Islamic Homeschooling: Empowering Muslim Parents - with Abdirahman Ikar

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  • čas přidán 21. 07. 2024
  • Chapters:
    Introduction: 00:00-02:53
    What does homeschooling look like? 02:54-04:51
    Why consider homeschooling? 04:52-17:16
    What qualifications do parents need to have? 17:17-47:23
    Won’t the child become bored? 47:24-53:48
    Isn’t homeschooling too restrictive? 53:49-57:54
    Doesn’t homeschooling impact a child’s social skills? 57:55-1:06:43
    Shouldn’t my child experience the “real world”? 1:06:44-1:08:33
    How much does homeschooling cost? 1:08:34-1:13:25
    How can parents make time for homeschooling? 1:13:26-1:17:22
    When is the right time to homeschool? 1:17:23-1:20:42
    How can parents learn how to teach? 1:20:43-1:25:36
    How do I choose or develop a curriculum? 1:25:37-1:41:00
    What if my child needs accommodations? 1:41:01-1:42:42
    What are the disadvantages of homeschooling? 1:42:43-1:44:28
    Is homeschooling becoming more or less popular? 1:44:29-1:47:02
    How about virtual schools? 1:47:03-1:54:15
    Final remarks: 1:54:16-end
    Ustadh Abdirahman Ikar is the director and head teacher of IEC, an online academy specializing in teaching Arabic Reading, Quran (with the comprehensive meaning), Islamic Studies, and personal development for young people.
    IEC also provides homeschooling consultations for parents needing help designing individualized homeschooling plans for their kids.
    You can register for his programs, see homeschooling resources, and book an appointment with him at ikared.com
    For a list of resources to get started at homeschooling, here’s a short article: / lets-start-homeschooling
    To see more content from Abdirahman Ikar, you can follow him on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, Medium, Twitter, and CZcams at @ikaredcoach
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Komentáře • 135

  • @IkarEdCoach
    @IkarEdCoach Před 10 měsíci +37

    Thank you to Blogging Theology and Brother Bassam for inviting me to speak on this topic. Muslims need to explore other educational options outside of the public school system.

    • @JohnnieWalkerGreen
      @JohnnieWalkerGreen Před 10 měsíci +3

      Thank you very much for the presentation and the resource information. The presentation was evident and complete. Unfortunately, the implementation will not be easy. Booth teaching methods, as well as understanding the materials, are not easy to master. There is a chance that by the time we master it, the children will have already graduated.

    • @katielarsen2630
      @katielarsen2630 Před 8 měsíci

      You don't have to master the material to teach it, as long as you're using good books they can learn directly from subject experts. And now tools like chatGPT can help solve things like complex math problems that parents might be uncomfortable teaching

  • @withoutname6862
    @withoutname6862 Před 10 měsíci +57

    Hi from Morocco, thanks to allah we still alive, alhamdoliallah ❤

    • @AJ-uw8hi
      @AJ-uw8hi Před 10 měsíci +6

      May allah protect you all

    • @fatihbilgin1075
      @fatihbilgin1075 Před 10 měsíci +6

      May, Allah help you.

    • @tasyarina5800
      @tasyarina5800 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Alhamdulillah May Allah protect my big family Muslim in the world ameen❤😔

    • @bebrave1622
      @bebrave1622 Před 10 měsíci +1

      May Allah protect you.

    • @Awakening_2.0
      @Awakening_2.0 Před 10 měsíci

      ALHAMDULILLAH RABILALAMIN ❤❤

  • @PrayersandCrayons
    @PrayersandCrayons Před 10 měsíci +31

    We are a Muslim homeschooling family and I am so happy with the choice we made. There are so many misconceptions out there. My kids get a lot of social opportunities and educational benefits. Great topic !

