Why I have no friends
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- Äas pĆidĂĄn 10. 09. 2024
- There are many women like me who have no friends, by choice or by chance and that is ok, you are not alone. Here is my friendship to no friendship story. Let me know in the comments your thoughts on not having any friends in Jamaica.
Mucho Love đ€â€ïž
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The betrayal from women is very hurtful đą
Yessssss!!!
I truly understand why you don't have that go-to-person. When the time comes you will know it. Just wondering if you attend church now.
I love you though. Love your accent and I feel blessed to have found you in this spaceâ€. I have friends(not many though) but I have my church family. You are wonderful! Your sense of humour is next to none
And family members
Very hurtful I recently got a friend and every time we go shopping and I buy anything. Even though her style is not the same as mine she would just want whatever she see me with. And try to get something like it or the same thing and started trying to dress exactly like me if I stop at her house she would just steal whatever she wants out the bag if I gođ to the bathroom and next time I see her she would be wearing it in front of me and trying to tell me itâs not mine she bought it somewhere else she was much bigger than me but would squeeze herself into whatever it was as long as it stretched. The last straw was when I stop at her house another day and took my wig and a hat that I was wearing of and put them in a plastic bag while sitting in the kitchen đ and she ask me you wanna put the bag in the room and took the wig and hat out the bag I ask her for my bag when I was leaving and she pretended as if she didnât know what bag I was talking about then she finally gave me the bag and say check it I didnât because I didnât expect her to steal a wig that I had already worn I check when I was already outside and she said you could get it tomorrow and then she didnât answer her phone when she finally answered her phone she said she didnât know what I was talking about I stopped dealing with her and saw her one day walking on the street with same hat and wig on. I just said you thief and keep walking. Never spoke to her again.
@@sheronwilliamson8224even church people like to be hypocritical sometimes though.
I have 3 friends, me, myself and I.
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Lol!!! Me one and God
Lol đ
I like that I have God also.
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Your Cuban/Jamaican accent is so cute. I have never heard this mixture before.
Right!! I thought it was just me, such a beautiful accent. I found myself falling in love đ a mix I never knew I needed.
Awww thank you so much always warms my heart and makes me so happy when I get positive comments about my accent, because in my mind for almost 20 years, my ass was very annoying for people but itâs always nice to be proving wrong
Awwww thank you so much itâs sad that cubans usually donât stay in Jamaica as long as I have to catch on this mixture of an accent
@@Florkubana There are a lot of Cubans that marry Jamaicans so they can stay in Jamaica. You just have to know where they hang out.
Wow, lots of us are here.
When I was younger I thought I had many friends but as I got older I realise they don't want you to be in a better position than them. My siblings are my friends
Lucky you âŠmine are my opps
My fresh opp is my blood brother
How lucky, its the same issue with siblings for me
This is very true!!! While I was being the helpful supportive genuine fun friend ( in my 20âs-30âs and STILL TO THIS DAY) Those DEMONS were cutting me up behind my back bcz I HAD MORE GOING ON FOR MYSELF than them. Jealousy is always at the top of the chain with female friends. Iâm 41 now and I can count on one hands how many ppl I talk to that are supportive in my life.
Me too, my siblings are my best friends.
No drama no nonsense no jealousy over rubbish
Journaling talking to myself my husband and family
I enjoy my own company I enjoy going out and doing things by myself
People are funny these days they envy even your peace I donât have the energy for the silliness
I do have friends overseas but these are highly spiritual and confident people we donât have to talk everyday or see each other but when we do itâs like no time has passed since we met some 20 years ago.
I am very very very selective in the people I choose to enter the circle I enjoy having people around but I donât need them as solitude is golden to me I can be selfish with what I do or I can spend time creating
You are right.
