There are basically 2 types of posts on r/AITA: 1. "What I did wasn't terrible at all, but I still feel kind of guilty for what I've done, so I just want to make sure that what I did was ok." 2. "What I did was absolutely terrible, I don't feel guilty at all, I just want to trick people into thinking what I did was ok."
You forgot #3: This is all fake and I just want attention. It may also be more "I want to do this if this thing ever happened, but first I want to know what the internet thinks."
@@melissas4874Or #4. My part in this isnt close to what happened, not like in just an error of perception trying to be honest. No, actually I was absolutely the pits. But I've cleaned up my part, and dirtied up theirs. Group hug? 😢 Also, these ones are like game hackers standing tall in the leaderboards with unhumanly high scores. For some reason they can trick their minds into believing the scores/group hug is earned glory.
Fact like “AITA for breaking up with my gf after she rejected me twice” bro it was ok and understandable the first time because she wanted to deal with a few things first like OP did, but after the second time and with what she said after the first rejection she had no reason besides she doesn’t want to marry him Plus both being 29 years old makes it even worse
I feel horrible for the guy in story 1. His cousin accusing him sexual assaulting her so he has so come out as gay just to save himself from going to jail and it’s only after his location was proven that they finally acknowledge she lied and he was innocent. I would have zero trust for any of my family ever again after that.
The guy whose wife kept calling him a fatty is totally nta. No, you shouldn't shame your postpartum wife for not losing their baby weight right away but if that postpartum wife is also being a giant bully and throwing out insults that she knows come with a lot of trauma for you, she loses the right to be protected from insults herself. It's pretty simple: if you can't take it, don't dish it out.
She’s had 6 months to drop the weight. She’s just been an verbally abusive spouse. She honestly sounds like an ex of mine who would do this crap all the time where she could be as mean to me as she wanted, but the moment I said anything back suddenly I’m the bad guy. This guy deserves better
@@Lawrence_Talbot if you're a male I would understand it seems like that's a long time but during that time you're not supposed to work out, your body is still healing. The only way to lose weight is breast feeding. Likely she was always this awful or she's mentally unwell due to PP. My sister seriously changed after her baby. She said awful things to me. Still hasnt apologized. I havent said anything since bc she told me she was mentally unstable and considering deleted herself. And she still hasn't lost her baby weight.
@@ForeverMe543 I used to be almost 250 pounds. I dropped 80 pounds in a summer and now am under 150. If I can do it, anyone can do it. There's a difference between not doing strenuous activity like cross fit vs just sitting on your butt and eating all day. You can diet, you walk around, etc very easy to lose some of the weight without killing yourself. My mom had 3 kids and was a runner. She took about a month to heal but by 6 months she was back to running marathons.
@@Lawrence_Talbot it's amazing how people like you assume people are just sitting on their asses feeding themselves all day. You clearly do not understand a lot of the issues are MENTAL. While there are people who do that, the MAJORITY are fighting their own demons just trying to get out of bed. Not everyone is YOU , not everyone has the same mentality as YOU. YOU are YOU. What worked for YOU doesn't mean it will work for SOMEONE ELSE. Granted people shouldn't be hateful and shit to other people but PP depression/depression pretty much destroys anything you feel.
That first boy has definitely done more than just kissing with his friends if he’s already been sleeping in the same bed and feeling “experimental”. Just saying…
My dad is old school and shared a house with a wife and two daughters. He was always willing to get the “feminine products.” He just found a reason to buy more items and probably hide pads in the cart. This would have been the 80s and 90s. God bless him. He’s a great dad
As a woman that is 4 months postpartum, I cannot imagine verbally abusing the father of my children for gaining weight along with me. Taking care of an infant is stressful and the combo of that stress, hormone changes for both partners, and surviving off barely any sleep, you eat what you can and when you can. Why would you bully someone you claim to love? Dude is NTA and should talk to a lawyer about securing his parental rights if she won’t work on changing her behavior. If she is verbally abusing him, what will stop her from aiming her toxicity at her children? I know my father went from my mom to us kids.
Agree, I think he found a narcissist and I highly suspect her tears were more a manipulation tactic than anything, the constantly calling on his fat is called projection. Unfortunately I think that guy is going to be a mess after a very long and unhappy marriage that's full of a lot of emotional abuse.
That sounds horrible and I agree. I would understand if she brought up concerns about his weight gain while understanding why it happened with all the stress. You want a healthy weight range to be able to grow old together but straight up insults like Fatty are disgusting.
I just hear Amber Turd’s condescending voice on tape “I did not HIT YOU. I SLAPPED you. That was a slap. You’re being such a little bitch right now” (something along those lines) being TOTALLY OKAY with abusing her husband and gaslighting him
Postpartum wife story: Wife is projecting. I hope she does not treat her husband like that regularly. I’m a woman and would never talk to my husband that way. I am here to build him up and help him feel inspired to take on challenges. We tease each other about stuff but don’t insult each other. We do not try to prey on each other’s insecurities to feel better about ourselves
Yes, building each other up. Agreed. My husband has a big front but I tell him what I love about him (both his mind, heart and body) instead of throwing insults at him. Sure, I don’t pretend to not know he isn’t fat, I am chubby too due to children and such but we are both working on it and I cannot imagine how that would feel if he wasn’t supportive but called me a fat ass etc 😰 it’s horrible of her to do so and I hope she realized how that felt all those times after he said it back.
What I think people aren't understanding about the first story is that the father didn't just suddenly institute the rules after finding out that his son was gay - he changed them to apply to males when he found out. He wasn't pretending his son wasn't gay, he blieved his son when he lied to him. And why are you all thinking that just because his son and his friend aren't in a relationship that they aren't having sex? I guarantee they have sex. The first time they were caught together kissing, they called it experimentation. How much more experimentation have the done.
Yeah, if D was a girl, the father would have already implemented the rule. The father perhaps needs to make that clearer to the son but the son is also still a kid wanting it his way not seeing things as an adult and especially not as a parent.
My ex told me during an argument that she "wanted to back hand me so bad." I told her, go ahead, and I'll be gone for good. I also told her that she might be spending a night in jail.
I don't understand abuse in a relationship... Verbal or physical..and then the attacker is suddenly the victim ?!? If you cannot respect me you don't deserve me
as a male victim of domestic abuse, hetero relationship, constantly physically and mentally abused my son. the law took her side. She literally chipped the caps off of my son's teeth with a knife when he was five(We had divorced by this stage), CPS did NOTHING to her and said I still had to allow visitation. She became 10,000.00 in arrears in child support at 30.00 A week, and the CPS did nothing. She was also an alcoholic, which I don't think anyone gets a pass for. This is what a real situation of a miscarriage of justice for domestic abuse looks like. If you are in a abusive relationship, get out, you will feel better immediately and you can start rebuilding your life sooner.
