@@jhondeo9455He is! But He's not a person - she's referring to wanting to be married to a husband which Holy Spirit won't fulfill that role in her life 😁
I don’t want to be alone either. I can sympathize with you. Lord, for all who read this and desire You first and foremost but also desire a companion, I pray You will open doors and avenues for people to meet other singles and prepare their hearts for marriage. For those who are content with You but are lonely, Comfort their heart and wrap your loving arms around them. I pray for more ministries to come fourth to minister to those in singleness. We need to be ministered too regardless if singleness is intentional or intentional. Thank You Heavenly Father for your steadfast unconditional love, compassion, patience, protection, mercies and our companion rather a husband or wife. In Jesus name, Amen ♥️
Delighting in the Lord first is the best way for our deepest desire for a partner to be fulfilled. God's word is essential to direct our path because God's word can't be manipulated by the enemy. So if you love the Lord first and wait for his will he will definitely do what your heart desires in prayer at the right time
Happened to me and my soon to be fiance. In two cities miles apart, I had a vision of us getting married during church and my heart was opened to loving him as more than just a friend, and he heard the Holy Spirit speak to him saying to ask me out within an hour. We are both shy, cerebral people and may have talked ourselves out of moving forward without the direct help of God.
One step at a time, we need to know what desires G-d put in our hearts, pursue a relationship n just like pursue a job, open doors, timing n desires n G-d leads us one step at a time n im not someone who are praying for every single sign n I Know someone does this n to me its insane. I think we should pursue G-d 1st, His Word n truth, righteousness, love, peace n kindness n fasting n pray then the peace of G-d alone will move us forward to where HE ordained us, put G-d 1st.
I’m hopeful for someone who loves God, and points me to scripture many times, and prays for me and my family. He’s got to come on board and pursue me, too, though. God is protecting me right now and guarding my heart. And leading me through His word. Pursuing God is the best way, because it’s God’s way, and serving Him. And praying for this person when I have to give him space. God will be glorified either way. ✝️
So God gives us more space to exercise faith and grow spiritually when he wants us to explore ‘the one’. God is so playful in His wisdom, I’m ready for the challenge 🥰
I want marriage, have been praying for years, dont know what I'm doing wrong, been on almost every dating sites but still hard to find a genuine Godly man
We're out here! Are you presenting yourself in person to be seen in your local community? The role also falls on us as men - we see you. We notice you. If a man likes what he sees, he will approach you regardless of possible rejection.
There is no one in my local community to see, and I dont really go out except to do the necessary, that's why I use dating site which are producing nothing, and I know I'm a good genuine Godly woman who just want to find that special guy, , What do you mean what I'm doing and believing is not true, please explain that for me
You should not lose hope. You are doing well to be faithful to God and waiting for the right one to be brought into your life. Dating sites are tough, I know. Are you involved with a church? Christian community is very important for many reasons. I have been hoping to find a wife for a long time, but it hasn't happened yet. God is teaching me to have total peace and contentment in him first. He is the only one who can fulfill us completely. Let God draw you closer to him in your time of singleness. Be totally content in him alone. And if God's will for your life is something you are seeking honestly, then your desire for marriage will be fulfilled someday.
My thing is when I strike a conversation with a woman if she likes what she sees and hears she’ll stay in touch with me. And share life with me a woman knows what she wants moment she lays eyes on a man like us guys do when see what we like and want.
God knew in my heart what would make me happy in a person other than my family and everything else, and so he sent me this man unexpectedly, and I'm doing this exactly before I got this vlog/ video right now. Thank you again! But I didn't know I was ...
Thanks for putting it plainly brother Mark. My thought is, too many of us as American Christians over spiritualize getting married from a few fears: 1. Marrying the wrong person and being stuck. 2. Orphan-spirit mindset of not disappointing the Lord for pursing He may have explicitly said yes to via audible confirmation. 3. Similar to point 1, missing out on a "better option". While yes, Holy Spirit is active and present in our pursuit for relationship and marriage, a part of the way He leads and guides us in all truth and righteousness in this area are by the biblical principles of the word, and also, His nuanced ways of communicating with us as we get to know other brothers and sisters ( peace, discernment, red flags, green flags, simple commonalities, etc). Be blessed my single brothers and sisters - acknowledge the Lord in your pursuits and act on FAITH! 🙌🏿
@@protoknightsmusicarchives3232 how do you know for sure? How is it evident you have the gift of singleness? Do you have sexual urges that still rise after crucifying the flesh, being delivered from lustful spirits, and guarding your eye gates? If so, Paul taught that it's better to marry than burn with lust.