All in all said and done I wanted to comment but me explaining this time n time again seem uneasy for people SO ME GLAD YOU SAID IT EXACTLY LIKE I WOULD...rate who rate you, I believe too much in energy and energy exchange and since where I'm from I'm surrounded by jealousy envy lets just say negative energy I stay to myself ,my partner and my family..no matter how u think people happy fe u they arent n me tiad a c d fakeness in so call friends n me not even ago say the things I look past al me ago say is me still try fe do good all when me knw dem messed up n I know thats draining n since I'm different me stay inna me house,work hard and take care of my child.đŻ
Having no friends is actually a very common thing these days. I also have NO friends. Crazy
Ditto
Too common.. I wonder if itâs the social media why everyone just become so self absorbed đąđą no one is genuine again. Every one throw shades on their social or say they donât need ple.. But thatâs not TRUE WE ALL NEED PEOPLE AROUND US. Just imagine a world with u alone
@@kiraslyfestyle6856but because of social media itâs hard to have friends because like you say everyone is very selfish.
@@kiraslyfestyle6856 Yup! And any time I see a friendship that makes me say "Oh them cute eeh, wish I had a friend to do stuff with too" couple months or years later is raddam and they're airing each other out on the internet! And I just watch from under my rock and appreciate the friendless life I have!
Selfish and fake
A Professor once told me that friends are an illusion..
Oop!
That's not true. That's his opinion.
@@lindelmccormack1660
So is your's....
Indeed
That's not true that's your opinionđâ@@lindelmccormack1660
Some people are blessed with the gift of being independent, rather than a follower.
I give thanks to God everyday for making me this way.
It's actually hard to find genuine and consistent people. I believe it's harder for women too. It's much better to have a few people you trust than have lots of "friends" using you.
Itâs definitely not hard to find genuine people in the world.
@@MarianLivingLifeit is sometimes .. bc ple change after a while sometimes
@@MarianLivingLifeitâs hard to me.
Lucky you, itâs very hard to have genuine people who truly care about you.
I have no friends either. I have a few associates but no real friends
And that is ok â€ïžđ€ mucho love
Me as well.
I thought it was just me ..glad to know am not alone
Same. I had a close friend for over 20 years. She let a really petit incident get between us. Mainly I could not afford to go to an event which we planned to attend together but I lost my job and couldn't go
â@@Florkubanait's okay not to have friends. There are people with fake friends.
A good friend is like a good shade tree when the sun is hot. As the saying goes, a good friend is better than pocket money.
Can I tell you,I have friends for years,my best friend over50 years,almost 60,I give God thanks for the friends I have.
Thanks for sharing. I'm a Jamaican living in Canada. I have a friend who was born in Jamaica, and we've been friends for 30 years. My other best friend is from Panama, and we've been friends for 10 years. I feel truly blessed to have loyal and trusting friends.
Even though you have no friends, you can surely have acquaintances.
god bless her!..& as a straight sis western female I admit that I'm clueless. but there must be others - even if in the closet by day the shared black market computer files were missed by her?? so sorry she didn't get that support.đ & as a western, licensed health care worker WE also were not offered certain, imho, VERY important understandings..& ok, the early part of her being DISCRIMINATED against. ok, I'll continue to listen to listen to the remainder of her story..but it's CLEAR money was ALSO a factor! so sorry & I'll get more of my dinner plate & listen the remainder of, for now, what is her story...which that guy was so INSECURE ABOUT? himself?? clearly, teenage relationship happenings - losing a best girlfriend to the crazy - but I recently experienced the other girl friend apologizing - because sbe said some YEARS later the HE said: if you ever see her before I do (the guy said this) he told her: please tell her I messed up and how sorry I AM..because even though many years had gone by? like after much time, my girl/woman friend, like he said I'm his explanation that matched hers, he said he was wrong...so NO EVER assume your response or heartbreak was *wrong.* always understand the heart đŻ *speaks volumes* & without the need to question it's hear truth & reality..god bless!đđđâŁïžđż
â@@DiandraStarShine What??