Son is 33 now, doing great. She left soon after the teeth incident, moved to NJ. She told him she was coming to visit several times, but never did. When he was 10, he told me that if she wanted to see him, he did not want to. Told him that was his decision. Never talked shit about my exes until my kids reached 18(one by each(tw0), but they both lived with me.@@_nan_nan_
On the first one, okay, she was taking him at face value with his insistence he WASN'T gay. She was trusting him that he was telling the truth there, and when he changed things up by admitting it, her rules were exactly the same, just modified for his updated information. That happens in one's adult life too. You say one thing and have standards impressed upon you, then update with new and game-changing information, standards will change for you. It sucks how he had to come out, in defense of himself, but he has an accepting and loving parent and needs to feel fortunate that she's not banning boys, including his best friend, or even worse. (I'm assuming this is mom, but I suppose it could be dad, too.) By her own admission, this was the standard while he insisted he was straight, so it's not like he's being clapped with new, harsher rules.
I never felt either way (neither pro nor anti), about marriage, personally. However, when the man I loved asked me to marry him, you're d*mn right I said "YES!" For him to even ask, after having long since been aware of my lukewarm feeling about the assumed necessity for such a ceremony, told me all that I needed to know. Marriage was important enough to _him._ We took our time, kept the wedding small-ish (52 guests), & have been enjoying each other for 33 years now. 🥂 That man is *not* the a-hole, & I hope he's doing alright.
Exactly! And that shows you love him. You don’t really mind either way but you know he needs it. That’s true love! Understanding, compromising and loving!
Correct he not the ahole she is. She asked for my time, he gave her another year, and after being together for 4 years total she still isn’t sure? Leave her ass and move on. He deserves way better than some chick playing games.
The lady who turned down two marriage proposals after a 4 year relationship IS the A-HOLE!!! I married my husband after 3 weeks and we're about to celebrate 30 years. You are either going to honor your commitment or your not, and if you don't know after 4 years of you love someone and communicate well, then your never will.
This reminds me of the movie 50 days of summer where the girl never wanted to get married but after breaking up with the guy she married someone else a year later.
one time in middle school a girl gave a boy midol when he was complaining about a headache and after she told everyone what it was we all watched him for feminine traits too lol.
I like these a lot. Keep it up. I honestly love listening to relationship problems because it low key makes me feel great about my marriage. Yea, we aren’t perfect, but we don’t call each other “fatty”. 😂
Yeah, the guy who was being bullied about his weight and called out his wife is NTAH. If I were her I would never say anything like that to my husband. That's so disrespectful.
Funny story related to the period story: my guy friend and i took the train into NYC. We were in a museum, can’t remember the name, and i got my period. I said to him, “when we leave here can we go to a grocery store?” And ma dude looks at me and straight up said “why do u have ur period or something?” I was like “…yeah😒” Thankfully, flow was light. However, i had no products. I also hate tampons. We went to a nearby grocery store and he kept handing me panty liners and those thick af pads that feel like diapers. I tried to explain the “levels” of flow and i’m a “level” 2 but he didn’t understand and just looked at me and said “ok u’re the expert imma go get some candy or some soda or something text me when u’re done”😂
The first one he is not the ah because if he would have enacted the rules before hand everyone would be coming at him for assuming the kid was gay without confirmation from him 🤷🏻♀️
I had a baby 8 months ago and my husband gained weight. He said he wanted to lose weight so I created a meal plan for him I changed how I cooked and encouraged him to start going to the gym because I already go and always been pretty active. He has now lost 10 pounds and is happy I’ve encouraged him for wanting to lose weight and change his diet. The wife shouldn’t have shamed her husband and he shouldn’t have made the comment to get back at her.
8:16 "It wasn't a punch, it was a slap" HmMmM, when have I _heard_ that one before?? 🤔🤔 I'm a woman (it's sad that I have to say this nowadays), and I say hold her accountable and leave her ass. She doesn't sound like she regrets what she has done. This behavior should not be acceptable anymore, for anyone.
That one about the guy getting called fat by the postpartum lady is NOT the A. I’m a woman and hypothetically if I had the audacity to call my husband fat after having a baby I’d slap myself because that’s stupid and hypocritical (no offense to postpartum women i understand that gaining weight can be a huge insecurity while being pregnant but I’m just saying in this scenario)
My initial reaction to the guy who wouldn't grab the tampons was "this guy sounds too precious", but then I remembered my girlfriend asked me to do the same thing and my response was that I knew I would buy the wrong thing so I wanted to go together.
If you ever worry about getting the right tampon then just get pads with wings. Even the light ones are supposed to last a few hours but if they dont you still have 10+ more. The person asking should either tell you exactly what they want or get it themselves. Better to get something than nothing especially if it could save time or theyre sick.
I think I am the only woman in the world who has never asked a man to go buy her tampons. I can do that shit myself, and I do not need a man to do it for me. I always keep extra and I make sure that I restock while I'm not on my period so that I don't get caught up without them. Sure I guess it's "sweet" if a guy will, but I really don't need it. Pull the fucking chair out for me, or open the car door for me instead.
I cannot imagine marrying someone and having a child with that person, then bullying that person for their body size. If my fiancé gained weight, my sole concern would be that if he’s u healthy then we have a lower chance of living the rest of our lives together.
3:20 She wasn't engaging in a "charade" that her son wasn't gay; she wasn't making assumptions that he was, and didn't enforce intimacy rules until such a time as her son clearly said that he was, in fact, gay. Now, whether or not he was intimate with his childhood friend is another matter. Maybe he is just a close friend, but if they both follow the rules then theyll prove that, and the rules get relaxed. So as a parent, no she isn't being an a-hole. 19:17 Married 25+ years here: Do NOT ever use your intimate knowledge of your partner against them. That goes DOUBLE for what they're sensitive about, especially because of childhood issues. It's also super disrespectful to your spouse to insult their appearance. If their weight gain is becoming an issue, there are sensitive and caring ways to address it. I've put on a lot of weight over the years (went from a size 8 to an 18) and i am currently on what we laughingly call a "slim-slow" plan, which basically means changing bad eating & other health habits with healthy ones. It's working, slowly, but this way I'm less likely to gain the weight back (which is kinda how I've gained so much; I'd lose a lot then gain it all back plus more). My hubby has been nothing but supportive with this. Even when we're fighting, he has NEVER called me fat or disparaged my appearance. And vice versa.
