When a Man Likes You, Here’s What He’s Thinking (This explains why some women attract the wrong men)
Vložit
- čas přidán 21. 10. 2019
- briannox.com/ for more tips and in-depth videos.
Getting my book for free on audible when you start a trial?
briannox.com/audible/
amzn.to/2Fnf2xD to find all my books on Amazon.com
The key to a good relationship is time. Don’t give all of yourself away too soon in the passion of the moment. Keep the mystery and the chase alive by not giving yourself until he’s ready to commit. Make him give more before he gets the prize. Then you won’t get hurt. The key is knowing your worth and holding out for real love.
stay away from me i have trust issues Thanks. This is based on my personal experience. I think women have really been cheated by the sexual revolution into giving away their power. Men get spoiled by too much sex, too soon. It’s not good for either sex. Sex should be the final seal on a lifelong love, not a freebie to get a guy interested. If that’s what it takes, then he’s not worth it.
@@revolutionaryviews9702 for men more sex is better
@@RK-su4hs till they get bored & then it’s next…
I’ve ended up holding out for too long now
@Ashley Chapman I understand. These are times when men’s hearts have grown cold, but I hope you don’t throw yourself away on someone undeserving. I also understand when women stay in bad relationships so they can have kids. These are hard times for women, with few honorable men, but women do have power and can change men and the culture by withholding themselves until they find the men who treat them right.
Another reason for being attracted to the wrong type of men has to do with your father, and how he treated you and your mother. We tend to repeat these relationships without knowing it.
Just as i have observed
Yeah like me from broken family, grew up without parents especially my father to guide so i feel like when a man give me attention i get easily attached and i enjoy it, its like i long for somones love and presence since i dnt have parents by my side most of the time
ABSOLUTELY
Not only, I have a very great dad and great relationship with him but still I have been in several abusive relationships. For women the ratio for abusive partners if 3out of 5 relationships, while for men it’s 1 out of 9, not all women have bad fathers, therefore I believe the reason is that most men are abusive.
Too true. I was the one who made the first move. Now we've been married for 40 yrs. He said he was just waiting for the perfect timing. Hah! Nonsense. I'd be waiting forever lol
But in my Case, men Run away from me when I make the first move.
@@jenniferlorence1950 hahaha you make me 😂
@@SheilaLeighGwapa LOL, lol, lol, lol that is So Cute.
Jennifer Lorence lol He even literally ran away, like really really ran away whenever he see me, damn I swear I haven’t done anything strange to him! So confused 😅
@@lalitaanne I am Sorry for that because I understand where You're coming from. And You're Right it is very confusing when a person reacts that way when they See You and you know You did Nothing questionable, but at that point when a person behaves like that know that is usually because they have mental problems. That is Not the right behavior of a person who has a Sound mind. There are a lot of people that function, or apparently they do, function properly in Society, but they are High-Functioning because You don't know if they are taking medications for a mental-illness, or an emotional imbalance that You don't know about and they react that way. Just Know that NObody with an Sound Adult Mind will behave that Way, even if they didn't like the person, they will keep Grounded and Not Run away. Maybe in his Brain Development he is a 12 Year Old. Or, maybe he's Just a Dumb Old Man, I've Seen those too!!!!!!!! I know You must feel bad, but I Can guarantee You that is NOT YOU the problem, especially if You Know that you did nothing wrong to that person. Also, some men had a bad experience with a woman in the Past and they Stay Stuck in the Past and never move on, and then when They See a female that likes them (in the future) then they Run away, because they are Judging Every Female the Same. And if that is the Case, You don't want a man like that in Your life.
To shy men: Be creative. Do what it takes. There are lots of ways to approach a woman without looking aggressive or stupid. I found out 20 years later that a guy I really liked, liked me back as much but nothing happened cause he was too shy. Such a shame. I spent all these years thinking he wasn't interested.
K A oh gosh 🙁sadly
I got creative once. It worked. But then she told me she had a bf. It crushed me. I want to do it again (with someone else). Just haven't found the strength yet.
You didn't say if there was a reason why you couldn't approach him now. If you're both single,why not.
@@mariankyra6613relationship polarity is important.
I love shy men.
I have had ENOUGH of bad boys, mind games, tricks and lies. I long for a man that likes peace and quiet. I may have met him. Thank you for your videos!! They are very apprecisted!!!❤❤❤
I never heard this before. This opened my mind cos i am normally shy type of girl and very traditional i expect men to come to me.
Same here Mar88 B, if I smile at them don't want them to think man she's bold.
Yes, Brian. Do more scenarios like this, it would be great to see and hear "what's inside of his brain" when looking at one woman or so. Thank you, Brian.