@@chosenrasta7111 lol
Exactly, didnât understand anything that was said. It made no sense, rambling with no cohesion
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I have only one friend from church I pray with. And then my husband...and I do not trust family members. But God is still GOOD. More friends, more drama.
I am friend to many people, but I have no friends. To be my friend you must same values, virtues, and most of the people I know do not reciprocate. I am Cuban from another generation, we never talked like you just narrated. Un abrazo.
@Florkubana I can relate. I moved to Canada from Jamaica 15 years ago and my husband is my friend. I have met two friends from church, but we dont go out like I did with friends in Jamaica. I have two friends in Jamaica who I am still close to, so "Thank God" for them.
Thank you so much for watching and for taking the time to comment. This is why I wanted to share my story so that anyone who is in the same situation of not having friends because of cultural differences doesnât feel left out or alone
Wow.. itâs sad to hear. I thought it was strange I only have a small group of friends. Now I know Itâs a blessing to have a small circle.
I love that you say that you are in therapy thereby normalizing this very important need for mental health.
I thoroughly enjoy your posts.
I have very few friends. I think not having financial freedom limits social life and therefore friendships.
Never thought of finances and friendship in the same sentence but it makes a lot of sense
My wife has no friends...my mother has no friends...i have no friends... đĄ my children have no friends...
It's interesting that you say that. I found that I formed the purest bonds when I didn't have a cent. What I had though was lots of time. I think it's harder to form real friendships the older you get.
@@Nyammings this was true for me in high school and primary school. I still have friends from then but the need to keep up with birthdays, meetups etc with adult friends can be hard when youâre not coming from a well off background. Maintaining friendships with people who have migrated is a lot harder if youâre not able to travel often etc. Sometimes no matter how much love is there bonds wear thin when you canât be physically present.
Don't agree that finance has anything to do with it.
I feel like if you are genuine and real, it is hard to have friends. And it is very hard when you are a one of kind person. Happy to have made a friend recently that feels tribe-like and aligned and it took me all of 33 years.
I enjoyed this. I have a few close friends and 99% of them are from high school. I honestly believe that a friend after high school is a truly rare blessing. And I know, from experience, that situations reveal who are your friends... if you have never had certain life challenges, you don't yet know your friends.
THIS!!
Yes, nice to have ppl who knew you before you were Elderlyđ
@@daniellepottinger Troll.
I migrated years ago from Jamaica, i have no friends, i tried, and it didn't work out. I dont do drama, jealousy and people in my business. My husband is my friend.. My closest girl friends are back home in Jamaica.
Real friends are not easy to find . Whit good aura and good energy. The most are jealous for no reason sad but true. Take care enjoy your life peace âïž
Oh my gosh I came across her too, lol I thought I was the only person who had no friends
No way đ€Ł this so weird and that video is one year old
You are a great story teller. I love your sprinklings of patwa throughout the narrative.
I still canât wrap my mind around your comment. You calling me a great story teller is the biggest compliment I can ever get. Thank you so much.â€ïžđ€
Awww, sometimes it's good to be isolated. The world can be cruel and you are a walking ball of sunshine, happiness and love. I remember you everyday.
That is true. I think a lot of my personality. Today is a result of not having friends.
The moment you spoke about being open to finding sweet, meaningful friendship and connection brought tears to my eyes. I feel the same way, but is it possible?
I have hope đ€â€ïž
Iâm a Jamaican & I have no friends,thought it was me alone
You are not alone my youtube friend đ€â€ïž
Thank you so much for saying that cus I thought it was me alone nuh have friends đ€Ł. But guess what?? Now you are MY friend đ€â€ïž
@@Florkubanađđ
There are friends, and there are "FRIENDS". I don't really mix much with people anymore, so i understand. Love your Cuban/Jamaican accent, and you do the female dance hall "lang out tongue" ting very well (Although that's faar from my style..lol) Take care mi fren.