I'm a 44 year old man, husband and father. i am in charge of shoppuing, and I have never had issues gettting my wife or daughter tampons. My wife was so horrified the 1st time I offered to go get her some, "that's not a man's job." I was so weirded out by her response. Luckily she got over it quickly. Time for people on both sides(but especially guys)to get over period stigma.
As a child, you took Midol and thought you would transition, understandable. In his 40s, my dad took my sister and I's teen girl gummy vitamin instead of his, and thought the same thing! 😂 He thought they had estrogen in them or something, they don't, probably just more iron.
I had my son while i was in the military and my husband (also military) was stationed 2k miles away. I took care of the wee baby by myself AND got back in shape for my PT (fitness) test which was 6 months after my waiver was up (had my kid in may, off the waiver 1month after birth, PT test in January). Dude who called out his wife for being a jerk is NTA. People use "i had a baby" as an excuse for a lot of asinine things and rarely is there an actual condition that is genuinely stopping someone. its okay to want to take it easy after having a kid. But if youre going to be a jerk to your husband, then yeah; you deserve it turned around back on you.
I agree with you 100%. For the period products, I had a similar experience with my ex-husband (we were divorced by our 26 yrs old 😆). He felt so threatened in his (non) masculinity & absence of manhood that not only he wouldn't pick up anything like that for me, he wouldn't hold my purse in public. He also stopped going to fetch me cigarettes or alcohol at places they didn't know him because they would systematically ask for his ID. At 25 he was still looking like a teenager, as if not fully developed yet and he really resented that. Thing is it's not necessarily his looks, it's his overall attitude towards this that still to this day (I am 37 now) makes me see him as a boy and not a man at all. My dad & my step-dad used to call me the "couple's strong man". This story doesn't end there, but for now, yes. I got a strong hard working real man that I'm gonna cook dinner for and I am happy to do so since he doesn't mind at all holding my purse or buying feminine hygiene products for me ;)
My spouse buys them too no issues. It’s a bodily function- would the guy in the story refuse to buy other needs if she was as example home bound temporarily?
I agreed with all of your opinions on them as well. Am a girl so to answer your question about equality for those two separate posts - BOTH of those women & their support systems are completely the AH. Hitting isn't ever okay unless it's completely consensual, which this obviously wasn't. Hopefully he gets out of there. For new mom being verbally abusive - she's an AH too. Ik pregnancy & postpartum really mess with you but that's not an excuse to be verbally & emotionally abusive. Furthermore her running off crying felt manipulative AF. Genuinely hope they can work through it & be happy but wtf with those people.
As a woman, for story number two, I just have one thing to say.... DIVORCE! I don't know what happened or why, but I don't think hitting with force and intention is a sign of a respectful partner, good thing he didn't tolerated that and kept his distance. Hitting a man is not feminist, that was unnecessary violence and that is what violent people who have no respect for others do, period. Also... you mean to tell me this a-holes are out there being in relationships? No wonder our society is messed up.
Honestly if you propose twice and they turn you down, It’s clear that they aren’t going to change. It’s probably better to move on and find someone who wants to marry.
Can confirm, after my wife gave birth to our daughter, I had to go to the chemist to get her a fair few things. I was extremely out of my depth, thankfully a nice older lady saw my confusion and offered to help me. I told her I had just become a father and what I was looking for, we chatted, she was so excited for me. I got everything we needed and was back to my family before I knew it. Would I do this for a girl I just started dating? Probably not, but a serious partner/wife, of course...marriage is a team sport!
With the gay son. It all depends on your trust level with him. If you can trust him, trust him. Let him know what he loses if he loses that trust. If he has been untrustworthy then you should have done it sooner
Amir, you've got the indisputably best sign out message in the whole universe, I think. Thanks for putting out this important reminder full of humanity, positivity, love for others. Found you a few days ago and I'm a fan 🤩 much love to you!
To play Devil’s Advocate on the last story: When a woman is pregnant and post partum, there is a lot of body dysmorphia that is very common that is hard to explain. You might not feel it constantly, but a women’s body is permanently changed from having a baby. Some women bounce back and they hardly look different, others struggle a lot more to have a sense of normalcy, even with hard work such as strict diet and exercise. He hasn’t specified whether she was struggling with dysmorphia, but just because she hadn’t in the past, doesn’t mean she wasn’t struggling postpartum. His comeback could cause a lot of unintended damage l. She has no excuse to be calling him fatty and teasing him about his weight, whether or not he had trauma, but ESPECIALLY if he had trauma. A retaliation does not make you an asshole.
@@jurassicthunder oh I love working out. That doesn’t change how having a baby grow inside of you for 9 months fucks with your body for months afterward. Just say you don’t know how women work. (:
@@jurassicthunderi have never had kids but your organs literally move around and that takes a while and some ppls skin is more prone to bounce back faster than others . Then when you factor in hormones can keep your weight on even with exercise- so many factors go in to it . The women who don’t bounce right back carry so much internal shame to begin with it’s sad ppl can’t understand everyone is different. The baby fat is not caused by too much eating- it’s the pregnancy hormones deciding how much to store of what they are eating which is why some stay slim on pregnancy even though they are over eating vs non pregnant life.
The marriage one is exactly what happened to me many years ago. I was the one that said no. I dont like the idea of a marriage (also an atheist, and he wanted a church wedding), and i cant see the point of them. They strike me as an absolute waste of money and a cause of a huge amount of stress. At best you get some tax cuts. My (now ex) partner couldnt deal with that and took it as an indicator that i didnt love him, nor want to be with him. Wasnt the case, but he left anyway.
I love AITA when I'm on the bus or waiting just a few minutes for something. I think you should do more of these, the serious topics are important but you have good takes and some of the stories are insane reads, too.
love you amir & your videos. def would love some more reddit stories from you along side w/ your normal content. as a liberal who's been sick of the degenerates on my side, i love your take on things & love when ppl call out the bs no matter their political stances (thanks dad for instilling that in me, being able to call out your own side).
