suffering.
      I guess they approve of suffering.

  • @SD-tj5dh
    @SD-tj5dh Pƙed rokem +76

    If motherhood was adequately subsidised by the government pregnancy wouldn't be a life destroying ordeal.
    Also if medical care was a right and not a privilege you could plan things better.
    Either way the US way of dealing with pregnancy and children is horrific. Forcing women to have children and not supporting them is punishing the children for existing. That's going to have a huge knock-on effect generations from now.

    • @BrianGuilfoos
      @BrianGuilfoos Pƙed rokem +17

      I think many women might well choose to carry unexpected pregnancies to term if we actually had a good social safety net.

    • @mkhud50n
      @mkhud50n Pƙed rokem

      Then it would be the governments child. The government would act like the father. Like Hitler in Germany. Way to repeat history without realizing it.

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem

      When did we force them to have children?

    • @Brad14397
      @Brad14397 Pƙed rokem +7

      I agree that US mothers need more of a support network. However, we should also recognize that pregnancy in itself is a life threatening health issue with many lasting impacts. No amount of safety net can take that away. Abortion access is at least offering them to engage consensually with that risk, but it's still there

    • @mkhud50n
      @mkhud50n Pƙed rokem

      @@Brad14397 pregnancy is also a life giving health issue. Depending on how you look at it. It is called being born after all. Risks are a part of life and we wouldn’t get anywhere without taking a risks. Or being born. There are no guarantees in life. Nobody is born into a perfect risk free world.

  • @MossMothMyBeloved
    @MossMothMyBeloved Pƙed rokem +13

    It's like the anti-choice ppl come to the video and don't even watch it and go to every comment saying "Still killing a baby tho"

    • @existing3628
      @existing3628 Pƙed rokem +3

      Still is murder

    • @freethegays
      @freethegays Pƙed rokem +1

      Because that's their entire argument. They see an egg, embryo and fetus as the exact same as a 5 year old child. Their entire argument is based off of their emotions, not philosophy, not ethics, not science, not sociology, nothing, just "YOU'RE KILLING A BABY".

    • @callingnaevis
      @callingnaevis Pƙed rokem

      @@existing3628 oh how very pro life of you. do remember to think about how you're unintentionally murdering plants and animals the next time you eat food.

    • @tarag7292
      @tarag7292 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@existing3628 No it is not. A person has to have been born for it to be murder. But I get it. Words are hard.

    • @existing3628
      @existing3628 Pƙed rokem

      @@tarag7292 I like your passive aggressiveness. Anyways, why is it murder if a person kicks a pregnant woman's belly and the 'parasite' dies?

  • @dingdud6602
    @dingdud6602 Pƙed rokem +38

    I worry this is going to result in a lot of abandoned babies on the doorsteps of adoption centers because people can’t afford taking care of them but they can’t afford the abortion either and they’ll be shamed for putting their children up for adoption and get a black mark on their papers for being “unfit parents”.
    I remember learning about society in the past punishing young women for abandoning their babies because they couldn’t take care of them yet not even questioning the fathers. I thought “Good thing it’s not like that anymore” Well


    • @jasonm2245
      @jasonm2245 Pƙed rokem +2

      Or it can result in people being more responsible and taking accountability

    • @tihana13
      @tihana13 Pƙed rokem +3

      @@jasonm2245 Wishful thinking... I am highly sceptical of that happening any time in the near or maybe even distant future...

    • @dingdud6602
      @dingdud6602 Pƙed rokem +5

      @@jasonm2245 I live in a country where abortion is not only legal but also paid for by the government so if people wanted they could get an abortion every month yet the number of people who get abortions are lower than the US per capita. Legal abortions are definitely not the problem.

  • @AmyDentata
    @AmyDentata Pƙed rokem +148

    And of course, inequality isn't a "side-effect." It's the intent.

    • @scose
      @scose Pƙed rokem +15

      gotta keep that cheap labor force

    • @kqatsi
      @kqatsi Pƙed rokem +9

      It's a feature, not a bug.

    • @69BTony
      @69BTony Pƙed rokem

      it is a made up thing

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@scose the people who supported mass immigration and women in the workforce are talking about us wanting a cheap labor force

    • @hetvisampat
      @hetvisampat Pƙed rokem

      Exactly

  • @mellowtron214
    @mellowtron214 Pƙed rokem +11

    Seems a bit convoluted all to say the very obvious, having an unplanned child is socially, economically, and mentally difficult.
    I never needed a study to know that, and I think abortion access is a basic human right.

