Rejection & Reconciliation

Sdílet
Vložit
  • čas přidán 11. 02. 2023
  • Our Second Cousin grapples with the relationship between rejection and reconciliation, all the while trying to secure a free pizza and sell a broken mug.

Komentáře • 204

  • @tishi4058
    @tishi4058 Před rokem +268

    This feels like art and a social experiment at the same time.

  • @t.a.6518
    @t.a.6518 Před rokem +98

    "Rejection could be the pathway to peace." This is the first time I heard someone verbally express the internal sensation I feel. All we want in life is to be desired, to be wanted, to be loved. Maybe it's because, from a primitive perspective, it ensures our survival? Whatever for, all of us have a strong reaction to rejection. Fear. Doubt. Anger. Resentment. Self-hatred. Self-pity. Sadness. Misery. Numbness. The list goes on. My entire life, I was terrified of being rejected. Only after I experienced it, I lost my fear and gained my serenity and a calmness that I had never felt before. It made me understand that I belong to myself, my emotions, my thoughts, I have an entire universe inside of me that only belongs to me! And no one can take this away from me. We yearn to belong and usually, we identify with what we belong to. A culture. An ethnicity. A country. A political orientation. A sexual orientation. Friends. Family. We fear being nothing, we fear being no one if we don't get acknowledged by some external source, but we fail to understand that no one can erase us by denying us love. Great video, I'm looking forward to listen to more of your thoughts and to be intrigued by them!

    • @an.august.sunflower2110
      @an.august.sunflower2110 Před rokem

      I have terrible rejection sensitivity, and I too found a sort of feeling of freeness whenever the bad I would dread would come to pass because it doesn't hold weight on me anymore. Jamie rlly did it with this one! Seems like a wonderful person. :D

    • @pacifyherlove
      @pacifyherlove Před rokem +2

      it seems like once we pass being rejected.. we kinda own it..?

  • @macaylahhernandez6405
    @macaylahhernandez6405 Před rokem +119

    I won’t pretend that I know a whole lot about film. But the way you film, edit, and the general aesthetic is SO refreshing. Unlike anything we’ve become so accustomed to seeing in media. Not to even mention the depth and perspective these messages have. Truly amazing, cannot wait to see what else you create.

  • @Zeynep-ld5jb
    @Zeynep-ld5jb Před rokem +117

    my favorite parts:
    • at the beginning of the video i thought “his mustache looks quiet nice” right after it you took out the shaver
    • “free mug”
    • white sauce pizza was a first for me i’m interested in trying it
    • “i am me. i’m not a quantifiable worth so much so that i don’t even need to feel worthy. to be and then additionally to be here is surely more than enough.”
    • nose picking with glue on your hands was very personal

  • @faelink
    @faelink Před rokem +72

    these videos are the type of things i wanna watch on a night to wind down. jamies voice is so nice to listen to and the overall vibe is so calm and relaxing

    • @dda3ng312
      @dda3ng312 Před rokem +4

      Right? I love his voice sm

    • @faelink
      @faelink Před rokem +4

      @@dda3ng312 and the way he speaks is so calming!!!

    • @dda3ng312
      @dda3ng312 Před rokem +4

      @faelinkart it really is!!! He's got a really comforting way of talking if ykwim

    • @faelink
      @faelink Před rokem +1

      @@dda3ng312 absolutely!!

  • @vjoon_74
    @vjoon_74 Před rokem +2

    “the stars don’t feel rejected by the earth, when their view is blocked by the cloud”

  • @anne-he5sg
    @anne-he5sg Před rokem +16

    I love how it portrays such common things and turns it into a reflection.

  • @bambitears999
    @bambitears999 Před rokem +5

    after watching this i had a nightmare that i was choking on a mug and being chased by a tube. fml.

  • @Neya05080
    @Neya05080 Před rokem +63

    True message and a pretty good reminder of what’s really important in life and what’s apparently completely unnecessary. Thx!

  • @theintrospektor5627
    @theintrospektor5627 Před rokem +6

    0:45 aww that smile😂♥

  • @janfin20
    @janfin20 Před rokem +51

    who doesn’t want free pizza 😔 hopefully your quest is successful lol looking forward to this video ! your weekly uploads are so very exciting … the anticipation !

