Not trying to be negative at all but not going to lie, I always cringe when I hear people say this because I believe beauty is subjective. Just because your beautiful to some people and some other people don’t find you beautiful doesn’t make you one thing. I think everyone is beautiful to someone so every person should feel good about themselves. No one is ugly.
@@CajunBoyJake but In that case if everyone should feel good about themselves I think it’s valid for her to speak positively about herself as should everyone you know :)
@@tashapatino1663 I just find the part when she says “We’re are not going to act like that’s not true” cringy. As if that’s a hard fact. Personally, I don’t think she “looks good”, so to me, it’s not true but I don’t (nor does any other human) decide who “looks good”. I can only tell you who looks good, from my perspective. Like I can’t tell you that you have to find me attractive, because I am, ya know?
@@CajunBoyJake there are some basic, universal standards of beauty and she hits them. you're talking about your personal preferences of attractiveness but you can still tell when someone, objectively, looks good even if they aren't personally attractive to you. she's objectively beautiful. there is no point in her pretending otherwise. It's cringy to be like "omg im so ugly omg im not that pretty" when you are.
@@CajunBoyJake It's okay if It's cringy for you, but that's not a fact, that's just how you feel because you wouldnt be as much confidente as her. 🤷🏻♀️ And, what about that? Like, honestly, why are you trying to drag down someone else selfconcept dude.
1. Have a vibrant energy - 3:07 - Don't engage in drama and gossips - Don't spread rumours - Just focus on yourself 2. Become comfortable with your emotions and understand what's trying to tell you - 5:13 - Don't watch negative news, videos - Do yoga - Do things you love 3. Don't attach your self to places, people, things,... - 6:31 - Don't define yourself by a relationship, friendship or job - You'll get over quickly if it fades away - When there's no expectation, ther's no disappointment 4. Become okay with people leaving your life - 8:30 - People comes to yourself to serve purpose in your life. When they finish their role, they leave and that's ok. 5. If you become whole, what you want will chase you - 9:28 - Create the avenenue and watch it come to you 6. Start making decisions that benefit you - 10:39
Currently finishing the video, but one big lesson from this is, “If you need to talk to someone talk to a tree!”😂 I love that! Be very cautious who you share with!
It’s so weird how I totally over share and get hated on and look a lot like her like we could totally be sisters and so if I really expressed my confidence I would be hated even worse than I am now, so I don’t get it how she doesn’t have 1 million haters I’m hanging clearly around all the wrong people lol!
@@hold.on9 I was oblivious to the whole hater thing for a good majority of my life. I just don’t think that way like I want everybody to be happy and do well in life and there was never anybody who I was jealous of or felt “less than“ so I never took into consideration that anybody would feel that way about me. I just don’t understand what causes that. It’s sad because it ruins friendships but I guess you’re right now that I understand.
i get the whole pretty privelege thing here but she is 100% right about the whole energy thing. There are good looking people who are simply boring and not magnetic asff and then there are not so conventionally attractive people who are magnetic and fun to be around simply because they understand their worth as a person and love themselves. Ofcourse, beauty plays a very important role but it boils down to nothing with the lack of self-respect and self-worth.
Oh pretty privileged, but a face caked in make-up! We all look good with make-up on. Just look at some of the tutorials on here! Yes some so-called unattractive people are magnetic, others no so.
liz is practically “the secret” in a form of human.. she understand everything, its just make sense how she attracts everthing in her life with this mindset, mentality and practices ❤
The energy you radiate is everything! There are many days that I feel down, low, old and unattractive and no one even glances at me and people are less kind, to point of being rude. On the days I feel really confident and happy there is a vibe around me that make people stare, smile at me and sometimes even seem in awe of me. I wish I could figure out how to have more influence over this energy!
The fact that she doesn't care about the hate comments and doesn't filter them out or delete them is simply badass. Those commenters are fighting with a wall
strangers don't immediately take to you because you don't overshare, you have good priorities, and you make good decisions; strangers take to you primarily because you're attractive. your advice is good but let's be real here lol
@@peacefulcreativity444 it’s not weird. You can be as attractive as you want… if your personality, your attitude doesn’t follow… people don’t get obsessed with you. There are billions of pretty girls. And they can’t keep up with people around them
exactlyyy I usually like her vids but this one I dont agree w. she's top 0.1% attractive so obv ppl will be attracted to her it has nothin to do w energy lmaoo
@@DanieB322 billions? bullshit. there are many normal-pretty girls but actual pretty or head turningly pretty girls are quite rare and will attract attention no matter how their personality or energy is like
People wanna trash on this just cus she's pretty but you can be 'unattractive' and still get respect and people obsessed with you, it's your demeanor and ambitions in life plus a great personality, one that's always reflecting and mature. I think it's a great combination, and looks just give it enhancement
Yes, imagine being unattractive and additionally being just a nasty person like these haters. Ouch, that life must hard a lot. Being ugly plus being an ugly person from the inside. Yikes!
I’m not ashamed to say that I became obsessed with you and your content when I came across your channel! But it’s the good obsession, only good vibes here and sending so much positivity and love 💕
1:38 - Introduction (Why the name "thewizardliz"?) 3:08 - Have a vibrant energy 5:06 - Become comfortable with your emotions and realise what it's trying to tell you 6:26 - Don't attach yourself to people, places, things or situations 8:27 - Become okay with people leaving your life 9:24 - If you become whole what you want will chase you 10:39 - Start making decisions that will benefit you 12:53 - Remove toxic people and be firm about it 13:21 - Prioritize what you want to do 14:34 - Value your time 16:24 - Stop over sharing and become more exclusive 19:10 - Have a life and don't be always be available 19:40 - Start taking calculated risks 21:19 - Go after the things you want and be unapologetic about it 21:41 - Be your authentic self. Say what you mean and mean what you say 23:24 - Don't look at problems. Look at solutions 25:01 - Good intentions will always win
It was a real eye opener when I experienced this firsthand. My coworker was gorgeous. From the tone of her voice, her bright white smile, her stunning eyes. Every time she clocked in, everyone seemed happier. Even ME, my own chest felt warmer. She was literally a vessel of sunshine. I wondered why. A person's energy is like the A to the 1. Both are first, neither second. 1 is attractiveness. If you are strikingly attractive combined with a grounded, genuine personality, when you walk into a room people will feel your aura.
I’m a woman and I feel this way about one of my female coworkers. She’s so beautiful in every way possible it actually pains me to see her sometimes and the fact that she’s such a sweet and genuine person, I’m always in awe of her. Not one person has looked her direction and thought anything bad out her. The only time I’ve heard anything remotely negative was from the men who’ve tried asking her on dates but were rejected. Of course they would obsess over her again shortly after. Ugh to be that beautiful. I can’t even imagine!
I am so happy you exist. Your presence is so healing. When i feel unstable, lost, and depressed, I watch ur vids and i feel understood, seen, and grounded. I can be calm! Thank u for being amazing. I wish the best for u and anyone else reading this. ❤
she is far from self aware, seems like she actually suffers from delusions because if you've ever dealt with psychology, you would notice she's literally just making this all up to boost her ego
Please remember - even if no-one is obsessed with you, you are still valuable 🌞 Oh and it’s ok if you make mistakes, and if some people don’t like you.
JESUS CHRIST is LORD and He loved us while we were still sinners to die for our sins and be raised from the grave for our justification as the sinless, perfect Lamb of GOD, Who takes away the sin of the world, fulfilling the righteousness that the law requires, which we, sinners by nature, could never fulfill. for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD. however in this present age, we may now be saved by the grace of GOD through faith in Him alone, followed by the act of repentance or the turning away from all of our sins. we must be born again. JESUS CHRIST is the Way and the Truth and the Life.
23:51 this part really stood up to me, i'm currently 18 and ever since i can remember i have this feeling, that i'm here for something big, not to be a celebrity or anything like that, but idk, to be a really good and successful person. i have depression so it's harder to think this way right now, but watching her videos are motivating me to make things work out for me.
So many gems in this video, the way you speak, behave, and think is truly indicative of the level of class and elegance you possess, I’m so grateful to have found your channel
you can't tell me it's all because of her looks when gorgeous people like khloe kardashian, behati prinsloo and victoria beckham get cheated on and still take their partners back. of course she is pretty but so are a million other people. her whole point is beauty without the right energy is meaningless. beauty gets you initial attention but it gets boring pretty quickly and people won't hold on to you if there's nothing more to you past your appearance; you'll be treated like a picture on the wall-pretty to look at, but nothing more. love you liz
I feel like attachment styles also play a big role in this. The way she talks about her friendships and romantic life she seems to have an avoidant attachment style, where the person is very independent and has a hard time trusting people, or fully open up. This attachment usually attracts people with an anxious attachment style, who tend to be more clingy, ‘obsessed’, having a fear of rejection… it is really a push and pull
This is very true because I myself have an avoidant attachment style. I am pretty but not jaw dropping and I get a lot of anxious attachment ppl gravitating towards my life. But of course I don’t like this so stay in the house haha
I used to be equally attractive at your age. I am now twice your age and no one obsesses with me - and it's great. As much as being noticed was a nice ego boost, it wasn't really what I wanted. I wanted to be noticed for being a compassionate, loving person, not a handsome dude. You are on the right track. Keep focusing on the inside, that way when you are in your 50s, you definitely will not care about being noticed and more concerned with making others feel great. Lots of people who look like you do not put that much time or effort into their personality, it's awesome to see you are leaning on your spiritual growth over looking attractive. You are on your way to a very happy life. Kudos.
