Finding Love When You Are A Single Mom Ft Kate Actress

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  • čas přidán 21. 08. 2024

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  • @msorosaine8283
    @msorosaine8283 Před 3 lety +172

    Who is single like me with a kid and fears to fall for someone who takes relationship for granted

  • @audrieashiali7437
    @audrieashiali7437 Před 3 lety +138

    I honestly love the two of you. I got my baby at 17 and I became the village laughing stock hmmmm. That didn't bar me from achieving my dreams. The journey hasn't been easy but I've hustled to be where I am today, currently a high school teacher of English language and literature in Bahrain.
    The sky is the limit and my baby is 13 years today.

  • @judithnjoroge5338
    @judithnjoroge5338 Před 3 lety +68

    I was brought up by stepdad, the best stepdad ever, I love him so much

    • @FashionableStepMum
      @FashionableStepMum  Před 3 lety +2

      That is amazing.. such stories inspire a lot

    • @jainejaine3442
      @jainejaine3442 Před 3 lety +1

      Thank you for encouragement

    • @blessedfela1515
      @blessedfela1515 Před 3 lety

      I hope my daughter says this one day...God

    • @favoredh
      @favoredh Před 3 lety +1

      I wish my son says this one day 😢😢😢😢, the step dad is a living hell to him but I had to say no just the other day,.. Saitaaaaaan is a lier! Am sorry my son I was kind of desperate single mama 😭

  • @sonniewamuyu8826
    @sonniewamuyu8826 Před 3 lety +39

    Tiz has really changed alot i got going in my mind....am a single mom of 2months old baby na am only 18yrs...I was feeling like the world is over...watching tiz has answered so many questions na i feel better thanks kate you such an inspiration 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

  • @favouredwoman87
    @favouredwoman87 Před 3 lety +34

    There is love after being a single mum. I was a single mum who feared falling in love but I meet a man and he changed my whole life

  • @njambi1860
    @njambi1860 Před 3 lety +21

    Am a single mum of 5yrs old gal and am sooo glad I got to listen to this imeni inspire sana keep it up i'v learn alot

  • @chachakamoni7627
    @chachakamoni7627 Před 3 lety +8

    I am a single mum hustling for my daughter and trying to recover what I lost, especially with school. I know that my goal of success is achievable and my daughter will grow to be a queen

  • @MsRombo
    @MsRombo Před 3 lety +14

    BIG LESSON I PICKED FROM THIS...BE YOURSELF...EVERYTHING ELSE FALLS INTO PLACE...

  • @carolmbaire
    @carolmbaire Před 3 lety +20

    Single mum of 2. Am glad to have listened to you both

  • @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466
    @wanjirukabuchiofficial8466 Před 3 lety +13

    I was raised by a step dad and although our relationship is not 100% but I love him so much

  • @liliannyakundi7104
    @liliannyakundi7104 Před 3 lety +8

    Am not ashamed ...I got pregnant at 15...can say my parents pushed me more so my mum...but I forgave her...and am a happy mum ...my son means the world to me...

  • @pamziziqueenworld4792
    @pamziziqueenworld4792 Před 3 lety +3

    I have been single mum of 3 .... separated with baby daddy with very young babies...fear of falling in love again ...but who is God. I found love that changed my life...thanks to my hubby .

  • @KeruboNyantika
    @KeruboNyantika Před 10 měsíci +4

    Who came back to listen to interview

  • @jenniferchichi7641
    @jenniferchichi7641 Před 3 lety +21

    Wow. I lost my husband few days after our wedding and I was 4 months pregnant. I felt lost trying to navigate life because I felt I was too young to experience such pain at 24 . My baby is 4months now and this video has really given me so much confidence. I’m never going to settle for less regardless. I’m going to put myself out there but not rushing it. I’m taking baby steps and that’s ok. I’m still grieving and that’s totally normal. I’m going to move on and not put my life on hold. Thank you so much Kate, I really needed to watch this

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau Před 3 lety +18

    My Name is XYZ am a mother of one 😀 I like that intro 👌 It's so much better & positive. I feel it's better than saying "am a single mother." Being single is temporary. It is not an identity. Don't let it define you. You have a future & a purpose as an individual.

