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i know im randomly asking but does anybody know a method to log back into an Instagram account..? I was dumb forgot my account password. I would love any tips you can give me
Hello sir. Whenever I go's to any relatives home. My child takes thinks from their home and starts to play. He don't sit in one place in anyone's home. So my family members saying to beat him, shout at him when he make mistakes then he don't do these thinks again. I don't want to shout and beat him. I want say clearly everything him calmly when he is with me alone. So i don't understand what is right or wrong. I am right. Or wrong. If wrong what is solution. Please anyone help for the same.
This was amazing. I myself belief in raising myself to be able to raise my child. I loved where you said that we don't do it because it's hard work but the impact of the easy way out on our child makes me cringe. Thank you Sridhar!
Hi ...i don't argue , neither i make them follow me .. i do same as u said ... But problem is my child still don't care about anything just being very very careless, don't study , don't wake up for school if i don't wake him up , don't care about homeworks class work , i just tell him that whatever you are doing going to lead you to a miserable life , i don't shout , don't argue , and these circumstances are on a daily basis ,. Still he don't listen don't follow , don't do anything . Now what do I do ?
This really makes a lot of sense...actually when we talk to them we have to spend time with them and they do understand.So this is quite a viable reason.
Good afternoon ☀️🌻 Sir Whatever you said, is absolutely Correct ...most probably we must be logical and rationalistic with our kids...they will have better understanding...sir I appreciate your continuous efforts... which supported me alot...I m thankful to...My all bestest wishes to you Sir.
I agree with you sir my son is a 14 yr teen and i am in a misery how to handle him. He argue with us and many more things he does which scares me that he may lead in wrong path and spoil his future. I just want my child to be a good human being who can survive in this world.
When your child refuses to do something... Instead of saying: "You have to do it. You have to write/ brush your teeth/ switch off the TV." Say "I can see you really don't feel like doing it.When I was small, I sometimes didn't like it too when Grandma made me do it. But we all have to do it beta. Come, I will help you." Let's EMPATHISE before reinforcing the rule! Let Children know it's okay to not want to do something, and sometimes we still have to and that you understand. Be in your child's team, even while putting the boundary!
Shirdhar it's good to see that you've started facing front while making the video, makes a huge difference. You have very good content, and very practical solutions to very real problems. This video definately deserves way more views.
As a parent, I have been trying hard to show the consequences of their actions many times. But sometimes I also loose my temper with constant disobeying. What do you do when your child continues to say no to studies, no to reduce screen time, no to every good habit I'm trying them to start practicing. How long can a parent also keep calm. Specially when there is no support or any active involvement from my partner.
I have learned a lot from following your channel. Extremely practical insights on parenting and self-help! Please do a session/ a video series on how to bring up young kids successfully in a single-parent family, post-divorce.
Hi sir ur videos are very useful i want to share my problem my son is 10 years old he is my only son he is good in studies but the problem is he doesn't listen to me . Always he argues and gives me back answer very rudely n he is very very childish . He always mingle with the small children.He don't do his work n he is not responsible . He is not interested in studies or creative work he always want play game in mobile or watching tv iam very very depressed sir. Pls do reply me n give me some suggestions pls.
Sir, sometimes after even talking reasonably child don't understand...I wanted him to sleep at the day time so that he would be fresh enough for study...but daily I waste my lot of time to make him sleep...and for the reason today I have beaten him and he slept...i feel very bad for raising hands too...I always talk to him he promise me as well..but things are not working
Hi shridhar sir Ur thought is very good but my daughter is 3 years old and I am always telling her listen to me and she always does what she wants she is stubborn kid and tired to teach her to listen
I have been using your tips. But when i try to reason with my 12 yr old daughter, the minute she feels that she is at the end of an argument, she leaves with this argument "there is no point in talking with you" and leaves upset. So my question to you is what should a parent do in such a situation?
Hi sir very beautiful suggestions on how we grow up with our child. Very true sir very day is new lesson to learn and develop our mind behaviour and hard circumstances. I have two kids my daughter is 14 and son is 10 daily there is a issue with the tv and I dont tell my kids not to watch tv but try sharing for both. But my daughter don't support me for my efforts . As my son is younger he wants to watch super heroes, I am trying he should watch only for an 1hr / half and try requesting to share tv for his sister by the time he is ready my daughter refuses to watch and start up for an argument and son will start taking advantage of that and continue s watching. How to slove this problem it's increasing day by day as kids are at home from a long period. Please share your opinions and some tricks to handle my daughter.
