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With the last story, I think the narrator forgot one important point--the _mental_ capacity for the OP to help the sister out. It sounds to me like the OP has had to deal with this for years and may have already exhausted their own patience. And in a situation like that, the change in venue for the sister may only help in the short term before the situation ends up falling apart.
This is a situation that very much is a case of "put your own oxygen mask on before assisting others". OP may need a break from the situation before they can return to helping. If the sister moves in with the OP, there's no break, and eventually the sister is back to square one or worse.
Exactly, I've seen both personally and professionally how heavy a burden having a loved one with a disability and mental health issues can be for people. With all the love and commitment in the world, its still a heavy load to carry mentally and emotionally. OP is entitled to live his life, and the fact he's worked hard to gain the opportunity for a slice of freedom is phenomenal. Out of the kindness of his own heart, he has offered the sister to live with him on the condition she respects his home is his and pays him (family rate) rent. That's both reasonable and beyond fair.
I hope OP doesn't feel pressured by his family or reddit to cover all of his adult sister's bills, give her spending money like his parents have had to, pick up the pieces of her poor mental health, plus go to work, pay off his house, clean said house, and maybe if he's really lucky occasionally find some time in all of that to have some semblance of a social life. He's young, he works hard, and he deserves his own life.
A much better take.
Yes a great take while also acknowledging the sister needing help. I needed out of my mom’s state to recognize I couldn’t keep throwing her pity parties every night. I needed my own mental growth to occur. Sucks having to find new friends and it’s new challenges. But going through a wedding and balancing helps me realize that I needed to carve out my own path.
the issue im seeing is given how the sister is acting i dont think she actually plans on getting better, if your using the excuse of but i have a disability to not have to do anything then the bigger problem is they need to help themselves as well and given she doesnt seem to have any plan on getting said help i think he plan is just leech of op then find someone else to leech off of given when he said he was going to leave she said she was coming with like it was already considered, yes depression is a bitch but she doesnt seem to want to do anything to make things better, from personal experience its better to get into whatever therapy while in a safe space and go from there
Agreed. I often find this narrators opinions in certain matter a bit off
Regarding the last story... Having struggled with clinical depression for many years, I definitely do not think the brother is being a jerk. During my late 40's I fell on tough times and my two sisters individually helped me by letting me live with them on a short term basis. But, I made the effort to get assistance from the government that helped me to live on my own. The situation with his sister is a very different. By letting her live with him, he would be agreeing to becoming her caretaker, not a situation that is easy at the best of times. So. No. Not the Jerk. He needs to take care of himself, first and foremost. The sister should be getting help from a professional for emotional support. That professional would likely include helping the sister get additional governmental assistance which would allow her to live on her own. Or perhaps even a group home if she felt the need for more support than she'd have while living on her own.
First story. Not a jerk. Rules are rules and d was screwing with the op. Great job op
The people who make the rules are the least to follow them 🤷♂️ its not that serious 🤦♂️
@@ramondejesus65 it's not just that, d was being a jerk about it (yelling at op and such)
@@Charlie-yt2iy op was an even bigger jerk, he literally destroyed dude's life 🤦♂️ over cash payments, because rules 🤦♂️
The story with the brother and sister: NTA, and I am speaking as the one with depressions here. That she is suffering is not her brothers job to fix, nor should he suffer with her. Yes, he could be helping her a lot by allowing her to move in with him, but asking him to support her financially as well can be too much, especially if his money is going to be tight because of the mortgage.
Depression is very hard and it can seem impossible to lift yourself out of it on your own. But as hard as this sounds, it is your responsibility, not that of other people.
100%! Not that he can't support her, but it shouldn't be his obligation. And him fully supporting his sister could even be damaging to her mental health, since it might make her feel like she's taking advantage of him.
Number 2. No you are NOT a jerk. She did deserve it! It is sad that no one believed the kid. Poor kid! You get much love from me!
imagine if you're a child and no one believes you about what you said.