Yes, having vibrant energy makes you more likable as people are getting to know you, but the simple fact is that getting attention and attracting strangers only happens instantly if you're hot. If a waitress is average-looking or worse, even if she has high energy, no one is going to specifically request her or tell her she "cast a spell" on them. Liz is hot and charming (her charm also stems from being hot and an acute self-awareness of being hot), and therefore people are more willing to overlook what comes off as aloofness/assertiveness/self-centeredness. It's simple. Her being hot + seeming emotionally unavailable automatically makes her a high-value chase, hence the "obsession" (which honestly seems like the wrong word to use; I think "attraction" is more appropriate). ----- *Edit* -- Coming back to clarify a couple of things: 1) I'm not saying that people will ONLY treat you well if you're hot. 2) I'm not saying that anyone who isn't hot has less inherent value than a hot person - I was speaking of subjective value when it comes to attraction. 3) I'm not saying that having charisma or a good personality doesn't matter. Of COURSE it matters. 4) People seem to be interpreting what I said as me being hateful, and I would urge you to stop seeing anything that isn't fawning praise as an attack. I subscribe to this channel like the rest of you, I like the content for the most part, and it's fair for me to comment on it. There are exceptions to every rule. Some people are going to have an anecdote about how they used to be ugly, but tons of people still treated them nicely because they had a great personality. I agree that's how it should be. Liz talked about people being instantly attracted to/charmed by her. This is what I was speaking about. Strangers will only do this if a person is distracting to them, for better or worse. In Liz's case, it was probably because she's extremely beautiful. Being physically beautiful is like having really high quality bait & fancy lures when fishing. No, you don't necessarily need it, but it really helps. My point is that yes, keep a positive mindset and keep working on yourself like Liz advises, but also, keep in mind the other factors that contribute to the success of someone who looks like her! Ask yourself, if Liz was American, morbidly obese, had zits all over her face, buzz-cut hair, thin lips, and frumpy clothes, would you still religiously watch this channel? Would you have even found it in the first place?
Exactly. This is not about "energy" or confidence. Attractive people giving advice about this is almost like a joke. This type of advice ONLY works for attractive people like her.
Oh my gosh imagine her kids with this mom like they dont need anything else she's solid concrete imagine all the things they would learn from her like youre gonna be a great mom Liz 💗
I love how unapologetically confident this woman is. Edit: the way y'all discuss so much about this only proves her point further, you are obsessed with her. So much you just can't help yoursleves in a good way or a bad way.
@@Izunia2077 comment I was replying to was deleted! If a man acts like this diva he's a douche, toxic blah blah! But not her apparently! We gotta call out wahmens bad behaviour!..
If pretty privilege exists, then you have a lot of many other privileges like being able to walk and being able to talk. So you are VERY privilege. Stop with the nonsense.
I agree with everything she's saying, but the fact that she's so beautiful has a LOT to do with people liking her. The same rules would most likely not apply to someone who's ugly - let's be honest. It's also easier to have a confident personality type when you look beautiful.
@@bemnetsisay1876 lol what I said was literally a fact in life. If you think attractive and unattractive people get treated exactly the same in society, you’re really stupid lol.
@@itsethan9141 You're right!! And when we start seeing ourself as attractive we actually start to change and everyone around us start to find us attractive. That's what happened with me, I was so insecure and never appreciated myself and so no one else did, but an year ago I started appreciating myself truly and started feeling attractive and beautiful and you won't believe, people started complimenting me. It's all about mentality and the way we think.
“I’m the cycle breaker” TODAY I was saying this about myself to my therapist. Whew!!!! This is SO powerful. I think that is the most powerful motivator for success.
I really do like your energy and I completely agree with you, some people circulate around the sun. The aura needs to be sustained. Sometimes we lose ourselves, but most importantly we should always find the light within us. xx
The self love to narcissistic tendencies pipeline is very real and one many people today have trouble navigating. I think too many people confuse both…self confidence comes from within, not externally such as compliments from others. It’s being secure and assertive with your actions, thoughts, and emotions. I’m not a beauty but I’ve had people with severe identity issues try to emulate “me” down to mannerisms, clothes, the way I talked, etc., because they simply have no idea who they are and choose not to explore themselves for themselves. Yes, there is a difference between taking inspiration from others and straight up trying to become someone’s doppelgänger. Many people in this world hide who they really wish to be. Self confidence isn’t being the best in the room, being the most beautiful, intelligent, etc., because the truth is there is someone out there who is better without trying. It’s being comfortable with who you are (as stated above) and not needing other’s approvals to live your life as you please. It’s a bittersweet realization.
The thing about "there's someone better than you without trying" is relative tho. I agree with you, and I think everyone is unique and capable of being the best authentic versions of themselves and that should be enough.
@@nyxasteria3991 It’s a fact. There will always be people above and below, as odd and ill as it sounds. Everyone is definitely unique and not meant to be the best or worst.
Somebody told me to watch your content cause we're so similar. I must say, we're the same in mindset. Thank you for speaking about these things to other people who might need to hear it. So many people do admire you and listen to you. I hope you're doing well love. ❤️
i hate doing my school work, but when i put on a video of liz & listen too her talkin abt bettering ourselves it helps me fllllly through my work. it’s amazing, this woman gives m motivation & dedication through anything
I have conflicted feelings about this… l mean, I agree with the majority of the things she said but there is something off about her that ironically didn’t gave me “high energy vibes”. In one part of the video she said that she would never be in a toxic relationship because she will be with a person that is obsess with her. So she is telling me that while she has the gratification of be adored by her partner because he would be obsessed with her, her boyfriend on the other hand won’t have that adoration in return because she can only adore herself and she won’t obsess about anyone else.. other than herself? I feel that this is unfair for her partners and creates an unbalanced relationship that ironically seems toxic. And also the part that she said that she would cancel on a date just because she wanted to and didn’t care for other person’s feelings just gave me huge red flags. Would she like it if the roles were reversed? That she was ready for a date and her boyfriend decided to cancel in the last minute because he just wanted time for himself? I don’t think so, considering how much she values her time… are other people’s times don’t as valuable? Again, I agree with a lot of what she said and I will stay with that. She seems like she is happy with herself I guess that’s what matters in the end. But I feel that being too self centered is not healthy, this is the first video I saw about her and I didn’t felt attracted to her energy at all. One can be confident and humble at the same time and I think she lacks the latter. She will keep achieving big things, that’s for sure, but I don’t think she will ever have a genuine and deep connection with someone with her fixed mentality
Exactly, she's a narcissist but people are blinded by her beauty. Women especially will defend her no matter what because apparently only an ugly hater speaks the truth lol
Her love life advices are terrible. She acts cold hearted , normal and human people get lost with love . If you have never put ur ego aside , if u have never been lost and crazy for a loved one then u have NEVER experienced true love . Probably over controlling even in her relationships , I really feel sorry for the men falling for narcissistic women like this ……..😅
Look, I think it's good that you pointed this out. You are right about the psychology underneath those statements and I love the fact that you somehow tried to light those little bubbles for her to know what else is there to polish. But. She is not a "finite journey". She is still on the go. Acknowledge that too, please. We still have to face a lot of trials and errors until we polish ourselves enough so we can shine our authentic sparkle properly. She says in this or another video that she still goes to therapy and she's building herself up. Humbleness requires a little bit of maturity. And a lot of understanding. A little bit of consideration that the other parts must be valuable in her interactions too. She's at the stage of a little bit of extremity towards the self-centeredness. But in the long run, this tactic also doesn't bring the most satisfaction and the optimum healthy environment. But I mean, we can all understand her. She's been hurt enough. Right now, she's recovering. But she'll be better in time, like old fine wine. She'll get the balance of fine, harmonious living and she'll understand. I totally support her and love the courage she must have for posting videos and trying to uplift us whatever her progress might be in life. Also, she has good intentions overall.
I don't know if Liz has a high vibrant energy, but she has definitely a lot of energy. This is definitely something that makes someone attractive and attracts people. If you have a lot of energy you can be more successful in life, in love. Because you put this energy into your goals and your image and lookings, so you become a kind of alpha person, which of course attracts others. I like her character a lot, somehow it reminds me of me. My problem is that I always had a lot of jealous people around me who even destroyed my marriage. They couldn't influence me, but my exhusband who is kind of weak.