YESSSS
😂 LOVE your imitation of the guy who sees an attractive woman and tries to play it cool -awesome! So what I assumed... So sweet to see especially in successful men; and with success I mean socially successful and with a job / life that fulfils him
OMG! Brian , you are too funny, DO MORE OF THESE scenario video's! I need to know what is going on from the male perspective, thanks
im a guy and this is 99% true that made me laugh
Το ξέρουμε πως είσαστε εσείς οι άντρες - και τί παιχνίδια παίζεται !!! 😂
και ποιο είναι το 1 τοις εκατό
A player is like a T-Rex in jurassic Park... Haha I loved that.
How women can't like shy guys. They're the most cute men alive
Can be more emotionally volatile and passive-aggressive though.
You are right. I dont do it, I should change that I think! 🤙🏼
@@Catherine_Kate Dating a shy guy and he IS passive aggressive. He isn't good at communicating when he's bothered by something or he doesn't like something so he just gives you the silent treatment....as punishment or whatever. I'm not sure I wanna live with that. I prefer open talk.
But that's different for all shy guys of course!
Danika Exactly. The problem with ‘shy’ guys who give the silent treatment is they are likely covert narcissists. If he’s doing that to punish early on, what would 20+ years of marriage escalate to?
@@Catherine_Kate Nah in his case he's not a narcissist ( at least I hope so ). He admits mistakes and is loving. Good with his family, but socially awkward, was bullied a lot when he was younger. It was much worse when he gave me a few details than I thought. So he's withdrawn a lot.
I washed his head though. He better not give me that treatment again. I might be gone. As much as I love him, I protect myself if a person becomes too toxic 😊
Thanks Brian! So tired of hearing that you're attracting bad guys because somehow you're damaged, you have low self-esteem or that something else must be wrong with you. Thank you so kindly for this. And the skit was quite funny
Brian, you have such a wonderful voice, you should consider doing sleep stories 🙂
I think so too
Yes it's kinda sexy
I thought I was the only one! I literally listen to him every night as I have sleep problems and I fall as asleep so well now
actually he has a very nice choice of words...
@@sweetbutterfly5 Is he that boring?! 🤔😄
I totally agree with u on this one Geert ,indeed , narcissistics are those who show a lot of interest straight when they find their new prey , quick efforts from a man isnt necessary healthy ,
Wow I needed to hear that last reason about the bad boys being a challenge. I’ve never heard it put that way before but it makes perfect sense. Raised with a mom chasing after an alcoholic stepdad. The pieces are clicking together. Thanks so much for your videos. ❤
So glad that you recorded this video!! Thank you so much🙏 you nailed it!! 👏👏
This is very spot-on. For a very long time I was often approached by guys when I was out and about and would keep wondering why there were never any decent, good guys amongst them. At some point it even started diminishing my self-esteem as I started wondering why I as an attractive young woman wasn't approached by a good guy every now and again. Until I eventually realized the guys who approached me were a very badly pre-selected pool of guys and that I had to be more pro-active with the type of guys I really wanted to meet. Thanks for sharing this!
I feel your pain as a fairly attractive young man, in a different way. I have to overdo a lot of things to make girls feel comfortable. Being too confident in my approaches makes shy good girls mistake me for a player.
I felt curious for your video, I wanted to comfirm it. You're so right. Bad men give a lot of adrenalin, when I understood that, I married with a good man, who every day is the same.
This was sooo good Brian!!! Thanks for making it. You are THE BEST!!!!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
"Then there's the cat thing" Lol. You're hilarious, and give awesome advice too. All the best guys are married or dating experts!
Waw, I've seen tons of video but nobody explained that situation that way. It really made me rethink the approach. Thanks a lot for this!!
Low self-esteem/bad childhood
Life Traps and/or "schemas". I have a book on it, it's really intense stuff to look at and work through. Basically learned patterns from childhood, indeed. They repeat over and over and over, until ppl learn to unlearn these behaviors. It's really difficult stuff.
@@NikkoYM I hate the fact that I realised it only in my 30s, not earlier
@@Whoeverwhateverwhenever Don't be too hard on yourself. No one is keeping track or time. We only know what we know at the time. I also didn't have certain realizations until my late 30's and 40's. I am still learning and nowhere near perfect (!!!) at 52. Give yourself a pat on the back for even being open and curious on this liife's journey. 🌸
@@Whoeverwhateverwhenever me too but at least we did
@@NikkoYM what is the book called? I am interested in reading it.
I think your AWESOME Brian Nox. You have a great way of communicating with your viewers. The simple fact that you speak in a very calming, gentle, tone is comforting and reassuring. Makes it easier for me to process what you are teaching. So thank you once again 😊👍🏼.