Thank you for the clarification. For the past week I've been wholly preoccupied with seeking prayer for and praying about whether or not it's God's will for me to pursue someone. Now I need to decide when to seek permission from her father to do so...
There is this very faithful woman I’ve met online. The most Proverbs 31st woman I’ve ever met. She’s older than me, and I have assumed she is more faithful than me. But I’m doing my best to love her as Christ does, and I’m letting her go from my mind, and I’m not putting any pressure on her or a relationship. If it happens, it happens. If it does not, it does not. But I want to be by her side, and I have a bit of hope for more of a relationship, but I know that God has His plans, and so I will let her go. And if the relationship proceeds, I will cry of joy. And if it doesn’t, I will still love God, and cry of joy because of what Jesus has done. God may be waiting on you instead of the other way around. If you’re stuck; take a leap of faith, and He will lead you to the Way; His Son.
I believe I am ready for a relationship and I believe that God is telling me that I am ready for a relationship. I am just waiting for him to send me the right person.
Mark, I love your videos and have found them to immensely helpful as I see a god honoring relationship. I am curious though if you could do content on relationships as it relates to friends? Finding friends, being a better friend, dealing with conflict, etc. I think as singles it’s easy to get caught in the romantic side of relationships that we forget how to have healthy friendships as well. Thanks!
All i know is that ive NEVER wanted to respect a man so much in my life , im carrful woth my words , i dont want to hurt him and i do feel at ease but ..... Idk
The problem with pursuing is that it might backfire completely on someone. Women today make men feel like if they pursue them, they are just being a big creep and claim things like sexual harassment. Also, for someone like me who's always been introverted and is always afraid to ask someone out because they think they aren't good enough and that they'd be a waste of time to the woman, it's not going to be easy since no woman ever really comes up to the man.
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It’s not that I don’t pursue/look for a relationship, it’s that I just wanna make sure that the woman I’m talking to is the right one, or rather I just wish I had at least one sign that she is the right person for me.
God lead me straight to a wonderful, Godly woman after he took my second wife to heaven after her cancer fight. The whole thing was too spooky to have been ANYTHING other than God.
hi so what if my husband cheated, threatened to leak videos of us, threatened to put me in jail when i puta restraining order and now he’s repenting and is doing everything i am asking for, what do you do as a christian?
Good points thank you 😊 however, it is extremely important to seek God's face in every situation. 1, not everyone who says they are a christian are christian some people hide under Christianity so it is important to seek God's face (Jeremiah 33:3) 2, not everything that feels right is right. Proverbs 14:12
@@iminlove1148 that means your flesh has control not your spirit, you should fast to remove fleshy desires and always confess your sexual sins to God, even the small ones and he will cleanse you Also try to look at others as God's children not objects of pleasure Stop any porn, as that will cause the desires to increase and maybe try find a partner because that can help if they're on the right path
You refered to Paul's words concerning him being single. Have you researched Paul's past before Him meeting Jesus on the road to Damascus? You might find, Saul (Paul) as a pharisee was married. However, don't rely on my comment but research it for your self. Keep in mind, the changing of your name does not remove sexual desire especially if one was married and then is not.