Saaame, lot of jealousy arround me dear, lot of pple who I tought frienfs who I gave them nthg but care and love, were jealous, envious and I had to end it and move on. Have a blessed day ✨️💕.
Thank you liz for everything you do. And yes , since i discover you and follow you and listening to your videos, my life gets better every day thanks to you❤ Of course is also thanks to myself but you give me some advice that I need❤
Omg I love you. Your videos are the reason why I've been receiving so much positive comments from people around me recently. The energy thing is real. Simply changing the mindset can change your whole life and the way people perceive you.
You can't imagine how much your videos helped me girl. I will be eternally grateful for what you have done even in my 80s i will remember you cause you literally saved me. I have been through so much shit in life like you won't imagine and people like you are the proof that we can rise and build an amazing future no matter how dark is our present. I'm still struggling but mentally ur videos are really helpful. Best wishes. ❤
Everything you said in this video is such important and delicate advice on the way to live //your life// you have to take care of yourself before you can be there for others
Pretty privilege. Look, I simply love the fact that she takes time to make videos to try to help people to feel more like her and be treated like her, i think its amazing, with that being said we simply CANNOT dismiss something as real as pretty privilege in the world that we live in, its just not realistic
@@rose9266x Sure it's not impossible to have people be obsessed with you even if you're not "one of the prettiest people in the world". But it's also facts that pretty privilege exists and more initial impressions are based off looks and mannerisms, especially the scenarios that she was talking about in the beginning where people are like "you've put a spell on us" or "you're so mesmerizing".
@@rose9266x lol you said you were ugly so we agree with you , do you think we are gonna make you feel better about yourself by saying :"no dont say that you are beautiful ", well no if you say you are ugly than you are honey lol
@@rose9266x they said even "if" and in quotation marks as in not their words, "not the prettiest person". Nobody can tell if you're ugly or not, so they have to take your word for it 😂
This is the mentality of someone who will wake up in 5-10 years and realize that they don't actually have any friends, just people collectively using each other.
Hi Liz! This video resonate so well with me. I came across your video today and I cannot believe how your experience speak to my life. Literally true that people are obsessed with me, either friends who get attached and want your friendship afterwards you have cut them off because you know their true intentions, past lovers, family or acquaintances. Abd all I see is that I am different, my light is pure because I am pure and cannot harm another being, so when people meet someone like us, they get attached to our pure energy because they are used to being around others that are truly pure. So glad I found this video because it confirmed I am not alone abd just blessed differently. Thank you God 🙏🙌💯abd and thank you for opening up to us! 😘
i think it's important to know that being a physically attractive person is proven to open more avenues for you than being a non attractive person, no matter how outgoing you are. some unattractive people may have a better shot by being charismatic and outgoing, so it's always good to take care of yourself and be your best anyway. as a disabled person who uses a wheelchair, i've always had to deal with stereotypes ever since i was a young child of people saying that i'm too "different" or too needy to be in a relationship with. no amount of being "confident" has suddenly made these people see me as a potential partner. however, if you lower your expectations for what you set your happiness on, your quality of life becomes better. being desperate is not only unattractive but also unhealthy. it will make your life miserable if you tell yourself every day that you're hopeless. that's why it's good to find joy in the unconventional things in life and to put your best self forward. after giving up on conventional methods of dating, i met my current boyfriend and have been with him for over five years. he's my best friend and sees the world the same way i do. sometimes you realize that there's nothing wrong with what you want. sometimes there's something just wrong with what you're doing to get it.
Thanks for sharing your story. I've seen a few videos about pretty privelege and as someone who is seen as conventionally attractive I find pretty privelege to be very real. I see the difference in treatment between me and my friends and colleagues in real life. Especially men treat you a certain way based on your looks. I know the most kindest and outgoing bubbly people but others don't want to hang out with them because they don't find them attractive. Sadly that's how it works. I'm glad you have found someone who was able to look beyond your disability and see your true beauty. Much luck to you ❤️😃!
Thanks really for sharing ur story❤but I see that sometimes at least as my exprrience, pretty looks give the exact opposite reaction that you have mentioned, like alot of haters and alot of people who focuse on your small details to critisize and make them big deal like( omg girl you have small lines on your forehead) ,or you look so pale without makeup)😂😅 and stuff like that like it is crazy how they see you attractive and at the same time they want to make sure you feel the opposite
Many talk about her physical appearance as her point of attraction and her appearance is a reflection of her energy and choices. She chooses to look like this because she values herself. Anyone can love themselves more and increase their level of attractiveness but you must do the work to get those results.
@@thatbitchnoemie doing the work to become more confident Will make you feel better and be more attractive but the key phrase is DOING THE WORK. Sarcasm is negative and won't get you there.
I'm sorry this is unrealistic and selling this narrative is just evil. Of course taking care of yourself plays a major role but let's not act like her genetics doesn't help her tremendously. She's conventionally attractive. Makeup, nice hair, good clothing can only do so much for the average woman that doesn't fit the conventions. I would even say people accept her energy because she's attractive. There are many women with beautiful energy that get overlooked because they aren't conventionally attractive.
I don't understand what is up with people considering me benefit my own self as selfish, I mean if I'm not the one helping myself out who will? Never let anybody think less of you honey you deserve everything you have gained in life
One thing I want to emphasize on that if you take yourself seriously and give so much importance to yourself, others will do the same for you. ALSO DO NOT CHASE PEOPLE. Let them do the chasing and of course that doesn’t mean you neglect them. I used to chase people and care about them more than I cared about myself. Now I don’t do that and people are so obsessed with me. It honestly scared me at first but now I’m like well if you wanna do that you can, it’s not my business. If I don’t like you and you don’t benefit me anyway then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t have free time to waste. How I am right now took me years of pain and lessons. It didn’t just come to me out of nowhere and I have been doing more for myself a lot now. I believe that everyone can do it too. Please learn to love yourself even if it takes a long time.
I’m a teenager and I want to improve in my everyday life. I have anxiety and depression and I struggle with it. I want to get finally heal and move on. Thank you so much for this. I will watch all your videos.
All teenagers have anxiety because is a life phase where you start really learning what you like/don't like. Its hard for the mind but what she's saying is basically love yourself first before trying to love others. You are the 1st place in your life and that way of thinking is really goals because no matter what other people say or do to you, if you truly trust yourself, you'll learn from stuff and walk away from bad energy. If you still struggle, you will only blame yourself and thats bad... You should not root for blame, you should learn from mistakes and move on using that to make things better in the future - for YOU! For your anxiety, try those breathing exercises - there are plenty here on CZcams ❤
Just do things that will make you feel more confident. If you're not happy with your body then working out will not only improve your physical health but mental health as well. If you're not happy about your marks then studying more will give you more confidence and make you feel less stressed. Just remember that you don't need to be perfect in anything but good enough in things that will make you feel confident.
I absolutely love your confidence and advice your providing. At the start of the video I wasn't sure but listening all the way through you are very genuine and I appreciated you sharing this, very empowering!
i'm so glad i keep seeing your videos in my reccomendations, like i used to skip over it bcs my attention span is awful but after watching one of your vids, it literally only felt like 5 minutes but it changed my mindset completely. i've been having a terrible month then i remembered your videos exist and no joke, about 2 minutes into the video and i already feel a lot better. you tell me what i have to hear and not what i want to hear, and it's just so real fr. i don't think i can ever thank you enough for your videos honestly
honestly this is the only video of Liz with which I can connect with myself. The every point she said, referred everything is so relatable with me. I knew people were obsessed, I knew few reasons why and here girl listed every points briefly.
The video I never knew I truly needed! Thanks queen for sharing your confidence, and wisdom. You are a blessing. Beautiful inside and out and that is truly why people take to you.
Your mom is so wise Liz..I'm impressed ❤ I am currently going through a journey of becoming braver and standing up for myself. People around me still perceive me as the weak girl that I had always been. I've been through so much at work place and have made much progress already. My worst enemy is a bully girl that I literally cut off from my life yet she still does every little thing possible to annoy me daily and I don't know how to respond to it or if I should just ignore it. She smashes things hard on the table if I lay my head on it. She opens the door if I close it and vice versa. She turns on lights if I turn it off. She's like a little devil following me. I literally fall speechless Infront of the level of her silliness and low vibration. To the point where I don't know what to do about it.
I really need to hear this now literally teary eyes!!! I just gained back my energy because of you because of your powerful words 🥺 You're an angel!!! Thank you so much Liz, rooting for youu! 🎉❤
It’s so fascinating hearing other people explain their thoughts. Maybe it’s because she’s pretty and confident? Some people just feel weird hearing some express their inner monologue. I’d rather people not be obsessed with me and I probably do a good job at that. Genuine friends is what I would like, but people who are genuine and have solid understanding is hard to come by.