âUptown sketelâ đ€Ł to the core đ€Ł I agree with you there is a difference between friends and FRIENDS. Thanks so much for all the complements it really means a lot. Mucho love â€ïžđ€
The older you get the more alone you realize. I lost my best friend years ago to Lupus. Now i have a few bonds but it's different. My daughter is my Friend
I am so sorry for your loss đ
I have lots of friends and some close ones. I love them all but I donât think I have any friends that truly understand me or we have the level of deep connection Iâm seeking.
I can relate
Youâre a beautiful Queen! Itâs ok to not have friends and have friends. You will find your true tribe just by being you. When youâre an amazing person you have to protect your soul. Pretty girls have it hard too because a lot of women are insecure so their hate can be very telling. Trust me, if I was close we wouldâve been the best of friends. I am that girl!!
Sending love from Tampa to your town Queenđđ
I'm very happy to come across your channel, and your storytelling pulled me right in.
I've had to step away from NUFF friendships in the last few years.
For over 20 years, I've had a deep connection with Cuba, (I live here in Kingston) and have been there many times staying with local families.
Probably one of the most important people in my life journey was my first Padrino (may he RIP). He lived in Jamaica for about 10 years before he left for the USA (,same dangerous Mexico crossing), but he built a good life in Miami before he passed away.
Watching your stories brought back so many memories from my past 20 yrs đ
Oh my God you had a Padrino in Jamaica how didnât I know of this? I also lost my Padrino, but he was still in Cuba. They try to force him to leave Cuba when the Mariel happened but he stay and he never left. Thank you so much for sharing your story is a pleasure to have you here.
@@Florkubana Really, for the past 20 years or more there have been many Padrinos who have both visited and lived here. For a while I knew so many Cubanos living here, but I've lost touch with most of them over time.
The thing I adore about the culture is everyone sitting around and eating together and laughing like crazy about every little thing & teasing each other. So yes when you said the Jcan work culture was a shock because it's so conservative I completely understood how that was strange for you.
I'm actually an IyĂĄnifa now, made in Africa but I don't talk about it much with my fellow Jcans. Stay blessed âš
Your words ring so true. The strength it takes to walk without friends...nothing can surpass that. Circumstances put each of us in different path, and if you are good with it, you good...period.
Bless up! đčđčđšđŠ
Awesome story. I hope you find the BFF you deserve
The bible says: One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother. I think we need 2 or 3 good friends that's it. Plus family and your partner.
You're doing better than most so don't worry about it. The road to success is lonely and cold but you should definitely network with people in your socioeconomic space.
Indeed, and I have and many of the acquaintances that I know process have been form through business relationships
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đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł I am on the floor đ€Łđ€Ł thanks for watching
What does âcommunity bicycle â mean?
@@fitnessbabe7958 it means everybody can get a ride
@@oslong Thanks for the explanation.
Your experiences in life makes you wiser and stronger. As the saying goes keep your friends close and your enemies even closer. Thereâs a lot of frenemies around. Never take anyone for granted in your life. I have learnt this the hard way..
Being friendless can be a blessing in disguise a lot of the time. So stay blessed and keep being true to yourself. Having a lot of acquaintances is not a bad thing either it keeps you informed and life goes on.đ
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Thank you, Flor. You are wonderful and enough all by yourself. It is common to have fewer friends as we get older and that is OK. In fact, even the experience of friendship changes and you realize you don't need a lot of friends and practically can't maintain a lot of friendships because other commitments take priority. Sometimes, just one good friend is plenty.
Indeed life changes as we get older
If you're not toxic, I'll be your friend.
Girl you not alone. I have no friends either. I never speak about because i thought I was abnormal. I was also made to feel that by those closest to me.