  • @nashenesamo3681
    @nashenesamo3681 Před 3 lety +26

    Parenting my son alone for the past 3 years...after listening to this I am ready to go back to dating.

  • @virginiawanjiru4500
    @virginiawanjiru4500 Před 3 lety +43

    i really enjoyed watching this growing up, my mom got married with me .throughout the years (i am 19) i have seen her bitter about her situation ,her in laws ,the society it took me time to understabd i now understand,i feel like you guys are the online aunties we need thank you so much❤️

  • @wahomealice3884
    @wahomealice3884 Před 3 lety +73

    🤣 I can listen to Cate hours she is so interesting with kikuyu mix

  • @Its_mongina
    @Its_mongina Před 3 lety +9

    I have been raising my son single handedly for the past 5 years.i thank God cause He was and is always there for us.Thank you for this video.❤❤Am ready will getting out now and start dating.

  • @Gichiritrizah_Ke
    @Gichiritrizah_Ke Před 3 lety +14

    This is such an eye opener. Bringing up two kids and am loving it. When time comes and I find love again,,,,, why not?

  • @veronicagitau8516
    @veronicagitau8516 Před 3 lety +4

    I was brought up by a single mum. A God fearing woman I will forever cherish. She struggled, hustled, sacrificed, toiled....the list is endless...to make the five of us who we later became in life. I salute single moms. They deserve respect and their rightful place in the society. We should not be quick to judge them. Cate I love your story and may you continue to encourage and mentor many.

  • @dianakamau4188
    @dianakamau4188 Před 3 lety +12

    I am a silent follower but this is the best discussion i have watched. Kate is real and she has made me laugh so much.

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau Před 3 lety +29

    I think we need to normalize going for counseling or therapy especially when someone has gone through traumatizing things. Get someone to talk & process the drama. Don't take it to your 2nd date 😁

    • @lyneadetyfitness
      @lyneadetyfitness Před 10 měsíci

      Very True ...Chronic Trauma is real and our society don't really acknowledge that.

  • @joymutiga3219
    @joymutiga3219 Před 3 lety +5

    Bring Kate back again.... She is just positive vibes

  • @jainelangat
    @jainelangat Před 3 lety +27

    I am raising two on my own, i have indeed learnt something

  • @nellywanjiru9593
    @nellywanjiru9593 Před 3 lety +20

    Cate is just a force to reckon with.I love her energy.

  • @carolyneauma838
    @carolyneauma838 Před 3 lety +7

    The ck's.... Catherine kariuki n Catherine kamau...wat an amazing eloquent combination..love u gals❣️

  • @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041
    @sarahkaranjamuhoro6041 Před 3 lety +3

    My sister got a baby in form two ,she's now in form four and am telling you I can for see my sister being the greatest woman in Kenya and the world at large .I love my sister so much ❤️❤️

  • @chachakamoni7627
    @chachakamoni7627 Před 3 lety +6

    I wanna make some parts of this interview as my alarm sound everyday coz the power in this interview aki

  • @Kenyan28
    @Kenyan28 Před 3 lety +9

    Ladies you have changed my life❣️❣️From today iam owning my life

  • @bellabk420
    @bellabk420 Před 3 lety +14

    Kate is such a vibe....so interesting and funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @jennifermungai4012
    @jennifermungai4012 Před 3 lety +4

    I am still healing.. I can't wait to get out of this mess of transition to a single mum, self acceptance and moving forward. And if it happened for you guys, I pray one day I get over the trauma and find my personal person. 🙏 this was so encouraging...

    • @CWM-1606
      @CWM-1606 Před 9 měsíci

      Hope you're better now? Make Christ your friend, He cares

  • @naomikiarie7456
    @naomikiarie7456 Před 3 lety +4

    I knew Cathy would do well on CZcams channel, such class...

