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Remember all of you who believe you are neurodivergent in some form but not diagnosed, here's something I was told (when I was feeling invalid for not being diagnosed) by a diagnosed autistic friend..
"We were all undiagnosed once."
To this day, it means the world to me and helps me through a lot. Hope it helps you!
I love that! Itâs also the one year anniversary of me being diagnosed as autistic! Iâm really glad to have had made it this far! Iâm so lucky
Thank you for sharing this. It helps
I never thought of touching things because they look soft/nice feeling as a stim. I've done that forever, the only time I would wander away from my parents at a store was when I noticed something on display that looked like it'd feel nice, I'd have to touch it, and my mom would tell me to keep my hands to myself. I hate when I touch a thing that looks like it's going to feel nice and it doesn't in reality...if betrayal had a texture, it would be those things. Like the fake leather couches that look soft and you touch them and it's like stroking a piece of cardboard.
This blew my mind also! I HAVE to touch all the fluffies!!!!!! Anything that has texture I HAVE to know what it feels like. And my ADHD impulse control issues make me do it before I even know what Iâm doing lol.
I've been carrying around little patches of soft rabbit fur since I was a kid. My grandma actually gave me this super soft pin so I could just have it on my shirt. It was awesome.
I had a similar experience recently. I went out with a group of my friends to check out the 99c store and I enabled my mom energy and told them to stop touching things cuz we didn't have the money to buy things since we were getting shakes later, and about a second after I said it like the 3rd time I saw this super nice floor mat and was absolutely entranced. All parental responsibility gone I just zoned right onto touching that mat.
there are 2 kinds of soft, good soft and bad soft, and bad soft needs to BURN
It such a disappointment đ
8:02 Zoning out is a mild form of dissociatione. The different forms of dissociation are actually different severities on the same spectrum, its all one brain mechanism. Of course everyone can experience dissociation differently. So the difference is the severity :)
I started this video and hit pause after the song started to go use the restroom. Unfortunately, I paused it after hearing "life is" and continued by singing the Duck Tales theme song, multiple times. That was over an hour ago and I've since, eaten lunch, taken out trash, talked to people on Discord, watched OTHER youtube videos and have now gotten back to this one. I had to start it over from the beginning though because playing from only a few seconds in is weird to me, and now I'm stuck playing, pausing, singing Duck Tales and rewinding again. ... But I also can't stop laughing about it ... I don't know.
1:38 lmaooo these "autism moms" truly are a different breed lol how is she trying to make this about her? đ the woman is even crying, trying so hard to be the victim for having to be "strong" even though she knows damn well itâs her child whoâs suffering the most. Like⊠Maâam. Being a parent is hard for everyone, and having to be strong is not inherent to having a neurodivergent child. Iâm sure your child is the only one here whose struggles are actually relevant to the situation đȘ
When you're not late diagnosed, but you were late to the party when it came to learning anything about the diagnosis.
I was diagnosed with ASD when I was about 12... I found out what stims were like last yearđđ
Ugh yeah itâs so frustrating how other people function without WHY and expect you to behave like a whyless lunatic too.
Seriously, if you do it without knowing why, thatâs nuts!
So in response to some of the dyslexia videos. My best friend for about 7 years (We're teens now) has dyslexia. I never thought it was weird that she needed to ask me for spelling or to check her work for grammar errors. Her handwriting was also really bad but I got used to it and learned to read her handwriting. We didn't know she had dyslexia until 3rd grade and I met her in 2nd grade. So up to this day, I'm the only one in our classes who can read her handwriting to check her work. (You know how in English we had to prewrite, draft, check with a buddy, revise, and then write the final paper. I was the only one who could work with her.) Now that I've been diagnosed with really bad ADHD and minor tics, she has been a huge help because she understands how different it feels to be able to put a name to actions that are different from others.
