Genevieve and Aaron's Final Breakup - Bachelor in Paradise
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- čas přidán 20. 11. 2022
- After Aaron Clancy breaks up with Genevieve Parisi, she's cleared shocked and doesn't really say anything to him. But after a few moments to think about it, she's ready to discuss with him, one last time, what happened here and why it's not going to work out. From 'Bachelor in Paradise' season 9, episode 15, 'Week 9, Part 1.' Watch the 'Bachelor in Paradise' 2022 Season Finale TUESDAY 8/7c on ABC. Stream on Hulu.
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Please don’t bring Arron back ever
he is a professional gaslighter
I don't like the way he was talking to her. What a jerk. No wonder he's single.
He’s dating one of his ex’a lol and two of his other exes are on friendly terms after they exposed him for dating them both at the same 😮
same. I would be so upset if a guy talked to me like he does
Well she was talking the same way to him to be fair. These two just need to either revise their dating patterns and change something or just stay the hell away from the opposite gender.
@@speedude0164team aaron or team genevieve and why?
@@metawave789 Sorry but I really couldn't care less anymore.
Aaron has always showed alot of red flags since Katie's season, and need some serious help before he gets into a serious relationship.
Well duhh he dated two girls at the same time and now those girls are on friendly terms lol and now he’s dating another ex lol
Aaron never meant to leave Paradise with any girl. He was just there for the clout and free vacation.
That what they all there for tbh and if they do happen to find a person it icing on the cake
lolol
What's clout LOL 😂
He can't leave with any girl so that he can make it to next season 🙄
He is absolutely manipulative and he never had intentions to leave paradise with anyone
Just like last season when he ran off into the sunset with his homeboy buddy
🙄🖐️
I thought he would try to make it work outside of paradise. Why stick like glue to her, if he knew they weren't right for each other? I get Gen, she wasted her time.
@@VictoriousSage true
@@VictoriousSage To continue to gain as much exposure in the lime light as he can. 🚮
aaron > genevieve
He was just leading her on. If it wasn't Genevieve it would've been somebody else.
Aaron manipulated her and made her doubt herself a lot.
aaron deserves better
@@metawave789no he doesn’t. Yes Gen is insecure and emotional. But Aaron is worse he has major anger issues as seen in the last two seasons. And he is very manipulative and talks down to her and tries to make it feel like it’s her fault. If you think he deserves better then you are probably just like him.
This was him getting back at her by leaving her for all the times she packed her bags and was ready leave him (because of the things he did and said). I saw him continually play with her emotions the whole time by acting like it wasn't going to work out just to see her frazzled and worried and then tell her he wants to be with her. He is manipulative and vindictive and I don't know how any relationship can survive with someone like that. The way he broke up with her was so rude and he was laughing doing it. I actually really like Gen. I think she's a genuine person. He would cause her to act the way she did and then gaslight her and then accuse her of gaslighting. 🙄
This couple argues like they been together for many years
This couple was a hot mess from the beginning 🤦🏽♀️
Reality Steve had an article recently about Aaron being exposed for having other girls back home and he only went on paradise for more clout …. Which I CAN SEE ..
Why didn’t she tell him how disrespectful he was when he yelled at her and how he lost his temper so easily
I get where Aaron is coming from. but you don't break up with someone like this after saying you're falling in love. It was very cruel. she's hurt, and he just said by out of nowhere and wanted her to just accept it. this kind of things only make other people more closed off and cold through their next relationships :/ he's not wrong but could have been a bit more mindful of her on his executions.
He's talking to her so heartless no emotion, but I think they only reason he wanted to stay was for the beach and the food not anyone else including genieve
Omygosh...I'm embarrassed for him and for her. They both need to work out their insecurities, fears, traumas, co-dependencies etc...but the producers the love these type of dramatical characters.
The producers love this kind of drama but you'd think they'd want a few of these relationships to actually work out or the show becomes pointless.
May be they are individually nice but they are terrible for each other. This is so toxic
Aaron is a game boy! The only way to hang around paradise was to leech off of someone. Gen should have left from the time she caught onto his mind games. He played this mind game last season too. This is classic manipulation and the women that keep going back, keep forgiving, hoping that the man will change even if all the "bad for me" signs are staring them right in the face. That was his MO last season. Don't bring him back!