My child only listens to my narcissist husband who always contradicts to the discipline I try to inculcate,he speaks very disrespectfully to me and it’s very painful to see him replicate his father who misguides him eg .being on time to school or anywhere he has to …if I wake him 10mins before time to ensure he reaches on time instead of waiting outside class always for being late…he says it’s ok at-least he’s not that late where we will be called …even wasting his time the entire day…holding on with the Hw until the eleventh hour due to which he gets only 5 hours of sleep on weekdays and now developing health issues…it’s all soo stressful!
Can this advice be applied to a 5 year old as well? Because I face this exact issue with my 5 year old and I worry that if we do not align well now, how will we align ourselves in his teenage when his problems will be lot more complex and we will also have a long history together of having been fighting it out.
But you cannot explain to a 16 yr old to not to go for parties or night stays as you may end up being a drunk or probably end up doing pleasurable stuff .. even if you give them the precise harmful reasons .. they simply won't agree to it or may probably say that I won't do that whereas the results may differ .. your point is right but it is 60% right .. basis instances and issues similarly you may not be able to ask a child to not be stubborn about his expenditures specially if you are in debt .. they may listen to the harm but that may affect their mind inappropriately and may decrease their self esteem or maybe increase hatred towards their parents depending on the environment statuses .. I believe your point is 60% right but if you have solutions to the above mentioned issues .. my belief may increase .. at times it is quiet easy to say stuff like this but real experiences could be bitter or maybe not in your support .. hence I would suggest do whatever you can as a parent but if the child still goes the wrong way .. it's not your fault and gradually with age someday he or she will understand whether if it was wrong or not .. it may be late for you or maybe not .. but guys let's agree .. THAT'S LIFE .. KEEP TRYING AND LET GO !!
(Vent) My brother 10 year old is ruthless and doesn't listen to anything even when I scream at him, today I told him to help me do the laundry and he refused after my dad even told him I tried to talk but all he did was walk away, I felt hopeless and so disappointed, where did my little sweet brother go? Before this incident we haven't argued the whole day which was a blessing but his stupid ass had to ruin it, I even congratulated him for not arguing in the whole day but when he started acting like a spoiled little shit I couldn't hold it in anymore I can't deal with him words cannot express how deeply disappointed I am, part of me wishes he was never born I can't have just one damn day without him destroying the peace in the house. I started crying after he left, 5 mins he comes back not even to check on me (I was in the garage and it was nighttime) just because my dad forced him to help me, I was crying and saying how he's spoilt and a fucking nightmare and that he made me feel horrible and he didn't even care, even after my mom started crying too bc of his behaviour, in matter of fact he seemed satisfied with my reaction as a fucking psychopath. I hate my brother, right now I'm still crying and he's beside me watching TV like nothing happened I need help please I want my old sweet brother back not this monster
Sir your parenting tips are awesome but way of talking should be better, it's going very fast if it can be little bit slow than its easy to understand 🙏🙏 please
As a father of two teenage boys, what would you say are the best ways to calm them down after disagreement and discord? Thanks for this video, wishing you the best from all of us here at Family Is Love!
Sir my son just 5yrs but he couldn't go school and doesn't take any food himself always he asking me to do so. Even he doesn't play with others.simply he move to school and simply return.how can I change him to mingle with others
Can you please make this video in hindi... I need to show this to my mother as she and my brother fight daily as she thinks that my brother doesn't listen to her.
My son is 5 yrs old. He had a speech delay in the past. He never like to listen stories and rhymes. Could you please let me know what's the phycology behind it.
Hello sir this is Swetha and I'm from Hyderabad,my 16 year's old son not follow his daily routine on time,not listening to both of us,not showing interest in his studies,not sleeping well,just holding his phone Althea time sitting in one corner this is going on from one year since this online classes started day by day he is not sitting with us only listen to music and play games in his phone always with his earphones on even when we should he will not respond to us please help me with the issue!!
U have tried reasoning and everything else. What shud i do? Hes becoming worse and worse day by day. When i reason hes not ready to listen or acept what i say. My 4year old boy
i don't no how, but i saw few women as mother they go to room, teach something to their kids and even such stubborn kid, they ignore other family members but listen to their mom immediately, permanently how ?? what they say in few minutes??