    • @sisterfleur7523
      @sisterfleur7523 Před 10 měsíci +2

      Very encouraging for me. May Allah make it easy for you and me in the future. Amine ! I know multiple muslim families who homeschool in the UK, in Saudi, Dubai, the US. Alhamdulillah

    • @drsahmed1
      @drsahmed1 Před 10 měsíci

      Asalam o Alaikum, could you please put some light on the resources or platforms that be of help for parents trying to opt homeschooling.
      Thank you

    • @PrayersandCrayons
      @PrayersandCrayons Před 10 měsíci

      @@drsahmed1 it depends on what country you are in. I am aware of USA laws but the others not so much.

    • @LearnQuranWords
      @LearnQuranWords Před 9 měsíci

      Ma sha Allah.

    • @hajamaryamabah1497
      @hajamaryamabah1497 Před 3 měsíci

      Mashallah sister ! We are also trying to homeschool and just moved to the Bay Area. Also suggestion where to start. Also any ideas on K12 ? Thanks in advance

  • @Fedup840
    @Fedup840 Před 10 měsíci +16

    I started home schooling my kids in Pakistan and believe me this was the best decision , but difficult one also , no one supported me for this I presented many reasons but my family would not agree and they emphasized on same modern western secular education. Now after six or seven years they have realized that home schooling is the best solution to educate your kids.

    • @nl.dauhoo
      @nl.dauhoo Před 10 měsíci +3

      I supported my sister homeschooling her children from birth.
      The whole family was against it.
      10 years later, everyone marvelled at her children's knowledge, good manners and holistic, mature approach to things.

    • @hypermangi8265
      @hypermangi8265 Před 9 měsíci +1

      They didn't believe in us, But Allah did.

  • @sm743
    @sm743 Před 10 měsíci +16

    Much needed-we need to homeschool and also set up our own schools and institutions!

  • @abdurrazzak2970
    @abdurrazzak2970 Před 10 měsíci +9

    May Allah Bless Both of You in this Life and in the Hereafter.

  • @hamzahbelkadi987
    @hamzahbelkadi987 Před 10 měsíci +25

    I was homeschooled, my parents didn't want me to mix with girls in school, that made me realise guarding my chastity is important it is one of the reasons why I'm a virgin, alhamdulilah.

    • @Shahid-if4ws
      @Shahid-if4ws Před 10 měsíci +1

      May Allah bless you with a good wife 🤲
      حَدَّثَنَا مُسَدَّدٌ، حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى، عَنْ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ، قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي سَعِيدُ بْنُ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ ‏ "‏ تُنْكَحُ الْمَرْأَةُ لأَرْبَعٍ لِمَالِهَا وَلِحَسَبِهَا وَجَمَالِهَا وَلِدِينِهَا، فَاظْفَرْ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ ‏"‏‏.‏
      Narrated Abu Huraira: The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.
      Sahih al-Bukhari 5090
      sunnah.com/bukhari:5090

    • @sisterfleur7523
      @sisterfleur7523 Před 10 měsíci +4

      Wow amazing !! May Allah bless you abundantly and your parents! Was it hard socially ? Did you feel sad, lonely, left out ?

    • @abutorab1004
      @abutorab1004 Před 10 měsíci +5

      ​@@sisterfleur7523I think he was empowered ☝🏽 SubhaAllah

    • @Shahid-if4ws
      @Shahid-if4ws Před 10 měsíci

      @@sisterfleur7523
      Definitely socially hard, being mocked, probably being called gay...etc...but without doubt empowering knowing that you are following the tradition of the prophets. Reading story of Yusuf (peace and blessings be upon him) is a support, and reassurance. Worse experience for me was some Muslim girls with hijab laughing at my celibacy, while they were doing haram with Muslim guys and non Muslim.... painful experience 😬
      Surah Ya Seen, Verse 30:
      يَا حَسْرَةً عَلَى الْعِبَادِ مَا يَأْتِيهِم مِّن رَّسُولٍ إِلَّا كَانُوا بِهِ يَسْتَهْزِئُونَ
      Alas for the servants (mankind)! there comes not to them an messenger but they mock at him.
      via iQuran