And as far as the last one, I would have told her, “since you had our baby, you have gained about 75lbs and you aren't as attractive as you were before and you need to hit the gym before I leave you, or cheat on you out of spite “🤷🏽♀️
Having boys sleep over and sleep on same bed 🛌 umm if it was a girl I'd say the same , different beds and doors open and not too many sleep overs in the first place period.
the one that really pissed me off was the guy not buying his former GF period products. like seriously? i was on facetime in walgreens with my girl making sure i got the right product. she dodged a bullet
Omg, your personal story about how you thought you were gonna transition from the period pain relief tablets really cracked me up!! Sorry, but it's hilarious because it's exactly the kind of thing a child's mind would come up with! So recognisable.. 😂😂
I agree. I have a son and would be just as angered if he had a gf who hit him as if one of my daughters had a bf that them. Makes me so annoyed girls get away with hitting in society and men have to often apologize for defending themselves.
Dude, that 7th Grade story of yours was adorably funny. Also, I've done that mission. Anyone gives you an odd look, you just go "What? I look like I need them?" works even better these days. lol
On the first post Parents don’t realize how much of a big mistake it is to start restricting your kid and putting more rules up when they tell you something confidential or personal to them. Like if you value having open communication with your kid, them coming to you with their problems and talking to you about things going on in their life you can’t restrict them like this once they tell you. I remember when I was a teenager every time I used to come to my mom with some personal information in my life she would always start restricting me and putting rules up around what I told her. Eventually, I just stop telling her things.
Dear Amir, your Midol story made me laugh and laugh. Thank you. It reminded me of when my two sisters and I would sent our younger brother to the corner store to purchase the largest Kotex box they had on hand😆. We still laugh about it, however my sweet brother said he would do anything for his sisters to this day. Thank you for sharing.
I love the Reddit vids! It would be great if you did more Amir, it’s a nice form of laid back content that you can do inbetween more serious videos that we can all enjoy
The mom in the first one was a bit late with the new rule, but as a straight person I thought parents only did that so someone doesn't end up with a pregnant teen so if he's gay its a non-issue who comes over.
Cooter cat. I love you 😂❤ You're so funny & you're friends are lucky to have you. My husband will get me Midol, tampons, candy etc... It really shouldn't be a big deal.
I agreed with everything, I'm glad those on reddit did too. Makes me feel like there's still common sense in this world lol. I'd love more of these type of videos
Every single time I tell my bf I'm dying because of my cycle he volunteers to go get things for me, he's attentive asking what he can do to help and will sacrifice our time together to make sure I'm taken care of. It's a part of life a man that can't handle that is immature
Why is an almost 17 year old having sleep overs in the same bed? Male or female seems unecessary. That stopped with my friend at like 13. Then we slepted seperately then stopped sleep overs period.
The girl who called her husband fat needed to hear that insult. A lot of women get away with saying mean things but for some reason you can't say mean things back, not even if you're a woman yourself. Lot of girls need to hear the truth instead of people softening their words for them. Look at the trend of this 'dululu'. Even my friend tells me to support her delusions instead of being blunt with her. I love her, but if i can't be honest with you because you don't want to hear reality is a issue. Thankfully she doesn't expect really crazy things, but if it got to that point, i would just tell her how it is.
The guy with the wife who is calling him a fatty... knowing his trauma. WoW... She's a real piece of work. She may have said that she doesn't care about her weight in the past but she's a woman... every woman is self-conscious about their weight, so I call BS on that. Also because she actually ran away crying, if she really didn't care - it wouldn't have been an issue and she could have just said, I'll lose it in time. I would know about the whole self-conscious thing... I went through anorexia because of it. So honestly, if that was me - I would've probs said worse to her. Being unhappy with how you look is not a reason to hawk on a man who has put his usual routine on hold, to be a father to his kid. Hell, because I've gone through what I have, I don't hawk on my sister who knows she needs to lose weight... I don't "remind" her of it... it started with people hawking on me because I was getting a little chunky. So I am not going to be an asshole and do the same to my sister.
There are basically 2 types of posts on r/AITA:
1. "What I did wasn't terrible at all, but I still feel kind of guilty for what I've done, so I just want to make sure that what I did was ok."
2. "What I did was absolutely terrible, I don't feel guilty at all, I just want to trick people into thinking what I did was ok."
😂 Ayo man what are you doing here
Basically. Half the posts I see on there I can't believe because how can someone be that stupid?
And it’s always delightful to watch it backfire on the number two people.
You forgot #3: This is all fake and I just want attention. It may also be more "I want to do this if this thing ever happened, but first I want to know what the internet thinks."
@@melissas4874Or #4. My part in this isnt close to what happened, not like in just an error of perception trying to be honest. No, actually I was absolutely the pits. But I've cleaned up my part, and dirtied up theirs. Group hug? 😢
Also, these ones are like game hackers standing tall in the leaderboards with unhumanly high scores. For some reason they can trick their minds into believing the scores/group hug is earned glory.
The fact that most of these people didn't do anything wrong but people still want to make them think they did is crazy.
For real though!! Insane to me the way society's interactions seem to go these days! Like WHAT!?!?👀
Gaslighting at its finest
Fact like “AITA for breaking up with my gf after she rejected me twice” bro it was ok and understandable the first time because she wanted to deal with a few things first like OP did, but after the second time and with what she said after the first rejection she had no reason besides she doesn’t want to marry him
Plus both being 29 years old makes it even worse
I feel horrible for the guy in story 1. His cousin accusing him sexual assaulting her so he has so come out as gay just to save himself from going to jail and it’s only after his location was proven that they finally acknowledge she lied and he was innocent. I would have zero trust for any of my family ever again after that.
@@Lawrence_Talbot same honestly
That Midol story was funny AF. Also, an honerable man cuts his ride short to grab period products for his daughter. Respect.
The guy whose wife kept calling him a fatty is totally nta. No, you shouldn't shame your postpartum wife for not losing their baby weight right away but if that postpartum wife is also being a giant bully and throwing out insults that she knows come with a lot of trauma for you, she loses the right to be protected from insults herself. It's pretty simple: if you can't take it, don't dish it out.
She's definitely have post partum and taking it out on him trying not to feel bad about herself
They need help
She’s had 6 months to drop the weight. She’s just been an verbally abusive spouse. She honestly sounds like an ex of mine who would do this crap all the time where she could be as mean to me as she wanted, but the moment I said anything back suddenly I’m the bad guy. This guy deserves better
@@Lawrence_Talbot if you're a male I would understand it seems like that's a long time but during that time you're not supposed to work out, your body is still healing. The only way to lose weight is breast feeding.
Likely she was always this awful or she's mentally unwell due to PP.
My sister seriously changed after her baby. She said awful things to me. Still hasnt apologized. I havent said anything since bc she told me she was mentally unstable and considering deleted herself. And she still hasn't lost her baby weight.