Irony is that...that kids have no time to take better views from Parents.. they r almost lost in their phones.. they love to follow Instagram,Twitter,WhatsApp all...bt dislike parents views...
your talk indicates that you are not a father or parent, you are talking totally fake ! aapke saath abhi nahi hua isliye aapko pata nahi hai, aap apne angle se sab kuch bol rahe ho, practicle game is different as we are parents.
A parent can never consider that "if you listen to me, that is fine and if you do not listen, that is also fine", because a parent never wants their child to suffer what they themselves have suffered. The emotional bond of a parent with child never allows "do whatever you want to do in life" otherwise there is no value of any experience. I think that is poor western theory
Such people should be abandoned from the society. These people are emotional blackmailers. This has become a business. Parents, there is no one better than Parents for the children 🧒
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Could you make a video on Therapies used in psychological counseling 😊
Great Video on Parenting 😊
i know im randomly asking but does anybody know a method to log back into an Instagram account..?
I was dumb forgot my account password. I would love any tips you can give me
@@nishapswarna1236?
Hello sir. Whenever I go's to any relatives home. My child takes thinks from their home and starts to play. He don't sit in one place in anyone's home. So my family members saying to beat him, shout at him when he make mistakes then he don't do these thinks again. I don't want to shout and beat him. I want say clearly everything him calmly when he is with me alone. So i don't understand what is right or wrong. I am right. Or wrong. If wrong what is solution. Please anyone help for the same.
This was amazing. I myself belief in raising myself to be able to raise my child. I loved where you said that we don't do it because it's hard work but the impact of the easy way out on our child makes me cringe. Thank you Sridhar!
Hi ...i don't argue , neither i make them follow me .. i do same as u said ... But problem is my child still don't care about anything just being very very careless, don't study , don't wake up for school if i don't wake him up , don't care about homeworks class work , i just tell him that whatever you are doing going to lead you to a miserable life , i don't shout , don't argue , and these circumstances are on a daily basis ,. Still he don't listen don't follow , don't do anything . Now what do I do ?
Every soul knows what is best for them. Support your child. The universe will give the consequences if not choosing the right thing. Much love. xx
This really makes a lot of sense...actually when we talk to them we have to spend time with them and they do understand.So this is quite a viable reason.
Good afternoon ☀️🌻 Sir
Whatever you said, is absolutely
Correct ...most probably we must be logical and rationalistic with our kids...they will have better understanding...sir I appreciate your continuous efforts... which supported me alot...I m thankful to...My all bestest wishes to you Sir.
*_also_* , when your child talks back to you, it's actually not THAT bad *_BECAUSE_* they can say no. And it comes in handy in the future
Please do a session on Career guidance, time management, stress management
I agree with you sir my son is a 14 yr teen and i am in a misery how to handle him. He argue with us and many more things he does which scares me that he may lead in wrong path and spoil his future. I just want my child to be a good human being who can survive in this world.
Good human being don't survive in this world
@@sinhashivam6169 that sounds like you just got on stage 3 of depression which is very close to suicide.
@@sinhashivam6169 and I guess you are a 15 to 23 year old
When your child refuses to do something...
Instead of saying:
"You have to do it. You have to write/ brush your teeth/ switch off the TV."
Say
"I can see you really don't feel like doing it.When I was small, I sometimes didn't like it too when Grandma made me do it. But we all have to do it beta. Come, I will help you."
Let's EMPATHISE before reinforcing the rule!
Let Children know it's okay to not want to do something, and sometimes we still have to and that you understand.
Be in your child's team, even while putting the boundary!
Shirdhar it's good to see that you've started facing front while making the video, makes a huge difference. You have very good content, and very practical solutions to very real problems. This video definately deserves way more views.
seems pretty logical will try with my kid
Thank u shri
I tried some tips and for sure it worked well...More to go on this way.....
As a parent, I have been trying hard to show the consequences of their actions many times. But sometimes I also loose my temper with constant disobeying. What do you do when your child continues to say no to studies, no to reduce screen time, no to every good habit I'm trying them to start practicing. How long can a parent also keep calm. Specially when there is no support or any active involvement from my partner.
Makes a lot of sense ❣
Well explained…. Nice video 👍
In this lockdown we got request people to deal with Narcissistic person
It can be anyone parent, partner, friends and siblings
I agree your logic i have same thought but i haven't partners support including family members even giving examination
I have learned a lot from following your channel. Extremely practical insights on parenting and self-help!