    • @kamala7101
      @kamala7101 Pƙed rokem +1

      A human right to end another human life?

    • @serendipity9649
      @serendipity9649 Pƙed rokem +8

      @@kamala7101 Then why don't they mandate organ donation, so lives can be saved?

  • @jaydubbya5479
    @jaydubbya5479 Pƙed rokem +7

    As with every pro-abortion argument, this video is rife with denial and obfuscation. The issue is very simple and boils down to this: in 99% of pregnancies, no one was forced into pregnancy. In this day and age of cheap and easy contraception, there is simply no legitimacy behind the idea of an “unwanted pregnancy“. If you don’t want to get pregnant then don’t. The entire premise of this video talks about the egregious results of abortions for “unwanted pregnancies”. How about trying this: don’t get pregnant if you don’t want to have a baby? Problem solved!

  • @hongkaipun1204
    @hongkaipun1204 Pƙed rokem +65

    Unless women communities can have an affordable childcare which ensures both children and parents have a life. I can see why so many Americans wanted an abortion in the first place

    • @danielcooney1840
      @danielcooney1840 Pƙed rokem

      You are 100% correct.

    • @59master60
      @59master60 Pƙed rokem +6

      Exactly, there’s no point in having a child if you aren’t in a stabled position to take care of one.
      Horses commit abortion because they know that their babies will be in danger of the prideful males that kick them to death. The point is that horses use logistics, and that we should do the same.

    • @icreatehobbies8025
      @icreatehobbies8025 Pƙed rokem

      Our country has a lot to do....

  • @sandramorey2529
    @sandramorey2529 Pƙed rokem +39

    I had my abortion in 1964 when it was totally illegal. I am so grateful to the doctor who performed it. I have no guilt and am happily married with 2 wonderful stepdaughters. No regrets.

  • @xmgBv
    @xmgBv Pƙed rokem +93

    I feel blessed to live in a country where abortion is not only fully legal, but also paid for over the tax. Further more, tax-paid support for those in need after the abortion.
    I feel for the women in the US and wish them the best.

    • @69BTony
      @69BTony Pƙed rokem

      China?

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem

      When is the cut off week for an abortion in your country? In the US some states have it up until the delivery, and many have it around 20 weeks.

    • @RTMonitor
      @RTMonitor Pƙed rokem +6

      @@69BTony there's a difference between abortion that let's people get abortions and people who are enforced with abortion. Enforced abortion is bad because it's enforced. Letting people who are not enforced but still want an abortion is good because it's not enforced. And at the same time, they still get the treatment.

    • @kittykittybangbang9367
      @kittykittybangbang9367 Pƙed rokem +3

      What country do you live?

    • @xmgBv
      @xmgBv Pƙed rokem +6

      @@kittykittybangbang9367 Denmark :)

  • @willosotherworld7109
    @willosotherworld7109 Pƙed rokem +74

    I read up about this study before and how women who get abortions are happier about it than women who are forced to have a child. In hindsight, the women who were turned down could have put the babies up for adoption, but I understand that they could have been or felt forced to care for the baby.
    It’s sad to see this. America has a lot of problems that aren’t getting fixed. In fact, they’re getting worse.

    • @NateLevin
      @NateLevin Pƙed rokem +46

      The adoption system has many horror stories. Not exactly a great place to send kids.

    • @SN-sz7kw
      @SN-sz7kw Pƙed rokem +32

      I am an adoptee fed up with the glib suggestion that adoption is an easy solution. It is not. It is traumatic for both mother and newborn. Recent studies on “primal injury” reveal the intense trauma resulting from separating a newborn from the only body it has known for 9 mos and is engineered to crave. A high percentage of addicts & psych patients are adoptees. My own biological mother never recovered from losing me & took her own life at age 27. Stop using my community as your standard bearer - I would never have denied my own mother the option of a safe abortion. And I wouldn’t be here to care if she’d had one.

    • @epicman004
      @epicman004 Pƙed rokem +2

      @@SN-sz7kw You say you don’t care if your mother aborted you yet I see you save videos about how to keep a healthy lifestyle on your channel. For someone who says they don’t care if they never existed you sure seem to care about life now.

    • @69BTony
      @69BTony Pƙed rokem

      This study like many others, "Filters" stats, such as "many women that wanted to have abortions but didn't wished they would have", that filters out women that didn't want to have abortions, that filters out women that had abortions and wished the would not have. They often filter down a stat so it fits the narative.

