MY FRIENDS READ MY HATE COMMENTS. i end up getting emotional oops! who knew i had feelings? not me

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Komentáře • 2,3K

  • @zanka53
    @zanka53 Před 4 lety +4609

    I wish I had half as much personality while faded also I wish I'd have half as many friends

  • @penelopebunce
    @penelopebunce Před 4 lety +4844

    "pronouns he/him/illiterate" we stan

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +575

      he's like what are books?

    • @sora1498
      @sora1498 Před 4 lety +73

      if this aint a mood tho-

  • @kkurajam
    @kkurajam Před 4 lety +4062

    cindy : has short hair
    blind transphobes : OH MY GOD A MAN

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +1188

      Me: (has a deep voice)
      People: IS THIS... A TRANS???

    • @reniselim8630
      @reniselim8630 Před 4 lety +124

      Ling Zhao they just don't know how comfortable it is to have short hair

    • @bigwijdsljla
      @bigwijdsljla Před 4 lety +87

      @Zelda Henson that's cool in all, but long haired gang members get to smack people with their hair and act like it was an accident :)

    • @jina8960
      @jina8960 Před 4 lety +61

      @@bigwijdsljla As a person who's had short hair and long hair, I can confirm and support.

    • @Network-yp8de
      @Network-yp8de Před 3 lety +12

      behold a man

  • @adrianbooklecter7545
    @adrianbooklecter7545 Před 4 lety +3342

    alternate tittle: Cindy flexing her friends for 23 minutes straight

  • @Foxf17
    @Foxf17 Před 4 lety +3091

    Cindy?
    Emotions?
    This is more character development then the entire acotar series

  • @GorloftheMonth
    @GorloftheMonth Před 4 lety +1605

    “no shade to any Asian except for you” i-

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +384

      thank god they clarified

    • @CrazyRabixxx
      @CrazyRabixxx Před 4 lety +113

      I was so shocked, I forgot I was offended.

    • @azmylle
      @azmylle Před 4 lety +28

      That comment alone illustrate the severity of the idiocy that comes with it. This is not statistic, to mutually exclusive on throwing racism shades.

    • @jumpinjoint
      @jumpinjoint Před rokem +1

      i laughed so hard at that i stopped breathing so it was basically a hate crime

  • @CyberStockholmSyndrome
    @CyberStockholmSyndrome Před 4 lety +1439

    I can’t imagine going to the channel of a woman of color, and telling them that they have no right to talk about their experiences.
    And there’s something extremely frustrating about the experiences of WoC being automatically labeled “political.” It’s not political, it’s just our lives. What are we supposed to do? Ignore it?

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +254

      i wish i could ignore my life!!

    • @CyberStockholmSyndrome
      @CyberStockholmSyndrome Před 4 lety +71

      readwithcindy Honestly? Mood 🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @sydandtaytum
      @sydandtaytum Před 2 lety +12

      was volunteering for a political campaign and straight up had a white man tell me that the black politician i was supporting was racist.

  • @JuliaN-fi9zw
    @JuliaN-fi9zw Před 4 lety +2443

    As a LESBIAN, and someone who has read every single one of SJMs books, Mor’s coming out was forced into the series. She was never even hinted as being gay until SJM needed that diversity. I personally hate it so much when people force diversity into books. I would rather not be acknowledged because at this point it is embarrassing and it isn’t even proper representation. You shouldn’t need to force diversity into your books, it should occur naturally and if you have to force it then you should reevaluate your characters

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +727

      this is 100% how i feel. i would rather have no diversity than something shoe-horned by a creator who doesn't care at all and did it out of obligation

    • @margoatfinch
      @margoatfinch Před 4 lety +128

      Obviously Gay I agree with you. And why suddenly I thought of J.K. Rowling-

    • @penmaster003
      @penmaster003 Před 4 lety +51

      It’s pretty hard to pull off characters like that. Just because of how easy it can go wrong either way. Unless the author is actually LGBT. So I get why none is better than token characters.

    • @suzannesuzannesuzanne
      @suzannesuzannesuzanne Před 4 lety +53

      Omg this bothered me so much?! Her coming out was long winded and she was like the most useless lesbian (bi? Idek) rep ever

    • @coffeecake1025
      @coffeecake1025 Před 4 lety +48

      Im bi and I 100% agree with you. it was absolutely a cop out so that she didn't have to include lgbt characters.