  • @gracemwangi2104
    @gracemwangi2104 Před 3 lety +10

    Very interesting discussion. This a timely message for me, i really needed to hear this. Thank you Cate and Cathy

  • @staceymukami9852
    @staceymukami9852 Před rokem +1

    Kate has definitely changed my mind about staying single for the rest of my life as a single mom

  • @luciendegwa1313
    @luciendegwa1313 Před 3 lety +4

    Her humor is on another level, i love her

  • @lydiahmaina8506
    @lydiahmaina8506 Před 3 lety +4

    This is so interesting and eye opening, thanks Cate and Cathy.
    How Cate switches to Kikuyu so hilarious😂😂

  • @gracewaceke8561
    @gracewaceke8561 Před 3 lety +2

    Single mum of two,,,am happy to get inspired by Kate❤️❤️

  • @rachelnjoroge6578
    @rachelnjoroge6578 Před 3 lety +2

    Aki nyinyi mmefanya tuanze kutafuta happiness even in our old age.i will marry again

  • @Missmwangiwanjiku
    @Missmwangiwanjiku Před 3 lety +2

    Thank God,I never look down on myself

  • @kleiyahralexis4624
    @kleiyahralexis4624 Před 3 lety +6

    This video was very informative and cate's kikuyu was just humorous... Watoto si mandazi ukule na Chai... Embrace your own

  • @brendahemelia8466
    @brendahemelia8466 Před 3 lety +3

    Two impeccable women having a very necessary conversation. I'm so proud of you.

    • @gathoniwainaina9118
      @gathoniwainaina9118 Před 10 měsíci

      I came back here to draw inspiration and encouragement. These two ladies are goals. Kate Actress you remain my role model regardless

  • @florencewahukinyanjui6696

    It’s heart warming watching this am a single mum of 1 and have been single for 4yrs now it’s not easy getting a serious guy with clear intentions.I have been through heartbreaks that i gave more than I received.They all think they’re doing you favor by simply just been with you .Its encouraging will get out now and hold my head high now.

  • @unapologeticallyme9055
    @unapologeticallyme9055 Před 10 měsíci +1

    Mukiachwa munaanza kuwa motivational speakers😂😂😂😂

  • @gracewambui6524
    @gracewambui6524 Před 3 lety +4

    I love Kate..she is hilarious,she is funny,she is pretty and very intelligent

  • @sabinakanyi1018
    @sabinakanyi1018 Před 3 lety +1

    I am a single mum...I got my daughter when I was in form two that's 16yrs old...after listening to this am really encouraged en one day i will sit there en also encourage others...I don't blv in failures...

  • @fatimahassan6661
    @fatimahassan6661 Před 3 lety +2

    I was a single mum for 10 years until I met my husband being a single mum was hard emotionally and society makes it very hard dint rush into a relationship to please others take the time to get to.know yourself and believe

  • @faithabigael4452
    @faithabigael4452 Před 3 lety +6

    Raising a four months old just got separated woth the father of my kid and he got married am moving on and am happy

  • @rankzkate
    @rankzkate Před 3 lety +9

    Lakini Kate is hilarious .I don't even understand Kikuyu but I enjoy how she brings out her stories

  • @rehemamaina7814
    @rehemamaina7814 Před 3 lety +3

    😂😂
    This lady is awesome!. Thankyou Cathy for bringing her.

  • @chepkwarat
    @chepkwarat Před 3 lety +2

    Wow, there are far too many take homes. I can't even type. Kate, you're a voice to recon with.

  • @rozzettee8
    @rozzettee8 Před 10 měsíci +1

    I need to meet Kate when i come back to Kenya.... her energy is ❤❤❤❤

  • @mwangiem2195
    @mwangiem2195 Před 3 lety +4

    Guthambia mabati 🤣
    Someone needs to organise a singles party every so often. We could meet future partners.

  • @carolekimani3938
    @carolekimani3938 Před 11 měsíci +2

    Watching this after the joint statement

  • @nataliewangeci4007
    @nataliewangeci4007 Před 3 lety +11

    💞💞 this is so encouraging, about to be a single mum *correction I'm about to be a mum ☺️*and it scares me shitless but I am encouraged 💞🙏🏾😭

    • @ruthwanjohi6926
      @ruthwanjohi6926 Před 3 lety +1

      🤗

    • @carolndunge2857
      @carolndunge2857 Před 3 lety +1

      same to me but i will emerge a winner

    • @neomigathoni1823
      @neomigathoni1823 Před 3 lety +1

      It is a Gift To Have This Human..#WeCanDoIt❤️

    • @phillipsidhojapap1461
      @phillipsidhojapap1461 Před 10 měsíci

      @@neomigathoni1823 it's a gift, but not at the right time. Does the kid have to grow up without a dad? Normalize saying hard things, like get a child in marriage

  • @suziesue7767
    @suziesue7767 Před 3 lety +3

    It's one yr since my seperation n I'm dating someone I have 2 n he has 2 I love myself n I decided to give it a shot in the dating word

  • @jescakawira6538
    @jescakawira6538 Před 2 lety +2

    Very encouraging to us sigle moms. May god bless the two ladies.