    • @willosotherworld7109
      @willosotherworld7109 Pƙed rokem +2

      @Tony Boggs That’s inevitable, but many studies only focus on specific groups and conditions to find certain data. There’s no way that EVERY SINGLE consideration on the topic of a study. This study focuses on people who genuinely wanted abortions, and the effects it had on their lives depending on the outcome of their attempt.

  • @SarahSmith-ff6yy
    @SarahSmith-ff6yy Pƙed rokem +58

    As someone who has adopted two children as babies, I would be interested to see a study like this done for women who place their child for adoption vs. keeping the baby.

    • @silvernblack21
      @silvernblack21 Pƙed rokem +8

      Adoption is a huge industry, how much did you pay for your adopted children? I'd rather my tax dollars go to the birth mothers so they can raise their own babies without being destitute, instead of giving the money to adoptive parents as subsidies. Abortion is preferable to adoption for most, no telling how many children are abused after the adoption.

    • @scottcharney1091
      @scottcharney1091 Pƙed rokem

      Note that very few women do that, including in situations like this. Have you thought about why?

    • @phantom5731
      @phantom5731 Pƙed rokem

      Does seem kinda interesting

    • @grovr7543
      @grovr7543 Pƙed měsĂ­cem

      @@silvernblack21 How about all of the children killed in abortion? Call me old fashioned, but I think Id rather see the government subsidize adoptive parents than the slaughter of the unborn.

  • @lani4president
    @lani4president Pƙed rokem +73

    I sure do hope I will never have to get an abortion (I'm 20) but even just the thought of not having the ability to if I needed to is extremely upsetting. Luckily I live in Belgium and don't ever see that right being taken away from me. But it's still baffling that this is a thing elsewhere in the world which calls themselves first world.

    • @pinkfreud62
      @pinkfreud62 Pƙed rokem +2

      Poland has no rights, either. But even in the states, there are states that allow it and in my state, up to 6 weeks. So you can't lump all of the U.S. in one state.

    • @ThinBear4
      @ThinBear4 Pƙed rokem +16

      @@pinkfreud62 In Poland, the law is so atrociously bad that it's straight up *dangerous* to be pregnant here at all, even if you genuinely *want* to have a baby. There were cases where women were killed by a life-threatening pregnancy. In one such case that I'm aware of, doctors refused to perform an abortion (out of fear of being persecuted) to a woman already in a serious condition, and opted to wait for a miscarriage to occur. The woman died of sepsis before the miscarriage happened.

    • @StrawberryLaces2012
      @StrawberryLaces2012 Pƙed rokem

      @@ThinBear4 I’m just so sorry. I’m from the UK but is there any way I can support women in Poland? X

    • @ThinBear4
      @ThinBear4 Pƙed rokem

      @@StrawberryLaces2012 Personally, considering the draconian state of matters regarding this problem in this country, I am not sure if there are any initiatives that can be realistically supported.
      I've tried several times to provide you with a link to a website I found, or directions on how to find it in google, but my response seems to be blocked by youtube censorship... @EDIT: this should go through - remove the B letters: enB.fBedBerBa.oBrgB.Bpl
      It seems to be a decent knowledgebase on this problem in Poland, as well as organizations involved. *Note: I found this site off google - though it looks safe, I have zero knowledge on how much legitimate it actually is.*
      Btw, looking at some of the articles, you can tell just how messed up our situation is in this context.
      In any case, huge thanks for your willingness to support my people.

    • @Flyeaglesfly00
      @Flyeaglesfly00 Pƙed rokem

      Nobody talks about the men who force women into abortion, I guess as long as the abortion can and will go down half the people will look the other way.

  • @rn6312
    @rn6312 Pƙed rokem +31

    Like conservatives care about equality. Inequality is their middle name.

    • @xtopia9758
      @xtopia9758 Pƙed rokem

      What’s their forenames and surnames name?

    • @annroousivakumar2819
      @annroousivakumar2819 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

      The liberal policy of hiring based on race, IS DEFINETLY a form of Inequality.

  • @kevinsalvadortamkin3045
    @kevinsalvadortamkin3045 Pƙed rokem +26

    Coming from a deeply religious country, it is infuriating that people will always bring up their beliefs to justify banning abortion outright.
    One does not have autonomy of women's bodies just because his/her beliefs say otherwise. Also stop shoving down what one believes to other people!