  • @JadeMerien
    @JadeMerien Před 4 lety +2832

    You know what really bugs me? The fact that a lot of your videos clearly have a more humorous tone to them, that they are made for fun and entertainment, and people just take everything so seriously. It's like you absolutely cannot have a sense of humor on the internet. Sure some topics are serious, but it's more people are getting triggered because their fandom isn't loved by everyone. I just have a hard time picturing how some people survive in the real world if they can't even stand someone lightly making fun of a fictional character.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +426

      yea i think a lot of ppl dont realize that i talk about books pretty lightheartedly and joke around with everything. or maybe they do know i joke around but dont like it regardless lol

    • @ayulaksmipuspitasari4847
      @ayulaksmipuspitasari4847 Před 4 lety +84

      Based on my experience, those people usually pretty silent in real life and then they dump all their pent up feelings in the net...

    • @mariosblago94
      @mariosblago94 Před 4 lety +6

      well, dumb people don't understand her sarcasm.

    • @iciajay6891
      @iciajay6891 Před 4 lety +32

      It's them projecting there issues onto others. As well as not understanding that just because someone dose not like what you do, dose not take away from what you like, in Any way. Its from a lack of self awareness and understanding of there own inner self, and why they are reacting to things.

  • @mariapazgonzalezlesme
    @mariapazgonzalezlesme Před 4 lety +2595

    *Hate comments:* exists.
    *Friend Squad:* makes an circle around Cindy and banish all hate comments.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +204

      thank u maria

    • @mariapazgonzalezlesme
      @mariapazgonzalezlesme Před 4 lety +65

      @@withcindy no problem. You are an amazing person, Cindy. (^_^)/☆

    • @user-hr4fc3me2b
      @user-hr4fc3me2b Před 3 lety +4

      It’s the new inner circle and Cindy can be feminist king rhysand ✊😔

  • @kartik3719
    @kartik3719 Před 4 lety +1300

    Why do people just assume that all women who have pink/purple/bright colored hair are some lesbian hipster bookstore owners?

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +328

      i defy gay stereotypes tbh

    • @justarandomperson.4205
      @justarandomperson.4205 Před 4 lety +86

      @@withcindy I so relate to that, i'm sad having cute girls hit on me when i'm so desperately straight
      Blame it on my half silver half ginger 80's mom hair, my collection of piercings, and the fact that I dress like a crossover between The Matrix and a 12 years old skater boy

    • @greeneyesgirl467
      @greeneyesgirl467 Před 4 lety +107

      @@justarandomperson.4205 I'm sad no cute girls hit on me... When I'm so desperately bisexual 😭

    • @wahlex841
      @wahlex841 Před 4 lety +23

      It's cyberpunk hair and nothing can convince me otherwise.

    • @lafleur9594
      @lafleur9594 Před 4 lety +19

      @@withcindy I was showing your video to my lesbian sister (because your dry humor is honestly the best) and she's like,,, 'Is she part of the lgbtq+ community?'
      I think part of her assumption was the fact that you have a channel about _books_

  • @sophiafury3089
    @sophiafury3089 Před 4 lety +625

    Your white friend knows his white privilege and that’s a blessing.

  • @solodecade
    @solodecade Před 4 lety +1157

    Oh no, the queen is crying! Oh waist it’s just weed.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +211

      weed either makes me empty or emotional LOL

  • @emraphael571
    @emraphael571 Před 4 lety +1574

    i love how terfs will act like they’re “protecting cis women”... and then turn around and attack any cis woman who has a slight deviation from patriarchal norms lmfao

    • @pennyw2226
      @pennyw2226 Před 3 lety +99

      They really be like “a trans could be any one of us. Even... YOU” *points to cis woman who has one or more of these things: no makeup on, short hair, a broad/muscular figure, a flat chest*

    • @Alice-gr1kb
      @Alice-gr1kb Před 3 lety +29

      terfs are like “im against gender” but hate anyone who deviates from gender norms

    • @ButterflyScarlet
      @ButterflyScarlet Před 2 lety +7

      @@user-cq5gl1ri7q Idk where you got that garbage claim, please come collect your trash. Maybe clean out the rats taking up cheap real estate in your skull. TERFs The T in LGBT+ stands for TRANS, it does not stand for whatever stupid transphobic, gender conformist, fake evolution bullshit ya'll spout under the guise of "uwu protect women"

    • @imthecoolestguyalive
      @imthecoolestguyalive Před 2 lety +7

      @@user-cq5gl1ri7q Yeah, cis men are the ones making those jokes. They make it about gay cis men, and trans men, and trans women, and non-binary people too.
      Terves are the ones making jokes about letting a trans man get assaulted by "a gang of thugs", and threatening violence on trans women. Even back when me and my friends identified as women, terves were the ones calling us transphobic slurs because of how we looked, and sent us death threats.
      They're not "protecting" anyone. They're the ones people need to be protected from.

