HOW TO: SILK PRESS TYPE 4 NATURAL HAIR AT HOME | CURLY TO STRAIGHT | NO FRIZZ

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  • čas přidán 29. 08. 2024
  • Hi guys!! Today I'm showing you guys how I silk press my type 4 natural hair at home again. I will also be showing the products I use to achieve shiny, silky, straight, frizz free natural hair. I will have all the products I used linked below if you are interested in purchasing them. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask below. Don't forget to LIKE, COMMENT, AND SUBSCRIBE if you enjoyed this video! 💗
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Komentáře • 2,2K

  • @3bonyhehe
    @3bonyhehe Před 3 lety +6453

    I grew up washing my hair in the kitchen sink as a child! You not alone girl

    • @monique7885
      @monique7885 Před 3 lety +88

      I prefer that to washing my hair in the shower

    • @TooxBlessedToBeStressed
      @TooxBlessedToBeStressed Před 3 lety +88

      @@monique7885, It clogs the shower, lol.

    • @monique7885
      @monique7885 Před 3 lety +116

      @@TooxBlessedToBeStressed and I hate it. I also don’t like the idea of shampoo and conditioner going all over my body to cause acne

    • @TooxBlessedToBeStressed
      @TooxBlessedToBeStressed Před 3 lety +13

      @@monique7885, acne on your body? I sometimes do it if I'm in a hurry and I just want my hair to curl up into a fro. I usually do it but, I most definitely bleach before and after I use the sink so I don't see the nastiness.

    • @TooxBlessedToBeStressed
      @TooxBlessedToBeStressed Před 3 lety +7

      @@monique7885, oh, I never had body acne so I don't know. I usually separate my head from my body, lol.

  • @samarahsmiley6223
    @samarahsmiley6223 Před 3 lety +2152

    i’ve washed my hair in the kitchen sink since a kid lol.. you’re not the only one.

    • @loganrose1044
      @loganrose1044 Před 3 lety +30

      For real. When my momma said it's time to wash your hair I already knew what was going down. But y momma was rough, she used to act like I was a damn horse!!!!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @aurora1344
      @aurora1344 Před 3 lety +2

      same with me loll! my mom gave me a bruise when I was 7 😭😭

  • @skadush09
    @skadush09 Před 2 lety +5047

    I feel like it’s in our culture (AA) to wash our hair in the kitchen sink 🤣😂. As long as it’s clean you’re fine sis…I do the same thing.

  • @friendlylad987
    @friendlylad987 Před 2 lety +397

    Hi!❤️ My grandfather’s girlfriend is a hairdresser and she told me one of THE MOST effective hair straightening tips: when you go in with the flattening iron, strike with it twice in the middle of the strand of hair, and then one long one on the entire strand. That way it doesn’t burn your hair as much.

  • @kimariaunique
    @kimariaunique Před 2 lety +926

    Doing all of this right now for my grad pics in a few hours! Hope it’s comes out just as nice 😭🙌🏽 Wish me luck everyone !
    Update (same day): GIRRRLLLL YOU JUST PUT ME ON FR! MY HAIR HAS NEVEEERRRRREEE Came out this good!!!!

  • @mrs.jordanloves
    @mrs.jordanloves Před 3 lety +2564

    Girl forget the haters it’s your sink and they’re not coming over eating from dishes out your sink so who cares what they have to say! So many of us grew up getting our hair washed in the sink

    • @valmarie198942
      @valmarie198942 Před 3 lety +81

      😄😄😄😄 right. My mom wanted my hair in the sink when I was a kid so... who cares. Lol

    • @tayetayewards2432
      @tayetayewards2432 Před 3 lety +12

      And who washes in the sink? lol the last time I did dishes in the sink I was 16. Dishwasher since then. And who uses both to wash their hair smh

    • @eatitpls
      @eatitpls Před 3 lety +89

      i am now an adult and still wash my hair in the sink lmao. they act like you can’t clean the sink??

    • @wendyyadiraarriagamosquera7857
      @wendyyadiraarriagamosquera7857 Před 3 lety +5

      IF IT IS TRUE WHAT YOU SAY WE ALL COME WASHING OUR HAIR IN THE SINK

    • @miimonalisa
      @miimonalisa Před 3 lety +29

      People always looking for a problem with something. It’s not like she’s washing her cat or a dog in the sink lol Now that would be disgusting

  • @Bovice_Nicole
    @Bovice_Nicole Před 3 lety +718

    Real naturals should already know that ur pattern gets looser the longer it gets. Don’t let these ppl stress u and make u explain anything. Ur hair is beautiful

    • @coyecarrie
      @coyecarrie Před 2 lety +37

      Thanks for saying that lol. I’ve been natural for 6yrs now and never knew that. People keep asking me if I have some kind of s curl of some kind of wave treatment.

    • @Chandra_Wilson7
      @Chandra_Wilson7 Před 2 lety +19

      Y’all mine did the opposite the longer it gets the tighter😂 and when I was newly natural my curls were loose as well .:. What is happening ?

