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Our Sibling Stories - Part 1 | Episode 145
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- čas přidán 18. 06. 2024
- Let’s face it all human relationships are complex even with siblings…(the toughest kind) 🥲🥲
For this episode we’ll be sharing our very own sibling stories the good and the bad…shedding some light and helping y’all see that healthy relationships acknowledge ALL the stuff…and in the tough moments one should deal with it with compassion and lots of grace ❤️❤️
Hope you’ll enjoy this episode and let us know your thoughts in the comment section 🤗
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Murugi Munyi I saw you kwa mariamu ( police van ) and my heart swelled with so much pride . You did not hesitate to come out and join everyone in # Rejecting the finance bill❤🎉🎉🎉
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Well done
#RejectFinanceBill2024
❤ help me celebrate Murugi for being at the #Rejectfinancebill2024🎉❤❤❤❤ 2:21
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and for Lyd for educating us online :)
This feels like a whole therapy session
Right!!!!
It is!😫
I lost my only sister 5 years ago and I tell you from this other side, any "issues" that may have been simmering between us are completely inconsequential now. Had I known that I had her only for a while and we would not grow old together, I would have loved her louder and harder.
I loved you then, now, and forever K 😭😭😭
Now is the only time we have to show love to our "loved ones" .. however love looks like and whatever love costs, I know understand that the best we can do with every moment we have, is to build bridges not walls.
You girls made us proud by vocally rejecting the ridiculous finance bill guys lets appreciate them by subscribing its the least we can do ❤️❤️❤️
Yesssss! They are queens for sure ❤
Hey, this is actually my first time typing anything to your podcast, despite the fact I have watched your shows since 2021. This show really touched me today because I resonated with it in so many ways: so here is my little brief story- I am a first born of 4 and my life growing up wasn’t easy at all. I was the mother to my siblings, my mum and dad separated when I was 13, but was still living in one house, very toxic indeed, and we the children had to know how to deal with that. Mum was very bitter, dad not talking to us or anyone. Somewhere along my life, my grandmother who is in the US talked to her children abroad to her daughter (my mother) so she can get out of the situation she was in, so I was the escape goat in this situation, I ended up in the US.. went to school, and got a very good job that pays well, I was in school for 7 yrs which was very hard. In summary, I am in the same situation murungi is in.. I am the help and if I don’t help pple will die… my family has always guilt play me in order to send them money.. I have been in the US for 10yrs now, and I feel exhausted, I recently started therapy one month ago because of the stress my people are giving me, am telling you I have not rested since I started getting money, it’s like I owe everyone money ( my grandma, mother, siblings,and enter community). I needed to share this. I believe one day I should come to your show, and we talk about the childhood traumas. I love you both so much,keep doing the good work.bye for now.❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Damn hey sis, (lol I do not mean like sister) but I think I can relate to your pain? Do you have a partner now? If not are you excited to have your own family soon or do you in a way already feel exhausted by the family you came from and the thought of looking after your own family sort of gives you anxiety? I am very passionate about family matters and I feel that single parenthood and to be specific here single motherhood end up putting a lot of pressure and stress on the children usually in the the elder child or on the most responsible child it’s crazy and traumatic! Women are naturally dependent and if she does not have a husband to depend on for emotional support or in the running of the home she will subconsciously seek in there children. That is why when we advocate for a homes with both parents it’s not just about the children needing a father it is more than that!
I know someone, her mum has been a single mum for the longest and she has two brothers and elder brother who unfortunately has had addiction issues a slightly younger brother more like the same age who is perfectly fine he currently doing well, has a god job but for some reason he does not want to help out at home he does not want to help his mother, so this friend of mine of being the girl is more empathetic and has taken on the mantle she got a reasonably good job and she is the helping out home, help to pay the the rent where her mum lives, she is the one contributing to the money they are using to construct a house for the mum so they stop renting and her mum prides so much in her however while an observer I sit back and think does her mum know how much of burden all this is to her daughter? It’s not bad to look after our parents but there is a time for it it becomes a problem when you can not focus on your own life because of your family more when you still just a child. So I feel like my friend has not gotten a chance to be a child the only men in her life her brothers have not stood up to their roles as men. Her mum once talked about how her daughter, my friend, will only move out and think of marriage after the house is fully constructed and to me it was sad, this girl is sacrificing her life for her family and yet as woman she deserves have someone look after her now! I know for sure she has personal battles she is battling! Meanwhile she hates the dad obviously because he was never there, and they went through the harsh times with the mum, because he didn’t help out at all.
First of all Murugi Munyi slander will never be allowed anywhere!!!! She showed up on #RejectFinanceBill2024 & #OccupyParliament yesterday & was Arrested. Thank you queen❤
really?