@@ForeverMe543 I used to be almost 250 pounds. I dropped 80 pounds in a summer and now am under 150. If I can do it, anyone can do it. There's a difference between not doing strenuous activity like cross fit vs just sitting on your butt and eating all day. You can diet, you walk around, etc very easy to lose some of the weight without killing yourself. My mom had 3 kids and was a runner. She took about a month to heal but by 6 months she was back to running marathons.
@@Lawrence_Talbot it's amazing how people like you assume people are just sitting on their asses feeding themselves all day. You clearly do not understand a lot of the issues are MENTAL. While there are people who do that, the MAJORITY are fighting their own demons just trying to get out of bed. Not everyone is YOU , not everyone has the same mentality as YOU. YOU are YOU. What worked for YOU doesn't mean it will work for SOMEONE ELSE. Granted people shouldn't be hateful and shit to other people but PP depression/depression pretty much destroys anything you feel.
That first boy has definitely done more than just kissing with his friends if he’s already been sleeping in the same bed and feeling “experimental”. Just saying…
My dad is old school and shared a house with a wife and two daughters. He was always willing to get the “feminine products.” He just found a reason to buy more items and probably hide pads in the cart. This would have been the 80s and 90s. God bless him. He’s a great dad
My dad used to do the same 😂 always came back with random stuff we didnt need
I genuinely dont get why some guys are embarrassed to grab period products, we know (well, for the most part) that it isnt for you 😂😂
It’s like equivalent to hiding toilet paper 😂 you need it it’s a bodily function it’s okay
Proof you got a woman or your delusional.
Fr, if anything, seeing a guy buying period products is a big sign that says "I'm A Good Boyfriend/Husband/Father!"
The one denying the proposal sounds like she waiting for someone better to come along and using the boyfriend.
As a woman that is 4 months postpartum, I cannot imagine verbally abusing the father of my children for gaining weight along with me. Taking care of an infant is stressful and the combo of that stress, hormone changes for both partners, and surviving off barely any sleep, you eat what you can and when you can. Why would you bully someone you claim to love?
Dude is NTA and should talk to a lawyer about securing his parental rights if she won’t work on changing her behavior. If she is verbally abusing him, what will stop her from aiming her toxicity at her children? I know my father went from my mom to us kids.
Agree, I think he found a narcissist and I highly suspect her tears were more a manipulation tactic than anything, the constantly calling on his fat is called projection. Unfortunately I think that guy is going to be a mess after a very long and unhappy marriage that's full of a lot of emotional abuse.
That sounds horrible and I agree.
I would understand if she brought up concerns about his weight gain while understanding why it happened with all the stress. You want a healthy weight range to be able to grow old together but straight up insults like Fatty are disgusting.
"She wanted me to add that it was a slap not a punch" Chris Brown entered the chat.
I just hear Amber Turd’s condescending voice on tape “I did not HIT YOU. I SLAPPED you. That was a slap. You’re being such a little bitch right now” (something along those lines) being TOTALLY OKAY with abusing her husband and gaslighting him
Postpartum wife story: Wife is projecting. I hope she does not treat her husband like that regularly. I’m a woman and would never talk to my husband that way. I am here to build him up and help him feel inspired to take on challenges. We tease each other about stuff but don’t insult each other. We do not try to prey on each other’s insecurities to feel better about ourselves
Yes, building each other up. Agreed. My husband has a big front but I tell him what I love about him (both his mind, heart and body) instead of throwing insults at him. Sure, I don’t pretend to not know he isn’t fat, I am chubby too due to children and such but we are both working on it and I cannot imagine how that would feel if he wasn’t supportive but called me a fat ass etc 😰 it’s horrible of her to do so and I hope she realized how that felt all those times after he said it back.
Consider that the gay child is only angry because he's been manipulating the "rules for girls" since those rules wouldn't technically apply to him.
What I think people aren't understanding about the first story is that the father didn't just suddenly institute the rules after finding out that his son was gay - he changed them to apply to males when he found out. He wasn't pretending his son wasn't gay, he blieved his son when he lied to him. And why are you all thinking that just because his son and his friend aren't in a relationship that they aren't having sex? I guarantee they have sex. The first time they were caught together kissing, they called it experimentation. How much more experimentation have the done.
Yeah, if D was a girl, the father would have already implemented the rule. The father perhaps needs to make that clearer to the son but the son is also still a kid wanting it his way not seeing things as an adult and especially not as a parent.
My ex told me during an argument that she "wanted to back hand me so bad." I told her, go ahead, and I'll be gone for good. I also told her that she might be spending a night in jail.
And then what happened? Tell the full story, it's interesting
you can tell by the thumbnail that it’s gonna be another juicy video💀
I don't understand abuse in a relationship... Verbal or physical..and then the attacker is suddenly the victim ?!? If you cannot respect me you don't deserve me
Not my husband loading up the shoppingcart as soon as the period products are on sale and I can't get to the store 😂
as a male victim of domestic abuse, hetero relationship, constantly physically and mentally abused my son. the law took her side. She literally chipped the caps off of my son's teeth with a knife when he was five(We had divorced by this stage), CPS did NOTHING to her and said I still had to allow visitation. She became 10,000.00 in arrears in child support at 30.00 A week, and the CPS did nothing. She was also an alcoholic, which I don't think anyone gets a pass for. This is what a real situation of a miscarriage of justice for domestic abuse looks like. If you are in a abusive relationship, get out, you will feel better immediately and you can start rebuilding your life sooner.
How are you and your son doing now ? Do you still hear about her ?
Sending you hugs
Son is 33 now, doing great. She left soon after the teeth incident, moved to NJ. She told him she was coming to visit several times, but never did. When he was 10, he told me that if she wanted to see him, he did not want to. Told him that was his decision. Never talked shit about my exes until my kids reached 18(one by each(tw0), but they both lived with me.@@_nan_nan_
Are you able to due court for not enforcing it same as they do for fathers?
nobody would touch it.@@ElinWinblad
Ive seen kids being take from single mothers for less than that, some ppl just dont wanna do their job.
On the first one, okay, she was taking him at face value with his insistence he WASN'T gay. She was trusting him that he was telling the truth there, and when he changed things up by admitting it, her rules were exactly the same, just modified for his updated information. That happens in one's adult life too. You say one thing and have standards impressed upon you, then update with new and game-changing information, standards will change for you. It sucks how he had to come out, in defense of himself, but he has an accepting and loving parent and needs to feel fortunate that she's not banning boys, including his best friend, or even worse. (I'm assuming this is mom, but I suppose it could be dad, too.) By her own admission, this was the standard while he insisted he was straight, so it's not like he's being clapped with new, harsher rules.