Aww thatâs a great story of how we can all help each other in this world! â€ïžâ€ïž
As a dyslexic person I can never find relatable dyslexic video's so seeing the ones in here made me feel so much better because I thought I was the only one
1:22 My mom is SUPER chatty and I just can't NOT talk around her or she'll get upset. So I keep my responses to a minimum and have started trying to let her know that I'm feeling nonverbal.
Omg im the same with asking ,,why?ââ! i always wanna know why i have to do something and it frustrates me sooo much when people dont care about explaining
Woah, Iâve dissociated a bunch of times, but it is really uncommon and has never lasted over a minute, but it was always so interesting. I never was really afraid of it, and I was always just fascinated about how everything was so vaguely different and disconnected. I think I had an intrusive thought or something once while I was dissociating and I was literally unable to stop myself from doing it, or at least thatâs what I think happened. What happened os that I was riding my scooter, got to the top of this hill, and then started dissociating, but this time it was different, I felt that instead of disconnecting from my body, I, in my body, disconnected from reality; this is my attempt to explain what really really happened- I was sooo convinced that I had just realized that I was playing in a video game (Iâve often thought about the idea of life just being a video game) and how funny it would be if I just crashed at the bottom of the hill, since yâknow itâs a video game and there are no consequences, and so I willingly stepped off of the brakes and face-planted into the asphalt. Still got a scar.
Oof. That must have hurt! Did you talk to someone about that?đ
@@OneSpicyDisaster I mean sorta, like what is a therapist supposed to do with that info? It sounds like the dissociation episode things usually last for a long time for ppl, and so I would, at best, get diagnosed with some mild dissociative disorder. Plus it happens so infrequently, it isnât much of a problem for me, I just have a weird scar story. Itâs actually usually even more fun to tell bc of how much blood head injuries have.
Maladaptive daydreaming
oof I've done something similar before. My only explanation I could come up with was that I somehow convinced myself the glass bowl was perfectly safe and convenient to put on the stove to make it dry faster, then somewhere in the middle decided boiling water in it would be fun and poured cold water in the very hot glass bowl still on the stove. I only came back to reality after I unintentionally exploded the bowl and miraculously came out uninjured despite being like a foot away from the explosion. Thankfully I was wearing slippers because there were tiny pieces of glass everywhere
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This is so me whenever my parents and I go on vacation and we hit the supermarket. Im sorry those couches look too soft for me not to touch them OK and don't even get me started on the cushions. Absolute Euphoria.
Masking is so exhausting. I've been doing it less and less recently, but work has been worse.
Zoning out is actually mild dissociation, itâs the same thing just different severities.
the person with verbal dyslexia is how I hear everyone around me if I'm even slightly distracted or if there's any background noise. Yay for ADHD lol!!!
6:17 and 10:34
I can relate to the part about recognizing places and people by how they look and not what they're called, and the skipping letters when spelling and also misplacing them
Same
1:40 (disclaimer i'm not being literal because idk where they live and they don't know where i do) I will be the child's best friend. It must be so hard for them both so if something as simple as me being there, sharing the plushies i bring to school, and making them stickers helps? I'd do it so fast! No one should have to be afraid of their child having a bad day, and I will make sure of that!
I forgot how to spell guy once. I had to ask my teacher
Did this first guy just put a tictok at 1.25% because he was talking to ADHD ? I think I love him
Ps... lisdexea is fake
4:13 I bounce my legs constantly. Any time I'm sitting down. and when I'm standing up, I rock back and forth or bounce on my feet.
Never knew that was stimming.
yeah, I first learned about stimming and didn't think I did it at all bc I can't do the typical flappy hands without dislocating my thumbs but oops, nope, it turns out that I'm stimming nearly _all_ the time bouncing and fiddling with stuff
OH it's called alexithymia?? WAIT THOSE ARE MELTDOWNS???? rip đ
9:07 lol I'm the opposite, I like plastic cups or coffee mugs, but i don't like to drink from glass cups for some reason. Don't know why coffee mugs are okay though??