Please do a session/ a video series on how to bring up young kids successfully in a single-parent family, post-divorce.
I really enjoyed and appreciated your video.
👍
Thank you very informative 👍 much needed at this time
Hi sir ur videos are very useful i want to share my problem my son is 10 years old he is my only son he is good in studies but the problem is he doesn't listen to me . Always he argues and gives me back answer very rudely n he is very very childish . He always mingle with the small children.He don't do his work n he is not responsible . He is not interested in studies or creative work he always want play game in mobile or watching tv iam very very depressed sir. Pls do reply me n give me some suggestions pls.
Sir, sometimes after even talking reasonably child don't understand...I wanted him to sleep at the day time so that he would be fresh enough for study...but daily I waste my lot of time to make him sleep...and for the reason today I have beaten him and he slept...i feel very bad for raising hands too...I always talk to him he promise me as well..but things are not working
Thank you sir
Hello sir my childrens are really good
But sometime I think i became more harsh with them... pls tell me how can i change myslf...
Hi shridhar sir Ur thought is very good but my daughter is 3 years old and I am always telling her listen to me and she always does what she wants she is stubborn kid and tired to teach her to listen
I have been using your tips. But when i try to reason with my 12 yr old daughter, the minute she feels that she is at the end of an argument, she leaves with this argument "there is no point in talking with you" and leaves upset. So my question to you is what should a parent do in such a situation?
But what if the child does not take proper decision & still argues after having logical discussions??
Awesome work shridhar ♥️
Good advice practical
Very well said.
Hi sir very beautiful suggestions on how we grow up with our child. Very true sir very day is new lesson to learn and develop our mind behaviour and hard circumstances. I have two kids my daughter is 14 and son is 10 daily there is a issue with the tv and I dont tell my kids not to watch tv but try sharing for both. But my daughter don't support me for my efforts . As my son is younger he wants to watch super heroes, I am trying he should watch only for an 1hr / half and try requesting to share tv for his sister by the time he is ready my daughter refuses to watch and start up for an argument and son will start taking advantage of that and continue s watching. How to slove this problem it's increasing day by day as kids are at home from a long period. Please share your opinions and some tricks to handle my daughter.
really nice 👍
Superb
My child only listens to my narcissist husband who always contradicts to the discipline I try to inculcate,he speaks very disrespectfully to me and it’s very painful to see him replicate his father who misguides him eg .being on time to school or anywhere he has to …if I wake him 10mins before time to ensure he reaches on time instead of waiting outside class always for being late…he says it’s ok at-least he’s not that late where we will be called …even wasting his time the entire day…holding on with the Hw until the eleventh hour due to which he gets only 5 hours of sleep on weekdays and now developing health issues…it’s all soo stressful!
Can this advice be applied to a 5 year old as well? Because I face this exact issue with my 5 year old and I worry that if we do not align well now, how will we align ourselves in his teenage when his problems will be lot more complex and we will also have a long history together of having been fighting it out.
Why do parents fight and yell so much?
Can u make some videos for handling children age wise say 1 to 3 and 4to 6ect
I would like therapy. But I don’t want “their payments” to be an added on worry. So, what would u suggest Sir?
But you cannot explain to a 16 yr old to not to go for parties or night stays as you may end up being a drunk or probably end up doing pleasurable stuff .. even if you give them the precise harmful reasons .. they simply won't agree to it or may probably say that I won't do that whereas the results may differ .. your point is right but it is 60% right .. basis instances and issues similarly you may not be able to ask a child to not be stubborn about his expenditures specially if you are in debt .. they may listen to the harm but that may affect their mind inappropriately and may decrease their self esteem or maybe increase hatred towards their parents depending on the environment statuses .. I believe your point is 60% right but if you have solutions to the above mentioned issues .. my belief may increase .. at times it is quiet easy to say stuff like this but real experiences could be bitter or maybe not in your support .. hence I would suggest do whatever you can as a parent but if the child still goes the wrong way .. it's not your fault and gradually with age someday he or she will understand whether if it was wrong or not .. it may be late for you or maybe not .. but guys let's agree .. THAT'S LIFE .. KEEP TRYING AND LET GO !!