    • @natarshagunter
      @natarshagunter Pƙed rokem +2

      thank you! the pro-life (pro-birth) movement is built on religious ideologies, and when it's basis is opinion, it's impossible to view most of it with any credibility

    • @rodster811
      @rodster811 Pƙed rokem

      @@natarshagunter The pro-choice movement is a eugenics ideology

  • @JK_JK_JK
    @JK_JK_JK Pƙed rokem +7

    My body, my choice...for anything related to Covid-19, right!

    • @mathildeyoung1823
      @mathildeyoung1823 Pƙed rokem +1

      Not getting a flu, pneumonia or covid vaccine isn't intentionally killing someone. Abortion however is the intentional killing of a human being. That's why abortion needs to be illegal.

  • @brianag9726
    @brianag9726 Pƙed rokem +46

    Great study and some commenters have raised some questions for future study:
    1) What percentage of men disagree with the decision the mother of that pregnancy makes? 2) For the men who wanted the pregnancy continued, how many were willing to raise the child on their own? 3). How many men who create an unwanted pregnancy are in that situation more than once? Maybe some of these questions have already been answered in another survey or study

    If birth control was free, would the number of unwanted pregnancies be reduced? If abortion care was free and legal, would child poverty be reduced? Would children’s mental health improve? If child care was free, would more pregnancies be wanted? This study points to many of the answers.

    • @elplaceholder
      @elplaceholder Pƙed rokem

      Birth control costs money? In chilean hospitals you can get free condoms lol

    • @t_do927
      @t_do927 Pƙed 8 měsĂ­ci

      Abstinence is free

  • @palakjain406
    @palakjain406 Pƙed rokem +18

    Sometimes I feel like US is not a country but just a capitalistic market.

    • @SN-sz7kw
      @SN-sz7kw Pƙed rokem

      You would be correct.

    • @belg4mit
      @belg4mit Pƙed rokem

      That's not a particularly profound insight, nor germane to this subject. Clearly there is a demand for this service, and there are suppliers. This is a case where conservatives that claim to be anti-regulation (but seem to actually only be against regulations that don't benefit them), are interceding in the market... to the detriment of all.

  • @jazz_w
    @jazz_w Pƙed rokem +10

    Don't you have laws that punish the father if he don't give financial support for his child?

    • @patriciagootgeld9273
      @patriciagootgeld9273 Pƙed rokem +4

      What planet are you from?

    • @thairinkhudr4259
      @thairinkhudr4259 Pƙed rokem +2

      I thought so too. Not from the US btw.

    • @Samantha_yyz
      @Samantha_yyz Pƙed rokem +2

      There are, but the system that operates that is stretched too thin to manage everything it needs to.
      Just like child protective services is too low staff to properly monitor foster parents all over the country

    • @purplerain5910
      @purplerain5910 Pƙed rokem +2

      Yeah a slap on the wrist maybe my child's father hasn't paid in yrs and nothing ever happens to him. He hasn't spent one day in jail. He also has several other children he doesn't pay for with any of the mothers and hasn't had one day in jail from any of the thousands he owes all of us.

  • @cheesybits834
    @cheesybits834 Pƙed rokem +9

    If the women have to give birth, then give us good paid maternity leave and affordable daycare!

    • @bucket6386
      @bucket6386 Pƙed rokem +4

      but that's the thing
      they don't actually care about life, if they actually cared about life they would actually help mothers

  • @Brownyman
    @Brownyman Pƙed rokem +78

    SCOTUS: Overturns Roe v Wade
    Baby formula shortage, Global food crisis, Looming economic collapse: I’m about to perform what’s called a “5th trimester abortion”

    • @tihana13
      @tihana13 Pƙed rokem +1

      Killing a 6 month old child?

    • @hetvisampat
      @hetvisampat Pƙed rokem +1

      @@tihana13 yes. Not a child a fetus.

    • @tihana13
      @tihana13 Pƙed rokem

      @@hetvisampat Actually no. Here it is not a fetus. Because 5th trimester doesn't exist in terms of pregnancy. There are 3 trimesters during pregnancy. So this looked like a word pun, where she is already a mother of a 6 month old child. One trimester means a 3 month period. So three trimesters in pregnancy equal 9 months. So the 4th and the 5th trimester would have to be after birth. Which means there is a 6 month old baby. Born. Not a fetus.

  • @Little-bird-told-me
    @Little-bird-told-me Pƙed rokem +12

    US was supposed to be a progressive nation and so called developed. Even poor Bangladesh or India don't have such draconian rules lol.