I really wish I was able to watch this video 3 years ago. I was in such a high-functioning anxious/depressive state at 23. I didn't even know how badly I was struggling. I was so desperate for a romantic relationship. I wanted to feel "whole" and to feel like I had purpose, but LIVING and LOVING myself was enough. Thank you Liz for being the high-vibrating attractive wizard you are. I wanna be a wizard like you girllll
@@Sunrima Yes, she is muslim, I've been a follower since a long time and she said that she reads the Quran and it helped her so much to connect with Islam.
I appreciate you sharing your mindset and wish I had you as a big sister when I was younger! That said having friends or lovers that attached to me would simply exhaust me😂
Having people obsessing over you is definitely a blessing in terms of boosting your ego and a curse, mostly a curse. They become overly attached to you since you are a reflection of what they long for. From what Liz described, she definitely made it sound so cool to be obsessed with in terms of the qualities that make people obsess over you in the first place, but it's not fun when people actually start obsessing over you, especially if you are someone who values their space, like Liz herself. You feel me?
@@Halo4beatsB02 do you know her in real life or you only see her on CZcams like me? If you've actually been around Liz, then I'd understand your point.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 if I were to give you an example of someone charming, think of tyrion lannister from game of thrones. Someone with humor, quick wit, but with humility and empathy and somewhat unsolipistic.
As much as I love your videos , I think it begins with pretty privilege. Of course that's not all , but I think we can't ignore social realities. Energy are a thing and I Believe yours attracts ppl and you have good vibes bc you constantly work on yourself Liz that's admirable. But the first part about the mesmerizing is purely pretty privilege first and you were benefiting from it ...
Anyone can benefit from it with a good lifestyle which she understood and put in the work to have that “pretty privilege” What is beautiful is attractive and anybody can become beautiful with the good lifestyle
@@cosmicboy7188 disagree. You can’t ignore the problems that society puts us in. And you are proving my point , why working hard to deserve other ppl attention / get beauty privilege ? Can’t we be authentic self without involving physical aspects. Since I’m a subscriber for Liz, according to her older vids , ofc she worked hard and changed her mental state. But she also said that she was always considered beautiful. So yeah, pretty privilege is something you already have or chase for it , that has nothing to do with energies in the first place
@The_Audacity who said the opposite ? Y’all are not even aware of the world where you live. There’s social realities that are STUDIED. Yes. Your physical aspect can ATTRACT people more easily. Not necessarily make them stay. You are simply obsessed with assumption on us , about low self esteem while I’m being more impartial and not biased by anything such as insecurities that I could carry. Open a book and learn about social science , HERE we like factual things and WORK WITH FACTS and STUDIES ONLY.
This video randomly played but I resonate very well with your mindset so I actually watched the whole vid. There are not a lot of people with true confidence in the world.
I love her confidence so much. I love how she knows how top teir she is. Too often in our society women don’t know how beautiful they are or when they do know and act confident, society tells them they really aren’t "all that". Pls never stop being this confident and cocky liz it’s so needed in our society for women to see that it’s ok to be confident.
@@poopbutt6241 lol you're arrogant when youre not the top 20% apparently you have alot to learn. Look up wheatwaffles and faceandlms. Confident cute guy=confident, courageous. Unnatractive confident guy=arrogant or creepy
I love how you talk to others and your confidence. I really think you have to write a book because i think you can people learn something from you 'cause you're a very open minded person 🥰🥰
I've never seen (or rarely) a person talking a lot about their good sides with so much authenticity and true honest visible happiness and not with fear or being like toxic or fake about these statements ❤️ily Liz, much respect to you
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Omg thank you so much Liz 🥺🥺🥺 I've commented on this video once but I want to do it again. You are really really amazing and fantastic! Thank you for your energy, your message, your inspiration, everything! Wish you all the best in the world ❤❤❤
Liz: “Do I look good? Yes. We are not going to act like that’s not true”.
The confidence. I love it. 😂
Not trying to be negative at all but not going to lie, I always cringe when I hear people say this because I believe beauty is subjective. Just because your beautiful to some people and some other people don’t find you beautiful doesn’t make you one thing. I think everyone is beautiful to someone so every person should feel good about themselves. No one is ugly.
@@CajunBoyJake but In that case if everyone should feel good about themselves I think it’s valid for her to speak positively about herself as should everyone you know :)
@@tashapatino1663 I just find the part when she says “We’re are not going to act like that’s not true” cringy. As if that’s a hard fact. Personally, I don’t think she “looks good”, so to me, it’s not true but I don’t (nor does any other human) decide who “looks good”. I can only tell you who looks good, from my perspective. Like I can’t tell you that you have to find me attractive, because I am, ya know?
@@CajunBoyJake there are some basic, universal standards of beauty and she hits them. you're talking about your personal preferences of attractiveness but you can still tell when someone, objectively, looks good even if they aren't personally attractive to you. she's objectively beautiful. there is no point in her pretending otherwise. It's cringy to be like "omg im so ugly omg im not that pretty" when you are.
@@CajunBoyJake It's okay if It's cringy for you, but that's not a fact, that's just how you feel because you wouldnt be as much confidente as her. 🤷🏻♀️ And, what about that? Like, honestly, why are you trying to drag down someone else selfconcept dude.
1. Have a vibrant energy - 3:07
- Don't engage in drama and gossips
- Don't spread rumours
- Just focus on yourself
2. Become comfortable with your emotions and understand what's trying to tell you - 5:13
- Don't watch negative news, videos
- Do yoga
- Do things you love
3. Don't attach your self to places, people, things,... - 6:31
- Don't define yourself by a relationship, friendship or job
- You'll get over quickly if it fades away
- When there's no expectation, ther's no disappointment
4. Become okay with people leaving your life - 8:30
- People comes to yourself to serve purpose in your life. When they finish their role, they leave and that's ok.
5. If you become whole, what you want will chase you - 9:28
- Create the avenenue and watch it come to you
6. Start making decisions that benefit you - 10:39
Thx alot
I really want to thank you for summarizing the video with such articulation may God bless you ✝️
It’s kinda crazy how nobody’s talking about the book womens magic truths on borlest
"If you really need to tell someone, talk to a tree" is the motivation i needed, thanks
Absolutely loved that line ❤
So you're saying that you can't rely on anyone? I'm not sure that's a healthy place to be.
Currently finishing the video, but one big lesson from this is, “If you need to talk to someone talk to a tree!”😂 I love that! Be very cautious who you share with!
It’s so weird how I totally over share and get hated on and look a lot like her like we could totally be sisters and so if I really expressed my confidence I would be hated even worse than I am now, so I don’t get it how she doesn’t have 1 million haters I’m hanging clearly around all the wrong people lol!
@@thirstonhowellthebird doesnt everyone have secret haters at least
@@hold.on9 I was oblivious to the whole hater thing for a good majority of my life. I just don’t think that way like I want everybody to be happy and do well in life and there was never anybody who I was jealous of or felt “less than“ so I never took into consideration that anybody would feel that way about me. I just don’t understand what causes that. It’s sad because it ruins friendships but I guess you’re right now that I understand.
My mom always told me: If you need to talk to someone talk to yourself in the mirror
Hhhh right ? Yeah trees are so healing ✨️✨️👌🏻🌲.
i get the whole pretty privelege thing here but she is 100% right about the whole energy thing. There are good looking people who are simply boring and not magnetic asff and then there are not so conventionally attractive people who are magnetic and fun to be around simply because they understand their worth as a person and love themselves. Ofcourse, beauty plays a very important role but it boils down to nothing with the lack of self-respect and self-worth.
Oh pretty privileged, but a face caked in make-up! We all look good with make-up on. Just look at some of the tutorials on here! Yes some so-called unattractive people are magnetic, others no so.
@@annmarie39able a good base doesn't guarantee an elevated aura.
@@ittsanaa What?
Same and I do agree with you
FRRRRRR
liz is practically “the secret” in a form of human.. she understand everything, its just make sense how she attracts everthing in her life with this mindset, mentality and practices ❤
@dear_mi3961she wrote a book its called 'the wizard lizard guide to inner healing' or something like that
The energy you radiate is everything! There are many days that I feel down, low, old and unattractive and no one even glances at me and people are less kind, to point of being rude. On the days I feel really confident and happy there is a vibe around me that make people stare, smile at me and sometimes even seem in awe of me. I wish I could figure out how to have more influence over this energy!