They have the maturity level of a 15 year old…
I feel bad for these two. I was really rooting for them from the beginning, but it's become evident throughout the season that because of their mutually strong mindedness, the relationship could be fire/water, quite often. You can tell Aaron has a lot of insecurities to work on, and Genevieve can get heated pretty easily. I'm sure it hurt them both to have to part ways, because you can tell there was love there, amidst the chaos.
For real I still think they could be a good match after they work on themselves
They’re both using “you” statements which are accusatory. They’d be better off saying things like, “I feel like….when you do this” at least that takes some ownership of their feelings. Overall though, it’s they seem exhausted by the amount of arguing they get into. One thing about arguments. You try to be right, ultimately you lose. You need to hear where the other person is coming from and what is bothering them.
Absolutely but these are communication skills that have to be learned. What they need is couples counselling.
@@angelaraber I agree. They obviously don't understand each other. Like the whole thing about him complimenting her and her not liking it. They are adversarial when they need to establish that they care about each other. Well, too late now! On to the next, as they say!
At the end of the day no one wants someone who leaves at the first sign of trouble.
Exactly. Huge turn off
Exactly
Who do u blame genna v or aaron@@dinaeilo8648
@cinderellaasmr who do u blame aaron or her😊
I don't think he was gaslighting. Ppl throw that word around way too much. I think he was actually mature, and made a valid and insightful point about her packing her bags. And he owned up to them both causing issues. She on the otherhand was very immature.
Packing the bags was a valid point, but if that was a real issue for him, they should’ve went their separate ways then instead of giving her a rose and sticking around another 2 days. She also owned that it’s both their faults in the beginning, but Aaron was nervous serious about finding someone if the rumors are true and was never gonna leave with Gen despite telling her he’s falling in love with her. Genevieve, however, I hope she works on herself too, so her next relationship is better.
@@gutstospare I agree he's in the wrong for giving her a rose instead of going their seperate ways
When he says "youre right it wasn't just you it was me too" then follows that up with a stab like "I shouldn't have called you beautiful I should have called you something else" that's where people get the gaslighting. He's clearly trying to play out the part of a "nice guy" while throwing underhanded slaps. That's gaslighting
And imo he's just trying to look nice during a break up while not letting her get a word in.
Being all "I'm nice see I'm trying to communicate" while shutting her up at every turn she says anything negative about him
@@ceecee4491 When he said he should've called her something else, that could be passive aggressiveness, but not gaslighting. Gaslighting is when u make someone question their reality...
@@ceecee4491 agree 💯
And people wanted them together I knew Aaron never loved her and gen so much wanted a love story 😬
Laughable
You can literally see her going crazy. She’s so confused. He’s a classic manipulator she doesn’t even realize what’s going on
Genevieve has severe anxiety and she needs to learn how to deal with it in relationships or men will continue to leave.
I seriously never realized that this was her issue until you just said it. I love her, she's always been someone I love seeing in the Bachelor world. I hope she can get the mental help she needs. I summed it up to her being dramatic but that's clearly not all there is to it 😕
Big time!! She makes me feel anxious just watching her !!!
Maybe it’s cause she’s prone to anxiety provoking gas lighting men.
Yep. She's still beautiful.
Yes. I noticed her extreme anxiety some weeks ago. I imagine it is exhausting for her and her partner(s). However, I disagree that if she doesn't learn how to deal with it... "men will continue to leave." She may instead find someone who knows how to soothe and live her through it.
Hellen Keller could see this coming...😒😒😒
Johnny is such a good friend.. Looking out for everyone’s well being 💕Bless Him🙏
Aaron has a point. Every time a fight breaks out. She packs. I don't care. Aaron is in the right here. Long-term this relationship wouldn't work. Gen acts too quickly. This was bound too happen. Too early for this type of heated up arguments in their relationship. And they argue about everything. Both need some emotional maturity here. This was a ticking time bomb from jump!
100%
Gen was listening to her gut instinct, he’s full of it.
I've only seen the season through these clips so I don't know much about what each did, but it just seems like Genevieve projects her insecurities on the people she dates and Aaron will go to any length to try and salvage a bad relationship which leads to toxic behavior. Again, this is why I gave Justin credit for not wasting any energy on this nonsense.