  • @crw662
    @crw662 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +3

    This doesn’t actually mean much if we recognize that the fetus is by all scientific standards a human life. We shouldn’t get to take the life of one group of people to help another group of people.

  • @houseplant1016
    @houseplant1016 Pƙed rokem +36

    Just send all the unwanted babies to the Supreme court judges

    • @epicman004
      @epicman004 Pƙed rokem

      Send all the refugees and undocumented immigrants to your house.

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem

      @Robert Martin are males truly free when the state decides how much money they have to spend on there children

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem

      @@eirlies oh I understand I was just point out the illogical argument made by Robert Martin

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem

      @Robert Martin no the point I was trying to make was the government was not being unfair to males or females

    • @thegreatprogressivemind788
      @thegreatprogressivemind788 Pƙed rokem

      @Robert Martin because Without a system like this the rate of single parentage would increase as well which we know to make a person more likely to commit crimes and the government never forced anyone to have kids they simply barred abortion

  • @NeedANewName
    @NeedANewName Pƙed rokem +31

    This is just so sad and even when you look at the three most common reasons. They are all valid reasons to have an abortion but you shouldn't even need to have a reason if you don't want it. It's that simple

  • @thepunpolice7932
    @thepunpolice7932 Pƙed rokem +8

    Aren’t there pregnancies that can cause death?

    • @user-rc2yf8kt7i
      @user-rc2yf8kt7i Pƙed 4 měsĂ­ci

      All pregnancies can cause death. It used to be the leading cause of women dying.

  • @zoettesy9676
    @zoettesy9676 Pƙed rokem +12

    Parenting a child is a big project. If you’re forced to have a child, the child is likely to be born into a bad circumstances. Mentally unstable mothers, bad finances, familial arguments.

  • @johnversosas8298
    @johnversosas8298 Pƙed rokem +52

    I think the US should pass a law penalizing irresponsible fathers that probably led to this problem.

    • @69BTony
      @69BTony Pƙed rokem +2

      His Baby His Choice, his responsibility, only if they want him to pay, otherwise he has no say.

    • @casesater
      @casesater Pƙed rokem +1

      @LT yep

    • @madmouse4400
      @madmouse4400 Pƙed rokem

      It's already exists , it called"child support" and it should be banned as long as abortion is legal.
      Her body her choice her PROBLEM.

  • @shawneevee7490
    @shawneevee7490 Pƙed rokem +4

    Why aren’t we making contraception free? Why isn’t healthcare available to everyone?

  • @serendipity9defined
    @serendipity9defined Pƙed rokem +20

    Denying abortions also increases violent crime 20 years later because of the deprived children.

    • @69BTony
      @69BTony Pƙed rokem

      Blow jobs stops Abortions, it begins with you

  • @gabeerwin4300
    @gabeerwin4300 Pƙed rokem +31

    I like that they included small points where she talks to the camera at the desk. It feels more personal alongside all the beautiful visual data visualizations. You guys are the best!

  • @petitthom2886
    @petitthom2886 Pƙed rokem +110

    Most European countries have had this issue settled for decades and it’s never (or very rarely) a part of the public debate

    • @andreas4010
      @andreas4010 Pƙed rokem +26

      Cough cough* poland, malta, Germany makes it pretty hard to get as well

    • @petitthom2886
      @petitthom2886 Pƙed rokem +24

      I said *most*, it’s a hot issue in some Eastern European countries

    • @shaqsoda9627
      @shaqsoda9627 Pƙed rokem +8

      Also Ireland only very recently and it's still not sorted

    • @leow3244
      @leow3244 Pƙed rokem +2

      Having it as a public debate is not a bad thing

    • @gladitsnotme
      @gladitsnotme Pƙed rokem +4

      Receipts? Eastern bloc countries and developed countries like Ireland are debatable, where's your list? I wanna see sumn.

  • @KJSvitko
    @KJSvitko Pƙed rokem +23

    Population needs to be in balance with jobs, resources, nature and the environment. Having a bigger population in any country than the country can support makes no sense. Access to food, water, shelter, energy and jobs should guide population levels. The worlds population is still expected to add another billion people to feed, clothe and produce pollution. Humans are crowding out all other species of plants and animals. Education and birth control are key to reducing poverty and hunger. Having a child that you can not provide for yourself is cruel and irresponsible. We need solutions not just sympathy. Endless population growth is not sustainable on a finite planet. Every country needs to "TRY" to be more self sufficient. When there are not enough resources to sustain a population something has to give. Countries need to focus on quality of life for their citizens and not just quantity of life for cheap labor.