(Vent)
My brother 10 year old is ruthless and doesn't listen to anything even when I scream at him, today I told him to help me do the laundry and he refused after my dad even told him I tried to talk but all he did was walk away, I felt hopeless and so disappointed, where did my little sweet brother go? Before this incident we haven't argued the whole day which was a blessing but his stupid ass had to ruin it, I even congratulated him for not arguing in the whole day but when he started acting like a spoiled little shit I couldn't hold it in anymore I can't deal with him words cannot express how deeply disappointed I am, part of me wishes he was never born I can't have just one damn day without him destroying the peace in the house. I started crying after he left, 5 mins he comes back not even to check on me (I was in the garage and it was nighttime) just because my dad forced him to help me, I was crying and saying how he's spoilt and a fucking nightmare and that he made me feel horrible and he didn't even care, even after my mom started crying too bc of his behaviour, in matter of fact he seemed satisfied with my reaction as a fucking psychopath. I hate my brother, right now I'm still crying and he's beside me watching TV like nothing happened
I need help please I want my old sweet brother back not this monster
Hi Sridhar, please make a video on managing wfh specially for those who are handling different chores.
Sir your parenting tips are awesome but way of talking should be better, it's going very fast if it can be little bit slow than its easy to understand 🙏🙏 please
As a father of two teenage boys, what would you say are the best ways to calm them down after disagreement and discord? Thanks for this video, wishing you the best from all of us here at Family Is Love!
Sir my son just 5yrs but he couldn't go school and doesn't take any food himself always he asking me to do so. Even he doesn't play with others.simply he move to school and simply return.how can I change him to mingle with others
Sir please tell how to convince muslim parent for your dream to be an artist.
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Can you please make this video in hindi... I need to show this to my mother as she and my brother fight daily as she thinks that my brother doesn't listen to her.
My son is 5 yrs old. He had a speech delay in the past. He never like to listen stories and rhymes. Could you please let me know what's the phycology behind it.
Hello sir this is Swetha and I'm from Hyderabad,my 16 year's old son not follow his daily routine on time,not listening to both of us,not showing interest in his studies,not sleeping well,just holding his phone Althea time sitting in one corner this is going on from one year since this online classes started day by day he is not sitting with us only listen to music and play games in his phone always with his earphones on even when we should he will not respond to us please help me with the issue!!
U have tried reasoning and everything else. What shud i do? Hes becoming worse and worse day by day. When i reason hes not ready to listen or acept what i say. My 4year old boy
I really want to correct myself but most of the time i fail... What t do
i don't no how, but i saw few women as mother they go to room, teach something to their kids and even such stubborn kid, they ignore other family members but listen to their mom immediately, permanently how ?? what they say in few minutes??
Irony is that...that kids have no time to take better views from Parents.. they r almost lost in their phones.. they love to follow Instagram,Twitter,WhatsApp all...bt dislike parents views...
This was really nice !! Good going Sheidhar😊
My daughter doesn't obey me and she shouldn't. I am the one that obeys her. She is in control, not me....as it should be
It is a very clear explanation sir
🙏👌👌👌
Can you help me?I want to take revenge from my friends for torturing me.This is any way.Tell me sir.
Thank u so much.i have a doubtbabout my son is 7yr old.i want a appointment. How to contact u.
How to control beat a child I want to left dis behaviour
You are handsome sir
your talk indicates that you are not a father or parent, you are talking totally fake ! aapke saath abhi nahi hua isliye aapko pata nahi hai, aap apne angle se sab kuch bol rahe ho, practicle game is different as we are parents.
Wats the solution?
A parent can never consider that "if you listen to me, that is fine and if you do not listen, that is also fine", because a parent never wants their child to suffer what they themselves have suffered. The emotional bond of a parent with child never allows "do whatever you want to do in life" otherwise there is no value of any experience.
I think that is poor western theory
Beta our you concealing on line where
I am here because my neighbor kids is not listening to me😂
Please translate to Kannada
I told my son to go with your granma he will ready to go left with me he seen I'm like a enemy what I can do
Such people should be abandoned from the society. These people are emotional blackmailers. This has become a business. Parents, there is no one better than Parents for the children 🧒
At least give a real life example...
Bro kids have a right because kids have dreams parents should understand and support 👎
I tried some tips and for sure it worked well...More to go on this way.....
Can you please share your tips...iam a mother of 5 year old.. really in need