  • @nl.dauhoo
    @nl.dauhoo Před 10 měsíci +5

    Thank you for thus topic. Much needed! Jazak Allah Khair!❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ibrahimmohammedibrahim9273
    @ibrahimmohammedibrahim9273 Před 10 měsíci +8

    Maybe most people don't know
    In pre-modern world, the mothers are teachers of their children

  • @haythemlutfi
    @haythemlutfi Před 10 měsíci +6

    Great topic and extremely important to every one that has or doesn’t have children. At least to be aware of where the flow is moving.
    Thanks again to all of you and may Allah reward you “Donya & Akhira”

  • @hajamaryamabah1497
    @hajamaryamabah1497 Před 3 měsíci +1

    Salam to you both. This is such a powerful discussion. From AbdulRahman we get to see the advantages of homeschooling and from brother Bassam we get to see the parents concerned and much more. Such a beautiful watch. My family and I just finish watching it. Mashallah may Allah reward you both ameena

  • @odeebob7826
    @odeebob7826 Před 10 měsíci

    JazakAllah Khayr brothers ,,, May Allah bless you all with success, health, happiness, patience and strength 🤲🏽

  • @nl.dauhoo
    @nl.dauhoo Před 10 měsíci +7

    Completely agree with the speaker. There are many issues in schools.
    Some parents talk about mothers needing to go to work.
    They do not realise that right there not having to send children from school or having to go out daily mean saving on clothes, fancy food and travelling.

  • @RamoLasiaf
    @RamoLasiaf Před 10 měsíci +4

    Thanks for the video.
    👍👍👍.
    There is a chapter about Learn with assignment/arrangement, Surah Țăhă in the Al-Qur'ăn.
    Do have a read.

  • @freedomwriter4523
    @freedomwriter4523 Před 7 měsíci

    I added it to my list InShaaAllah i m gonna watch it asap.

  • @hirakhan8234
    @hirakhan8234 Před 8 měsíci

    The guest z superb God bless him fr sharing great stuff!!

  • @hirakhan8234
    @hirakhan8234 Před 8 měsíci

    This guest is amazing may Allah bless him fr explaining the topic so so well esp in tje light of islam!!

  • @mohammedwarsame6974
    @mohammedwarsame6974 Před 8 měsíci +1

    Mashalah, I have watched all. I think BT should invite many edcutors like this brother and brother Micheal who have been in this channel before. I think that is necessary for us Muslims to have many different perspectives in the field of education.

  • @najmulhudatanjeem9107
    @najmulhudatanjeem9107 Před 10 měsíci +2

    This us what brother Daniel haqiqatjou & sister umm khalid practicing wisely,Ma sha Allah.Every Muslim family,specially who live in west,must practice this❤

    • @IbnThabitVerlag
      @IbnThabitVerlag Před 10 měsíci +1

      provided you live in a country which allows you to homeschool 🥲 we in Germany are not that lucky and Hijra is not an option for many families due to a lot of circumstances

    • @HhhNn-qj3dm
      @HhhNn-qj3dm Před 10 měsíci

      I would send my kids to a private christian school then.

    • @najmulhudatanjeem9107
      @najmulhudatanjeem9107 Před 10 měsíci +1

      @@IbnThabitVerlag If hijrah isn’t possible for your family.Make sure to practices Islam as much as you can inside your home.Start homeschooling to your children,Make Hadith halaqah everyday inside your home.
      If you have no mosque near your family,make your home as a mosque,in sha allah

    • @najmulhudatanjeem9107
      @najmulhudatanjeem9107 Před 10 měsíci

      @@HhhNn-qj3dm If you are a christian,yes you should do.Because the nasty world with It's nasty system wil destroy your children modesty.