Nipitie please
For sure❤❤
I absolutely understood it when Murugi said that she wouldn’t share some experiences with her sister Angie. I have heard her sister on many forums and wondered how their relationship is being that they have very polar beliefs, spiritually speaking. Of course it would pose a problem. Being a Christian that is so grounded in the faith, I have had problems relating with people who are liberal in their ways. Christianity abhors liberalism. Really, it advocates for death to self and the pleasures of the flesh. So I totally get it. I pray that God’s wisdom prevails in the end.
MURUGI IS ALWAYS ON THE RIGHT SIDE OF HISTORY !!!
We Stan a queen 👑
I was in a separate cell from you at the Central Police (With Kitt Kiarie et al.)
Loved the solidarity. Baraka tele!👊
You ladies amazed me yesterday ❤ anything to do with murugi and lydia I support 100% #rejectfinancebill
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Hahahaha Angie started a rumour that you were dead!!! This has taken me to the floor and I'm in the office aki
Me too I laughed so hard😂😂😂😂😂😂
Had my mouth wide open when she said this, then I laughed so hard!!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that rumour is a crazy one ... I've laughed so hard
Murugi for president!!! So proud of you and all those baddies out there fighting for our rights!❤
My take home... "Quagmire -a situation that is complex / difficult and hard to get out off" najua siko peke yangu🤣
Yooooh😮💨😮💨this felt like a whole therapy session….alot to unpack,alot to unlearn and relearn thank you ladies….
Also i feel like Jo has a savior complex/hero syndrome,she feels like she is responsible to help other people.
Hapo kwa hotness nayo hapana....wewe na aggie same watsapp. You are both very gorgeous..
Thank you ladies for this wonderful episode. I agree with most of what has been discussed as a big sister of 3 with an emotionaly abusive and selfish biological father. Manipulative fathers go through their mess and they expect you to be always available for them financially. However when it is your turn, they are neither there financially nor emotionally. Still trying to draw this boundary. As for my siblings, relationships got better as we grew up. We are now on great terms. Sending love from uganda 🇺🇬
I have three brothers,am the first born. I feel like I have been taking care of my siblings since forever. And even my cousins. Even now as an adult, I feel like am still taking care of my siblings and my cousins. Of course this has affected our relationship. That feeling of if you go somewhere,the bill is yours. There is something to it.
And let me tell you, it never ends,,,, we will be drained forever 😢
Baddies on the right side of history!!!!
#rejectfinancebill🎉
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My sister is 5 years older. Growing up my mom always complained about her. I didn't like her because I wondered why she just wouldn't do things right and was always aggravating mom. I wasn't until 2 years ago when I lived at home that I was able to see what a great mom she is and a good wife. Now we connect well and talk about the mistakes our mom makes.
This is definitely a therapy session for Murugi. Esp the equality bit. Money affects a lot!!!!
I think the biggest lesson I'm getting from this episode is that you can never really fully put yourself in someone's shoes. You cannot expect everyone to live according to your standards. Everyone has their own struggles and communicating in a healthy way with each other can aid understanding and a better relationship but either way the best thing to do is working on ourselves, our behaviours, responses, communicating our boundaries in a healthy way and learning to look at people as they are not who you expect them to be. Thank you so much for this episode ❤❤
Murugi munyi my love thank you for showing up at the streets to reject the finance bill
Thank you @Murugi Munyi for standing with Kenyans and using your presence, platform and voice to #rejectfinancebill2024 💪🏽💪🏽 Together we shall change this country for the good of the people. WaKenya hoyeeeee 🇰🇪💪🏽
I grew up an only child. I can't quite relate. I wish I had siblings though 😢.. let's dive in to this wonderful episode. It's definitely TMI🎉🎉❤
Me too😢
For Murugi ❤ for #rejectfinancebill2024
A fan from 🇳🇦. I am leaving my comment here so that more people from my country can find this channel
We are here since day 1
We've been here since TMI launched baby. ❤
@@lettienahole I am just a baby 🥺 I love this for us
As a social worker/psychotherapist, I always, always equip clients with information about both private pay and affordable and/or free resources. This puts the power of choice in their hands @ Lydia KM!
Thank you both for rejecting finance bill 2024 in your own special ways. A big fat kiss to you both. #rejectfinancebill2024❤❤❤❤
Listening to Murugi I completely empathised and understood her struggles
This episode was such a breath of fresh air ...a lot to unpack ..I've laughed ,cried and over thought lots throughout this conversation it made me think a lot about my situation with my siblings ,parents etc oooof lemme make the handkerchief have its use as I look onto working on some of this issues
wow, i thought I'm the only one who has deep issues with family. I want to reach that peaceful place that Aggie has reached.