    • @dearicacaesar5008
      @dearicacaesar5008 Před rokem +4

      @@Chandra_Wilson7 not enough moisture or the products you're using aren't penetrating past the outer layer (just sitting on top of the hair)my hair did this also when i was using the wrong products and i didn't understand why when i went to get my hair done professionally it looked better

    • @Chandra_Wilson7
      @Chandra_Wilson7 Před rokem +8

      @@dearicacaesar5008 okay this is making some sense:. Crazy thing is my hair has grown significantly.. I just got it flat: so that I could get a trim and do a length check.. my shrinkage is coming from good health.. praise God!

    • @Nameless-ny8nk
      @Nameless-ny8nk Před 11 měsíci +2

      ​@@Chandra_Wilson7Is your hair frizzy the shorter it is or are the curls bigger/loser?, while it is true that long hair stretches curls some people actually have a looser curl texture near the roots so for example I've seen girls go from 3b hair to type 2 hair after cutting it, and their hair is still healthy as always.
      About your hair not curlying when you started wearing it natural that's just normal, your hair needs to get “used” to being curly again even if that's how it's naturally suppossed to be

  • @adriennelynne7724
    @adriennelynne7724 Před 3 lety +8058

    Y’all done traumatized her 😭got her showing that she cleans the sink. There is nothing wrong with washing ur hair in the sink

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +2118

      Girl they’re mean 😭

    • @francetillman8961
      @francetillman8961 Před 3 lety +91

      word

    • @mobutter2879
      @mobutter2879 Před 3 lety +949

      Please! The very same people talking nonsense, share food and dishes with their animals.

    • @thecatatemyhomework
      @thecatatemyhomework Před 3 lety +391

      I don't see anything wrong with washing hair in the sink. I used to do that sometimes. The only reason I don't do it anymore is because I have a back problem. Your hair looks gorgeous!

    • @proverbs31woman31
      @proverbs31woman31 Před 3 lety +18

      @@mobutter2879 lol

  • @eternaldiamondz
    @eternaldiamondz Před rokem +16

    Miss ma’am that is some super straight, shiny hair! You did a badass job

  • @CharTurner6928
    @CharTurner6928 Před 2 lety +32

    Your natural hair is beautiful 😻
    Ignore the "heat damage fanatics", with any use of heat they start the "heat damage" accusations. And..
    There's nothing wrong with washing hair in the sink. Isn't "washing" what sinks are for??? Some people just don't want you to be great 😘
    I used to sit deep condition under the dryer every time I washed my hair (1x a week) and my hair grew to the longest it's ever been (mid back). I don't know how we get out of the habits that work 🤔

  • @AsiaRei
    @AsiaRei Před 3 lety +1778

    Your hair looks SO even and healthy from start to finish! 😩😍

  • @yvonnegaskin7089
    @yvonnegaskin7089 Před 3 lety +1223

    I like how you have density from roots to ends. Hope your hair care journey gets easier & easier.

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +80

      Thank you!

    • @KWB466
      @KWB466 Před 3 lety +55

      Exactly. How? What am I doing wrong out here. I see no breakage in her hair, meanwhile my hair is FULL of different lengths and pieces aka breakage.

    • @ruthyunfiltered8638
      @ruthyunfiltered8638 Před 3 lety +51

      @@KWB466 I’m sure she gets regular trims. That’s what keeps the density from root to tip and it reduce knots. Knots = breakage

    • @gapgirl321
      @gapgirl321 Před 2 lety +1

      What does that mean

    • @sai-ze3xy
      @sai-ze3xy Před 2 lety +24

      @@gapgirl321 the thickness of her ends is the same thickness as her roots which means her hair doesn't have a lot of breakages/her hair doesn't thin out at the ends

  • @samarawhite9025
    @samarawhite9025 Před 3 lety +772

    Many of y’all wash your hair in the shower, the "correct" place to do so and don’t clean one bit of it lol her sink is probably cleaner than your whole tub because as long as you bleach it you’re good.

    • @ShayAlliah
      @ShayAlliah Před 3 lety +9

      Lmaoo right

    • @qo4914
      @qo4914 Před 3 lety +18

      girl not you shaming other ppls bathtubs quality just to make yourself feel better...

    • @samarawhite9025
      @samarawhite9025 Před 3 lety +67

      @@qo4914 not you being irrelevant. And for your information I don’t need to make myself feel better lol I shower everyday and spray it down with bleach so mine stays clean. I know I’m not everyone else bye.

    • @rse432
      @rse432 Před 3 lety +6

      @@samarawhite9025 You're correct in your assesmrnt. I do the same. I make wash hair day also clean up bathroom day.

    • @scee8474
      @scee8474 Před 3 lety +19

      Exactly, since the kitchen is where people cook they’re most likely to make sure it’s extra clean after washing their hairs. I always hear about people purposely putting fallen out hair on their shower walls, sometimes about that is just icky to me.

  • @andreac.6196
    @andreac.6196 Před 2 lety +47

    Girl, don’t feel bad- My momma used the sink when I was growing up and I use it for me and my baby girl! ☺️ To each their own!

  • @Iamjustherek
    @Iamjustherek Před 2 lety +74

    Been feeling like switching up my curly hair but my hair has never turned out how I wanted it. Thank you so much for this tutorial it turned out fantastic!