  • @pfcdewsbury
    @pfcdewsbury Před 10 měsíci +3

    Paul,
    Can you please interview someone from the geography field regarding the magnetic pole reversal. I studied geology for a year during uni (before I switched to economics) and was always fascinated by this. At the time I was not really practicing religion but now I truly think the end times revelations regarding the ‘sun rising from the west’ is connected to the magnetic north reversal approx every 1 million years. The last reversal happened 780,000 years ago. What is interesting is the atmospheric changes incl volcanic eruptions & other changes….

    • @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f
      @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f Před 10 měsíci +1

      Geomagnetic reversal concerns the reversal of the magnetic north and south orientations not the geographic poles. So it has nothing to do with the sun rising from the west. It's not the planet that gets turned on its head, just the magnetic orientation, and it happens once in half a million years on average. This is on wikipedia, so it's not hard to figure out.

    • @mujtabaalam5907
      @mujtabaalam5907 Před 9 měsíci

      These pole reversals take thousands of years FYI

    • @mujtabaalam5907
      @mujtabaalam5907 Před 9 měsíci

      @@disuser-lp3qv1tm8f It would also reverse east and west since those are relative to north and south.

    • @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f
      @disuser-lp3qv1tm8f Před 9 měsíci

      @@mujtabaalam5907 That would be the case if we were talking geographic poles, but we're not, as I explained, so just read more carefully.

  • @fathimabintabdurrauf7348
    @fathimabintabdurrauf7348 Před 8 měsíci +1

    "there's no homeschooling emergencies" is reassuring

  • @E-LENVRA
    @E-LENVRA Před 10 měsíci

    Wa'alaikum assalam wa rahmatu'LLAHI wa barakatuh

  • @aismail1685
    @aismail1685 Před 4 měsíci +1

    Muslims need to open and develop affordable remote homeschooling platforms.

  • @ishMaira
    @ishMaira Před 10 měsíci +2

    does brother abdirahman has a youtube channel?

  • @hadiaahmad388
    @hadiaahmad388 Před 10 měsíci +5

    MashaAllah,,, anyone here is in need of an online Quran teacher? I have memorized the holy Quran and teaching currently. I teach everything about basic of Islam how to recite the Holy Quran from zero to tajweed, Salah with translation, memorization of Quran Surahs, ahadith duas. Also teach children. Contact is written on the profile icon. JazakAllahu khairan kseera

  • @sadafahmed9563
    @sadafahmed9563 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Many want to - btk don't know hwo to! Plus not enough resources or finances or time! In the UK it's very difficult, only option is make hijra to the UAE, Saudi or Qatar somewhere inshallah.

    • @mujtabaalam5907
      @mujtabaalam5907 Před 9 měsíci

      It's not that difficult. Just pick out a curriculum for each subject and start.

  • @sina1436
    @sina1436 Před 9 měsíci

    do you mean homeshcool the entire life or in the childs development yrs for example till college/uni??

  • @joeypaisano9235
    @joeypaisano9235 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I want to homeschool my future kids. How can i find support

  • @nl.dauhoo
    @nl.dauhoo Před 10 měsíci +2

    In my country, the best star schools, where competitions were tough, were targeted by drug dealers and all girl's schools were targetted by extreme feminism and lgbt.
    When the fathers understood it was too late. They were considered the enemy!

    • @green1880
      @green1880 Před 5 měsíci

      Which country is this

  • @mustafam7431
    @mustafam7431 Před 10 měsíci +2

    Fine, but without a real curriculum it is not helpful. There has to be basic curriculum materials to start with.

  • @hirakhan8234
    @hirakhan8234 Před 8 měsíci

    Aoa tooo many ads really made me pissed sorry:(

  • @robboss204
    @robboss204 Před 10 měsíci +1

    As a Turk who had to spend more then half his life in the unsensible education system of our country I d' love to have my future children home schooled but ofcourse the law here does not allow it after all our education sustem is more about raising a generation of obeying soldiers filled up with the propaganda of various uncompatible ideologies of different political groups rather then raising a generation of healthy minded people capable of thinking and acting within reason

    • @imms100
      @imms100 Před 10 měsíci

      Not just turkey.. every country has the similar problems

  • @LearnQuranWords
    @LearnQuranWords Před 9 měsíci

    Use our resources too if you like.