  • @shred305
    @shred305 Před 4 lety +999

    I love how comforting the girls are when Cindy is getting emotional and the guys in the back are like. 😐😐

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +363

      LMAOOOO they are uncomfortable with emotion

    • @shred305
      @shred305 Před 4 lety +27

      readwithcindy yes, I know I was smiling throughout the whole vid. 😊❤️

  • @ElianaKreider
    @ElianaKreider Před 4 lety +926

    “It was a paragraph, JUST LIKE THIS” wow it’s like ten degrees cooler in this shade

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +153

      grizz was so put off at how they constantly had to read the overly long comments lol

  • @ginnyjackson9968
    @ginnyjackson9968 Před 4 lety +460

    Cindy trying to get her two brain cells to work together is too damn relatable

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +65

      i can barely function when im sober, let alone under the influence lmao

    • @ginnyjackson9968
      @ginnyjackson9968 Před 4 lety +14

      @@withcindy The biggest mood. Love you and your videos are iconic

  • @luanals5199
    @luanals5199 Před 4 lety +855

    Plot twist: The Tolken white guy teamed up with Sarah J. Maas and they wrote all of these

  • @meghasaravanan9761
    @meghasaravanan9761 Před 4 lety +366

    “I’m going to capitalize off of my tears.” 😂😂😂😂

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +64

      gotta wipe my tears with moneyyyy

  • @michelleantici6651
    @michelleantici6651 Před 4 lety +326

    Seeing Cindy added pronouns: MY PEOPLE
    Seeing Grizzly uses they/them pronouns: *MY PERSON*

  • @rozmia9102
    @rozmia9102 Před 4 lety +1300

    I think my favorite thing about this is that it was the positive comments that made Cindy cry rather than the negative ones. Like not only do trolls not get the response they’re looking for, but the relationship Cindy has with her audience is so lovely and reciprocative and there’s so much heart here 🥺

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +257

      its because i expect hate comments but when i see people write genuinely kind things about me it makes me shook T_T

    • @romyenrose
      @romyenrose Před 4 lety +32

      @@withcindy Ok these made me cry a tiny bit ;w; you sweet person, ily.

  • @nannaleifa
    @nannaleifa Před 4 lety +294

    I love that you're the type who denies having feelings until it smacked you in the face like eight wheeler. Too relatable.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +61

      NOOO EWWW FEELINGS GET AWAY FROM ME

    • @steinistein8611
      @steinistein8611 Před 4 lety +9

      Psh feelings what are you talking about. It's just weed.

  • @AndreyKurenkov
    @AndreyKurenkov Před 4 lety +483

    facts learned about cindy in this video:
    * has at least 5 friends (!!!) who can read
    * poops really fast
    * has feelings (!!!!)
    ... wow what a role model

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +90

      the most surprising part is that i have feelings

  • @dandiestdryer
    @dandiestdryer Před 4 lety +151

    Paul: introduces himself
    Me, who watched the reaction to the half of it: the man, the legend

  • @chicorish_
    @chicorish_ Před 4 lety +462

    After is just 50 Shades of Grey for teenagers, coming from a teenager

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +95

      u aint wrong

    • @noodlepoodle3582
      @noodlepoodle3582 Před 4 lety +35

      Oh my god... You’re the token teenager

    • @rx500android
      @rx500android Před 4 lety +17

      They did my boi Harry Styles so wrong

    • @lyrcheylap1779
      @lyrcheylap1779 Před 4 lety +1

      Bookworm 678 my mom who literally hasn’t read/seen either of these said that the other day so 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @raquellawlitet2992
      @raquellawlitet2992 Před 4 lety +1

      It was from a 20 year old.

  • @decembers06
    @decembers06 Před 4 lety +1533

    Comment: "I wonder how a person can be full of hate?"
    Me: "But can a person full of hate bring the world so much joy?"
    I love you, Cindy. And your posse.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +284

      how can a comment be so full of sweetness T_T

    • @nina_gc
      @nina_gc Před 4 lety +41

      "I wonder how a person can be full of hate?" Says the person leaving a hate comment

    • @pinkconstellations
      @pinkconstellations Před 4 lety

      @@nina_gc it... wasn't a hate comment?

    • @kateg5763
      @kateg5763 Před 3 lety +10

      @@pinkconstellations they were talking about the other comment in the video that is a hate comment I think

    • @bayoumuddah
      @bayoumuddah Před 3 lety +3

      I love cindy's witty retorts she's so intelligent and sweet af

  • @AxleBoost
    @AxleBoost Před 4 lety +374

    Readwithcindy? More like Weedwithcindy.

  • @justvynexa
    @justvynexa Před 4 lety +211

    I know I came out as non-binary a few months back, but I have FINALLY come to terms with my pronoun: ‘illiterate’

  • @whoareuagain
    @whoareuagain Před 4 lety +518

    Oh no! You had an opinion!