  • @LindaMurinda
    @LindaMurinda Před 3 lety +334

    I reckon a lot of people don’t realise your hair texture can change with age and length. My curls are looser and my hair is less coarse the older I’ve gotten

    • @lybo1581
      @lybo1581 Před 3 lety +10

      Same here🙋🏽‍♀️

    • @chestarr21batson46
      @chestarr21batson46 Před 3 lety +11

      You are lucky. I wish. My gray at 61 is very wiry. The crown is loser. Sides tighter. 85% gray. Need I say more…..LOL.

    • @myatrinice6009
      @myatrinice6009 Před 3 lety +25

      @@chestarr21batson46 aww gray is okay , as long as it’s healthy and your happy is what matters . you look great ! dios te bendiga 🤍

    • @MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels
      @MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels Před 3 lety +2

      Probably happened with wisdom, rather than age. I notice that the more I consistently take good care of my hair, the looser my curl pattern has become😄

    • @l6x1s
      @l6x1s Před 3 lety

      @@chestarr21batson46 your hair looks so good in your pfp

  • @staciegreene2262
    @staciegreene2262 Před 3 lety +243

    It’s the well-kept ends for me 😍😍

  • @TooxBlessedToBeStressed
    @TooxBlessedToBeStressed Před 3 lety +926

    Washing your hair in the kitchen sink is not nasty whoever said that needs to have several seats. As long as you bleach the sink before and after you are 100% fine.

  • @mayajanae7134
    @mayajanae7134 Před 2 lety +12

    Not sure if anyone else mentioned in the comments already (because i didn’t read through them yet), but if you get closer to your roots and hair as well as use the chase method with your denman brush when your blow drying, you won’t have to do as many passes on your hair ☺️. I noticed this help me get a more silky texture, (i have a similar texture to yours).

  • @AnniiPooh
    @AnniiPooh Před 2 lety +51

    Haven’t even finished watching the video but I love how realistic this video is 😭❤️

  • @JDenn918
    @JDenn918 Před 3 lety +275

    For the nape here is what I did. I started using peppermint oil. I add it to some jojoba oil and rub it on my scalp every few days. My nape looked like I had an undercut since ive had a relaxer. My nape is now at my collar bone. So basically bald July 2020 to collar bone May 2021.

    • @lolsmileyface1057
      @lolsmileyface1057 Před 3 lety +23

      Yes girl. Peppermint oil is the truth 🙌🏾 I mix peppermint oil with castor oil and grape seed oil and it helped my hair grow much faster. I also had more density. I also used a vibrating shampoo scrubber to clean the scalp and massage the peppermint oil in after. It’s so soothing and it helps stimulate the scalp.

    • @bridarion
      @bridarion Před 3 lety +4

      @@lolsmileyface1057 thank you for this. I’ve been trying to figure out what would be the best oils to use in my hair. After I decided I don’t want a pixie cut anymore I want to grow it back lol.

    • @lolsmileyface1057
      @lolsmileyface1057 Před 3 lety +5

      @Glocktavious Please Get A J.O.B so the brand I use is Sky Organics. For peppermint, there’s this brand on Amazon called HandCraft Blends. Sky Organics has regular castor oil and Jamaican black castor oil and they also have grape seed oil and peppermint oil, but the peppermint oil is in a smaller container. Just as a reminder, make sure to get organic, AKA cold pressed or expeller oils because they have more nutrients, even if you don’t get Sky Organics! 😊

    • @lethalzer6707
      @lethalzer6707 Před 3 lety

      Omg thank you so much😭😭 this comment is a life saver, i always ask what i should use for nape (disclaimer im not black or lightskin, im asian woth 4c hair) and nobody tells me!!

    • @JDenn918
      @JDenn918 Před 3 lety +1

      Yuo peppermint oil is the KEY! it really doesn’t matter what other carrier oils you put it with. Its the peppermint. It stimulates the follicles and increases blood flow to the area. Make sure you keep the nape moisturized so it doesn’t break. I dont have 4c hair but its all in the same boat.

  • @monique7885
    @monique7885 Před 3 lety +216

    The shine, honey!! Dull where? Stiff where? Lol 😆 it came out so great girl. I actually prefer washing my hair in the sink. People crazy girl, don’t pay them no mind

  • @LuxurCr3Tv
    @LuxurCr3Tv Před 3 lety +59

    Exactly long as u bleach n clean the sink ur good sis it’s just hair I’ve seen ppl clean they fish tanks n ppl complaining about hair girl bye lol do u boo u killing it

  • @antanisederricotte7964
    @antanisederricotte7964 Před 2 lety +11

    Just tried this method and all these products and they leave your hair silky smooth!!! Side note, I washed my hair in the sink as well🥰 a flat iron suggestion would be the Solano Sleek heat. It passes the one pass test for sure.

  • @darkwingduck643
    @darkwingduck643 Před 2 lety +19

    You really take care of your hair and it shows. Its full, luscious, and very healthy.
    I love it.

  • @DajiaStar
    @DajiaStar Před 3 lety +241

    Wigs really grow your hair out, gives it a break. You’re a perfect example of this. I’m thinking about giving the wig thing a year run. We have a similar hair texture

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +71

      Yes! I feel my hair grows the fastest when I’m not manipulating it all the time. Just don’t neglect your hair and it’ll flourish.

    • @niecyh2313
      @niecyh2313 Před 2 lety +4

      I don’t wear wigs and my hair is past my bra strap. I’ve always had long hair.