I never felt either way (neither pro nor anti), about marriage, personally. However, when the man I loved asked me to marry him, you're d*mn right I said "YES!"
For him to even ask, after having long since been aware of my lukewarm feeling about the assumed necessity for such a ceremony, told me all that I needed to know. Marriage was important enough to _him._
We took our time, kept the wedding small-ish (52 guests), & have been enjoying each other for 33 years now. 🥂
That man is *not* the a-hole, & I hope he's doing alright.
Exactly! And that shows you love him. You don’t really mind either way but you know he needs it. That’s true love! Understanding, compromising and loving!
Correct he not the ahole she is. She asked for my time, he gave her another year, and after being together for 4 years total she still isn’t sure? Leave her ass and move on. He deserves way better than some chick playing games.
The lady who turned down two marriage proposals after a 4 year relationship IS the A-HOLE!!! I married my husband after 3 weeks and we're about to celebrate 30 years.
You are either going to honor your commitment or your not, and if you don't know after 4 years of you love someone and communicate well, then your never will.
This reminds me of the movie 50 days of summer where the girl never wanted to get married but after breaking up with the guy she married someone else a year later.
@@namename9998500 days of Summer
🤣The Midol story made me chuckle. That's hilarious and adorable. Definitely do more AITA stories.
one time in middle school a girl gave a boy midol when he was complaining about a headache and after she told everyone what it was we all watched him for feminine traits too lol.
The first parent is correct. You are allowed to change the rules and honestly those rules have been in place for everyone period.
I like these a lot. Keep it up. I honestly love listening to relationship problems because it low key makes me feel great about my marriage. Yea, we aren’t perfect, but we don’t call each other “fatty”. 😂
Yeah, the guy who was being bullied about his weight and called out his wife is NTAH. If I were her I would never say anything like that to my husband. That's so disrespectful.
Funny story related to the period story: my guy friend and i took the train into NYC. We were in a museum, can’t remember the name, and i got my period. I said to him, “when we leave here can we go to a grocery store?” And ma dude looks at me and straight up said “why do u have ur period or something?” I was like “…yeah😒” Thankfully, flow was light. However, i had no products. I also hate tampons. We went to a nearby grocery store and he kept handing me panty liners and those thick af pads that feel like diapers. I tried to explain the “levels” of flow and i’m a “level” 2 but he didn’t understand and just looked at me and said “ok u’re the expert imma go get some candy or some soda or something text me when u’re done”😂
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The first one he is not the ah because if he would have enacted the rules before hand everyone would be coming at him for assuming the kid was gay without confirmation from him 🤷🏻♀️
I had a baby 8 months ago and my husband gained weight. He said he wanted to lose weight so I created a meal plan for him I changed how I cooked and encouraged him to start going to the gym because I already go and always been pretty active. He has now lost 10 pounds and is happy I’ve encouraged him for wanting to lose weight and change his diet. The wife shouldn’t have shamed her husband and he shouldn’t have made the comment to get back at her.
8:16 "It wasn't a punch, it was a slap" HmMmM, when have I _heard_ that one before?? 🤔🤔
I'm a woman (it's sad that I have to say this nowadays), and I say hold her accountable and leave her ass. She doesn't sound like she regrets what she has done. This behavior should not be acceptable anymore, for anyone.
Maybe her name is Amber, too?
That one about the guy getting called fat by the postpartum lady is NOT the A. I’m a woman and hypothetically if I had the audacity to call my husband fat after having a baby I’d slap myself because that’s stupid and hypocritical
(no offense to postpartum women i understand that gaining weight can be a huge insecurity while being pregnant but I’m just saying in this scenario)
“Cootu cat *Rawr!* scares me…”
For that alone, i subbed.
That made me laugh
Lmfao
My initial reaction to the guy who wouldn't grab the tampons was "this guy sounds too precious", but then I remembered my girlfriend asked me to do the same thing and my response was that I knew I would buy the wrong thing so I wanted to go together.
The top factir thhat shows the boyfriend is an asshole was the response really.
If you ever worry about getting the right tampon then just get pads with wings. Even the light ones are supposed to last a few hours but if they dont you still have 10+ more. The person asking should either tell you exactly what they want or get it themselves. Better to get something than nothing especially if it could save time or theyre sick.
That's why we send pics and descriptions
But then again my mom always buys the wrong kind when I send her and she's a woman
XD see I just send her pictures of the box I'm holding like "is this the one? "
I think I am the only woman in the world who has never asked a man to go buy her tampons. I can do that shit myself, and I do not need a man to do it for me. I always keep extra and I make sure that I restock while I'm not on my period so that I don't get caught up without them. Sure I guess it's "sweet" if a guy will, but I really don't need it. Pull the fucking chair out for me, or open the car door for me instead.
I cannot imagine marrying someone and having a child with that person, then bullying that person for their body size. If my fiancé gained weight, my sole concern would be that if he’s u healthy then we have a lower chance of living the rest of our lives together.
3:20
She wasn't engaging in a "charade" that her son wasn't gay; she wasn't making assumptions that he was, and didn't enforce intimacy rules until such a time as her son clearly said that he was, in fact, gay.
Now, whether or not he was intimate with his childhood friend is another matter. Maybe he is just a close friend, but if they both follow the rules then theyll prove that, and the rules get relaxed.
So as a parent, no she isn't being an a-hole.
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Married 25+ years here:
Do NOT ever use your intimate knowledge of your partner against them. That goes DOUBLE for what they're sensitive about, especially because of childhood issues. It's also super disrespectful to your spouse to insult their appearance. If their weight gain is becoming an issue, there are sensitive and caring ways to address it. I've put on a lot of weight over the years (went from a size 8 to an 18) and i am currently on what we laughingly call a "slim-slow" plan, which basically means changing bad eating & other health habits with healthy ones. It's working, slowly, but this way I'm less likely to gain the weight back (which is kinda how I've gained so much; I'd lose a lot then gain it all back plus more). My hubby has been nothing but supportive with this. Even when we're fighting, he has NEVER called me fat or disparaged my appearance. And vice versa.
I'm a 44 year old man, husband and father. i am in charge of shoppuing, and I have never had issues gettting my wife or daughter tampons. My wife was so horrified the 1st time I offered to go get her some, "that's not a man's job." I was so weirded out by her response. Luckily she got over it quickly. Time for people on both sides(but especially guys)to get over period stigma.
As a child, you took Midol and thought you would transition, understandable. In his 40s, my dad took my sister and I's teen girl gummy vitamin instead of his, and thought the same thing! 😂 He thought they had estrogen in them or something, they don't, probably just more iron.