I understand Murugi's relationship with Nelly because I have the same relationship with my brother who's 12 years younger than me ❤
We are so proud of all the baddies who went out yesterday but especially to Murugi ❤
Wueh! Hii topic🔥😌. So glad to be part of TMI fam❤❤that chose to be on the right side of history😎🇰🇪✊🏿. Proud Queenbetweener 💃🏾👏🏾.
Therapy 😢 as a first born daughter n orphans..I put everyone first bt am unlearning..tho it's in my late 30's baby steps thanks guy's
Iam a silent fan and always save to watch later when iam doing some chores,everytime iam listening my big sister is curious and asks me"hawa ni akina nani huongea kizungu mob hivyo😅".So today she heard the part where Murugi talked about being sent away to her grandparents when she was little.She was like"Kwanini anamake isound kama ni vibaya?..i told her it is abandonment regardless and it's traumatic. Our mom left us to remarry when we were really young she asked me "So hata sisi tulikuwa abandoned ile time mum alienda kama hajatuambia?.I told her yes we have both the mother and father wound,and we need to work on our trauma at some point.
I relate so much with Murugi,because iam also the 2nd born in a family of 4,and happen to be more self aware and doing "better"financially.I also wonder how life would be if i didn't have to take care of them financially and emotionally.
I just feel so happy we are literally existing in the same generation as these 2 gorgeous babes😍 Yesterday Murugi for sure did amazing especially with all that's going on in her personal life. Flowers to her and Princess Lyd and all of us who are did our part.🔥🔥🔥
That rumour of dying 😂😂and being adopted got me off guard 😂 that's crazy mehn
😅😅😅banaaaaa
Being an only child is different and I am learning how to love and be there for my step siblings,we have a 14yrs difference and I don't know how to navigate it yet. I am learning alot from this episode ❤
When Murugi is sighing at some point 😅 I feel her 💯 Wuueeh, but si ni life ama ?!🤷♀️
These gals are doing such a great job. Very informative episodes lately. I'm really loving it here nowadays ❤ Also let's not take it for granted they use their personal life as reference 🎉
This show makes me think about life like I learn to understand why I feel a certain way about life wow
Let me give you your flowers Murugi ,thank you for showing up in the protest you represented us so well even though we're not in Kenya currently we feel we have a voice through people like you .Blessings ❤
#rejectfinancebill2024.
Basking in the almost tangible "MURUGI EFFECT"
After I seeing Murugi yesterday I had to come here and subscribe immediately ❤. I rarely listen to podcasts now I have changed my perspective❤. I am here to stay.
This topic has been weighing in on my heart this week, I guess something triggered it. Let me just put it out there.. I am the younger sister.. we have a 7 year gap with my older and only sister.. My memories of our childhood are honestly sad, I feel she hated me.. used to bully me, she is light skinned and I am not, at some point she used to say she prefers that our light skin cousin was her sister. got my first period when my mum had travelled (didnt even realize it until she woke me up and said, amka ufue madamu yako, you can imagine my confusion. got some several slaps from her along the years. we are now grown adults, her marriage seems to always be on a crisis and I have to save her.. she has kids and I loove them, used to spend all my free time & money on my nieces and nephews but that has never been reciprocated.. my baby is now 2 and I can count with one hand how many times she intentionally paid us a visit.. the only time she comes is if she comes to pick up a gift I got for her or my nieces and nephews
I feel you you babes have the conversation with her, if she doesn't change start mirroring her the actions to her. Hope she gets the message there after
And why haven't you created any boundaries with her yet?
You! That must be really hard and hurtful. I hope that now as an adult you can draw some boundaries and work intentionally to heal from the relationship that was and what it never was. As adults it would be good to be friends but what you are describing does not sound friendly.
Sending you hugs to the little girl in you that needed love and guidance from a big sister
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Murugi the gym is doing you Sooooo darn good ❤ keep it up
I've not yet watched but thanks babes for being on the right side of history. Murugi... She was the baddest, she was the realest. #RejectFinanceBill2024
The episode that I needed. The gems I’ve picked up are phenomenal. Watched another podcast where the interviewee reckoned the same - let people get to their lowest and they will know how to pull themselves back up - that will definitely teach them something.
Am looking for a close friend from this platform, I swear am a vibe 💃💃💃💃. Also you girls are amazing
Also looking to make friends but I don't know how 😂😂
@@The_Introverted_Pisces can we? 💃💃💃
Yeah girl. What's your IG?
@@The_Introverted_Pisces wamuyu523 am in a black dress for profile. Aaaw am excited to try this
Lydia just dropped GEMSSSSSS 2day....whoosh... I stopped my shower and reversed back yo listen again at some point.