    • @laninoir
      @laninoir Před 2 lety +23

      @@niecyh2313 idk who asked but gfy

    • @niecyh2313
      @niecyh2313 Před 2 lety

      @@laninoir Have a good day kid!

    • @ennoidyam
      @ennoidyam Před 2 lety +11

      Wigs are horrible long term - they ruin your edges and your hair stops growing
      If u want a protective style do something like crotchet so your scalp can breathe and you're not covering or pulling on your natural hair

  • @nelliesavenue848
    @nelliesavenue848 Před 3 lety +46

    It’s so satisfying when she squeezes the water out of her hair😋

  • @evedraper3740
    @evedraper3740 Před 3 lety +42

    My nape was broken off for years and it finally started growing back last year. I used Jamaican black castor oil and Camille Rose Ultimate Growth Serum. When I wore my hair I would massage it at night and for protective styles I wore box braids. I stopped wearing wigs for awhile because the back of it would rub on my nape.

  • @t.jenera7941
    @t.jenera7941 Před 2 lety +39

    First of all, I think you are an incredibly humble person to continue to bring out your “flaws” or comments other ppl were so overly concerned about. I think your video is the bomb and I’m thoroughly enjoying it. I truly wish you so much peace and light on Your continued journey with Your hair. I felt soo at ease watching this video, the music was clean, and the tutorial has me looking forward to my natural hair growing back to beautiful lengths again. I will be looking into a few of these products myself to protect my hair along the way. Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @MetaphysicalMetalhead
    @MetaphysicalMetalhead Před rokem +18

    In case anyone is wondering, the results on 3c hair are also stunning 🙏🏻🙏🏻 thank you so so much for this video, I've ALWAYS struggled getting my hair straightened like this and now I'll never do it another way.

  • @AleciaCraine
    @AleciaCraine Před 3 lety +136

    I thought I had heat damage when my hair was growing because my curls weren’t as tight as they were before, but my hair stylist confirmed it was because of my hair growing. Like you said, the long our hair gets our curls start to stretch.

    • @niecyh2313
      @niecyh2313 Před 2 lety +7

      I still have tight curls and my hair is past my bra strap

    • @AleciaCraine
      @AleciaCraine Před 2 lety +2

      @@niecyh2313 🥴Don’t tell me he lied to me🧐

    • @sarahsmith276
      @sarahsmith276 Před 2 lety +4

      Omg thank you for this I always was worrying why the top of my hair is always so easy to put in a ponytail than the back of my hair it’s because the back of my hair is not as long as the front. Tysm I was starting to get very worried!

    • @Maeee8398
      @Maeee8398 Před rokem +3

      @@AleciaCraine I’ve been seeing many ppl saying the same thing so I don’t think he’s lying

  • @cierraayulondaa
    @cierraayulondaa Před 3 lety +132

    I love how simple and straightforward this is! I feel like people make hair washing days so complicated and soooo long lol your hair is so beautiful 😻 ❤️

  • @deadcarnivora8648
    @deadcarnivora8648 Před 3 lety +15

    Hos out here criticizing you cant put 2 strands together and make an inch
    Girlll pay no mind to these haters
    Love your videos
    Your hair is gorgeous👌🏽❤❤❤

  • @kaiileo7926
    @kaiileo7926 Před 2 lety +4

    your ENDS!!! i trim my hair even every 3-4 months so it grows even like that. i love it. its such a process growing your hair out evenly. Props to you.

  • @BigElly12
    @BigElly12 Před 2 lety +18

    I didn’t know a silk press was this simple. It looks good girl

  • @theadvocate2782
    @theadvocate2782 Před 3 lety +70

    Keep the hair at the nape moisturized and seal in the moisture. Cornrow that area until it grows out to the length you want. Be sure to use satin pillow case at night to avoid any friction around your edges and nape. As a matter of fact, avoid any things that would cause friction/dryness in that area. Hope this helps.

    • @jadegemsss
      @jadegemsss Před 9 měsíci +1

      I never thought about braiding my nape/kitchens! Omg thank you!!!

  • @blueclipper6907
    @blueclipper6907 Před 3 lety +24

    Beautiful! As for using the kitchen sink for washing, wash raw poultry is far worse 😂. When my hair starts breaking at the nape, keep it oiled excessively. I add it every day before I comb or brush. Eventually it grows 😁. All hair grows, you have to focus on stopping and preventing breakage 🥰

  • @leahmason824
    @leahmason824 Před 3 lety +45

    Your hair is beautiful...looks very healthy. Btw I grew up getting my hair done in the kitchen as well. After my mother got done washing it, she sat us next to the stove to get it pressed. I still use the kitchen sink to do it sometimes. So let the haters hate and do you! Peace and blessings to you and yours ❤

  • @Str0wned
    @Str0wned Před 2 lety +21

    For years I've watched many tutorials on YT like this one, but yours is the best. You explain it so well, this is the first time I get the same end results as in a tutorial. You've help me more then you know, thank you!

