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Merci Monsieur!!!!! Yes, great format and content ! We want more!

Actual crying because I’m watching this on Father’s Day and I’m feeling all the loving father energy from you that I have never received. Thank you for your fatherly wisdom. I love you imaginary father ♥️

I was super skeptical but curious going into this video. This turns out to be a great video :)

Desperation is not attractive to either men or women.

I appreciate at honest and compassionate approach on that tough but important subject.

There are good, but also bad points made here. I have a feeling this video took off because it could be a bit controversial in that way

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A very good and helpful video, now i see even more clearly that the guy i liked a lot never liked me at all (never looked in my eyes for a long time while speaking to me, withdraws his leg in a second when touched my leg occasionally (like i have lice or something), always interrupts our conversation when someone more interesting to him enters the room etc) 😅

I´ve just watched the intro of "My Best Friend's Wedding" and had to come back to this video to share, because I laughed so hard to hear the opposing, and it is a woman :0 :D Btw thank you for this video! It gaved me something

unrelated but i love your name

What about he’s a 10 but he never calls his mother wrong even when she is wrong or emotionally abusive?

Just go slow. Get to know the other half. Believe only actions, not words. And avoid all sorts of addiction, cigarattes, alcohol, drugs, sex, porn, gaming, gambling... it will only get worse

Much needed. Thank you

You’re good Brian ❤

Why is it when a man has had scars from his past it's supposed to be tolerated but if it's a woman she's a drama queen and she likes to start trouble I don't like double standards I think men are the biggest drama queens on Earth because they perpetuate drama and then blame you when you react to it I'm not saying all men that's just the ones I've been in contact with

Where are all the good men? Of course women lower their standards because so many men are immature.

Thank you so much for making this video, it helps me a lot

I stop calling him i stopped messaging him he calls me sometimes after threeor 4 days he talks about his family or his friends nothing about us he stop seeing me for many months he says to me he not in the mood to do any thing i feel very lonely now i am 65 he is 73 he used to see me every weekend now he says if you want to see me come over i went to his apartment many times but now its his turn i am fed up and its not easy for me to meet another man should i stop answering his phone calls what should i do how can i make him miss me what should i do please let me know thank you

My guy had been divorced for years, and she really put him through it. But it has been years, and yet his trauma from that still factored in his life, though he would swear up and down that this wasn't the case. I knew better. We would argue about it, and when I accused him of keeping other women at arm's length--well, me--because he was taking out his still unresolved anger towards her on me (and probably other women), he'd deny that, too. And that piece about him probably being more drawn, deep down, to women who wouldn't treat him well is spot on. I even said that to him, which of course, he denied. He eventually broke up with me after a few years, and my own anger is rooted in the knowledge that I should have done it first. He basically friend zoned me while still sleeping with me. I never met family because he didn't want me to (though I heard an awful lot about them), and he never could respond back when I'd tell him I loved him (because I did), none of that. He was materially generous, and we did spend time together on outings and such, which is lovely, of course--but he could never really share his heart with me. I just wish I could have known before I fell in love with him. Live and learn, I guess.

you are now my second dad

I'll save your video to show my daughter in a few years time!

Are you also Einzelganger on you tube?

Does it mean don't get intimate to avoid the power of oxytocin? 😂 Attraction doesn't literally mean love ?

Yes , but of course, we always consider that there must be a balance in everything . Maybe too much challenges can be stressful .❤😊

Even if I'm single, I have noted each and every point you said, Only god knows why😌💫.

Help my dad hates me so 0:49 is literally making me ugly cry

I don't know what to believe anymore tbh

I really needed this in my life. Thank you so so so much. I cried tonight realising not having a dad who knew how to love me, has affected me in ways I never saw coming.. Thank you Brian

It will be nice if you have daughters because there are few important points. First of all, most of the parents do afraid that their children wouldn't find someone suitable for husband at all, so they do not teach their daughters to respect themselves, This way the girl will have the chance to "fool herself" with practically anyone and she could have at least children. Secondly, the women are very often emotional creatures, especially when they are young and a player is not so hard to impress them, especially in comparison with the ordinary guys at the same age . As most of the girls see the ONE in the guy they are involved with and as our nature is to develop relationships(we are born mothers and we have to develop our children) we are trying to improve even the worst relationship. The fear of being alone for a woman is huge, so many women are capable to stay in a bad relation just because those few facts. Eventually, after few disappointments a woman has a chance to learn to respect herself but after this the chance for the ordinary guys with her is minimal. She will be perfectly ok with being alone and will see mostly the negative tendencies in every potential candidate because she knows only this in the man's nature. As a man, you will have to teach your sons to respect the women even if they don't respect themselves. This is the best way to learn a woman how to be a WOMAN!

thanks didnt have a dad

Dumped him after 2 weeks because he didn't want to commit and only dated me cuz of our friend group getting pissed he was being overly intimate with me and leading me on. I think if you dump him quickly, the hurt goes away faster.

As your imaginary daughter i wNt to say thank you my imaginary dad. My family has a really strict background and talking about relationships is a taboo. Not only that but he isn't that present in my life.

Haha he doesn’t tel me I’m special I’m so dumb

This video made me feel like receiving advice from the Dad I never had, he passed away when I was 11 and was quite abusive, so this means so so much! Thank you!! Keep helping the world become a more safe and loving place! Thank you Brian!!

All this advice is so valid and needed tysm

All the reasons why im single (and most of my friends)

if you ever have a daughter one day, she’ll be lucky

never swim oceans for anyone who won’t even get into the water for you. this goes for whoever you’re attracted to man or woman

7. 12 omgg Thank youu. I don't have the obligation to impress him. I have to be honest and be myself and see if he likes this version of me.

thank you dad

That’s why it’s good to keep a journal. 👍🏻

Please do continue your videos for us, your imaginary daughters ❤

it happens in the start and the moment you start to catch feeling for them as well, they back off

Chances are he is using you & will drop you as soon as he finds a replacement.

My god, I think I'm a man.

My SO is very loving and attentive and has many great qualities, but two flaws that drive me crazy… excessively pedantic academic and negative. I’m not sure I want that for the rest of my life.

I'm already married to a great guy, but I just wanted to say thank you so much for posting this. It takes a lot of love in your heart to care for your imaginary daughter so much you had to share it with young women. And in a loving, guiding and respectful way. Thank you. I will be using this video to educate my daughter if and when I finally have children. ❤

Ha ha … love clingier than a koala

😂😂I really hate when people say i look tired.. 😵‍💫 It's the same as saying they don't like me.

My husband was resenting me for wanting him to be masculine in his mindset. He made me feel guilty for wanting to have decisive, responsible, accountable man. He was acting like my son, not like a grown up man. On top of that he financially abused me and our baby. So after 2 years of this nightmare, i left. To this day, he doesn't understand why and blames me for abandoning him and being selfish.