Learn to "drop the hanky". Do something that gives him the opportunity to take a chance. Especially when he might think he has no chance. Ruth did not pursue Boaz. But she certainly let him know she was ready for him to pursue her, if he was intrested. Women are not as prepared to be rejected as men are. So accept that you may get a positive or negative response. But if you do nothing, then the answer is always no. Also, us guys like it when things are out in the open and not guessing or playing games. Guys are not good at playing games or reading a women's mind. Nor can you read his. So if he does not "pick up the hanky", take a more direct approach. "Hey, I want to talk with you about something..." Then be prepared either way it goes. Also remember, if this is a "crush", we usually get over those. You are seeing this guy as Super Man. But would you still want him it you discovered he is really Clark Kent, just an average man? Is he a Proverbs 1 to 30 kind of man? No one is perfect. But if he is not pursuing Jesus, he is not ready to pursue you. Lastly, evaluate if you like this guy for Godly reasons or worldly reasons? When I was younger, there were many times a wonderful woman dropped the hanky on me, but I was too immature to know what was going on. I regret that now.
I say crush because we work together. I have felt strong feelings for him for a while now. I keep praying and waiting. Waiting and praying. In my head, nothing is brought up because we work so closely together.
Let me also be more clear. I have had my share of failed relationships due to not being in the will of God. I know now the relationship I would like to have. This man exhibits the fruits of the spirit in every way. He is a moral and decent man. We are both in our 40s and have had discussions of relationships, just not with one another, again, due to how close we work together.
@@jessycalee7289 Idk why...But your situation reminds me of what I'm going through. 😬😬😬 For some advice tho...Due to my situation. Be more vocal with how you're feeling. Especially if you find it hard to talk about your feelings.. When it comes to conflict. (Definitely ask the lord for confirmation).
So what if my bf and I are putting God in relationship and we thought we want to get married but it’s been 2 years and I am the one questioning if we should get married. I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to settle, he’s amazing but I feel like what if there was even better? Maybe the enemy is trying to break us up?
So you’re pretty much saying if you have a strong sexual desire, and if you’re unhappy being single then God most likely want you to pursue if it makes you happy and you want it, so God won’t force you to be single if you don’t want to because I want a family I grew up in a very broken home, the stuff I can tell you about my childhood, and my life would probably shock you is there a way I can like. Talk to you sometimes.
God does override our will at times because that is clear in scripture but I do believe in terms of marriage it’s def a choice. I completely deny the notion of destiny in terms of “there is someone out there for everyone” or there is a person that God made just for me which isn’t the case for everyone. Those statements sound like a Disney movie fairytale.
Genesis says that it's not good for a man to be alone. Yet, Proverbs says it's better to live alone in the desert than with a quarrelsome wife. How do those 2 verses reconcile?
@@ECO473 To each their own. It is better to be alone if you WANT to be alone, better to be married if you WANT it. Some are called to marriage, some are called to singleness, no one way is better. And many if not most people desire a partner and God knows that with this gift of marriage, for the persons who want it, it will benefit much better if they were single. When things seem contradictory like that in the Bible, the context really needs to be looked at. And remember the Bible has to be read in a whole, so if scriptures sound contradictory, they are still meant to he understand together and correlate with each other, not oppose each other and you just choose one to believe, just general advice. God bless you my fellow believer ❤.
I'm about to turn middle age and I'm still waiting for the one. My mom has made it difficult for me to pursue a relationship. She thinks it will become a inheritance issue if I were to get married someday.
I’m still trying to put my life together and part of it is dating and such, but I have this strange recurring theme where we talk about religion and all but it’s always been that I attract pagans, satanists, new age and wiccans, witches and not a single Christian woman yet. So I find myself in a place where Samson was with the philistines. I trust this is a test
I had a friend who was in this situation. In her case the guy was in need for emotional healing in God because of past situations. She prayer for him for a while, after months God healed him and they get married.
Quick question can a Catholic date a Christian? Please no judgement everyone says different things some say yes a Catholic can date a Christian and others say no so I'm confused.
Hello. My friend is not Catholic but her husband was. They had to compromise as she essentially said she is not going to do certain "catholic stuff". Now she is a very submissive woman, she didn't demand anything she was just clear about what she wouldn't do if they were to wed. They have been married over 20 years. It worked because the husband was a genuine Christian but not so bothered about not doing certain Catholic practices anymore. Pray on your decision and see if you can compromise like my friend.