The fact that she doesn't care about the hate comments and doesn't filter them out or delete them is simply badass. Those commenters are fighting with a wall
and that's on period
Yuss
Why do they hate her she’s seems so kind
@@lovelylanafansweetie4240 ikr? they're just mad that they could never be her ⚰️
She is filtering them out though. I don't see any hate comments even though she 100% deserves some for this cringe content.
strangers don't immediately take to you because you don't overshare, you have good priorities, and you make good decisions; strangers take to you primarily because you're attractive. your advice is good but let's be real here lol
Ikr… this video is weird lmao
@@peacefulcreativity444 it’s not weird. You can be as attractive as you want… if your personality, your attitude doesn’t follow… people don’t get obsessed with you. There are billions of pretty girls. And they can’t keep up with people around them
@@DanieB322 True. I still think the video is weird 😂
exactlyyy I usually like her vids but this one I dont agree w. she's top 0.1% attractive so obv ppl will be attracted to her it has nothin to do w energy lmaoo
@@DanieB322 billions? bullshit. there are many normal-pretty girls but actual pretty or head turningly pretty girls are quite rare and will attract attention no matter how their personality or energy is like
People wanna trash on this just cus she's pretty but you can be 'unattractive' and still get respect and people obsessed with you, it's your demeanor and ambitions in life plus a great personality, one that's always reflecting and mature. I think it's a great combination, and looks just give it enhancement
Yes, imagine being unattractive and additionally being just a nasty person like these haters. Ouch, that life must hard a lot. Being ugly plus being an ugly person from the inside. Yikes!
I’m not ashamed to say that I became obsessed with you and your content when I came across your channel! But it’s the good obsession, only good vibes here and sending so much positivity and love 💕
@dear_mi3961i dont know aswell but try to search on google!
1:38 - Introduction (Why the name "thewizardliz"?)
3:08 - Have a vibrant energy
5:06 - Become comfortable with your emotions and realise what it's trying to tell you
6:26 - Don't attach yourself to people, places, things or situations
8:27 - Become okay with people leaving your life
9:24 - If you become whole what you want will chase you
10:39 - Start making decisions that will benefit you
12:53 - Remove toxic people and be firm about it
13:21 - Prioritize what you want to do
14:34 - Value your time
16:24 - Stop over sharing and become more exclusive
19:10 - Have a life and don't be always be available
19:40 - Start taking calculated risks
21:19 - Go after the things you want and be unapologetic about it
21:41 - Be your authentic self. Say what you mean and mean what you say
23:24 - Don't look at problems. Look at solutions
25:01 - Good intentions will always win
My fave moments ❤️: 4:14/5:02, 5:21/6:23, 8:37/9:12, 9:35/9:54, 13:44/14:27, 18:24/18:43
replying for reminders! thank you!
Thanks
Thanks
Thank you ❤
It was a real eye opener when I experienced this firsthand. My coworker was gorgeous. From the tone of her voice, her bright white smile, her stunning eyes. Every time she clocked in, everyone seemed happier. Even ME, my own chest felt warmer. She was literally a vessel of sunshine. I wondered why. A person's energy is like the A to the 1. Both are first, neither second. 1 is attractiveness. If you are strikingly attractive combined with a grounded, genuine personality, when you walk into a room people will feel your aura.
Simp spotted
Well said !
This is sooo true and I need to learn from this.
I’m a woman and I feel this way about one of my female coworkers. She’s so beautiful in every way possible it actually pains me to see her sometimes and the fact that she’s such a sweet and genuine person, I’m always in awe of her. Not one person has looked her direction and thought anything bad out her. The only time I’ve heard anything remotely negative was from the men who’ve tried asking her on dates but were rejected. Of course they would obsess over her again shortly after. Ugh to be that beautiful. I can’t even imagine!
What obsession does to a motherf*cker 😂😂
I AM 100% OBSESSED WITH YOU. Thank you for making me level up in my life. You're doing god's work.
I am so happy you exist. Your presence is so healing. When i feel unstable, lost, and depressed, I watch ur vids and i feel understood, seen, and grounded. I can be calm! Thank u for being amazing. I wish the best for u and anyone else reading this. ❤
I love how self-aware she is. Her confidence is immaculate. She said it all. Truth!
She has horrendous lips.
Self obsessed*
lol
she is far from self aware, seems like she actually suffers from delusions because if you've ever dealt with psychology, you would notice she's literally just making this all up to boost her ego
@@Trollika_Devi look at her new video
Please remember - even if no-one is obsessed with you, you are still valuable 🌞
Oh and it’s ok if you make mistakes, and if some people don’t like you.
Awwww youre so cute thanx you too🥰🤝🏽
Yesss❤
she's not that cute, she's too shallow and plastic-like.
JESUS CHRIST is LORD and He loved us while we were still sinners to die for our sins and be raised from the grave for our justification as the sinless, perfect Lamb of GOD, Who takes away the sin of the world, fulfilling the righteousness that the law requires, which we, sinners by nature, could never fulfill. for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of GOD. however in this present age, we may now be saved by the grace of GOD through faith in Him alone, followed by the act of repentance or the turning away from all of our sins. we must be born again. JESUS CHRIST is the Way and the Truth and the Life.
@Scott Scotty man was created by GOD.
"if you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree" LMAOO I LOVE HER.
Liz, you changed my life, you literally opened my eyes with all of your videos. Thank you so so much !!
23:51 this part really stood up to me, i'm currently 18 and ever since i can remember i have this feeling, that i'm here for something big, not to be a celebrity or anything like that, but idk, to be a really good and successful person. i have depression so it's harder to think this way right now, but watching her videos are motivating me to make things work out for me.
This is your sign. You got this!!
@@awesometani8148 thank you so much 💗 we got this!
you got this chase it❤️
why are you depressed?
@@dynalpb ❤️
I want to cryyy because I just realized how beautiful life I am creating right now. I love myself so much! Thank youuu, Liz!
111 likes!
Aw God bless you, cutie❤️
Same!!!!
So many gems in this video, the way you speak, behave, and think is truly indicative of the level of class and elegance you possess, I’m so grateful to have found your channel
this women has saved my life. not even being dramatic.
you can't tell me it's all because of her looks when gorgeous people like khloe kardashian, behati prinsloo and victoria beckham get cheated on and still take their partners back. of course she is pretty but so are a million other people. her whole point is beauty without the right energy is meaningless. beauty gets you initial attention but it gets boring pretty quickly and people won't hold on to you if there's nothing more to you past your appearance; you'll be treated like a picture on the wall-pretty to look at, but nothing more. love you liz
Khloe is disgusting I never heard a man say they find that thing attractive
Khloe Kardashian is not gorgeous
This is a very wise interpretation of the video❤ I 100% agree
None of those women are gorgeous though.
Khloe kardashian is not gorgeous please be serious
I feel like attachment styles also play a big role in this. The way she talks about her friendships and romantic life she seems to have an avoidant attachment style, where the person is very independent and has a hard time trusting people, or fully open up. This attachment usually attracts people with an anxious attachment style, who tend to be more clingy, ‘obsessed’, having a fear of rejection… it is really a push and pull
That was my first thought as well 👍
same!! 10 seconds into the video and this was the first thing I thought
needs more upvotes
This is very true because I myself have an avoidant attachment style. I am pretty but not jaw dropping and I get a lot of anxious attachment ppl gravitating towards my life. But of course I don’t like this so stay in the house haha
its just dudes that want to bang her. its not that deep. im sure that women are not obsessed with her at all.
Whenever i feel lost i just watch her videos and it always works thank you liz for coming into my life.. i love you so much❤❤
I used to be equally attractive at your age. I am now twice your age and no one obsesses with me - and it's great. As much as being noticed was a nice ego boost, it wasn't really what I wanted. I wanted to be noticed for being a compassionate, loving person, not a handsome dude. You are on the right track. Keep focusing on the inside, that way when you are in your 50s, you definitely will not care about being noticed and more concerned with making others feel great. Lots of people who look like you do not put that much time or effort into their personality, it's awesome to see you are leaning on your spiritual growth over looking attractive. You are on your way to a very happy life. Kudos.
Just lean into a more mature look and people will be attracted to you tbh
Yes, having vibrant energy makes you more likable as people are getting to know you, but the simple fact is that getting attention and attracting strangers only happens instantly if you're hot. If a waitress is average-looking or worse, even if she has high energy, no one is going to specifically request her or tell her she "cast a spell" on them. Liz is hot and charming (her charm also stems from being hot and an acute self-awareness of being hot), and therefore people are more willing to overlook what comes off as aloofness/assertiveness/self-centeredness.
It's simple. Her being hot + seeming emotionally unavailable automatically makes her a high-value chase, hence the "obsession" (which honestly seems like the wrong word to use; I think "attraction" is more appropriate).
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*Edit* -- Coming back to clarify a couple of things:
1) I'm not saying that people will ONLY treat you well if you're hot.
2) I'm not saying that anyone who isn't hot has less inherent value than a hot person - I was speaking of subjective value when it comes to attraction.
3) I'm not saying that having charisma or a good personality doesn't matter. Of COURSE it matters.
4) People seem to be interpreting what I said as me being hateful, and I would urge you to stop seeing anything that isn't fawning praise as an attack. I subscribe to this channel like the rest of you, I like the content for the most part, and it's fair for me to comment on it.