Not to mention, violating HIPAA
Story 6 yes depression is hard but the brother has no obligation to let his sister move in with her. If he will only allow it if she pays rent then she should deal with it. Ik I’m being harsh but that’s what it is. NOT A JERK
I agree one hundred percent, op have his own life to live and he is not his sisters caretaker, neither he have any obligation to be one. Him being just a brother and friend is all he ever need to be. If he someday becomes a caretaker it will be for his own children, which might never born if his sister lives with him. That's just simple facts of life.
They are kids, no one is going to be drafted at 9 years old. Glad he's in prison
Hippa violation story; the parents are just as terrible as the teacher for allowing this to go on for so long and completely ignoring OP. I would still sue the teacher and the school even after she's fired, her being fired isn't enough.
dude op went to the principal, the vice principal and his parents but no one believes him in what he said.
@@viviennemorgan7217 I can't believe he had to take a recorder just to prove that he really was being discriminated for his condition, which is so sad that even his parents ignored his pleas to do something to that karen teacher, until he has a recording of the encounter.
@@Charles-7 everyone ignored him, the principal, the vice principal and his parents, so the only way is to catch a karen is to bring a tape recorder to school so that everyone can believe him, when he showed it to the principal, he got expelled for no reason and when he came home from school, he showed the recorder to his parents both of them were shocked and so all 3 of them went to the principal's office lift off op's expension and finally his teacher got fired.
@@viviennemorgan7217 maybe yet his parents should just listen to their kid in the first place, and any normal parent should be.
@@Charles-7 you know what I always tell my mother everything and she always believe in what I said.
For the disable sister story : I understand how difficult the situation is for the sister, but I also understand why it is difficult for the brother. Taking care of someone very depressive is heavy for the mental health of the caretaker too. Constantly trying to bring the person up, being there when they fall and trying to not take that as a personal fail... It is very difficult. Apparently, his sister already has an history of not taking care of her mental and physical health. Living with her would meant that her brother should take a parental role, something that is very annoying when it comes from your siblings and would strained his relationship with his sister while costing him a lot of stress and energy.
If his sister go with him, she must be ready to seek help and actively looking for jobs and such. Even if she quit regularly. Even if there is fall down. I have some depressive friends and even if it is extremely difficult to them, they seek help and actively try to become independent despite all the challenges. And it works. Slowly, and not in a regular straight line way, but it works.
In response to your second part of your comment, it sounds like the sister doesn't want to get a job and doesn't want help as OP makes it sound like anytime the idea of getting help or a job is brought up the sister immediately screams "disability". It could be that the entire family is tired of her acting this way as we don't know the reason why the relationship between the sister and mother is strained.
We truly do not have enough information to make a judgment.
@@44burn1true but also depression and anxiety don’t work in a linear fix. And sometimes it’s okay to step away because you yourself have anxiety and depressive thoughts. Maybe that’s what the OP is doing. Working from a distance to their own independence is critical to healthy family dynamics. You’re right we don’t have enough information but operating in an unbiased take is how these podcasts should work.
@@DZ_Mania_2024 I'm simply playing devil's advocate to provide a different possibility due to the lack of information. I proposed the idea that she is disabled for other mental issues as depression wasn't the only thing stated, just named. The podcast is called "Am I The Jerk" and with such limited information we cannot form an unbiased opinion. The assumption is she has a severe enough depression to affect her life.
I still remember when it was all the rage to diagnose children with ADHD for children being children. Then we had overdiagnosis of anxiety and depression in very much the same way to the point that everyone has anxiety and depression. Nowadays we have parents trying to transition their four-year-olds for clout.
I will forever remain a skeptic due to society's push for false narratives.
Story 1: Absolutely *_NOT_* the jerk. OP has no responsibility for the _illegal_ actions his boss was engaged in. The OP was simply trying to get restitution for the wrong done to him. The fact that it ended up having a chain effect that revealed the boss' crimes is the boss' fault.
Flipside opinion on the final story: sister could be using her disability as an excuse not to do anything about her situation and distance herself from any criticism of her chosen lifestyle. Learned helplessness in a nutshell. We don't have enough information to ascertain which possibility of this story to side with. It could be either way.