Well, I know the word of God says you’re not supposed to be unevenly yoked. And you’re not supposed to give all the glory and honor to a Saint or even to the mother of Christ because Christ had to be her savior also. I think it’s safe to be believers and believe the same doctrine together.
Lol... You guys were WRONG!! 😆🤣 All these videos that kept randomly popping up in my recommendations for no reason, claiming to be “signs." Truly I prayed that she'd comeback and I believed the words you all spoke. Well I got the ONLY sign I needed today!! She started seeing someone else already, in less than 3 months..... Devoted Christian or not, a woman is a woman. They are all the same. Now I shall move on with my life and stick to my original premise that I'm perfectly fine being alone.
Hi. I don’t know you, and am not familiar with your specific situation in it’s entirety. But if I could be of some encouragement to you… please do not give up hope of finding the one. There are lots of “the ones” out there. We are all on this earth for a very brief amount of time in relation to eternity. Yes, we dream of finding our forever person, but what about finding the person that we can glorify Christ with. There are plenty of Godly women in the world you desire and can find yourself to be with. Scripture says that it is not good for man to be alone. Do not give up hope completely. Like scripture also says, He who finds a wife finds a good thing. I know things may be very difficult for you right now, but God has someone GOOD for you. It may not be the person that wronged you, it may not be the next acquaintance you have, but if you desire to be married, and surrender to His will, He will provide for you, and in ways that you cannot fathom. Trust in Him. God bless.
All i know for sure is that i dont want to be alone ❤
You're never alone. The holy spirit is ALWAYS with you. Many blessing on your journey
@@jhondeo9455He is! But He's not a person - she's referring to wanting to be married to a husband which Holy Spirit won't fulfill that role in her life 😁
I don't want to be alone either.
I don’t want to be alone either. I can sympathize with you.
Lord, for all who read this and desire You first and foremost but also desire a companion, I pray You will open doors and avenues for people to meet other singles and prepare their hearts for marriage. For those who are content with You but are lonely,
Comfort their heart and wrap your loving arms around them. I pray for more ministries to come fourth to minister to those in singleness. We need to be ministered too regardless if singleness is intentional or intentional.
Thank You Heavenly Father for your steadfast unconditional love, compassion, patience, protection,
mercies and our companion rather a husband or wife. In Jesus name, Amen ♥️
Then show us current pictures of you, tell us your age, your weight, and your body count.
And how much kids you have in tow.
"Being frozen in the present...." is precisely what I've been doing, literally for years. This is an eye-opener for me, thank you!
Delighting in the Lord first is the best way for our deepest desire for a partner to be fulfilled. God's word is essential to direct our path because God's word can't be manipulated by the enemy. So if you love the Lord first and wait for his will he will definitely do what your heart desires in prayer at the right time
AMEN CARLA
This does fit me. ❤
I just don’t want to settle. It’s hard to find a Godly man who leads spiritually
We're out here! Are you going out in your local city to present yourself so you can be found along with prayer?
@@CrownedJulzI need to take your advice
@@catshultz9045 indeed, when you do we brothers can see you and will approach you if we're interested 😁
@@CrownedJulz I hope so. When you commented on original comment it gave me so much insight
Agreed
Many times i heard God leading people to each other and telling them directly that this is your spouse and directing their steps in a very direct way!
Really ? Awesome
Can’t say I’ve heard that before but I have heard him call my name when I was younger
I've heard that several times as well. It doesn't always happen, but I have had some friends in life that experienced that.
Happened to me and my soon to be fiance. In two cities miles apart, I had a vision of us getting married during church and my heart was opened to loving him as more than just a friend, and he heard the Holy Spirit speak to him saying to ask me out within an hour. We are both shy, cerebral people and may have talked ourselves out of moving forward without the direct help of God.
One step at a time, we need to know what desires G-d put in our hearts, pursue a relationship n just like pursue a job, open doors, timing n desires n G-d leads us one step at a time n im not someone who are praying for every single sign n I Know someone does this n to me its insane. I think we should pursue G-d 1st, His Word n truth, righteousness, love, peace n kindness n fasting n pray then the peace of G-d alone will move us forward to where HE ordained us, put G-d 1st.