There are exceptions to every rule. Some people are going to have an anecdote about how they used to be ugly, but tons of people still treated them nicely because they had a great personality. I agree that's how it should be. Liz talked about people being instantly attracted to/charmed by her. This is what I was speaking about. Strangers will only do this if a person is distracting to them, for better or worse. In Liz's case, it was probably because she's extremely beautiful. Being physically beautiful is like having really high quality bait & fancy lures when fishing. No, you don't necessarily need it, but it really helps.
My point is that yes, keep a positive mindset and keep working on yourself like Liz advises, but also, keep in mind the other factors that contribute to the success of someone who looks like her! Ask yourself, if Liz was American, morbidly obese, had zits all over her face, buzz-cut hair, thin lips, and frumpy clothes, would you still religiously watch this channel? Would you have even found it in the first place?
Nicely said
yup. depressed people who are hot still get approached it has nothing to do with “energy”
bro im madly ugly,i just look scary because im introverted
@@alexia964 exactlyy
Exactly. This is not about "energy" or confidence. Attractive people giving advice about this is almost like a joke. This type of advice ONLY works for attractive people like her.
"If you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree." LMAOOOO
😂😂💀
😂😂😂 LOVE IT!
Girl you're so right! I love your videos and yeah you do really have a good energy and do feel it!
Oh my gosh imagine her kids with this mom like they dont need anything else she's solid concrete imagine all the things they would learn from her like youre gonna be a great mom Liz 💗
"If you really need to talk to someone, talk to a tree." ok that one got me, lol love you Liz!
it killed me how bluntly she said it hahahaha
I’ve started having more confidence and taking better care of myself physically and mentally bc of you. Thank you liz xx
Are you fucking serious with this?
I feel like she knows something that i don't and im here for it.
I’m obsessed with this woman. Literally giving out the golden advices. We love liz ♥️
This woman’s words have put an impact on me. Ive put myself in a position which will benefit me. Im legitimate so glad I came across her.
I love how unapologetically confident this woman is.
Edit: the way y'all discuss so much about this only proves her point further, you are obsessed with her. So much you just can't help yoursleves in a good way or a bad way.
Until you take away her fakeup!..🤦♂️🤷♂️🤮🤣
@@thrusta100 This shows how insecure you are and how you hate to see people achieving their goals and being what you can’t be 😹😹
@@thrusta100 bruhh lmfao
@@Izunia2077 comment I was replying to was deleted! If a man acts like this diva he's a douche, toxic blah blah! But not her apparently! We gotta call out wahmens bad behaviour!..
@@thrusta100 fr fr
She's so iconic,I understand why everyone's obsessed with her.
Like literally
czcams.com/video/Els37bq35iE/video.html
I have literally no idea who this is lol
@@KydraExhale shes an icon... she teached us how to love ourselfes
@@klarasubliminals brown noser
does she have pretty privilege? absolutely. but is what she’s saying true? absolutely.
If pretty privilege exists, then you have a lot of many other privileges like being able to walk and being able to talk. So you are VERY privilege. Stop with the nonsense.
I love this woman so freaking much shes literally my role model!
I agree with everything she's saying, but the fact that she's so beautiful has a LOT to do with people liking her. The same rules would most likely not apply to someone who's ugly - let's be honest.
It's also easier to have a confident personality type when you look beautiful.
@@bemnetsisay1876 lol what I said was literally a fact in life. If you think attractive and unattractive people get treated exactly the same in society, you’re really stupid lol.
@@bemnetsisay1876once again she’s attractive so it’s easy for her to say all this lmao
@@itsethan9141 You're right!! And when we start seeing ourself as attractive we actually start to change and everyone around us start to find us attractive. That's what happened with me, I was so insecure and never appreciated myself and so no one else did, but an year ago I started appreciating myself truly and started feeling attractive and beautiful and you won't believe, people started complimenting me. It's all about mentality and the way we think.
@@ayusheeupadhyay7962 Exactly, then everyone want to be us, and ourselves would want to be us too, everything it's about ourselves :b
if she is attractive you can be it too
I scream out of happiness when liz uploads
Same i even told my mom so excited
That she published
Same
Me tooooo
SAMZ
Sameee
You have a beautiful soul, Liz. It shines through.
I love you liz your’re the queen!!!♥️🔥🔥 everybody that is reading this your energy is amazing❤️❤️☺️ I love you you honestly just helped me find my way
“I’m the cycle breaker” TODAY I was saying this about myself to my therapist. Whew!!!! This is SO powerful. I think that is the most powerful motivator for success.
She’s so unapologetically self-loving in such a healthy way, I love it, such an input, always feel better after watching a video of hers😍
Liz, I think you are a healing soul, you have that gift that you could have inherited from your mother. 🥰
I really do like your energy and I completely agree with you, some people circulate around the sun. The aura needs to be sustained. Sometimes we lose ourselves, but most importantly we should always find the light within us. xx
1-high energy, by yoga,
2- detach, you dont chase, you attract
3- do what benefit you only
4- prioritize myself, only the best
5-good intention
This sounds like stuff Andrew tate would say
Some of the things of this list sounds borderline selfish.
You guys are narcissists for liking this comment and you will be alone
The self love to narcissistic tendencies pipeline is very real and one many people today have trouble navigating. I think too many people confuse both…self confidence comes from within, not externally such as compliments from others. It’s being secure and assertive with your actions, thoughts, and emotions. I’m not a beauty but I’ve had people with severe identity issues try to emulate “me” down to mannerisms, clothes, the way I talked, etc., because they simply have no idea who they are and choose not to explore themselves for themselves. Yes, there is a difference between taking inspiration from others and straight up trying to become someone’s doppelgänger. Many people in this world hide who they really wish to be.
Self confidence isn’t being the best in the room, being the most beautiful, intelligent, etc., because the truth is there is someone out there who is better without trying. It’s being comfortable with who you are (as stated above) and not needing other’s approvals to live your life as you please.
It’s a bittersweet realization.
The thing about "there's someone better than you without trying" is relative tho. I agree with you, and I think everyone is unique and capable of being the best authentic versions of themselves and that should be enough.
@@nyxasteria3991 It’s a fact. There will always be people above and below, as odd and ill as it sounds. Everyone is definitely unique and not meant to be the best or worst.
@@nyxasteria3991 there's always someone out there tougher than you, no matter how tough you are
Somebody told me to watch your content cause we're so similar.
I must say, we're the same in mindset. Thank you for speaking about these things to other people who might need to hear it. So many people do admire you and listen to you. I hope you're doing well love. ❤️
i hate doing my school work, but when i put on a video of liz & listen too her talkin abt bettering ourselves it helps me fllllly through my work. it’s amazing, this woman gives m motivation & dedication through anything
I have conflicted feelings about this… l mean, I agree with the majority of the things she said but there is something off about her that ironically didn’t gave me “high energy vibes”. In one part of the video she said that she would never be in a toxic relationship because she will be with a person that is obsess with her. So she is telling me that while she has the gratification of be adored by her partner because he would be obsessed with her, her boyfriend on the other hand won’t have that adoration in return because she can only adore herself and she won’t obsess about anyone else.. other than herself? I feel that this is unfair for her partners and creates an unbalanced relationship that ironically seems toxic.
And also the part that she said that she would cancel on a date just because she wanted to and didn’t care for other person’s feelings just gave me huge red flags. Would she like it if the roles were reversed? That she was ready for a date and her boyfriend decided to cancel in the last minute because he just wanted time for himself? I don’t think so, considering how much she values her time… are other people’s times don’t as valuable?
Again, I agree with a lot of what she said and I will stay with that. She seems like she is happy with herself I guess that’s what matters in the end. But I feel that being too self centered is not healthy, this is the first video I saw about her and I didn’t felt attracted to her energy at all. One can be confident and humble at the same time and I think she lacks the latter. She will keep achieving big things, that’s for sure, but I don’t think she will ever have a genuine and deep connection with someone with her fixed mentality
Agree
Exactly, she's a narcissist but people are blinded by her beauty. Women especially will defend her no matter what because apparently only an ugly hater speaks the truth lol
Her love life advices are terrible. She acts cold hearted , normal and human people get lost with love . If you have never put ur ego aside , if u have never been lost and crazy for a loved one then u have NEVER experienced true love . Probably over controlling even in her relationships , I really feel sorry for the men falling for narcissistic women like this ……..😅
Look, I think it's good that you pointed this out. You are right about the psychology underneath those statements and I love the fact that you somehow tried to light those little bubbles for her to know what else is there to polish.
But.
She is not a "finite journey". She is still on the go. Acknowledge that too, please. We still have to face a lot of trials and errors until we polish ourselves enough so we can shine our authentic sparkle properly. She says in this or another video that she still goes to therapy and she's building herself up. Humbleness requires a little bit of maturity. And a lot of understanding. A little bit of consideration that the other parts must be valuable in her interactions too.