"the fund the lifestyle" bit makes me think that
Same
To all the parents who remarry and try to force their children to accept the new partner as their parent as if the original parent never existed: You are ALWAYS the jerk.
The stepmother didn't even have a single hand in helping to raise the son. In what world would she be entitled to a special moment like that.
The sister, depressed or not, is not the responsibility of the brother. She is an adult and has the capacity to control her spending. If she took responsibility for her spending and her illness, perhaps he would reconsider. I say this as a person who also suffers from major depression and also a bad anxiety disorder. I can’t expect other people to take care of me. That’s just ridiculous.
last story: If a person has the mental enedgy to yell and whine that they just can't do anything because they're disabled, then they have the mental capacity to seek help or make an effort to better their situation. OP mentions 'her current lifestyle', so we can make the assumption that the sister isn't so bad off that she literally can't do anything. I speak from experience: depression is debilitating but also means your lifestyle only requires the bare minimum and sometimes not even that; physical disabilities (mine is blindness) make working and functioning in an ablest society difficult, but thousands of us do it every day because we could not respect ourselves for giving up and playing the victim. OP has no obligation to carry someone who refuses to even attempt to help themselves.
In the last story the brother is absolutely NOT the jerk. He is a grown man moving out with his own life to live. He is not responsible for her mental health. She is. The next step he may want is to potentially find a partner and settle down with which her depression and overall fact that she lives with him will put a damper on.
Story 1: ALWAYS get your money, no matter what. It seems like 'D' just wanted to have that "league" for nepotism, not actually wanting to have a legit league. Even without the title card, the moment i hear him say "my league, my rules", i knew bad stuff was going to happen. If this was a one-time game and the OP got paid cash, it probably would've been swept under the rug, but the OP was doing this on the regular and the fact that 'D' got very hostile towards the OP gave the OP every reason to call him out to both the NFL rep and the IRS. Who knows.... this guy could've already been under the IRS's radar and this whole debacle was just the cherry on the sundae here. Something tells me the IRS aren't going to go that nuts over a simple kids football game if something else big wasn't already going on. OP is NOT a jerk at all here.
Story 2: Another case of a person who should not be around children, much less teaching them, and that public schools are among the most unsafe places for children. I gotta say, i did love the "ancient old hag" line, had a good laugh there, and it reminded me of a couple teachers i had too. Everyone else here is no better; the principles, counselors, even the OPs parents. Why would you not listen to the OP when this is both a confidential matter and a regular occurance? Its sad that it took the OP bringing a recorder, but it was well needed and well deserved in the end. I also wouldn't have just threated legal action, i would've gone through with it. Any lawyer would've gone for this in a heartbeat. Disclosing private confidential medical info, harassing and assaulting a child... probably more not being told here. Hopefully the principles got some discipline and grief over all of this and not just the ancient old hag here, and she really had no one to blame but herself in this... calling the OP all playing the victim was just pathetic.
Story 3: I've read this story someone before, but thats one of the funniest things out there. OP gets his jeep stolen while loaning it to his brother (probably wont again, bad luck there), gets it returned to his job site, and fillled up the gas tank. OP got pretty lucky in the long run and hope those dumb thieves enjoy both the jail time and the permanent criminal record.
Story 4: I've read this one too....and Jordan had every right to deny the mother-son dance with Natalie. These stupid wedding "traditions" are exactly that, stupid! Its your wedding, do whatever you want to, and with whomever. Jordan seemed to never have a bond with Natalie as a stepmother and saw his aunt in that kind of role more. The OP's dad was definitely wrong to cause a scene and leave here and everyone else has every right to be upset at him over it.
Story 5: Olive is not a friend to the OP or the wife Natalie in any way here. She's not offering any legit "financial advice" here in the least. If Natalie is bad with money, then she shouldnt have unrestricted access to certains accounts, or she could easily drain every cent that they both have... and who's to say that eventually Olive will start asking or demanding money. Natalie needs to not talk money around Olive here if they continue a friendship here. OP isnt a jerk, but Olive is sure acting like one.