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love you girl your so down to earth and really funny đđ
Thank you đ
Very rich and interesting life. Intrigued by your life's journey, and eager to hear more. I will keep watchingđ You've made it this far without friends and seem very happy, so cheers to you. Very confident woman you are
I have no friends either , use to when I was a child
Yeah
You are not alone
I enjoyed your very honest and transparent disclosure of personal experiences. I do have friends but not so much in the community where I live here in Jamaica. I moved from the southern coast to St. Ann. I had a circle of woman friends there, some of who I keep in touch with to this day. When I moved here I missed the female sisterhood that I have always known. I prayed about it and then through a yoga class I found a new sisterhood that were like minded and spirited. I like having deep conversations with both male and female but it is a little bit trickier with males. Some men haven't experienced a "platonic" kind of closeness with a female without a sexual connection. With my girlfriends we like to go to nature places, do yoga, go get something to eat. One particular friend who comes and goes to Jamaica, likes karaoke so I do that with her. I do alot of things that keeps me active and connected. We learn from all of life's experiences and I can tell you have as well. You seem to be a joyful person able to be genuine and with no time for any thing that would lead you to not be the person who you are. So am I. I wish you well and look forward to more of your videos as I am now subscribed. Yes you are mature for your age because some women still haven't found the true selves and purpose. Be well and Buena Suerte .....
Having no fren that donât make you less and you wonât be different from another. Keep loving your family esp your children peace n love to u and family đŻđČđŻđČđŻđČđŻđČđŻđČđâ€ïž
Exactly, caz all me a watch the video me a say inna mi head "but aren't we ur friends on Social Media" đ only to here u finally include us in the end lol also yall really go to school 6 days a week in Cuba đł wow
Thatâs nothing, in Japan there in school most f the day.
I am 54 years old, i have no friends, i except my husband, he also have no friends , we talk to many people, have many acquaintances .
I have a few amazing female friends that I called my Sister's they are pure and secure in their lives.
Love you all my Gurls so happy to have you all in my life đ Christine. Kim. Simone. Chereece. Janelle. Valerie. Faith. Lashawn. Marlene.
Let's take our friendship into God's Heaven đ đ âšïž â€ïž
I had reconnected with 2 friends from 2014. We were only friends casually but over the past year our friendship has blossomed.
Its so hard making friends that you can trust and rely on.
Hola señora. Saludos desde una jamaiquina aprendiendo español . Me han dicho que mi bisabuelo es cubano asĂ que es un placer escribiĂ©ndole . La cosa es que es difĂcil encontrar a amigos autĂ©nticos y sinceros. TambiĂ©n es un camino solitario sin amigos pero no se sienta presionada. Usted me parece una persona chĂ©vere. Un fuerte abrazo đ€
Muchas gracias por las palabras tan bellas. En la embajada de Cuba quizĂĄs le puedan ayudar a encontrar a su familia
De nada y gracias por el consejo. CuĂdese
Im the same and Im the CEO of a company employing 120 people. Im a leader whos devotion to work causes me to not have time for friends. Im surrounded daily by my employees, my wife and 2 kids but no friends. Ive learned though that sometimes the most effective leaders are the ones who have high self awareness and are comfortable walking it alone. Oh and I watched the entire 35 mins đŹ
Thank you so much for washing the entire video and thank you so much for sharing your story and your experience we have a lot in common
You are so honest and fun. I have my one bestie friend for over 30 years. Itâs nice to have at least that one true friend you can count on.I totally understand your situation, you have a great personality and you will be able to trust again.
Thank you so much!!âșïž
Youâre not the only one Young Lady Iâm from Jamaica and I donât have any Friends either.
Same here. Iâm from Jamaica too and have no friends.
Same here
Hope yuh find the deep connections u deserve!
Flor, I lived in Cuba for 3 and half years and you bring back great memories â€
Sometimes itâs very hard to find true friends when you are a genuine person. If you are looking for superficiality, there are many âfriendsâ to be found.
I have acquaintances where I live but my two real friends do not live in the country in which I reside.
So I get what you are talking about.