    • @isleyi
      @isleyi Před 2 lety +1

      True, it was really good, it reminded me of May's video style czcams.com/video/e3aangoHFoY/video.html

  • @TheOriginalblunote
    @TheOriginalblunote Před rokem +48

    You did a perfect job. I’ve been doing my hair since I was small and I do my hair the exact same way. It looks wonderful! ❤

  • @gl7308
    @gl7308 Před 3 lety +58

    Girl for the undercut to grow! As soon as you are able to braid it, BRAID IT and keep it in those braids as long and as much as you can let yourself and it will grow!!! Don’t braid too tight tho we want it to protect your hair;)

    • @AloeHunny444
      @AloeHunny444 Před 2 lety +4

      Yup that’s how I grew mine out

    • @sude845
      @sude845 Před rokem

      Biraz daha açıklar mısınız anlamadım

  • @Mini-rt8bm
    @Mini-rt8bm Před 3 lety +165

    Looks greattttt
    And thanks for a long “after” clip
    Most times people just show 2 seconds of the finished product lol

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +19

      Thank you! 🤍 And you’re welcome lol

    • @rachelm.3173
      @rachelm.3173 Před 3 lety +6

      For real

    • @deesenuts8730
      @deesenuts8730 Před 3 lety +11

      right! We came hea to live vicariously through you! GIVE US HAIR

    • @alihaweb9288
      @alihaweb9288 Před 3 lety +1

      @@deesenuts8730 😂

    • @Kinkie_bie
      @Kinkie_bie Před 3 lety +3

      For reallllll! Really appreciated the long after clip

  • @christinabaldwin1304
    @christinabaldwin1304 Před 3 lety +16

    This is the first time I saw someone else with my hair type. I’ve always struggled with my hair type because it’s weird. Like you said the longer your hair gets the loser the curls are and it looks damaged but in reality that’s it’s natural state. So happy to have came across this video.

    • @adinastotler8157
      @adinastotler8157 Před 9 měsíci

      This hair type is beautiful and more rare and exotic! I’m a 3b hair type😊

  • @yamu-
    @yamu- Před 2 lety +87

    this was so relaxing to watch + the results were bomb 💖

    • @isleyi
      @isleyi Před 2 lety +1

      Yea! Incredibly relaxing, reminds me of May's videos czcams.com/video/e3aangoHFoY/video.html

  • @jemiramarie1764
    @jemiramarie1764 Před 2 lety +4

    Girl! You are gorgeous and your hair is beautiful! Team natural is winning hunny, embrace our CROWNS👑😍😍✨

  • @thedirtyplum
    @thedirtyplum Před 3 lety +18

    my hair is just like yours. I had the tightest curls when it was short...but the longer it gets the more elongated my curl pattern becomes. I don't see any heat damage. Thank you for sharing.

  • @rachelm.3173
    @rachelm.3173 Před 3 lety +72

    You would have a bomb wash and go on your natural curly hair😍 Also, your ends look pretty damn good for doing your own home trims!👌🏾 Beautiful hair💯

    • @isleyi
      @isleyi Před 2 lety +1

      Her haircut is too beautiful, it reminds me of May's old haircut czcams.com/video/e3aangoHFoY/video.html

  • @Bruue2011
    @Bruue2011 Před 3 lety +92

    This vid was so satisfying! You’re hair and skin are so beautiful. You naturally glow and i really like your vibe. Definitely subscribed

  • @lola-ford
    @lola-ford Před rokem +5

    My friend, who is not black, said i was gross for doing that too (washing hair in the kitchen sink) Thats How I was raised as well but the thing is, these are the same people who dont DEEP CLEAN their sinks every time its used. I was raised to wash the sink after i washed the dish.. Like now just spray a little waster around the bowl, but to WASH THE SINK with soap and a sponge EVERY TIME. The people getting mad at you sound dirty!

    • @peggytdatcher9744
      @peggytdatcher9744 Před 4 měsíci

      Lol. Ikr. All one has to do is clean the sink afterwards.

  • @dominquebrown3562
    @dominquebrown3562 Před rokem +1

    I mixed my conditioner, teaspoon of mayo and a egg yoke for a treatment. Leave it in long as you want. Grew my hair quick. Mines was cut off. Then use Shea Moisturizer Shampoo and conditioner. Its honestly whatever works for your hair. Of course I put mostly conditioning in the mixture.

  • @cammeerron
    @cammeerron Před 3 lety +276

    I love to wash my hair in the kitchen sink 😂😂😂😂 where else I’m posed to do it lmao

    • @DreaSoFierce
      @DreaSoFierce Před 3 lety +60

      no dead ass. where else? like im not getting in the shower EVERYTIME I need to wash

    • @aaunyea4799
      @aaunyea4799 Před 3 lety +13

      Same, it's way more convenient!

    • @joymcneal9054
      @joymcneal9054 Před 3 lety +10

      ok that's what I'm thinking 🤷🏾‍♀️, like where else...

    • @loganrose1044
      @loganrose1044 Před 3 lety +5

      Right tho, lots of black girls don't wash their hair in the shower (we just don't, my mama always washed my hair in the sink) I do it nowdays because I don't want my who;e body getting wet and my bathroom sink is way to small for all of these naps😭😭😭

    • @andekwezi210
      @andekwezi210 Před 3 lety +2

      Uhh the bathroom sink...