I’m hopeful for someone who loves God, and points me to scripture many times, and prays for me and my family.
He’s got to come on board and pursue me, too, though. God is protecting me right now and guarding my heart. And leading me through His word.
Pursuing God is the best way, because it’s God’s way, and serving Him. And praying for this person when I have to give him space. God will be glorified either way. ✝️
Can you do a video on loving a Christian who fits the description of dismissive avoidant personality type?
So God gives us more space to exercise faith and grow spiritually when he wants us to explore ‘the one’. God is so playful in His wisdom, I’m ready for the challenge 🥰
I’ve been wanting marriage, but I feel like all signs are pointing to no or maybe not now but definitely no for now…
God bless as you seek the Lord's leading
Same here
Same for me. It's frustrating.
@@S.M.Jean-Mahmoud_Ier It’s indeed frustrating, nothing worth waiting for is ever easy. God will provide, as He did when He was testing Abraham.
Great video. I have been thinking about this for a few years. I think God wants me to pursue a relationship, but I'm uncertain about it.
"it's worth the risk to TRY TO FIND OUT" 🧐 noted! I'm the one stuck in the frozen. Thank you for this 🙏🏾
Sometimes there is a good reason not to move forward, so I would ask the Lord to help you see why you are frozen :)
I want marriage, have been praying for years, dont know what I'm doing wrong, been on almost every dating sites but still hard to find a genuine Godly man
We're out here! Are you presenting yourself in person to be seen in your local community?
The role also falls on us as men - we see you. We notice you. If a man likes what he sees, he will approach you regardless of possible rejection.
That means what you are doing and believing in is not true,
There is no one in my local community to see, and I dont really go out except to do the necessary, that's why I use dating site which are producing nothing, and I know I'm a good genuine Godly woman who just want to find that special guy, ,
What do you mean what I'm doing and believing is not true, please explain that for me
@@jarenlio8772 what do you mean by that?
You should not lose hope. You are doing well to be faithful to God and waiting for the right one to be brought into your life. Dating sites are tough, I know. Are you involved with a church? Christian community is very important for many reasons. I have been hoping to find a wife for a long time, but it hasn't happened yet. God is teaching me to have total peace and contentment in him first. He is the only one who can fulfill us completely. Let God draw you closer to him in your time of singleness. Be totally content in him alone. And if God's will for your life is something you are seeking honestly, then your desire for marriage will be fulfilled someday.
My thing is when I strike a conversation with a woman if she likes what she sees and hears she’ll stay in touch with me. And share life with me a woman knows what she wants moment she lays eyes on a man like us guys do when see what we like and want.
staying in touch goes both ways :)
Well stated
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God knew in my heart what would make me happy in a person other than my family and everything else, and so he sent me this man unexpectedly, and I'm doing this exactly before I got this vlog/ video right now. Thank you again! But I didn't know I was ...
If you know for sure you don't want to alone and you have met someone that you really want to get know ask them out on a date. Take a leap of faith.
This fits me. It is hard to find a man who is godly. God bless
Thanks for putting it plainly brother Mark. My thought is, too many of us as American Christians over spiritualize getting married from a few fears:
1. Marrying the wrong person and being stuck.
2. Orphan-spirit mindset of not disappointing the Lord for pursing He may have explicitly said yes to via audible confirmation.
3. Similar to point 1, missing out on a "better option".
While yes, Holy Spirit is active and present in our pursuit for relationship and marriage, a part of the way He leads and guides us in all truth and righteousness in this area are by the biblical principles of the word, and also, His nuanced ways of communicating with us as we get to know other brothers and sisters ( peace, discernment, red flags, green flags, simple commonalities, etc).
Be blessed my single brothers and sisters - acknowledge the Lord in your pursuits and act on FAITH! 🙌🏿
@@protoknightsmusicarchives3232 how do you know for sure? How is it evident you have the gift of singleness? Do you have sexual urges that still rise after crucifying the flesh, being delivered from lustful spirits, and guarding your eye gates? If so, Paul taught that it's better to marry than burn with lust.
I must admit that the anointing on this video is strong. Thank you for your wisdom.