    • @KJSvitko
      @KJSvitko Pƙed rokem +2

      @@user-sb8ks1ij7b Having a child that you can not provide for is cruel and irresponsible.

    • @vacafuega
      @vacafuega Pƙed rokem

      Yes. In the past population has been contained by natural factors but as those become ineffective due to medical evolutions, it falls to us to manage our own population levels in a sustainable way.

  • @sammynovak9983
    @sammynovak9983 Pƙed rokem +14

    If one group isn't given the chance to abort, then the other group responsible for it should also be forced to adopt or you know just support one 🙃

    • @kevinajjenkins
      @kevinajjenkins Pƙed rokem

      There are rules in adopting in this country that don't allow white families to adopt other than white babies. People are trying to adopt, they won't let them. Unfortunately, reality isn't the show Modern Family.

  • @jkbrownf
    @jkbrownf Pƙed rokem +4

    Everybody should see this video. It so accurately shows the emotions and likely outcomes that so many anti-abortion folks never understand or care to learn. I watched this with my conservative father and he was finally willing to share that he believes what I do when it comes to reproductive rights and personal freedom.
    Great reporting Vox.

  • @CaraMarie13
    @CaraMarie13 Pƙed rokem +53

    My mother had initially thought about terminating her pregnancy when she was pregnant with me. It causes me absolutely no resentment in me towards her. She was in college when she got pregnant with me and if it hadn't been for the fact that my mother has that kind of mentality we see in high level athletes, she would have ended up leaving school and moving back in with our family. She had to send me to live with our family when i was around two and she went on to finish school and start her career. Am seven years older than my next sibling. By the time she had my brother she was in a much better place financially and able to afford a babysitter so my brother could stay with her. She had her third and last child when I was 11 and this one was another unplanned pregnancy. By now we've had already been living in this country and the difference was huge. We were cut off from the large support system we had in our native county and this is how I developed a way too high understanding of the day care issue in this country by the time I was 12. My mother had just started as a home health aide worker so she as at the bottom of the barrel and making minimum wage so she obviously could not afford a high quality day care. She had to pay our next door neighbor to care for my younger brother and to keep an eye on me and my other brother. This was a great women but i would absolutely never ask her to care for any of my children. She raised my brother like she raised her own children and this has caused a lot of arguments now in our family because this brother is completely unmotivated and lacks any direction. I know that the generations get "softer" as they go down the line when when they grow up in a more secured environment and you can absolutely see it in our family. I love my brother to death. He is literally my favorite person in the world but I am extremely worried about having to provide for him under the day i drop dead because right now i just don't him finding a drive to succeed. Like i am ashamed to say that i now emphasize with people who use their connections to get their kids internships and jobs and have every intention of doing the same for my brother. Like anything to see him move forward in life.

    • @JDsGameInn
      @JDsGameInn Pƙed rokem +1

      Take him to church, worked for me

    • @CaraMarie13
      @CaraMarie13 Pƙed rokem +22

      @@JDsGameInn hard pass

    • @LoreEclectic
      @LoreEclectic Pƙed rokem +11

      Your mother was lucky to have parents who could care for you and a neighbor who was willing to babysit, not everyone has that kind of support. And for your brother it's easy to worry because you're older and you want to see him succeed. Help him find something he's passionate about and help him get the resources to pursue it

    • @whydontyouhateme
      @whydontyouhateme Pƙed rokem

      She thiught about killing you, not about terminating anything.

    • @JDsGameInn
      @JDsGameInn Pƙed rokem +1

      @@whydontyouhateme Yes! but there is an abundant overflow of forgiveness available to anyone who calls on the name of the Lord. For any sin, big or small. Including murder!

  • @sean_king
    @sean_king Pƙed rokem +5

    Make clarence thomas pay for child support!

    • @existing3628
      @existing3628 Pƙed rokem

      He is black, I though u guys liked him

    • @user-xz4du3es5p
      @user-xz4du3es5p Pƙed rokem +4

      @@existing3628 nope. We judge people by the content of their character, not the colour of their skin.

    • @existing3628
      @existing3628 Pƙed rokem

      @@user-xz4du3es5p then why do u single him out?