  • @franckensteine
    @franckensteine Před 4 lety +392

    Cindy agreeing to everything Paul says is peak cis white privilege humor

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +172

      damn u know what... paul DOES have a point

  • @zulqaifplus6123
    @zulqaifplus6123 Před 4 lety +118

    He said Misandry is good. Im- what else can we do but stan really hard.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +45

      i shared this comment with him and he replied "we ❤ misandry!"

  • @NY-tn2ip
    @NY-tn2ip Před 4 lety +89

    Hearing Cindy explain ACOTAR to her friends is genuinely all i need in life

  • @vaishvi1762
    @vaishvi1762 Před 4 lety +383

    who tf sent cindy hate messages!!! SQUARE UP, you and me got beef now,

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +125

      plot twist it was me in separate accounts

    • @NixLaLoupe
      @NixLaLoupe Před 4 lety +38

      I will also join this fight. I'm useless in a fight but I could say some hurtful stuff maybe

    • @cvntinadennys
      @cvntinadennys Před 4 lety +10

      You don’t even need to fight them just say you hate Harry Potter

    • @vaishvi1762
      @vaishvi1762 Před 4 lety +8

      @@cvntinadennys it wont even be unironic i DO hate harry potter.

    • @vaishvi1762
      @vaishvi1762 Před 4 lety +4

      @high land cow you shall be my second in the duel, pick up your sword!

  • @chanelletime
    @chanelletime Před 4 lety +605

    the resident white guy looking pretty cute 👀

  • @cattd00
    @cattd00 Před 4 lety +125

    This is a hate comment:
    I hate that cindy makes me smile when i’m angry, like, why can’t she just leave me to be angry in peace.

  • @citehman
    @citehman Před 4 lety +86

    As a #typicalwhitedude, new viewer and someone totally outside your target audience, let me just say bravo. You are a person with compelling opinions, passion and humor.
    Sarcasm being the lowest form of wit is a total fabrication. Sarcasm is the ability to recognize the lack of wit in posers, deceivers and manipulators and is vital for survival in this occasionally fucked up world.
    2 parts sarcasm + 2 parts kindness + 3 parts sincerity = being genuine.
    It is the reason bakers add a touch of salt in a cookie recipe.
    For my summation, I will stand upon the shoulders of giants and quote Samuel L. Jackson: " don't let this shit go to your head Cindy".

  • @hikkicornmori359
    @hikkicornmori359 Před 4 lety +490

    “Token White Guy.”
    *It’s the year 2083, every male YA lead is no longer a straight white male. Oh no. Whatever shall the headstrong, disgustingly Incomp- I mean strategically gifted female protagonist (who also has a hidden and dark lineage) do now?*

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +159

      we must go on a new quest to save the Whites from extinction so they can get back their representation

    • @ayulaksmipuspitasari4847
      @ayulaksmipuspitasari4847 Před 4 lety +33

      There's actually a manga that followed a similar premise like this, every male in that world is gay and the female protagonist must find a straight dude for a reason that i forgot about 😅

    • @radioreprise
      @radioreprise Před 4 lety +6

      readwithcindy why would you want to save them tho

    • @Matteus2109
      @Matteus2109 Před 4 lety +1

      @@radioreprise That's not funny, that IS racist.

    • @user-jy9rq8nj7q
      @user-jy9rq8nj7q Před 4 lety +4

      @@Matteus2109 racist towards white people literally doesn't exist

  • @internetghost469
    @internetghost469 Před 4 lety +389

    Damn, most of those comments called you the hater, but they were literally just attacking you and only a few had ACTUAL evidence to the things they were saying

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +55

      it's a hate circlejerk i guess!

    • @internetghost469
      @internetghost469 Před 4 lety +8

      readwithcindy such a shame-filled time we live in 😔

    • @TheBlah35
      @TheBlah35 Před 4 lety +31

      All those transphobic/homophobic/racist comments... just awful. All those people who said that are just objectively awful people

    • @patrochilles6275
      @patrochilles6275 Před 4 lety +9

      @@internetghost469 that's what the anonymity of the internet leads to. Ppl just say whatever the fuck they want for attention as they dont have to face immediate repurcussions.

  • @savvic8100
    @savvic8100 Před 4 lety +133

    i hope you find your transgender cindy 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +65

      i hope i do too, its been 82 years....

  • @0ceanOfStorms
    @0ceanOfStorms Před 4 lety +161

    Cindy: high in a video
    Also Cindy: gets sponsored on that video
    hell yeah queen

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +40

      skillshare will truly sponsor anything LMAO

  • @mariamahmed2021
    @mariamahmed2021 Před 4 lety +721

    Omg reading these hate comments actually made me upset for you because you're such a nice, funny, pure person who makes everyone's day. You're always so smart and careful about what you say and what message you're sending and then when people take your messages the wrong way, I feel so bad because you have such a positive impact on the community. Anyways, keep uploading Cindy! We love you!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +89

      thank you so much! ive accepted that there will always be ppl who dont intend to understand me lol and its okay!