Lol if only he knew that approximately 5-10% of a man’s natural testosterone is converted to estrogen 😂
Story #2 he is an abused man and in denial about it. That's just crazy. It's just the first time she will hit him.
Yeah and is doubling down on the physics abuse, by gaslight lung, he needs to run fast and far.
"If any of my girlfriends need a period"
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I mean he's not wrong 🤣 we do need that shit even tho it's awful
I had my son while i was in the military and my husband (also military) was stationed 2k miles away. I took care of the wee baby by myself AND got back in shape for my PT (fitness) test which was 6 months after my waiver was up (had my kid in may, off the waiver 1month after birth, PT test in January). Dude who called out his wife for being a jerk is NTA. People use "i had a baby" as an excuse for a lot of asinine things and rarely is there an actual condition that is genuinely stopping someone. its okay to want to take it easy after having a kid. But if youre going to be a jerk to your husband, then yeah; you deserve it turned around back on you.
I agree with you 100%. For the period products, I had a similar experience with my ex-husband (we were divorced by our 26 yrs old 😆). He felt so threatened in his (non) masculinity & absence of manhood that not only he wouldn't pick up anything like that for me, he wouldn't hold my purse in public. He also stopped going to fetch me cigarettes or alcohol at places they didn't know him because they would systematically ask for his ID. At 25 he was still looking like a teenager, as if not fully developed yet and he really resented that. Thing is it's not necessarily his looks, it's his overall attitude towards this that still to this day (I am 37 now) makes me see him as a boy and not a man at all. My dad & my step-dad used to call me the "couple's strong man". This story doesn't end there, but for now, yes. I got a strong hard working real man that I'm gonna cook dinner for and I am happy to do so since he doesn't mind at all holding my purse or buying feminine hygiene products for me ;)
My spouse buys them too no issues. It’s a bodily function- would the guy in the story refuse to buy other needs if she was as example home bound temporarily?
I agreed with all of your opinions on them as well. Am a girl so to answer your question about equality for those two separate posts - BOTH of those women & their support systems are completely the AH. Hitting isn't ever okay unless it's completely consensual, which this obviously wasn't. Hopefully he gets out of there. For new mom being verbally abusive - she's an AH too. Ik pregnancy & postpartum really mess with you but that's not an excuse to be verbally & emotionally abusive. Furthermore her running off crying felt manipulative AF. Genuinely hope they can work through it & be happy but wtf with those people.
As a woman, for story number two, I just have one thing to say.... DIVORCE!
I don't know what happened or why, but I don't think hitting with force and intention is a sign of a respectful partner, good thing he didn't tolerated that and kept his distance.
Hitting a man is not feminist, that was unnecessary violence and that is what violent people who have no respect for others do, period.
Also... you mean to tell me this a-holes are out there being in relationships? No wonder our society is messed up.
Honestly if you propose twice and they turn you down, It’s clear that they aren’t going to change. It’s probably better to move on and find someone who wants to marry.
YES more of these please, your commentary is too funny and the TRUTH
😂😂😂the cootercat got me... so sweet of you to help a girl in need
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Can confirm, after my wife gave birth to our daughter, I had to go to the chemist to get her a fair few things. I was extremely out of my depth, thankfully a nice older lady saw my confusion and offered to help me. I told her I had just become a father and what I was looking for, we chatted, she was so excited for me. I got everything we needed and was back to my family before I knew it. Would I do this for a girl I just started dating? Probably not, but a serious partner/wife, of course...marriage is a team sport!
With the gay son. It all depends on your trust level with him. If you can trust him, trust him. Let him know what he loses if he loses that trust. If he has been untrustworthy then you should have done it sooner
Postpartum depression isn’t *not* an excuse or justification to be mentally abuse you’re husband.
I love these Reddit stories it's a nice break from politics! Hope you do more 😊
Amir, you've got the indisputably best sign out message in the whole universe, I think. Thanks for putting out this important reminder full of humanity, positivity, love for others. Found you a few days ago and I'm a fan 🤩 much love to you!
Yes! Please do more of these. I love your side commentary and I like hearing your perspective.
Oh, lol…that Midol story was adorable! 😂
To play Devil’s Advocate on the last story:
When a woman is pregnant and post partum, there is a lot of body dysmorphia that is very common that is hard to explain. You might not feel it constantly, but a women’s body is permanently changed from having a baby. Some women bounce back and they hardly look different, others struggle a lot more to have a sense of normalcy, even with hard work such as strict diet and exercise.
He hasn’t specified whether she was struggling with dysmorphia, but just because she hadn’t in the past, doesn’t mean she wasn’t struggling postpartum. His comeback could cause a lot of unintended damage l.
She has no excuse to be calling him fatty and teasing him about his weight, whether or not he had trauma, but ESPECIALLY if he had trauma. A retaliation does not make you an asshole.
bunch of excuses just say you don't like working out.
@@jurassicthunder oh I love working out. That doesn’t change how having a baby grow inside of you for 9 months fucks with your body for months afterward. Just say you don’t know how women work. (:
@@TheDrawmaniacwomen making excuses and never taking accountability. classic.
@@jurassicthunderu expect a woman who grew a whole ass baby to immediately loose weight Imao grow up buddy
@@jurassicthunderi have never had kids but your organs literally move around and that takes a while and some ppls skin is more prone to bounce back faster than others . Then when you factor in hormones can keep your weight on even with exercise- so many factors go in to it . The women who don’t bounce right back carry so much internal shame to begin with it’s sad ppl can’t understand everyone is different. The baby fat is not caused by too much eating- it’s the pregnancy hormones deciding how much to store of what they are eating which is why some stay slim on pregnancy even though they are over eating vs non pregnant life.
I love are you the A-hole series!!!! These were great. Not surprisingly, I agreed with your opinion.
The marriage one is exactly what happened to me many years ago. I was the one that said no. I dont like the idea of a marriage (also an atheist, and he wanted a church wedding), and i cant see the point of them. They strike me as an absolute waste of money and a cause of a huge amount of stress. At best you get some tax cuts.
My (now ex) partner couldnt deal with that and took it as an indicator that i didnt love him, nor want to be with him. Wasnt the case, but he left anyway.
I love AITA when I'm on the bus or waiting just a few minutes for something. I think you should do more of these, the serious topics are important but you have good takes and some of the stories are insane reads, too.
love you amir & your videos. def would love some more reddit stories from you along side w/ your normal content. as a liberal who's been sick of the degenerates on my side, i love your take on things & love when ppl call out the bs no matter their political stances (thanks dad for instilling that in me, being able to call out your own side).