This is so PROFOUND indeed these situations are COMPLEX!!! And i really related with both of you on most levels. THANKS FOR ENLIGHTENMENT
This was a great episode. It really made me think about my 5 siblings and our dynamic, so interesting!
This is so therapeutic for me,, I relate with Murugi on so many instances,,
Weuh!!! This was a lot but needed to go through with it. Things have been unpacked, thank you ladies.
Murugi acha kusema Mukeni ni mkubwa body😢. Hope you don't tell her that.
So much relatable. Kindly bring a part 2, 3 and so on. I have a feeling we need more of this.
Thanks for the vulnerability…TMI podcast 🙌🏿🙌🏿🙌🏿
Very important discussions. Very enriching
Take home... Mbona mtoto analia. Damn I won't say that again to my babies.
I am also the first born of 3 sisters and yeah, the brother is the youngest. Not ready to unpack our childhood. It's alot!! 😢
I just subscribe after what murungi did yesterday ❤
What a raw and relatable discussion!!! Thank you for your vulnerability
Every like I get i shout Reject the finance bill🎉🎉👺
Listening to Lydia speak about her relationship with her sister and i could cry🥺 i haven't talked to my sister since 2019 and i honestly don't think our relationship will ever be the same 😢😢 we move irregardless
What a wholesome episode! Its funny how this episode has really helped me in understanding some issues i definitely need to unpack with my sibling. Thank you for this ❤
Thanks for sharing, Jo and Lyd this was a very relatable episode
Its definitely TMI!!!!!🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
Me who is a first born that has turned out to be a parent to my siblings and a parent to my parents too. God, is this how you wanted it to be?
Murugi Murugi super proud of you for showing up kwa maandamano❤❤ I love you guys ❤
Oooooh my goodness,isn't this the most powerful episode ❤
Okay, so I'm finally prioritising therapy!!! Thanks to you lydia!!! I like the way it's affordable and I'm in a position to pay for it now. Thanks ladies... ❤❤❤❤
Thanks for this episode 99 % can relate being a first born of 4 and my dad passing after my high school struggling all thru college and now in a better place but ,,,uuuuh I can just say am the dad and my mum is the mum who lost the husband,not me loosing the dad...God heal our wound coz therapy just help us to know there is a problem for sure....❤❤❤love you big sisters
I have not been given a chance to be with a sister or brother that we share the same parents, I have step siblings on both sides and I can tell you, I have felt lonely most of my life. I don't know how it feels to have a conversation with a sister or a brother. Sending love from Uganda 🇺🇬.
#rejectthefinancebill🇰🇪
This is me.I have only step siblings from my Dad.my mom died when I was three.my step mom and her children hate me.am alone, I guess am even worse than you.
Thank you Murugi for fighting kwa ground and Lyd online ❤️❤️
Wooooow Lyd ....i love love your pov of so many things! It makes so much sense
Oh my goodness I relate to Lydia 100% about her dynamic with her sister
I have been waiting for this conversation
This was so wholesome❤❤❤re-watching is a must!
An amazing episode... thank you for sharing ❤🩹
This literally felt like a whole session of therapy ❤
This episode was really eye opening and you guys poured out your hearts...Really inspired to have better relationships with my siblings ❤❤❤
This is such a great conversation. Really appreciate this episode.❤ #tmipodcastke
Phew. Great episode. I tried to ignore the sniffling throughout, but for me who's so sensitive to it, the sensory overload killDt me.😢😱😱.
❤🎉❤🎉❤🎉 SPOT ON! Loved it!
❤❤❤❤ TMI represented jana.definately proud of you 🎉.#Rejectfinancialbill2024
Such a good and heartfelt conversation 👏🏾
My siblings are extremely toxic, so we are not in contact. I wish we were but it's so bad, I thank God for keeping me sane though.
Beautiful ladies as always. ..Lydia i love the hair and the Top❤❤...
For Murugi❤
Thank you so much Murugi for being aunthentic. I wish to become open like you
This is a really good topic but I feel its one-sided cause you have sisters , you could find someone who has a sister brother sibling dynamic. For example, i have two brothers and am the only girl
This feels like a therapy session😮💨learnt so much as a 1st born!🙂
I relate so much to lydia's story😢. Firstborn here working on our relationship with my two sisters.We never spoke for three years
Such a good episode, very informative ‼️👌
Am so proud of the girls for protesting
Min 1:05:46 - Min 1:05:48 .. i relate so much. It’s scary but at the same time i’m happy
What a beautiful conversation girlies. Loved loved it. Listened in twice❤. Also, thank you very much for ur consistency. Have your flowers💐💐💐
Am totally with Jo on this conversations. I promise
Thankyou for this episode ❤
I loved every bit of it.