  • @lyavuramoga9918
    @lyavuramoga9918 Před 3 lety +6

    She is hilarious... Gal I know how it is . Not easy being a young mom it was rough and men do not understand how it is. I agree do not give up .

  • @annirungu2572
    @annirungu2572 Před 3 lety +10

    I'm loving this ,I'm a widow with 3 kids.my hubby passed on 2019.this is encouraging

  • @jacklinemuchiri7194
    @jacklinemuchiri7194 Před 3 lety +1

    I love this show. Serina nikama Monica ngatia, my coolest cousin

  • @nancykathure4182
    @nancykathure4182 Před 3 lety +3

    Cate and Catherine thank you for this have learn alot,now i know my worth no matter how many kids you have😍

  • @user-hp9wx1qe3x
    @user-hp9wx1qe3x Před 6 měsíci

    Hi thanks for your encouragement uuh am a single mum of two a girl and a boy but still hustling for them without fear and I believe there's a Day for me thanks so much ❤❤❤

  • @margaretweru447
    @margaretweru447 Před 3 lety +3

    You are so AMAZING just by overcoming what you have overcome you are EXTRAORDINARY.Cate Actress💯💯💯
    This made me feel energized 🙏

  • @puritykariuki3373
    @puritykariuki3373 Před 3 lety +2

    I've been single for the last 22years and I don't regret. The reason I didn't like dating again is the fear that my kids will be mistreated.

  • @njokiwaka
    @njokiwaka Před 3 lety +3

    Thank you for this :-) I'm a single mummy and super encouraged!

  • @oliviakorir3388
    @oliviakorir3388 Před 3 lety +6

    If you get this message.. thanks for opening my eyes🙏❤️

  • @bettykimeu9163
    @bettykimeu9163 Před 2 lety +1

    Best video I have listened to. Never settle for less especially we who are single parents. So spoke to me. Wao

  • @evelynngugi8206
    @evelynngugi8206 Před 2 lety +1

    You should definitely bring Kate again. Spot on

  • @ms.marynjonge345
    @ms.marynjonge345 Před 3 lety +2

    I wish Cate the actress was my one of girlfriends!! I can see myself laughing in with you, the kikuyu jokes, with the high fives!! You are such a beautiful soul! God bless you Cate

  • @cloudnathanshorts6197
    @cloudnathanshorts6197 Před 3 lety +2

    I could listen to the two CK's for hours. I found myself nodding, laughing and getting wisdom all in one.
    Part Two please and thank you!

  • @EmmyJerotich-cw6cn
    @EmmyJerotich-cw6cn Před 2 měsíci

    There is hope , singleness feels so lonely

  • @catherinemwaura100
    @catherinemwaura100 Před 3 lety +2

    Wow that's a very mature talk Cate, you've no idea how many people out there will benefit from this. God bless you mightly as you keep the spirit.

  • @rosemarymuguru7947
    @rosemarymuguru7947 Před 3 lety +2

    Thanks cuties for the encouragement,, May the living God Bless u for encouraging us n our daughters too🙏

  • @gracewambui6524
    @gracewambui6524 Před 3 lety +2

    Sasa Mimi nko hio stage ya kusema sitadate Tena😆😆....I love you moms this is worth watching 💕

  • @michenijanet4515
    @michenijanet4515 Před 3 lety +2

    Kate is such a vibe... loved every minute of it.. bring her back!!

  • @wanjirukimani6262
    @wanjirukimani6262 Před 3 lety +6

    What a wonderful discussion and Cate is such a breath of fresh air❤

  • @muthokim3025
    @muthokim3025 Před 3 lety +13

    She's got a great story. Njeri let her tell it...I felt you interrupted her a lot

  • @joycekoech8277
    @joycekoech8277 Před 2 lety +3

    Cathy thanks for bringing Cate, both of you are hilarious

  • @susannyakiega9276
    @susannyakiega9276 Před 3 lety +4

    Am inspired. Its 8 year's now as a single mum,This is the year I realised I have my own life, despite life achievements I still felt sorry for myself. I thank God for the grace. Right now am far away from home having "me time" and am confident that my son is safe in school. I thank the Internet for making it easier to see our loved ones despite being miles away. Thank you ladies for your encouragement.