Thank you for the clarification. For the past week I've been wholly preoccupied with seeking prayer for and praying about whether or not it's God's will for me to pursue someone.
Now I need to decide when to seek permission from her father to do so...
Your videos always leave me feeling motivated and empowered. Thank you for the constant encouragement and support.
Waiting for you master still.
God bless!
this video was definitely uploaded right on time for me! Thank you mark for uploading
@0:36-@0:50 you lost me there my brother. Til the next video 😅🤣
Number 4 really hit me, God Bless you and your channel😊
This is so helpful most Christian’s don’t talk this way. They tell you not to proceed without confirmation from God.
There is this very faithful woman I’ve met online. The most Proverbs 31st woman I’ve ever met. She’s older than me, and I have assumed she is more faithful than me. But I’m doing my best to love her as Christ does, and I’m letting her go from my mind, and I’m not putting any pressure on her or a relationship. If it happens, it happens. If it does not, it does not. But I want to be by her side, and I have a bit of hope for more of a relationship, but I know that God has His plans, and so I will let her go. And if the relationship proceeds, I will cry of joy. And if it doesn’t, I will still love God, and cry of joy because of what Jesus has done.
God may be waiting on you instead of the other way around. If you’re stuck; take a leap of faith, and He will lead you to the Way; His Son.
I believe I am ready for a relationship and I believe that God is telling me that I am ready for a relationship. I am just waiting for him to send me the right person.
Great video.....Amen🙏
Wow! So good we don’t know but we can hope with the possibility of it not happening!
Mark, I love your videos and have found them to immensely helpful as I see a god honoring relationship.
I am curious though if you could do content on relationships as it relates to friends? Finding friends, being a better friend, dealing with conflict, etc. I think as singles it’s easy to get caught in the romantic side of relationships that we forget how to have healthy friendships as well. Thanks!
I am praying and believing for a girlfriend in my life now for a few years. But I want my relationship with her to glorify the Lord
Umm that’s not biblical. What you need to be pursuing is a wife.
Thank u, I really needed to hear this.
All i know is that ive NEVER wanted to respect a man so much in my life , im carrful woth my words , i dont want to hurt him and i do feel at ease but ..... Idk
The problem with pursuing is that it might backfire completely on someone. Women today make men feel like if they pursue them, they are just being a big creep and claim things like sexual harassment. Also, for someone like me who's always been introverted and is always afraid to ask someone out because they think they aren't good enough and that they'd be a waste of time to the woman, it's not going to be easy since no woman ever really comes up to the man.
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It’s not that I don’t pursue/look for a relationship, it’s that I just wanna make sure that the woman I’m talking to is the right one, or rather I just wish I had at least one sign that she is the right person for me.
God lead me straight to a wonderful, Godly woman after he took my second wife to heaven after her cancer fight. The whole thing was too spooky to have been ANYTHING other than God.
This where I get confused at. Pursuing a person or waiting on GOD It’s confusing
🤗 thank you again, brother
amazing video!
Thank you so much, Mark.
I really want to find a good husband but it seems I have trouble finding the right person. Hopefully god will help me one day.
hi so what if my husband cheated, threatened to leak videos of us, threatened to put me in jail when i puta restraining order and now he’s repenting and is doing everything i am asking for, what do you do as a christian?
Thanks brother this helped
After four months I finally started to feel like I was really letting go and moving on. Then this video pops up lol.
I know you're a busy person but please pray for me on this specific video context
Good points thank you 😊 however, it is extremely important to seek God's face in every situation. 1, not everyone who says they are a christian are christian some people hide under Christianity so it is important to seek God's face (Jeremiah 33:3)
2, not everything that feels right is right. Proverbs 14:12
#1 is so me!
The only sign I am waiting 4 iz the one I will B holding when he flies in 2 meet me....
You aren’t in Missouri are you
Could you please talk about the biblical signs of the gift of singleness ?
I might have it.
If you feel Content even without a partner, if you find Discipline/Purity/abstinence comes natural to you then they are some signs
@@johnblake5114 yes, i feel all i have all these... thank you.