You know seh ah true! Thinking about how I get along better with religious ppl đ€Ł
OMG Flo I love you. I'm almost 20yrs older than u and relating to every single statement u just shared. I work from home so don't have a workplace to create any kinda friendship per se. The closest to a friend I have are my sisters. I'm skeptical about female friendships because I honestly feel anxiety about trusting women in general. I, however, am more comfortable with male friends even tho I keep them at arms length. Guess I feel I know what they are about and how to handle them. I love that u are an uptown sketel that's hilariousđ . I've been seeing snippets from u for a while now and been enjoying your Spanish Patwa accent. I'm now subscribed and looking fwd to your future post.
Your enemies can never hurt you. Itâs your friends that get in close and twist the knife. You need allies â€
So true
Those are not friends. You guys have the wrong definition. You were hurt so your POV is jaded unfortunately. There are good people out there! Itâs unfortunate that some people havenât experienced true, loving friendships!
Love â€ïž your journey just saw your page and I am impressed you look just like my daughter,keep posting,thanks!!
I resonate with this deeply. I too was an only child until the age of 12 when my siblings were born. We lived far up on the hills which left me isolated and I played by myself alot. I did notice that I was super insecure and shy even when I had friends especially other female friendships. I think the insecurity came from not fitting in or not having the same interest as the group. As I aged I realized I had a tendacy to attract alot of fren-enemies and overpowerimg personalities that enjoyed pushing my boundaries. Now that im older im more self assured and dont care as much about frivolous connections. Im quiet content being by myself and enjoy interacting with strangers here and there. Truth be told, being in solitude and enjoying your own company seems to make others suspicious as hell of you. Its like they cant fathom how someone can enjoy their own company đ.
You are right I am the same way similar experiences.
You're such a beautiful lady đ†watching fr Mandeville Jamaica đź
I love Mandeville I have a branch of Eyeland Eyewear there đ€â€ïž
@@Florkubana that's cool đđ
Having NO friends is a mix of choice, protection by the creator and the consciousness of living on a higher frequency, and I understand it!
Well in my head we are already friendsđ†Just sayingđ Love,love your personality đđ
Yes we are friends. Thank you so much. Mucho love.â€ïžđ€
@@Florkubana đđ€
I love your sweet selfâ€. I'm Jamaican. I truly enjoy your story đ
Bless Up Queen đž iam watching and loving your interesting conversation. Amazing
đuptown sketel ...subscribing ..I love your realness ..i dont like friends ..no bad experiences but i have learnt through my sisters and mothers friends and how hard betrayal is ...
I love your honesty, my husband is my best and only friend and I like it that way! I can honestly see with you and there is nothing wrong with you not having friends, in fact itâs the best way!
You can have work colleagues and you can have people as acquaintances, but you have your children and your husband and thatâs all you need!
God bless, you are doing well!đđŸ
Yes most of us over 40 don't have much friends...you're not alone
having no friends is lonely..friendship is good.
Indeed for me I enjoy loneliness I think once my kids leave the nest it will be easier
Many of us have no friends sister. I have not one friend, just a very small group of family members amongst a multitude of others.
Same here, no friends
I was always a loner growing up till now but I have learnt to be content in the matter. I believe the deep things we would want to share with another person, we should choose to share it with God who cares for us. At the right time in life, God will connect us with the right person with whom we can open up to who will understand us and be our true selves with. Speaking from experience, God is faithful to provide. On my friendless journey, I had to endure encountering and dealing with seasonal people who appeared to be for me but turned out to not be so until recently I met the reflection of myself in a destiny friend that I never thought existed.
Your good at storytelling.
Thank you so much đmany ppl find my descriptive narration annoying đ
@@Florkubana Your accent is nice, like it. It makes the story telling better,
Iâm so glad you started a CZcams channel. I saw a video of you on instagram and I instantly love your Spanish Patois accent. Like for real I love it! đ And then to hear the back story of you being from CubaâŠ
Listening to your story maybe itâs been harder for you because youâve always had one good friend at a time. Instead of it over lapping. Like if you had 3 go to friends and one left for whatever reason you still have 2 left and then a few years later you have a next good friend then one of the original 2 gets married and busy so it feel like 2 again ect.