She's at the stage of a little bit of extremity towards the self-centeredness. But in the long run, this tactic also doesn't bring the most satisfaction and the optimum healthy environment. But I mean, we can all understand her. She's been hurt enough. Right now, she's recovering. But she'll be better in time, like old fine wine. She'll get the balance of fine, harmonious living and she'll understand.
I totally support her and love the courage she must have for posting videos and trying to uplift us whatever her progress might be in life. Also, she has good intentions overall.
@@noormendes8401 you can definitely see how many of her fans are susceptible to narc control.
I don't know if Liz has a high vibrant energy, but she has definitely a lot of energy. This is definitely something that makes someone attractive and attracts people.
If you have a lot of energy you can be more successful in life, in love. Because you put this energy into your goals and your image and lookings, so you become a kind of alpha person, which of course attracts others.
I like her character a lot, somehow it reminds me of me. My problem is that I always had a lot of jealous people around me who even destroyed my marriage. They couldn't influence me, but my exhusband who is kind of weak.
Then think about the people who you Surround yourself with. Just Like she Said in the Video.
Saaame, lot of jealousy arround me dear, lot of pple who I tought frienfs who I gave them nthg but care and love, were jealous, envious and I had to end it and move on. Have a blessed day ✨️💕.
me too I just attract jealous people it's so annoying 😭
Thank you liz for everything you do.
And yes , since i discover you and follow you and listening to your videos, my life gets better every day thanks to you❤
Of course is also thanks to myself but you give me some advice that I need❤
Omg I love you. Your videos are the reason why I've been receiving so much positive comments from people around me recently. The energy thing is real. Simply changing the mindset can change your whole life and the way people perceive you.
You can't imagine how much your videos helped me girl. I will be eternally grateful for what you have done even in my 80s i will remember you cause you literally saved me. I have been through so much shit in life like you won't imagine and people like you are the proof that we can rise and build an amazing future no matter how dark is our present. I'm still struggling but mentally ur videos are really helpful. Best wishes. ❤
Big big hug.
God loves you
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Jesus can free you, he knows the extent of your problems and can give you life everlasting ❤
50/50, just being hot doesnt automatically give you this kind of aura
Stop lying bro
Absolutely agree with Liz. Trusting people is scary yall. Secret animosity is real.
What does secret animosity mean
Indeed! And it's sad to say it, but it usually comes from the people that are closest to you
@@blelo9776 I think it's when ppl secretly hate u and hide their intentions and try to gain Ur trust / friendship
@@joakimaappiah-kubi682 ohh thank you! :)
@@blelo9776 @joakima appiah-kubi said it all.
Thank you, honesty is so important and sacred, thank you
Everything you said in this video is such important and delicate advice on the way to live //your life// you have to take care of yourself before you can be there for others
Pretty privilege. Look, I simply love the fact that she takes time to make videos to try to help people to feel more like her and be treated like her, i think its amazing, with that being said we simply CANNOT dismiss something as real as pretty privilege in the world that we live in, its just not realistic
@@rose9266x Sure it's not impossible to have people be obsessed with you even if you're not "one of the prettiest people in the world". But it's also facts that pretty privilege exists and more initial impressions are based off looks and mannerisms, especially the scenarios that she was talking about in the beginning where people are like "you've put a spell on us" or "you're so mesmerizing".
@@rose9266x you said it, not me 👀
@@rose9266x lol you said you were ugly so we agree with you , do you think we are gonna make you feel better about yourself by saying :"no dont say that you are beautiful ", well no if you say you are ugly than you are honey lol
@@rose9266x I plead the fifth your honor
@@rose9266x they said even "if" and in quotation marks as in not their words, "not the prettiest person". Nobody can tell if you're ugly or not, so they have to take your word for it 😂
This is the mentality of someone who will wake up in 5-10 years and realize that they don't actually have any friends, just people collectively using each other.
thank you for this comment 🗿 completely agree, I was striving for this mentality and it made me miserable
Yeah i agree. It didnt give me good vibes. Doesn’t sound natural
Hi Liz! This video resonate so well with me. I came across your video today and I cannot believe how your experience speak to my life. Literally true that people are obsessed with me, either friends who get attached and want your friendship afterwards you have cut them off because you know their true intentions, past lovers, family or acquaintances. Abd all I see is that I am different, my light is pure because I am pure and cannot harm another being, so when people meet someone like us, they get attached to our pure energy because they are used to being around others that are truly pure. So glad I found this video because it confirmed I am not alone abd just blessed differently. Thank you God 🙏🙌💯abd and thank you for opening up to us! 😘
Omg me too I swear ✨
Ur not only a wizard you’re blessed person too ,you really helped me and many others and I really appreciate that
i think it's important to know that being a physically attractive person is proven to open more avenues for you than being a non attractive person, no matter how outgoing you are. some unattractive people may have a better shot by being charismatic and outgoing, so it's always good to take care of yourself and be your best anyway. as a disabled person who uses a wheelchair, i've always had to deal with stereotypes ever since i was a young child of people saying that i'm too "different" or too needy to be in a relationship with. no amount of being "confident" has suddenly made these people see me as a potential partner. however, if you lower your expectations for what you set your happiness on, your quality of life becomes better. being desperate is not only unattractive but also unhealthy. it will make your life miserable if you tell yourself every day that you're hopeless. that's why it's good to find joy in the unconventional things in life and to put your best self forward. after giving up on conventional methods of dating, i met my current boyfriend and have been with him for over five years. he's my best friend and sees the world the same way i do. sometimes you realize that there's nothing wrong with what you want. sometimes there's something just wrong with what you're doing to get it.
Thanks for sharing your story. I've seen a few videos about pretty privelege and as someone who is seen as conventionally attractive I find pretty privelege to be very real. I see the difference in treatment between me and my friends and colleagues in real life. Especially men treat you a certain way based on your looks. I know the most kindest and outgoing bubbly people but others don't want to hang out with them because they don't find them attractive. Sadly that's how it works. I'm glad you have found someone who was able to look beyond your disability and see your true beauty. Much luck to you ❤️😃!
bravo
Love this ❤
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Thanks really for sharing ur story❤but I see that sometimes at least as my exprrience, pretty looks give the exact opposite reaction that you have mentioned, like alot of haters and alot of people who focuse on your small details to critisize and make them big deal like( omg girl you have small lines on your forehead) ,or you look so pale without makeup)😂😅 and stuff like that like it is crazy how they see you attractive and at the same time they want to make sure you feel the opposite
Many talk about her physical appearance as her point of attraction and her appearance is a reflection of her energy and choices. She chooses to look like this because she values herself. Anyone can love themselves more and increase their level of attractiveness but you must do the work to get those results.
This
So if I become confident I'll get an instant brow lift ? Cool, lemme try that
@@thatbitchnoemie doing the work to become more confident Will make you feel better and be more attractive but the key phrase is DOING THE WORK. Sarcasm is negative and won't get you there.
Love this comment!!!💕💕💕
I'm sorry this is unrealistic and selling this narrative is just evil. Of course taking care of yourself plays a major role but let's not act like her genetics doesn't help her tremendously. She's conventionally attractive. Makeup, nice hair, good clothing can only do so much for the average woman that doesn't fit the conventions. I would even say people accept her energy because she's attractive. There are many women with beautiful energy that get overlooked because they aren't conventionally attractive.
Thank you, Liz! You’re amazing!❤
I don't understand what is up with people considering me benefit my own self as selfish, I mean if I'm not the one helping myself out who will? Never let anybody think less of you honey you deserve everything you have gained in life
One thing I want to emphasize on that if you take yourself seriously and give so much importance to yourself, others will do the same for you. ALSO DO NOT CHASE PEOPLE. Let them do the chasing and of course that doesn’t mean you neglect them. I used to chase people and care about them more than I cared about myself. Now I don’t do that and people are so obsessed with me. It honestly scared me at first but now I’m like well if you wanna do that you can, it’s not my business. If I don’t like you and you don’t benefit me anyway then I don’t want you in my life. I don’t have free time to waste. How I am right now took me years of pain and lessons. It didn’t just come to me out of nowhere and I have been doing more for myself a lot now. I believe that everyone can do it too. Please learn to love yourself even if it takes a long time.
If no one chases, we wouldn’t have relationships
@@poopbutt6241 The point is that the man chases
I’m a teenager and I want to improve in my everyday life. I have anxiety and depression and I struggle with it. I want to get finally heal and move on. Thank you so much for this. I will watch all your videos.
Hit the gym. It will help more than those double standard videos.
You don't know if anything she says is true though. It's just one side.