@@johnblake5114 what if you have a strong sex drive ?
@@iminlove1148 that means your flesh has control not your spirit, you should fast to remove fleshy desires and always confess your sexual sins to God, even the small ones and he will cleanse you
Also try to look at others as God's children not objects of pleasure
Stop any porn, as that will cause the desires to increase and maybe try find a partner because that can help if they're on the right path
You refered to Paul's words concerning him being single. Have you researched Paul's past before Him meeting Jesus on the road to Damascus?
You might find, Saul (Paul) as a pharisee was married. However, don't rely on my comment but research it for your self. Keep in mind, the changing of your name does not remove sexual desire especially if one was married and then is not.
I have a question: is it biblical for a woman to verbally let her crush know she has feelings?
Learn to "drop the hanky". Do something that gives him the opportunity to take a chance. Especially when he might think he has no chance. Ruth did not pursue Boaz. But she certainly let him know she was ready for him to pursue her, if he was intrested. Women are not as prepared to be rejected as men are. So accept that you may get a positive or negative response. But if you do nothing, then the answer is always no.
Also, us guys like it when things are out in the open and not guessing or playing games. Guys are not good at playing games or reading a women's mind. Nor can you read his. So if he does not "pick up the hanky", take a more direct approach. "Hey, I want to talk with you about something..."
Then be prepared either way it goes. Also remember, if this is a "crush", we usually get over those. You are seeing this guy as Super Man. But would you still want him it you discovered he is really Clark Kent, just an average man? Is he a Proverbs 1 to 30 kind of man? No one is perfect. But if he is not pursuing Jesus, he is not ready to pursue you. Lastly, evaluate if you like this guy for Godly reasons or worldly reasons?
When I was younger, there were many times a wonderful woman dropped the hanky on me, but I was too immature to know what was going on. I regret that now.
I say crush because we work together. I have felt strong feelings for him for a while now. I keep praying and waiting. Waiting and praying. In my head, nothing is brought up because we work so closely together.
And I don’t see him as Clark Kent. He definitely has some flaws and something’s that annoy me. But I still want to know more and see what could be.
Let me also be more clear. I have had my share of failed relationships due to not being in the will of God. I know now the relationship I would like to have. This man exhibits the fruits of the spirit in every way. He is a moral and decent man. We are both in our 40s and have had discussions of relationships, just not with one another, again, due to how close we work together.
@@jessycalee7289 Idk why...But your situation reminds me of what I'm going through. 😬😬😬 For some advice tho...Due to my situation. Be more vocal with how you're feeling. Especially if you find it hard to talk about your feelings.. When it comes to conflict. (Definitely ask the lord for confirmation).
Ohhh How Beatutiful The Feet My Dear Brother🎉❤❤❤ I love You so much thank You for being Faithful
So what if my bf and I are putting God in relationship and we thought we want to get married but it’s been 2 years and I am the one questioning if we should get married. I don’t know what to do, I don’t want to settle, he’s amazing but I feel like what if there was even better? Maybe the enemy is trying to break us up?
He’s probably not the one God has for you if you’re thinking there’s someone better 🙏
Are you still doing email coaching through AGW University?
Still Hoping to God
can i have personal coaching?
So you’re pretty much saying if you have a strong sexual desire, and if you’re unhappy being single then God most likely want you to pursue if it makes you happy and you want it, so God won’t force you to be single if you don’t want to because I want a family I grew up in a very broken home, the stuff I can tell you about my childhood, and my life would probably shock you is there a way I can like. Talk to you sometimes.
Sounds like you're speaking from your pain, but truthfully that's not what he's saying. He's saying pursue it,not that it's a given ❤
@@rstroh2105 yep some people no matter how hard they try don't find love
There is no one for anybody.
This may be a stupid question, but here goes: Would God force someone into marriage who doesn't want it???
No. You always have free will oh, he did give you that
God does override our will at times because that is clear in scripture but I do believe in terms of marriage it’s def a choice. I completely deny the notion of destiny in terms of “there is someone out there for everyone” or there is a person that God made just for me which isn’t the case for everyone. Those statements sound like a Disney movie fairytale.