  • @Gog3453
    @Gog3453 Před 10 měsíci

    It’s the only way to safeguard our children 😔

  • @am1156
    @am1156 Před 10 měsíci +7

    Homeschooling is not for most people, I would say. A lot of the time, if not most of the time, both parents have to work to make ends meet, in the West at least. There are many single parents who don't even have a choice. Some are illiterate, and many are simply not educated enough. Many lack the disposition to be good eduactors. (How many have not given up teaching their kids how to drive...)
    Instead, we should fight for schools being as ''neutral a ground'' as possible. This is absolutely our right as citizens. Reading, writing etc. Values, beyond basic human rights, should be left for the parents.

    • @SNIPERS327
      @SNIPERS327 Před 10 měsíci +6

      We should live within our means so mother can stay home

    • @786humaira1
      @786humaira1 Před 10 měsíci +1

      Well said .
      Very fanatic and senseless talk . Allegiance to the flag . What is the problem with this speaker . Telling it to be problematic . Islam is for us to believe in One Universal God , day of judgement , the prophets and the holy books . With that in us we strive to better ourself our
      society and our country .we take up the responsibility for our actions .
      The life of our beloved prophet testifies to this .He improved the society and his country .
      Yes he is right when he says there is problem of drugs and teachings of gender dysphoria . Yes for this purpose home schooling may be advantageous .

    • @am1156
      @am1156 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@SNIPERS327 Not always possible. Women have always worked. In the fields, taking care of the animals, sewing for others to make some extra money etc etc. Stay-at-home moms that only take care of the kids is a modern phenomenon. Unless she married a man of some means.

    • @nl.dauhoo
      @nl.dauhoo Před 10 měsíci +1

      If parents are illiterate then they can work with other parents who are literate and work in group homeschooling.
      Illiterate parents can take the responsibility of the leisure part of the schooling or the meal part and so on.

    • @am1156
      @am1156 Před 10 měsíci +2

      @@nl.dauhoo What you are describing is a school. Group homeschooling is effectively a school, run by parents, where the teachers' qualification is key. Like any school (should be).

  • @hassan32222
    @hassan32222 Před 7 měsíci

    Such an important topic but SO MANY ADDS, could not finish

  • @mohammedghander9243
    @mohammedghander9243 Před 10 měsíci +1

    May God bless you Paul, the sheikh and the presenter,
    Children 😂 who Study at public schooling in The recent years everywhere in the world , specifically in the west became very very dangerous to innocent children!!! , but we all have not other choices except to pray for God to protect our children allover the world!!! And do our best to reverse the bad effects of the New liberal culture that deliberately impose on All humanity!!!
    Only God who settled this predicament !!
    M. G.
    10 September 2023

  • @ispywithmylittleeye...542
    @ispywithmylittleeye...542 Před 2 měsíci

    So we've homeschooled from age 2 to 5. Is it not good to place kids in Islamic school??! 😭Please help. Are we doing wrong by our kids to put them in Islamic school.

  • @justwatch_important
    @justwatch_important Před 7 měsíci

    the most expancieve part of homeschooling is groceries ))))

  • @sameenasheik74
    @sameenasheik74 Před 5 měsíci

    I wish i was taught islam more than i was taught this worldly education...no substance in this worldly education

  • @BAFREMAUXSOORMALLY
    @BAFREMAUXSOORMALLY Před 10 měsíci

    The day MUSLIMS will agree about ISLAM, maybe we can have ISLAMIC HOME SCHOOLING encompassing all TRUTHFUL disciplines of learning!

