60. Analog for Anxiety // How my notebooks are helping me cope with life // Olive TN + Field Notes

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  • čas přidán 25. 08. 2023
  • Join me for a chaotic and messy babble about my current mental and emotional challenges, and how my notebooks are helping me to move through them.
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Komentáře • 41

  • @smiththewright
    @smiththewright Před měsícem

    ‘Simplified systems’-what a wonderful way to phrase it! Thank you 🙏

  • @elistia
    @elistia Před 10 měsíci +5

    Reverse SAD is very real and it's even harder to deal with because the majority doesn't really respect it in the same way that they respect SAD. When it's rainy and what not, it's acceptable to complain about the dreariness but when the sun is out, everyone expects you to happily skip thru the fields. It's a struggle for sure. Hang in there.

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +2

      I've done a lot of reading on it over the past couple of weeks and so many things just make sense now. I have my struggles in the winter too, but NOTHING like what summer has been this year, and even last year. The mornings are starting to feel like autumn and I'm feeling a lot better overall.
      Thank you for watching. 💜

  • @Calluna.V
    @Calluna.V Před 10 měsíci +5

    Thank you for sharing your tools and strategies for anxiety! It's so helpful to hear what helps others in challenging times. I am just steps behind you, in that my only son is off to college in a couple weeks. It hasn't hit me yet, but I have a feeling nothing prepares you for an empty nest. Loved seeing your journal and how you stay organized! I use a bullet journal, and I love getting ideas for new ways and approaches! Sending a fellow mama virtual hug to you 💗

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Hugs to you as well. 😊 It definitely hasn't been an easy transition. One day at a time.

  • @rijd2304
    @rijd2304 Před 10 měsíci +7

    I loved how she mentioned the smell of basil. I also have basil growing and sometimes rub it in my hands and smell the aroma before journaling and doing mindfulness exercises. I do this with a few things I find aromatic and pleasant. I'm currently going through the book "30 Days to Reduce Anxiety" by Harper Daniels and using that for journaling and using some CBT exercises as well.

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I'll check out that book. I've never heard of it. Thanks for watching and commenting... and basil is AMAZING.

  • @greylady1958
    @greylady1958 Před 10 měsíci +2

    empty nest, such a deep sad feeling... I can relate. Two years ago my youngest daughter, the only one still living at home, moved to Germany. Now its just me and my little dog at home. You will get used to it, some day, but not today, not yet. Missing him, is letting you feel how much you care and it feels closer . I wish you all the best

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +2

      Thank you for your kind words. I had a very hard day today, and I know there will be more. I feel it will get easier with time. Thank you for watching and commenting. 💜

  • @kelvynmartin8688
    @kelvynmartin8688 Před 10 měsíci +3

    Hi K, This is awesome....I loved seeing all the different ways to file your information into your diaries. I am going to start some of your ideas your shared. So thank you so much. As for your son living his dream sweetheart.....you gave him the gift of Independence and also the gift of living his dream...an amazing gift to have given any other soul. We are all here to lift of children and help them rise to the glorious human beings we know they are. You are amazing to have achieved this as a Mother. Good on you. Pat yourself on the back and celebrate what you have done. The only advice I have to help your through this period sweet lady is stay busy when you need to, cry when you need to and rest when your able to....and like your doing...keep taping into the things you know work like walking in nature and looking after your self. Every day that passes is one day closer to see your son again. I am sending you love and encouragement K....You are amazing woman with an amazing son.....Take care ...Terri from Australia 🦘 🇦🇺 💜

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci

      You are SO kind and thoughtful. I had a very hard day today and reading this comment made it a bit brighter. Thank you. 💜

  • @deepdeserttarot
    @deepdeserttarot Před 10 měsíci +4

    This is so good, thank you for sharing the cast green, the blackberries, the freshly made bed, all of it with us. This soothed my ruffled feathers! ❤🙏🏼

  • @christyc625
    @christyc625 Před 10 měsíci +4

    Yay! I look so forward to your videos K & I've been thinking about you since your son left home❤ Hope you are coping well bc I know how much you must miss him & look forward to him coming home for a visit -I also hope your kitty is doing better:) So happy your channel is growing so quickly -you're almost at 1,000 subs!! 😉👌💕

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Thank you for your kind words. I had a hard day today, but I'm moving through it. Kitty is MUCH better, and her prognosis is much better than originally thought. 💜

  • @Rryki
    @Rryki Před 10 měsíci +3

    I have the same exact setup (Travelers notebook with the blue county fair field notes on top). I saw the thumbnail and was shocked lol. Thanks for this video

  • @catierandy8579
    @catierandy8579 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Such a great video, thank you.