  • @soforchid
    @soforchid Před rokem +8

    WAKE UP BABE NEW JAMIE FLATTERS UPLOAD IN TWO DAYS

  • @ShamitaLakshmeshwar
    @ShamitaLakshmeshwar Před rokem +23

    i put the quote "rejection is the obliteraton of hope but at the same time, rejection could be the pathway to peace" in my copy of persuasion by jane austen. you will live eternally in the works you create and the impact you have on people. i love your idea of rejection and reconciliation. the timing of this video is impeccable, just when i finished reading persuasion. somewhat similar ideas in the book. keep creating ❤

  • @noeliagutschi8229
    @noeliagutschi8229 Před rokem +37

    I absolutely love this and the calm energy it has

  • @halimahmohammed5849
    @halimahmohammed5849 Před rokem +5

    I don't know what just happened - I don't know what I just watched, but I'm in love with this. The cinematography. Your voice. The story.

  • @imnotokay1742
    @imnotokay1742 Před rokem +6

    There’s no other word to describe this other than, art.

  • @nike_chanclas2999
    @nike_chanclas2999 Před rokem +3

    I thought I was on shrooms, but it's just Jamie's editing lol.

  • @itslilyquinn
    @itslilyquinn Před rokem +11

    As an actor myself, I find rejection as a stepping off point. And dealing with rejection is a struggle that most human beings wish they could overcome. I just did an audition that I'm not sure I'll get a role out of. But making opportunities out of a rejection is how you grow as a person.
    I love the different ways you made the concept of rejection and twist into something else. The fake blood threw me off a little

  • @mimeePS
    @mimeePS Před rokem +42

    I love this video so much and it’s such a creative and effective way of representing and putting forward an important message ❤

  • @marateresaechanizcontreras7794

    I'm glad you upload videos often!!

  • @Luna_ney
    @Luna_ney Před rokem +20

    You are very unique, everything you do is an authentic way 💙✨️

  • @LithraLuv
    @LithraLuv Před rokem +11

    I love these videos. What Jamie is doing here isn’t new, but it’s done in such a way, in such a chaotic atmosphere with everything that’s considered as mainstream today that it’s so refreshing. It’s also nice to use my brain once in a while which this videos definitely make me do. It feels like he actually has respect for the platform that he’s using👏👏

  • @danau7523
    @danau7523 Před rokem +8

    THIS IS SUCH A MASTERPIECE IM CRYING

  • @Kaitlyngurl10
    @Kaitlyngurl10 Před 6 měsíci

    The mug is finally fixed! YAY!!!☕️👏😀

  • @jaeminssocks
    @jaeminssocks Před rokem +3

    The beauty of one’s artistic aptitude will forever captivate me.

  • @emma.makvandi
    @emma.makvandi Před rokem +16

    I absolutely love that you’re putting all this content out

  • @loladep
    @loladep Před rokem +12

    the end of your videos always gets me, love so much those little (but extremely powerful) messages, thank you for this !!

  • @soullmateam
    @soullmateam Před rokem +1

    Since I'm a foreigner, I didn't understand anything. But it was really funny to watch him 🤣

  • @melinabrown2369
    @melinabrown2369 Před rokem +9

    The message you wanna share to people is really powerful

  • @Luna_ney
    @Luna_ney Před rokem +3

    I don't know why listening to your voice relaxes me 🥹

  • @justsaythewordzoinks3896

    Jamie Flatters as new superman would be dope. Bro, you look like the younger version of Henry Cavill😅🤙

  • @IdkIdk-yk3fg
    @IdkIdk-yk3fg Před rokem +2

    Literally Henry Cavill

  • @babygotback476
    @babygotback476 Před rokem +1

    LMAOO The Pizza Hut part

  • @ruthrm97
    @ruthrm97 Před rokem +12

    never stop making these vids, they always make my day

  • @moondcnce
    @moondcnce Před rokem +11

    loved the final message so much, can’t wait to see more videos!! (okay, who took the mug??)

  • @eliigastelum
    @eliigastelum Před rokem +1

    not the Spiderman mug 😭

  • @dominiqueboyer3307
    @dominiqueboyer3307 Před rokem

    you’re so good at visually/verbally making a point

  • @tweetie6477
    @tweetie6477 Před rokem

    I ABSOLUTELY LOVE THIS

  • @eyelauvu
    @eyelauvu Před rokem

    your creative vision is so incredibly inspiring

  • @TheMacek27
    @TheMacek27 Před rokem

    Creative mind on another level . Brilliant !