  • @AfricanEmpress01
    @AfricanEmpress01 Před 3 lety +22

    OMG It was a pleasure watching you do your hair. This is how mine comes out with a silk press. I have 4c hair and the shine, weight, free-flow, thickness is gorgeous. I really had pleasure watching you do your hair and the outcome.
    I give thanks to my hairdresser, my own two hands and a salon I visited in LA some decades ago. The best advice and outcome from these three things. I haven't had a silk press for over a decade now, and have not done anyone else's. I have my friends I may ask to do theirs as the results are beautiful and can save so much more than buying weaves; providing it is cared correctly.
    Lovely to watch, Take care
    Peace

    • @inlovewither
      @inlovewither Před 2 lety

      how long does a silk press on 4c hair last

  • @urmom6421
    @urmom6421 Před 3 lety +10

    the back of my hair broke off due to box braids and after i stopped using heat and stopped putting it into extremely tight braids. i oiled it and constantly used hair masks and it grew faster than ever. :)

  • @whomiimiii
    @whomiimiii Před 2 lety +1

    There's something so fantastic about a black woman doing their hair it's just amazing and i'm so proud to be apart of the gang

  • @officialsyddinpretty
    @officialsyddinpretty Před rokem +1

    Gorgeous results! Don’t let these folks fool you. Everybody and they mama done washed they hair in the sink. Folks get on CZcams and act brand new

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před rokem

      Girl I already know 🤦🏽‍♀️ thank you 🤍

  • @jacquelineduplantier5563
    @jacquelineduplantier5563 Před 3 lety +6

    I have been washing my hair in the kitchen sink for 60 plus years, followed by disinfecting with bleach. Nothing wrong with that. Loved your video.

  • @Mochalamode
    @Mochalamode Před 3 lety +9

    Your hair is beautiful...try wrapping it afterwards next time with plastic saran wrap for 20 minutes under a dryer to see how much silkier it will be and the style will last soooo much longer.

    • @livd184
      @livd184 Před 3 lety

      Is this wrap for while you condition your hair or after you’ve already flat ironed it?

    • @chipotleburrito
      @chipotleburrito Před 3 lety +1

      @@livd184 after it’s flat ironed !

  • @kiaradaley5771
    @kiaradaley5771 Před 3 lety +34

    I moved into a “luxury” apartment years ago and the shower was clogged!!!! Kept calling maintenance. Finally took it upon myself to snake it and just as I suspected the prior tenant was washing their hair in the shower! I grew up washing my hair in the sink.

  • @allthingsjelethiaterrell2838

    Girl Everybody black washes their hair in the sink. I hate washing it in the shower. Whoever tried to make you feel bad for that is weird. Your hair is beautiful! Can't wait to see an updated video.

  • @peggytdatcher9744
    @peggytdatcher9744 Před 4 měsíci

    You are doing a great job. Girl, you brought back great memories of hair being washed in the sink! I love it. My mom washed all of her kids' hair in the sink and so did her mom! Your hair is beautiful!!!

  • @ShayAlliah
    @ShayAlliah Před 3 lety +5

    She definitely has more hair than Everybody in the comments.... nobody can convince me otherwise 😍😍😍

  • @hadeelfaisal2871
    @hadeelfaisal2871 Před 3 lety +15

    AMAZING! You inspired me to straighten my hair on my own all love to our african hair!! and you’re so cool u dgaf bout what ppl say regarding heat damage long as u keeping it on track with the braids and protective styles 💕

    • @isleyi
      @isleyi Před 2 lety +1

      Type 4 hair is so beautiful! Reminds me a little of May's hair czcams.com/video/e3aangoHFoY/video.html

  • @neonlyrics6270
    @neonlyrics6270 Před 3 lety +41

    this makes me soooo happy to see someone with my same exact hair type. you did so good it looks so professional!!!

  • @Rayshaun1519
    @Rayshaun1519 Před 2 lety +2

    If I didn't witness you doing this at home, I would've thought you went to a salon. Your hair looks great!

  • @camillecrichlow8138
    @camillecrichlow8138 Před 11 měsíci

    The flat iron you have is literally the best one that exists. I had mine since 2011 and haven’t felt a need to buy a better one yet

  • @95KyBoo
    @95KyBoo Před 3 lety +7

    My arm could never! It looks soo good! Great job!

  • @TwinGodesses
    @TwinGodesses Před 3 lety +830

    Gorgeous! I think I want to cut my hair to your length! Love it ❤️😍

    • @DajiaStar
      @DajiaStar Před 3 lety +38

      I just cut my hair in a similar blunt cut last night. Feels thicker and healthier. Volume and health over long ends that are just going to split

    • @ellasiaskylry
      @ellasiaskylry Před 3 lety +34

      Ok

    • @sumeya20ali4
      @sumeya20ali4 Před 3 lety +27

      @@ellasiaskylry IMAO

    • @londonkaya5670
      @londonkaya5670 Před 3 lety +69

      @@ellasiaskylry right like they tryna show off they got long hair on the low😭

    • @londonkaya5670
      @londonkaya5670 Před 3 lety +10

      @Cutie Pie I’m not hating when did I say having long hair is bad? Who doesn’t want long hair my hair isn’t even short It’s a joke calm down😂

  • @evacapri9769
    @evacapri9769 Před 3 lety +75

    Your hair is too pretty 😍

  • @FeedMeJuice
    @FeedMeJuice Před 2 lety +3

    amazes me that ppl can take care of their hair this welll! looks so good! 😭

  • @phoneopen8016
    @phoneopen8016 Před 2 lety +12

    I love the quality of your hair; it looks healthy and even breathing well. It's beautiful💕.