Story 6: Okay, parts of this are tough. I got all disabilities and depression are different, but from everything we are hearing here with the sister, it sounds more like it is laziness rather then disability. Also, the OP doesn't have to allow his sister to move in with him, and he really shouldnt if she isn't going to do anything for the household. I can see why some people can think he's a jerk here, but by the same time, he's also not. He really doesn't have to step in here.
Bro that teacher just committed child abuse in like 5 different ways
NTA for the last story, I struggled with depression and had worked hard to manage it and pull myself out of poverty and homelessness while struggling with it, and while I understand that having depression is hard and leaves you feeling hopeless how you view depression vastly changes how you learn to manage it, the sister doesn't want help, she doesn't manage her doctor appointments, proclaims she has a disability when confronted with any opposition to her situation, and feels entitled to her brothers hard work for free. I think depression is a completely valid excuse when it comes to explaining your situation, but when depression becomes the only excuse you clinge to when refusing to better yourself then you are the problem.
story 4: NOT THE JERK
yes they were
imagine losing your mother, and finding it hard to like your stepmom because their not just your mother
its a psychological thing
Agreed,theyre not the jerk, the son shouldve at least tried to have a relationship with the stepmom, sure it wont be the same as his actual mom but give her a chance man
Yeah Im actually closer to my step mom than my actual egg donor
@@elilloyd7900they aren’t the jerk,although they may regret missing that milestone,yes but neither is the son for wanting to dance with his aunt at *his wedding*
@@MrHotshot66Just because you are doesn’t mean everyone else should.
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Last story: u have to remember when somsone doesn't work that means their always home eating and he'll have a high food budget vs living alone.
I bet the thieves' mouths hit the ground when they found out what happened and how they were arrested.
The last one is definitely NTA just because she has depression does not mean that he has to take responsibility of her she is his sister not his daughter
You're wrong. The last story OP is not a jerk. Everyone has a right to live their life to call them a jerk because OP knows they can't mentally or financially support the sister to take on that burden, which will only make things worse for OP and his sister mentally not to mention could put OP on the path to depression himself. So ya, you don't get to think he's a jerk because you think he is doing wrong.
To story 6: I don't think the original poster is a jerk as he said she can't finance "her current lifestyle" with the money she gets, so it looks like she's spending unecessarily much money on luxuroius stuff instead of paying for necessary things.
Nuclear revenge is epic
Definitely agree with the below post. The brother is not her caretaker and should be pressured into a capacity he simply isn't ready for nor does he have the energy. There is government housing that would allow her to move out, but then who's going to remind her about her medical appointments and such?
The last story: The OP's sister isn't entitled to anything from the brother. She's an adult, and disability and mental health issues or not her brother isn't her guardian nor is he her parent. He has been very clear that if she wants to live in his home that he owns she will have to pay rent which is a reasonable request. Her financial issues also aren't his responsibility. There are plenty of people with mental health issues and disabilities who are gainfully employed, just as there are plenty of people with disabilities and mental health issues who cannot work or can only work minimally (and only in certain job positions) due to their type of disability. If she has depression and it's not addressed (medication and strategies to assist her in dealing with said depression) then she will probably need to actively seek help regarding that prior to seeking employment - assuming that's possible with her disability. Either way, the brother is NTA for needing her to pay rent, as another person in the house would make the bills increase (power, heating, water, etc.) and he shouldn't have to foot her bills just because she doesn't get along with their mother. I also have a permanent disability and living in the same house as my parents (as an adult) in the past has also exacerbated my issues with anxiety and depression, and while it's overwhelming, it wasn't my sibling's responsibility to let me live with them free of charge and to cover my bills even though they certainly could've. I wasn't entitled to their space or money, and neither is OP's sister.
I have depression but I keep my head up go to work and it makes me feel better getting out my bubble
Not being a jerk, it just so happened that when someone screws you over, they are most likely
effing someone else, time for the payback, somewhere down the line shit is gonna hit the fan.