Totally agree. He's right, I mean the kids need boundaries... But, It's too late for that I think . 🤣🤣🤣
And as far as the last one, I would have told her, “since you had our baby, you have gained about 75lbs and you aren't as attractive as you were before and you need to hit the gym before I leave you, or cheat on you out of spite “🤷🏽♀️
Amir your Midol story made me choke on my breakfast and I can’t stop laughing 😂😂😂
Lmaoooo I was traumatized 😂😂
Having boys sleep over and sleep on same bed 🛌 umm if it was a girl I'd say the same , different beds and doors open and not too many sleep overs in the first place period.
My sleep overs were always in sane bed no matter whose house I was at. Nothing ever happened because we were all friends.
More videos like this! Super fun topic, and you're a very level-headed person to hold court on AITA issues
the one that really pissed me off was the guy not buying his former GF period products. like seriously? i was on facetime in walgreens with my girl making sure i got the right product. she dodged a bullet
Omg, your personal story about how you thought you were gonna transition from the period pain relief tablets really cracked me up!! Sorry, but it's hilarious because it's exactly the kind of thing a child's mind would come up with! So recognisable.. 😂😂
15:40 - I almost choked more than once in not very long because of this story. 😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for sharing that story!!
This should become a series you do
That cat saying "huh" around a minute in 💀 LMFAO 🤣🤣🤣
The guy whose girlfriend wouldn't marry him is not the AH. Tbh he wouldn't have been the AH if he broke up with her the first time.
I agree. I have a son and would be just as angered if he had a gf who hit him as if one of my daughters had a bf that them. Makes me so annoyed girls get away with hitting in society and men have to often apologize for defending themselves.
Dude, that 7th Grade story of yours was adorably funny. Also, I've done that mission. Anyone gives you an odd look, you just go "What? I look like I need them?" works even better these days. lol
On the first post Parents don’t realize how much of a big mistake it is to start restricting your kid and putting more rules up when they tell you something confidential or personal to them. Like if you value having open communication with your kid, them coming to you with their problems and talking to you about things going on in their life you can’t restrict them like this once they tell you. I remember when I was a teenager every time I used to come to my mom with some personal information in my life she would always start restricting me and putting rules up around what I told her. Eventually, I just stop telling her things.
ANY vids where you express your opinions.....I'M HERE FOR IT!!!! ❤
Dear Amir, your Midol story made me laugh and laugh. Thank you. It reminded me of when my two sisters and I would sent our younger brother to the corner store to purchase the largest Kotex box they had on hand😆. We still laugh about it, however my sweet brother said he would do anything for his sisters to this day. Thank you for sharing.
I love the Reddit vids! It would be great if you did more Amir, it’s a nice form of laid back content that you can do inbetween more serious videos that we can all enjoy
Please do more of these! I love listening to the crazy stories and your opinions. 💞
I had to look up what AITA means😂we have acronyms for everything now
Your cooter cat story had me rolling. Best laugh of the day for sure 😹😹😹
Thanks for that 💖
The mom in the first one was a bit late with the new rule, but as a straight person I thought parents only did that so someone doesn't end up with a pregnant teen so if he's gay its a non-issue who comes over.
These are great! I really enjoy these. Bringing back old school "Dear Abby", "Dear Amir" should call this stuff.
Cooter cat. I love you 😂❤ You're so funny & you're friends are lucky to have you. My husband will get me Midol, tampons, candy etc... It really shouldn't be a big deal.
I agreed with everything, I'm glad those on reddit did too. Makes me feel like there's still common sense in this world lol. I'd love more of these type of videos
Amir, you just rock. I adore you! Keep being you, you're perfect.
Every single time I tell my bf I'm dying because of my cycle he volunteers to go get things for me, he's attentive asking what he can do to help and will sacrifice our time together to make sure I'm taken care of. It's a part of life a man that can't handle that is immature
Thanks for the random motivational message at the end, needed that
yess you do these kind of reaction videos really well ahah i love ur opinions on them. u should make this a series!!
Why is an almost 17 year old having sleep overs in the same bed? Male or female seems unecessary. That stopped with my friend at like 13. Then we slepted seperately then stopped sleep overs period.
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"Cooter Cat"!!!
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Good Lord! I love that! ❤️. You're awesome!
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Lol RAWR 😺
so funny.
This is my favorite AITA
I've seen on YT yet.
I love it, please do them daily. 😂
Amir looks like the stable and grown-up version of Franklin the Turtle.
I always was called him in elementary school 💀😭
@@amirxodom I do love your videos, congrats on the channel growth.
I screamed when he said “equal rights equal fights”. I say that shit all the time 😂
When you said you were scared of the cooter cat, I died laughing
It's the "ooooh", for me 😂! @1:21.
My Man just buys everything plus chocolates 🍫 For me and our daughter 💕
The girl who called her husband fat needed to hear that insult. A lot of women get away with saying mean things but for some reason you can't say mean things back, not even if you're a woman yourself.
Lot of girls need to hear the truth instead of people softening their words for them. Look at the trend of this 'dululu'.
Even my friend tells me to support her delusions instead of being blunt with her. I love her, but if i can't be honest with you because you don't want to hear reality is a issue. Thankfully she doesn't expect really crazy things, but if it got to that point, i would just tell her how it is.
The husband who had his wife calling him fat no he's not an asshole she deserved everything she got
I loveee this type of content from u! It was so enjoyable to hear ur opinion on these random stories
I'm never forgetting "if my girls need a period" lmao
The guy with the wife who is calling him a fatty... knowing his trauma. WoW... She's a real piece of work. She may have said that she doesn't care about her weight in the past but she's a woman... every woman is self-conscious about their weight, so I call BS on that. Also because she actually ran away crying, if she really didn't care - it wouldn't have been an issue and she could have just said, I'll lose it in time. I would know about the whole self-conscious thing... I went through anorexia because of it. So honestly, if that was me - I would've probs said worse to her. Being unhappy with how you look is not a reason to hawk on a man who has put his usual routine on hold, to be a father to his kid.
Hell, because I've gone through what I have, I don't hawk on my sister who knows she needs to lose weight... I don't "remind" her of it... it started with people hawking on me because I was getting a little chunky. So I am not going to be an asshole and do the same to my sister.
I like your usual content, but this was fun too. Keep doing videos like this!
What a great video! I loved your responses 😂 these types of videos are great I feel like they offer a little bit of something to everyone!