I agree
Why people say he's gaslighting? He has a point about her being a child, always running to her bags. He's right about them not fitting together, they trigger the worst in each other. Maybe he wasn't serious about wanting serious relationship, but it also never came off like he was so I wouldn't say he was leading anyone on either. Like come on, you're on a vacation handing out roses, it's not that deep.
Yep both got angry at each other yet Gen got mad over him saying she looks beautiful today. Too funny. 😅
she goes to leave cuz he treated her badly
he was narcissistic as hell. he WAS gaslighting her making her think she was crazy. she didn’t do anything wrong
@@deergreentea2847 I didn't watch the season. Is there something he tried to convince her she did when she really didn't?
@@speedude0164 I didn’t watch the beginning but one instance was when she expressed her feelings to him about wanting to spend some alone time to tell him she loves him but he was super focused on hanging with the guys. when she expressed feeling hurt, he just threw the situation around and made her question what she was feeling like she was the crazy one.
I always hated aaron, glad to see people came to their senses
I think Gen is a nice person but she complains literally about everything and whines all the time. I didn't even get how Aaron could tolerate it. She seems to get bothered about everything. She also seems to get a rise out of picking fights and making a scene. Aaron I don't feel is ready to be in a committed relationship, and he should have let her walk away when she packed her bags in the past as I am sure he knew back then it wouldn't work. They made the right decision going their separate ways. Aaron is right as well - Paradise is the easiest place to be in a relationship so if they are already having problems/doubts, it's likely not the right fit.
Aaron is THE gas lighter of all gas lighters
Gen , you r so beautiful. I loved how strong you were when you left . I wish you great things in life. You can see how kind your heart is. Hope you find a real man.❤ from On Can
they both have major communication issues.
This relationship was uncomfortable to watch. I fast Forwarded.
🤣🤣🤣
How not to love.
Toxic toxic toxic... He gaslights her. Gen is right here.
How is this gaslighting ? I am not saying he is right but I think he was making valid points, and she was as well. They are just not fit
Both are toxic! Both needs therapy! And need learn to control emotions!
Im so glad this finally happened. I liked Gen at first but this whole season made me dislike her. Everything she did. It was so childish and defensive. When every guy was honest with her she couldnt take it and became rude, whiney, or packed her things. Like no one is perfect but to attack constantly when you dont hear what you want is exhausting. Aaron and Justin have work to do also but I was more on their side with Gen this whole time.
These two are toxic for each other. Move on, there is no love here. They're both power-tripping.
Yes honey 👏🏻 walk away!!!! He’s a gas lighter!!!!! She should’ve left the first time and I kept yelling @ my tv hoping she would.
He was there for the followers only, he stayed again until the end with more tv time ando was never planing to be with someone. Nothing seems sincer from him
They were a hot mess glad its over.
Quote Of The Night:
"I gave you another chance and you ran Again."
Aaron to Genevieve at the Showdown, aka "I'm not gonna let him put this on me."
Boyyyyyyyyyy
Lol
She's so dramatic. She's like this with everybody, he's just calling her out on it.
Exactly!! And Justin had to deal with the same thing. But Aaron handled it better
But I wish Aaron would pick better girls
No one's perfect. He made for great reality TV!
Gen is beyond toxic.
This z jst sad they both shld go their separate ways
Gen...run away as fast as you can. He was not there for a wife.
He is so hot headed.
Genevieve deserves a million times better than Mr. Gaslighter. I'v never been more happier about a breakup....well, other than when I realized I was divorcing my ex-mother in law with my ex-husband. 😜
He always has to have the last word too
But after a terrible argument and was shocked to and does not realized of saying anything and then walks out of her life and went home cause that relationship is not gonna work out.....
It’s funny how Genevieve called him a child when she herself needs some growing up to do as well lol They just weren’t a good match I’m just glad they’re over lol they were funny though I’ll miss them 😂
Honestly, I like how Aaron shut her down.
They are BOTH riddled with issues!
Why do I have a feeling the other dude she was with before him would’ve chosen to be with her
Unnecessarily complicated.