    • @mcsusa75
      @mcsusa75 Před 10 měsíci

      FYI, Muslims all agree on the major principles of Islam, having different opinions on minor subjects is a mercy from ALLAH SWT for us, however the fighting between some islamists is a direct result of instigators and interference of certain powers foreign to Islam, using undereducated and stray away muslims as a tool to keep infliction upon the Muslim Ummah.

  • @anthonyratcliffe3595
    @anthonyratcliffe3595 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I wish the option of Muslim schools was brought in..

    • @katielarsen2630
      @katielarsen2630 Před 8 měsíci

      That's definitely an option too but I saw my sister in law place her kids in every single private Islamic school in our area (a large urban area) before homeschooling them. One of the schools had her 14 year old daughter who was just there as a volunteer teach classes. At another school, a teacher hit her child. I'm sure there are great Islamic schools out there but I've heard so many negative things, possibly because private schools have a more limited budget due to lack of government funding (despite being expensive for parents).

  • @BAFREMAUXSOORMALLY
    @BAFREMAUXSOORMALLY Před 10 měsíci

    LET MUSLIMS START THEIR OWN FREE ISLAMIC DIGITAL PLATFORM, THEN WE CAN TALK!

  • @salahdin6382
    @salahdin6382 Před 10 měsíci

    Children love home and hate school , so they would definitely 💯 % happy for it .

  • @shad.baksh1
    @shad.baksh1 Před 10 měsíci

    If close the eyes it does not mean world will change. Not only you have to face reality but you have to confront reality. As soon as you familiarized with the waves. That's the life.

    • @mistermaykul
      @mistermaykul Před 10 měsíci +2

      Homeschooling = not facing reality…what stupidity

    • @user-s8jb3qb6y
      @user-s8jb3qb6y Před 10 měsíci

      If this is the best counter-argument you are positing as someone educated through the public system, you can count me out.

  • @sameenasheik74
    @sameenasheik74 Před 5 měsíci

    School exist for a reason but the reason doesn't align with our beliefs

  • @Dannydreadlord
    @Dannydreadlord Před 10 měsíci +1

    Summary of this video, the idea of different ideas is BAD. Maybe when the children of these people are exposed to normal ideas which are not from their holy book and challange it in any way, makes the parents of those children scared, Imagine the children of these people stop calling people of other faiths KHAFIRS, that is going to end the world.

  • @grnzrn
    @grnzrn Před 10 měsíci +1

    Separatism 101

  • @JH-lf4ql
    @JH-lf4ql Před 10 měsíci +4

    I appreciate your views but this should not happen in my country the UK. We are trying to build an inclusive society and population, where everyone feels welcome and to achieve this you need a wide range of topics discussed on the school curriculum. Home schooling takes education out of the hands of the state and into the hands of the individual. This means that crucial learning could potentially be missed. How are Muslim children going to be educated about other families? About LGBT? About what to do in the event that they feel that they are gay or transgender and need guidance on the best way to go about transitioning? There is a school in Birmingham that has introduced the ‘No Outsiders’ programme for exactly this reason. Homeschooling should not be advised if we want a world where secularism and liberal values are promoted. Everyone is entitled to an inclusive form of education.

    • @jalalabdullah5043
      @jalalabdullah5043 Před 10 měsíci +23

      We don't need anyone to be taught about homosexuality

    • @am1156
      @am1156 Před 10 měsíci +14

      Interesting that you focus on LGBT and not education. You think it's more of a problem if children don't learn about LGBT, secular and liberal values but if they can't read or write properly, who cares?

    • @JH-lf4ql
      @JH-lf4ql Před 10 měsíci +1

      ⁠@@am1156 Educating children at home will teach them to read and write. But it may not teach them about LGBT. Both are as important as the other.

    • @jalalabdullah5043
      @jalalabdullah5043 Před 10 měsíci +5

      @LostAndScammed I don't think he did. He just seem obsessed with teaching ours about lgbt which is not necessary

    • @averageStrugglerr
      @averageStrugglerr Před 10 měsíci +1

      We do a little trolling, we do little trolling. Don't we?