  • @nguday2003
    @nguday2003 Pƙed rokem +4

    Such a thorough piece of investigation. Thanks. It really breaks down a lot of questions I had.

  • @MatveyAndreyev
    @MatveyAndreyev Pƙed rokem +16

    economic cost of having a baby is huge. think about spending 20 years of savings in two years, never buying stuff for yourself anymore, and this is not even close to enough.

  • @newgoliard6059
    @newgoliard6059 Pƙed rokem +17

    Kids will make you poor or keep you poor. I have a masters and I still can't afford them.

  • @nspencer257
    @nspencer257 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +1

    So many thoughts.. I don't even know how to boil them down. I think it's absolutely tragic that we have created a society where we have to convince ourselves that abortion isn't murder in order to help people to not suffer. Where did all of this go wrong?

  • @DPowered2
    @DPowered2 Pƙed rokem +16

    Men getting to just leave is what makes this even worse because it's just the burden of the women even though it takes two to make a baby

    • @Ekis_bokis_siris_ekis
      @Ekis_bokis_siris_ekis Pƙed rokem

      Women have the right to opt out too though? Parenting is a two person job. So if either party isnt able or willing to do the job, then both parties should have the right to opt out.

  • @wednesdayschild3627
    @wednesdayschild3627 Pƙed rokem +5

    This issue is not in the constitution. If you want it there in the constitution, make an amendment to the constitution.

  • @schwarzwolfram7925
    @schwarzwolfram7925 Pƙed rokem +3

    Incoming wall of text:
    The primary benefit of procreation is to spread genetic code. There are other obvious benefits, but this one is why most people don’t adopt even though it is cheaper (compared to medical bills), there are plenty of candidates in need of a good home, and you don’t have to deal with a pregnancy altogether. This spreading does not include only immediate offspring, but their offspring as well and so on. Allowing someone to wait until they are ready to raise a child properly will result in a better spread of genes in the long run and overall, higher happiness. Restricting this choice and forcing one to prematurely care for a child at the wrong time will likely stagnate the genetic spreading and can be considered an act of “genetic cleansing”, or put more bluntly, “soft-core poverty genocide”. Because of all of this, it’s no surprise that an overwhelming majority of those who oppose abortion rights are already well-off economically.

  • @armin66
    @armin66 Pƙed rokem +35

    Another day to thanks god for not being American or living in America

    • @erict3032
      @erict3032 Pƙed rokem +5

      Good stay away

    • @sashafarber617
      @sashafarber617 Pƙed rokem +2

      I wish I could say the same.

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem +1

      Just curious, what are the abortion laws like in your country? In America some states allow abortions up until birth. Some born alive babies are killed in abortion clinics.

    • @vedantbhalla2571
      @vedantbhalla2571 Pƙed rokem

      @@beefcupcakes5959 the killing of babies out of the womb just seems wrong to me

    • @beefcupcakes5959
      @beefcupcakes5959 Pƙed rokem

      @@vedantbhalla2571 morally wrong or factually wrong? The Legacy of Roe is a really for documentary to watch on the subject. (Yes its from the Daily Wire but it has really good information that everyone should know)

  • @scooterelway9191
    @scooterelway9191 Pƙed rokem +22

    i can't believe you need a video for people to understand that... its sad.

    • @themexis
      @themexis Pƙed rokem +2

      it is more sad that this video will change no one's mind.

    • @Zoe-tj4ld
      @Zoe-tj4ld Pƙed rokem +3

      its even worse because ive seen plently of comments from pro-lifers

  • @KJSvitko
    @KJSvitko Pƙed rokem +28

    Education and birth control are key to reducing poverty and hunger.
    Having a child that you can not provide for is cruel and irresponsible.
    Men need to be more responsible or get a vasectomy.

  • @kqatsi
    @kqatsi Pƙed rokem +6

    Anti-choice people: "Good."

  • @yungroyalty6433
    @yungroyalty6433 Pƙed rokem +5

    You know what I find weird.. this second time I went to get my depo shot the nurse and doctor asked if I had an abortion which happened 6 years ago. I said no cause I wasn’t trying to think about that time in my life but I felt uncomfortable with that question. It must have just appeared in my medical records cause my first depo shot 3 months ago no one asked me that.

    • @harrybelelopoulos31
      @harrybelelopoulos31 Pƙed rokem

      nice to see ladies getting ready the proper way to be used and reused.
      keep it up baby !!!