I’m over him
Team Aaron
She is no good Genevieve I don’t blame him for breaking up with her they got into a fight and she walks away and then happens voice so he does side about it and broke up with her he said he didn’t wanna woman every time there is conflict that she’s going to walk away that’s not how do you saw promise yes he should’ve ended it sooner granite but he probably was thinking about it and took it to heart when the whole says you have to think about do you wanna get a beer do you want to get married or are you ready for this stuff so he probably thought about it and got tired of them fighting and no one every time they can have a fight that he doesn’t believe that She’s not gonna stay thing at first then when she tells her friend she’s really upset but he asked her if you had anything to say and she just walked away after she was crucifying to her girlfriends then she came back and let him have it and he says you’re blaming everything on me and he’s telling her over and over now it’s both of us it’s not just you and she’s not even listening she keeps telling him that you’re blaming everything on me when he is telling her no it’s both of us she just doesn’t want to hear anything she acts like she’s not to blame her at all for this but really realistically she’s playing for most of the stuff because she’s not no real woman a woman doesn’t just Go away that’s not how you solve your problems do you have to work it out and talk if you can walk in away is never going to solve anything and she is not an adult enough to have a real relationship whenever she gets mad she just walks away and she’s not ready for any kind a really serious relationship if you think you’re just gonna walk away and then she yells at him like oh you think I’m falling for everything no that’s not what he said he said it was both of their fault but she doesn’t want to hear it he doesn’t need to be in a relationship until she grows up
In future u will do it again an he is right.
Sooo uncomfortable to watch 😳
These two are toxic. Bad combo
They are deff not a good match and I’m sure they both look back after this and realize it as well lol at some time they’ll both be able to look back on this and laugh
Team Aaron on this one
Those are facts...🙌🏼🙌🏼😏
I didnt like Genevie on this season. She gelt a bit too demanding very early from all the men, but it didnt feel like she gave back evne half of the attention or care she expected. As for Aaron - can t be disappointed if you know the guy, I am more surprised anyone expected anything else.
Finally very toxic relationship
Now he realizes it? Everyone with their mother knew that these two were a recipe for disaster after their first fight but their little toxic selves continued so I guess better late than never 🤣
I haven’t watch but one Episode this year I find that the young people middle-age people come on the show just for becoming a celebrity and being on TV I don’t think they’re really there to find love and engagement so it’s not worth watching stupid
You have to be blind to not see Genevieve is batshit crazy and for a long time was still in love with Justin. Which is why she was so mad that he was moving on and wanted him out of the island.
Idk y’all I’m team Aaron with this one
There has been news that he was dating two girls at the same time before paradise. Told them that he was going to Paradise for fun.
Genevieve is crazy...Aaron sounds sensible to me...
They’re both just there for clout and a free vacation. They would have broken up regardless- he’s not ready to settle and neither is she.
u must be joking
Hopefully they stay far away from each other in the real world, and Aaron **cherishes** the girls he’s had on the side this entire time LOL.
Majority of this cast would’ve been much better off dating in the real world. Hopefully Genevieve grows as a person and finds a better match.
There's nothing wrong with her having boundaries and packing her bags. People focusing on that seem to consistently be men, because they consistently downplay the things Aaron said and did to drive her there...
She's such a mess, basket case. Yet, I want her to be the Bachelorette. I want to see all the comedy and drama as 25 guys go after her.
Aaron is a player and using several women he is not ready for a real relationship. All he do is blaming other women on every session, grow up young man and be honest with self first.
AARON IS SUCH A BADASS😂😂
Aaron, I firmly believed the first time Genevieve packed her bags she was not right for you. You are kind, caring, loving and thoughtful for others. She only cares about her thoughts, feelings and her own way of doing and handling things. I am not at all glad about your sadness and what you went through, but I am glad you are not with her. Trust me, Aaron, there is a woman out there who wants a man like you.
You must be joking
@@SweetHonesty69 Not at all.
@@marybell3409 troubling
@@SweetHonesty69 Why are you so troubled?
I started off annoyed with gen, but he's genuinely manipulative and driving her crazy, which is why she's coming off erratic
100%
Agree.
Agree
I think they both are. I hate to say it but I’m glad they broke up.
They both are. But the "boy" made her feel she is to be blamed for everything...cruel cruel cruel. "He was glad it didn't work" was really cruel like he wanted to stab her heart more while it was bleeding . No class at all.