  • @sneakerstrings
    @sneakerstrings Před 4 lety +144

    I give you a lot of credit for laughing at some of these comments because I just sat here in shock. Some of these are HARSH.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +25

      u get used to it tbh lol

    • @maddiegrace9787
      @maddiegrace9787 Před 4 lety +4

      Yeah but they're also nonsensical, unsubstantiated BS, too. Which can be pretty funny 😂

    • @lafleur9594
      @lafleur9594 Před 4 lety +1

      @@withcindy no one needs to be used to it, babe

  • @jazzyfacts
    @jazzyfacts Před 4 lety +196

    "first of all, misandry is good" omg tea

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +61

      brandon has spicy opinions

    • @jazzyfacts
      @jazzyfacts Před 4 lety +25

      @@withcindy tell him i appreciate the flavor

  • @martintorrecampo9927
    @martintorrecampo9927 Před 4 lety +37

    Lmao the skillshare sponsorship at the end i love this cut-throat business woman

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +8

      we gotta capitalize on my tears baybeeee!!

  • @isabella2977
    @isabella2977 Před 4 lety +1841

    I love u and your transgender

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +327

      LOLLL

    • @izstrella
      @izstrella Před 4 lety +7

      AhHaha

    • @hopetikvah4906
      @hopetikvah4906 Před 4 lety +54

      @not God no, they just thought that because she has short hair I guess lol

    • @NightOwlReader2790
      @NightOwlReader2790 Před 3 lety +7

      @@hopetikvah4906 Nope, it's a joke. Isabella doesn't think that at all.

    • @hopetikvah4906
      @hopetikvah4906 Před 3 lety +2

      @@NightOwlReader2790 I know but @not God did

  • @TroyReads
    @TroyReads Před 4 lety +144

    I got a dislike on my bookshelf reorganization video and I cried. 😭😭😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +64

      ppl hate organization!!

    • @TroyReads
      @TroyReads Před 4 lety +11

      readwithcindy haha you got that right! 😂

    • @ambermiller3590
      @ambermiller3590 Před 4 lety +5

      Troy Reads how?? Ur bookshelves are actually perfect 😂😂

    • @TroyReads
      @TroyReads Před 4 lety +1

      Abigail Fouts omg thank you so much!!! Thanks for sharing all of that I really appreciate it! Much love! ❤️

  • @ladymustafa
    @ladymustafa Před 4 lety +38

    This video has made me so angry im crying right now. I have been watching your videos since day one and it boggles the mind the level of negativity ppl bring to everything. You put out nothing but good vibes that I feel it all the way in Trinidad and Tobago. Keep your head and heart strong girl, don't let those toxic shadow ppl dull your shine. I've practically recommended your videos to everyone I know

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +10

      thank you so much!! dont be angry, its not worth investing ur energy in that

  • @aname4700
    @aname4700 Před 4 lety +37

    "first of all, misandry is good" god I love y'all

  • @jamiezoler2472
    @jamiezoler2472 Před 4 lety +495

    Me : how can someone hate Cindy
    Also me : See's all her videos where she makes fun of peoples favorite book series

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +118

      LOL perhaps i dont deserve rights after all

    • @uwuingallnight7381
      @uwuingallnight7381 Před 4 lety +25

      It’s a good thing i’m illiterate so i can just laugh at the snarky humour

    • @pyromania2280
      @pyromania2280 Před 4 lety +5

      I see that pfp👀 midnight poppyland

    • @jamiezoler2472
      @jamiezoler2472 Před 4 lety +5

      @@pyromania2280 I see that Todoroki profile pic 😍

  • @QueerAndAnxious
    @QueerAndAnxious Před 4 lety +281

    "I wonder how a person can be so full of hate"
    Its funny as i assume this was supposed to be a hate comment lmao

  • @valentinapolack5749
    @valentinapolack5749 Před 4 lety +53

    (9:22) its amazing how people defend some Harry Styles fanfiction that hard

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +7

      amazing how passionate people can get

  • @mrsb50
    @mrsb50 Před 4 lety +36

    From one emotionally walled off person to another: you’re a treasure and a delight and your videos bring me great joy even though I don’t fuck with actual books that much these days. Your voice and vibe are very special, as is your ability to stay just on the right side of assholishness. I know it’s really fuckin hard to be vulnerable so props to you for putting yourself out there like this. Haters can get bent; keep being the blessed individual that you are. ✌️❤️

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +6

      thanks so much ❤️ now back to putting up our emotional walls!!!