The problem the sister is having should be the parents job if the mother has a strain relationship with the sister then the mother fails as a parent. With that being said though, what about the rest of the family? Where's the father in the picture? Why does it need to be the brother?
As a person who has many mental illnesses I am ENRAGED BY THE SECOND STORY! WTF IS WRONG WITH THAT TEACHER!? I personally kinda have to say my mental illnesses to avoid people thinking I’m crazy.
7:35 I once had a student in class, who sort of had extra rights, he even had keys for some rooms issued by my school, but me being a victim of the occasional and mostly mild bullying here and there. So I have ADHD and Depressions, so I've probably been more years in therapy than not. I had to give a letter to my teacher, since I had to be let go early on mondays, for one of my 3 therapy-appointments every week. I put the letter on her desk and went off, since we had break and my teacher was the one we had afterwards in the same room.
When I come back our little premium student plainly sits at the teachers desk as usual with a grin in front of half the class and the other half just coming in and asks me: "So what do you need therapy for?"
I was livid, I wanted to beat him up than and there, but by now I could deal with my anger-issues, so I just answered:"You are DONE" with a from sheer anger trembling voice and tears of anger in my eyes and stomped of to the main-teachers-break-room. I knocked and luckiely my teacher opened the door. Now I gotta clearify she was a VERY strict teacher, who didn't take any crap and could scream with an anger, that I think even other teachers were afraid to get on het bad side, but getting there was also always earned and she would change her mind about you if you gave her a reason. So with still trembleing voice I briefly filled her in on what happend and her mouth became very small and her eyes started glowing. Off we stomp and she enteres the class and with a very, very quiet and controlled voice says: "Article 13 of our constituation is the secret of the written word. Meaning it is a violation of every basic human right, to open a closed evelope with someone elses name on it."
"SO HOW CAN ANYONE BE SO DUMB AND DISRESPECTFUL TO BOTH (me) AND ME(her)"
quiet.
She finished "(ahole-student) YOU ARE NOT TO EVER EVEN SIT AT MY DESK EVER AGAIN I WILL TALK TO THE PRINCIPLES ABOUT YOUR EXTRA TREATMENT AS A TRUSTWORTHY STUDENT"
he ended up loosing all his priviledges (he could even give up to half an hour detention and give people the simplest form of a write-up).
He ended up getting some of them back, but it took him 2 years, all the way to the last year of school. He never dared to play power with me ever again, because unlike most others, he was not prepared nor in shape to throw a punch, harder than I did. I hooked another bully to the chin and sent him flying a meter back. I actually got quite a few stiries to tell about him, actually I might post them on reddit tomorrow
Story 5: Sounds like this “friend” is (a feminist) and jealous of your wife and trying to rock the boat/marriage. Mystery lives company.
Last Story: The only one who can make YOUR life better is yourself. Sister has her problems/issues but it is ultimately up to HER to overcome them, no one else. It also seems like she is putting no effort into overcoming her problems either, just expecting a free ride from her brother (she only expects to move in when OPs home is built; not even offering to help)
In story 2 this woman would walk out of a museum that hade stuff 500BC and lower and the alarms would o
Go off(Warning 001 BC Fossil stolen)
Keep this sheet up it's good 🎉
Last Story - NTA - It is not his responsibility to provide he offered her a decent way out she did not take it, since she is not willing to take that first step to make herself better he is NTA.
And before any1 says that is the essence being of YTA I had depression among other more severe issues and unless she herself pulls her out to do the first step, no one can help her unless they put her into a full professional clinical environment even if that is against her will.
Story 3: That's how you find out that you were really good in your previous life
ADA is very serious , I think the file is a IEP and you don't mess with those
Story 4: Definetly the jerk. This is the Son's wedding. He can decide if he wants to sundance with someone or not.