Iâve learned if you donât have a handful of good friends before marriage and kids it will definitely be harder after. And a lot of woman that I see that have a good group of friends tend to come from a bigger family so when ever a friend comes and goes they have their siblings to fall back on (obviously this has to be a family that actually likes each other and gets along). But it is probably harder when youâre an only child to begin with and donât have a lot of cousins too. Sigh thereâs so many factors.
But I think the pandemic really showed people who really arenât their friends too! Iâve made a handful of friends through work in my adult life. I wouldnât say best friend but weâre definitely catching up for lunch or invited to major life events and checking in on each other since we no longer work at the same place anymore. And you definitely canât talk to your family the way you talk to a friend of no relation no matter how close you are itâs not the same. Sometimes if youâre lucky you could have a sibling that is your best friend.
my friend you have made my day with this comment. It really makes a lot of sense and I think you have discover the reason why I donât have any close friends right now you should send me your therapist fees cause I owe you one there is power in quantities and as you said, I had three friends, at least instead of the just one I would probably have at least one friend right now, I think maybe because I am an only child and I am one burner always been and always will be. I have that tendency to be entwine and loyal to that one person instead of 2 or 3 and four but now that I have three kids, I know that love can be shared equally, so it will be easier to have more than one friend. Thanks again đ€â€ïž mucho love
Florkubana are a beautiful soul and a strong funny,smiling woman I have enjoyed your videos. True friends are a blessing which l'm bless to have a couple .You have Love in your husband that's a great start, l'm still waiting to meet my soul mate. The saying nothing before its time ,wish it would hurry upđ
For some friends, once you decide to advance yourself in life, you become their meal ticket, and There is another set of friends who are just not happy for your success and communication fades.
I have a great friend my best friend we met on my job 14 years ago before her I was always a loner just me and my children as my friends and a friend that lives in Jamaica who I nearly see. But this girl really prove what a true friend is when I became injured on the job and been home for the past 3 years there are really good people left in the world.
We love your insight, analysis, warm and delightful personalityâŠ.your story telling ability is amazingâŠ.and indeed I can see you working very diligently to contain the uptown sketel đđđ.
There is a sketel under the surface of most Hispanic womenâŠ.and I mean that in a complimentary wayâŠ. You have to keep sketel ready whenever you need her.
I have been married to an uptown sketel for the last 30 years.
đ€Łđ€Łđ€Łđ€Ł my go to technique to keep the uptown sketwl tame is ronspeak with my hands in my pockets
@@Florkubana my girlâŠ..Sketel caaah tame. You can only manage her and exploit her attributes whenever it is necessary. đđđ
Nothing's wrong with you. Maybe that's just your journey. Ive tried to form friendships and have had similar experiences like you & that's why I had children.
I was tired of people and disappointments. So far my children have been my hugest blessings and we are super close, so i dont have the bandwidth for friends.
Plus, the jealousy alone is enough for me and that is the curse with me and people. Most friendships are codependent and are not genuine at all, plus I hate gossip and that's one of the things most females love to do. Males friends were my "go-to" for decades until i realized dem sneaky to and eventually get fresh wid yuh!
So I take it for what it is, *MY JOURNEY*. I have a lot of things to do that most people cant relate to anyway, so im good.
Just remember *"people come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime!"*
I just discovered your page, tonight, totally by accident.
This is the 2nd video Iâm watching.
The 1st one was about how you came to be in Jamaica.
Fascinating story.
I love your Jamaican/Cuban accent.â€đŻđČđšđș
Keep posting content. Your story is remarkable and very, very interesting. đđđœ
Thank you so much for your comment. I am so amazed by the reception of my storytelling on my story. These are things that I am just starting to learn to appreciate, and I am so grateful of you for pointing it out. Stay tuned I have a brand new story time loading.