    • @vacafuega
      @vacafuega Pƙed rokem

      That's weird. There doesn't seem to be any valid reason why they would ask that

    • @yungroyalty6433
      @yungroyalty6433 Pƙed rokem +1

      @@vacafuega right it felt really invasive and had nothing to do with my depo shot cause I’m not pregnant. Here in Florida abortions are still legal. The nurse asked my name trying to make sure she was looking at the right medical record.

  • @silverXnoise
    @silverXnoise Pƙed rokem +8

    That’s not a bug, it’s a “feature”.

  • @jctew1
    @jctew1 Pƙed rokem +5

    Thank you for addressing this subject.

  • @SDDaniela_S
    @SDDaniela_S Pƙed rokem +2

    This video gave a deep look into what it means to have an abortion and along with the consequences that being denied an abortion looks like. It was eye-opening to the inequality that exists even when it comes to abortion. As women, who are more financially stable and have a greater support group back home are the ones who have greater means to get an abortion through having the money, resources, and support to do so. However, women who do not have the financial means or the support of love are the ones that do not get an abortion if it is because of money resources, or the support of those around them. Due to this, these women are the ones who get conner and have no other option than to have the baby even when they are not in a place to be able to take care of a child. For many of these women they are barely making ends meet as it is and if the women already have children to care of then the arrival of an unplanned baby makes the financial burden on the family even bigger this would affect the children that are already there as their already limited resources will be more reduce to be able to care for the baby. Individuals that were struggling or barely getting by before a baby when abortion was denied and left having the baby and so things just get ten times harder for them and everyone involved pushing many to the poverty line or even stay therefore even longer if they were there even before the abortion was denied. This report was very helpful in trying to help see the side of the story of certain women who are having a double struggle when it comes to abortion not does the government trying to take away the autonomy of women to have an abortion these women also have the barrier of the resources to be able to have an abortion. These women in underserved populations have the ethical right to not only have the autonomy to decide if they want to have an abortion or not but they should be better supported in these as an denied abortion can have serious consequences for everyone in the future.

  • @AstroTheRealOne7891
    @AstroTheRealOne7891 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    When i saw the woman who got a abortion vs the eoman whi denied it i just knew like the woman who denied is just better in mind and in body

  • @Max-oi9zm
    @Max-oi9zm Pƙed rokem +6

    The South will be full of even more poor people now lol

  • @dylanondieki
    @dylanondieki Pƙed rokem +6

    That’s what happens when u raw dog it

  • @ChengJiaStat
    @ChengJiaStat Pƙed rokem +1

    Just to provide some context, she was talking about what we in the business calls “a natural experiment”. Because there is no reason to believer there is anything intrinsically different between the women who make the deadline by a couple of days, and those who miss it by a couple of days. (social economic factors usually will influence the discovery of pregnancy a lot more sooner). This is probably the next best thing compared to a truly randomized trials, which is considered the best evidence for causality.

  • @annali5017
    @annali5017 Pƙed měsĂ­cem +2

    the reason for abortion ban: they need people scrubbing toilet at McDonalds haha

  • @asupit1
    @asupit1 Pƙed rokem +10

    I was born to a single parent mom with almost no support from my father. Being treated with a supportive family really comforts me as a child growing up, knowing that I was an accident. 25 years later I'm thankful that my mom did continue with the pregnancy and i'm becaming a pride of the family. All this might work only bcz i was born on an economically stable family, supportive neighborhood environment, well respected, and loving family. It was well discussed with my fam and my mom about her pregnancy, and she was allowed to continue through her life, get degree, work and became successful while also helping me grow with my grand parents. So, the point is, i'm neither on "pro-life" nor "pro-choice". But allowing someone to get abortion as last resort option, and providing woman with some level of child bearing education, family support assesment, or any planned parenthood education before abortion is better option in my opinion. However, I'm totaly understand and will support abortion when a family isn't stable enough to have kids.

    • @AN-sm3vj
      @AN-sm3vj Pƙed rokem +8

      This is what being pro choice is. No one wants pregnant people who decide to keep their pregnancy to abort. It's a very difficult decision (choice) that needs to be made by the individual.

    • @felicitymousey1195
      @felicitymousey1195 Pƙed rokem

      @@AN-sm3vj fully agree

  • @eduardmelendez9150
    @eduardmelendez9150 Pƙed rokem +7

    Prepare for bad parents creating bad people.

  • @Electric982
    @Electric982 Pƙed 21 dnem +1

    Just confirming women know what is best for their life and body? This is just sad.