Hey, theres something I do that Iâm pretty sure itâs neurodivergent, but idk what it specifically is. I repeat myself a lot. When I was a younger, I used to say nearly everything twice, sorta like stuttering, but not really. Iâd say a whole phrase and subconsciously say it again, usually quieter. I stopped saying it out loud, I think cuz masking and stuff, but recently I realized I still do it in my head. Probably like a third of my thoughts I say over again. Anyone know what this is? I think it miiight be echolalia, cuz sometimes snippets of something will just play on repeat for lime a whole day, and this sounds closest to, idk, echolalia makin me hear myself and say it again?? I really donât know.
My son had Touretteâs so I hear it all day long. I have ADHD and OCD and I do it as well. Also autistic people do it often. If you can make an appointment to see a therapist or a doctor I think it would be a good idea. đđđ
Has Touretteâs lol it doesnât go away.
@@OneSpicyDisaster OK, will do. Thanks for the advice, have a wonderful day!
4:01 *looks at baby blanket Iâve been stroking since I woke up this morning* uhhhâŠ
I think masking should be viewed neutrally in general and then had the negative/positive attached when regarded in certain contexts. I'm autistic and I heavily mask. While is it draining, I don't view it negatively because to me its like speaking another language instead of hiding who I am, as that's not what I'm doing. It allows me to build relationships normally with a number of people, which is what I need and want in my life, therefore masking for me is good.
However, I can see that if someone doesn't want as many social relationships with people and do feel like they're changing who they are just to interact with the world, then yeah, it is quite negative and actions should be put in place to stop doing so.
Although, in my experience, as much as I hate it, I think every autistic person should mask to some degree, cause I've found that we can make others uncomfortable sometimes. Like learning what is okay to say and what isn't. We don't want to unintentionally hurt people.
I hear what you are saying, but depending on levels of autism some people arenât able to mask. My youngest cannot. My middle child can, my oldest is hit and miss. I can but only for short periods.
I semi agree. Masking can be important depending on the situation (think like job interview or other important stuff). However itâs so difficult. Sometimes when Iâm masking, Iâll find myself saying things over and over because I donât know what else to say or Iâll think Iâm doing/saying the right thing, but itâs still wrong. I only ever feel like myself when Iâm completely alone now because masking has been so engrained into me that sometimes I donât even know who or what I am anymore
You have internalized ableism if you didn't you would view making as only negative.
The one with not realising emotions this happens all the time and I can't get out of the situation before anything happens and I am too scared to ask to leave the classroom which is were this often happens even if I do realise
Just a question, can dyspraxia be comorbid to autism because I do that and it bothers me a lot
I found this explanation and it makes sense :
when children with autism learn to control a robotic arm, they rely primarily on proprioception - that is, sensations felt from their own muscles - rather than on visual information, as typically developing children do.
Typical children with the most synchronization between visual and motor brain regions tend to have the best imitation skills. These regions are often out of sync in children with autism; and those least in sync have the most severe autism features.
So yes. Autism definitely can affect the way your brain communicates with your body. đđđ Hope that helps.
At this point my mind is completely fu**ed up ..... should hv known way before that m neurodivergent , may b I wouldn't hv end up lyk this.M undiagnosed but đŻ sure m autistic n hv adhd too with comorbid apraxia, was living my 25 yrs of lyf in blurr n confusion n clueless, wanting to fit in,got criticised n invalidated constantly n me myself criticising myself for all the things that I hv no control of....I was just born lyk this. Tons of trauma n pain is piled up now...I can go on n on
Omg 9:41 is me exactly! I do the exact same thing! đ
So being non verbal can be I don't want to talk like the idea is exhausting
9:05 Why don't she just get the water herself? I've never understood how people feel like they are allowed to ask things from other people, or ask or expect to be treated in a certain way or what have you. Like HOW? Do you feel like you deserve it, or that other people owe you something, or both?
Is this just me?
Why am I always one of the first comments Iâm 2 hours late
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7:51 What is that site? Seems kinda interesting.
No idea. Looked like a cam site
how have you been