Very honest, educated, in-depth analysis of a guy's head. I totally get it. Thanks, Brian.
yeeea. but of course there are "soft boy fuckboys" who don't approach you because they feel nervous or act as if they are shy because they think that shyness is an indicator of being sincere. but the minute you show them interest, they play games and take you for granted even if you don't show them an attitude that you're chasing them/being desperate. they like to manipulate. we don't want this kind of guy, ladies. it's good to be friendly and playful with the opposite sex, but we should not let our guard down easily, vet guys properly and not make excuses for soft boys once they mess up. because usually, girls make excuses for their inconsistencies and reason out that the soft boys are just shy or clueless about courting them/doing relationship stuff because soft boys are not like the "smooth and confident players". most of these guys are also love bombers once you start talking/dating them. they annoy me so much.
Thank you Brian! I recently came across a guy who wouldn't put in the effort after I took the first couple of steps so I really needed to hear this 🥰
In my experience I always went for the bad boy because deep down I was too scared to have a real relationship, due to a bad marriage. It reinforced my belief that men can’t be trusted and that they are all the same. I now know this isn’t the truth. I had healing and growing to do. Now I can appreciate the real men who know how to respect and treat a woman.
This is such important relationship knowledge!!! Thank you for getting this information out there!!!
Your sincerity is obvious and your advice is helpful.
Excellent, true, & so SPOT ON !!! Keep the VIDEOS coming.
Oh.. Your voice is so calming, sound confident but at the same time soothing... In addition to awesome advices you gave.. Thank you
Awesome video! So accurate and my favorite video of yours actually. I like all of them but this one really pointed out very common truths that some women don’t like to hear. It’s important though. Thank you!
THANK YOU so much for speaking about women who are attracted to the challenge men/"bad" guys instead of the normal guys because of the excitement of it. I have noticed this about myself and thought it was due to having greater masculine/feminine polarity with those "bad" guys. Now I see I want to increase my appreciation for men who aren't on again/off again. I wonder if there are videos about that... 🙂 Thanks again!
I love your videos but this one was the cherry on top! I laughed so hard at that sketch/"what he's thinking" bit. Wow. I'm dead from that internal soliloquy!
Thank you for this video Brian.
Much appreciated & informative!
Thank you Brian Knox! This was very helpful!
Always valuable to hear a sensitive man's point of view. His makes a lot of sense. Thank you!
Besides the fact that i think you have a very pleasant voice to listen to and great advice..i love that this video had even more of your humour in it..hahaha..nice job
Brian,
I was approached by a very attractive man who attended an event I served at. He asked the duty ops person where to find me. I was at an adjoining location and he came in walked up to me and threw his fist up, for a fist bump and said " good job, we appreciate your excellent service".
I was in shock that this beautiful man came looking for me. The fist bump made me laugh. The complement was NOT what I expected. The abruptness of it made me feel like someone was trying to set me up for a joke.
Well the jokes on me alright. Turns out he just wanted quality service for the monthly recurring event. Lol.
Wow. Thank you. I really appreciate your manner of delivery...kind, truthful, humorous. Thank you!
THANKS FOR SHARING BRIAN
I have a cat named Oliver 😠. But when I see a cute guy I act like i dont see them... shyness gets the best of me .. I have to force myself to smile 😊
Fantastic video Brian! Very descriptive and based on real life! Thank you!!!
You have helped me so much to understand my issues with dating. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. This video was very helpful.
And I love your voice too. :)
Love this! Getting rid of the 'rusty stuff' feels hugely satisfying. Like a weight being lifted... and an opening being created...
Brian, I have to say I started watching your videos a few years ago and I didn't particularly care for me but NOW - Idk if I've grown or you have or both lol -your videos really resonates with me now and I find you so sincere, compassionate and truly helpful. Thank you!
Your words....."are like Apples of Gold in a Setting of Silver!" Thank U. 🙏🙏🙏
Absolutely love this informative video. Thnx so much for sharing.
Fabulous explanation. Thank you Brian.
Thank you for this. Women need to know about men like this.
I think this is your BEST video YET!! So funny!! And very insightful too!! ❤️🌠🙏
Wow..You leave me breathless.. Thank you for making this video, its all i need. I love your brain Sir.keep up the good works.. i hope to see you again..!God bless!
Briannnnn yasss so happy you’re posting again and to be here early! I love been binge watching all your videos and was like whennnns the next one! I’m writing this as the video is beginning I’ll listen now 👂🏼
WoW just listened this is so me! I really need to do this and not just reciprocate with the guys that have too much arrogance. Amazing content as always Brian so super helpful my fav coach on YT
Thank you for these videos Brian! Great explanations and straight forward answers. So helpful
Even though stating these facts might be teasing to some women, its also really beneficial! So many articles lack to highlight the complete truth in regards to relationships which can cause so many conflicts! Its essential to see the truth of our actions rather than complaining every time why things are going wrong! Very pleased to watch this video. By the way, great imitation you did about how guys may think! Thank you very much Brian!!