All teenagers have anxiety because is a life phase where you start really learning what you like/don't like. Its hard for the mind but what she's saying is basically love yourself first before trying to love others. You are the 1st place in your life and that way of thinking is really goals because no matter what other people say or do to you, if you truly trust yourself, you'll learn from stuff and walk away from bad energy. If you still struggle, you will only blame yourself and thats bad... You should not root for blame, you should learn from mistakes and move on using that to make things better in the future - for YOU! For your anxiety, try those breathing exercises - there are plenty here on CZcams ❤
@@Gabiviolino thank you soo much ❤
Just do things that will make you feel more confident. If you're not happy with your body then working out will not only improve your physical health but mental health as well. If you're not happy about your marks then studying more will give you more confidence and make you feel less stressed. Just remember that you don't need to be perfect in anything but good enough in things that will make you feel confident.
I loove your videos so much, liz! You really changed my perspective in life for the better 💕💗💖
I literally love this lady. I needed this
I absolutely love your confidence and advice your providing. At the start of the video I wasn't sure but listening all the way through you are very genuine and I appreciated you sharing this, very empowering!
i'm so glad i keep seeing your videos in my reccomendations, like i used to skip over it bcs my attention span is awful but after watching one of your vids, it literally only felt like 5 minutes but it changed my mindset completely. i've been having a terrible month then i remembered your videos exist and no joke, about 2 minutes into the video and i already feel a lot better. you tell me what i have to hear and not what i want to hear, and it's just so real fr. i don't think i can ever thank you enough for your videos honestly
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honestly this is the only video of Liz with which I can connect with myself. The every point she said, referred everything is so relatable with me.
I knew people were obsessed, I knew few reasons why and here girl listed every points briefly.
Mind blowing... This sums up something I've Always been trying to figure out throughout my entire life. This is pretty darn precise.
The video I never knew I truly needed! Thanks queen for sharing your confidence, and wisdom. You are a blessing. Beautiful inside and out and that is truly why people take to you.
"When you chase it means you're not whole." So many inspirational quotes.😌
i love u so much fr
Your mom is so wise Liz..I'm impressed ❤
I am currently going through a journey of becoming braver and standing up for myself. People around me still perceive me as the weak girl that I had always been.
I've been through so much at work place and have made much progress already.
My worst enemy is a bully girl that I literally cut off from my life yet she still does every little thing possible to annoy me daily and I don't know how to respond to it or if I should just ignore it.
She smashes things hard on the table if I lay my head on it. She opens the door if I close it and vice versa. She turns on lights if I turn it off. She's like a little devil following me.
I literally fall speechless Infront of the level of her silliness and low vibration. To the point where I don't know what to do about it.
I really need to hear this now literally teary eyes!!! I just gained back my energy because of you because of your powerful words 🥺 You're an angel!!! Thank you so much Liz, rooting for youu! 🎉❤
It’s so fascinating hearing other people explain their thoughts.
Maybe it’s because she’s pretty and confident? Some people just feel weird hearing some express their inner monologue.
I’d rather people not be obsessed with me and I probably do a good job at that.
Genuine friends is what I would like, but people who are genuine and have solid understanding is hard to come by.
i’d rather have people not become obsessed w me, that is like SO true.
some of us just really want to live an isolated life, by choice.
Liz is SO down to earth, she gives me the best advice of my life, really the best person I've ever met, thank you liz:)
no she isnt and you dont know her lmao
someone's jealous@@brezio5251
I really wish I was able to watch this video 3 years ago. I was in such a high-functioning anxious/depressive state at 23. I didn't even know how badly I was struggling. I was so desperate for a romantic relationship. I wanted to feel "whole" and to feel like I had purpose, but LIVING and LOVING myself was enough. Thank you Liz for being the high-vibrating attractive wizard you are. I wanna be a wizard like you girllll
simps : wow she is confidence, self-aware
the reality : narcissistic, manipulative
She is one of the most delusional & self obsessed people on the internet.
Even better this way.
Its always the ugliest people to insult the prettiest ones smh
And I’m not even talking about physical beauty.
@@Faded______ self obsessed? how
Thank you for these videos, I’ve started therapy and I really see you as a role model. Your a great person Masha’allah ❤
Ikr I think she’s Muslim too which is so heartwarming.. for any Muslims reading, focus on prayer, it’s even better than things like yoga
@@greenbananas12378 Really? Are you sure?? 🥹🥹🥹😍😍😍
@@Sunrima check out her Instagram highlights, she was reading an Islamic book 💗
@@Sunrima Yes, she is muslim, I've been a follower since a long time and she said that she reads the Quran and it helped her so much to connect with Islam.
@@greenbananas12378 hey whats her instagram @
I was watching your video and texting someone and everything went sooo well, the best it’s ever gone your videos geniunlly have a ton of power .
I appreciate you sharing your mindset and wish I had you as a big sister when I was younger! That said having friends or lovers that attached to me would simply exhaust me😂
Having people obsessing over you is definitely a blessing in terms of boosting your ego and a curse, mostly a curse. They become overly attached to you since you are a reflection of what they long for. From what Liz described, she definitely made it sound so cool to be obsessed with in terms of the qualities that make people obsess over you in the first place, but it's not fun when people actually start obsessing over you, especially if you are someone who values their space, like Liz herself. You feel me?
It's because she's attractive that's it if she was ugly or average hardly anybody would be giving her second thoughts.
@@Halo4beatsB02 her attractiveness compels people to approach her, but her personality makes them want to stay.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 nope her personality is not that charismatic I've been around charismatic girls, they act nothing like this.
@@Halo4beatsB02 do you know her in real life or you only see her on CZcams like me? If you've actually been around Liz, then I'd understand your point.
@@lindokuhleshandu4024 if I were to give you an example of someone charming, think of tyrion lannister from game of thrones. Someone with humor, quick wit, but with humility and empathy and somewhat unsolipistic.
As much as I love your videos , I think it begins with pretty privilege. Of course that's not all , but I think we can't ignore social realities. Energy are a thing and I Believe yours attracts ppl and you have good vibes bc you constantly work on yourself Liz that's admirable. But the first part about the mesmerizing is purely pretty privilege first and you were benefiting from it ...
I agree!
I dont know who can be fooled by this. We all know its because she is goregous!!!
Anyone can benefit from it with a good lifestyle which she understood and put in the work to have that “pretty privilege”
What is beautiful is attractive and anybody can become beautiful with the good lifestyle
@@cosmicboy7188 disagree. You can’t ignore the problems that society puts us in. And you are proving my point , why working hard to deserve other ppl attention / get beauty privilege ? Can’t we be authentic self without involving physical aspects. Since I’m a subscriber for Liz, according to her older vids , ofc she worked hard and changed her mental state. But she also said that she was always considered beautiful. So yeah, pretty privilege is something you already have or chase for it , that has nothing to do with energies in the first place
@The_Audacity who said the opposite ? Y’all are not even aware of the world where you live. There’s social realities that are STUDIED. Yes. Your physical aspect can ATTRACT people more easily. Not necessarily make them stay. You are simply obsessed with assumption on us , about low self esteem while I’m being more impartial and not biased by anything such as insecurities that I could carry. Open a book and learn about social science , HERE we like factual things and WORK WITH FACTS and STUDIES ONLY.
She's literally like my inner voice pushing me to be the one 🤌🏻🍀Taking in all the positive energy✨
Liz, your video is magnificient. I am now ready to receive this knowledge. I Cherish the fact that it appears in my suggestions.
This video randomly played but I resonate very well with your mindset so I actually watched the whole vid. There are not a lot of people with true confidence in the world.
I love her confidence so much. I love how she knows how top teir she is. Too often in our society women don’t know how beautiful they are or when they do know and act confident, society tells them they really aren’t "all that". Pls never stop being this confident and cocky liz it’s so needed in our society for women to see that it’s ok to be confident.
You saying she's top tier shows us that you think she's top tier..
Yet when men do it we are arrogant
@@poopbutt6241 lol you're arrogant when youre not the top 20% apparently you have alot to learn. Look up wheatwaffles and faceandlms. Confident cute guy=confident, courageous. Unnatractive confident guy=arrogant or creepy
Lol stfu I'll let Sergi from omegle make you all submit 😂
theres confidence and then theres having a nasty ego, she is the ladder
I love how you talk to others and your confidence. I really think you have to write a book because i think you can people learn something from you 'cause you're a very open minded person 🥰🥰
It’s gotta be your humbleness! 🤣
"if i dont talk about myself that way, then who will?".... that phrase really left me frozen lol
I've never seen (or rarely) a person talking a lot about their good sides with so much authenticity and true honest visible happiness and not with fear or being like toxic or fake about these statements
❤️ily Liz, much respect to you
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Omg thank you so much Liz 🥺🥺🥺 I've commented on this video once but I want to do it again. You are really really amazing and fantastic! Thank you for your energy, your message, your inspiration, everything! Wish you all the best in the world ❤❤❤
I talk to the tree and really she's the best 😂thank U Liz I really appreciate wt U do fr us ❤U 're really the best keep up girl