  • @BooksToAshes
    @BooksToAshes Před 4 lety +172

    PHEW! Thanks for throwing in the white friend. All the years reading YA, I was lost and confused until I noticed him. So kind of you

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +40

      LMAO NOOOO

    • @ethicalcheeze1407
      @ethicalcheeze1407 Před 4 lety +37

      @@withcindy now all you need is the token gay and black friend to complete the collection and unlock the secret decoder ring that'll let you decipher the true, hidden meaning behind all your videos.
      (Spoilers: it's dick jokes. It's *always* dick jokes.)

  • @apoorrva
    @apoorrva Před 4 lety +118

    YOUR FRIENDS SEEM SO NICE😭

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +32

      theyre nice... sometimes

    • @apoorrva
      @apoorrva Před 4 lety +4

      "sometimes" JSHXGJSKWJG

  • @FarisFlowers
    @FarisFlowers Před 4 lety +84

    10:32 "you cannot compare 50 Shades of Grey and After"
    ...ma'am, do you know what the basis of the After series was???? #FakeReader

    • @piyudhall7703
      @piyudhall7703 Před 4 lety +5

      lmao did the person who left the hate comment know it was acc a harry styles fanfiction??

  • @whatsaname9266
    @whatsaname9266 Před 4 lety +23

    Lmfaoooo. “#afterfans” killed me. Wheeew I miss Wattpad. Imma go read a Wattpad book I swear.

  • @mishafox4888
    @mishafox4888 Před 4 lety +234

    15:11 Actually if you were to narrate a audiobook, even if it's like the worst fairy smut novel ever, I'd listen to that shit cause I like your voice XD

  • @shelfishkoala
    @shelfishkoala Před 4 lety +109

    Cindy drop the roast of Serpent and Dove already!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +34

      i still havent filmed it LOL

    • @NixLaLoupe
      @NixLaLoupe Před 4 lety +3

      I loved this video but also SAME

    • @TheFran2555
      @TheFran2555 Před 4 lety +2

      Spoiler: smut with some witches crap

  • @no-oz2hr
    @no-oz2hr Před 4 lety +91

    So is skillshare sponsoring like all of youtube now or what 😂

  • @milkteamachine
    @milkteamachine Před 4 lety +34

    These "racism" comments are why white people get made fun of lol
    Edit: On a serious note, you deserve all the nice things you have and even though you may be snarky on the outside it's obvious you're a really kind-hearted person who works their ass off.

  • @ACupofNicole
    @ACupofNicole Před 4 lety +87

    why tf did I end up *crying* UGH CINDY :( we love u

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +21

      now we both crying in the club

  • @peteryang4951
    @peteryang4951 Před 4 lety +147

    1. This is the e a r l i e s t I’ve ever been and I’m shook 2. I wish this content didn’t have to exist because how can anyone hate wholesome makes you laugh when your having a bad day Cindy? People on the internet with bad anger management issues apparently 3. Even tho I wish hate comments didn’t have to happen to amazing people like you, I still enjoyed the video 😂

  • @manach1643
    @manach1643 Před 4 lety +23

    I don’t comment much but I want to let you know, I discovered you end of 2019. I binged a few videos and I laughed my butt off. You’re so articulate and hilarious. I’ve been in a horrible place physically and mentally for the past 4 years. I used to read books every single day since I was what 4? But then when I got sick I got sick of the world as well and just didn’t want to do anything anymore. Not even read. And then I find your channel and you made me laugh and cry and *want* to read again. And now I am. I’m not pushing myself to read as I used to. My husband told me a book a month and I’m well on my way. So thank you. Thank you very much Cindy, I wish you goodness in this world. ✨

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +2

      thank you so much for the kind comment!! ❤️❤️

  • @pellaw8011
    @pellaw8011 Před 4 lety +16

    Cindy describing ACOTAR is everything I needed and more

  • @margarita2101
    @margarita2101 Před 4 lety +59

    CINDY MY LOVE!!! I am 26 years old and still working a lame part time and working my ass off in community college so that I can teach someday. I sometimes get sad seeing so much younger people succeed and thrive because they were smarter and more driven than I was, but you came off differently. I loved watching you grow. I loved watching you go from your hipster work place to working with a big brands and eventually getting a spot in a major company. You work hard, even on the stuff you don’t have to, like the passion products that are your videos, and it really fucking shows!!! You make me want to work hard too 🥺❤️ I know you’ve probably read a ton of sappy stuff already lol but this video awakened some building gratitude in me. LOVE YOU BITCH KEEP GRINDIN!!!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +5

      thank you so much for the kind words!! i wish you the best of luck too xx

    • @genno3714
      @genno3714 Před 4 lety +5

      Once you get into teaching, feel free to reach out to me, because it is such an overwhelming job and I will have your back. -a teacher

  • @nycpizzarat
    @nycpizzarat Před 4 lety +44

    3:50 Paul just looked into the camera like Jim from the Office and this video is GIVING ME LIFE ALREADY !