You're hilarious! 😂 Thank you for the advice and the entertainment.
Crystal clear. Brian is always fantastic!
This was so funny! You did such a great job explaining what he’s thinking! The cat comment cracked me up!
Straight to the point you have some pretty funny lines. I enjoy watching your videos because of this
Beautiful, honest and deeply true analysis
Thank you for all your great advice! Love your witty banter. 😍 and yes… as someone already noted your voice is very soothing lol that’s much appreciated as well. lol
Thank you so much Brian! Great stuff!
Great content....a real eye opener for me!! Thank you so much for this video. 👍👍😊
Thank you from the core of my heart for making these videos.I believe that those videos will help a lot of women to find a right guy.I wish, I could find your videos before getting married. ❤️
Thank you for the video! It was great how you managed to act out these types of guys! So talented!
Yes. A series of videos addressed to the men… help balance out their understanding of caring and desire… appreciate the true feminine… honor the true masculine… and let them know that a good woman is a prize. Not their rusty butt. No matter how cute it is. It’s true many women don’t appreciate and respect men or themselves well. You are helping with that already. Thank you. I appreciate your clarity and endings if the videos.
So deep. Actually made me angry that this stuff isn’t taught in school. It seems to me to be some of the most vital information to start out with in life.
Thank you so much 👍🏾
Thank you, Brian! Beautifully described.
Thank you Brian Nox! You really imprisoned me with your videos.😆
Interesting... & thank you for the laughs of the internal dialogue.
You're funny. 😁
I'd love more to know of how guy's think.
The best video you've ever made Heath.
Thank you Brian. I lOVE this video!
I even feel shy to smile to the guys I think attractive 😆😆
I really enjoy your videos. Love all the humor you put in your videos.
I understand I'm ok now and I respect you for giving me time to get over you.
I really love the way you do these videos....the information goes in so much better when you're laughing 🤣😍 xx
This was great. Exactly what I needed. Thank you 😊
Thank you for sharing this amazing information!
I appreciate at honest and compassionate approach on that tough but important subject.
I lowkey try to pronounce your name everytime I watch your videos. I think I finally perfected it! Thank you for this one! p.s. LOVE the role play
Hi Brian, I admire your videos in the sense that you base your relationship education on psycological perspectives.
In a previous video you mentiuoned that a woman should not let down her values just to please a man. I consider it very commendable
dank u Geert. Dankzij je video heb ik zoveel over mezelf geleerd. Groetjes uit Leuven :)
I love this video. 🥰 You’re so right and I have to laugh so much when you say what a man is thinking when he sees a woman he is attracted to 😂
I remember the dating pool being very judgmental and very cruel. If you are a bit overweight, like I was at times, guys can and will reject you based entirely off of that, and they are not nice or polite about that rejection. My son has made me aware that girls can be just as bad. Girls want boys who are at least 6 feet tall and will reject a guy based entirely off their height. And sometimes I think girls are even more cruel in their rejection. After that has happened to you a few times, you get a little gun shy. Just saying. Nobody likes rejection.
Absolutely the best advice. Thanks
Thank you so much for making this video! I learned so much new and valuable stuff, alot of it that I didn't knew before or was unsure of. :)
I LOVE you Hiirt! I think you're not only the funniest guy on utube, you're also right on the money with your insights, advice and tips! Thank you!! ❤❤️ 🌠🌠🌠🙏🙏
Brian you are a hoot! So funny 😂 This was informative but I really hoped you would do the same topic with regards to online dating. I think especially in this age of pandemic, online dating is the main way to meet guys and it would be good to know what is the best strategy. Great video though!
Amazing .. I saw the last part .. thank you so much
Amazing advice, thank-you so much.
I think you’re right. I’ve been that woman who dated a player. It’s aweful, but I recognized it and got over it. I have a friend with a player now. I wish there was a gentle way of making her aware of it.
This was great! Thank you so much
Thank you Brian excellent advice
Awesome job Brian. Thank you. 🙏💐❤
This is cute. This is one of the best videos I think I've seen you do.
You had me laughing my head off because so many people actually do these things
This is so well said and brain storming, Thanks Nox for sharing! :)
Thank you this was brilliant.
i really love you and your videos please keep making more, like the others, matthew hussey they do it every week, i would so love it if you would do that! xx
I have been doing exactly as Brian said, attracting the wrong type of men for the emotional high. Need to change this. Thanks Brian for the insight.
You always do a great job Brian!💕thank you! I met a construction worker on his work site! He said how are you! Great voice I replied great! He seemed to like this socially distanced took his mask off? Didn’t want to talk only looking! Gave him a few seconds turned and continued my walk!