  • @aimeegilbert4095
    @aimeegilbert4095 Před rokem +3

    I adored this video. It’s so beautifully directed and filmed. I loved the story aspect as well as the surreal sorta feel to the everyday shots (that’s probably a slightly dramatic description) but as someone on the spectrum I really resonated with the feeling of rejection and despite it not being 100% what the message of the video was I really felt some of the quotes deeply. I love these sort of videos, I love how artistic it is. 15/10. I hope you had fun and enjoyed making it!

  • @krisnaadicahya9913
    @krisnaadicahya9913 Před rokem

    thank you so much, Jamie for this precious video! getting much happier to see your video's update and can't wait for the next premier video!

  • @olivia-ri6qi
    @olivia-ri6qi Před rokem +1

    today's my birthday and honestly, watching this was the best thing ive done all day. it was refreshing, honest, helpful, and just so so true.

  • @shakyra5442
    @shakyra5442 Před rokem +1

    You’re truly ordinary in what you do. I admire people like you. Love to see more.

  • @caos.6434
    @caos.6434 Před rokem

    amazing video jamie! btw I love that you uploaded this right on my birthday

  • @theMadKingBrother
    @theMadKingBrother Před 9 měsíci

    I really admire your content. It’s quirky, elegant and philosophical and I’m a fan. Thank you bro!

  • @mermorgue
    @mermorgue Před měsícem +1

    watching this during a mixed episode feels so whimsy

  • @especubillos
    @especubillos Před rokem

    This is the most creative most original video that i've seen on youtube for a while i love it

  • @Ashley-jaded
    @Ashley-jaded Před rokem

    Thank you for opening our minds on new ways of thinking 💭 xo

  • @penelopevee1684
    @penelopevee1684 Před rokem +1

    You’re very knowledgeable & reflective I kinda wish I had friends like you

  • @janfin20
    @janfin20 Před rokem +4

    your content is always so artful and profound - thank you so much for your advice. it’s like genuinely so thought out and beautiful. i also gasped when you broke the spider-man mug and THEN DRANK FROM IT AFTER USING SUPER GLUE TO FIX IT 😵‍💫

  • @asuari7305
    @asuari7305 Před rokem

    awww I really liked the upbeat message at the end and so TRUEE

  • @melinabrown2369
    @melinabrown2369 Před rokem +2

    Your video always make me smile never stop it jamie

  • @alicelevet
    @alicelevet Před rokem +1

    Didn’t want to look away,re-listened many parts to think about deep meaning underneath - seems like it says a lot about this film :)
    Thank you, made my night full with reconciliation and revaluation

  • @denise9542
    @denise9542 Před rokem

    Good morning from the Netherlands Jamie love it how active you are here lately.
    You make me really think about life

  • @alexiagonzalez2144
    @alexiagonzalez2144 Před rokem +4

    JAMIE YOU ARE SO TALENT, I LOVE YOU ❤️

  • @Blu3st4r371
    @Blu3st4r371 Před rokem +1

    Unique and artistic is one way to describe you , you have an eye for art and film it’s amazing

  • @inhang4234
    @inhang4234 Před rokem +1

    This seems an excellent director in the near future❤ bravo Jamie ! Wish u all the best

  • @melinabrown2369
    @melinabrown2369 Před rokem

    Ur videos makes me happy jamie

  • @andreaarnedo7802
    @andreaarnedo7802 Před rokem +1

    It feels like a poem…a beautiful poem Jaime

  • @raphaelamanzollirosaprocop3210

    One of the most beautiful films of yours I've seen my beautiful lovey dovey. You have no idea how much I needed these words and you've guessed just the perfect day for me to hear them. Thank you for this, Jamie. Love you endlessly, my beautiful mighty warrior.

  • @Luna_ney
    @Luna_ney Před rokem +2

    Here supporting you from Mexico🇲🇽, you are the best. 💙💙💙

  • @AndreaCarriere23
    @AndreaCarriere23 Před rokem

    It should be illegal to be that handsome. Keep up the good work & thank you for the regular uploads Jamie !