  • @3bonyhehe
    @3bonyhehe Před 3 lety +29

    Hair is so healthy & gorgeous!

  • @raeannslife
    @raeannslife Před 3 lety +4

    Your hair is soo healthy and beautiful 😭😭 making me want to straighten!!!

  • @Prettybihhcheytv
    @Prettybihhcheytv Před 3 lety +153

    You look like Meg thee stallion in a way with your hair curly 😍😍😍😭

  • @natashaalicia8105
    @natashaalicia8105 Před 5 měsíci

    Wow. I don't think I would have the patience to do all of that. I wash my hair, condition, put in an oil based leave in conditioner, let it air dry. Sometimes I'll straighten it but I generally just put it up for work. If I have a night out or a function, I'll straighten but there's no way I come do what you do. That takes patience and results are worth it! Beautiful. (And who gives a fudge where you wash your hair! Don't worry about it or comments on it. Its their jealousy at such a beautiful hair result!)

  • @pilgrimpaulo
    @pilgrimpaulo Před 2 lety +9

    As a white man who is attracted to afro/Caribbean women I have struggled to understand the hair culture. It was a bit of a shock to find how much wigs are used. I thought it was a cultural pressure to use straight hair, and I felt sorry that you had to go to so much trouble.
    I have always felt how beautiful your natural hair is and how many styles can be achieved.
    However, seeing this beautiful hair being made straight has removed that culture barrier. Women love to look after their hair, and it is rightfully called their glory.
    Seeing this hair being straightened through the many stages was so relaxing and effortlessly done, not only was the result beautiful, but I found it was any easy choice to execute.
    I say " away with wigs " and hello to that beautiful natural hair whatever style you go for, it's all beautiful, (I hope I haven't offended too many people here!! Not intended) great respect.
    P ❤👀

    • @isleyi
      @isleyi Před 2 lety +1

      Type 4 hair is really beautiful, I'm in love with all type 4 hair, I think it's just wonderful, like May's hair czcams.com/video/e3aangoHFoY/video.html

    • @sarahowusuaddai
      @sarahowusuaddai Před rokem +12

      ew

    • @svgarplum
      @svgarplum Před rokem +1

      @@sarahowusuaddai Frl like wth😭

    • @sanah9785
      @sanah9785 Před rokem

      @@sarahowusuaddai 😭

    • @tasijahward6691
      @tasijahward6691 Před rokem

      Thank you! ❤

  • @l_destiny_l
    @l_destiny_l Před rokem +3

    My hair is literally the opposite the back of my hair grows like a wild fire and me and the front of my hair don’t get along 🤣🤣🤣 Your hair is so pretty and healthy😍😍😍

  • @amritapreetsingh5304
    @amritapreetsingh5304 Před 2 lety +5

    My mom used to silk press my hair when she would do it every two weeks when she would shampoo it deep condition blow dry and use a hot comb on it I never got heat damage at all your hair is so long and healthy looking too 😀🤗❤️

  • @meganj1716
    @meganj1716 Před 3 lety +13

    Your hair is beautiful! 😍Both natural and pressed out. I would like to suggest doing a hair mask or using a deep conditioner with heat for about 20-30 mins with each wash especially since you said you have your hair in braids for long periods. It would really get moisture to penetrate deep into the cuticle😊

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +4

      I used to do that a while ago! I should definitely start back. Thanks for the tip! 🤍

  • @JanAquaSun
    @JanAquaSun Před 2 lety +1

    My hair is the same as yours. As it gets longer my curls get more loose and I only put heat on my hair once a year, 2 the max and it's only for a trim. I've definitely had heat damage before and know the difference. Ppl are crazy lol. The sink is the best place to wash your hair. Who wants to deal with wet hair and body just to do a blow out the process to do the hair is already a lot. Do you girl, I don't know anyone who hasn't had their hair washed in a sink. Very beautiful results, doing my hair tonight!

    • @Boss_etc853
      @Boss_etc853 Před 2 lety +1

      thats how most hair is tho, its because of the weight of having more hair which is why it get looser. my hair does the same thing.

  • @AuthorLHollingsworth
    @AuthorLHollingsworth Před rokem +1

    It is nobody's business whether you wash your hair in the sink or shower. People need to stop trying to dictate people's lives. Your hair looks amazing, and thanks for the video.🥰🥰🥰

  • @janetajayi5112
    @janetajayi5112 Před 3 lety +6

    The slow growth of the nape of your hair can be due to sleeping on your back or your hair rubbing against rough clothing material. Sometimes it just be like that

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +4

      I’m actually a stomach sleeper lol and I rarely wear clothes that are high enough on my neck for my hair to rub against. 🤦‍♀️ I may just need to moisturize wayyyy more.

    • @ariel23175
      @ariel23175 Před 3 lety

      Yea the front of my hair just grows faster but I don’t mind because it gives my hair a fuller look

  • @prettyflytraveler
    @prettyflytraveler Před 3 lety +8

    I hadn't heard of some of those products and probably wouldn't have given them a second glance on the shelf. I might try some out when I finally get brave enough to do my own silk press. If you can find dupes that are more natural I would love that. I desperately need a trim since it has been more than a year (since before the CV.) Maybe that can be one of your upcoming tutorials. Your hairs looks very healthy and strong. You might want to considering doing a hot oil treatment ever so often with olive oil and a steam cap or a hot towel (old school.) Also, your videos kind of remind me of Mahogany Curls when she first started out. Your sub to view ratio is amazing so you will definitely hit 10K before the end of the year. Keep at it!