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +17

      that has been pauls face the entire time with these comments lmao

  • @booksforsarah2197
    @booksforsarah2197 Před 4 lety +43

    Cindy: “Let’s read comments with irl friends, it’ll be fun”
    Cindy: *cries*
    Seriously though, this is proof that your videos lighten so many people’s days, including mine. There’s a reason you’re now at 118k subscribers right now and it’s because you’re so kind, relatable, and you make people happy. Keep on keeping on 💕

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +6

      THIS WAS SUPPOSED TO BE FUN AHHHH

  • @cleverhaunts
    @cleverhaunts Před 4 lety +28

    The character development of Cindy, the stoner 😂 we love a relatable queen 👑🍁

  • @beepboop9976
    @beepboop9976 Před 4 lety +108

    I’m two minuets in and this is the funniest shit I’ve ever watched I love you all

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +15

      thank u we love u too

    • @beepboop9976
      @beepboop9976 Před 4 lety +3

      readwithcindy ok I was laughing then I got to the end now I’m crying thank u

  • @aliciareads9760
    @aliciareads9760 Před 4 lety +31

    High Cindy? And Emotional Cindy? Thought I'd never live in such a society

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +4

      It's a strange society we live in

  • @norwegian9178
    @norwegian9178 Před 4 lety +14

    I got a simple comment on a review of mine saying nobody cares about your opinion and that was still too tough to accept.
    This whole tide is just.. something else. Bravery is admirable. :)

  • @audria5518
    @audria5518 Před 4 lety +17

    So, I was ready to come down here and go after the monsters that hate you (I mean really Book Mistress, you need to chill) but I'll keep it positive. Everything you post makes me smile. I don't think I've read any of the books I've watched your reviews for but I've loved every minute of you, your friends, and your sense of humor. Stay amazing.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +2

      thank you so much for the kind comment 😭

  • @yanitatronic
    @yanitatronic Před 4 lety +38

    Yes capitalise those tears

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +10

      THANK U SKILLSHARE T_T $$$

  • @NixLaLoupe
    @NixLaLoupe Před 4 lety +56

    This was fantastic. I'm sorry you get enough hate to make a whole video about it. Some people must be so wrapped up in their own thoughts that they aren't actively listening to your videos. That's not on you.
    I come here for the snark, wit, and the honesty, all of which you show with abundance. You are doing a great job.
    Also, thank you for including the positive comments at the end. It was so nice after all the ugly ones. You really are inspiring.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +12

      thank you so much!! this is another positive comment that i will make sure to save

    • @NixLaLoupe
      @NixLaLoupe Před 4 lety +3

      @@withcindy Any time!

  • @shespoyzon
    @shespoyzon Před 4 lety +13

    “I have decided to capitalize my tears” I snorted

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +1

      gotta wipe my tears with money!

  • @sighmanmade
    @sighmanmade Před 4 lety +15

    paul ENTIRELY missed the opportunity to be like "hi! i'm paul!" like from nickelodeon

  • @julietasimone7198
    @julietasimone7198 Před 4 lety +27

    You have the biggest heart Cindy, thank you so much for always being so vulnerable and REAL, you're such a breath of fresh air.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +1

      thanks so much for the kind words julieta!

  • @standreamcatcher2371
    @standreamcatcher2371 Před 4 lety +60

    Why does high Cindy feels the exact same as normal Cindy?

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +24

      normal cindy is more articulate and less emotional!!! i hope lol

  • @lollinehuntarz
    @lollinehuntarz Před 4 lety +14

    i was also high while watching this video too and when the positive comments started coming I started to get the feels trip and crying, because you are truly an amazing person and you deserve all the love. you go, girl!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +4

      HAHAHA we can both go on a feels trip

  • @daisypenman9242
    @daisypenman9242 Před 4 lety +17

    Grizzly gives me Rosa Diaz vibes and I love it

  • @hannahwright7183
    @hannahwright7183 Před 4 lety +92

    You gonna hate me for asking this but can you watch "To all the boys I loved before. Ps I still love you" And react to it with some of your friends because I was heated watching it. I think you will enjoy it.

    • @isabella2977
      @isabella2977 Před 4 lety +4

      @cindy 🤢 no pls. Don't torture yourself any farther.

    • @hannahwright7183
      @hannahwright7183 Před 4 lety +4

      @@isabella2977 Your right because I tortured me as well but its pretty good tbh.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +37

      i plan on watching it this weekend!

    • @hannahwright7183
      @hannahwright7183 Před 4 lety +5

      @@withcindy Please record you watching it!!!!!