  • @sabrinamellerin3442
    @sabrinamellerin3442 Před rokem +3

    This video speaks to me a lot

  • @Olexandra16
    @Olexandra16 Před rokem +3

    So much deep meaning in 9 minutes. Thank u for being and for being here 🖤

  • @mashaakakashaa
    @mashaakakashaa Před rokem

    thank you for the video, I admire the way you express your thoughts🥸👍

  • @delellong2010
    @delellong2010 Před rokem +6

    J’s videos get better by the week !!! And his videos are well thought out/ planned (if that makes sense lol )

  • @lealkino
    @lealkino Před rokem +1

    I like the atmosphere these videos have

  • @applehead1259
    @applehead1259 Před rokem

    The first part is so relaxing.
    Forget it, the whole video is relaxing.

  • @merciabrito2040
    @merciabrito2040 Před rokem

    I love your videos!

  • @linaosmani5510
    @linaosmani5510 Před rokem

    mindblowing thank you

  • @esralopes5152
    @esralopes5152 Před rokem

    No idea if u will see this, but this video has helped me a lot and is exactly what I needed. So ehhm thanks.

  • @brid4
    @brid4 Před rokem

    words can’t explain how this film made me feel, but i am feeling a lot of emotion right now that i don’t know how to reconcile with

  • @wracker7409
    @wracker7409 Před rokem

    I love your videos, you are TALENTED and BEAUTIFUL ❤️

  • @amirah3791
    @amirah3791 Před rokem

    fav channel ever

  • @danyhx
    @danyhx Před rokem +1

    SO AMAZING, I REALLY LIKE THIS🙌🏻

  • @luciacoleman4946
    @luciacoleman4946 Před rokem

    This acc is the only thing thats comforted the fact I think ALL THE TIME

  • @Isabellas2169
    @Isabellas2169 Před rokem

    Surely I won’t pick my nose while using super glue anymore

  • @stepanini8848
    @stepanini8848 Před rokem +1

    Idk if this was supposed to be funny, but I couldn't stop laughing

  • @JKTRACK
    @JKTRACK Před rokem

    i love ur content i cant express it enough

  • @Aaa-sq1ol
    @Aaa-sq1ol Před rokem +1

    This is so good omg..

  • @miluskamandujanobazan945

    Omg, I suscribed when were 4k suscribs, now there is more than 100k! proud

  • @mimeePS
    @mimeePS Před rokem

    So much talent I loveeeee

  • @melinabrown2369
    @melinabrown2369 Před rokem

    Everything in your video are really interesting

  • @kaykwak9955
    @kaykwak9955 Před rokem

    Jaime flatters that mug was a art

  • @MisisEva
    @MisisEva Před rokem

    That song near the end was banging so hard I had to shazam it and it's literally called "Bang". Perfectly balanced, as all things should be.

  • @nwabisakokoma6926
    @nwabisakokoma6926 Před 8 měsíci

    hi jamie i like the way u make me happy and look at all dem chikens haha

  • @bellahardy6330
    @bellahardy6330 Před rokem

    I know this probably isn’t your style… BUT I feel like you could make the coolest asmr video with your calming voice and your camera angles constantly switching 😌

  • @nat_333
    @nat_333 Před rokem

    I love this video smmmm

  • @Tata-qg7hm
    @Tata-qg7hm Před rokem

    your worldview is spectacular

  • @whoogaby
    @whoogaby Před rokem

    Wow gosh, this video is good man

  • @eliigastelum
    @eliigastelum Před rokem +1

    looking forward to it!

  • @julijanacvitkovic8581
    @julijanacvitkovic8581 Před rokem +1

    the point is: give his a free pizza and he will be happy

  • @zuzanafellerova7255
    @zuzanafellerova7255 Před rokem

    This is so pleasant to look at

  • @ericastyles7831
    @ericastyles7831 Před rokem

    I don’t even know how this video managed to make me so happy 🤝🤝

  • @MarvelSonicFan04
    @MarvelSonicFan04 Před rokem +1

    "Outstanding"

  • @brendamacias7025
    @brendamacias7025 Před rokem

    I loved this

  • @esperanzacruz8002
    @esperanzacruz8002 Před rokem

    You are so talented

  • @_lilysmith
    @_lilysmith Před rokem +1

    c'est une incroyable métaphore j'adore

  • @user-go6kj3cl3z
    @user-go6kj3cl3z Před rokem

    He knows what he’s doing now i can’t wait!!