  • @fairyprincess111
    @fairyprincess111 Před rokem +3

    girl you don’t have to explain yourself to them , the ones that get it get it !!!

  • @Officialjadaam
    @Officialjadaam Před rokem +1

    I had an under cut as well years ago and it’s just growing back longer and fuller . The key is keeping it braided and moisturized

  • @zahnyee
    @zahnyee Před rokem +1

    This helped me 😊 lord I hate doing my natural hair & haven’t found anyone I trust where I moved to, to do my hair 😩 thank you!

  • @bmajestysurrell4081
    @bmajestysurrell4081 Před 3 lety +4

    I'm glad you made a CZcams channel; I genuinely wish you the best on this journey your taking with yourself!!🥰keep up the good work by just being yourself/how you wanna be.

    • @Shambates
      @Shambates  Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you so much! I really appreciate this. 🤍

    • @bmajestysurrell4081
      @bmajestysurrell4081 Před 3 lety

      And I really appreciate the work that you do; for this channel, and... Subsequently yourself...!🙃😉😌✌️

  • @vienicestyles6122
    @vienicestyles6122 Před 3 lety +13

    The SOLANO flat iron set at 450’ will straighten your hair in one pass. It will be stick straight. It’s pricey but it’s worth every penny. I learned this from a Dominican hair stylist 💇🏾‍♀️

    • @M3RRYDELUXE
      @M3RRYDELUXE Před 3 lety +2

      Ooh thank you for this! Just verifying that this works for 4C hair? My hair is THICK THICK! You can watch my video and tell me cuz girrrrl!

    • @vienicestyles6122
      @vienicestyles6122 Před 3 lety +1

      @@M3RRYDELUXE you’re welcome 😇. Dominicans can do some hair.

    • @M3RRYDELUXE
      @M3RRYDELUXE Před 3 lety

      @@vienicestyles6122 girl who you tellin?! I had my first experience of them in ATL and I was hooked since. Just ordered this flat iron and it’ll be here on Friday I can’t wait lol

  • @mslafay7
    @mslafay7 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I love you... I wash my hair in the sink also. The longer my hair get, the looser my curls are.. silk pressing my hair while watching your video... awesome. Keep it up!

  • @munikeelizabeth1450
    @munikeelizabeth1450 Před 2 lety +3

    Moça, que cabelo lindo!
    E estava vendo os comentários dos outros te julgando por lavar na pia. Minha gente, eu lavo e no tanque mesmo ( e que cozinha bonita, hein ).

  • @kyarahtaylor7373
    @kyarahtaylor7373 Před 3 lety +6

    My hair used to be just like this, I miss it 🥺 it’s so damaged now. I want to start my natural hair journey all over

    • @esther9210
      @esther9210 Před 3 lety

      Do it!! Cut off all the damage and wear box braids/wigs until it starts to grow out

  • @aderasview9562
    @aderasview9562 Před 3 lety +5

    I finally found a woman with my exact hair texture!

  • @tonijanelle4400
    @tonijanelle4400 Před 2 lety

    I know I’m late answering this, but rice water helped me grow the back of my hair & it grew like crazy. Very natural ingredient and it actually works.

  • @gym._for1816
    @gym._for1816 Před 11 měsíci

    omg i love her😭 she listens to all recommendations she sees

  • @byalicexo
    @byalicexo Před rokem +4

    obsessed with how your hair came out!! i've picked up so many tips 🤗🤗🤗

  • @Shediffferent
    @Shediffferent Před 3 lety +4

    I have that same patch at the nape after a undercut from 2019 😩. When you figure out the key to growing it back please do a vid... it’s the shine for me 😍 your hair came out well after a month of braids

  • @bijuh9762
    @bijuh9762 Před 3 lety +3

    Our natural hair curly to straight is just beautiful , I’m proud 💗

    • @isleyi
      @isleyi Před 2 lety +1

      Really, it's too beautiful!!! Reminds me of May's hair czcams.com/video/e3aangoHFoY/video.html

  • @mrzedwards2u820
    @mrzedwards2u820 Před rokem

    I feel you. I grew up getting my hair washed in the sink as well, and I still wash my hair in the sink. I don’t feel comfortable washing it any other way. Do your thing sis❤😍❤

  • @avivaromero9301
    @avivaromero9301 Před 2 lety

    It’s the biggest sink in the house so we WASHED our hair in the kitchen sink. We WASHED IT AFTER! Anyone yelling at you saying it’s nasty just shows who actually cleans after! Love the video sending love from Springfield, Massachusetts

  • @anweshasaha8365
    @anweshasaha8365 Před 2 lety +2

    I'm in love with your hair❤
    Your hair is so healthy, shinny💗

  • @Redboneissmexc
    @Redboneissmexc Před 3 lety +8

    Definitely one of the most interesting ways I’ve ever seen someone’s wash routine . But nonetheless, your hair looks very healthy and beautiful 🖤