  • @megz_world
    @megz_world Před 10 měsíci +1

    Oh my god I’ve never realized this consciously but I do the same thing re: thinking about months in thirds!!! This has been a game changing realization…

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I knew I couldn't be the only one! 🤣 I hope your realization helps you in some way. 💜

  • @jcgnbd7410
    @jcgnbd7410 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Washington State - yeah!!! Love the video, SAD is difficult, can’t imagine having the reverse. It must be so hard to have those challenges when others on the upswing. It is interesting to think about that being difficult. I am a SAD individual, however, seeing your anxiety coping methods for Reverse SAD are wonderful for when mine is kicking in. Add in my autoimmune disease and stress and anxiety seem to rule, so watching this video gave me some ideas to help it. Thank you!

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci

      So glad you received something from it. Thank you for watching. 💜

  • @Mariescartes
    @Mariescartes Před 4 měsíci

    This video in itself is so soothing to my soul! TYFS 🧿❣️✨

  • @HoneyLouWilson
    @HoneyLouWilson Před 10 měsíci +2

    I love your planner

  • @GardenGoddessTarot
    @GardenGoddessTarot Před 10 měsíci

    💙💙💙 Top tier tips! Love the little field notes, seems like a super useful system!

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci

      It gets me through the day. 🤣 Thanks for watching. 💜

  • @kan-zee
    @kan-zee Před 6 měsíci +1

    7:49 ... Is that writing board , a Passport size ??
    8:41 ... Is not having only one card to represent the year...eg: the "hangman" card , projecting a stale prediction (feeling shipwrecked for a whole year) ?
    The Hangman card was a method of hanging,that was a common punishment at the time for traitors in Italy.
    Modern Meaning: The Hanged Man is the card that suggests ultimate surrender, sacrifice, or being suspended in time.
    I'm not sure, but I always thought these cards were a daily or seasonal card draws...this way you continue to progress in your spiritual cultivation and development , through the passage of time.

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 6 měsíci

      Yes, that's the passport size 2023 pencil board from Traveler's Company.
      As far as the tarot card goes, I don't use tarot in a predictive way. Tarot has always held more meaning for me as a reflective tool rather than a predictive one. I actually plan to do a whole card of the year video for 2024 because I'm approaching it in a very different way this year.
      Thanks for commenting. 🙂

  • @francesrobinson1335
    @francesrobinson1335 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Thanks for sharing your system. Really interesting. I'm starting to think about planners for next year. I worked in a Hobo-Weeks a bit this year, but I'm not sure if I will next year. I discovered those little field notes, recently and they are intriguing. I'm also interested in TNs. I need to take a closer look at what they offer. I have been thinking about you and your son. I used to work on Parris Island as a mess hall manager. I worked in the Weapon's Battalion unit, so every marine recruit passed through that hall eventually. Huge cavernous dining hall. The recruits were so beautiful - all ethnicities represented, there. I loved them all, for a bit. Take care, Kay.

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci

      What a job that must have been! I can only imagine. Thank you for watching and commenting.

  • @SonshineLady7
    @SonshineLady7 Před 8 měsíci

    I am on full disability for a depression/anxiety combo so I know how horrid especially anxiety is. I am fascinated by the basil. I have no gardening skills at all and have even managed to "kill" succulents that people swear will live anywhere. I think I over watered according to one of my friends. Anyway...is there anything particular I should know about growing basil inside? I would enjoy that so much then maybe slowly venture out to other plants. Very enjoyable and well-presented video.

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 5 měsíci

      Thank you so much! Basil loves heat and light. I've never grown past summer because I haven't invested in indoor lights. That's something I might do this year.
      If it makes you feel any better, I killed a succulent last year.

  • @curseofcontext
    @curseofcontext Před 10 měsíci +1

    your approach is so helpful! what did you call the sticky note method: alistair is that the person who sourced it? would love an in-depth video on it 🧐

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +1

      Yes, the Alastair Method. It's pretty well-loved in the Bullet Journaling arena. I'm hoping to do a video when I set up for mid-September.
      Thanks so much for watching! 💜

  • @victoriahinton9869
    @victoriahinton9869 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Love the video! Can I ask, where did you get the monthly tabs for your monthly insert?

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci

      The monthly tabs are part of the yearly customized sticker pack that Travelers Company offers. It includes a larger set, which is the set I have on my monthly, and a smaller set. I've seen similar tabs elsewhere on Etsy.
      Thanks so much for watching. 💜

    • @victoriahinton9869
      @victoriahinton9869 Před 10 měsíci

      @@amidst_the_grey got it, thank you!

  • @katsmith8263
    @katsmith8263 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Cool. So you don't actually make the day plan, you just write down the task to do and dates, but don't consolidate the tasks for the today and this week?

    • @amidst_the_grey
      @amidst_the_grey  Před 10 měsíci +1

      I'll do a daily list if I'm feeling really distracted and just need to hone in on a particular set of tasks. Or, if I have a project or something like a lot of tasks related to specific projects, errands, or events, sometimes I'll make an entirely separate list on a sticky note and work from that. In general, though, tasks all get dumped in the Field Notes, especially if they aren't time/date dependent. Weekly planning just doesn't work for me.
      Thanks so much for watching. 💜