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Genesis says that it's not good for a man to be alone. Yet, Proverbs says it's better to live alone in the desert than with a quarrelsome wife. How do those 2 verses reconcile?
@@ECO473 To each their own. It is better to be alone if you WANT to be alone, better to be married if you WANT it. Some are called to marriage, some are called to singleness, no one way is better. And many if not most people desire a partner and God knows that with this gift of marriage, for the persons who want it, it will benefit much better if they were single. When things seem contradictory like that in the Bible, the context really needs to be looked at. And remember the Bible has to be read in a whole, so if scriptures sound contradictory, they are still meant to he understand together and correlate with each other, not oppose each other and you just choose one to believe, just general advice. God bless you my fellow believer ❤.
I don't want to date something that will eventually end up just ending. I'd rather not.
I'm about to turn middle age and I'm still waiting for the one. My mom has made it difficult for me to pursue a relationship. She thinks it will become a inheritance issue if I were to get married someday.
No such thing as “the one.” You just find someone and make it work.
Often inheritance is protected in divorce
I’m still trying to put my life together and part of it is dating and such, but I have this strange recurring theme where we talk about religion and all but it’s always been that I attract pagans, satanists, new age and wiccans, witches and not a single Christian woman yet. So I find myself in a place where Samson was with the philistines. I trust this is a test
You're 50 and your mother is still dictating your relationships? Sounds like there's something you need to be working through with God's help.
What if he verbally says no but his actions say otherwise
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I had a friend who was in this situation. In her case the guy was in need for emotional healing in God because of past situations. She prayer for him for a while, after months God healed him and they get married.
Amen 🙏💚🙏✝️
Quick question can a Catholic date a Christian? Please no judgement everyone says different things some say yes a Catholic can date a Christian and others say no so I'm confused.
It doesn't matter what religion they were born/baptized to as long as they believe that Jesus is the one and only God.
I answer that here: applygodsword.com/should-protestant-christians-and-catholics-date-and-get-married/
Hello. My friend is not Catholic but her husband was. They had to compromise as she essentially said she is not going to do certain "catholic stuff". Now she is a very submissive woman, she didn't demand anything she was just clear about what she wouldn't do if they were to wed. They have been married over 20 years. It worked because the husband was a genuine Christian but not so bothered about not doing certain Catholic practices anymore. Pray on your decision and see if you can compromise like my friend.
@@hg3895 thank you for the advice 🙏🏾
@@michaeladriansuarez3486 thank you
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Well, I know the word of God says you’re not supposed to be unevenly yoked. And you’re not supposed to give all the glory and honor to a Saint or even to the mother of Christ because Christ had to be her savior also. I think it’s safe to be believers and believe the same doctrine together.
Lol... You guys were WRONG!! 😆🤣 All these videos that kept randomly popping up in my recommendations for no reason, claiming to be “signs." Truly I prayed that she'd comeback and I believed the words you all spoke. Well I got the ONLY sign I needed today!! She started seeing someone else already, in less than 3 months..... Devoted Christian or not, a woman is a woman. They are all the same. Now I shall move on with my life and stick to my original premise that I'm perfectly fine being alone.
Hi. I don’t know you, and am not familiar with your specific situation in it’s entirety. But if I could be of some encouragement to you… please do not give up hope of finding the one. There are lots of “the ones” out there. We are all on this earth for a very brief amount of time in relation to eternity. Yes, we dream of finding our forever person, but what about finding the person that we can glorify Christ with. There are plenty of Godly women in the world you desire and can find yourself to be with. Scripture says that it is not good for man to be alone. Do not give up hope completely. Like scripture also says, He who finds a wife finds a good thing. I know things may be very difficult for you right now, but God has someone GOOD for you. It may not be the person that wronged you, it may not be the next acquaintance you have, but if you desire to be married, and surrender to His will, He will provide for you, and in ways that you cannot fathom. Trust in Him. God bless.
@@samuellorillard633 🙏✝️ Respectfully.. I do not wish to be married. I respect your opinion regardless
What did you do for her to leave?