  • @smartguy7758
    @smartguy7758 Před 11 měsíci +1

    In whatever you do, never start a game 1-0

  • @lulumsuper6623
    @lulumsuper6623 Před 3 lety +6

    We need a single mothers club, for support and a advise, even for those who were in the club for long and have since left the club should be part of the support system

  • @idafaith7300
    @idafaith7300 Před 3 lety +3

    You're extraordinary and no one is doing you a favor, beautiful interview ❤️

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 Před 3 lety +8

    Aki cate I just want to hug you : single mom to 8year old daughter: the scars eeish 😭😭😭Mungu tu nikumbuke: esp men who think they are doing you afavour and you thinking less of yourself.

    • @catenduati8493
      @catenduati8493 Před 3 lety

      You have to turn away from that mindset that they're doing you a favor. Then and only then can you attract the right man for yourself.

  • @rachaelkamau1661
    @rachaelkamau1661 Před 3 lety +2

    Cate is so interesting her humor is 👌👌. Especially when she adds the Kikuyu part.

  • @WatiriJRichu
    @WatiriJRichu Před 3 lety +3

    Hahahaha ati usioshe mabati! Kate you're just hilarious nakupenda bure...

  • @jacinta_wangari
    @jacinta_wangari Před 3 lety +3

    I will listen to this again when i get time!.

  • @bellafoxy6930
    @bellafoxy6930 Před 3 lety +5

    I just love this woman....
    You are so inspiring From
    19yrs -34 now manze she's
    A power woman....
    Many blessings your way
    Mammie ... #Facts,Facts ❤️

  • @lizz202
    @lizz202 Před 3 lety +3

    Wow wow this conversation is dope...watching it for the third time now...am so inspired

  • @idawairimu7093
    @idawairimu7093 Před 3 lety +1

    Waaa this is Selina in the add disinfectant... Wow such a great sharing. Thought she was south African gal... I've learned a lot. Thanks

  • @emmaterryw
    @emmaterryw Před 2 lety +1

    Wuuuuiiiii. My best!!!!
    I needed this chat!
    You're both Amazing lovelies ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ndaps1
    @Ndaps1 Před 3 lety +8

    It’s such authentic and insightful conversations that I enjoy from this channel.

    • @FashionableStepMum
      @FashionableStepMum  Před 3 lety +1

      Am glad you enjoy the content. Thank you for watching .. 🙏🏿🙏🏿

  • @puritywanja8029
    @puritywanja8029 Před 3 lety +2

    so amazing,so inspiring...Kate you are an amazing soul.lots of love from here.

  • @gladyswaruguru4790
    @gladyswaruguru4790 Před 3 lety

    When Kate said "pampers watanilipa"... A girl has her eyes on the bag!... never letting it out of sight!

  • @nyamburakimani3726
    @nyamburakimani3726 Před 3 lety +4

    This is the best CZcams video yet!!!!!!

  • @Qoieli
    @Qoieli Před 3 lety +12

    kukama Ngómbe na kwenu hakuna...lol... Cate you such a vibe. Such an informative topic

  • @immajosh8566
    @immajosh8566 Před 3 lety +1

    Weeewe! Ladies thank yooouu! So much.we need more of this talks to encourage more single moms to learn to appreciate themselves.

  • @dahlia_sutton
    @dahlia_sutton Před 11 měsíci +3

    Bet she'll need this advice now more than ever😂😅

  • @gladysndungu3447
    @gladysndungu3447 Před 3 lety +1

    Wow am glad I bumped into this video .Time to live life

  • @emmamugambi1333
    @emmamugambi1333 Před 3 lety +2

    So hilarious very interesting and educative, y'all looking awesome ladies,! ❤❤ ati gukama na kuosha mabati😂😂😂😂

  • @maureenchebet733
    @maureenchebet733 Před 3 lety

    "Ukianguka town unakaanga hadi 2022" LOOOOL...Always inspiring Cate. Much Love