    • @justarandomperson.4205
      @justarandomperson.4205 Před 4 lety

      The book is sooo much better tho

  • @Foxf17
    @Foxf17 Před 4 lety +45

    Lol Cindy posts everything is dropped

  • @vanessaann7472
    @vanessaann7472 Před 4 lety +16

    I love how supportive your friends are omg

  • @sxwriter8569
    @sxwriter8569 Před 3 lety +11

    Cindy, girl you need a hug. Glad you have your friends, and honestly I still need to deal with loans, but like I'm trying to work hard. Sure it's extremely hard and I probably won't make it, but I legitimately enjoy your videos, and it sucks you had to go through all of that. Also you friends are so cool, wish I had a group Kirk that.

  • @mishafox4888
    @mishafox4888 Před 4 lety +57

    I send virtual hugs over to you

  • @MechanizedAngelz
    @MechanizedAngelz Před 4 lety +21

    The lesbian/transgender and, the race comments are absolutely hilarious honestly.
    I love you and, your videos make me super happy!

  • @liilly1414
    @liilly1414 Před 4 lety +17

    In my friend group, I’m the token white girl. I feel like Paul and I would get along, we are there for so many antics, so we could compare stories.

  • @malihahossain6283
    @malihahossain6283 Před 4 lety +12

    This friend group on a night out
    Cindy- the first one to get drunk
    Victoria- 2 drinks in and she’s out like a light
    Jessie- the first one to go home
    Brandon- sitting in the anti social corner downing his drink until he reaches his high
    Paul- that one friend that gets way too hyped and isn’t even on his second drink
    Grizzly- that one friend that starts talking to a bunch of drunk strangers

  • @Lovelyclarii
    @Lovelyclarii Před 4 lety +27

    Emotions? Cindy?
    Wow🤩 who knew😂

  • @2ryeaye
    @2ryeaye Před 4 lety +30

    soft-hearted cindy 😭 pick your head up queen, your crown is falling

  • @LMJeffJones
    @LMJeffJones Před 4 lety +8

    Im sitting here in bed crying along with you. People getting emotional over things that are important to them or they feel strongly about always makes me emotional too.
    I love you Cindy! I’m so happy you have such great friends.

  • @lumauve7807
    @lumauve7807 Před 4 lety +11

    Alright, I squealed at Demon Slayer.
    Edit: Also, Cindy's vids are so enjoyable even though I am not even aware some of the books she talks about exist (especially the Exes and Ohs one)

  • @mashzapotato
    @mashzapotato Před 4 lety +16

    Hey Cindy I don't really have the same taste as you in books but I like your attitude and quick wit so much I watch anyway! You're great!

  • @aname4700
    @aname4700 Před 4 lety +19

    How can someone look at Cindy and not realise she is a woman like wtf

  • @SuperPao
    @SuperPao Před 4 lety +2

    So nice that the good comments caused the emotions instead of the bad ones. Maybe karma isn't real, but paying it forward is, and you put a lot of positive energy out in the world (yes even when you're critical and cynical, because that shit's funny). Keep being awesome!

  • @tapiocababy1701
    @tapiocababy1701 Před 4 lety +2

    I'm late but thank you for reminding me that like you said in the video, If Cindy can be successful than I can be be too. Edit: Also rewatching this video made me cry too. Near the end i was just reminded of a friend and Since I've moved I've havent seen them but honestly was a trash friend sometimes but theyre honestly a pure cinnamon roll and I'm so thankful to have them in my life. And if they never wanna be my friend again I wouldn't hold against them if they never wanted to be my friend. I'd just want them to be happy.

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +1

      thank you so much! that is very kind of you to say. i hope that your friend wants to reconnect with you someday ❤️

  • @kaushikiroy6057
    @kaushikiroy6057 Před 3 lety +5

    Cindy a beautiful lady with a pixie cut: *exists*
    transphobes with two brain cells: THIS IS A MAN!

  • @aditibiswas3121
    @aditibiswas3121 Před 3 lety +5

    You know what makes me happier than this video? The fact that cindy will get to read so many more funny, wholesome, and generally positive comments prompted by it. Also, I would like to apologise for assuming her sexual orientation in the past. I blame it on the pandemic (I quite recently discovered her), not meeting the other gays for over a year has broken my gaydar.

  • @nevilleandbooks
    @nevilleandbooks Před 4 lety +5

    You crying made me cry!! Also, I can't imagine how you handle both the positive negative comments all the time, my depressed ass would be affected by all of it!

    • @withcindy
      @withcindy  Před 4 lety +4

      it's a rollercoaster of emotions bayyybeeeee

  • @MsAdlerHolmes
    @MsAdlerHolmes Před 4 lety +8

    Men can't handle it when a woman has a deeper voice than them. I must say, being able to do a convincing Frank Sinatra impression is a great way to weed out the weak ones.