Iâm 44 and have no close friends close by. My friends from teenage years are in and Trinidad and Canada and I reside in Texas. Living in Texas for almost 4 years now and itâs been challenging for me to make friends. Maybe Iâm not trying hard enough? I think itâs important to have women in your circle that you can go out with , hang with, hike with etc.
Women without friends are confident.
for me confidence came with age
Its funny how this topic hit home. I realize later in my life that the only frienships I have are with my family. I have associates or acquaintances. I try to teach my daughter about this so she does not become too dependent on the idea of everyone being your friend. I look at those who are rhere for me when I truly need it. Qhen I need some to talk to at my lows, I realize the only one I can talk about anything was my sister. So it became apparent that I had no friends outside of my family.
Very interesting video. Sometimes a person's upbringing and past experiences influence how they feel about friends. But friends should make you feel better, offer support, be there for you. Many friendships are toxic, cause more drama, or they are one-sided. One gives and the other only takes without giving. I have very few friends, but many hands stretched out for help all the time, so i get it. Love your videos. Mucho amor y buena suerte !
Jordy. I dont have tictoc but so glad youre posting here. I think about you and forever grateful for my dance abilities. You have always been such a breath of fresh air and a giving person. đ
Omgggg I also alwaysss knew you were an uptown skets eno!!! Omg Denise!!! â€
Oh my little friend I am so happy to have you here and you should get TikTok . What is wrong with you? Lol.
Do you know me very well from day one so yes đ€Ł
Very interesting and genuine..... but just continue to do You.... youll be ok.
This was pretty Kool to see, I feel seen haha. Thanks for sharing đ
Glad you enjoyed! Mucho Love
Wow it's interesting to see all the comments and this post. I am a dude and I feel like I have no real 100% friends. I really had no friends and was always alone in school. Yeah spoke to people and had acquaintances but that where it stopped. That atmosphere has def bled into adult life. Even to the point where I have a wall up because I am used to being alone? If that makes sense.
I was the same and still am to a certain extent..
I just love flor such a full beautiful soulđđ
Don't worry better so. Believe me you dont need them .i have so many friends. Fake friends .i say always better walk alone than whit fake friends. I have only god next to me . Myn only best friend ever . I hope you find a nice men . Bless up peace âïž
Friendships can be seasonal, and only some people who come into your life are meant to stay. You must cherish the moments you share and accept that people will always disappoint you. Based on age and wisdom, you can access your interactions differently and see the red flags in people. You can either categorise them as a true friend or acquaintance. If you are making all the sacrifices in the friendship, you should know that the person is not your friend; she should be willing to support you just as much as you support her. You should not give up on friendships.
Not giving up on friendships thank you so much for the lovely message and very useful tips.đ€â€ïž
I heard the bicycle statement and was flored đ€Ł
And you are so proper about it DWL
@@Florkubana you don't see I'm a proper man lol
I can relate totally, friendships are very hard to foster especially when youâre in your thirties!⊠I also worked for your mother-in-law and husband before I migrated, we met in passing when your boys were very tiny but my experience was wonderful! New sub!
I have friends as far back as from Primary school. My friends are in categories as I mature and had experiences that forces me to see them in ways I did not notice for years. I have lived in the Southern part of the USA where Jamaicans in the early days were far and few between. I have developed a support system of woman. None of them are perfect icluding me. So, I take the good and know how far I can go with trust.
You're not the only one but I pray that one genuine person who I can have an authentic friendship with.
Amen
You for sure will have those friends and it will be amazing
I pray đđŸ
That sketel demonstration was hilaaarious đ
CANDIDLY MISS MAMM
UR NOT MISSING OUT
THIS IS REALLY A BLESSING 4U
IM STILL TEENAGER N I HATE EVERYBODY
STAY WIDE OF PPL U WILL B OK