I have to disagree on the last story. He is NTA. While maybe he can help his sister, at the end of the day, he is not at all responsible for her. He is not her parent. It also sounds like he is trying to work on goals for himself, which he has the right to do.
for the second story no the teacher deserves that her retirement money was took away she was being absolutely horrible and she just cant say the things she said and she even threw a book! she deserves prison aswell.
2 days in a row 2 videos in one day
Wow, 2 videos in 1 day, that's rare
The groom get to choose at his wedding. You are The AH.
4:42 oooh i know what he means, in my country there's that law that you *CAN'T* and is *ILLEGAL* to give medical information of other people and can get you in jail, so i'll be saying he wasnt a jerk from this point
Edit: 18:11 that's true, i have depression, hard as sh*t to live with that
It's illegal in most countries. Even in the US where Healthcare is a joke, it's still illegal for anyone to give away someone else's medical information without permission. If it's your parents and you're still a minor it's debatable, but if you're an adult and say your mom's running her mouth to someone you work with for example, you could sue your mom. Obviously most people wont, but you still have the right
@@brianarnold8666 yes, in my country Puerto Rico it has a name, but i forgot what it was
@@ElRodriPR well puerto rico is a territory of the US and has to abide by all US federal laws so makes sense, HIPPA violations are a federal offense, not by state. So yeah, makes sense the same is true there as here
No.2 I feel like you asking if your the jerk is like asking a billionaire for 1 cent there is no way on earth or in the afterlife you would be a jerk for reporting child abuse and bullying good on you for preventing other kids from getting that treatment😊
On the story about the teacher, a lot of teachers name because they attend have 10 years of teaching that they are above. A lot of moles, I have witnessed that that it was very well known. She had thrown a stapler at the kids, and had threatened in my class to throw a clipboard and another, few students who are out or were missing a day due to a family event zeros on all of their work even though by school policy she was too late works
11:08 sometime stepparents don't under stand you're not my parent you're just fixing my parent
Not being paid for a job that you have already completed is perhaps the most infuriating and malicious thing that can happen in these small business situations.
0:25 wai wai wai wait, is that plane part of the race 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂?
First one, petty, but understandible.
Story one, I most definitely would have called foul play on his businesses and not lost a second of sleep.
Story 4 has already been covered in another video, except the person who submitted was the son and aunt.
Nice. Very nice
Bro for the last story I deadass think the narrator called op a jerk just so the comment section would go off cos the narrator deadass didn't look back on the fact that op has stated that taking care of the sis has had its toll on him too and the fact that he's building a house on new land which is expensive and if he's not getting help and having another person who doesn't want to change their current lifestyle as in order to not inconvenience others move in without help could make financial strain completely ruin op
for the first one he/she did not mean for him to get that introuble he did to himself for doing at 6 other times.
Wedding story, im assume the aunt is his moms sister, so why would your son choose to dance your wife he doesn’t get along with?
There would have been multiple reports on the guy in the first stories.
What he gave would have just been the last straw
HEY!!! I have both NF1 and NF2 THAT TEACHER GOT WHAT SHE DESERVED. (Also mine isn't as bad I feel bad for OP)
Also top marks on pronouncing it correctly. A lot of my doctors can't even pronounce at first
One of my friends from Canada had gotten raped and she was 13 and gotten pregnant so I met up with her and we’re both 23. I said what happened to the baby. They said that you were pregnant you told me that and she said miscarriage. And also she’s the first one that told me and she didn’t tell anybody that she had gotten raped until a month later, so am I the jerk for not telling the police that she had gotten raped?
I am selfish, i would let my sister stay depressed if she don't pay me to live in my house
Narrator wrong on the last story. OP has no responsibility to takebcsre of his sister. Dont care what condition she has.
If you're working 40 hours a week 120 is almost no money at all
I agree whit the 4th story
I agree with some posts, the narrator doesn't seem to always take the actions of the persons into his final thoughts. You can't blame someone for the "reaction" to the BS that happens to them. No one owes anyone anything and if somone does something another doesn't like they don't gave to abide by the other person's feelings. You break the law you go to jail so tell me, what's the difference if someone does you a way you don't like. I get it we'd all like to be passive and tolerant but that doesn't make you a jerk for doing you and doing that alone.
about story 2, you think that teacher is bad? You've never met my 4th grade teacher
Very shady and terribly shifty boss
Run from Natalie! She’s poison!
On the last story I don’t think he is being a jerk. I have epilepsy and live at home with my parents and I wouldn’t want to burden my sister by moving in with her it would be to much to ask of my siblings
How can op be a jerk he wanted his money what he worked he didn't know the guy was going other criminal activities. When your hands are dirty play your cards right
d sounds like my mom, in the way of living childhood dreams through me (i do judo sport and am a 2nd im my weight in my country
crazy
For the first time I will go with the jerk.... it was just a simple game and op second self that the father was living his childhood to his nine year old so yes he would be protective about his son..... just for one $120 he ruined a perfect family and left the child without a father for a very long time just think what the mental condition for the child will be in the future..... everybody does under table pay even the government does that so why it different from him and he is not causing any one harm with what he is doing so yes in the first story the original poster is a jerk.... he was also greedy and entitled because he called on the D's son just because he was mad with D
Yup
13:57 I think you meant "Olive" and not "all of" in the subtitles...
Hi
ur first congrats
story 3 was also on the channel infamis swoosh but animated and it happend to him
The dads not the jerk in the wedding one the son sounds disrespectful
Yes
Even if it was one business and he did this OP had a duty to report it if hes paying people. The consequences of his actions are out of his control.
Sorry VA but the brother is not a jerk just because he doesnt cater to someone with depression. I had it and i get the process but if shes not even trying to help herself thats her own fault. The parents should be doing more and the brother shouldnt be held back. He doesnt need to babysit. You are delusional if you think hes a jerk for forcing obligation to him.
NTA HE SHOULD HAVE PAID HIM TBF
And I'm stealing it
Wedding story: yes u are the jerk but what everyone doesnt talk about is its his life the son can get mad but the op is allowed to leave for any reason
Nope. It was D’a other shady dealing finally caught up with him.
For the story where the sister wants to move with the brother; though the sister is struggling, it is a fair view that the brother should not be responsible to look after her, as the narrator of the video stated that he might not understand her condition: meaning he may not be the best person to help her with her mental health. In the story, it is also mentioned that he has had to remind her about medical appointments that should be helping her, which to be fair on the brother is not his responsibility. The brother should be a lifeline for and support the sister, but he has no obligation to do anything more, especially when he's being asked to provide free accommodation.
dang
you're not the jerk op, the kids coach is he underpaid you for no reason just because you're a referee and stop the entitled coach's team to do what they were doing and this and the coach is a jerk.
this is going to be frustrating.
Yeah if it was just the one 16 year old kid being screwed over it would of been a light fine and probably everything would of felt in line. Not the OPs fault the guy was committing so many other crimes.
*Story 4:* I think the OP was the jerk here. Its clear his son never saw Natalie as a mother, but over time reconciled with the idea she was now a part of the family. Its not unreasonable that on his wedding day, he wanted to have the mother-son dance with the person he saw as a mother figure.
I'm sorry but the brother on the last story is NTA.
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when i was in middle school i had a teacher that would big on kids for medical things (i know she got laid off ..... years after i had her ).... make me wonder if she was same teacher
but the teacher i had i tried to report her once and got in school suspension (ps ever since that day when i way a kid i got in touble with schools) but i forgave that former teacher ....
So far as the son and step-mom, yeah his wedding day was HIS day, not his dad's day. I am not
going to call Dad a jerk though, his wife? Not a jerk, but should not have thought Jordan would
dance with her given he never wanted to be close to her.
he is a jerk.
8:12 vile
Disgusting or bad
Wedding dance: YTA, it’s *his
Wedding* not yours.
Ok cool
yes they are the jerk
I claim your mom
D can be a n asshole or a criminal but he can't both
Story 3: holy shit yes OP is the 🍑🕳️. She was never his mother why did u/she think she would be in the mother son dance